LadyLana Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I don’t understand this comment? There are feminists, like bell hooks, who have consistently pointed out how women can and do uphold the patriarchy: “We need to highlight the role women play in perpetuating and sustaining patriarchal culture so that we will recognize patriarchy as a system women and men support equally, even if men receive more rewards from that system. Dismantling and changing patriarchal culture is work that men and women must do together.” The r/AskFeminists even has this in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 04:54 PM
10	Are power imbalances in relationships really that bad? Here’s an excerpt from a NIH study: “Third, the key domain in which large and persistent gender differences emerged were women’s disproportionate losses in household income and associated increases in their risk of poverty and single parenting. Taken together, these findings suggest that men’s disproportionate strain of divorce is transient, whereas women’s is chronic.” “Explanations for these gender inequalities highlight four risk factors for women (Bröckel and Andress 2015; Holden and Smock 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 04:45 PM
1	The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstream Why does that matter? Shouldn’t mutual attraction be established before going on a date? If you ask a woman out and she says “no,” does the reason she said “no” matter? It could have been your looks, she could be in a relationship, or she could be a lesbian. The end result is the same. You can then apply your energy toward someone that likes you and is attracted to you without fear of plausible deniability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:13 PM
2	Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create Sure, but what specific upliftment acts should be taken? What is included in a person’s background outside of their race and gender? Do you not think there should be specific acts targeted toward problems of specific groups?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 08:19 PM
3	Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create I feel like neither party cares about the bottom 90% of male earners, but several men obviously agree with you. What kind of policies would you like to see on either party platform? When I think about what we could do for men practically, I usually think UBI, universal healthcare, wealth redistribution, male birth control, increased focus on community and public services, etc. Anything that can help men (and everyone really) live healthier, fuller lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 06:01 PM
8	Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create Why did the men agree to those things? If you’re one of those American men, what have you gained from Trump’s current term?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 04:53 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? There are varying degrees of caring and not caring though. I care about the “men’s loneliness epidemic” (partially because these men might lash out), but what, realistically, else can I do? Dating a man out of pity is not a kindness. There are also women and nonbinary people that are lonely; I feel bad for them just as much as I feel bad for the men, but I’m also not going to date them out of pity. What do you want women to do? It sounds like MRAs want women to lower their “astronomical” standar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 01:08 PM
3	The Emotional Baggage Problem Honestly, I feel so bad for this girl. A teenager fresh out of high school? She’s barely had time to live life as an adult if they’ve been “dating for a while,” and he’s going to marry her? How long has he known her? Was this started as a relationship between two consenting adults? Age gap relationships aren’t always predatory, but this seems sus as fuck. I hope OP’s fiancée is able to still grow and develop while in this relationship regardless. She’s inevitably going to change and learn things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 01:50 PM
–	Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life. I understand that. But to have that kind of intimacy you need to be able to trust, listen to, and work with your partner. If someone doesn’t want to work towards that level of intimacy and connection, what other options besides FWB, a non-traditional relationship, or sex workers are there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 02:27 PM
14	Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life. In that case, why not have a FWB or fuck buddy situation? Or see a sex worker regularly and develop a relationship with her? You’d be free of “weird obligations” and you can still get your dick wet. If you don’t like the responsibilities that come with a typical monogamous relationship, then you can also find someone that doesn’t want traditional relationship dynamic. Of course it might take more time to find a partner, but at least you’ll be honest with your partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 04:46 PM
–	Do you feel as though we have enough spaces for men and only men? The Girl Scouts will not let boys in because they want to create a girl-safe space, and GSAdidn't want the BSA to start taking in girls either. Also, Boy Scouts of America no longer exists; it is now Scouting America because BSA went bankrupt after multiple sexual abuse allegations and separation from the Mormon Church. Allowing girls in Scouting America was mostly a financial decision, and there are still all-boys troops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 07:11 PM
–	Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates Is Christianity or Judaism “big on feminism”? All Abrahamic religions are patriarchal; that’s why there’s a greater number of women turning away from religion. You’re making some pretty xenophobic assumptions about immigrants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 02:09 PM
–	Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates When are you obligated to defend society and “especially women”? What are you doing to defend society for men, and how would you exclude women from this defense? Are women collectively responsible for sending men to war, or is it a few powerful people at the top of society? I just don’t understand the practical application of this statement. It sounds like an emotionally juvenile response to OP’s post. But yes, you aren’t obligated to defend “this” society or any other outside drafts that women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 02:04 PM
