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Laconique/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:55 PM
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Yeah, it's closed to existential error. Self-Terminating at the first sign of serious cognitive deterioration seems much, much more preferrable than that. But then again, it tells a lot about this society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:37 PM
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My dude. I always favored genuine discussion over pseudo-debates. But what you did here was one of the fastest, cleanest argumentative own I ever seen in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:46 PM
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Ok, this has to stop. If you find masturbation to be as fullfilling as sex with a partner you desire ( not even talking about being in love ) then you simply don't truly like sex, period. And if you don't truly like sex, you don't and can't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:45 PM
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This is not really helpful advice, the question was quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:39 PM
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>Why do you think you deserve no competition? How convenient of you to say that when you live in a society where people fought and died to promote cooperation between individuals. : ) >You sound like a child the way you speak about women. What is trivial about wanting love and sex? Nothing. You know nothing about being a man, about the growing up as a male experience. About fighting and... COMPETING as you would like to say to even be recognized as something more than a non-entity. You know noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:21 AM
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You know nothing about the reality of being a man. Of HAVING to prove yourself constantly. Don't talk to me about competition when you never had the obligation to do so to be considered a living being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:20 AM
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Only problem here is that more often than not, "bad men" get more entertained by women than "good men". There is simply no correlation between being a "good man" and achieving sexual and romantic fulfillment. You might find this to be trivial. We does not. Being sexually and romantically frustrated as men slowly deteriorate us. Thus, being a sexually and romantically sucessful man take priority over being a "good man" to random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:32 PM
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Women greatly, greatly underestimate how much we want to be THE man, how much we want to be truly exceptional to our lovers. How much we want to get absolutely EVERYTHING from them. I'm too cynical and disillusioned now to really care, but it was a big problem for me when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:06 PM
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That role is taken by the manosphere, both by genuine influencers and frauds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:06 AM
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This is incredibly naive. But I guess I could accept your idea if it was the cultural consensus. Creep shaming would have to disappear tho, as long as respect is due.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:33 PM
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I never said your feelings had an impact. I do believe this kind of ideas have a worsening effect on an already ever-atomizing society. Not that you would care I suppose, but I do. We have not interest in such a culture, but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:23 PM
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"My flair is mocking the beloved concept here that a woman is promiscuous for having 3 sexual partners." It's always relative anyway. "Should I make assumptions about you based on your flair?" Yes. " won't because the rules require me to be civil." What could you say that's so bad ? That I was an inkel ? Yes I was, so what ? Am I tainted because of my past, the same way some could say you are tainted because of your sexual history ? Do you even read yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:19 PM
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Insane because you know the current conditions of the dating scene, both irl and ivl. Why would you find weird a way that help people partner up while avoiding many of the obstacles preventing that ? Should they go on dating apps like fucking morons, the guy complaining he don't get matches, the girls that she has no quality one ? If you find that weird then stay introverted but don't start calling other people weird while the actual reason is just that you don't have the social ease to approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:15 PM
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You are perfectly fine not expecting that, especially as a "promiscuous woman" who have the choice to approach or not to get sex. I like sex too. But I have to give efforts to get some, and I do enjoy the few times females friends, usually partnered, asked me what girl I find hot and approached her for me, when I probably wouldn't have by myself because of my fear of creepshaming. What I find insane is you finding that weird. It is the best signaling way of expressing that I'm a safe down to fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:02 PM
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That may be weird to you. It wasn't to my female friends. You guys are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:51 PM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:48 PM
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I have no particular expectation of that. I just noticed when I saw it, epecially the few times it happened to me with a gf, that it helps considerably. That's the same as me walking my female friends home safe with no expectation of anything. I don't get why this shock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:02 PM
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That's a great story. In retrospective, do you have an explanation for why your bf was single and struggling back then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:05 AM
