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Yeah ik, but I found his initial statement was what makes him misjudge the whole situation about the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 05:33 PM
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i'll keep reading soon after lunch. here's an approach that had me convinced, though, slightly related. women are the natural selection, nature, chaos. men are order - and in order to tame the nature or manage the chaos, they need to grow competent. some men fail maybe because their mothers have devoured them, enslaved them, not provided any means to prepare them for indiependent life. in that dynamic a woman needs a man - be it a father or a prince - to help get it together. now enter the moder…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 07:59 AM
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so, no source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 07:19 AM
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convince me with a source? and how have alleged selfish-in-nature-women worked out for offspring for millions of generations? and how does all that translate to all the rage we see on the web men "hungry" like junkies for casual sex? i can point you to a source where studied are the tendencies for trait agreeableness in both genders, which is why it is a bit hard to take seriously what you just said :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 07:06 AM
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congratz me, i fell for a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:43 AM
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get your issues of self esteem or whatever fixed then. surely you're as lovable as any other guy. but be worth something and you'll have a better confidence too. competence is the key that can also make you feel strong and that you have solid ground under your feet. capable of independency, emotional stability, enough industriousness - might help with the cling problem. make sure you're not behaving narcissisticly. if you're troubled like that, you'll just start hating yourself more and everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:29 AM
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you're overrating physical attractiveness, that's why your reality doesn't match the objective. there ofc are people who do pick partners based on looks, and some get lucky and sustain it for quite a long time, because their personalities happen to match, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:22 AM
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i read this and you're basically doing a male #metoo like this. get a grip. the movement started with a hollywood jerk honeypoting naive women, freaking them out and using them for sex. whether you think these women deserved it or not - that's fine. im thinking shit like this happens and ought to be a lesson of cruel reality for a woman, should make them think how they ended up in such a situation and be clever or wise enogh in the future to avoid it. and guess what, this is how most sane women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:10 AM
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if the man gets an unjust ego boost out of it while maybe the womans job was to hold up a mirror for him, sure it feels bad. as feeding narcissists should.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:01 AM
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theres no general rule imo. some guys will hate you for not being in awe and impressed with them all the time, some men will hurt you if you dare to confront... and some men fully accept and don't get slighted, but just take it as an opportunity to improve. trust your gut. don't bother thinking "i hope he likes me," - think "i hope i like him". your life, you lead, regardless of gender. you want a competent partner who is open enough to sort out their own shit and trusts you can do the same for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:10 PM
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hehe, check scott adams for this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:55 AM
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maybe not causal, but correlating, and the underlying issue being the person having a hard time connecting or a tough time with axtual intimacy. mildly borderline, imagine that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 08:01 PM
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decisiveness and being more competent than the girl will be surefire way to assert dominance. you don't want the less competent person in the couple to steer the ship, is all I'm saying. teasing is just and attempt to pretend you're dominating. some people will bite trough it and will remain unimpressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 07:09 AM
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men: be willing to work hard, eat healthy, take care of your health and body, keep an open and a curious mind, educate yourself, read books, go out into the forest or something, sometimes, have a hobby of some sort that isn't about "collecting things", get a good sense of style, find clothes and styles that fit you, have fresh clothes for any day and occasion, get your teeth fixed, go mindfully about your insta-gratification addictions (gaming, smoking, alcohol, gamble, whatever else is there - …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 07:06 AM
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The rules are perhaps for people who missed out on learning normal social protocols early in life :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 06:39 AM
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well, logic is "show, don't tell" - bigger turn on. also, in case it happens you've told you're into self development, love carnegie and marcus aurelius, and then happen to behave in a very unaurelius or uncarnegie way, and the girl also happens to be familiar with their, uh, precepts - that will count as inconsistency and might have an effect like ordinary deceit has. aka you'd tell you're all wise, cool n enlit, but as soon as you slip, make a humane mistake, have a weak moment... :) it might …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:50 AM
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takes charge, doesnt waste too much time making decisions, doesnt do decisions based on trying to please someone, isnt an asskisser, competitive professionally, caring in a intimate relationship (knows where to play what role - being aggressive and competitive towards hos partner is a weak pathetic trait and also a bit feminine (and don't get me wrong, it's a strong force of nature, but the role is reserved for whamen)).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:34 AM
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this story, i like it! dodged a big cannon ball there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:30 AM
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having an idea of an ideal man is not the same as expecting to find one like that imo. as standards all that would be unreasonable and just wont work out for the woman. key takeaway for a man here, imo - work on becoming the best you troughout the rest of your life, even when found a good woman and could retire - keep developing. just don't gloat or even talk about it, deal with it as it is a natural ritual in your life, as are brushing your teeth or taking a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:28 AM
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well, if mentally healthy women really are sexually REACTIVE (yeye, feel free to change my mind about that), then a sexually fully passive man will be no good for her. they don't or won't initiate, and if you don't, either, nothing will happen. but how to go about it tastefully, is a whole other thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:05 AM
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these girls might feel they understand what he was going trough. a lot of girls also feel humiliated and bullied at school, but don't have the aggression to actually go trough with their fantasies of slaughtering their class. or maybe something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:59 AM
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don't like it, makes them weak. beats common sense, is toxic and counterproductive. if this was practiced large scale, the world would be deprived of men and women who are the foundation of this miraculous society. the world would literally collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:29 AM
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its by design meant to motivate you to try and be a better human. its not dehumanizing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:11 AM
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if you really want to know, read Jung, he was on to something on that end. Or take up wikipedia, search anima or animus. Learning about archetypes can also enlighten the situation a bit - maybe not absolute truths, but imo pretty good ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:07 AM
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joint career, homemaking, creating a family, growing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:40 AM
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there's a bunch of people who gave up on the other gender and prolly stay there as the doll now is an easy out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 07:45 AM
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It looks like you and I have a very different concept for "commitment", in this case :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:28 PM
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Can you believe TRP is false, while also believing that manipulation tactics work? What makes you so sure you're not correlating completely unrelated things here - maybe the type of manipulation that is being used works on a very specific type of people - say, because these types of people are exploitable in that way, in the simplest sense. It really doesn't take a genius to convince a validation-hungry girl to hop in bed with you. They are ready to GO as soon as you push the button and the pres…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:25 PM
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It's okay to want a woman who will cook and clean for the household. But it's not okay to want a woman (or a man) to take over the role in your life that once your mother (or father) had. That's just pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:33 AM
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I'm thinking when it comes to "red pill" - these guys tecnically convert from one religion to another and neither of them might be actual reality that produces good results for the long term. I don't have much love for the nihilistic type of red pillers, really. And those kinda are the ones who've then slipped from one set of cognitive biases to another. No matter what pill you take - it tends to make you hallucinate, not see the actual reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:32 AM
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well, different in my coubtry then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:52 AM
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Yeah all 250 of them. Pls. It's a bad generalization ik, but can you really say people are as dumb and uncivilized in high school as they were 5 years ago or so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:37 AM
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That's alright. Just don't pretend you couldn't harm someone. That doesn't also mean that you have to go harming someone to prove that you can... Sorta like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:36 AM
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if less women did crave validation and emotional support like childs, that would also mean men have a harder time finding a fitting woman. it takes real effort from a man and a woman both to be matured a function together - but when it happens, theres nothing more beautiful and powerful than that. emotional and validation seeking women are, in a sense, low hanging fruit. if a man deceives himself by thinking that by having gotten a woman like that makes him worthy and great, mwaha, please. not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:40 AM
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no. that's different. if you don't know how to be potentially harmful but never unleash that potential on your woman, i won't be able to explain. maybe you figure it out on your own some day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:18 AM
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could it be the female applicant was rejected because there just was another human available more efficuent for the job, and it just happened to be a man? i work at a company that never hired a man btw. and not because women are better at those particular jobs... only the boss is a guy, rest 50+ people all grills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:04 AM
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When you are depressed and disrespect your own body with shitty food due to this recklessness - you'll look like shit. As long as you go around only relying on the opinions of other people around you and seek validation from them - you're gonna end up crazy. If you discover that people seem to be avoiding you - that could indicate you're either being tactless or a bit too extroverted - try changing that and see how shit changes. You go out there, you interact like you can, you discover some bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:43 PM