2	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Do you have sources for the “well-documented backstabbing, gossiping, and duplicity” of solely women other than stereotypes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 09:27 PM
2	Men are right to believe their prime is later than women This feels very culturally dependent tbh. Americans (and other westerners) fear aging in ways others just don’t. Even within the US, women like Angela Basset, Regina Hall, and Beyoncé are still heralded as beauties. And People’s sexiest man alive is always criticized lol; I wouldn’t look at print media to really have their finger on the pulse anymore. We have social media now unc 🥰. And People magazine has nominated Blake Shelton and Mel Gibson (🤢) over Manny Jacinto, Jensen Ackles, or Skepta. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 07:22 PM
1	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. Thankies 😊 Edit: I love the bottle episode of Community lol. Yeah, but I think taking the time to consider other people’s perspectives (male or female) is the point of those pieces of media, no? To be honest, this is an area where I think trans people and their experiences can really help us understand more about our hormones. I’m excited to see what we learn about hormones as time progresses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 11:00 AM
2	What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship? To be honest, It’s the “I’d accept 1 time her saying not in the mood.” What happens if she says “no” more than 1 time? I’d hope you just break up with the girl if you didn’t get what you want, but that phrasing has implications of violence. There’s also no room in this answer for the complexities of life. There’s not even a mention of the quality of the sex - just the frequency of it. It feels like you’d be a good candidate for the future sex robots or a fuck buddy situation	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 09:59 PM
1	What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship? To be honest, It’s the “I’d accept 1 time her saying not in the mood.” What happens if she says “no” more than 1 time? I’d hope you just break up with the girl if you didn’t get what you want, but that phrasing has implications of violence. There’s also no room in this answer for the complexities of life. There’s not even a mention of the quality of the sex - just the frequency of it. It feels like you’d be a good candidate for the future sex robots or a fuck buddy situation	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 09:58 PM
2	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. It’s an infantilizing view of men, but I agree that it isn’t in line with the anti-bioessentialist stance many feminists take. I think “feminists” is used in this subreddit to describe any woman left of center.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 04:24 PM
1	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. Can you give an example of this set up in media? I have seen a few mainstream examples of discussing periods (Turning Red, Carrie), but a man learning about his partner’s cycle to understand her better? I can’t think of an example, and I can’t find any mainstream examples either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 04:21 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? No problem. Thank you for both articles 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 08:58 PM
2	"Men desire women, women desire men's desire". Thoughts? The definition of Autogynephilia is “a male's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought or image of himself as female” or “an erotic interest in the thought or image of oneself as a woman.” This has nothing to do with how an outside observer would perceive a woman. Do you have another word for the first phenomenon you mention? That’s also not what comphet means? Comphet specifically is about queer people feeling pressure to align themselves to a heteronormative society. Are there women wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 08:58 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Thanks! I’ll take look	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 07:40 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Can you provide a link to the study you’re referencing? If you can’t, can you describe the methodology?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 03:23 PM
–	Regarding "good shy guys", when you think about the world, do you feel like people are generally good or generally bad? You can make custom flairs dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 12:59 PM
1	What do you actually want women to do? Maybe? But you’re assuming that women use Reddit for masturbatory material which is my main issue with your claim. People share porn on discord, twitter, even Tumblr back in the day. And that’s not counting mainstream porn sites, erotic novels, audio fics, or fanfics. A lack of a “short man fetish” subreddit doesn’t mean that no women are into short men. What someone gets off to doesn’t always reflect their sole interests. Also, seriously where is the tall men porn subreddit? That’s a hilarious …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 11:50 AM
1	What do you actually want women to do? Is there a sub that fetishizes tall men? Are “fetish” subreddits a meaningful reflection of human desire?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 03:23 PM
1	The future of dating is casual and sugar In the age of AI companions, you don’t think this is a fair question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 10:34 PM
1	The future of dating is casual and sugar Fair enough!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 10:33 PM
3	The future of dating is casual and sugar Honest question: if there were artificially intelligent androids capable of acting in truly human-like manners, would you choose to buy an android “woman”? Assuming of course that she could “love” you in a way that felt authentic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 04:44 PM
–	From a woman’s POV the disparity isn’t that “more men get murdered than women,” it’s that more men kill women than women kill men. I’m curious. Can you share the stats connecting love of fried chicken to crime? Can you include the breakdown of Korean fried chicken, karaage, southern fried chicken, and buffalo wings? Maybe coxinha? Chicken 65? Fried chicken and the (US) South go hand in hand. Is crime worse there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 03:44 PM