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LadyKitana/r/ExRedPill21/02/22 07:01 PM
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I want a man who meets my emotional needs and physical , however if he were to say I am going to sleep around and you stay at home at accept it. It will no longer meet those needs, that’s me personally. It would deeply effect me, and for a lot of women regardless how men see it. I have experienced loneliness being alone and in a relationship, the worst was in a relationship where I was no longer emotionally invested. Also what I was trying to say was that both men and women have physical needs, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:33 AM
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I mean no disrespect this is your opinion speaking from a man perspective. However I as a woman who knows herself, again I don’t care that there is no emotion attached men may see it like that but I don’t have to accept it. “ crying in a comfortable mansion in a happy relationship” doesn’t make sense. I want to wake up in the morning and look myself in the mirror and be happy with who I see , not to be broken down, a little at a time. I have watched women go through this, so with respect I choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:48 AM
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So it’s also ok that I as a woman can go out have a male friend that buys me things, takes me to restaurants that you can’t afford, gives me money , I tell all my problems to, makes me laugh, cheers me up when I am sad knowing my husband is sleeping with another woman. But no sex … Can you handle that ? Women are emotional so if your hurting my emotions by sleeping with another woman, my needs are not being met just like sleeping with another woman fills your needs. Therefore it’s ok that I am g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:20 PM
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I don’t look at a man when I go on a date and wonder about his “ body count”. Women are attracted to men other women want however not necessarily sleeping with those women. I wouldn’t look down on a man with low partners, the opposite because it would tell me that you are not reckless and sleeping with everyone you can. No judgment for people who do, however I would find less partners attractive. I will be honest I never had an open conversation about body count, ever with a partner. It was alwa…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 05:19 PM
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Absolutely it just an excuse to justify shitty behaviour, man or woman nobody deserves to be treated like that
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 04:36 PM
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I think regardless of if you believe in monogamy or not, they overall use it to justify cheating. Their whole narrative is based on the premise that men with status or “ high value” should be allowed to have women on the side or as they call it “ Exercise options” 🙄 They use evidence of men in politics, entertainment high profile business me aka bill gates, as evidence. HOWEVER while these couples may have an arrangement they will never acknowledge the remote possibility that the wife will also …
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 12:46 AM
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Love this !!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 03:11 PM
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Personally if I were in that situation I would leave, he is part of a group that is very disrespectful and misogynistic. While he may not subscribe to all of the talking points I would rather not find out. It doesn’t mean he is a bad person maybe someone who has been hurt but it’s on him to heal and figure that out. This group advocates massive double standards such as men are allowed to cheat, women must remain loyal. All women cheat, no girls nights, cook clean no career goals, only his matter…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:58 PM
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My personal opinion as a woman. Having success will give you potential however there is still other things to consider personality, goals outlook on life etc. Especially for a relationship, I think most women if they are looking to start a family would prefer if they have a man that can support them while they stay home and look after the baby, even if it’s only till her leave is up and she goes back to work. Or if they decide that she takes care of the kids as a stay at home mother. However the…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:09 PM
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Yes with the boxing match and how they tried to removed people YouTube channel for disagreeing with them.😂 and the Australian radio show. They are very good challenging women but cannot handle going up against men who disagree with them.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 08:09 PM
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I am so sorry that your going through this, it must be so devastating to watched someone you fell in love with change before your eyes. However it is not your job to change him, that’s his responsibility. You need to leave and get your own space for own mental health. Of all people to follow it’s those two clowns, they got booted off a radio show because what they were saying was bullshit. I had an ex make things about gender sometimes, I don’t know about these groups at the time but looking bac…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 07:56 PM
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Yes there are women who experience anger and bitterness about being single. The pressure as a women to settle down is huge. Some marry then divorce, some stay married some never marry. Everyone is different, if being a wife and a mother is what you really want it can be frustrating. However there are those of us who would rather be single until the right partner comes along and some choose to be. Either way we are judged marry young get divorced ( you should have chose better) try to marry later…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 03:06 AM