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Some people want to know, others don't. I can see myself being curious and asking, and I don't really mind telling when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:40 PM
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Yes, ONE of the two possibilities - those would be the women who absolutely hate other women. Because there's a strain of evil lesbians also who only exclusively look women because they absolutely hate all men. Dangerous stuff. I've never had a thing for a female myself, though - not a feeling, not any fantasies. So, fully hetero here on that end. But I'm open to the possibility that I just didn't meet that sort of woman yet who'd sweep me off my legs :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:37 PM
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Hmm, come to think of it - it was mostly girls that did the slinging. I got along with boys (at least some of them) due to my vast knowledge of pokémon, playstation games, and later on by owning a ps one. But those interactions always had a warm brotherly tone. Not all memories are bad :) Nice to remind myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:16 PM
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I'm thinking those guys are only pretending commitment in order to get layed. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 04:36 PM
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well then maybe you were lucky enough to grow up in an environment consisting of completely rational and healthy mature people who never had any insecurity/social status/validation struggles. and really, good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 12:51 PM
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left the important part out from the quote. i didn't say it takes good looks alone to get that sort of treatment. stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 11:39 AM
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and i wasnt talking about "making friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 11:32 AM
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not at all what i was saying, and not in highschool, but 7th year and up. at highschool people were more civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 11:02 AM
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You know when the situation is reversed, and it's something like the-woman-doesn't-really-want-to-get-banged but the-guy-invites-her-over-to-his-place-to-watch-a-movie-anyway and the-woman-trusts-that-it's-only-going-to-be-the-movie and the guy-ends-up-banging-her-anyway-regardless-of-having-heard-a-NO - in this situation the chick was the unsuspecting guy that was being taken advantage of in the face of a free dinner. We can't really expect that people will start considering other people's naiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:55 AM
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You prevent that from happening by giving love and respect to yourself first. If you don't love and respect yourself, this walking-over will happen because unbeknownst to you, since you have no bounds, you naturally will let it happen. If you don't love and respect yourself - you don't really KNOW love and respect, and in turn are really incapable of giving love and respect to other people, also. So, when in a situation where there is another person walking all over you and complaining you're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:42 AM
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Hey there luv. Elaborate on how one can behave or show respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:35 AM
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No, it's not the guys who give away COMMITMENT who get too easily friend-zoned. Please. It's guys who try too hard to please you and seem like a "genuine nice guy with the purest of intentions" who get friendzoned and pretend they don't have a single harmful cell in their body. Do not confuse commitment with trying to look harmless or people-pleasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:32 AM
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Probably because these feminists have "empathized" with a prostitute being taken advantage of, and how terrible it feels to be in this position, and then conclude this is a disaster and prostitutes need the feminist to do the talking for them. If that's so. Barf. Not sure how many radical feminists have actually thought with critical compassion and in a larger scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:31 AM
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The point of equal rights is all fine as long as it means everyone is free to do whatever the fuck they want. It becomes screwed up at the point where equal rights would mean guaranteed equal outcomes and the deprivation of risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:28 AM
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In school, when you have good skin, good muscle/fat tone, symmetrical face, big eyes, healthy hair and you don't even seem to appreciate or care for it at all, you are so intimidating to other people that they get utterly slighted and start slinging all sorts of shit at you. So, young girls (not that any come reading this) - if you got looks, don't act all humble or unaware about it, or you'll be thrown in the trashcan (quite literally). With good looks it's simply safer for you to have an arrog…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:25 AM
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Oh yay we discuss politics now suddenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:27 PM
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not convinced
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:16 AM
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more power to you, we're proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:15 AM
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I mean... Attraction doesn't happen only towards the physical aspect. If your brain is rotten in nihilism, can you really consider yourself handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:12 AM
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go look up statistics on global poverty within the last 20 years. go see at what rate 3rd world country people are getting connected to the power grid. saying what you just did, sorry, not very convincing. the world is better than it's ever been before, right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:10 AM
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aha. well, have you heard of the term "virtue signalling" before? because that's what social justice or "thinking about others" and "being the voice for the less fortunate ones" is. unless you're also really out there, practically doing something to make the conditions of such people more fair. eager to see what you hallucinate for your next stunt!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:08 AM
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what's that got to do with the topic at hand? society can still be saved if people start developing themselves individually and stop playing identity politics. ez pz.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:05 AM
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wait now, do i get what you're trying to say? people who don't complain about physical appeal being an unfair trait, are narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:02 AM
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why complain, though, social justixe for other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 10:55 AM
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Recreation. Hah. It's comfort. We get to live fictional character lives instead of living our own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:06 AM
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I'd be impressed if the guy is sane, handsome, smart, charismatic and has not used these qualities for casual sex, at least for as long as he has been maturely so. How much someone bangs at their teen age or shortly after is irrelevant as long as it doesn't bring babies or stds on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 07:42 AM
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Excited every day? :O
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 07:39 AM
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Haha, no I did not say it's forbidden. To me it just is inefficient. Do it, see what results you get. Dw, the police won't come. And I was talking about bj, not sex. Forcing your dick in a chicks face when she might not even be exited to do it is just disgusting and unclassy ;) (she'll do it if she likes you enough, on her own accord, trust me)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 06:12 PM
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Natural selection is a biiiaaaacth! I mean, you don't see pretty and handsome people complaining about those things ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 06:09 PM
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When in the mood and am attracted to the guy and it's my initiation or suggestion, sure. When not in the mood, or especially when a guy is trying to push me to do it - as in this situation it's super degrading, just not gonna happen, I'll stop it all and probably just walk out. I've met two guys who were really pushy like this (and also really wanted to control where my hands go etc) - and they two happened to be very arrogant and selfish and that very event made them unattractive to me altogeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 05:48 PM
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lol, woo whee, no u. rhetorically my comment doesn't even resemble projection. get your definitions right, bucko.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:31 PM
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welp, enjoy it while it lasts! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:26 AM
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it's only just begun! how about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:18 AM
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Really, you want a face image of an average man? What are you trying to do with this info?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:57 AM
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hi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:56 AM
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Yeah I'm talking about a different type of challenge, not shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:54 AM
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"She stated she likes me but she's doing/showing signs that she's not and she keeps playing games". That is not at all the type of challenge I am talking about. I've been talking about making someone "self-conscious" - I've written a lot about it today. And being able to withstand those mirroring episodes without getting slighted about it is what I value in people. That is what I consider a challenge - being able to take a look at yourself trough the actions and responses and words of those arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:52 AM
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Not sure, suppose since these terms are not really defined universally, it can mean different things for different people. I'd think about it like this, personally: Blue Pillers - people who like to mock Red Pillers (not very noble imo, but to each their own). Purple Pillers - people who like to discuss Red Pillers. Red Pillers - people who like to be Red Pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:27 AM
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What makes you rule out the possibility that make-up and dress-up has become so common that people have forgotten that it is an attempt to alter the way you look. Although it is widely accepted and even encouraged to wear makeup, look fresh like a sunshine in the spring, wear the style, do your hear, wear a nice watch and have the lastest aiphoun - it's still all status signalling and an attempt to look either nicer or fiercer (I used to use make up, but I had a rather dark style and it didn't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:23 AM
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Perhaps people today get confused a lot. Did a person intend to belittle you in a malicious way or did, whatever he or she said, just make you self-conscious? Some people don't mind the self-conscious part, although it feels very uncomfortable being in a situation where someone raises up a mirror for you to watch. And other people get slighted by it - how dare you! You think you're better than me! These people have very fragile egoes and they seem to be perceiving the world as hostile towards th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:10 AM
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Nope. RP is effortless - it's more instant-gratification oriented and not really benefiting anyone in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:49 AM
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When they don't have to try hard to maintain a relationship as they have easy way outs via porn, masturbation and one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:47 AM
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Like the outlawing of masculinity and attempting to make everything a safe zone by modern feminists will mark the downfall of human development - and women will become weak, pathetic creatures - same will do porn and sex bots to men - men will no longer have to grow strong, resilient, competent, because they now get an easy out without any effort at all. Things can go terribly wrong with the current rise of technology. The rage of the machine is very much real - just not in the image of the term…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:45 AM
