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This is a link to the video of those who tackled one of the shooters today in KC. First, look at those fucking huge ass beer belly muthfkkers taking that shooter down a crowd. Fuck yes man, no shit, no lie, you deserve all the fucking hands up for your bravery and honor. But why do I post it here? Look at the mutherfukkin’ women who swept in, too. I see so many men post that women are wimps and cowards and need a man to protect them. And men do the dirty jobs. Men do… they do. But so do women. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:32 AM
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Attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:56 AM
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To make a fucking point - that all these short dudes whining over their height shouldn’t think it’s an insurmountable barrier to dating or marriage. Riddle me this - yes today he got me crappy roses. Makes you wonder how he treats me all the time that I laugh about it and say I’m a happy woman with him? But I’m sure when you screw up your girlfriend’s or wife’s valentines gift she’ll laugh and love you anyway. If you could be so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:55 AM
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And get fired. That’ll help him with the ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:50 AM
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It includes men too, sweetie. So I guess women should be looking for virgins, too: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X231155673 And they don’t really know why. Ps learn to update your research.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:43 AM
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Valentine’s Day amusement. Husband got me pink roses already browning 🤪. He did remember to get the girls chocolates. He took me to lunch for red velvet pancakes and held me close. I know if I walked into the room and asked for a ruby necklace, I’d have one but money has been a bit tight because of how sick we’ve been and water damage at the house and then some asshole hit my Lexus. So it’s all good because he’s showed me regularly for years I’m his love, the pink roses are more than good enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:37 AM
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Women opt out of dating or marriage. Already happening. Ps please stop lauding the rural areas as so much more traditional. They aren’t. I live in one. Lots of lip service to fAmIlY vAlUeS while the preacher is screwing the church wives and the youth pastor is grooming the tweens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:17 PM
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Other women do not encourage this behavior. No one ever told me to do it - no self respect - and I am not telling my girls to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:15 PM
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Because that stuff has a way of getting to your door. My ex slashed my bf’s tires. And he was an ex!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:55 PM
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Stop being bitter. You sound like those guys who say Robbie is mid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:53 PM
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But he isn’t. He’s a good looking and built football player making bank. Jfc And he seems super nice to kids and his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:52 PM
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Not really. Have you ever watched women soccer games? I play women’s soccer or did until last year. It’s a goddamned rec league and women still be yelling and getting into fights. And the men are worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:51 PM
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It impacts his economics and that of his children. Tall in men is valued. Look at CEOs. And this isn’t a woman thing, but a people thing . Women aren’t by and large picking CEOs. And I am married and adore my husband who is 5/6. A woman’s n count isn’t going to impact my genetics or my kids’ genetics. PS - I don’t think the insults to short men are fair - they aren’t. Again husband is short and I adore him and I ditched a 6/2 man. But I’m not blind to the world either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:49 PM
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Ah baby, isn’t it? Drugs suck. I may believe in decriminalization for harm reduction but drugs SUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:44 PM
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Btw when no fault divorce was introduced, women’s suicide numbers dropped - because they could get out of terrible marriages. https://www.nber.org/digest/mar04/divorce-laws-and-family-violence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:32 PM
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Ever heard of foot binding? Genital mutilation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:29 PM
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“ The other rhetoric being that men back then just beat their women, despite it being well known the traditional addage of "real men don't lay their hands on women".” Lmao. You mean like the adage that all you have to be is nice and you’ll find a nice girl? Hey isn’t that what you guys are so salty about? It wasnt against the law to beat your wife. AND the police wouldn’t get involved if you did. Ellen Burnstyn, a goddamned movie star, was beaten by her husband and the police wouldn’t intervene.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:28 PM
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Yah. Like the point is that these boundaries screen out jerks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:17 PM
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If you can’t handle meeting in public in daylight hours for the first date or two, you aren’t a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:16 PM
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Red pill man is dead on and also understands risk assessment. This man is right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:14 PM
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Yes. I don’t expect men to give me their credit card number or go down a back alley with me on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:13 PM
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If meeting in public during daylight hours at a coffee shop is too many hoops for a first date, that man isn’t my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:12 PM
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No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:03 PM
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And women have wised up, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:57 PM
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And many lived to regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:56 PM
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Back in the bad old days of March - 2004 when I met my husband there - I would only meet men in daylight in a public place like a coffee house. I’d let a female friend know where I was. It’s an incredibly rational risk assessment. It is NOT paranoia. Most men are fine. The risk is low. However, downside, if it happens, is very very bad - assault, rape, death. Therefore, care is good sense. It’s the same calculation that goes into all the failsafes in nuclear power plants. Nuclear power plants ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:50 PM
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Many essential fields employ women, does not mean they require women, they can be easily replaced by men. Ironically majority of teachers used to be men not too long ago. (And as women proved first during WW2, women can also replace men). The majority of women are not in essential fields, they're whats called BS jobs, like administration, managerial positions, receptionists, etc. (Teachers are essential. Think the pandemic might have taught you that. Parents sure learned they were. So are doctor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:35 AM
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And all the single and divorced women working to support their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:17 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:03 AM
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Cleopatra was attractive, brilliant and charming. It helped she was absolutely loaded. her physical beauty is an open question. Lucretia De Borgia was beautiful. Who knows with Theodora. Queen Elizabeth the I and the II were both very attractive in their youth. And you cannot say with a straight face that being freaking queen of England didn’t make a difference. We don’t know what Joanne of Arc looked like. So? I find it interesting you go for historical figures. Id have picked Anne Boylen. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:02 AM
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I would do research on being demisexual or being asexual. There’s a fluidity in our sexual desires. You might just be marching to very different tune. And that’s fine. Maybe you’ll find someone who lights you up or not? That’s OK. You do you. It’s fine. if you look at history, they’ve always been women and men who are not driven sexually. They often do great things. You live a full life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:38 AM
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My husband wasn’t even a college graduate when I married him. he is taller than me because I’m 5 feet. All of these are just generalities. Dates and relationships deal with a specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:33 AM