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Just be honest with people your dealing with and if they choose to stay or go that’s fine, I would wish them well and move on! Most women also date more than one guy sometimes but again it’s about being honest
/r/ExRedPill07/03/22 04:36 PM
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This is abusive and toxic AF… you and your child need to remove yourself from this situation asap! Calling you low value is degrading and very disrespectful. It would appear that he saying he can do better to intimidate and Manipulate you into doing what he wants. If you truly want to work it out go to counselling however I would still find another place to Live while you decide what to do. I would personally leave for good but I don’t know your situation. You don’t ever have to listen or tolera…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 01:42 PM
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Thoughts and prayers to the people of Ukraine, you are absolutely right. This man stepped up to stand with his people, he didn’t run and is has gained the respect of other world leaders. He speaks with conviction and courage but has a humbling presence, and misses his family but I’d doing what needs to be done by standing up to a bully and a tyrant. This is an “ alpha” male he doesn’t say it he just is. This is what women are attracted to, not some ridiculous concept of holding “ frame” being co…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 01:11 PM
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Women are not “ plates” and these tactics shouldn’t be used on anyone! Using people for your own purposes not giving them basic respect and referring to them as objects is pathetic
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 12:45 PM
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No worries .. bingo has multiple cards lol oh candy store analogy
/r/ExRedPill24/02/22 01:48 AM
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😂😂🤦‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill24/02/22 01:46 AM
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I would also add “ excerise options “ …but well done ! 😂 how long would it take for some to call bingo
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 11:17 PM
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Can I ask you why is it ok for you to say monogamy can be boring but refuse to acknowledge that it can also be boring for the women as well? No disrespect but I am trying to understand why some men refuse to acknowledge this ?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 08:53 AM
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Hi Ok as a woman I can tell you that if a guy who is saying “ high value man” to any woman with an ounce of confidence will laugh at his bs. Any man of money don’t. Need to say I am anything .. he just is. Second no men and women do not play by a different set of rules with sex. This is based on the assumption that women cannot have sex without emotional attachment. Which men refuse to believe because it hurts their ego, sorry but it’s true. Not everyone woman who sleeps with you wants to marry …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 01:40 AM
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Absolutely
/r/ExRedPill03/02/22 02:36 PM
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Yes they don’t want college educated women but in the same sentence they don’t want a “gold digger “
/r/ExRedPill03/02/22 04:51 AM
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Facts!!! She has an “ alpha” on the side 😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 05:14 PM
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They always word it to make it seem like only the men are allowed to do it, they are framing in a way that took place when women were financially dependent on their husbands and couldn’t leave when he cheated. I also heard them talk about the business world were it was accepted for a man to have a mistress in the form of the assistant. Things have changed and women are more involved in the workforce and the corporate world. As for exploring his “options” it’s called an open relationship which I …
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 05:06 PM
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I am so sorry you went though this, this is my biggest fear being trapped like that thank God I was raised to never give up working, especially if it’s doing something you love. These guys think that because they make a certain amount of money they get to treat women however they want, cheat and disrespect them all under the guise of being “ high value” A women who is making money and can live on her own, and realizes that she can leave an unhappy relationship and be happy scares the shit out of…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 09:04 PM
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Childfree by choice here too!!! I love kids but I want to enjoy my life with a partner! Have a peaceful home, not to say we won’t have a bad day, or problems every relationship goes through things but to come home relax and spend quality time with him, and have freedom to do what ever we like is amazing! I would never be able to sit at home and not work, I like making my own money and have goals. Besides most people make an average income, you need two people working sometimes depending on where…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 08:58 PM
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I am very sorry that your going through this, it’s heartbreaking. Please listen when I say this, I understand that he has had trauma and an addiction. However that is not your fault and it is it not your responsibility to fix. It seems like his friend has exposed the ideas that he already has, people attract what they project. What ever happened the reality is that this will not get better. As another poster has said the “training” will get worse, he will continue to push the boundaries of what …