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I first payed attention to the positive general advice they told to men to be successful. Then saw how some of them think they should treat women and noticed a lot of those men are hoping to swing around until they die. I recently changed my mind about being all career-y and childness and lt partnerless for good after getting into Jordan Pill. RP seems too much about frustration and it doesn't have much regarding living a meaningful life. I'm happy to be a submissive woman but only when I am a 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:30 AM
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Reminds me of an anecdote: "Why I'm miserable? Job sucks, Life sucks, wife doesn't."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:25 AM
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Only that the "uncomfortable truths" are not uncomfortable for the males who preach RP. And they are not absolute, universal "truths" either. It's bullshit that is uncomfortable to those whom you impose it on with your newly learned behaviors and "philosophy". And it's not uncomfortable because it makes those around you self-conscious - but it's uncomfortable because it is so deeply out of touch with the reality, and you're projecting and protecting your imagination way too fiercely. It's just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:20 AM
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Blue Pill is making fun about Red Pill - about posts where it is obvious the guy is very deeply deluded or RP women who are suffering some very severe case of Stockholm Syndrome. And that's all there is to it, there's rarely any meaningful conversations under that sub - and when you try, someone will come respond trololol y so serious. Purple Pill probably exists because on Red Pill you're not allowed to have such discussions or question their beliefs or challenge their views and on Blue Pill no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:16 AM
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Red Pill's red flags appeared first when some of them suggested women should just shut up and do whatever their man tells them to do. Women should shut up and never challenge their man. Women should shut up because they are incapable of self-awareness. Women should shut up because they are incapable of logical thought and that men are very logical beings. There are signs of corruption and delusion, not a healthy way to look at life and partnership. What kind of a person are you if you can't hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:07 AM
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Then why remain average? Of course you need to work on yourself if you want to do better for yourself. Can't take anything for granted. You think sexy Chads were born sexy Chads? Nay, they probably worked on their body and soul and career and social skills as well, and instead of getting stuck in mental masturbation they went ahead and applied everything they learned in real life. ez pz
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:56 AM
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well none of it dont matter at all if not concerned about the longer term. good luck n im out, good night o/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 09:31 PM
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Oh absolutely true. It's easier to pose on an image that you look nice and stylish and travel a lot and have some crazy activities every other week (and I wouldn't swipe those for the very same reasons that this guys is POSING too hard) - but then irl turns out he might have that only one set of decent clothes and the travelling stopped 5 years ago etc etc. I wouldn't imagine approaching anyone at a coffee shop. Wow that'd be so bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 07:13 PM
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These are a different sort of guys though - First, they seem older (and good men wine like age blah blah) - Second the chick herself talks like she's in chibi-mode, squeeky HMM?. Trust me when you're a chick who perhaps takes herself and her career too seriously, going for a guy who is 20-30 or around that and he somehow managed to delude himself into thinking he is in a great position to be all amused of all the other silly people around, that's just gonna turn out wrong :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 07:07 PM
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Hey, I hate to bring this to you, but not all guys who got their shit together automatically do it for the sole sake of seeing 4+ women for casual bang. Am aware there certainly are many cases like this (the obvious PUAs and whatnot), but at this point I'm not sure what kinds of guys you imagine I'd be swiping right ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:23 PM
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It's strange how RP people seem to think, on one hand, that women are irrational and emotional beings who need to be tamed like wild horses, and then on the other hand women are these intricate planners to extort reactions out of their partner and test them. You don't see how these two things conflict (as much as Trump being an "idiot" and at the same time getting elected)? Discord and drama HAPPENS because people are irrational little shits. The reasoning that it's all a test and a clever plan …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:18 PM
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Often in relationships the "you've changed" happens because for a long time one or both in the relationship aren't really getting to know each other, but instead project onto each other what they'd like the other person to be. They are ignoring the real person behind their imagination - and at some point that imagination dissolves, because reality disallows it - and that's when sometimes people feel the other person changed - while the only culprit really had been their very own expectations for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:12 PM
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Why swipe right a guy with a close up of their nose hair and such, who looks like 50 in their 30s when I can just swipe left and find a way more handsome guy in their 30s after a few more swipes? The guys who drink, smoke and eat all sorts of shit and have let themselves go? That's not even fixer-upper material. The guys can always adapt and develop themselves to become more desirable. At the age of internet you don't even need to really ask from other people what you have to change, you can do …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:08 PM
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amused mastery I've not dated a lot or met a lot of guys, but this has been one of the most unattractive attitudes from a guy I have ever witnessed. Barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:01 PM
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Hold on now. Why would a woman just fish for a fight? Why would people do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:59 AM
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People rarely think themselves or realize themselves they are being arrogant. Arrogance is in the eye of the beholder - but not quite - you can be overconfident, or not confident at all - doesn't matter - but the way you speak, how you tone it, how you time it, how you come across - is what will make you seem arrogant or humble. And you can think to yourself you're so empathetic and humble and smart - but if other people around you think you're obnoxious, hard to be around and arrogant - than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:58 AM
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Depends if you're looking long or short term. In both cases you won't want a nutjob who is willing to call the police on you for having a little disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:49 AM
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That might be the best two lines of words I have read today. Thanks for sharing. Might explain well why progressives refuse to enter dialogue - they believe their opponents are, as you said, completely beyond...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:23 AM
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It's not supposed to be easy. The mental blocks are there for good reasons. Trouble starts when along ignoring your bounds and standards you figure out a way to bypass those blocks. There is no casual sex. You're only deceiving yourself with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:20 AM
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What do you do with a woman who isn't a lifestyle junkie or a self-esteem/sexual validation junkie, though? How do you intend to control them? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:31 AM
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It might help get an adrenaline rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:26 AM
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Not necessarily - some girls look super good because they are over-compensating (fear of abandonment, for example) - and although they look neat enough to score a lawyer, they might jump at the first ship that comes, just because they are that desperate. Higher standards have those girls that aren't that desperate, have ditched self-esteem and replaced it with competence, responsibility and self-respect - those also might entail proper care for self - but for this you don't really have to have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:08 AM
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Aye! Same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:21 PM
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This is the right way to do it, though. This way we get the most competent people running the shit. If among there happen to be women or men in strange numbers - all. fkn. good. It's so stupid to lower the standards of our society so that some people can feel achieved while not having to try as hard as they humanly COULD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:19 PM
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Yeah, the big 5 test. Not sure how accurate. You can screw up your scores if you misunderstand the questions. I fell for it. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 03:11 PM
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Leaving the kid to figure it out on their own might sometimes be even better than having a parent parrot on what to do and what not to do. Parents are only humans, after all - can't expect them to understand the world and the dynamics and explain it to you while you grow up. Some parents legit give really bad advice to their kids or impose interests on them that the kids are not really willing to go for. I bet the effect could be an increased creativity - as the kid would have to learn to solve …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 08:36 AM
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how much do you score on conscientiousness, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:23 AM
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Should also add that the men op spoke of don't need an attitude shift for the sake of women. They need it for themselves, to improve the quality of their life. Women know well there are men out there with a healthy attitude already anyway ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 05:05 AM
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well, it's a good writing, and as there seem to be many women out there to whom it is of high importance that their partner can make them feel sexy and attractive, because for some psychological failure they are failing to confirm it all on their own - suppose you're on to something. im hoping in the near future people ditch the whole esteem-bullshit (and validation via skilled dick) and focus on becoming competent, instead - as in this line of thinking you'd know well the perfect ex doesn't exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:25 PM
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Well, you should know that older does not always mean more experienced - and that is normal. And it's also normal that not all very experienced people are good teachers. Can't expect such things, doesn't add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:57 PM
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Women have the same problem as well, tbh - but suppose it's easier to artificially moisten up the hole than to harden the pole (just fyi - for a woman, even though you get some spit or vaseline or whatever the gooey sex tools are today, in there - it still hurts and is pretttty unpleasant for the woman, though - it can even make tears that will bleed and burn when you pee etc). And it can be either a mental block or a physical - when eating unhealthy, it can be a problem. But mostly when a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:31 PM
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Well, in a case the male initiated it all, though. And I look mighty fine naked. Not sure how attraction would work, in that case :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:11 PM
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I find the latter impossible to disagree with :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:09 PM
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It's been very stressful when a guy has had problems even getting it hard or keeping it that way or failing to finish - left me wondering if there was something I should have done to help... Or if he really just had brain/health problems :) Traumatized for lyf.-
