Lactiz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. Are you that there was a whole (eligible) study only about women and their numbers? Nothing about the men? Wow, those "scientists " are even worse. If you don't support male promiscuity, then stop bashing on women. Because the point is not to support the female promiscuity either, it is that everyone is entitled to their own choices as long as they all consent. Someone claiming that a woman "who seems innocent" is trying to trick him, is just batshit crazy. If she wants a relationship, it's her …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/02/19 12:20 PM
0	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. Of course they can do those things. But it's not the same as being in a relationship and investing emotionally. What is the problem with that??? You are basically saying no woman should ever have sex with anyone, because he might end up being an asshole. Congratz, now nobody is happy in the world (except asexuals)	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/02/19 11:48 AM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. You said it about women so I answered as if I was in this spot. Of course all genders and sexual orientations do these things. You are just biased. What makes you think that men with a high number will not have unreasonable behaviour or feel dissatisfied with their spouse? Just your bias. Okay. Leave those women alone then. BB	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/02/19 10:24 AM
0	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. They are not the same people. If a woman wants to meet and fuck, she'll never know if he is abusive or racist is what I'm saying. They fuck and then go their own way. She doesn't know and she doesn't need to know in order to get an orgasm. Why is it so hard to understand? A woman who wants a relationship will want to feel a connection with that guy. If she sees extremely negative traits, she will not feel a connection but rather repulsion. And will just leave him be. What should she do? Fuck him…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 11:11 PM
0	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. The basis of anecdotal evidence is that you're supposed to bring them as EVIDENCE. I mentioned it as something pertaining to the discussion. Young couples: that is widely believed. First marriages are 41% likely to end in divorce, though. Who stays virgin until he/she marries at 30? Your 70% stat is also stupid, as it proves nothing. If he beats me, cheats on me, takes advantage of my money, of course I'm going to initiate the divorce. That has nothing to do with my past partners or my sexual de…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 10:02 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. There are not only 2 types of men in the world. Many assholes are not Chads. Many assholes are thin, short and play videogames. Now, if the choice of dating him and another one later and they prove to be assholes, makes her a slut, then please PLEASE leave women alone. When they take responsibility for what they do, you hate her anyway. She is not trying to get any of YOU guys here, anyway. You just pretend to be nice so you can fuck her and are offended if she just doesn't disclose a number. Hy…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 09:42 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. Okay, I see you have been a victim of a golddigger basically. But there it is, just one of the possible senarios. Sometimes women can be wealthier than men. I know of a man who used his wives's money to study without any debt (in America) and once he became successful, he divorced her and he had to pay nothing. Now ,that's another thing about divorce. I'm pretty sure that is the American court system that decides for the woman. Alimony is not really a thing I've heard of except in American movie…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 08:26 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. Wait! Are you agreeing with me? She shouldn't jump into bed if she doesn't vet them as you say. But she should jump into bed with a nice guy? How would she know if he is nice? She just shouldn't jump into bed with anyone, to be safe. But in case she did so a couple times in the past and regretted her bad decisions, does it mean that she is doomed to never meet a good guy, or should she keep sleeping with everyone she kiiinda likes in the hopes that he turns out to be a genuine nice guy and treat…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 08:02 PM
-1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. It's not anecdotal evidence, it's what men say around me since as opposed to this thread where men seem to think that women have more partners than them ("if she has more than 5...she's a whore" ) It could be that they are both assholes, yes. I mentioned one, as in "one partner can't put up with the other's assholiness, so they initiate the divorce proceedings". I saw an article that, around the world, 50% of marriages end in divorce. And the " around the world" includes countries where a woman …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 07:51 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. I was talking about the relationship perks outside of sex. You seem to have it figured it out for your preferences, but some men still enjoy the intimacy, emotional support/stability and the quality time a partner can provide. The bait and switch idea is wrong, because I could easily say the same about "nice guys" who bring flowers and chocolates, seem interested in her hobbies/life, and initiate contact, show respect, support her until they get sex and then drop the romantic act. But I know not…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 07:36 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. The point is that by sleeping with him a woman doesn't have any idea if he is a good or bad man. Same goes for men btw. Because JUST sex doesn't require many interactions with servers for example or poc or anything that would show he's an asshole. While a good man would treat everyone nice (no, not only her) in multiple interactions, so in those few dates/hangouts, she would have a basic idea that he is nice enough even if they are not compatible in the end (like some months later). You are not …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 06:08 PM
-2	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. If you meet a woman at a bar and have sex with her and the next day she keys your car and the next week you realise she gave you herpes and then she has her brothers beat you up because you don't talk to her any more. Is it your fault for not getting to know her better before having sex?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 04:27 PM
0	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. I was not attracted to my 67yo boss, the assholes on the bus, the hateful commenters on the internet, the catcallers on the street, the cousin of my friend who says a woman's place is in the kitchen. Stop pulling "facts" out of your ass and put a dildo in it.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 04:15 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. You only say that because you haven't had that. Most men in thier 30s have slept with 10+ women, so that would be hypocrisy.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 04:02 PM
2	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. This is a good amount of time. The other comments and the original thread think she should sleep with you on the first date.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 03:43 PM
1	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. So a good man is only interested in sex?? "Put time and effort for what others get for free". If that's all you care about, go put cream on your face and take steroids to get it, but don't expect a woman to throw you a surprise party, cook for you, take care of you when you are sick or raise your children. Why would she put in more effort for what other women get for free?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 02:52 PM
-2	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. Most guys I know have (or claim to have) twice as many sexual partners as the girls in their age group. Divorces happen because one of the partners is an asshole or they both just grew apart. What are the stats about divorces in men who have as many sexual partners??? Maybe less, because women don't judge them for that, just accept the guy as he is and have a flourishing and caring relationship with them?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 02:45 PM
-5	Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts. Nahhh... You just don't understand that we were talking about the first impressions or first 1-2 months of the relationship, not forever. Long term relationships are absolutely my thing. But I don't like to be beat up or cheated on, so that makes me a pretensious whore.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/02/19 02:41 PM