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 01:43 AM
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I honestly don’t know .. I guess the same with childfree men dating apps, meetups etc
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 05:43 PM
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I do believe that if you have an interest in a man, give him a compliment in a genuine way. Men do face challenges in dating I am sympathetic to it, I don’t advocate cruelly rejecting a man for no reason. It can be difficult to approach women especially in public. I tell guys don’t get upset if a woman won’t go home on a first date, yes there is a chance she may not be interested but if she express that’s she want to see you again, she just wants to feel safe. Yes the average women does get a lo…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 02:49 PM
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So much respect for this, you’re a good person for trying and I am sure you will reach some of them don’t give up on speaking out and giving them hope.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:53 AM
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Good for you for recognizing their toxic behaviour and hypocritical ideology. And I think it’s great you want to help others to not fall into the trap as well. Men need positive role models, the only thing I suggest is focus on becoming the best person you can in life and try to pass it on to others. Men are not perfect and women are not perfect, there are good and bad. You just have to learn from your experience and keep moving forward, make a plan for your future and go for it! These men are l…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:42 AM
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As always with the red pill everything is extreme, I think most women would tell you that if they are with a man who is kind treats them well, and is hardworking they are not looking to “ monkey branch” to the “ high value guy” they will stay with that man. If the relationship is not working most women are just looking to leave, but it takes a lot for women to do so. They want to make it work, and hope it can be fixed even when the man cheats. They will stay longer than they should, so when they…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/21 04:09 PM
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I will just repeat what most people have said, most women want a man who is confident in himself, but for me that don’t mean loud and arrogant. Sometimes the most confident is the quietest man in the room, his presence. Kind with a good sense of humour ! Omg saw a video of a show, I believe called love don’t judge. Dude on there called himself an” alpha” male and his wife allows him to sleep with other women because that’s what “ alpha” men do. When asked what she thought about it she couldn’t r…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/21 04:57 PM
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I stumbled upon this group by accident, I saw like so many the violence that is carried out by men in society that have a hatred for women. I also suspected after discovering the group that someone I used to know may have been exposed to this group, some of the talking points are alike. I first listened with interest on the problems men face In society, that I could learn something to better my relationships with them. However it was far from the case, made me realize there are so many lonely br…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 11:34 PM
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For us we always hear don’t chase a man, so it’s confusing I think for both sides
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:25 PM
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Coming from a woman, yes there is a balance. Me personally is being consistent, most people understand that you have a job and interests. That’s attractive, ex and I would text on a regular basis. How’s your day etc.. but we also had plans outside of seeing each other. For me is when we plan something we stick to it, and communicate when we have things going on but making sure we have time for each other. It gives you something to look forward to, now as for giving compliments that’s great but a…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:09 PM
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Scare tactic .. not true at all!
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 04:33 AM
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Leave immediately!!!! It is not your responsibility to “fix” him, and you should definitely not tolerate any disrespect from him. You need to leave for your own health and well being, you say you have self esteem and attachment issues I am very sorry to hear that but if I may he knows this about you and probably feels like you won’t leave. Your body count is none of his business, he is showing you who he is. He wants power and control over you and is insulting other men because he wants you to f…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 04:31 AM
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First off no you are not a loser, your a young man in his early twenties who are like so many are struggling.and with Covid 19 so many people at different ages are struggling right now your not alone. everything you said can be changed, take one thing at a time: As others have said working in a bar pays good tips, even as a side hustle. I don’t know about New York, but I am sure there are employment agencies that can help you with jobs skills, resume and may offer training programs. As for colle…
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 03:55 AM
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This!
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 11:23 PM
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The reason I think women want “ what you can provide”is for when she has children and is required to stay home that the family will be provided for. Otherwise women typically work and make money, and just want to know the bills are paid and want a partner responsible with money!