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:33 PM
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amen amen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:30 PM
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I've had a man literally ragequit me when I refused to give head :) Still can say women don't have to do anything to please a man sexually? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:29 PM
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Or it could be the case that the men are too insecure to want experienced women as there would be a greater possibility of such a woman having experienced a more pleasant and likable partner in bed than he could even dream to be. muhahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:27 PM
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Perhaps the only thing shaming ever achieves is the feeling of repression itself. I don't think the lack of shaming causes a sort of sexual liberation. Sex will be heavy stuff for a brain to handle regardless of how ashamed, repressed or liberated you delude yourself to be. I, on the other hand - feel like shaming people who do not want to have casual sex is a sort of a repression of morals and good civil standards :) But what do~
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:24 PM
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Learn to make perfect sushi instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:21 PM
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One of my former boyfriends gifted me a brand new keyboard. It was a very bad choice for what I was doing with it. Kitchenware and PC stuff - I prefer to pick those things on my own, because other people don't really understand the specs that I look out for and sometimes these things are even useless for me because of it :) Shoes for gift? Does the person know what KINDS of shoes I wear? Shoe size? It's complicated! Tool kits, though - are roughly standardized, easier to gift. A woman might be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:00 PM
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As a female I would approach this by playing my own part - when it comes to fitness - it isn't my business to tell him if and when he should deal with this (and should work both ways - I wouldn't want to hear from him either what changes he demands (or else)) - but I will worry about keeping myself fit. If the guy gives a damn at all and feels like he is falling behind - he will work on himself also. If he doesn't - he's not mature enough to be in this relationship. One of us will end up either …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 02:51 PM
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Generally - tt only works short term. In the long run there will be shit that is going to bite you in the ass. Some aspects of their approach are healthy and work long term also - but then there come other aspects, the shallow and ones that go for instant gratification... You think you're getting a good bang on your first date, but little did you know 2 weeks in the contempt this woman feels for you (mostly regretting you ignored her saying "no" when starting to peel off her clothes - and you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 02:46 PM
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Quite the other way around for me until I put my feet on the ground. I was ready and schooled and willing to bend backwards and jump trough every hoop for a man. And even for a man that I wasn't really attracted to. This isn't about being a giver or a taker - you're slightly off your angle by being either. Don't be an arse, and be assertive enough - at least one person in the relationship like that and all shall be well (well - even when you have to break up the relationship, since it becomes ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 02:41 PM
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No, some of the "clever ones" though - they use people-pleasers for their narcissistic supply, for their own advantage - and trust me these people pleasers are very happy to oblige. having a scapecoat for all their sins, faults and lies helps psychoes prevent the crash and burn. Smart - they pick themselves partners (or well, it works both ways - partners who are no people pleasers just don't stick around long with him/her - so only the ones who can endure being overly empathetic to the person a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 02:37 PM
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i hope this isn't another attempt to romantizise dark triad individuals. they are efficient short term. operating on the impulse of instant gratification and with a grandiose, hallucinatory self image - their lies and shortcomings will catch up with them. and then it's crash and burn time - unless they have a supply (in the form of a codependant enabler) to whom they can dump it all on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:26 PM
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I think the reason you don't ask women is because you either don't have women whom you would imagine asking such things from or you just don't trust them. That's not to say that you'd benefit from asking them - what do they know about dating other women anyway - they can only tell about themselves or what they heard from others. Aside from a few practical tips that they can share, it's rare that they have any sage advice to give - not because they are dishonest - but simply because the topic is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:58 PM
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Sarcastic? I'd say what i posed as a question was honestly challenging! If it isn't true - it's alright and good for you. No need to try and shut me down for it (or assume i say what i do with ill intent!) :) Open your mouth for criticizing other people - you always risk getting criticized as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 12:56 PM
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Okay! Companionship as in just having someone holding you in your arms every other night just won't do. But he or she would have to be a person, firstly - whom with we are compatible. Personality, mentality - we aren't compatible with anyone - and often it happens so that we try very hard to make it work with a person whom we really shouldn't with. This has happened to me - the guys had different goals and I "compromised" by giving up my own - and slowly started feeling contempt towards myself a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 12:00 PM
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Well then that's great :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:17 AM
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I think we can only get strong CEOs and leaders when those CEOs and leaders really can make it to the top. Man or woman - I don't care - but that person needs to be strong and fierce and prove his or her competence - that way we truly do have the best, fittest leaders of them all. And I believe women very much can achieve this as well - but if we change the system and get there by quotas - we're just going to end up having weaker leaders than we probably could have - if the competition was FAIR …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:04 AM
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There's also the possibility that these women have a very good idea about what they want, and also have an idea how they can say it - but they are reluctant to do so as they have previously been shut down for having wants and needs - and being shut down is something nobody really wants to feel. Can be a legit anxiety/phobia/cPTSD issue if you've had abusive parents, peer or partners before (and at a young age many people are, unwittingly, abusive towards each other). Some things are hard to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:54 AM
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What if he's a real asshole irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:45 AM
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What makes you rule out the possibility that you're doing the introspection thing all wrong yourself? You are, after all, here, complaining that others do it wrong - boohoo you poor victim of a series mindless partners! :) Remember - you're the only common nominator of all your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:44 AM
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Well, they don't have to settle for less than they expect either. They are free to dump your ass if they can't get from you whatever it is that they are looking for - and you are free to dump their ass if their desires will start coming at the expense of yours. You don't have to compromise either - but then also accept the risk that this relation might end due to it - and that might even be a good thing. Ideally you'll get into a relationship where you can preserve enough autonomy and not fully …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:36 AM
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Careful with the "everyone" and everyone's entitlement, here!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:30 AM
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Very manly of a man to not recognize that generalization/absolutes is a very common sort of effortless speech and take offense in it and start an argument about it, though. I myself have learned to be very specific when it comes to things what I want or things that I like or things that I don't, and I communicate them as such - it's rare, though. In the heat of the moment it's almost as if people are programmed to create absolutes that are logically untrue - and do not misunderstand me - men do …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:28 AM
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idk, maybe im not a normal person to think the way i do :p but what you describe seems like i'd say a casual relationship. to me something like that would lack sufficient meaning, as in my exp these werent even the most enjoyable parts. i wouldn't want for "just companionship" - i'd only be wasting my time. although two of my ltrs that lasted a couple of years and ended, and in the end became just that - casual with no future goal or joint career - there always was a long term plan (which was no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 05:31 AM
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long term partnership - you and your partner have a joint career or plan to procreate (fyi plan doesnt always end up in fulfilling it). casual sex - the onanistic kind where you really might not have any regard for the other person at all, but just have sex to get off or get validated. i am open for corrections.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:46 PM
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Well, wouldn't that turn out to be a "fuck only" after a while of dating and maybe having slept with the guy? As in they won't know ahead - but only if they get a good sense of the guy - check him out on multiple levels and only then the person can decide whether this guy might be relationship material or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 05:30 PM
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Girls probably don't know what to do with a guy if the guy doesn't know what to do with a girl. Maybe the girls you met don't like dominating or even instructing, but prefer the guy does what he does, and hope what he does is great. Since sex is a very intimate situation - for the cases of ons or otherwise casual stuff - the girls would have to be very strong to put themselves in a vulnerable position and tell you what they want you to do to them - this is really hard and deep stuff - not easy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:54 AM
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It's important to understand what we are feeling and thinking. And it's also important to not make impulsive decisions based on the most intense emotions. It's also important to have a bit of restraint and not get carried away by anger, sadness or joy and becoming apathetic towards everyone else around - as we might, while carried away by a mood or an emotion - cause a lot of damage. Being mindful about what's going on in our heads is a useful tool. And it would work the same for men and women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:42 AM
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Not at all. Up until my recent revelations: "Oh boy, this guy is giving me some positive attention," + he is a musician OR has some other sort of significant social status OR looks interesting. Each guy I got together with, I hoped would be the one I'd grow old with. It's ways simpler than that :) Ofc, I can assume at least SOME women have, unlike I had not, SOME standards besides "gives positive attention and is somewhat acceptable in social norms". Both my previous ltrs had avoided mandatory a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:34 PM
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Well, I'd say impulsivity is something that people do, who are maybe OVERconfident, not debilitated by uncertainty and nagging insecurity. Becoming overconfident isn't going to make you secure. Insecure people are deluded in one way (thinking they are worth less than in reality and don't bother to realize they need to work on themselves) while overconfident people are deluded in another (thinking they are worth and capable more than in reality - and often even end up making a fool out of themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 02:04 PM