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This is actually great. The next level is approching stranger women that would match with them, befriend them a bit and then inteoduce them your male friends. That's it. Can't ask much more from female friends and it actually help a long fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:02 AM
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Are you 17 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:21 AM
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Thanks you for saying this as a woman. Yeah sure, having sex and love is not the panacea of life and may not be sufficient to be happy and fullfilled, that I know for a fact. But it's definitely necessary for most people as a pre-requesite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:59 AM
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I agree with the conclusion, but not with the solution. If guys manage to sucessfully decenter from their need of female intimacy, more power to them. Learning to be content and single is simply not a future most uncessful men can gracefully accept. At best they can adapt with this reality. I'd still advice them to seek escorts with GFE or to passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:25 AM
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Absolutely not. Especially compared to a braindead gold digger insta baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:39 PM
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*Women in my 20's* . Downtown of a big city in Europe. Also, not necessarly attractive per say, but fuckable. I'd rather marry a butterface 5/10 with a high iq, greats morals and compatibility than some braindread instagram baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:59 PM
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I'm totally on board with this. It's fine for a man to flirt with a woman, as long as he knows when to back off. And the woman can give him a hint, too. Otherwise, he might get the wrong idea. It just makes things more fun for everyone.From what I've seen, it's cool for both partners in a couple to flirt with other people. It helps keep things glamorous and sexy for each other. For example, let's say I'm married and happy. I got my wife by being well groomed and well dressed, but I tend to let m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:41 PM
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I have a little brother that probably isn't much older than your daughter. Unfortunately, it really seems like the majority of the seduction and flirting is done via social medias, even with high schooler. Mainly snapchat, a bit instagram. Basically. Boy approch girl or vice-versa. Boy ask for snap. That is the first phase of the flirt. Then come the texting phase and then the dates. I say unfortunately because, as opposite to simply exchanging phone numbers/whatsapp that would be mainly used fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:26 PM
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You're probably a great mother, to be such open with your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:01 PM
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First, I said "most." C'mon, seriously, do you seriously disagree that most people have romantic fantasies? Anyway, I don't really see the point in arguing with you. I shouldn't have bothered writing such a long-winded response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:53 PM
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I'm not at all sure. But I do think that the ball is in the court of women, especially young women (in their twenties). I think that despite all the talk about being happy alone, most women would be happier with a compatible man. Here are a few ideas: -That women collectively motivate each other to take the first step more clearly, even if it means the affront of rejection. ( In line with contemporary feminism ) -Women can't realistically be asked to lower their standards. We can, however, ask t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:43 PM
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In real life, the average man see the average woman as attractive. Especially if both are in their 20's. Personnally, I find 2/3 of women my age good enough as far as looks go. Personnality and intellect then start to make the difference. Yes, the average man would rather have the 9/10, 145IQ, slimthick and 6 figures girl. But they would be perfectly happy with the average Jane. Key word is happy, they wouldn't see the average Jane as settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:27 PM
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This debate is starting to get really tiresome, because we've known for years that the average woman has a number of romantic and sexual opportunities that would seem like a blatant fake to most men who would brag about it. Nothing changes. And it's not going to change for our generations (late millennials, early Z). And contrary to what many introverted, cloistered women on reddit like to claim, women like sex, too. Maybe not as much as men, but I'd say the majority of them in the West like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:28 PM
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They totally get it, and that's where the resentment comes from. Why wouldn't a guy in the 5th percentile resent the fact that the average woman he flirts with sees him as a grotesque, obese, drug-addicted, unemployed member of the bottom 1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:17 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, I understand what OP means, mainly because I agree in part with the thesis she's denouncing here. This thesis is shared by anti-capitalist inc*ls. They would like to see a return to a system of monogamy (in cases where it works, i.e. where a man marries relatively early in life to a woman of equivalent SMV and can grow old and develop with her). In this system, even the inc*l could win the loyalty of a 3/10 and end up happy with her. OP's problem here is that she chooses…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:51 PM
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Thanks you, it means more to me than you would think. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:30 AM
