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Also, this: The porn and the sex industry are tightly interwoven: Not only do they fluidly exchange women between each other, but pornography actively shapes the sexual fantasies of punters. Because pornified sexuality often goes hand in hand with aggression, if not violence, non-prostituted women tend to refuse to participate – but inside prostitution there is always a woman to be found who can be accessed for any sexual request at all. Consequently sex buyers proudly share their experiences of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:05 PM
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Contrary to common assumptions sex buyers rarely are lonely socially isolated men, instead they are often partnered or married. On punter forums you find them exchanging about their infidelity and complaining about the ‚annoying‘ sexual boundaries of their girlfriends and wives, while coming up with excuses as to why sex buying does not constitute cheating or why cheating on their partner is justified. A common position amongst sex buyers is also that relationships or marriages are comparable to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:34 PM
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These men are degenerate, evil, misogynistic pieces of shit. Prostitution enables and fuels rape culture, sexual violence, and human trafficking, and these men love that. Predators be 'legally' raping women in exchange for 'payment' because yay sex work! /s Tell me again for whom SeX WoRk is empowering?! Not for the millions of the most marginalized women who're left with PTSD for life, IF they even get out of it alive, that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:16 PM
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That's a lot of words to say "he hates me". He can't be changed, but a divorce would change her life for the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:00 AM
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She's been gaslit by both the Redditors and her own damn mother that she overreacted, that his depravity is normal, and she'll now go back to him to CoMmUniCaTe. This is literally, genuinely, absolutely fucking insane. The amount of people claiming it's JuSt a KiNk and FaNtAsY is highly alarming. Just say you hate women and GO! I'm SO angry that yet another man's evil depravity is prioritized over a woman's sanity and safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:36 AM
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Absolutely. You need to become ruthless in your boundaries, and cut men off at the first red flag for the sake of your well-being and literal safety. I read your post from 10 months ago, and it's clear he's a predator who abused you. And him switching back to the good-guy-persona overnight after that talk? That was also part of his manipulation to keep you in his control. Love and abuse cannot co-exist. This might be a good website for you to browse through for starters: https://www.loveisrespec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:15 AM
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Fucking hell, I hope she'll be able to leave him as fast as possible and get herself into safety. Also, let's repeat this once again: R*pe 👏 is 👏 NOT 👏 a 👏 "KiNk"👏❗ Men who have this "KiNk" are rapists, and "KiNk" enables them with a cloak of protection to live out their inner women-hating violent rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:06 AM
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Markiplier isn't as good of a person his fans claim he is. For those who don't know, he ran a year-long project with his co-star friend and production team, called Unus Annus. Every day, they'd upload a video. In one of the videos, he and his friend pretended to having been abducted, tied/taped to chairs, trying to escape, and of course they laughed about it. They turned abduction, a.k.a. this life-destroying crime that's committed against children and adults every damn day, into a laughing stoc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:43 PM
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Woman, who justifyingly k*lled pedophile step-father in self-defense after he tortured her for years, thankfully walks free, as she should! We're coming for you, evil bastards! There, I fixed the damn headlines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:07 PM
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I was away for a little while, and checking back in with FDS felt like stepping into a warm bath 🥰 I'm thankful for such a big community of women, and thank you mods for all of the hard work that you do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:56 PM
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Oh my god, I'm wheezing and nearly crying from laughter over here! You write brilliantly, and are top tier hilarious 😂 thank you for sharing and making my day, and RIP to Taco Jimmy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:26 PM
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What the first predator did to you is sexual abuse, and psychological abuse through gaslighting. His so-called 'reasoning/excuses', pity-play, and his fake 'sorry' are all lies and manipulation tactics. He's a sex offender. The second predator supports, enables, and protects the sex offender, and also abuses you through gaslighting. They are not your friends— they are dangerous, depraved, sex offending men, and you need to get away from them immediately. Kick those sick fucks out of your life, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:41 PM
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Ew, what a disgusting creep! 🤢 I'm so proud of you that you started to recognize the red flags, and you did fantastic cutting contact with him 💪💖 I'd like to point out that he didn't "lose his ability to communicate" as this was never a matter of communication, but abuse. He's an abuser who targeted you, and worn down your boundaries. Next time when a guy displays disrespectful and manipulative behaviour, immediately block him without a single word. You don't owe these scrotes shit. He calls you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:47 AM
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That's where I lost it 🤣 I'm laughing so hard, oh my lord 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:08 PM
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Men who target mentally vulnerable women deserve a special place in hell. What a diabolical piece of shit he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:28 PM
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He's portraying himself as a victim in the hopes of maintaining control over you. Like u/bluebird_wings said: he's gaslighting you. The fact he acts entitled to you after betraying, abusing, endangering, traumatizing, and pushing you into a suicidal crisis, a.k.a. you being the collateral damage of his depravity, solidifies how deranged and dangerous he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:30 PM
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You're so, so welcome 💖 and yes, you absolutely and urgently need help. You can't, nor should, do this alone. You need to inform others about his domestic abuse, for the sake of your literal safety. Calling your mum is a great first step. And sister, you're not the one who should be ashamed. I know these words won't change the fact that you do, but it's important that truth is spoken to you: he did this, so he's the only one who's responsible, guilty, and ought to be blamed and shamed. This isn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:30 PM