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 08:12 PM
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Of course and that is my fear as well so I understand where your coming from. But there is a way to get the information in a way that’s respectful and non judgment. Asking questions like tell me about your past relationships how did they end, what do you look for in a relationship and of course about sexual needs. I had these conversations with boyfriends and it was fine. I think it’s how you go about doing it as opposed to what’s your number ? I also make it clear what my boundaries are, and wh…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 12:17 PM
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Yes and No, as another poster had said. Woman are pressured from an early age about getting married and having kids is something that she has to do. If that’s something she desire then yes it can effect her because we know that men value attractiveness in a woman so if she is getting older then she may panic because she has a limited to to have healthy children. That said do all women panic, some do and some don’t. Good news is as she does get older she becomes more confident in herself and know…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 04:38 AM
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You don’t ask at any time. It’s not a man’s business, nobody has ever asked me that. Perhaps when the day comes that men stop judging women on their body count, regardless how many partners they have had then women won’t feel the need to lie or fear judgement.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 04:30 AM
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Exactly.. Men who go on about this “ high mileage” do need to humble themselves. Many women will fake orgasms to preserve a mans ego, not saying that’s right you should definitely communicate with your partner. Women will suffer in silence, experience painful sex and overall dissatisfaction with their sex lives. Women have been groomed that our sexual desires are not important and should repress them and that men will not see that in a positive light if we express ourselves. I never had any man …
/r/ExRedPill06/11/21 12:57 PM
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As the other poster has said, they think that once a woman is past 30 or 25 by some red pill dudes then she is not as sought after then in her 20’s. As a woman I am telling you that’s not true. If your extremely picky then this may apply but to say all women is extreme.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 04:06 PM
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This was painful to read… it’s astonishing that there are people who think like this.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 04:03 PM
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Absolutely!! We do, it’s on both sides and it’s not all men or women.We choose who we surround ourselves with and associate with. All the best to you !
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 02:04 PM
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I made this point based on the idea that they want woman to have a low body count when they decide to settle down, ( yet they don’t advocate for marriage but are women obsessed with when a woman should get married and at what age) but yet in the same sentence advocate for men to have many women as possible on rotations aka “plate” or having a wife and side women. Again I am not saying for women or men to sleep around with everyone. But if your going to do so, don’t judge people for doing the sam…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 11:23 AM
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I think it is just referring to the ridiculous double standard, surrounding men and women having sex. Woman’s sexual nature always and continues to face judgment and while we are more liberal we still have ways to go. In order for men to sleep around, they need woman to engage in the same behaviour. I don’t advocate being reckless, but if two consenting adults decide to have sex then it’s ok as long as nobody gets hurt.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 03:17 AM
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Period!!!! They create the same type of women they complain about and their augment is that “ men and women are different” well according to this no they are not, men want “hot women, baddies” women want “ bad boys “ aka “ Chad” in order for men to have sex he needs a women to have sex with, I don’t understand how hard this is for these men to comprehend. While the double standards exist more woman are just not caring about it anymore, and these men are pissed ! I was the shy plainJane girl in h…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 03:01 AM
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Absolutely.. and he don’t care about the emotional effects it can have on someone. The women are suppose to deal with it, so wrong and toxic!
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 03:01 PM
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Listen you acknowledge it and that’s amazing step to take, as other posters said most men will not do this or will they want to. You can be an example to others, your young and have so many things ahead of you. You don’t deserve to be alone, keep moving forward and continue to work on yourself. I wish you all the best!
