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Ive met men like this. Great summary. Yes they can fall off the Earth so to speak. And no digital footprint at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:07 AM
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Exactly. That man with only a LinkedIn can be just as shady. When I had LinkedIn, men were messaging me there and following insta models that found their way over. Its a social media that is sociallu acceptable that wifey may not be connected if she is a homemaker example. Also guy may not use app even only from work computer. Wife wouldn't even know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:03 AM
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Agree. Reference Jaron Lanier, one of the Godfathers of VR and an old Silicon Valley tech head. A lot of them choose to not use it even if they work in it because... They know. Generally speaking, there's more of what OP is describing than the Jaron Lanier or Digital Minimalism types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:01 AM
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200% agree. When my daughter worked at her first job (drive through), men my age or older would come in and tell her things like this. They would attempt to get her number also or look her up on social. We had her change jobs. That ended that and it led to many conversations just like this of warning signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:04 PM
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As a lady that gave two babies within a marriage then it just didn't "work for him any more after 20 years", I full hearted agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:39 PM
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Totally agree and good assessment. I can't watch the show anymore. It doesnt seem to be people with healthy dynamics. Then again. Would it make for as they say 'good tv' if they were?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:52 PM
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I'm in my 40s and any man in my age range that used the independent / ambitious women line may have been a high earner but was broke. Men my age typically only care that the lady can cover her four walls on her own and is financially responsible. This is a red flag for someone that needs 50/50 because they are drowning in debt or have so much alimony and child support paid out to their ex that they are ij the negative each month. I was a long time professional that earned a high income. I now li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:56 PM
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A smart scrote would at least get the monthly Panera unlimited coffee plan. He could go on a date a day for pennies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:47 PM
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That's sad. It also reminds me of a woman who let a man come to her house for sex and would always bring her chicken nugget meals. She met him on Bumble and actually thought that was a relationship. Escorts and prostitutes are compensated better. She discovered a few months later he was 'cheating on her' a.k.a. it was actually never a relationship and he was on multiple date apps the entire time. A sad tale. She did not want to listen to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:15 AM
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They are all over the place and follow every faux rich motivational YouTuber guru also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:36 AM
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Let me guess, crypto entrepreneur that has a drop shipping side hustle and sells Amway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:45 AM
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Too many YT content creators who are 'coaches for men" that disregard when women speak about emotional , financial, and other types of non physical abuse. Even though these are widely known and overviewed by non profits and organizations. It is sad as these men can simply even go to The Hotline and have this information. Yet they prefer to deny its existence and spread to men that follow them that women are being dramatic about any of these. I volunteered for an organization and there were very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:06 AM
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They are still out there shoveling this steamy pile of BS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:58 AM
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These quotes always irritate me. I was a corporate trainer and coach. Even with that professional background, I never treated someone I was in a relationship with like this. On the flip side, I would find being a wife to a man like this to be exhausting. I'm a grown woman and do not need someone "pushing " me. I see this among men my and and older also. I find it odd considering their lady counterparts - we all have likely achieved quite a bit by our 40s whether education, career, personal goals…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:44 AM
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Completely agree with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:33 PM
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Agree. That also. Thanks for chiming in. Church. The coffee shop around the corner. Your job. I personally went through this.. Not blasting out on social media yet someone that I more seriously dated then when I needed to end it, he knew where I was and where I regularly go. I'm now in a New state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:10 AM
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These are all great. There is a saying that I recommend women apply. "Say where you've been, not where you're going". You never know who is monitoring your social media. I see women do this so often with check ins, tags, documenting every aspect of their life in stories and posts. Even if you have a business or a public brand,, you can still build out your content and post later or the next day. Your audience online does not need to know this information in real time. When I had a business page,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:07 AM
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I'm all for the spirit of this message. However, each of the ladies have aged and my being their age range also, I think objectively that they all look around the same age(s) as one another. The ladies are just able to hide it a wee better with coloring their hair. There's nothing wrong with our looking our age (men or women)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:43 AM
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Yes! I had some details about him since I ended up having a professional connection to him ans knew a network of his. Two of thr ladies thought to do some thorough work. They found wife's IG. It eas private but they created dummy accounts of women that were same ethnicity as her. She took the bait and allowed the follow request. From there all of the 'business trips" he was going on in Switzerland and even olaces like Denver that he was sending women of just him. Guess what? They found the photo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:32 AM
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The value of a self standing, well placed compliment..... It is a lost art among a sea of love bomber fakery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:57 AM
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Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:15 AM
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I love that many of us ladies care enough on here for our fellow Redditor ladies to post very important sexual health reminders like this. Hug to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:07 PM