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This is even more confusing than the new gender definitions. uguysss....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 01:04 PM
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Sounds like you're being a bit sarcastic, but I might be wrong. Hard to tell over text, so I respond anyway. You should know that people who are overly impulsive do generally not make great company. People will gladly avoid you, because you hurt them. Such people with impulses and no bounds are considered sociopaths. And over time this sort of aggression may turn into terrible, terrible violence. Crazed sex fiend might sound like a lot of fun - but maybe if you consider that it isn't as fun to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 01:03 PM
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The alternative would be, if the man, indeed, was pathetic - that she doesn't tell anything and just leaves. There are other alternatives too, ofc. She goes home from the workplace where she's completely competent, and at home the man calls her pathetic. So many possibilities!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:54 PM
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wait. incels and nerds are betas?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:51 PM
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Bruv, this is notabout not-being-like-others. This is about being sane. Craving for external validation might suggest you have some self-esteem issues. Not saying you do. I'm saying you might - you know yourself better than others, so, up to you to internally decide if you accept that guess or not. All the girls doing crazy sex stuff with just about whoever - just the same. Even if they don't think about it. Even if they delude themselves into thinking they are the hottest shit on the market and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 11:20 AM
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Why would anyone want to raise a child alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:06 AM
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Because sex has more sophistication in it, than say, smoking a cig or drinking your morning coffee. That stuff goes deep, there's trippy shit going on in your brain which really confirms that casual sex does not exist. You can go banging around in denial all you like, you are free to do so - but you're only going to dig the hole deeper for yourself if you keep in denial or refuse to believe what it really means for those whom you have sex with. It's not about shaming either. It's just way out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:01 AM
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"My question is why do people feel the need to tell others what to do in both camps?" Because for those people life and change is painful to adapt to, so they childishly expect the world and times and other people will adapt to their comfort. That's all there is to extremists. All you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 08:57 AM
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Then consider the majority of women are asleep at the wheel. You'd be onsing with women who aren't really even "there" and don't really give a shit how good or bad or achieved you are - they only do this to get to feel hot and validated - for selfish, a tad mental reasons. What a great achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 08:55 AM
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I want that bacon now :) Very good story - I recognize myself having gone trough roughly the same path.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 08:41 AM
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Oh yeah, makes sense :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 05:06 PM
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fair enough :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:13 PM
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how else would a weak pathetic man realize he needs to pick up his slack if not via a womans disapproval and rejection. these ladies are alright ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:12 PM
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the other post that is mentioned, also was true. both posts are true - there are different people out there. the black lady might have had incredibly negative experience with really shitty persons, and for some reason called them betas. these posts do not contradict each other, they are talking about different people, traits and experiences, no? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:09 PM
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what if the partner genuinely disagrees with your point, though? you find it would be noble to lie in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:05 PM
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well, on the outside i look like a lady, and i tend to myself and my home, i appreciate politeness and remind myself to have grace in action. i did not ever get my nails done, so there's that ;) and the things that interest me, and my experience of having casual conversations and activities with males, at a younger age i did not belong to girly cliques - as my interests did not align with theirs at all. which might be troublesome - having no female friends as a woman, while entering a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:02 PM
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I'm thinking it takes a certain type of woman to appreciate these kinds of aspects in a man - and a certain type of a man to appreciate these kinds of aspects in a woman. Good writing, though, I agree, with all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:59 PM
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I am biologically female. Growing up was interested more in boy stuff than in girl stuff - used to hang out with boys and play with them up to the point teenage kicked in and they became meaner and tougher towards each other but could not bring themselves to exhibit similar behavior towards me - a feeble little girl. So I was slowly rejected from the group just because they couldn't treat me like they did each other (now, in online communities that's a whole other story!) I was pretty a pretty m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 10:31 AM
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yes, its a current feminist pseudoproblem. take note, i am not a feminist, in case the doublespeak accusation was directed at me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 02:56 PM
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well, i didn't make it up. check out camille paglia, maybe she made it up, idk!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:46 AM
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Well, that is going to benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:20 AM
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You either just haven't met such people or are in denial. Unhealthy relationship dynamics are more common than we all like to think. Although it is ridiculous - people are often just unaware of the unhealthy patterns they engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:10 AM
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Alright, thanks relieving to hear, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:40 AM
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Okay. I did not even mean that care means like behaving a child. I mean care in the over-bearing sense means like behaving a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:38 AM
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Well, if done right - teasing. Some guys can't tell the difference between teasing and shaming, though. And that's where things can go very, very wrong. If you have yourself a guy who is angry at women - trust me, what they do is not teasing, but shaming, indeed - and blindly believes he is doing the strategy as it's meant to be. Which, in turn, becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy - as the woman would end up resenting the guy for being an abusive jerk - and the guy concluding that this woman is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:25 AM
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It might really be the case that you don't even know what you were saying. You didn't say a respectful, sane, fully matured adult either. The latter wouldn't get angry and call people idiots for misunderstandings either, I suppose ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:20 AM
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care to point out what's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:07 AM
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nope. the movement started in university campuses, when women had to check in by 11pm for their safety (or get kicked), while males could stay out as long as they wanted to. women wanted to get to stay out too, but back then were willing to accept the risk (and today clueless women want to get to go out AND eliminate the risk - good luck to them :D)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:02 AM
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Go ahead and live your life as you wish. Smarter people than I have noticed things and I will take my advice from them, though. Acting like an infant to your partner, or treating them like an infant isn't caring or love. Being clingy isn't love. What this achieves is - you're forcing a dependancy into the dynamic. Basic advice wiser people give: Don't do anything for your partner that they could do on their own. And they're not saying here that you don't need to help with, say, housekeeping sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:04 AM
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Oh yeah, let me write another self help book: 1) Take offense in someone's elaboration on a comment. 2) Make a sarcastic remark. 3) In your head, declare yourself the winner of the world. Words to live by, amirite :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:56 AM
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Yes, that would take two mentally somewhat matured people - or at least one who is patient and strong enough to stand by until the other one matures up as well :) Things get tricky when we have an inaccurate self-image - when we think too little or too much of ourselves - it will affect the dynamic. When we figure out where we stand, and instead of focusing on trying to be overly confident, or cry that we have no confidence all - focus on fixing our COMPETENCE, instead - chances of ending up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:52 AM
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Clingy in a good way? What does that look like? Ideally you want a partner who can handle being on their own and lets you be on your own too - a partner who is mentally healthy enough to realize where the good balance between inter-dependency and autonomy lies (well, it takes two mentally healthy partners for this to actually work). Let partners ideally be partners - two adults, not a child and a parent to each other. Being clingy to me sounds like there's something off in the dynamic - one or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:48 AM
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If they somehow manage to imagine they can do even better, in the light of their current success, no - they become manic and not clingy. It can happen if the person deceives themselves into thinking they managed to score this partner because of some value they suddenly realized they had. It's a strange thing, though - some of these sort of people would do everything to cut you off from the opportunities to interact with anyone else from your opposite gender who'd technically pose a threat to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:35 AM
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RP isn't bad on it's own. It's destructive in the hands of people who have completely given up on the opposite gender (or men who do not hold the same beliefs, even). In the long run it's not going to work out for them anyway, and it hurts to see how they are hurting themselves and the people around them by mistakenly applying good wisdom trough the filter of hate. Just as bad are women who have completely given up on men, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:29 AM
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It's impossible to have an optimistic view on the opposing gender if all our experiences with them tend to be negative. And I think that's the case for radical feminists and angry red pillers both - they just lack the experience of good partners - and it really might seem to them as if ALL men/women are horrible. And it is really sad when people give up on a whole gender based on that. But I'm afraid they really have no way to know any better. To be healthy and reasonable - we need experience wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:24 AM
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*Unconditional love is for infants :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:22 AM
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Just hold the line, pressure is the only way people (feminists, in this case) will grow out from wanting and needing to be protected and lifted up by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:12 AM
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They will take out their anger of previous rejections from women or men on their new partner by shaming them or criticizing on things they really shouldn't, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:08 AM
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The first five points applied on someone who insisted they were the alfast alfa in the country as well, by the way. Amusing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:06 AM
