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Sorry I deleted my comment, I decided to ask the other question because I was slightly confused a kit what your opinion was. Thanks for clearing that up for me. The question I was answering was the one toward the end of OP’s post: what’s the harm in pleasing the guy if you are not actually horny I listed a few potential harms. Obviously this doesn’t occur all the time for every woman or even most. I don’t view anyone’s libido or desire- high or low- as “reasonable” or “unreasonable”- it just is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:19 PM
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earlier, you replied “100% agree” to this statement: I think anyone who views nothing but physical ailments as “valid” reasons for not wanting to habe sex is not mature enough to be having sex. Just now you said the exact opposite: Unless you have a reasonnable reason (illness, trauma, ...) , my guess is that you're selfish. Which is it? Are you trolling or just confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:51 PM
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For entertainment K, then, how was time “wasted”? Are you not entertained? I might not be understanding. I think very few people expect their partners to have the libido to reduce their ability consciously and at will. What’s being discussed is the respect of people’s personal boundaries such that- regardless of your libido- , you aren’t coercing or pressuring the person you supposedly love to do things they don’t want, which can have terrible effects on them and on the relationship. Every perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:41 PM
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Why ask my opinion if you don’t want to hear it? That isn’t a question. It’s a bunch of numbers. What is your question? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:13 PM
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Well first of all, the idea that that’s a “compromise” is not necessarily one that she agrees with. Oral sex is sex. “Handjobs” are also sex acts. The idea that these things are “compromises” is tied up in the idea that they’re not sex, somehow. Some women might be more willing to do them, but others view them all the same. Sometimes it isn’t about the specifics. I don’t think anyone is “immature and selfish” for having desires, it’s how you treat people when they can’t fulfill them that matters…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:08 PM
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I think anyone who views nothing but physical ailments as “valid” reasons for not wanting to have sex is not mature enough to be having sex. Let alone the misogynist view that sex is something men “get” from women. Gross. Never mentions “once a month or less”, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:55 PM
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most women are adults and not one step from being disordered Interesting way to describe unwanted sex. ALL of us are potentially one traumatic event away from developing a psychological disorder. your opinion is very low if you believe this I’m sorry these aren’t my opinions, these are the opinions of psychology. Unwanted sex can cause trauma, and Trauma causes trauma responses. It’s really simple. A woman’s “resilience” has nothing to do with it. If only because- as I said- these same things ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:41 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean by implying loving relationships require one partner to do all the emotional labor, can you clarify? in return for half of every dollar a man earns Women own 32 cents to men’s dollar, we don’t even get to keep half of our own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:35 PM
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Dude. I literally quoted him. You apparently didn’t read it, so I’ll do it again: should you not have sex with him whenever he wants How are we to interpret this? your understanding of the OP is so far from what OP meant Then he should be more clear. I understood him to say that women have to literally have physical ailment to be “excused” from sex they don’t feel like having. those are the first two words of the post title And then in the actual body of the post he talks about something almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:31 PM
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That couldn’t be because you spend too much time in an echo chamber that stereotypes us, could it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:28 PM
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I’m guessing that what you, yourself, experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:19 PM
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If he’s done all he can, then the next step is divorce, logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:19 PM
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he’s saying that it shouldn’t be that hard for the wife to try to please her husband once in a while No. He says the exact opposite: should you not have sex with him whenever he wants His post talks about the natural lessening of libido over time that pretty much the vast majority of couples experience as lust morphs into agape love. Nowhere does he refer to a “dead bedroom”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:18 PM
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Therapy can be very helpful, and there’s a huge number of books on the subject. Emily Nagoski is highly recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:14 PM
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I’m a woman. Is this where you say that women want to be treated like garbage by men only? It’s really funny, being called a snowflake by the same person who just outright admitted that seeing women have opinions he doesn’t agree with reduces him to incivility. Projection at its greatest. Your precious experience is “valid”, it’s just not objective reality and therefore maybe not very relevant to anything. I am curious about who doesnt want to be “comfortable” in their relationships, though. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:10 PM
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You would be a “headcase” if you were coerced into sex enough times and under distressing enough circumstances. What makes you think your mind is so very special?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:08 PM
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Not sure where you got this idea. It’s specifically when those acts are unwanted that these reactions can occur. Enthusiastic consenting sex where neither party feels obligated or coerced doesn’t produce these.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:07 PM
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By twenty minutes a week lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:05 PM
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I’m sorry, you seem confused. Any woman (or person) could potentially develop those disorders from unwanted sex. They are the mind’s attempt to protect itself from trauma. They aren’t, as you imply, the mind consciously or unconsciously designating the man as abusive (?!) and then responding accordingly. No idea where you got that idea from. these are simply adult acts that married people do Maybe your grandmother did, modern women don’t have to put up with men who push them into unwanted sex an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:04 PM