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Okay, first: I have never considered suicide before now. I'm really struggling, guys. It's normal and understandable that you're feeling suicidal. The trauma you're being forced through by that piece of shit husband is immense. You're going through a severe crisis. It's crucial that you keep yourself safe, and surround yourself with people who'll take care of you. Do you have trusted people in your life who you can lean on for support, like friends, family, therapist? Then, second: He's a sociop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:13 PM
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"is he dying, why are you doing this?" omg 🙈😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:17 PM
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You're giving him too much grace with your first point. He does understand all of that— and that's exactly why he exploits and weaponizes those vulnerabilities and traumas against her to deliberately inflict the most possible damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:06 PM
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Those fucking pieces of shit. All three of those people are horrendous. The husband is the domestic abuser, and his friend and MoMmY are the enablers. No wonder she doubts herself when she's gaslighted from every damn angle. She needs people who protect her, and who call this psychological violence out. I reckon he's even more abusive against her in private. She's only shared a snippet of his sadism, one which he feels comfortable showing off publicly. I hope she has the resources to leave and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:22 PM
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Her indecision and so-called confusion infuriates me. You're telling me you DoN't KnOw WhAt To Do after your husband sexually abused your sister?! Get the fuck outta here. I'd hate to have a spineless, sex offender-enabling, piece of shit sister like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:37 PM
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Happy belated birthday!! 💖🥳🥂 it sounds like you had a wonderful time celebrating, I'm so happy for you! Also, I love roses 🌹 is pink your fav color for roses as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:41 PM
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Why can't he just fucking apologise when he's wrong, or better yet not take things from the house that I might need!! Because he doesn't care, and he doesn't respect you. It's clear this is a behavioral pattern of his, and not a one-off thing. It looks like you've tried to resolve this with him, and have put up with, for a very long time. If you're thinking of a divorce, like you mentioned, then you can (if you have the resources, of course).You don't need to stay in a marriage with a man who ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:43 AM
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By 'level up' you mean he stopped being an entitled, abusive, disrespectful ass who finally cultivated empathy, common sense, and social skills that are crucial for a healthy and safe relationship? In other words: did he do the bare minimum without you explaining it to him for months like you're his mom and he's your 5 year old child? I truly hope for your sake that he has seriously, massively, genuinely bettered himself. If not, then I hope you have the self-respect (and resources) to walk away…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:26 AM
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omg I love your username and profile pic 💖🥭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:12 PM
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local cops were having sex with raping an underaged sex worker child. There, I fixed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:24 PM
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No, absolutely not. In fact, doing so could be potentially very dangerous in such a situation. Reporting a policeman to the police, means reporting him to his buddies. Police protect each other. It's the reason why so many male cops can freely abuse their girlfriends, wives, previous dates, and others without consequence, and why many of the women are left without an escape and/or protection. The woman in this post made the right decision by moving away from the threat, and getting herself into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:15 PM
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This is why I always strongly advice women to never match with cops or military men on dating apps, or god forbid: actually date them. The risk of these men being power-tripping psychos is too damn high as they work in systems that are inherently violent to women, that grands them positions of immense power, and that protects them when they do us harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:58 PM
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Ioannis Dekas, a father of four sons, became concerned after he found one of his boys had accessed pornography. "In the two weeks leading up to this moment, we'd noticed a drastic change in his behaviour, withdrawal, a sense of anger towards his siblings, we could sense frustration in his life." When he and his wife talked to their son, they found he was under peer pressure to be familiar with the language of porn. Vanessa Morse, head of the Centre to End All Sexual Exploitation, said there was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:27 AM
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I believe it's misogyny, projection, and gaslighting all in one. Misogyny: this one is self-explanatory. These men consume porn in which abuse of women is central, and they hate women who're empowered enough to not welcome porn in a partnership. Projection: they project their own behaviours onto all men, because they want to feel empowered in numbers. Gaslighting: it's psychological coercion, control, and abuse. They want to erode women's boundaries, needs, standards, sense of self, self-esteem,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:25 AM
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I hear you completely, this shit is soul-crushing. Make sure to take breaks from this stuff whenever you need, your mental and emotional well-being comes first, okay? ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:04 PM
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Exactly! That argument exposes the cruelty of people. Redirecting that threat to the most vulnerable women of society doesn't solve men's depravity— it enables them, and it makes women the collateral damage (as usual 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:59 PM
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Are you okay sis? Please take care of yourself 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:49 PM