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I'd blame the culture and social medias more than women as a social group. Atttaction is not negociable, but what is defined as attractive is fluid and depend on the time and place. But careful with this "Fuck them I got mine" attitude. We are talking about personal tragedies at a mass scale. ( Almost ) Everyone deserve to be loved. Our generation would be much happier if we could manage to all pair up and let as few people on the sideways as possible. And when we're talking about men that are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:23 PM
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Have you even scrolled on this sub ? -Glowing up physically -Finding hobbies to be more interesting -Being more social Not everyone can pass the threshold you know. We don't live in some kind of meritocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:46 PM
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Ironically, your post is exactly why. Because, assuming they are true Redpillers and not some kind of self-destructive weasels, they have done the work. They have accepted the fact that they are not entitled to relationship and attraction and that they are not attractive. So they go to the gym, they put themselves out there, they face rejection and awkwardness. And when they still don't find what they're looking for, they naturally become resentful: their needs are not being met. So they continu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:44 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:16 AM
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While I agree with many of your points, I would like to point out that involuntary sexlessness is at a point where it's reaching men who aren't massive underperformers or even mild underperformers. And that's where the resentment comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:15 AM
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That's not true, most of them were already sex positive. What they were, however, was resentment over their inability to get laid despite their efforts to get better. So, let's be real, can you blame them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:03 AM
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I can relate to how you feel at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:22 AM
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I have absolutely no game. Somehow I manage to fumble most of my opportunities. More often than not, I just prefer to remain "The good looking, charming dude" that keep to himself and behave gently than to try to escalate and disapoint 2 people. I'm at the stage where I try to understand where/how I fumble most of my targets. I still don't get it. Do I overesrimate the initial attraction of my targets ? Am I seriously good looking enough ?... See ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:12 PM
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It's not glamorous, nothing glamorous. Trust me. -I absolutely feel entitled to sex and relationships when I see all the effort I've put into becoming a more attractive, interesting person. I absolutely feel salty when I realize that actual rap*sts get more affection than I do. -The counterpart to this resentment is that I despise the "collective" female mate selection system. In fact, my value isn't based on it. -I deserve to get it. So I will get it. I deserve to be happy. The contemporary nuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:05 PM
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Personally, the kind of woman I go after is the kind of woman who makes the first move on me. I know for a fact that it's not about my looks. Last week a gay guy asked me to take a picture with his girlfriend because it would make her very happy (wink wink). But my personal case isn't interesting. I'm actually quite confident in myself and far from hopeless, my therapist even told me that given my characteristics, my lack of success with women was a statistical anomaly. Whether he was sincere or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:29 PM
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I would say it's not so much about external validation, at least for men (I'm not talking about teenagers and very early 20-something boys). It's about needs being met or not met. When I talk about the need to be touched, to be rubbed, to be cuddled, to be kissed, to have kind words whispered in one's ear... Even radfems anti-men would get it. So when you start to feel confident in yourself, and you consistently get rejected, the NATURAL and logical reaction, unless you're delusional or retarded…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:57 PM
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"there is far more to your existence and your worth as a man than the validation of women who don't like you anyway" I agree with you in principle. However, the lack of intimacy can still be an issue that massively degrades your daily QoL. It's not about victimization, it's just a fact.. "Your ability to meet nice women who will be compatible with you remains the same regardless of the amount of rejections you face." I completely disagree. Yes, you are right on theory. In practice, most men coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:28 PM
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You can convince yourself to be as confident as you want, up to a point where it becomes counterproductive. After my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, I was full of confidence in my ability to meet lots of nice, pretty, interesting new girls and have sex with them, maybe even (eventually) find love again. It didn't happen, and the fact that it didn't happen despite my hope and confidence in it absolutely crushed me. Like, basically put me into depression (because I needed the intimacy, felt I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:07 PM
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Late 20's. Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:52 PM
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But isn't that the point of being anonymous and venting ? I don't want the world to know I stuggle with women either, but this place is where I can express my shortcomings without being socially oztracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:52 PM
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Sucks to be both high libido and "incellish". Previous FWB seems to be focused on some guy in particular these days. Learned yesterday evening from a mutual friend. Might be some time before I found a new sexual partner, let alone a gf. I will probably go back to an escort this month. Been 2 months and I'm already sexually obscessed and frustrated because of lack of sex. This is NOT the romantic life I expected growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:31 PM
