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| 1 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenOP, this was an abusive over-generalization of early human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 04:32 AM |
| 8 | “Low libido” litmus test.My fault lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:25 AM |
| 33 | “Low libido” litmus test.OP, this is dumb. There is no one size fits all for anything to do with human beings. A person’s libido is tied to a variety of factors. It also fluctuates for various reasons that may have nothing to do with their partner. I think the problem is that your patterns do not want YOU as much as you think they should, so you concoct this your logic thread in order to help you sleep at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I have been with friends with a woman since we were 13, we just hit our 20 year. I wouldn't trade that friendship for anything short of my wife or mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?The reason they find it repulsive is insecurity..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?Absolutely not! I am not saying that at all. There is something wrong about having a lack of understanding for your partner's n count because yours is lower. If someone is going to commit to you, love you, and be faithful to you, then their past is irrelevant. The only past issues that matter are pragmatic ones that actually follow you. I.e. debt, criminal issues..... Marrying someone with massive debt will effect your life whether you care about the debt or not. Marrying someone with a high n c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?You sound like a Mormon. Sex is something fun that people do with their bodies. Romantic sex is different and requires a sincere connection with someone. The act of having casual sex does not diminish the meaning of later romantic sex. Again, your opinion is showing your insecurity. And didn't you say your n count was 20 something? You have clearly had some casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?What if her n count was 100 but she was never ever unfaithful to a partner. In fact, she was always an amazing, loving, and caring partner and all of her past partner talk about how amazing she was. But, when she is single, she hooks up (using safe sex practices) with 2 new guys a week. Would her n count matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?High enough that you should not care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?Only men with low N counts care about N counts. The reason they care is jealousy/insecurity. Men with high N counts are simultaneously aware that N count are irrelevant and not afraid of a womans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 02:30 PM |
| -1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Low n count detected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?I live in a city big enough that if a random girl said she slept with 300 local men, there is a strong chance that I would know none of them. Having a high n count is different then having fucked everyone in a particular friend group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Only men with low N counts care about N counts. It also has nothing to do with sexual capability. Instead, it has everything to do with insecurity. These men are afraid that their girl has an experience that the man doesn't and it bothers them. Men with high N counts understand how irrelevant a high N count is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:46 PM |
| – | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?That line would be so hard to litigate. For the sake of having laws that we can understand and conform our behavior to, it's much better how it is, then what is being proposed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 0 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?Then it is even more important to put the burden of proof on the accused when the victim is drunk. Clearly, as you have articulated, this is a massive problem affecting both genders. That was the point of my argument. Still I would venture to say that male on male, and male on female rape, is a bigger problem than female on male rape or female on female rape. I'm speaking towards the perpetrators and not the victims. I am open to being wrong but I would need more than an anecdotal reddit post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?But I don't believe that should be a legal duty on you There are arguments for an against it. The major argument for is: "Putting the burden on the accused will make people hesitant to have sex with a drunk strangers. Although that is not ideal all the time, it is better than the alternative, which is sexual assaults not going prosecuted because there is too much burden on the victim". We exchange the ability to freely have sex with drunk strangers for the extra protection of women (and men) fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?We don't have to call it rape. If it's unethical, we will make it a crime, and we will call it doodlesnooting. Nothing has changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 5 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?The problem lies in defining "loosened up". How many drinks is loosened up? Is it a bright line rule or a case by case basis? Is it easier to litigate how "loose" someone was, or is it easier on everyone to say, "hey men (and women), be extra careful when you want to have sex with a stranger who is drinking, because you might be on the hook for thier bad decision." Having sex with drunk people is not a right so it's hard to argue that policies that chill your ability to do so are somehow inappro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?It's less hypocritical than you are portraying it. There absolutely are things that other people will be in trouble for doing to you while you are drunk. Police can't take your confession and you can't sign a mortgage. We would never say "you signed a contract for a falling apart house with 25 percent interest, but since it was your fault you were drunk, we won't hold the real-estate agent responsible." You use the example or casinos but casinos are huge money makers with massive political pull … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 10:51 PM |
| -1 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?The other way around would happen, but let's be honest, it would be with significantly less frequency. Also it does go to further my point that not giving great deference to intoxicated people who claim they were raped would result in other people exploiting the policy. Men or women, both would be equally wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 8 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?But sex is given special treatment I am not saying whether or not I agree with it but I am saying that there is a good argument for this position. Men would essentially rape drunk women and the courts would have to say too bad. Courts would also be forced to answer the question "how much alcohol do you have to consume to lose your ability to say that sex was non consensual?" This is a hard question and probably cannot be answered with a simple bright line rule. Let say your states case law has p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Purge week isn’t an excuse to start dropping N-bombs or to engage in any of the other appalling behavior directed at black individualsAs a black person the annoying part is just that so much of the content is just the word nigger. I wouldn't have a problem with a sub where all the users did was day nigger but I wouldn't post it lurk because it would get old fast. Like the purge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 01:46 AM |
| 0 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?I totally agree that nothing is cut and dry but if someone is prepared and capable of being a great partner to you then only the future matters. I'm not assuming that anyone would or wouldn't be a great partner because of their past. A woman who never played the field might be a terrible partner as soon as she discovers something new sexually about herself that she wants to explore. All I'm saying, is that men not wanting women to sleep around during the twenties is rooted in the insecurities th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?No, I'm not going to say that anybody should or shouldn't be with anyone. I'm only speaking about how this Paradigm is rooted in insecurity. If you are in a good marriage with someone you love then everything in the past becomes meaningless. The problem is that people who feel this insecurity about their partner's past may never discover what a great partner they could have been. Men in their twenties, who are not having the opportunity to sleep around, want women to stop it because they don't w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?The answer is insecurity and if anyone says otherwise they are lying. Men, have insecurities about sex, and they don't want to think that their partner had more than them. Any guy who sleeps with a lot of women in his 20s won't care that the woman that they married in their 30s did too. Men in their twenties want to stop the behavior only because they don't have the same opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I start to think that There is actually no recipe for relationships. It’s more a matter of luck, hazard and good timing than anything else.I am not dismissing that you may have experienced an absolute shitstorm of hurt and were dealt a shitty hand in life. I am only speaking that ones chances (and luck) increase by trying. Dealing with constant pain and rejection is a different ballgame and I cant comment on it. Edit: your only post is about your partner wanting a divorce. I think I'm getting trolled so bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | I start to think that There is actually no recipe for relationships. It’s more a matter of luck, hazard and good timing than anything else.I'm talking about being in the right place at the right time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 12 | I start to think that There is actually no recipe for relationships. It’s more a matter of luck, hazard and good timing than anything else.Yes. I hate to use this old tired advice but keep putting yourself out there. It won't increase your odds per encounter but it will increase your total encounters. Who has a better chance of winning the lottery? The guy with 1 ticket or the guy with 1000? It was luck that I met my wife but it also wouldn't have happened living in the basement. Edit: He deleted his post but for context he was pessimistictly asking how to increase one's "luck". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapOkay, you are a troll, my bad for Falling in to it at first . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapI think you just don't have much real world experience, and that is okay, but your generalizations as facts are not creating an informed discussion . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 02:25 PM |
| 6 | The Orgasm intensity gapThere is huge variation with age too. When I was 21 any standard blowjob was knee buckling, but now, I could thread a needle sometimes. The orgasm gap BS might be the saddest symptom of being a total square that has ever appeared on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 02:23 PM |
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