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Your goddamned, right I’m not gonna date a stupid man. No way. That is my standards and nobody’s gonna make me drop it. I’m sure you won’t date a whale either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:31 AM
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Because get this, not all women are the same. I tell people about my husband and how I met him. And everyone thinks I’m lying. Y’all recognize not all men are the same. Y’all recognize some men want to just play the field, and some men want to settle down. But you can’t accept that in women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:28 AM
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If you are average, why should you get a pretty girl. Shouldn’t you get an average girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:24 AM
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I knew a gold digger who aged rough when I was 17. She bragged about how it was as easy to fall for a rich man than a poor one. Looked like shit. Then another woman - who had left a filthy rich man to marry a scientist who did well but not that well - told me the hardest way to earn money is to marry it. I agree. My husband asked me (when considering jobs) whether I wanted to be a Buckhead wife. He’d could make that money but be on the road two weeks of every month. I didn’t want to be. I wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:13 AM
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“Boohoo I don’t look like Keanu Reeves. It’s not fair! I’m going to break all my toys and burn my own house down because I’m oweeeed big booby staaaaaccieees.” Mommy and daddy should have told you life isn’t fair, you don’t get what you want, and that’s LIFE. My fucking boss is a mean ass but clever Jewish lawyer - short, pudgy, with a big nose - and he’s had two wives, beautiful children, a nice house, and is surrounded by adored grandkids. Short, mediocre looks, and bright - and he’s walking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:00 AM
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Yah, welcome to the world. Pretty people get treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:18 AM
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Oh please. You expect a woman who isn’t a PD to detect criminals like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:13 AM
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Do you think women had choice when it came to ghengis fucking khan? And I wouldn’t compare myself to Hitler. He didn’t get a lot of sex. Google young Stalin. He was hot. Good old Stalin, and ask yourself what would happen if a woman refused? That said, power is an aphrodisiac.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:10 AM
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You should bring that up with lolcope2. He’s not a feminist and clearly claims guys only do nice things for payback. Stop blaming feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:04 AM
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Yes, I hold doors open for men and women all the time. So I do reciprocate. But I won’t be reciprocating sex for opening a door. I’m not that cheap or that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:01 AM
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Enforced monogamy. I no longer believe you live in Saudi Arabia. Men are allowed polygamy. https://culturalatlas.sbs.com.au/saudi-arabian-culture/saudi-arabian-culture-family#
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:55 PM
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Dude women can’t go outside without a male escort AND just gained the right to drive. But ssuuuuurrreeee they have full say in who they marry lol lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:47 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:44 PM
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Lmao. Why? Pretty women get dinner and flowers and have men sending them presents and they ignored me for being mid. Grow the f up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:44 PM
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The number of men I know who put up with crazy women because they are hot and good in bed could fill pages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:36 PM
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Yah because pretty girls can’t be jerks. Keep in mind, she’s screaming at you and threatening you and you are like, why is she with that ugly guy. You are doing the same thing you accuse women of - overlooking the fact she’s clear trash because she looks hot in Daisy dukes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:32 PM
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Want women to embrace having kids in their 20s, you got to make it financially worthwhile. I don’t want hear some man telling me that i need to procreate for my own “good.” More gross paternalism as if women don’t understand their own fertility, the impacts that career and having kids makes. I guess we just need men to tell us what’s good for us. /s You want babies, pay for the economic consequences - lots of parental time off, government support for child care and education, financial support f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:54 PM
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This boss babe got married at 31 and had kids at 33 and 35. Worked great for me and many.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:47 PM
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That is what it is called by the medical establishment. My second k pregnancy was labeled one as I was due after I turned 35. That said, most of the rest (like being unable to conceive at 30) is pure manure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:46 PM
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Even the happy ones told their daughters to get a career. I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:02 PM
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I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:00 PM
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Hey hey - I got the husband, the two kids, the nice house in a great school district … and have a career. So I got the life fulfilling part w/o having to abandon a career in my twenties to pop babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:00 PM
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I’ll take the career - it enabled me to get out of a terrible marriage and make a good one with a great guy and have two kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:57 PM
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One can adopt. And yes children are irreversible - which is why you don’t have them unless you are sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:53 PM
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Because the negatives leave the woman destitute for her entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:53 PM
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Having a kid a year in your 30s is nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:52 PM
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“ Casual sex was never what we cared about.” That’s laughable. This entire post is filled with those complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:37 AM
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The market has spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:36 AM
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So you are only interested in dating, not finding friends. No wonder you are having problems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:34 AM
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They won’t. I get a three day suspension for saying something like this to a man but men can say it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:32 AM
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Yup. And? I mean, I want all the flowers and roses and 500 dollar dinners out like the extremely hot Stacey’s I knew. But I’m not a Stacey. I got over it. You need to get over the fact that rules are different for the most beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:30 AM
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No it isn’t. You sweet summer child do you think that everything on the internet is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:37 AM
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That’s fine . The men can stay in the house, depend on his wife for all spending money, while she focuses on making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:28 AM
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lol. You never looked their way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:18 AM
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lol lmao. No it was much better when women had no choice /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:15 AM
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Men prefer love lmao. That’s why they leave when she gets cancer. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm#:~:text=A%20woman%20is%20six%20times,longer%20the%20marriage%20the%20more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:12 AM
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Yah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:10 AM
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Yeah, and then will joke about putting a bag over the woman’s head while they fuck her. You were saying? Should I judge you by that standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:04 AM