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Depend if you talk about in general or me personally. I've send my pics to two peoples here, a man and a woman. The man called me "at least decently attractive", the woman called me a "straight chad" and I still have some big issues. While I have good hope for me in the near future, for a genuine below average man that can barely get below average women to settle for him in his 30s, it might make more sense to be a passport bro as long as they are not naive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:08 PM
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The honest answer is that this question is valid and that without a longterm shift in paradigm, the only way to "fix" the issue of sexlessness and loneliness for the vast majority of these "new lower average men" that are actually being useful to society by working and etc is to impose some level of coercicion on the average woman. There is pretty much only that or the current statu quo. I think the statu quo will remain in effect until demographic collapse or subversion. And no, it's not some k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:38 AM
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The reason the red army was so savage was because Russian culture is totally barbaric, incentivizes evil and punishes men for good / moral actions. Stalin also encouraged his men to rape. This is complete horseshit. It is estimated that the numbers of women raped by the soviets is up to two millions. Meanwhile, it is estimated that up to 10 millions soviet women were raped by germans and axis-allied invaders. Would you then say that german culture is 5x as barbaric as russian culture ??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:43 PM
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u/sprckets21 Any advices to give to get a good profile ? I've been told I'm good looking and got decent photos but I don't have much sucess. I could also DM you my photos if you agreed to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:27 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to respond !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:50 AM
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Do you have any examples of cues ? Especially for strangers womens, in place like bars etc. In social circles, cues tend to be more obvious indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:16 PM
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I still don't know. What is desperating is that I never seems to be "good enough" to satisfy my desires. As a teenager I was fat. I considered myself unnatractive. It took a long, long time and effort to achieve a pleasant physique. But I did it. I also lacked confidence. What fixed this is people going out of their way to compliment me. "Oh, you looks so fine""Oh, you look so strong""Oh, you're a smart boy". Then, I realized I simply wasn't meeting enough womens. Then I started going out with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:19 PM
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I'm not sure the percentage of women being into casual dating being so low that it would explain why I struggle so much despite some of my qualities. For once, I'll differentiate myself from most posters and say that the problem here is more me than the environnment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:07 PM
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Still in contact with her because she was there during my darkest hours, and while she was toxic to me, I was toxic to her too more than once and I do have some guilt about that. And if I'm completely honest, what I really hoped was that we could be back together IF and ONCE we both fixed our personnal issues. This is too late for that . "Ofcourse she's fucking somebody else and you're standing there looking like a cuck while she does it." Again, it's more complicated than that. I have a FWB too…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:04 PM
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I'll admit one of my biggest flaws is the lack of female friends. It probably does says something about me but I'm not sure what. I'll send you some pics via dm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:52 PM
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First, I'd like to thanks you for caring enough to ask. First, I'm satisfied and confident in my physique. I have some gut, i'm starting to bald but I do feel sexy. If you think I need a reality check, don't mind sending some pics to you for advice on the physical department. I have male dominated hobbies but I usually go to bars. Just trying to start conversation, see if the girl is receptive, and try to act friendly. Now, while I'm often told by strangers girls that I give good vibes, it does …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:02 PM
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It is what it is and I would have no problem with this in theory. In practice, the disparity of the effort to reward ratio is insanity inducing. It's not doing 10X the active AND passive effort ( for example, I take much better care of myself than my ex, and she would be the first to admit to this, I mean the girl was an angel but she never went to a hairdresser in 5 years ( !!!!! ) ) t get the same result. It's doing 50x as much and getting nothing, 0 ! I mean, I'm not your typical whiny boy, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:58 PM
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That, I don't understand. I'm not only considered good looking, but by some - very - good looking. Some girls approches me but they seems to loose interest aster a few words. At the same time, I have no issue socializing with mens. It's usually the boys, even boys that I don't know that tell me that I look good, strong, sexy... I don't understand what's wrong with me. Maybe I should be more direct with girls ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:54 PM
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At this point, I feel like I can't rely on much more than luck indeed : Finding the rights womens at the right time. I do feel quite confident and more importantly, people feels that i'm confident. I'm the guy who fake it good enough that it works. Well, if confidence was as much as an aphrodisiac as some people say, it don't works THAT much still.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:51 PM