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I'm a 40something and think this is brilliant. Personally, I have been to men' homes where I've noticed things out of sorts and chose to just not see them again. One - He was dark featured and knew his entire family was dark featured as I saw photos of all of them. All of thr ladies had natural raven hair. Said he had recently renovated his bathroom. Needed to use said bathroom. Found blonde hair color package under the sink when looking for replacement roll of TP. If you have been single for so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:05 PM
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A Tinderella makes more in meals and margs at Chills and fake Coach bags... This wifey needs to learn how to negotiate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:45 PM
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Reasonable standards. However, I think it is best to not give them the roadmap in how to treat you. Some do not have good intentions and will keep up an act and play a role. Though a man that does the chivalrous actions like opening a car door, esp with hounger ladies, you still have to lean back and monitor the entirity of his actions as a whole in all areas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:41 PM
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I think these are the same girls that listen to Elena Cardone.. However. They don't realize that level of investment in buiding an empire comes after marriage. I've personally (as a corporate trainer for real estate industry) saw a lot of our cute young bucks using girlfriends as transaction coordinators, marketing managers, and doing general admin work. Unless your man plans to give you a fair salary associated with said work, don't do it. I've had several talks over the years with these guys a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:03 PM
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The OP who wrote this, I applaud you for the concise breakdown that is absolutely accurate from my observation in two areas I've lived in. And it is enlightening to see who their prey is, if you flip the apps. Since my brother is close in age (and he is not in this category of men rather one that should be meeting wifey at the grocery store), I've given a scroll through. And it is surprising how many women are the femlibs 50/50 types or sad to say, they already give some indication in their prof…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:13 AM
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Exactly. Every woman in my family on one branch. Decades long marriages and outlived their husband's they met in their teens by many years. The last wife/aunt is going on the record near 30 years. Of course they were of a different generation so the one that's been alone 30 years - no desire to date then and remarry. She also had 5 kids and her life was very busy with them then grandkids and great grandkids plus the wives/sister in laws and their families of the other 6 brothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:54 AM
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Oh wow. He sounds like the guy who sits in the dark on YT with that spinning contraption on his desk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:51 AM
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If you were really motivated about it, id say a good place to start is if you have their username handle, go to popular Instamodels Only fans in your city and scroll through those likes or comments on popular photos or search those girls followers and look for the man's name to follow them. I trained some slimy male realtors in my day and these guys followed all of those types of women in our city for easy access spank bank content. That's a suggestion that I tested and proven yet don't usually …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:43 PM
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Exactly. We haven't even met for the date yet. Its almost like hey thanks for showing me how disgusting you are in advance. Now I can put my hair in a ponytail and pop popcorn. And yes a lot are my age or older, oblivious sometimes that we can see who they follow and don't realize if we are following ome another and I go to an Only fans Instamodels account and scroll, it will top comment the gross oh baby so sexy comments that they make on their photos. Some of these guys also have their college…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:39 PM
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Agree. Some of the men that I met that then wanted to connect on Insta, the "models" they followed were opposite to my look. All of them. So, it's obviously something fantasy wise with them but I think they choose to date me as I'm more socially acceptable. Which I'm sure underlying there would be porn and even infidelity on business trips etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:53 AM
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This made me giggle. I'm in my 40s and usually date men in their 50s. Many are professionals and want to connect on IG. Its almost blissful ignorance like they don't realize I'll do a scroll through of who they are following. When I start seeing Insta models in Miami (we don't live in Miami) or other countries entirely, I tell them that's why I'm declining the date. One actually told me "oh it's for networking" yet he does nothing business wise that would tie him to women like this and thought I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:50 AM
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I was listening to a podcast where the man had been dating the woman roughly 6 years, had a child together, and told her that "he was still interviewing her" 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:32 AM
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Yes. However. I ended up saving money actually by decreasing my square footage. I'm in a prime zip code for my area and also joined a wonderful church in the center of it. I have a river park and so much more than I had where I previously lived. My housing costs and auto insurance all decreased enough where I'm actuallu able to live on early retirement income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:43 PM
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That is heartbreaking if the men spent the money on those rings thinking they were real. Also. If they had them many years, I'd question if they ever took it in for work, if some of those rings were swapped out for CZ by an unethical jewelry repair. When I was married, I had valuation and close up photos of center stone. My jeweler - had used him long term so there was trust there but he also would always test before giving it back to me also. It was just a practice he had as a long time jeweler…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:32 PM
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I was previously married 20 years. I can say that I wouldn't want more than a carat for practicality (because I'd want to wear it daily and not obsess over it) and would love one that was vintage meaning that he took my style into consideration. Above all. I'd want him to present the ring he can afford to pay cash for and not incur debt for it. (Men that I debt are long established so a good quality one carat is most definitely no more than a months salary). And a private proposal - private dinn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:29 PM
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Relatable, though, I may be older. I relocated to a new state and decided to maintain a smaller social circle here. I regard the ladies that I know as more of acquaintances if they are single. I have some trusted ladies that are married. I was prior married 20 years. I found after my divorce that the fellow single professional ladies that I was around by default (due to convenience within my industry) weren't healthy for my mindset towards men (many had been long single and bitter so any guy tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:20 PM
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