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who is getting a bad deal The person who’s doing the most unpaid labor. Every time. If that’s “ridiculous”, y’all can always start donating those extra hours you work relative to women to your employer, wage free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:59 PM
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Sorry, those are all adaptive responses to unwanted sex. You’re a bit confused on chicken vs egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:54 PM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:48 PM
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you didn’t date women I do, actually. Shows where assuming gets you. you just can’t expect kind answers when you (women) are repeating the same annoying crap over and over and over Yes, why should we expect decency and civility when you are so clearly heavily burdened by having to hear women’s thoughts and ideas that aren’t congruent with your own? I can see how that would be enraging. The rest is just woman-hating drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:47 PM
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You don’t care if your child sits in filthy diapers and starves? You don’t care if there is rotting food in your fridge?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:44 PM
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Er, more accurately, you’d pretend you were leaving, to emotionally coerce her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:43 PM
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You can’t turn babies on and off, silly willy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:42 PM
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I think you’re confused. Those problems are caused by unwanted sex. You’re saying that any woman who develops psychologically adaptive disorders like these in response to unwanted sex from her husband is the one not ready for relationships? What does “enough to solve these issues” refer to? “The issue” is one party insisting on having unwanted sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:41 PM
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guys get a raw deal By what metric? Their wives do the lion’s share of the housework and childcare and overall emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:39 PM
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Because mothering and domestic work are 24/7 jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:38 PM
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Is he? Then why do men have more money to spend on personal hobbies and interests? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:38 PM
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But the most sensible option is to stay with a woman and have sex when you both want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:34 PM
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These statistics do not add up to 24 hours...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:33 PM
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I hate playing games Didn’t you just say you pretend like you’re going to abandon a woman to trick her into having sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:32 PM
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According to your link, men work more than women for anywhere between twenty minutes and two hours over a week. They have a minimum of three hours more than women of leisure time a week, up to five hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:31 PM
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Ew. No wonder why y’all had to invent a whole worldview to explain why women don’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:30 PM
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If getting paid is “irrelevant”, are y’all gonna start doing those extra work hours for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:28 PM
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No, no, it doesn’t refer to “hobbies”, it literally says “leisure time”, IE time that is not otherwise accounted for in one’s day, in which one can do as one pleases. Do y’all use the extra time to watch marvel movies, or play video games? Omg please tell me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:27 PM
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Those are scientifically normal ways human beings psychologically cope with unwanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:25 PM
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No, I did before, that part escaped me, somehow. What do y’all do with the extra leisure time, though?! Do you take a nap? Read a book? Work on creative pursuits?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:24 PM
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You mean other than the fact that men’s “extra” work is PAID work, and have hours and hours more leisure time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:22 PM
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I am now. Holy shit, men have five more hours of leisure time every single week?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:21 PM
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Men work two hours longer than their wives every single day, including weekends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:18 PM
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Men work TWO HOURS more than their wives every single day?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:15 PM
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Who views wiping their baby’s ass as a “choice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:15 PM
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Yeah, and They get paid for it. And it doesn’t involve wiping up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:03 PM
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Lmao 🤣 We were talking about domestic labor, not paid labor. (although it’s 90% women cleaning up shit in their paid jobs, too.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:01 PM
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I feel like it’s made up bullshit tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:01 PM
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not necessarily solely individual to their relationships Words have meanings. “Individual” does not apply to a situation where one sex does significantly more if not all of the housework the entire world over. If women were paid just minimum wage for all the free domestic and care work they do annually, men would be out 1.5 TRILLION dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:55 PM
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It’s not larger than the housework gap. Women work two extra hours in the home every day compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:54 PM
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Because tinkering with spreadsheets is a sweeter gig than cleaning up literal shit. Honestly, this sub sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:53 PM
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I was arguing that being a stay at home isn’t comparable to working an actual job so it shouldn’t be treated as such. Right. And I responded by pointing out that if you contracted an outside laborer to do the same tasks that she does for free, it would cost you $100k easily with childcare. So the work is actually far more valuable to you than most “actual” jobs. just making a graph out of a small sample size are saying is not scientific Oof. What “science” are you referring to when you said men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:50 PM