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Originally women wanted to have the freedom to make their own mistakes and take their own risks. Now it's become something very screwed - 3 generations later or whatnot, there are women who do not know how it all started - do not remember to appreciate the freedom to make mistakes, and want tyranny and policing over the free world to eliminate the risk that naturally comes by when going out to the free world. It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:02 AM
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it works on all sort of people. and it secretly makes them resent you. congratz :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 05:35 AM
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Those other kinds of women probably aren't interested in them anyway - so, sure - these women don't exist in their reality. All good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 08:22 PM
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Negging works on those women who will very desperately want to prove to you that you're wrong to neg them. Can be used very harmfully on girls that tend to want to look good in the eyes of other people even to the point of people pleasing. If you're one with narcissistic tendencies - this sort of thing will be very natural for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 08:20 PM
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You're going to be fine. Grow a kickass personality, if you feel like you don't already have it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 08:17 PM
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works both ways, though, no? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 02:47 PM
1

but its recreational, its still casual in that sense, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 01:26 PM
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suppose the women are talking about getting tricked and deceived into sex by leaving them the false hope of a long term, meaningful relationship, whereas these guys' only goal is to get some pumping done. note - i did not say "all guys". careful! not saying all do this - but suppose these women have negative experience and have no clue how things could be fair and better when it comes to uh, strategy :) if you're a competent man and genuinely interested in a partner, and the matched woman, no st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:49 AM
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hold on, is the sex that couples have in marriage or ltr for recreational purposes casual or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:28 AM
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mostly i come here (and other subs) to avoid work. im curious about gender and relationship topics, sometimes good ideas are raised and discussed. ofc also trying to understand what might have been going on at a relationship with an abusive dynamic, how i and-or the counterpart contributed to it - to make sure i don't make the same mistakes again (whether i invited the abuse - how to stop that - or the guy was abusive - how to detect and avoid them) suppose i learned enough til now and im all go…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:22 AM
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Oh that requires buddies then, mb :) Those stories I ain't tellin what we been tellin. Private, embarrassing stores about the mishaps of males in beds. Wew. I just remembered all of those stories. Never felt like telling those kinds of stories myself, though. Didn't want to embarrass myself by proxy. I wanted to think I chose my man, and I chose well, after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 08:18 PM
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Yeah the gym I go to has a small public sauna :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 08:06 PM
1

Me not understanding the code results in me being utterly confused about my gender. Thanks, wracky - it's been quite the revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:52 PM
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Last time I was speaking to some women in sauna, they were talking about their kids, and I asked about what the woman's job was like at a soft dev company, and she gladly told her story :) It's the dirtiest talk I ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:18 PM
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What would make his cock better than the other 90% of males on earth, though? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:24 AM
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So good that you are better than 90% of men on all Earth? Wew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:23 AM
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TRP attracts and keeps a load of narcissists. And no, I'm not saying that all who go there and follow some of their guidelines are narcissists. But those who want full control and can't stand a woman rejecting them or making bad remarks about them - well, they speak volumes of themselves without having to utter a word ;) Maybe it's a nice thing to have them all in one place - makes detecting the red flags very easy for those who do not care to fall in to their abusive traps after having had expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:22 AM
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What makes you think you belong in the remaining 10% though? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:04 AM
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Welp, if it works for you - long term and short - just keep at what you're going.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 06:55 PM
1

Attempting to shut someone down is force in itself. It is aggressive speech. Under brain scans the brain reacts to it in the same way as towards violence etc. You can look into it if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 03:46 PM
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Are you seriously of the opinion that attempting to convince someone to change their mind about something with (solid) arguments is exactly the same as attempting to convince via shaming/shutting down/fallacies? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 02:04 PM
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Discussing and persuading isn't policing. I consider something policing when someone will want to shut you down completely for having an unpopular opinion. And people do that, too - and it's wrong. It's effortless and it doesn't really help anyone, but promotes a friggin echo-chamber. Having a debate, trying to convince someone to change their opinion about something (or being open to change yourself) is not policing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:27 PM
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Yup. I think validation is also the reason women (and men) cheat. It is possible to strike a partner who is so skilled at sex that knows how to physically stimulate, also - BUT I don't think that can ever be the primary cause for going for those kinds of ONSes and FWBs or cheating your LTR partner - for men and females both, I think when the craving for instant gratification comes in, they turn to stuff like binge eating, alcoholism or idk gaming (in unreasonable amounts) - suppose men can also …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:22 PM
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Well, they are free to think however they like - they will learn to change that thinking as soon as they realize it is not really effective for their own cause (not in long term, at least). We can't police people's opinions - we shouldn't. That's the beauty of our current society, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:16 PM
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Well, if the guy really knows how to work a woman in bed - she'll enjoy it as well. But if it's all rushed, dry and the guy is pushing rope half the time - it's just disgusting! :D So, it's maybe harder for a woman to get the satisfaction equivalent of a man's ejaculation in those cases. Makes sense, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:06 PM
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Oh wait. I hate to butt in to this tangent - but some women having the opinion that men shouldn't look younger girls, and shame them - doesn't mean that men aren't allowed to do that. When women shame men for the preferences - well, it is up to that man to either own that treat or not. It is not a non-preferential way to go for a man this way - just some women can't handle it with grace. It's a pretty normal human reaction to handle rejection with an attempt of shaming. Suck it up :D Works same …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:00 PM
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Oh right, I get it. Some people will use those mis-phrased sentences as strawmen to attack instead if the actual arguments - I know this too well :) All good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:45 PM
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I had an urge to get myself validated by another person having sex with me. I was trying to say that the underlying urge wasn't sex per se - but a measly attempt to validate my self image via someone else confirming it with their dick. I stopped having those urges 10 years ago. I no longer felt the need for someone else validate my self-worth. I was completely happy with who I was and I thought I saw it accurately enough without needing someone else to confirm it for me. I stopped having sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:43 PM
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My god this is classical. You think men won't misunderstand your thoughts when you fail phrasing it with precision? No need to be a Shakespeare. I think when someone says something that would suggest that you can have a second attempt on rephrasing your thoughts - all is good. You see someone misunderstands you - you go for a second attempt in explaining what you had in mind. You still have a chance of speaking your mind with the intent to make the other person get you - regardless of their sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:38 PM
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Idk, I've not had those sexual urges. So I have doubts about them existing in this form, as people could easily be confusing them with egoistical urges, validation-seeking and instant gratification. I can relate to those, and they are biological, sure enough - but drilling really deep down to those urges it has not much to do with sex or attractive partners. Instant gratification. Important to sacrifice that gratification in order to be better off in the future. How's that for hedonism. Don't yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:34 PM
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Well, maybe they are too hung up about it. Or maybe you don't like to see that happen, as it could indicate that you did a poor job in phrasing your thoughts ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:31 PM
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Anyway, person Maikowski2 - which urges were you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:20 PM
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You can phrase your idea, maybe, let's say, "cheating is unacceptable to me". That's how you say - this is where I draw the line. Simply asserted your bounds - it's up to the partner to respect it or not - and when bounds are not respected - you know the drill :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:20 PM
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Oh hai. Which urges, though? Incels? Well, I'm talking about individuals who are on the dating market, but from the get go focus on every little clue that could indicate that this woman is crazy and evil etc. Not all red pillers are angry - I know! I have read some very healthy and sane posts in that sub and it's all good. Then again there are users who seem to be in that movement because they are unwilling to admit that some woman had the power to make them feel ashamed of some (very trivial) s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:04 PM
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You're suffering a mild form of confirmation bias. You don't have to be super hot looking. Damn, there are so many girls out there who will enter a relationship with you even when you are fat and addicted to alcohol, fashion design and gaming. It'd be in your own interest to keep fit and healthy, though - otherwise your body is going to become a burden to yourself (and your partner) at an older age. That doesn't mean big muscles and steroids, though - but just moderately fit is perfectly good. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 11:55 AM
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See you gotta be well rounded to get it right. Open and gentle - reserve that for your girlfriend/wife. Ready for a fight and gutsy enough for asserting yourself - reserve that for your career or when someone attacks your turf. You're expected (by evolutionary biology, not women per se) to be ruthless against men, and gentle against women. People get their roles messed up a lot these days. Faux masculine guys competing with their ladies and otherwise guys getting confused about which peer-males …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 11:50 AM
