Lacuna Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Killing Us Softly 4: Images of women in advertising		Lacuna	/r/MensRights	01/11/11 12:19 AM

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2	The joys of parental equality - “Apart from breastfeeding, there is no reason why a mother should be more equipped or is a better parent than a father. You can only have equality anyway when responsibility and decisions about your kids are shared.” Alright then. Carry on.	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 12:59 PM
1	New Education Campaign To Brainwash Boys Into Thinking how Evil They Are - UK Language. This person needs a course.	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 12:43 PM
4	The leader of the opposition in SA says "women can't rape men" on twitter I assumed SA meant South Australia. They have a premier as a state leader too.	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 12:31 PM
1	The joys of parental equality - “Apart from breastfeeding, there is no reason why a mother should be more equipped or is a better parent than a father. You can only have equality anyway when responsibility and decisions about your kids are shared.” You're against shared parenting responsibilities?	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 12:23 PM
8	The leader of the opposition in SA says "women can't rape men" on twitter I wonder what Tony Abbott's views are on this subject. He's very fond of his out-dated gender roles. Is there anyway we can compile a list of Australian politicians and their opinions on social issues such as these. I'd use it as a litmus test for who NEVER to vote for.	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 12:19 PM
6	Four men reveal the trauma of becoming dad by deception Daily Mail. Tabloid. Come on fellas, you can get a better source, surely?	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 12:15 PM
1	Killing Us Softly 4: Images of women in advertising My apologies if I seemed dismissive. I would quite like to read this study. If you remember when you get home, pm me a link?	/r/MensRights	01/11/11 04:49 AM
1	Killing Us Softly 4: Images of women in advertising I'd suggest posting it to r/atheism but I'm not sure they upvote anything other than rage comics and facebook posts anymore.	/r/MensRights	01/11/11 04:27 AM
4	Killing Us Softly 4: Images of women in advertising US has the highest rate of std's and teen pregnancy than other developed countries and this is because of the pornographic style advertising in media. And then she goes on to say that it is the conflict between the pornographic style of advertising in media and LACK OF SEX EDUCATION, that causes the high rate of teen pregnancy.	/r/MensRights	01/11/11 03:47 AM
1	Some Feminists Advocate that False Rape Accusers "Should Not Be Prosecuted" I live in Australia. When I told my mother what happened she told me that he'd been "badly behaved." She then told my entire family everything I'd told her, ignoring my wishes for privacy. She took me places without telling me there were giant family functions happening, because the family 'needed to see that I was okay' and that I should respect that. She offered to throw money at me to 'fix me,' but by then I just wanted to be left alone. Through the course of my counselling to deal with the r…	/r/MensRights	02/02/11 10:14 AM
1	Some Feminists Advocate that False Rape Accusers "Should Not Be Prosecuted" Looking for evidence? I don't have any. If I did, then I wouldn't be in this situation. Demanding that victims of rape/sexual assault/abuse share their stories is a douche move. But I'll share. Maybe you'll gain some sympathy towards people who've had their lives destroyed by rapists. He was my most trusted friend in highschool. I'd told him I was a lesbian. He had a girlfriend, a sweet, shy girl who was one of my closest friends too. He raped me while they were both at my house. My parents, asl…	/r/MensRights	02/02/11 08:35 AM
0	Some Feminists Advocate that False Rape Accusers "Should Not Be Prosecuted" I lost my family. I get panic attacks, flashbacks and have crippling trust issues. My rapist and my abusers are free and stand to lose nothing if I accuse them. I would not be believed. No hope of prosecution.	/r/MensRights	30/01/11 02:29 PM
0	Some Feminists Advocate that False Rape Accusers "Should Not Be Prosecuted" you would be hard pressed to find someone in the west that's suffered that from being raped. I've been trying to stay out of this thread. But FRAKKING HELL. ಠ_ಠ As someone who's been raped/abused. You have no clue. You have utterly no clue what it's like. I'd rather be accused of rape a dozen times than go through what I went through.	/r/MensRights	30/01/11 01:27 PM
