LadyGeoscientist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
83	Do I have to spell it out for you?	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	LadyGeoscientist	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 02:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How all of the "Chad" stuff really sounds You know actual nerds can be attractive, take care of themselves, and be attentive partners, right? Nerds also tend to have money.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 01:01 AM
17	I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a man I had a conversation with a friend about how there's nothing romantic about marriage and he told me he was sad for me and hope that changes. Marriage is a business decision... you're choosing to meld your finances, choosing your life partner, choosing who's going to share responsibilities with you, support your career, and ultimately make end of life decisions for you (or you them). You can fall in love with anyone, but if you don't honestly trust them to save money, to support you (while contin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 02:15 PM
16	Ladies, yet another manipulation tactic we should be aware of! This one is more subtle and absolutely terrifying. Christ, did you date R Kelly?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 06:29 AM
11	Don’t get mattress-fished ladies - make sure he washes his sheets weekly. 🧺🛌 Don't wash it with soap!! Boil the crusties off, oil it, and burn off the excess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 07:22 AM
13	It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it is Really a great tool if you're in therapy, too. I got out of an abusive relationship a couple years ago and when I started seeing a therapist, my main goal was to analyze patterns in my thinking as a result of trauma and change them into healthier habits. Most of my trouble with relationships stem from recognizing I don't like something, setting boundaries, then questioning if I'm being unreasonable. Journaling when I see a pattern has been really helpful to see interpersonal relationships from a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 03:40 PM
3	Do I have to spell it out for you? Hah, right? His response: "oh, ok."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 05:10 PM
3	Do I have to spell it out for you? Hahaha soooo cringey.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 11:45 AM
1	Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for loving yourself 👸✨ WHY IS THIS CONTROVERSIAL?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 11:26 PM
3	"Mostly all of the other girls I dated did xyz" what is this manipulation called? Ah ok, so the difference is the intent of manipulation and the comparison to someone else in a negative light. I've never really been the type to take comparisons as how someone wants me to act, nor have I ever been one to read too much into a compliment... but I'm sometimes logical to a fault (so it wouldn't really work anyway). I really resonate with your comment... Ihave to field the "you're so smart" deal on the reg because for some reason, being a woman in STEM breaks people's brains. While…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 05:26 PM
2	Guy raped his ex-girlfriend "as his prize" and doesn't feel it's wrong. Lol wut? And only 4 months in, too? Boy, bye.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 05:05 AM
2	"Mostly all of the other girls I dated did xyz" what is this manipulation called? I'm really liking this discussion... Out of curiosity, when is it a genuine compliment and when is it triangulation? I totally get the manipulative "you're better than her because you don't do this thing I hated", but something to the effect of "I like you because you're different/unique" doesn't strike me as manipulation, but a few of the comments on here say otherwise.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 05:02 AM
0	An open-relationship is an excuse to cheat That doesn't necessarily mean it was one sided, though. Maybe she's into women as well?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 04:41 AM
1	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020 Really?? Interesting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 04:58 AM
1	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020 I don't have a solution for you but I know where you're coming from. I'm not on any apps anymore, but I definitely have indulged in a lot of casual sex the last year or so. I do tend to be the party that's emotionally disconnected, for what that's worth. Not that I don't want a relationship, but I'm so goddamn picky these days that sometimes a bit of physical connection is kind of nice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 04:55 AM
5	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020 Also, send him home after you meet. He can't come over. Half an hour is not an unreasonable distance to have dinner with someone you value.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 04:46 AM