LadyCatTree Archive

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1	Why Your Text Game Sucks I wouldn't say I find it weird, but it puts me on the spot. It doesn't give me time to think, and I'm not very confident on the phone so I spend the whole time feeling awkward and on edge. Not to mention, a phone call requires almost 100% of your attention. If I get a call while I'm doing something else, I've got to choose between the two, and it's not always convenient to talk. At least if I get a text, I can read it, reply and then carry on with what I was doing until I get another response.	/r/seduction	20/06/13 02:07 PM
3	So what's the etiquette on first dates? Do I pay or is it cool she pays her own way in? I agree with this. Particularly if a guy suggests an activity (or springs a surprise on me), I will make the assumption that he's offering to take me, not that he's expecting me to pay half without any discussion of cost. When it comes to casual drinks, I would hope that he would buy the first round, but I would then offer to buy the second one. I'm more than happy to split costs over the evening, but a guy being nitpicky about buying me a coke on our first date will look stingy, not assertive.	/r/seduction	20/06/13 01:36 PM