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Wdym ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:49 PM
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Well, one year since my breakup with my ex. We both tried to emotionnaly detach from each other, since we were in an intense but toxic relationship. We're still friends and confidents. Made a lot of effort in looks and social circle department. I usually go out every weekend. Main goal is to have fun, but I'll admit I had hope of not going home alone . Didn't hooked up with any new girls in a year despite it being a goal of mine. Thankfully, I have a FWB, but I wish to see "more variety" of pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:21 PM
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I agree. life is not fair. Expecting it to be so is nice guy level entitlement My god, what you read on reddit sometimes... Men, proud, strong and brave fought and died to make life and the world a place more fair. Was MLK a "nice guy" for fuck sake ? What is it with this bullshit "no society fuck you i got mine" type of mentality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:13 PM
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It's fucked up that a major proportion of the young female generation believe that being a housewive is comparable to being a sex worker when it only was a litteral privilege of the upper-middle class women during a few decades of the 20th century to be able to raise their kids full time instead of busting theirs asses for bosses that see them as drones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:18 PM
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This is actually fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:29 PM
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I'll speak only for myself, but yes, yes I do simply because it prevent "starvation" while being single. While not being comparable with the quality or fulfillment you can achieve with LTR sex, it still is much better and especially much, much more validating than masturbating to porn. As long as the sex itself is at least okay-ish. The bar isn't high. Then I get to feel sexy, validated and sexually satisfied for at least a week ( understand, not being horny all day long ). The main issue is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:25 PM
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Now imagine considering sex very important and having a high libido but not being able to get ANY sex whatsoever for years while being open to mediocre casual sex and STILL not being able to even get that . You don't chose to become sex obscessed. You just become due to circustamces. Yeah, it's not healthy. But.what can you do except to make sure that you stop being sex starved ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:04 PM
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You see, that's the kind of utterly retarded individualist nonsense that killed the west and made feminism able to breakthrought. Yes, you should be concerned about these people, because it could have happened to all us if we weren't redpilled. And that "competion uber alles" mindset is the reason why we redpill individuals loose to the somewhat cohesives progressivist masses.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 09:29 AM
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What solutions would you propose ? What sources to read from ?
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:04 AM
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The fact that he send a prolapsing anus may be interpreted as a "fuck you cunt" to the girl. Maybe he was also trying to plate her? Don't look like what a bf would send.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:50 AM
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I see. You might want to ask him to prepare you more via foreplay if he isn't already doing it. Alcohol might help you as you probably already know ( and better than me). Getting well dominated is fine, Getting well dominated and being hard fuck and fully enjoying it is phenomenal. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:13 AM
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Holy shit. Could you take it fully? Are you sure about his size? If you are not used to it, a 10 inches dick would probably wreck you the first few times if not prepared enough. Like, painful in the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:59 AM
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So, I've got a bit of sleep and I feel better about the whole thing. I'm particularly annoyed by the "You don't deserve this incel, go die alone" rhetoric and I got more of it in this thread than I've expected. It baffles me since I came here for legit advices to fix myself so I can keep my relationship agreeable. The vitriol is much more than what I've throught, which I find ironic since I'm actually on the overrall self-improvement bandwagon, and trying to ditch the whole Rage/Sadness thing. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:17 AM
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How covenient that you have no power to do so. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:01 AM
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The terms facial and creampie are so cringey. Keep in mind that English is not my language, and that I'm not that active on reddit for this reason. I'll look into DBT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:00 AM
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Seems reasonable. Helps a little
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:33 PM
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Humpf, I probably should but I will probably not. Time will probably prove you right, but I sure hope as hell that you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:45 PM
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Your girlfriend sounds like a literal saint whose patience puts every other woman to shame, and you still think of her as a washed up slut. If her kindness was wasted on you then anyone else's surely is as well. It's such a waste that I make her my first LTR and that I give her confidence about herself and about the future. ( I now keep my insecurities about her past personal for this purpose ) I think so much of here as a washed up slut that I intend to make her realise her personal dream and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:44 PM