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Women who have had experience and reach close the serious age of 30, and happen to be single by then, probably figure out how to vet and pick out the guys who have found and out on their big boy pants. And not men who are angry at women, scared of women or just reluctant to take a look in the mirror every now and then. The fact that some specific "red pillers" or otherwise get angry about that, speaks volumes of which category they really fall into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 11:34 AM
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I'm thinking these qualities just display differently on a male. I might be wrong, but I think when applied the same wisdom on woman - they become more feminen, if applied the same wisdom on a man - they become more masculine. In the end - these qualities make both genders more attractive to each other. Of course, think if you have a man who does not think much of such qualities and doesn't care to practice it on his own, he is also less likely to seek for such qualities in a woman (or if he doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 11:24 AM
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So is it really the case that all husbands automatically are not in good shape? Wouldn't the trick for both people in the relationship/marriage to keep working on themselves, health, fitness and brain regardless of their status? :D What is this... Marriage or PENSION?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 05:05 PM
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can't argue that. those qualities + a wiener :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 04:09 PM
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The woman is free to exit the relationship as well, so - no, he is only half a jerk ;D But hey - maybe they are both having a good time with each other regardless. In this case it really would be up to the woman to put her foot down, be blunt - stay or walk away. Not similar to befriending with the idea to date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 08:37 PM
1

Hello hello
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 03:36 PM
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enlighten me then, why they do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 11:48 AM
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Being pretty is not correlated with the addiction to excitement. There are other ways to not be dull than being a thug, no? Very cynical :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:09 AM
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Seen on tinder some guys 30 really do look 10-20 years older than they should. Unless they are lieing about their age :) But if the guy takes care of himself, I'd say 30+ is about the time men start getting ripe enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:07 AM
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Are there a lot of women who sleep around with hot guys and do all these awesome things in their beds that they won't agree to do with their long term betas? That sounds like a lot of (paranoid) fantasy. By observation and remembering my own young scattered brain - the only good explanation for people to want to sleep around is to get validated trough sex. And there is nothing nice or healthy about that, by the way. In cases where you are not single and this happens - you maybe feel like your pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:05 AM
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When into a relationship would come 2 people of whom at least one starts making quick and harmful assumptions about the persons' present and future lack of competence based on their "choice" so far - that relationship either won't happen or will have a very unhealthy dynamic. A person who is awake enough isn't going to accept those accusations, however, which eliminated the possibility for the unhealthy dynamic - that can only happen, when the other person is still raw enough to not really under…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 08:53 AM
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At the bottom of the hierarchy, especially in the younger side, I see men go for any naive woman that lets to have a foot in the door. No standards or guidelines. Just wilderness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 08:06 AM
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the d r e a m
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:08 AM
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welp, that sounds femine enough to me either way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 05:45 PM
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dayum, im gonna need to go get me some of that. and i shall be complete!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:13 PM
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tb? tubercolosis? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:53 PM
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What is tomboyish to you, though - choice of style as in clothing and styling hair/makeup and choice of hobbies and interests (stuff like paintball, programming, computer games, what else is there)? Or is there something more to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 02:15 PM
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childcare, parenting, homemaking and nurturing skills go naturally under compassion and orderliness for me :) (these skills only take a bit of reading to catch yourself up on it)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 02:10 PM
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Critically compassionate and kind, socially polite, mentally and physically healthy, clean, orderly, stylish - how does that sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:56 PM
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What do you mean by needing an outside source to provide proper emotions? Isn't that the other way around - women being more agreeable, "generally", meaning they are better at providing emotional support than men, who are "generally" more disagreeable. This, however, says nothing about what each gender "needs" from "the outside". Or where am I misunderstanding you?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:36 PM
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These small tasks, yes. If you read Scott Adams, he also mentions it. Small everyday tasks are chill and ofc we do it in some calculated manner. This is not what I had in mind at all. But bigger decisions in life, or when we are in crisis situations. As for the sources: I didn't come here to convince you to believe something. I came here - specifically, today, with this thread - asking a question. And here we are, way off topic :) Do I need to cite resources to get an answer to a question?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:15 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149680/ Also, enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:06 PM
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But here you go, neuroticism and agreeableness are statistically higher in women. Happy reading. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149680/
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:05 PM
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This isn't thesis. You can pop up google to fact check me if you feel I said something inaccurate. These biases are related to people thinking they are more rational than they really are. We make a decision - mostly out of gut feeling. After the decision is made, we will start looking up how it makes sense and in what ways that was a good decision. We always take guesses, that's how we live and operate - sometimes we get lucky, and like to believe our success happened not because luck, but becau…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 02:55 PM
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You are making an argument out of the lack of citations. Good for you. You win. If you can't make an argument against what I have said - don't bother either. You are free to look up the statistics on your own time - the rules have changed, we're not doing thesis - you can pop up google and fact check me any time you like.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 02:50 PM
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Okay. But are you talking about trait neuroticism, or emotional expression, emotional response? What do you mean by "being more emotional", anyway? :) Feeling a wider range of emotions? Feeling emotions that men can't? Feeling more frequently than men? There's a suggestion that the difference doesn't kick in from the amount of emotion or expressing it - but what kinds of emotions women experience stronger, and what kinds of emotions men experience stronger. Sauce: http://journals.plos.org/ploson…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 02:41 PM
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The part that makes no sense - I assure you, I did not make that up out of thin air. No need to take my word for it, though, go on ahead and read up on stuff like cognitive bias and confirmation bias. Besides. We're not doing thesis here, we're having a discussion in the internet. So goes for the statistics I can't bother to look up citations for - no need for you to take my word for it, as you are so skeptical (and you should be - as a matter of fact you absolutely should NOT trust anything I s…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 02:19 PM
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Okay, first of all, thanks for responding. Do not discard that to admitting I also added the angle that ALL people do more emotional decisions than they'd like to think. The rationality ALWAYS comes after-the-fact. If you do not "admit" to that - there's a great chance you too are deceiving yourself into the belief that you're a superior logical being :) As for the statistics - I also did say, while statistically there are more unhinged women than men - this isn't necessarily a biological trait …
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 01:46 PM
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I was thinking about getting some plants. Might have the same effect.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 01:11 PM
1

These two guys just might have very different personalities.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 08:14 AM
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Your standards have raised greatly and that is a good thing. It's a good thing you won't get mindblown for every guy that gives you some positive attention. You're going to get mindblown by someone that you truly like and appreciate for the person that he is, not for flattery or a game of cat and mouse. Just keep meeting people.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 07:56 AM
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You can remain silly and funny when you know about more stuff than most people in the room too. People shouldn't really educate themselves to show off with it - they should educate to get to live better lives with it :) The way you are right now will NOT guarantee you a guy who will treat you like crap. It would help you if you could sustain yourself - but if you really don't think that you want to participate in the whole career life, it's not so important. Your friends might be afraid that you…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 06:28 PM
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The only time when it should be appropriate to talk about your hurt or feelings - is TO the person that hurt you or crossed a line. When it comes to this - let's say your partner said something very rude and untrue about you, and you don't want him to do that again, you'd say as it is. It will benefit you if you read up a bit between the differences of "shaming" and "criticising" just so you wouldn't confuse one for another. Criticism is ok in relationships - it's even necessary. Shaming, on the…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 05:17 PM
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This might have to do something with being hopeful that the man knows better and behaves the way he does for a good reason. Women are more in those things agreeable, after all. But it is a dangerous angle. There truly are men out there who are awake, strong, smart and open, and do not shy away from the thought of creating a family together. I'm thinking, and I might be very wrong, that a lot of guys going around doing disks (or whatever you call them) and calling themselves "alfa" are only delud…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 08:57 AM
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Well, what kinds of responses are you expecting for the greetings, gifts, cards? Have you attempted to talk to them about how to live their lives (big mistake, if yes)? No need to try hard and overdo to gain their liking. Better chances if you take it light, don't come off as judgmental (idk what you've attempted to talk about with them, just in case). Be a good listener, when meeting, and they talk, show genuine interest, ask some good question about something they are talking and seem to enjoy…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 07:20 AM
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That sounds reasonable. You defo can, if distance and career were the case before and now those circumnstances have changed. It's harder and sillier to do when there was lies or cheating - very hard to trust oneanother again. That's when they say you shouldn't get back with an ex.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 07:10 AM