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Hm. I must be the opposite. I want nothing to do sexually with men who can’t be arsed to commit. A guy trying to “keep me on my toes” would be ghosted before it ever got to that stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:47 PM
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Mostly by women. So they apparently didn’t have too many objections to the arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:45 PM
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I’m not going to try to explain to you how unwanted sex acts are psychologically damaging. If you don’t intuitively know that, there’s no help for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:44 PM
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I’m sorry, it’s actually closer to two hours a day. Sorry scientific facts are “pedantic”, but doesn’t that speak volumes of your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:42 PM
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Are young people over represented in the bottom two economic groups, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:37 PM
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most couples I know split the housework You know beyond a doubt that they are all exceptions to the national average where women do an extra 1.5 hours of housework every single day? How do you know this? stay at home wives are not comparable to women with jobs Very true, since they’re doing work which, if contracted out, would easily equal a hundred thousand dollars annually. For free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:34 PM
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Those can be unwanted, too, y’know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:33 PM
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The vast majority of people wind up married, so what does “marriagable” mean? It cost us $75 just to have our small 3 room studio MOPPED, and we don’t even have children. Zero other cleaning or house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:31 PM
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You stick a dildo in your butt to help you sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:28 PM
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Ah okay. I guess women can just stop doing all the housework, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:27 PM
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Most people aren’t rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:26 PM
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You don’t have to “see it like that”, that’s literally what can happen. If you think making tea for your mother is comparable to unwanted penetration, idk what to tell you, you’re fundamentally incapable of accurate comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:25 PM
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what’s in it for the men? A loving lifelong partnership with your best friend? A 24/7 unpaid domestic and childcare worker and broodmare?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:21 PM
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what’s the harm Sexual Aversion Disorder. Disassociation. Vaginismus. Forcing yourself to have sex when you don’t want it is a great way to fuck yourself up mentally, if not your entire relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:19 PM
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The food supply and the lack of activity come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:06 PM
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there are a lot more younger people hitting the gym, getting into “fitness” as a lifestyle etc Do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:03 PM
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That’s just obesity. Overweight is another category. The prevalence of obesity was 40.0% among young adults aged 20 to 39 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:01 PM
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So you don’t go back to eating “normal” (too many) calories. That’s what maintenance requires. Every person who’s sustained weight loss has done that by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:59 PM
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less than the majority of the next generation of men will have access to these resources Omg that’s so sad maybe get your 81% male Congress, 67% male Supreme Court, 71% male state congresses, 82% male state governors, and 63% male city mayors to change some policies so you can better maintain your ownership of every dollar to women’s 32 cents! most high school dropouts are boys Yes, Despite from-birth and constant encouragement of boys to be smart (while their female peers receive looks-based co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:19 AM
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even the idea that beauty is some objective quality that women possess while men do not is a heterosexual male idea. Women having to compete to be seen as desirable by the standards that men create in order to gain access to the resources that men control is not a “privilege”, not even a benefit. It’s an awful part patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:00 AM
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since we live in a patriarchal society women can influence their privilege Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:28 AM
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Sorry, what sex were Nazi soldiers, again? What sex was their leader? It sounds like yet another problem created by men is being compared to the things men did to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:21 AM
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But we all understand that men are generally taller than women. Which is most obviously what anyone means when they say that. I never said beauty wasn’t “associated” with women, I don’t know where you’d get that. The point is that it’s beauty- NOT just femaleness- on which women’s value rests. I don’t see how it’s a “privilege” for your societal value to be contingent on the extent to which men want to rail you, quite the opposite. Sociologists agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:09 AM
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It ISNT wrong- technically or otherwise- to say that guys are taller, because they are. It’s not a matter of applying the general to the specific, it’s the principle being applied in the first place. The fact that most women meet the requirement is irrelevant to the fact that it is a requirement to have value, it is NOT “inherent” to being female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:47 AM
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The existence of “Ugly girls” is EXACTLY my point- this “value” women have is NOT “inherent”, it depends on the extent to which you possess certain qualities. Some women have them in spades, some women are considered repellent. That’s the opposite of what the word “inherent” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:18 AM
