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Thanks for the post, ignore the haters. I've been lifting since last August, (compound lifts mostly) and am still at 20% body fat. Skinny-fat body but have gotten stronger, built muscle. How do I gain muscle while also decreasing body fat %...? I really can't find clear answers on this.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:06 AM
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I concur. I have some fetishes that will always be part of my personality, and that's fine, but I want to at least strongly minimize them and have them not be so needed. My femdom fetish is also strongly reduced now. It's interesting with no fap no porn my desire to BE the dominant one has risen a lot, like I'm returning to being a natural male.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 12:55 AM
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Thanks for the guide. I've had one girl I could make squirt, it was wicked fun. And I've had great success fingering the g spot with the Spiderman technique; even when they don't squirt they go NUTS and grab my face and everything. Sometimes I'm a bit jealous of how much more intense their orgasms are. Then I remember the reasons I prefer being a guy. :)
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:40 PM
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Hey man that's a lot more responsibility and potential than a lot of guys have at 20. I'd recommend looking into the financial services industry, specifically being a sales rep.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 08:44 PM
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Finance, baby. Where the money is. The top reps in my office make $300,000-$500,000, and our office isnt even that good. I'll be at $100,000 after 3-4 years. You?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 12:30 AM
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Sure, I mean ultimately I want to succeed though. I'm working to be outcome independent (and succeeded here) but I'm not gonna do shit that's too stupid haha.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 10:38 PM
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The fool's mate can sometimes happen, I think that's how I've gotten most of the successes with women that I have in my life. But, I disagree that you need to be "Chad" to get laid as a result of a cold approach. Women are just not THAT picky. If you meet certain minimum standards, Game well, and make many approaches, you can get laid. OF COURSE, (I always feel the need to emphasize this due to the way a lot of TRP vets jump down PUA's throat) boosting your SMV with lifting and style and status …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:42 PM
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Uh huh. How do you suggest someone meet women then? And I don't entirely disagree with your points about her reaction. I wasn't born yesterday, I know "I have a boyfriend" is a common rejection line, maybe she really has one maybe not. I'm not hurt either way. But if you don't approach you're not gonna get any better at it. Online dating has serious disadvantages, and approaching IRL helps my confidence in general. And bottom line I was not harassing her.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:05 PM
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Good book, I actually had it on me when I was at the Starbucks planning my week. It is very Blue Pill, and the author is very Mormon (I am far from any sort of Christian) BUT it has some great ideas if you can analyze what you're reading, rather than taking 100% at face value as truth. Definitely has useful frameworks.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:40 PM
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Yes! I also see it as, the internal improvements are building you into a more valuable product, and Game is helping the "advertising" for such a product, so to speak. Why make it harder by trying to sell a bad product, or by having a good product but a shitty marketing team? Improve both!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 04:33 PM
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I am slightly skinny fat, and progressively growing more muscle. No girl would write me off as fat right now. I simply don't have the positive attention from having BIG muscles. Thank you for the encouragement! I look forward to getting more positive female attention as I grow. I used to be scrawny.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 04:32 PM
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Exactly! You get 0, or you get +1.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:51 PM
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I realized from this that...not really, no. I just haven't tried it since finding TRP and having any theory of knowing wtf to do. With this girl I had good tonality, eye contact, sounded relaxed, felt relaxed etc, same as when I stop random people at a festival to get them to enter my company's raffle and then chat em up about what they're interested in biz wise. I literally just need to apply that salesman confidence and skills to this different area, and keep in mind TRP theory.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:50 PM
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Glad to hear it man! That's exactly what I was going for. Yeah, don't go out exclusively to game but if you're out and about anyway like I said, just do it. It's fun even if you lose, so long as you really let yourself have fun with it!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:47 PM
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So true!! Yes, we have certain goals at my office of how many appointments with clients we should have set by the end of Monday night, for the current week and the week after. I used to struggle with this so bad before, due to weaker phone skills and less effective real world prospecting at expos, school teachers lounges, etc. The past month and a half, I've DESTROYED the goals for the number of appointments set per week, and can fill up my schedule 3-4 weeks out! Gives me a feeling of abundance…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:45 PM
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Thanks, man. I needed this right now. Lately I've been suffering with ED, seemingly caused by low T. (Slacked on exercise a few weeks, high work stress, sleeping poorly.) It feels like hell right now, and it scares me: my libido is nearly gone, and I'm not getting morning wood anymore. But, I'm not the first man to get and overcome such a situation, or a worse situation. I will take action on what I can control to overcome it, and be stronger on the other side. No such obstacle can ever permanen…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:58 PM
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How long did it take you to get back to normal? This feels awful, I feel so unmotivated and unmanly and my libido is nearly gone. I'm not even waking up with morning wood. :( Just in case it's also a factor, I deleted all the porn from my computer (which wasn't much actually) and will no longer use porn at all. I don't want even a chance that porn use is dragging down my abilities with real women.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:35 PM
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I looked it up. Sounds like what I'm having. Probably combo of that and the sleep/exercise/diet issues. Fuckin sucks. I'll keep off the porn, carry on. Build myself back up. What it's all about.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:04 PM
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Alright, thanks. I'm thinking it's partially physical, partially mental... I'll take measures to address both. Taking it slow like this and going with MY desires sounds good...and she seems to be pretty much fine with our encounters such far, since like I said I still dominate her and make her cum like crazy with fingering.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:01 PM