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And my family whoever is driving puts the gas in. Sometimes that’s me sometimes that’s him. who’s doing the roasting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:01 AM
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I own my own house and had my own two cars before I married my husband. I did all the stereotypically male things around the house. This includes all the mowing, maintenance, etc. God knows I’ve made plenty of runs late at night for diapers and formula, etc. I’ve also done the midnight run to take the kids to the hospital. So has he. Going out all the powers out to fix this and fix that, well, neither one of us works for the power company. I I do admit, I let him handle electricity. I have manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:55 AM
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And a lot of times women end up having to pick up the kid work rather than put in extra hours at work. As an example, I was driving into work yesterday and my husband was at home. The school called me and wanted me to come pick up my sick kid. I called my husband and told him I really don’t want to turn around and I have to come back. He he did go get her, but the situation would be entirely different had be been the one at work. But he did not do is think I should take her to the doctor and she…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:51 AM
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I’ve learned that people have a very very shallow understanding of history. Many people have never spoken to their parents or grandparents about the past, they’ve never educated themselves on the rights (and lack there of) of women and the reason for the women’s right movement. They haven’t educated themselves on even further back history - like changing beauty standards. (Hey guys, guess what, in middle aged Europe, women with small titties, blonde, with a pot belly were considered the sexual i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:45 AM
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I never thought women were harmless. No woman who makes it through middle school would think that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:38 AM
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Yes especially about advice to women, too. Advising women to make connections, not worry about finding Mr Right, having hobbies and a life. Same for MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:36 AM
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I agree with that first paragraph for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:35 AM
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Then why are romance novels and erotica - primary consumed by women - generall heterosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:31 AM
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Lesbian porn is centered on female pleasure. Regular porn isn’t . Why is the vast majority of romance novels, written almost exclusively for a female audience, heterosexual if most women are lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:30 AM
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Freud was a coke-head with a mommy fixation . He has been discarded
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:26 AM
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This is pure hogwash as all the failed conversion camp therapy has proven
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:25 AM
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Omg I constantly hear about how women are drags on society and how we are lesser than men who built society and had ALL scientific achievements and build the roads and we are too weak to swing a fucking shovel. And if men disappeared society would collapse but not women. Fuck that noise. Some men say it all the time on this board
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:24 AM
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Hit dog cries
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:21 AM
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So progressive and supportive of women he thinks it’s good to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:16 AM
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Sorry, there is no right for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:15 AM
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Yes until they dare to assert their right not to have to marry or fuck I led they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:14 AM
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Are you serious? Are you equating sexual access to the right to vote? Please let me know where it is legislated that every man must fuck every girl that approaches him, even if it’s a landwhale and your dick goes soft. You’ll just have to eat her out. Oh you want to turn down a land whale? Well I guess we’ll have to strip you of your right to vote or to go to college too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:13 AM
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So you guys are really really weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:10 AM
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“ For me, they are mistakes to learn from, but to women, they are factors to be held against me ruthlessly.” Dude, no woman worth your time is going to hold that threesome against you. Or are you talking about something like a kid? Yah not in the past. Or are you talking about murder. Yah that’s a little bit different than having fucked a few girls. I didn’t get to ditch the fact I was previously married or some other really shitty behavior either. My now husband “judged” me. Guess what, I consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:08 AM
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You have guys on this actively admitting that they lie to get sex and you want to pretend men are so honest and straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:58 AM
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The internet isn’t reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:56 AM
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lol. Nah you are just double faced about promising a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:56 AM
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Or they could break up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:49 AM
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“ t she became demisexual after having 30 hook ups and three gangbangs.” Like no. That isn’t happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:46 AM
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Imagine thinking that average men are good after these posts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:22 AM
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Wait, so your problem is that men will stick their dick in anything but women won’t? Oh well. Men don’t have to worry about violence, sexual assault, pregnancy or increased risk of stds as women. It’s not fair to women is it? Oh well. You will just have to accept the fact that women are people. They get to decide who they want to fuck or not. Same for men btw. You can sleep who you want and who you don’t want. You can date or not date. You can enter ltr or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:08 AM
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Oh well. Men should stop sticking their dick into everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:02 AM
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and I will add that my attraction to men also depends a lot on how I feel about that man. When I dated my now husband, I’ll never forget how he went from attractive to really hot over the course of two hours. We clicked so so well. And I’ll never forget looking at my ex and thinking why ever found him attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:49 AM
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And? That’s her problem that she stayed. I won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:38 AM
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Oh well. I want men to buy me dinner and buy me cars and buy me jewelry all my life. But I’m not Stacy. Yet somehow I’ve not turned into a man hater than threatens to strip men of their right to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:33 AM
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“Some men entertain the dim hope that if women are made consciously aware of the flaws in their dating strategy, then they'll adopt a new strategy.” Why don’t you talk to all the men out there about changing their dating strategy? Like don’t be thirsty. Stop chasing Stacie’s at 17 and look for the average quietly chunky girl in the back of the class. Be willing to commit early in your 20a rather than play the field. Go on tell men that rather than hassling women. Gee I wonder why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:31 AM
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“ men don’t do this though?” You are literally bragging about lying to women about their ltr potential to get casual sex. “ i have exactly the same standards for stacy as i do for betty. the same cannot be said about women.” Lol lmao lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:27 AM
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If you think it’s fine to lie to get pussy, why you so mad about women having your standards. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:25 AM
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“ he’s complaining that they’ll fuck chad on a whim and (likely) give him much better sex and effort than they’d ever give the average guy while simultaneously expecting the average guy to invest infinitely more in her, one of those being commitment.” You treat skinny pretty girls and fat old women the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:24 AM