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It doesn’t explain why someone else has the AMOUNT of money in excess of what you have (middle class people might have thousands of dollars more than those in poverty, do poor people, then, gamble/drink/snort away thousands of dollars?) nor does it capture the relative benefit of this behavior (a few hours of pleasure which allow you to relax after your backbreaking/mindnumbing job tolerable such that you don’t just kill yourself from misery). It’s also ironic that you’ve linked numerous studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:45 AM
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If I told you all candy bars are good candy bars because they are candy bars and then you tried to give me one, and I said this candy bar has gross nuts in it and is only useful as a doorstop, that would contradict my earlier statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:38 AM
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My question was an if-then. That means the seeming contradiction between the two clauses is the point, not just answering the second half like a standalone question...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:34 AM
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women have higher or lower value based on subjective levels of attractions individuals have towards them Yeah, so that’s the exact opposite of what “inherent” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:31 AM
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If all women are “presumed sexual partners”, and this is inherent to their being female, then why is there a pressure on women to look fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:25 AM
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You didn’t claim they’re a “net negative”, you claimed those things were the causes. I’ll ask one more time for a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:24 AM
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Then why did you claim that they’re in poverty because of those choices? And then refuse to provide evidence for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:05 AM
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I think you mean “inherent”. “Inherit” refers to something being passed to you from prior generations. I never said they were “equal”. on one hand you claimed girls are born with inherent value and later on referenced women’s worth being primarily tied to being considered fuckable. Those things can’t both be true. Is female worth inherent or is it contingent on being fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:03 AM
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Do you not understand that no one ever argued that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:59 PM
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You’re either stupid or a troll. Begone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:56 PM
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But you haven’t cited any evidence yet. Just claims. Over and over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:36 PM
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So why didn’t your comment address the men of your city? (With the caveat that it’s not based on any local data, but your own personal perceptions?) Why should men make life decisions based on anything other than hard data?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:35 PM
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That isn’t your claim, so no. Figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:33 PM
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Other than gambling, drugs, and alcohol, man. And No. You’ve provided zero studies to support your overall claim. I’m getting bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:30 PM
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So what are the other personal choices that cause people to be poor (again, with some economists/psychologists stating that this is the case)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:18 PM
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An hour and a half every single day over a lifetime is a mindboggling amount of time. What makes you think the men and women you know are representative of society at large?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:13 PM
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So when I asked if poor people choose to be poor, and you answered with yeah, they do, tbh. They are the primary users of drugs, alcohol, gambling. The second statement was meant to be taken as completely unrelated to the first?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:02 PM
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I want a source that supports your claim that personal vices are the primary factor in one’s relative likelihood of being in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:00 PM
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But Why should men care more about your personal experiences than the actual scientific data? In the U.S., women spend about four hours a day on unpaid work, compared with about 2.5 hours for men according to data from the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:59 PM
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No one ever denied that the poor spend more on these vices. Your claim was that these vices are what causes them to be in poverty. None of these studies show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:55 PM
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And how is that relevant to your claim that people are in poverty on a systemic level because of personal choices? You made a claim but don’t seem willing to support it with evidence, preferring instead to link to other tangentially-related studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:52 PM
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I was asking you if that’s what you were asking And I said no, and that the idea that it was is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:50 PM
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Who said it wasn’t? You don’t seem capable of even understanding what the question is, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:50 PM
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Okay, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:48 PM
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That’s irrelevant. The question is whether those things (or any other personal choices, really) are currently understood by economists, psychologists, or literally anybody respectable to cause poverty on a systemic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:47 PM
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waves to the troll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:46 PM
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You are asking me how to communicate with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:46 PM
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You post unironically in the Jordan Peterson sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:44 PM
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Oh, sorry, didn’t see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:43 PM
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You’re saying that if you interact with a LOT of people from an area, that that must mean those people are representative? My perception...is very accurate. How do you know? Have you compared it against actual data? Do you think most people can adequately recall 12,000 interactions over 7 years and analyze them all, avoiding every single human bias? or are you exceptional somehow? >an upscale suburb Is most of your country an “upscale suburb”? If not, why would your area be representative?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:33 PM