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 05:41 PM
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This guy is a very good “ businessman “ in the sense he is playing to other insecure men and women. He is also setting up a narrative which he continues to move the goal post for women, to no matter what she does he find fault. Women are not perfect and I don’t advocate insulting men either. This is what I saw. 18-25 find a husband and settle down, if you do that and it don’t work out: you chose wrong. If you wait then your hitting the danger zone and no man wants an “old woman” high value men “…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 05:58 PM
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I can work but it’s about trust honesty and very good communication. Also you need to make a plan, at some point someone will have to move for the other person if it gets serious. Your relationship is new so no worries about that right now. Your only an hour away, which is not bad. No your not being needy, it’s understandable that you want see your partner in person. I am like that too I can only text for so long then I get bored. I did long distance. before. You said she comes to you, maybe mak…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 03:59 PM
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Exactly .. women want to know if they choose to settle down with a guy to have children with him. The bills will be paid while she takes care of the baby. What that looks like is different to each woman. We typically want a man who is kind, hardworking, loyal and a good father. Yes there are those who want to be the stay at home mom but have the lifestyle which comes with a price
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 03:28 PM
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I do feel guilty especially if he is a nice guy, I do take joy in hurting people and being rejected is horrible feeling. I have also been scared to reject guys the ones who are very pushy and feel entitled, that situation gets very real very fast. I have been cursed out a few times, not a good situation to be in quite scary.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 03:20 PM
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I have dated blue collar workers and I also have family members who work in the trades. Those are tough jobs, and they make good money. Just because someone might wear coveralls over a suit doesn’t mean they are any less. It’s there character and how they are as a person. I can understand that as a woman you want a man to make a certain amount of money do that when they have kids they will be provided for until she goes back to work. That don’t mean it has to be six figures like these red pill g…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 08:29 PM
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Yes I like it when a man can open up to me, I see it not as a weakness but it’s a strength. It means your human and allowing me in, men have struggles and I think it’s awful that they feel they cannot express themselves and will suffer in silence. They experience pain, sadness, fear and insecurities too. I also have a hard time opening up so when my partner and I build that trust and open up to each other it can be a wonderful thing. I want to be my mans peace, I love cuddling him when he has a …
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 12:04 AM
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Lmao this dude even said that he won’t tell his “girlfriend”, if he even has one because he knows she won’t go for that bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 03:46 PM
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I agree, I like to get dressed up and do my make up, but I enjoy the outdoors, martial arts., video games, superhero moves and Star Wars.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 01:36 PM
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The one thing I tell myself is that regardless of what happens in a relationship I trust that I am going to be ok .
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:46 PM
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Absolutely
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 01:51 PM
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I admit you have a point , it is true women check out way before they leave a relationship. I guess what I am trying to say is every woman is not the same and it would depend on the situation a wife who is sitting at home alone while her husband is away would feel neglected both physically and emotionally So she would seek that out, it’s not right but it does happen. Women do crave physical touch, sometimes it’s not about deep emotion and attachment it’s about just having a guy making them feeli…
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 04:14 AM
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Hey ! Just wanted to offer you one woman’s perspective, first I am sorry you feel this way! This pandemic has made it very hard for a lot of people you’re not alone. Second it’s good that your taking to different people, and focus on things you love to do that will help. I was also very shy at the same age too, the only thing I will say is that experience will teach you is that everyone is different and yes even the most experienced people don’t’ always get it right. Trust me ! You just gain the…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 10:14 PM
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I do agree that the average man from what I hear from them it is difficult. This whole “exercise options” is from men who give the impression that if a man become “ high value” aka makes a lot of money he has earned the right to cheat and the wife needs to accept that. Which is bullshit , having an understanding and going behind someone’s back is a different thing. But again in the redpill this option is only for men 🙄
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 09:52 PM
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Absolutely!! they try to justify it by saying women get emotionally attached therefore it’s worse. They claim because it’s just sex it’s not a big deal, that may be true in a mans opinion. However the pain and emotional damage it can do to a woman is devastating. What they fail to understand or refuse to accept is a woman can have sex for physical reasons, the idea that women can be “ exercising her options” in the same way is a massive hit to their ego. They see women as their property! Men say…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 05:51 PM
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This was an ex from in my past in my 20’s, when I was younger and inexperienced. Now, especially being more confident and knowledgeable I look for signs. True some of them may not have problems in getting dates but after sometime some of these guys will show the signs.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 03:12 PM