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That isn’t a lie. Jfc. Did you not change over your 20s? Do you want the same thing in a girlfriend at 20 and at 30? Did you not figure out that the hottest thing you can score is a really shitty choice for a long term relationship? People date, they make mistakes, and they learn how to recognize good people and bad people and what traits are needed for a long term relationship. No woman or man rolls out the door fully mature and smart about relationships at 17. And if you haven’t grown, matured…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:09 AM
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So your good with your gf bringing up that time she heard about before she met you when you had that threesome … over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:56 AM
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Thanks for proving all men- not just Chad - are shits who will lie to pump em and dump em. I mean you’ve explained why all thise “nice guys” don’t get causal sex. If I’m going to be pumped and dumped, I’ll take Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:52 AM
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“ But as a man I run around saying no hymen no diamond and can't turn a ho into a housewife and all that jazz. In general it's my preference.” Like is it impossible for you not to shit all over other people? Me I wouldn’t date any deeply religious or prolife. I don’t have to shit on them as being “fundie nuts”, “brainwashed” or “woman-haters.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:50 AM
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Lmao. Let me know when one of those women say that men should be denied the right to vote, to hold jobs, and should be handed out to women for sexual gratification and unpaid work around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:45 AM
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I regularly see men threaten to strip women of their rights and wishcasting to turn them into second class citizens or being raped. And being serious about it. I never see women tell men the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:44 AM
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I regularly have men say women are stupid, second class citizens, should be stripped of their rights, etc. yet it’s me that got a three day suspension for calling someone out on trashing misogyny. But sure sure, women get to say whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:42 AM
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If it made you a lot more suspicious and untrusting of women, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:36 AM
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To the contrary, lgbtq domestic violence rates (including gay men) equal or exceed hetero relationships: https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-29994648.amp https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.01706/full That’s the only one that notes a higher rate reported by lesbians. It also shows that gay men are more likely to suffer DV. So I guess women isn’t “the cause of nearly all drama” or gay men would have less DV. They don’t. Of course, bold of you that you think D…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:29 PM
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Bullshit - the number of men who complain that western women are so ugly is everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:08 PM
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See this is the perfect example - why date women if you think they are headaches
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:02 PM
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Why is there a complaint of male loneliness then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:54 PM
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I’ll never remarry if something happened to my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:54 PM
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Men who marry live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:53 PM
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I think it’s fine as long as you tell your partner that is your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:51 PM
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Bahahaha. Omg. I saw plenty of examples first hand of cheating men- my dad, my brother, the husband of one of my friends. This is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:49 PM
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Upvotes for that last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:44 PM
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I am a real woman. Most wait until after they are established in their career. Average age for women at first birth is 27.3 in US. https://www.deseret.com/2023/1/31/23579520/first-time-mothers-are-older The number has been increasing and doesn’t seem to be slowing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:42 PM
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I married right out of college when I was 22. He was 25. He had all these markers of “success” according to you all. Tall (6 2), slender, blue eyed, maybe a six or seven face, with a business degree from a top public flagship U (the average acceptance for people into this U now is 4.0 GPA). I loved him. At first. He treated me like dog shit and tried to interfere with my career. He told me I was ugly and fat and no man would want me. But in my twenties I changed. I got my degree, did really well…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:36 PM
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Pre-modern age and good reliable birth control, people controlled their population by committing infanticide. Anyone want to go back to that cause I sure don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:34 AM
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So you’re saying that written rich man’s child should spend his life in poverty because that rich man is a cheap ass piker. Yeah, no. if you don’t want kids take steps to make sure that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:32 AM
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It sounds like nuns and monks are chasing personal accolades - appearing holy. And anyone who rises to the top of their career has exhibited a substantial amount of discipline, renunciation of indulgence, and denial of self gratification. To gain my graduate degree, I had to go through years of living on peanuts and busting my ass in school. That required discipline, and then denial of gratification in the form of spending money I didn’t have in order to accomplish a greater goal. Seems like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:31 AM
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Yes, and there is something called the mother penalty. It’s been documented to occur in the US. Essentially as soon as you become a mother, people look away from assigning you more serious work with the assumption that you are no longer as committed to your job, or capable of working at the same high-level. It isn’t sexism, because childless women do not pay the penalty. Neither do fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:28 AM
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Did you just refer to divorce as a low frequency event? Lol lol lol. I’m well aware of what “at will” employment is, but do tell me how a company can refuse to pay an employee who is at will? And do tell me what’s easier to go through – quitting a job and getting hired for a new one or getting a divorce? If somebody screws me over in a job, I can leave after a month. Let me know about a marriage being ended that quickly especially when there’s kids involved. And PS, you don’t get to accuse me of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:25 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:20 AM
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Japan’s birth rate tanked before ours. I don’t think it’s westernization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:20 AM
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Yah fuck that. I’m smarter than most men (and women). Why shouldn’t I earn a high salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:40 PM
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No one is trying to turn your kids gay. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:37 PM
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Nah. Women, particularly with careers, don’t want that many kids. And you won’t be stopping divorce so every woman needs to look out for her bottom line
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:35 PM
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Is that what’s happening in Japan and China. Their birthrate dropped long before ours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:33 PM
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Word. I have two. My brother has one and my sister has none.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:32 PM
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Men shouldn’t have to pay for the kids they made. Sounds like men don’t really want kids huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:30 PM
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Why is not having kids narcissism? Do you consider nuns and monks narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:29 PM
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They have to erase the economic consequences. And those consequences are substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:29 PM