2	What is the real definition of "feminism"? Interesting point. And thank you for explaining yourself so fully. Your logic follows. However, I don't think your assumption is entirely correct. I don't believe in biological essentialism or that gender is just a social construct. Instead, I think it's some unknown mixture of the two that I won't guess at and will leave to science to determine. I can't speak for all feminists, but the feminists I've discussed it with agree (subset: queer feminists). If you come from this perspective, your case…	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 05:43 AM
0	Female college grad's 'fuck list' goes viral -- now imagine if the genders were reversed I've done 4 girls so far this year, which is a rate higher than hers. Would you call me a whore for that? I think you need to take a look at your anti-sex attitude.	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 05:15 AM
4	What is the real definition of "feminism"? Let's say that there was a fair dialogue between men and women. 20% of men wanted to stay home and 80% of women. Would feminists then be satisfied? Hell no. I really disagree. A fair dialogue between genders is all I want from feminism. But I don't see myself convincing you otherwise here. This is but one little issue in a host of others. Perhaps instead I can list a bunch of other issues where my beliefs, feminism and men's rights are in agreement. Rape of men is just as serious as rape of wome…	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 04:55 AM
3	What is the real definition of "feminism"? Equality and justice are never meaningless. Whether a husband chooses to go out to work and the wife chooses to stay at home to care for their children, is none of my business. What I do care about is whether the dialogue between the two is fair in this decision. If the wife would prefer to work I think she should have as much right to do so as he does. Likewise, if the husband would prefer to stay home and care for their children then I would like for him to have the right to do so. Ideally, so…	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 03:54 AM
0	What is the real definition of "feminism"? Feminism is a search for equality for ALL genders (Fa'afafine, hijra, and any cultural variations of masculine and feminine genders). That should answer your second question; there isn't masculinism because feminism IS masculinism (though technically there is such a thing as masculism. But, for instance, in American society, feminists have been among the earliest and most steadfast champions of rights for gay and black men. Frederick Douglass allied himself closely with the suffragettes in the l…	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 02:59 AM
1	Men in Spain win the right to have an hour off each day for the first 9 months of their child's life. NSFW picture of nipple, but CNN page so meh. This is good. Maybe paternity leave will pick up more momentum in other countries.	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 02:05 AM
0	Female college grad's 'fuck list' goes viral -- now imagine if the genders were reversed Flip it. 13 chicks over 4 years. Would you insult a guy for that?	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 01:53 AM
1	Female college grad's 'fuck list' goes viral -- now imagine if the genders were reversed My co-ed college keeps an semi-official record of who has hooked up with who and in what context. It's even competitive, with Queen and King awarded to the most prolific of each gender. Most of the students have their own record, including myself, so I really don't see it an issue exclusive to one gender. Scrutiny and evaluation is a good plan for everyone, regardless. My point was that it's statistically stupid to take the testimony of one woman and use that to generalise what all women want. B…	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 01:47 AM
1	Gen-Y females: 64% would release a sex tape if it would help advance their careers, 36% would blackmail a co-worker or a boss to get ahead, 45% would sleep with their professor to pass a class I am a gen-y female. This is honesty. Sex tape: I can't think of a scenario where it would help me advance a science research career. Although, the idea of someone watching me have sex doesn't particularly bother me. Chalk it up for a no, because i think it would have a net negative impact. Blackmail: no. Completely against my morals. Fucking professor to pass class: only if I would have slept with them anyway. And only if they offered, I certainly wouldn't actively pursue this course of action.	/r/MensRights	01/10/10 12:28 PM
2	Female college grad's 'fuck list' goes viral -- now imagine if the genders were reversed One woman =/= all women. Your data set's kinda pathetic.	/r/MensRights	01/10/10 11:38 AM
0	Female college grad's 'fuck list' goes viral -- now imagine if the genders were reversed I've got a fuck list. It's just names though, no extra detail or 'performance analysis.' It's part of a chart my friends and I made to sort out how incestuous we all are. I can't look at it without being amused by I can get to most of my best mates in a few short moves. Nothing gross about it, everyone consented.	/r/MensRights	01/10/10 11:35 AM