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When asked what would end ­prostitution, one interviewee laughed and said, "kill all the girls." [...] Discovering the women were ­trafficked, pimped or otherwise coerced would appear not to be so ­effective. One of the most interesting findings was that many believed men would "need" to rape if they could not pay for sex on demand. Bob, who said, "look, men pay for women because he can have whatever and whoever he wants. Lots of men go to prostitutes so they can do things to them that real wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:00 PM
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How awful of her to do that to you! You took all of that effort to see her, and she completely disrespected you. Also, her blaming a child for her shit behavior is appaling. Girl, you deserve friends who match the effort, respect, and love that you give others. You deserve better 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:10 PM
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Aww thank you!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:06 PM
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I like my girls to be feminine, submissive, cooperating, happy for the opportunities that I create Translation: I'm a sociopath who hates women! Now let me abuse you, fleshlight. 🤢🤮🖕 She handled it great, though! Block, delete, next 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:31 PM
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LVM viewing women for him to use as bridges into a better life for himself, even though he brings abso-fucking-lutely nothing of value to her life? How surprising! /s Seriously, what the fuck. The last thing on any sane person's mind in that situation would be dating. He's a leech seeking a woman to suck the life out off in order to revive his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:22 PM
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choking your Dorito-dust-covered wiener This has me wheezing omg 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:31 PM
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What you're describing are trauma symptoms. Prolonged exposure to traumatic environments (like having been abused for a lifetime) will wreck a human being on every level, including physically and thus also cognitively. There are various trauma treatments available, depending on where you live of course. In your case, the most crucial element will be safe relationships with people (and animals are wonderful to start with too!), which includes potential therapists— relational trauma can only be he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:27 PM
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I looked it up, and found this: Slaanesh, also known as the Dark Prince, the Prince of Pleasure, the Lord of Excess, the Perfect Prince, and even the Prince of Chaos in the Imperium of Man, is the Chaos God of pleasure, excess and decadence. Lust, pride and self-indulgence are the hallmarks of all who follow it. YUCK. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:11 PM
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Ah yes, but of course, vanilla sex is the problem, not the violent pornification of society! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:06 PM
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Also we are conditioned by society to perpetually be in therapy. When I analyze it, it’s actually pretty obscene. We pay to share our innermost traumas with a complete stranger who may not understand or validate our experiences. This, and everything you wrote after it, is spot-on and I couldn't have articulated it better myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:47 PM
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Agreed, this was such an important highlight! Predatory men weaponize women's history of trauma to their benefit. These men look for signs of prior grooming and abuse (and many other factors that makes a woman vulnerable) because they know that makes women easier to be manipulated, controlled, and abused. Often, women don't even need to explicitly talk about their traumas for these men to pick up on the small ways in which the signs of trauma show up, for example: when women act surprised when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:40 PM
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Wait, what— VAGINA GLUE?! All of these men got shit for brains. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:28 PM
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The fact that you invited a near stranger to your van, alone, at night??? Exactly! The fact he doesn't see this as an issue to a woman's safety speaks volumes. His attitude towards women is the real problem here. Plenty of women choose the van lifestyle for themselves or with trusted partners, not with some random man they don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:44 PM
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pixie wanderlust fairies Isn't this part of the manic pixie dream girl trope men fetishize? Oh fuck off, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:22 PM
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You don't sound like a pick me— you sound and behave like a woman who's in a relationship with an abuser of a man; a woman who absolutely made the right choice of getting herself out of that unsafe situation into physical safety. Your husband doesn't respect you, nor love you. Love and abuse cannot co-exist. He mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually abuses you: he negs, manipulates, coerces, sexually assaults, neglects, degrades, and burdens you. This is what a man does who truly loves, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:13 PM
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BuT iT's JuSt A fAnTaSy, iT's JuSt a KiNk! Yup, this is enough nightmare fuel for me today. Excuse me while I go and deep cleanse my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:37 PM
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An ex gave me the same damn excuse! These abusive fuckwits know exactly what they're doing, they simply play dumb to avoid accountability and to continue controlling you after they're caught. Great to see you broke off that engagement! 💪🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:33 PM
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The lights are on but nobody's home. Holy fuck, this send shivers down my spine. It's so spot on. I also know that look all too well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:32 PM
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Just when you thought it couldn't get any worse in the UK, it did. Once again, the RePuTaTiOn of men is valued and protected more than the safety of women. Bunch of misogynistic clowns 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:42 AM
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What really resonated with me was this point that we are asked to see degradation as elevation. That the men who find arousal in hurting us are somehow not misogynists. That the bedroom is not an arena of "real life", but somehow removed from our day to day. It's deeply cruel. When violence shows up in other parts of our lives, we are allowed to reflect and call it out. So why not here? Wow, you articulated this perfectly— thank you for that. I couldn't agree more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:37 PM
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The LVM is just oozing out of him. How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:06 PM
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