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C. Women are told to be anything but a wife/mom. For some reason, working at a cubicle farm at BigCorp is "freedom" but making your husband a sammich is "slavery." Who pays me? Who can I easily replace? I have labor laws etc that protect me in my job. What protects me from a financially abusive husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:26 PM
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The problem today in the West (and specially in the West, since we have here the highest quality of life) is that now lots of women are doing the same, and while like I said, it's not necesarily wrong nor bad, the model in itself is not sustainable. Looks over at japan and china. Sure this is a “west” issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:25 PM
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Weird how it’s Asia that had the earliest crash in birth rates long before the US. Looks over at Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:14 PM
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That is gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:25 PM
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Uh huh. Having a “go bag”’is too much power. This is a really crazy take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:04 PM
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So even though both genders are about equally at risk of rape, commit domestic violence at similar rate, etc. And who is raping those guys? That’s right, by and large men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:01 PM
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The stats show that women are more likely to have their gun turned against them by an intimate partner than use it in self defense. Sounds like it isn’t maladaptive. And I am a gun owner. https://time.com/6183881/gun-ownership-risks-at-home/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1448464/ Older cite: https://www.vpc.org/studies/myth.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:58 PM
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Men get disparaged for prenups?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:52 PM
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Nah man. I did that with husband one. He was smart and had a good degree and looked like7 coming out of college. 6-2 blue eyed, runners physique, came out of a flagship university with a degree in business. And I did love him. He completely collapsed - he also treated me bad. I left after spending six years of my twenties with him. Btw he was the only man I’d been with. So he got a virgin with a college degree, white women, who was a bit pudgy (that was my mark down. Not the prettiest out there)…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:50 PM
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I absolutely give stellar blowjobs. But that means you’d have to accept that. I have a sexual past. Of course, I’m already married, and happily so. He gets the advantage of stellar blowjobs, even after 16 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:09 AM
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It all started in the 80s though. That’s when productivity disconnected from income it used to be that the more efficient and the harder you work the more money you got. No longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:08 AM
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Yes they would. Because women aren’t allowed to grow up women aren’t allowed to learn. Women must be perfectly fully adult at age 18 never sleep with anybody but you and be ready to settle down the second you want them to. Of course, is an aimed at you because you’re sensible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:07 AM
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G I wonder why you’re having problems being ignored then if being a jerk worked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:05 AM
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Men should stop looking at women to fulfill every one of the relationship needs. It’s actually an incredibly toxic thing that modern men do. They did not do this. In the past they had relationships with other men. All you have to do is read how some of the founding fathers talked about each other. But now men seem to expect women to provide their entire social network and off loneliness. They need to look at single women and see how they build a long-term social network among friends and do it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:00 AM
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Seems like Europe is doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:56 AM
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Anti-work is fabulous. I’d like to go back to the work week we had in the 60s and the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:55 AM
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Gen Z seems really anxious but by and large they seem pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:55 AM
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Boy do I agree by and large with this post. I’ve admitted here I am mid for physical attractiveness. It was very clear to me as I grew up that I wouldn’t magically get a man. It’s why I pursued a serious career so I could be independent. People here gets so angry that they feel like they meet criteria (good job or have a house) is going to hand them a spouse. That isn’t how this works. And it isn’t how it ever worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:52 AM
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Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:53 PM
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There are now resources for male sufferers of domestic violence. My brother was a victim of his wife. It is not as well recognized and should be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:51 PM
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F-k no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:47 PM
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God yes It’s like they have very little contact with women in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:40 PM
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Ah so that’s your problem. You blame women for your own personal failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:37 PM
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lol. Trashes half the population but thinks he’s very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:36 PM
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“ Women are genuinely too stupid to know what they want and will lie to everyone including themselves concerning what it is they want.” I think I know why women don’t want people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:35 PM
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But he’s “high value.” I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:34 PM
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I’d kill the man and myself. Or leave the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:06 AM
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And they don’t want Chad forced into marriage because it’s all envy - they wish they were the Chad. They all get these absolute crazy ideas where they will be the alpha male with the harem should the world fall apart. No, they’d be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:04 AM
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The most violent gender huh? Seems like we should start just locking guys up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:01 AM
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I’m liberal and feminist and couldn’t give a damned about polyamory. You do you. I won’t though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:28 PM
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Ps I’m a career driven woman with two kids who managed to get married twice. That second marriage is still going strong. Like why do people hate career women or think they are destined for three cats at age 50? Most women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:25 PM
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I’ve seen this with single women with kids. Like they join up and have a house and raise their kids together. My sister and her best friend had a deal that they would have a companionate marriage if neither married by a certain age. He sadly died in his forties. No kids tho Google companionate marriages. This is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:23 PM
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Wow. I’d have given up after the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:17 PM
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Since it takes two to make the kids, it takes two to be fully responsible. I always advise women demand financial recompense in a prenup to balance the uneven investment required by men and women in the making and raising of children because women pay massive penalties for becoming mothers. The amount of time I had to spend away from work on doctors appointment, etc is insane. Or don’t have children. But it’s funny to see this comment but then for all the guys to wonder why women won’t have kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:16 PM
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Look, it can happen, but this guy isn’t talking about a certain weird situation, he’s claiming it is ALL like this. What you are describing isn’t “all” or even a majority. If his friends and family are bailing, that is most likely due to some terrible stuff he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:12 PM