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Hi! For example I know on dating sites I have seen men use the terms alpha male, as well as looking for a high value woman, on my purpose the best one is when you reject them and they get very upset! They don’t try to hide it In person I will admit sometimes you can’t tell right away by first glance but usually you can pick up on it, after a conversation or so. Unless he is one of those dudes at the bar flashing his money around being loud and rude. Thinking his money somehow entitles him to wom…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 02:03 PM
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Absolutely.. while I stumbled on this redpill group by mistake I learned a lot about how to avoid them. It’s good to know this group exists and you are all speaking out against them. Wishing you all the best!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 02:43 PM
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I know it’s crazy how they think!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 01:39 PM
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They also operate under the idea that a high value man will have lots of women so he should be allowed to sleep with them because he worked for his money and status, and the wife has to accept that. What they are talking about is very wealthy men, while there is some truth to this trying to justify it is disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 01:38 PM
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I literally listened to men on YouTube say that a woman orgasm is not important because it is not needed to get pregnant. That a wife needs to have sex at any given time and if she can’t or because he has money then a man is allowed and within his right to have sex outside of the relationship and it’s not considered cheating. It’s insane… Minutes of my life that I will never get back!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:01 PM
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Exactly ! This type of thinking Is dangerous it’s a way of thinking by men who actively choose to go to a sex worker or a strip club and then shame the woman for providing sex or a dance, and complain about paying Nobody forced you to go to the club, or when you pick an expensive restaurant then complain the date cost too much you chose that restaurant. Unless you clearly state your looking for a one night stand, don’t go into a date expecting sex. And if you both are there for that reason, don’…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:29 PM
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Yes we can make the choice ,we have the right to do so and not be shamed or judged. Men also choose the type woman who they peruse for sex. Again no judgement, just be safe and respectful.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 07:13 PM
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Then men should also be encouraged not to peruse casual sex without a relationships. They shouldn’t lie about wanting a relationship in order to have sex with a woman. Teach men not to be entitled, if you saying women shouldn’t do this then we need to hold men accountable as well. Men cannot have causal sex without a woman. If men are going to call a woman names after he sleeps with her or say he wont date her because she gave it up too easily then maybe he shouldn’t have had sex with her in the…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 05:49 PM
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Absolutely! I prefer meeting men though other people then dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 01:40 AM
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At your age I wouldn’t worry too much about it, your still young. As long as you have a goal in mind and making steps to eventually move out. There are women who will date you, it’s much harder today to live on your own. Especially if you live in an expensive city. I think you would be worse off then to move out only to struggle financially. Is it harder for privacy of course, but in the long run it will pay off when you save money and have a nice apartment and a good job!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 01:28 AM
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As a woman I can tell you that this idea of wanting a “ bad boy” is a typical fantasy. It really no different then when I hear men say they want a woman at home then the bad girl, stripper, Instagram model “ type” on the side or they only want to date those women because they are hotter. Not realizing that the stripper they see in the club is the same woman you might pass by in a coffee shop it’s just she don’t have makeup on, and in a dark club where she does her job. It’s a fantasy that’s all,…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 01:13 AM
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I am so sorry to hear that your struggling right now, but as other people said it’s never too late to make a change. I really think you should talk to someone that can help you work on your self esteem and forgive me for saying depression. Your mental health is so important, please look into getting help. Being with a woman will not make you happy unless your happy with yourself. I know many people say this but it’s true. I used to feel this way about being with a man. Take one thing at a time, …
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 10:59 PM
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Yes that is the term they use for men .. especially “ high value men” they basically say that men with money will have a lot of women interested and because he worked so hard to become that man then he has earned the right to exercise those options. The wife will just have to except this will happen because she is living a lifestyle. Some of this is true however it don’t make it right, some couple have open relationships where the women can have a side dude within rules. Or what happens on a tri…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 09:16 PM
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I have never heard of men using that term “ alpha male”. I saw certain words like “ high value” on dating sites and I immediately swiped left. Thanks to my discovery of this whole red pill movement. Everyone woman is different just like every man. However if we are going by the typical standard a woman like a man who is confident in who he is, it don’t matter if he is wearing a suit or coveralls. In terms of making money yes there are gold diggers or women in seek of a certain lifestyle but most…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 08:49 PM
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