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girls are born with inherent value a woman’s pressure to look beautiful for society Which is it? it just doesn’t match up with our biological feelings Our biological feelings are largely influenced by our culture. Something being biological doesn’t mean it’s eternal or unchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:27 PM
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I don’t recall making any claims about “all men” being or not being anything, feel free to quote where I did. You scoffed at the idea that any men of yesteryear cheated or lost their jobs or became alcoholic or abusive. Which is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:22 PM
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Do you have actual evidence that those two things are related or is it your own personal character judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:17 PM
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Then don’t ask about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:16 PM
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Really? Ask your grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:14 PM
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Your original claim was that women are taking all the good high paying jobs. Then I asked why men have so very much more money, and you said “well that’s women’s fault because they didn’t choose the good high paying jobs”. Make up your mind. Very interesting how that article repeatedly refers to women “controlling” wealth and not OWNING it, especially since it noted the continued dollar per dollar gender pay gap. Women being dependent on their husbands for things the house and the children need …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:10 PM
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What makes you think: A your area is representative B your personal perceptions of said area are accurate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:06 PM
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Yes. Men love it if you are “intimidating” in male-identified ways, IE careerist, sports fanatic, video games, blunt communication, etc, because they, themselves share those values/hobbies, but if you tell them you won’t tolerate gendered slurs or any sexist behavior, watch them hightail it away, calling you a bitch all the while. It entirely depends on what kind of “intimidating” behavior. This whole thread is an example, tbh. “I love intimidating women, so long as they don’t step out of line i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:29 PM
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A lot of us are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:26 PM
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So if it’s all a matter of lifestyle choices, why do we talk about age as if it’s so important?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:25 PM
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No. I know this is hard for y’all to understand because you, yourselves, are incapable of making any argument other than ones affecting you, personally, but I’ve never had the misfortune of being with a man who did less than half of the housework and defended it with his personal choice to work more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:23 PM
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You’re saying that because you personally know a few women who make more than you, that negates all the available statistical date on which sex owns the most wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:21 PM
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But they do choose it for some bizarre reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:20 PM
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both men and women are capable of choosing their lifestyle. How would a woman “choose” to have her husband spend more hours on domestic work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:19 PM
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Ooo yes most of the world is poor because they love it oh so much Imagine believing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:16 PM
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So men are choosing to work more even though according to you this is exactly why they do far far less childcare and domestic work, and women like complaining about it simply because they’re neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:15 PM
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Who is forcing men to work more? women like to complain LMAO there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:12 PM
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I wish y’all would read your own damn studies. The conclusion says that men’s lack of full time employment likely causes more divorces not because of gendered expectations but because it’s more likely to be involuntary: It is possible that husbands’ less than full- time employment is associated with marital disruption more strongly than wives’, not because of gendered interpretations of lack of full-time employment, but because husbands’ part-time employment or nonemploy- ment is more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:11 PM
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By who?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:08 PM
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I don’t assume that the disparity is because men are forcing women to do anything. Why not? If women are complaining so much about the division of domestic labor, isn’t that a hint that they’d rather work more hours at work if you’d notice that the dishes need to be done and do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:07 PM
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Not everyone is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:05 PM
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men can’t demand otherwise Why? Maybe because men choose to get their identity from their work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:05 PM
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women more likely to work part time But the majority of women work full time their standard of cleanliness is simply far higher That doesn’t explain the massive discrepancy, only part of it. It also doesn’t explain the huge gap in hours spent on childcare. Are women “disgusted” by their own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:01 PM
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Then why do men have so much more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:59 PM
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Women still do the vast majority of both housework and childcare, most of them while also working fulltime outside the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:58 PM
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Women still do the vast majority of both housework and childcare, most of them while also working full time outside the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:55 PM
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Men sent other men to war, therefore women being subjugated to men was a better deal. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:54 PM