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CBT Yeah probably... I'm a bit anxious about seeking a therapist and opening up but that wouldn't be the hardest thing I've done by far... Also, How can I fix my gf, or more precisely, how can I orient her so she can fix herself is she wants to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:29 PM
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I'm open to others solutions. Problem is that keeping all to myself have made me even more resentful and sad by the past. Listen, I know that I have deep underlying issues, but don't think for a second that I don't work on my life everyday. I'm light years ahead of who I was some times ago. You have to understand that in my position, hearing things such a thing that you could sum as "have sex incel" is infuriating. Furthermore, being incel was only a facet of who I was, not the center of my bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:23 PM
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youre a reactive neurotic fragile emotional mess Didn't choosed to become one. Having a hard time not being one anymore. Maybe only age will fix it. Who knows. Sometimes I just have to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:13 PM
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" You are a perfect example of why incels don't deserve love. " I've certainly worked harsher to leave my incel status than you could ever if you were in my initial position. You have no legitimacy to throw such a stupid and evil comment. You probably deserve love less than me, since I got to experience it right now. " they still manage to be miserable and poison a relationship with their insecurity. " Which is why I ask advice to fix myself before it does such. Anything else you wanted to say ?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:10 PM
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Your contempt is as useless as it's injustified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:05 PM
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Thanks you, you are true when you say I would regret it, more sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:03 PM
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That's extremely annoying of you to say. Do you have any idea of how much effort I put in to ascend, to make friends, to find a job, a girlfriend that I can be emotionnaly intimate with ? How much weight I lost ? How much time I've had to step outside of my comfort zone ? All the suffering at times ? Will it be ever enough to be not ostracized by people like you ? So what ? I'm still whiney because I'd like to fix my internal approach about the past of the girl I like and I vent ? I score high o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:58 PM
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Except I never demanded an ublemished undented can. I asked advice about how to control destructive throughts that are making me resentful and sad, despite me being happy with my blemished and dented can that I'd love to cherish for as long as possible, and more. Don't assimilate me to your average incel, will you please ? You are strawmanning me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:48 PM
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White/Black mix. Same for her. We usually both dated/fucked whites partners before we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:34 PM
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" Aside from that your attitude is exactly why no western woman should go anywhere near a sexually inexperienced man after her teens You guys are suited to each other" ​ So if we missed the train for reasons outside of our control , whe should just feel miserable our whole life, rotting alone like fucking scums. We don't even have the right to try to fix our lives. Clap. Talking bout justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:33 PM
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Again, she bring it very rarely on table and never to ask something, only when she feel sad about it.. She likes me to man handle her, toss her around, choke her...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:31 PM
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" she will hold that rape victim bullshit over your head for life " She very rarely put it on the table, and only to vent, never to ask about something or to justify her behavior. " youre just another annoying choosy beggar " What do you mean by that exactly ? I'll agree I have nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:29 PM
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Really ? I'm the first one to creampie her ( her "uhhhhhhhhh whow hihi" reaction when the cum was leaking from her pussy was priceless, I've no doubt about it being true ) and despite the fact that she love it, she still ask about it from times to times. You have to understand that she knows I don't particularly like giving facials but prefer cumming inside/on ass . ​ " She’s at 40, how many of those guys have dumped on her face lol " ​ Probably more than I'd like to, I can ask her for you if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:28 PM
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" This is all you need to know. " This actually helps a little knowing that. Physical intimacy don't mean much to me either, but I expect for a woman I'd love to be. But can I blame her ? " The problem is you and your perspective. " I already know that, and I try to change my thoughts, but it's easier said than done. What perspective do you propose that would make sense for me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:22 PM
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I believe she may has already passed her "self-destruction post traumatic" phase. No way to be sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:16 PM
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I'm actually scared that you are right. I would probably suffer a lot, as far as feeling are involved. I hope that I will find a way to DGAF about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:14 PM