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Thank you. This matches with much information I've read online. The big gap in lifting, high stress from work, poor sleep quality seem to be big for me. I actually minimize caffeine already. Gotta work on the sugar...is the sugar from fruits just as bad? I love my strawberry and banana smoothies. Gotta get body fat down. I'm at 20%, I look a BIT pudgy with a shirt on, I do wanna get that down as I keep lifting, running, and minimizing sugar. Bought a steel water bottle and glass lunch containers…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 06:59 PM
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In your experience, (or if anyone else cares to chime in) what is physically hot enough for this kind of thing? I'm 5'10", white, 160 pounds 20% BF been lifting since August 2015. Got decent muscle, still noob. I've gotten good at dressing and grooming lately. I feel like my main thing now is practice talking to women with my newfound TRP knowledge. To put theory into practice, and build my confidence. Obviously also built better social circle, keep lifting etc but do I mean do you think a guy h…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:03 AM
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Great post, I had a similar experience with these two plates I stumbled into pre-TRP. Started to like them both way too much, and get very boyfriend like with both (without any outright commitment, just too much messaging, gifts, sweet talk etc) and in quick succession lost one, then, the other more gradually. The second one, like with you, started ripping ass in front of me regularly and becoming way less sexual, cancelling plans etc. Had no idea why/what to do about it at the time. Biggest key…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:32 PM
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It's fucked too for women who are ACTUAL victims of ACTUAL rape. Their "sisters" have made it so hard to believe rape claims. We have guys getting punished for crimes they didn't commit, and other guys going free for heinous crimes they did commit. (And I'm talking about actual, violent rape here, not "two people get drunk and fuck and then she regrets it then next day/a year later.")
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:17 AM
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Women who do this shit seem to learn it early, too. My ex's sister used to find it hilarious to threaten to scream rape, or actually do so, at the drop of a hat. (This being a few years ago when we were teenagers.) On one occasion, we had a petty disagreement in public at a boardwalk/beach area in my town, and she couldn't handle not getting her way. So her response was to scream "Stop touching me! Rape!", while barely suppressing laughter at her totally hilarious and legitimate solution. Or, I …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:21 AM
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But, what if she shit tests further by farting on your hand??? Nah kidding, thanks for the reminder, this is good stuff. I finally have a plate spinning and 2 more NEARLY there, feels great. TRP works.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 07:58 PM
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Don't listen to the negativity, man. This is simple and basic but it is true. Act like the rich, confident, successful, sexy champ you wanna become, do what he would do. Then you'll be on the right path as you build those habits.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:13 AM
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First off, I appreciate this post. I'm trying to learn as much about bodybuilding as I can. I've been lifting with Strong Lifts since late August, and have good muscle gain I think but also fat along with it. I can already see people commenting on this thread with criticism. I've read a lot of conflicting advice on whether or not you can gain muscle and lose fat at the same time. Does anyone who has greatly improved their physique care to give a counter argument to the bulking/cutting phases the…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 04:06 PM
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The part about making em feel emotions of various sorts stands out to me. That's an area where I've failed historically, is being too "pull" and not enough "push." Not necessarily needy, (though I've had that too) but more having a mindset of only giving her good feels or a "good" time. They can enjoy it as part of the whole experience when you make them anxious, angry, frustrated, jealous etc as long as your SMV is good, and your game is good where you mix it all up with ALSO positive feelings.…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 08:20 PM
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How long have you been no fap? I think it would make me unable to focus. Like I'd keep thinking about sex all the time if I couldn't cum.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 09:20 PM
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Yeah, thank you. The biggest problem I have right now is still living with my parents: it totally limits my logistics for pulling anyone, and it's a bummer on my confidence. I also definitely don't approach enough or talk to people socially in general. My next big step should be getting an apartment. Downtown. (Live in the suburbs now.) Then I can walk to bars. And have my own fresh place to decorate and be mine, that I pay for with money I earn. Again thanks.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:43 PM
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A lot of what I still don't get, is how to have abundance mentality and not be desperate, when you have no abundance and are desperate. I haven't gotten laid in 7 months since I lost my fuckbuddy due to blue pill idiocy. No attractive woman wants to have sex with me. How do I "just not care bro lol" when her SMV is simply higher than mine, when I know she can fuck any guy she wants with no effort while I'll just be playing with my dick every single night? (Unless I decide to fuck a fat chick aga…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:22 PM
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Thank you for sharing. This was exactly what I needed to read at 2 AM. I got serious about TRP in August (same month I got my first career) and have been working hard at it ever since, but got extremely frustrated with some women and aspects of my job this week. Reading this reminded me that my SMV is still not high, (although it has climbed!) and that feeling sorry for myself will not improve anything: action will. No sense in blaming women for being women. Build good habits and an awesome life…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:12 AM
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Sooooo don't approach until you're a 100% perfect Alpha bro? That seems kinda retarded. Why not work on yourself and approach women at the same time?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 08:04 PM
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Great! I've experienced the same thing recently. Been working on inner-game for a while, finally started approaching regularly. I now feel worse when I don't even try to approach than when I get rejected. Wonderful feeling. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 08:02 PM
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You do have to approach well though. They can reject your approach.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 07:48 PM
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Oh ok. Yeah I should have been more substantive here. My mistake. Tomorrow I have a plan for a hopefully more useful post.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:38 PM
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