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Then why do women still do the vast majority of both housework and childcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:53 PM
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Men don’t have to be taught to value homemaking and childcaring in their partners because women do the vast majority of it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:52 PM
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Imagine talking about bullying like it’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:25 PM
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I just like to see what people take pictures of...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:14 PM
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I think the objections can best be understood by you coming right out and describing the process as “TARGETING” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:13 PM
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How many people in the west are at their bone-determined minimum waist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:01 AM
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Only 25% of American women are not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:36 AM
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It’s “weird” that I don’t form my opinions about reality based on what I’m “told” by PPDers? You take the term that social scientists and psychologists came up with to describe a specific process and say it’s not real science but at the same time “men get objectified by women, too!”? Pick one. Is it real or not? A lot of people “feel” global warming isn’t real, that doesn’t really change what’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:32 AM
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There’s really not much scientific evidence of hierarchy among humans prior to around 10,000 years ago. The rest was pure drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:19 AM
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Your waist is not a bone. It can be reduced by entire FEET if you’re overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:16 AM
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The average American woman is 5’4”. FWIW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:15 AM
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As if women don’t think similarly about men? No, there’s not any research that suggests we do. From studies of how the human brain reacts to images of other people, to research on the psychology of sexual encounters, to street harassment, there’s basically no evidence that anyone but women are sexually objectified on a societal scale. Men aren’t hyperconscious of how their lipstick looks, they’re not starving themselves so they’ll be considered attractive. It is global warming denier-level BS to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:09 AM
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“Objectification” is a sociological and psychological term with definitions in those fields. It doesn’t merely mean “attraction”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:02 AM
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women form social circles absolutely differently and for different reasons than guys How?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 11:56 PM
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They’re the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:58 PM
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women who Initiate contact are all competing for the same 25% of men Lawl “Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-rated females, while plenty of potentially charming, even cute, girls go unwritten.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:34 PM
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Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:21 PM
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It’s also not Reddit anecdote-land
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:16 PM
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every time I’ve had first time sex with a woman it was pre commitment And what makes you think your personal experience with women is representative? close to 90% of women aren’t virgins post college Most women also have at least one boyfriend in college, so this fact means nothing. do you really think most of them had bfs in those years who they had sex with, after commitment only? Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:13 PM
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Ok? And what makes you think those women are representative?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:10 PM
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Yes. Same as if he wanted to degrade me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:43 AM
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Those aren’t equivalent to sane people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:40 AM
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There’s a difference between wanting to show someone off and them needing to meet the approval of the people who care about you the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:35 AM
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No one claimed they didn’t. The question is what proportion of women and how often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:59 AM
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Why would grown women bother with men who don’t want what the women want? I can see being easily deluded about this when you’re a teen or young adult, but grown women make it clear what they want from the get go. Also, Are you trying to sound Grog-like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:16 AM
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Usually having to spend a lot of effort on something means that thing is somehow better than what’s easily had. You’re asserting women want something BECAUSE it’s harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:12 AM
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Yeah of course, why would women want to spend less than the maximum effort to get what they want? /s This is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:08 AM
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Say what now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:57 AM
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It’s 2020, sex outside relationships isn’t taboo. So why would their egos need “salving”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:51 AM
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Excuse me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:47 AM
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You realize a relationship is a prerequisite for sex for many/most women, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:33 AM
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women’s happiness declined after they had to work too Yeah because they still had to do everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:10 PM
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it seems that these societies produce stable families and contentment Honor killings aside, you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:09 PM