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Right here. I’ve known several military marriages. My niece just eloped with her army guy. He’s like 19z. She is 18 and has to follow him where ever he is stationed which makes education and employment difficult. I am praying she gets on those benefits to get an education so it’s mutually supportive for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:10 PM
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Where does my estranged husband trying to blow his brains out in front of me while I was paying him off the last of the money I agreed to give him (he made bank off me) count? Or when he slashed my tires? Or when he later threatened the man I was dating (he was an ex by then)? That man ended up being the man I married and built a life with. Good he didn’t scare easily. I need to go hug him. To answer specifically: One: Character assassination. Whatever compromising materials she has on her man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:07 PM
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It says a lot you admire Tate - a fucking criminal sex trafficker. Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:21 AM
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Are you comparing a drug kingpin who is filthy rich in a third world country your average drug dealer. Lol Fine go deal drugs and get yourself some toothless meth girl pussy. Sure her breath will stink and she’ll be covers in sores but you don’t care about the women - you just want some rancid hole to stick it in. Big man now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:20 AM
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35% of Harvard graduates are virgins Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:17 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:50 PM
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She’s talking about the situation where the bf keeps promising to marry one day in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:46 PM
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Yes we know - you’ve got a revenge fantasy going on. Rolls eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:43 PM
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This is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:36 PM
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“ If you date only hot girls on insta, you’ll find nearly all of them have gone on paid dates.” I begin to see the issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:35 PM
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“ I've literally watched guys that are top 5% in height and looks pull regular threesome with women they met just out at a store.” Sure huh huh, yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:31 PM
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So do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:29 PM
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lol lmao. No. Instagram influencers aren’t typical
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:29 PM
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Yup. I have had 12. My sister is like a 2 or 3. My brother - probably over 25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:27 PM
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Humanity survived the black plague which was worse than the collapse or SPQR. I don’t see anyone adopting traditional Muslim society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:26 PM
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Black people, gay people, and women would disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:24 PM
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Nah. You aren’t getting the genie back into the box
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:21 PM
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You’re raving dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:20 PM
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Nah, he needs something Iike lithium
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:20 PM
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I’m linking to this comment the next time someone claims women are so irrational. (Not yours January but ACOM)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:19 PM
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No, probably odd luck has actually done reading and research
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:15 PM
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L O L. No, they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:14 PM
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No, they weren’t. Pre-Christian Rome was actually incredibly accepting of other religions. This is why you ended up with tons of foreign cults in Rome such as Isis and Mithridates. Ram was not particularly zealous about religion in comparison, to any other ancient culture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:13 PM
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Not that I know, because unfortunately, people really didn’t have a choice about how many children they had because they didn’t have birth control. But we sure know what happened after various epidemic and pandemic happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:11 PM
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You are nuts. Infertility is an issue because people are having kids later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:09 PM
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Have any evidence to back that rank speculation up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:33 PM
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Why don’t you just say that you’ve never bothered to take a course in history because you sure are making it clear you absolutely never once cracked a history book about any other time that predates modern medicine. Here’s an idea google the black plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:25 PM
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And then, like they don’t realize that these societal issues that you identify, I have a profound and negative effect on dating and children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:22 PM
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This is so stupid. The entire world isn’t on instagram. Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:20 PM
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Exactly. It’s like they can’t imagine a different society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:19 PM
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Men get affirmative action to get into college. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:17 PM
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Yes we would. I may play sub with my husband in bed but I’m not quitting my goddamned job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:16 PM
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lol - child support. Like wtf? Don’t men think they are financially responsible for their own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:15 PM
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It never dawns on them why women worked so hard to change it if it was so great being second class citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:14 PM
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No, the women YOU attracted are like that. Other women, like me, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:14 PM
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“Because women don't care about men being unable to get a relationship on terms they find acceptable.” So? No one cares that I as a woman couldn’t get a relationship that I wanted? Should we have stripped away the rights of men so that ugly fat girls can have the pick of the litter? It’s amazing how quick you’ve decided that you should strip the rights of other people so you get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:13 PM
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Here is an example: The Expendables
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:36 PM
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lol no. You don’t know fuck all about middle school if you think all girls are treated like princesses. Fuck NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:32 PM
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Then go for it. You live what you ask of others. Just remember it’s a very narrow pool. If I would only have accepted a virgin, I’d have been SOL, even as a 19 year old virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:30 PM
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“ just like short men respect ours.” Really? Because a shit ton mock that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:27 PM
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lol. “Don’t date land whales!” “Why can’t I date a skinny woman!” Give me a fucking break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:27 PM
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I didn’t see it here but a ton of online men kept calling Margot Robbie mid. Lmao. And what is the obsession with Lizzo? I don’t see articles say about how fat Jack Black is or how Branden Frazier (who was an absolute hottie in the 90s) let himself go. I don’t see people writing articles about how they are promoting fat acceptance or pushing women to date fat men. Yet lord, the articles for Lizzo. How many times do you see women here squalling about how Tom Cruise is pushing short man acceptance…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:16 PM
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Anyway, to be fair to women, many men here also shame women for preferring tall, financially stable men, even if it’s less common for that to happen. Less common??? The height shit in particular is very common .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:08 PM
