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1	Divorce in CA What I do know is that child support worksheets (in nearly every state) follow federal guidelines. Back in the day, the child support worksheets used to calculate debt you owed into the final calculation. Now they don't. About 5-7 years ago, I know the most I would have been responsible paying (worst case scenario according to the child support tables), would have been around $1100 for two kids. Fast forward, and the child support tables changed. Now the upper limit worst case scenario is $1800 …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/19 12:24 PM
1	Rant Being charged to have my support removed Yep. The temp agency I was recently working for charged me 25$ my first paycheck for taking out the $$$. I questioned how this was legal, since, by law, they are required to comply with a court order ANYWAY -- right? Long story short: I eventually found out the state I'm in, only allows a company to do it once per year so, and I quote, "we've gone ahead and removed this from future payroll filings." -- So that means, in states where this IS allowed -- that particular temp agency would then be ch…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/19 11:23 AM
2	Need Some Advice About Alimony, Child Support, and Dividing Debt The state worksheets will ultimately decide both of those in the end. You can try to agree, but it's the law that child support is decided by the state up front. The "deviation" from what they decide is determined by the worksheets and any special circumstances you can get the judge to agree to.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/19 12:32 AM
2	Need Some Advice About Alimony, Child Support, and Dividing Debt Having her remain in the home with a written agreement to cash you out by -- an agreed upon date (make sure that agreed upon date is written in the agreement. If she is agreeable to this, of course it is possible. Brainstorming and coming up with as many options as possible will hopefully make her more open to the ideas. Also, from a personality standpoint - sometimes when I hear "hard" options especially in sensitive situations like this -- I've been known to reject it on its face but then …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/19 12:30 AM
2	Need Some Advice About Alimony, Child Support, and Dividing Debt There's a few things at play here: what you think is fair to pay what she thinks is fair to pay what the courts decide is fair to pay who's name the debts are in In order to hold onto the equity, it sounds like you need to split it, since that's something that sounds important to you both. This means facing the fact, the family will need to move. It may help to offer to pay for rent, deposit, etc... for initially moving into another place (maybe hopefully within the same school district) if you …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/19 10:08 PM

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