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What makes you think your personal experiences are representative of 3.5 billion female human beings, to the point where you feel you can “correct” an internet stranger on her own preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:59 PM
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🙌🏻 melt the snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:23 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:23 PM
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I agree that men in general have those qualities, but not that PPD men exhibit them. Lulz.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:20 PM
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Fascinating that such a lengthy article written about appearances doesn’t have a single photo of what it’s talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:21 PM
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Cringe x3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:14 PM
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That’s not what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:14 PM
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I quoted you verbatim. If you wanted to qualify that statement, why didn’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:00 PM
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until like...the 60’s And what else happened in the 60’s? any more than prohibition proves people started drinking in the 1930’s I literally said these things existed thousands of years ago. And that that wasn’t the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:59 PM
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A woman squirming and morning is bare minimum to keep it from being called “star fish sex”. “Star fish sex” is a phrase used to shame women who don’t outwardly act like porn stars during sex, whether or not they’re enjoying what’s happening. When I have sex, my eyes are tightly shut and I’m mostly still and silent, focusing on the sensations and trying to orgasm. It never even occurs to my body to move or make noise, and it would be acting if I did. Good to know my natural sexual responses are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:55 PM
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The fact that these acts existed thousands of years ago doesn’t change that in modern Western history, they were uncommon prior to the popularization of pornography- here one woman writes about blowjobs going from an out there sex act to commonplace, within her lifetime: ...the increased banality of the blow job is perplexing. When I was a teenager, in the bad-taste, disco-fangled '70s, fellatio was something you graduated into. Rooted in the great American sport of baseball, the sexual metaphor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:48 PM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:01 PM
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I suspect it’s a code expression You suspect wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:33 AM
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There are unemployed drug addicts with a rotating harem of women, you’re off your rocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:25 PM
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Stopped reading at “feminist credentials” I guess you were forced to take their badges and clearance away? Tsk, tsk. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:16 AM
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Women-only (black only, gay only, etc) groups are treated differently because minority/disenfranchised groups typically form to talk about oppression or commiserate about their experiences. Your example- women-only gyms exist because women are constantly getting creeped on and hit on. Men-only (white only, straight only, etc) groups have historically existed so that these groups can maintain or consolidate power over the other. So from the get go, the latter is going to be treated with more susp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:52 PM
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I think men are more likely to try to win people over through performance in general, whether it’s buddies or women. I know several class/group clowns who at one point or another gave me the impression they were insecure with themselves or consciously tried to get people to like them (I’m an avid people watcher, being socially anxious myself, and I feel like I notice things others might be oblivious to). So you get hilarious dudes who will do outrageous things to entertain others, to the point o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:30 PM
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I really think it’s the material. We tend to laugh at things we can understand and relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:16 PM
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All my favorite comedians are women, and the class clown in my high school class was indisputably a girl. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:15 PM
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Okay, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:36 PM
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I associate “ambition” with “career-obsessed”, and i’d much rather someone who works to live and is laid back. I don’t know what “no future” means, unless someone is planning on dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:02 PM
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Same girl. I don’t want a hulking knuckledragger who talks over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:53 AM
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Muscular- not attracted at all Aggressive- not attracted at all Ambitious- not attracted at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:50 AM
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It sounds like you just haven’t bothered to seek out any good female artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:59 PM
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No one said anything about emaciated women. The question is: do you like fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:43 PM
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Be not fat and not old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:07 PM
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Coco Rosie ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:01 PM
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Uh Most modern artists don’t write their own shit Just because they sing about relationships doesn’t mean that’s what they’d sing about ideally, they do because that’s what sells How does the content of their songs have to do with their real life? What are male artists singing about that’s so different? Are you talking about female artists in general or the tiny subset of female artists who chart in pop music/get on the Radio? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 10:57 PM
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women don’t get shamed for hugging each other, cuddling platonically, even holding hands Uh, yeah, that is not normal in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:12 PM
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This sounds fascinating. And very sad. I’m going to look her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:24 AM
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I’m too ugly yes all those things are true Savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:23 AM
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