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How can I put it ? I have trouble with it, but I view myself as illegitimate about it since I've had my share, like you said. And so, I'd like to don't care about it at all, but can't. Still, I love her and want things to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:13 PM
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Huh, I don't like sluts who divorce rape their husband once these are established, and on the other way, I dislike men who dumps loyal gf for young thots when they have money right too. ​ Maybe if she decide to give me the dead bedroom bullshit one day, I will dread her about fucking others girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:10 PM
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There are actually few people who knows about it. Her closest friends, and me. Even her exes don't know about it, and she don't like to talk about it, we had to become very intimate before she told me about it. Do your dealbreaker still stand in that case. Dude, I'm such a fuck-up, so many redflags, but this the only woman I ever loved and who gave me good reasons to do so...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:08 PM
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This is indeed stupid and useless. But I can't control my thoughts, unfortunately. Thanks for the reference, will read... : )
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:05 PM
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That seems like the rational option, but I would have regrets if I stopped dating her just because of her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:03 PM
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We are talking about the past. I just use facials as an exemple because I know she love them. God forbid I would allow myself to be such a cuck that date a cheating whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:02 PM
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Guys, we agree on the roots of the issue, but not on the path to follow. The solution to the social atomization phenomenon is not more social atomisation by recluding one self, trying to cope while living a life of hedonistic pursuit. This shit does not make people happy, and that's why anxiety and depression have boomed those last decades. Yeah, marriage is a no-go unless you live in some kind of cut-off reactionnary community, like the Amish in USA or salafis in Europeans surburbs. Yes, having…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 10:57 PM
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So your easy solution is societal suicide and rejection of the most important thing is most people's lives ? Quite the shock therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:51 PM
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I tend agree. I'm a 22 years old ex-incelish redpiller ( 15+ n count ) who recently got in a LTR with a 40+ n count 24 female. The reason why she is the first one I got into a LTR with is because she was the only female beside my mother to grant me emotionnal support far before we engaged in sex, when I was still a depressed "loser". She is more than a piece of meat to me. But dear God ! The thought of her getting used as a cum bucket by so many males ( and being perfectly ok with it ! ), gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 07:06 PM
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Prima Noctis is a myth created during the Renaissance.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 06:49 PM
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" It's useful for women but not for men, specially in intersexual relationships. " So you threw to the bin your entire faith for the reason that you couldn't get laid or have a wife in a secularized society ? And that make religion the problem ?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:26 AM
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“It's a fact...that in societies like ours sex truly represents a second system of differentiation, completely independent of money; and as a system of differentiation it functions just as mercilessly. The effects of these two systems are, furthermore, strictly equivalent. Just like unrestrained economic liberalism, and for similar reasons, sexual liberalism produces phenomena of absolute pauperization . Some men make love every day; others five or six times in their life, or never. Some make lo…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:18 AM
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Indeed. What will be interesting to observe is if this "hard patriarchy" as TFM would call it will come back before a societal collapse caused by a myriad of reasons.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:16 AM
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/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:44 AM
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Actually, I go to the gym every two days. What would you advise me to do? Go to the gym every day and alternate between cardio and strength training or continue my program with one day of full recovery? Also, I'm working a menial job.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 09:07 PM
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Same as you. I'm a very depressed and anxious 20 years old man. Started going to the gym 3 week ago, already addicted to it because of the endorphins. ​ Doing 1h of mildly heavy cardio beforehand +1h-1h30 lift on my sessions. It is truly an anxiety killer. Give it a try if you haven't started yet !
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 07:59 PM
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Do you have a link for the monk mode post? I'm new to reddit.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 04:10 AM
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Ah, you again ! Was hoping to see your next FR. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 04:05 AM
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That's after reading these kind of post that I know that deep down in my heart, I keep a bluepîll core. For a reason, these stories from OP and others bouncers/clubbers break my heart, even through I believed I was redpilled enough to understand that the vast majority of modern womens are worthless hoes. Someone's married mother sucking a male stripper in front of her cheering friends ? Like seriously ? Fuck this man, glad I never had a LTR, and probably will never have with a western female.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 03:07 AM
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