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So what you’re saying is that men push back on women stating their standards in dickish ways. She’s being a dick. She deserved the push back. Men should learn from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:06 PM
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lol. And how exactly are you being shamed into dating an 0? Who is coming to your door and saying, how dare you not marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:45 AM
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So would you bitch if a woman said, nah won’t date him, he’s bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:44 AM
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Haha logs into Cinder. High five for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:41 AM
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Conservatives are not the only ones having kids. And in our society, liberalism is transmitted by culture not genes. And church going has dropped off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:40 AM
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Women are statistically more cooperative and agreeable than men. They are equally assertive. Maybe you just hate people. https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/bul-137-6-881.pdf https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4881750/ Ps, anger is an emotion. Women are not “more” emotional than men based on empiric studies. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5937254/ Women are as effective at social cooperation (being allies and friends) as men. https://www.nature.com/articles/srep012…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:30 AM
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Like this is so weird. Here is how I know my husband isn’t a woman hater. He used to brag to his friends how smart and accomplished I was. My sis and bro are both in IT. My husband has discussed how smart and willing to learn my sis is compared to my brother. He regularly hires and speaks well of female programmers as well as male. He speaks highly of the competence of women he met in the military. It is quite clear through myriad of ways that he considers women equal to men. He doesn’t have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:07 AM
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Hell no. Because that means he’ll be looking down on me the rest of our married life. Your fiancé is immature. In a marriage, you will fall in and out of love and back again. That new relationship energy goes away. And how will you be treating her when you don’t love her as much today as you did yesterday? Because that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:47 AM
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I’m curious, would you bitch if a woman decided that she didn’t like your straight hair and wanted curly hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:41 AM
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What? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:40 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:39 AM
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Bull fucking shit. Look how much shit Lizzo gets for being fat and that’s in the real world sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:38 AM
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No, they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:37 AM
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Well, you can change being poor why don’t you just get rich? After all it’s changeable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:37 AM
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Why? After all we constantly get slammed by men for our preferences. I guess it’s the nature of the Ruff and tumble Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:36 AM
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And a woman merely stating she wants a tall man or a rich man gets her dog piled here, too. So what exactly is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:35 AM
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And how many men trash Lizzo, even though she’s a world famous multimillionaire? That’s the point women don’t think pieces about how Tom Cruise is less attractive because he’s short. Men love to tear down a successful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:34 AM
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God, thank you for the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:33 AM
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lol. Society hardly bats an eye? Do you see ALL the people here shitting on women for the 6 foot standard? Fuck back in 2004 when I met my husband on match, he gave me an earful. He’s 5/8 You wanna PSA from the Biden administration running on all media saying “women don’t look over the short dudes for men’s health?” I mean do you see all the men EVERWHERE who shit all over fat women? I mean Cruise is what, 5/8? And he’s been a sex icon since Risky Business. You don’t see women writing think piec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:32 AM
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Men receive affirmative action in college education. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html Everyone should be required for selective service, including my daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:45 AM
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Hi, I am a career woman like most women by the way. Because most women work. I’ll let my husband know that I’m secretly a man, even though I had two children and wear a thongs and occasionally suck his dick. He’ll be quite surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:40 AM
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Are you good with your lower earning wife having dates with Rodrigo the pool boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:37 AM
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Good Lord. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:36 AM
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My husband and I never fought over chores. And we got a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:35 AM
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Now he’s relying on TikTok, which is definitely a very reliable source. I swear these guys have less Internet savvy then my 13-year-old daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:34 AM
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No. But then, I’m 5 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:33 AM
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Women are, most don't go past 3rd stage of Kohlberg's stages of moral development so it's not a surprise men will lump those together. Yet, women graduate highschool at higher rates, do better in school, and are admitted into post secondary education at higher rates, even though MEN receive affirmative action: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html Women are reaching the markers of responsibility in this society - they buy houses at higher rates https://www.pewre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:30 AM
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God you really hate men. Considering you consider them sex crazed beasts, maybe yuh should lock them up? PS I don’t give a goddamned what a bunch of Bronze Age sheepherders think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:05 AM
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So are all the single men who don’t convince a woman to carry their child. You are a fool if you don’t realize how important spinster sisters and bachelor uncles are in encouraging their family genes to move forward. My children carry in part my sister’s genes and her investment in my children monetarily and with interest puts them at a competitive advantage. Cite - the Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:04 AM
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“Supposedly.” In other words, you have no evidence other than your desperate hopes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:02 AM
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Normie men kill each other off. You really don’t want to go back to feudalism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:00 AM
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Oh I agree. We absolutely should adopt what our more socialist neighbors in Europe do - both men and women should get parental leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:57 AM
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“ laws, get rid of maternal leave.” So in other words, no children. What the fuck? I wanna see a man suffer the physical trial of pregnancy and immediately go back to work. And who the fuck is taking care of the baby? You guys hate children and then wonder why no one wants to have yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:56 AM
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The number of men who botch about land whales around here - I don’t see them “shut down.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:52 AM
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I have one response - 6/6/6 This sub is FILLED with men shaming (ie criticizing) women for having too high standards. If yuh don’t want to date a fat single mother, go on with your bad self. I’d have been resistant to dating a poor ass dude. But don’t come whining here to this board over how you can’t find anyone. Have your standards - live by them, die by them. PS - and people laugh when you are jabba the hut demanding Princess Laia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:52 AM