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About this leg-shaving stuff - unless you're going to get naked or wear a skirt with see-trough tights or none at all - if you don't mind, there's really no need to shave. Just for occasions where you show your naked legs to the world - maybe would be more civil. Makeup is also something that you don't really need to use - but if you're interested, there's soooo many tutorials on the web these days, you can go google what kind of make up you want and people have already written or videod it all …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 10:17 AM
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I looked some of stuff up on wikihow when I wanted to know how to be a girlier girl. There are decent tuts.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 02:53 PM
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If you find a guy who doesn't demand meeting and chatting every damned day, and you keep chatting for meeting and meeting maybe not so frequently - it's all good. It can also be motivating to keep working on yourself if you find a terrific guy. Danger is when you or the guy will want to spend so much time together your individual lives will come to a standstill.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:04 PM
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we dont become attracted to looks, mental side does the real heavy lifting. personality etc can also be attracting or repelling.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 03:18 PM
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Maybe you've married yourself to a man whom you weren't really attracted to, but appreciated the positive attention he gave to you (and that and its novelty are now gone)?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 02:18 PM
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Can a man randomly improve his unpleasant behaviour unless he is being exposed to shame? Is he even aware that his behaviour is unpleasant to someone until someone really addresses it? Nagging has a specific tone and attitude - I believe this messiness is a thing you can actually talk about while holding responsibility, as well. There is a way to phrase it so that he will feel as if he is making himself more useful for you and the kids - I'm sure you could figure out how to crack that one. Do yo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 08:55 PM
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Yep, you have to sit him down and tell him you want more time for yourself as well, so you can take care of yourself and deal with your own hobbies/interests/development as well, at least for now, as you probably don't sleep well when he is over. It can feel very suffocating when the guy comes over too often and you kinda can't deal with your own stuff, so you two end up wasting time watching familyguy every evening. Ugh! If that happens - it can also be the case that the guy has too much free t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 08:20 PM
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Tasking men to make plans for Valentine's Day is kinda like asking the most bear-looking guy decorate a wedding dress with pearls :D Does he make plans with you on other occasions? Do you go hiking together or do some other activities? It's easier for men if they can get by by bringing flowers and making a heart-shaped cocoa gift or raffaello or whatever is there. It would be refreshing to make other sorts of plans and activities together without special dates either. But here depends how much t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 08:12 PM
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Well, it can always be the case that you are deceiving yourself thinking you're worthless and good for nothing, and use the lack of a sexual partner to confirm that toxic belief. For me - after I stopped looking to sex, partners, other people to validate myself, the sexual frustration... Disappeared. My anxiety sprees and stress has reduced ever since I started walking home from work, spending like 30-45 minutes away from computer, phone - just by myself, thinking whatever OR, when stressed, med…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 08:03 PM
1

How do I avoid bringing previous emotional baggage (i.e an abusive relationship) into future relationships? You drop the belief that it is something that needs to be talked about or discussed. I'm thinking it's not necessary for a good partner to know all your past mistakes - It's important for you to know your past mistakes so you won't repeat them, and based on your experience you live a greater present and a future. As for appearance or health - just be active every day, eat as healthy as you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 10:01 AM
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Being constantly told that I'm ugly (by both men and women), being treated with little to no respect has done a number on my overall self-image. One thing that might help you here is to specifically recall and count down the times and the people that have said this to you, and the people that have treated you disrespectfully. You will probably find that, in fact, you're not "constantly" being called ugly and treated with little to no respect. First thing I want to say - people who make such comm…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 09:33 AM
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Not sure what might be going on in his head. Maybe some evening you could make time for a talk without any distractions and ask him what is his ideal plan for the next 5 years? And how does he see the next 1 year going? Without suggesting or asking for anything, but to deeply listen and understand how he tends to see the short-term future, what is he ready and willing to do about it, and if his vision is anything what you'd like to happen, at all. He'll sure get nervous when you voice yourself a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 09:25 AM
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That's something you get into after you've made sure you're not dealing with a guy with narcissistic tendencies or otherwise pathological issues. Some guys like this start by trying to drill into it right away, investigating for your imperfections, flaws and insecurities to create to themselves a solid reason not to commit. This doesn't smell like a potentially good dynamic. Vulnerability, to me, is a part of true intimacy - you can trust your partner will hold trough and not against you, if you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 09:14 AM
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Maybe for some reason he deeply believes that he isn't worthy of respect - and this doesn't always have to be because of the things you do or say - this belief can also attach itself to people via traumatic experiences trough life. I don't see how it would make sense to show respect with sex, though :) I mean I don't think that's how respect works anyway. The fact that you came here to try and improve your end already is indication that you, in fact, do respect him - but I'm afraid you can't dis…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 08:32 AM
1

Then both handle each other like tools. Attraction is so shallow :)
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:17 PM
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Nono, what I mean... How do you know what HER ulterior motive is? Does she really appreciate what kind of a human being you are or is she just digging for some gratification or validation?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:38 PM
1

People don't randomly turn violent, though. What changed them?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:05 PM
1

Ultimatums have a tendency to not work in the way you expect them to.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:03 PM
1

How can you even tell whether she's really into you... Or is she just delighted that someone good-looking and seemingly smart is giving her some attention?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 11:54 AM
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Must be a sad life for the alfa when he realizes that his jokes might not even be as funny as he intended, the women are only laughing to get into your pants. How shallow would that be? :(
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 11:37 AM
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Self-depreciating jokes are funny and you're not doing them on the account of anything or anyone else. Safe.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 11:36 AM
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Or they claim to love because they are afraid of what is going to happen to them if they dont :2
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:48 AM
1

There's a good gap between realizing how good or bad you look... And seeing what the current "standards" that are considered "beauty" are. Most girls grow up thinking they are supposed to look like someone else - that a woman has to fit a very specific frame, disregarding the variety of forms that us humanoid creatures can develop into. It's not that they are ugly - they are what they are. The problem is them expecting that they are supposed to look like someone else :3 That skin didn't look par…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:47 PM
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Modern cosmetics actually have in them moisturizing and cleansing properties as well. It's not as bad as it used to be I guess. They are doing what they truly believe is the right thing to do - for as long as something in their lives causes them to reconsider. Point fingers at bad parenting, modern society, capitalism and media ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:44 PM
2

Wait, you've never seen a guy with fully-blown acne? You ain't seen shit!
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:42 PM
1

One could say you are missing a crucial link to full completion of becoming teh a l f a - as according this comment of yours you D O seemingly lack in the department of h u m i l i t y . Key component to recognizing your true grade in intellect... If this post triggers you... ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:39 PM
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Well, if you're nervous and you do your nervous-laughter... Is the actual problem the laughter or the fact that you are nervous? As a d craving woman does the laughter bother me or the fact that the guy will possibly covered in nervous sweat and shaking at higher frequencies than a nice high end poositoy once we hit the sheets? You cure the problem and WILL feel at the top of your game when you eradicate your insecurities, not when you cover them up with a fake stern-srs-face. Would be very disa…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:28 PM
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"I want him to seduce me," Can you actually point me to somewhere where this logic is explained? Or if there really is a game like that and they play it? Doesn't sound like humane psychology, but I might have not discovered the area yet.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:05 PM
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Don't mind me, just a nomad. Discovering the wonders of the world. Got sidetracked here from stoics sub. Sending pics of tits is a joke tho. I can get a bit more naturalistic about the problem if you want. Human bodies are filthy bags of skin anyway, constantly oozing all kinds of fluids out of itself, unless you go trough the trouble of trying to cover it all up, shave it, trim it, wipe it, powder it - in a weird level playing to some modern/capitalist agenda, trying to make it seem like trimmi…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:41 PM
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Oh! Does it bother you when a widowed woman can't bring herself to glorify you as the one and only and the best? :o Defo something to look into...
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:13 PM
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Why do you want to sleep with her?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:08 PM
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Sociopaths are capable of making gullible and mentally unstable people slave for them - or those who simply do not have an out in materialistic means, but never anyone who slights and displays a superior moral compass or greater intellect - they will scorn such. And clever people will take their first chance to get off from the radar of a mentally incompetent person (that a sociopath or a narcissist is). If sociopathy was a strategy - it would be shit as it is short term and your slaves would be…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:04 PM
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Did you consider that it could also be not about her insecurity about her body but a slight distrust towards the guy, since genital photos always make a spicy story to tell to your friends, or if not that, then keep in mind there are female horror stories which involve enraged breakups and post-breakup slut shaming (with proof!!!). Maybe a person who isn't willing to send you that photo - is doing the right thing not exposing her/himself to possible future blackmail - it's a safety measure made …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:50 PM
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I can see a way your red pill could have been even... Well. Redder. But good luck o/
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:40 PM
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Not really sure on how to break into brand new social circles or how to choose them, but the next step from there, an old book, found pdf version online, good for reading AND in case you feel like it's time to figure out what makes em tick: http://erudition.mohit.tripod.com/_Influence_People.pdf
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:28 PM
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