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You are correct. On top of that, you know who women usually need protection from? Men. And it’s the same for men! People point out that men are more often the victim of violent crime… from men! Men should really be concerned about male violence and join women in ending it rather that bitching at women that men aren’t protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:45 AM
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Yes, women do not love unconditionally except perhaps their children. I love my children like that. Why, who says that women do? They don’t. But if my husband hit me or cheated on me or treated me like shit, I would rapidly fall out of love with him. And I don’t expect any man to love a woman unconditionally. If they do, they are fools - and I will tell that to the men and the women. Someone who treats you like shit doesn’t deserve your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:42 AM
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This made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:38 AM
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And the result has been an increase in abortion rates and permanent bc for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:36 AM
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You should read Brave New World
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:28 AM
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Nah, not until society is willing to compensate women for the investment into child rearing. As long as you keep penalizing the middle class, particularly women, for having children, women won’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:23 AM
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Women were forced out of the market
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:21 AM
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It isn’t tho - that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:16 AM
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Sounds like it works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:11 AM
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FWB means “friends with benefits” so assumably the women are friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:11 AM
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What is the added cost of a LTR (unless the LTR = marriage) versus a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:08 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:07 AM
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1. Marital rape was legal. 2. Women had to give over control of their property to their husbands. 3. Men could beat their wives. 4. Men barred women from any education (if we are going back 500 years). 5. Men barred women from medical school, law school, most flagship universities. My Alma mater, Uva first admitted a woman in ‘69. My mother, a 4.0 student, was denied admissions in like 66 and was finally allowed in to the School of Education. Coed was not fully allowed until 1972. One of my mom’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:05 AM
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1. Marital rape was legal. 2. Women had to give over control of their property to their husbands. 3. Men could beat their wives. 4. Men barred women from any education (if we are going back 500 years). 5. Men barred women from medical school, law school, most flagship universities. My Alma mater, Uva first admitted a woman in ‘69. My mother, a 4.0 student, was denied admissions in like 66 and was finally allowed in to the School of Education. Coed was not fully allowed until 1972. One of my mom’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:05 AM
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Care to cite anything for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:45 PM
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Care to compare Kim Kardasian to Marilyn Monroe. Do you know how skinny Monroe was? Monroe was 35/22/35 and Kardashian is 38/25/41. KK is three inches shorter. Care to compare the rubensque woman to twiggy? Care to compare the sexy woman in the Middle Ages (she needed small pert busts, no facial hair (pluck those eyebrows and hair line girl), and a pooch) to some six pack girl today? Wonder about all those girls with breast enhancements? Yah screw your gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:44 PM
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Meanwhile men keep posting here crowd sourcing dating techniques from other guys. Men can’t figure out shit for themselves I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:37 PM
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I don’t find chalamet very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:00 PM
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I love it when men think it’s only women impacted by social trends. News flash, Madison Avenue has your number, too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:58 PM
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Women are equal to men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:42 PM
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Nice irrelevant comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:37 PM
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Except for being overweight, you would be describing my sister. My sister is actually quite athletic, with a fine bone structure, and I don’t think it’s ever been overweight a day in her life. But she very clearly is on the spectrum, and also suffered abuse as a child. She can’t understand why I’ve been successful with men despite being less attractive, and a bit heavier. Personality does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:33 PM
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Btw, this was me until I learned better: “ Both of them seem to think sacrifice and servility will earn their dude's love and respect.” This is why I don’t buy it when guys around here push for submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:29 PM
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I’ve got your friend too. My (ex) friend is and has been completely wrapped up in this guy. She was the OW through his first marriage. Thought she’d get him when he divorced, but he married his childhood sweetheart. But just kept her on a string. She’s overweight and not terribly attractive. Very passive in life. Smart and nice but very very self involved. I got tired of her shit, listening to get perpetually whine about x,y, and z and then go right back. Not just that dude but several other sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:28 PM
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Yes they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:42 AM
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Liberalism isn’t spread genetically
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:31 AM
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Microchimerism is not a thing. And considering one in four have had an abortion, it’s petty mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:26 PM
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lol lmao. Please. It amazes me how much you can’t accept that people are allowed to have opinions about you and your regressive ways too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:25 PM
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I’d have to disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:24 PM
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Damn that 15 year old girl for being immature. Jesus. It amazes me how little men allow women to learn and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:11 PM
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lol lmao. So sorry you don’t like the answers. Go back to R / prolife where I see you all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:09 PM
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And if a man would keep his dick in his pants it wouldn’t happen. Women are not “in control.” That’s why rape is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:02 PM
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Nah she’s right. That’s why it’s referred to as “expecting” a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:00 PM
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Me neither. Shrug. Of course I only dated prochoice men. Won’t go near a prolife one or a religious man ever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:59 PM
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Yah I stayed home with the kids for six months and ended up severely depressed. No thank you. Not every woman is you. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:48 PM
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Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:46 PM
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Dude. I am in a happy marriage. So is my husband. I admire his skills, particularly when it comes to math and mechanics. He admires my skills when it comes to written communication. We each appreciate and admire our strengths. I do not “look” up him. And I would never want to be in a marriage where he looks down on me. This look up/look down on stuff is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:46 PM
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“If you give a woman benevolent masculine provision and protection, the healthy response from her would be joyful submissive femininity.” No. This is my life. I will be active in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:43 PM
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lol. Sure it’s all women’s fault there is wage suppression, not the slow roll back of workers protections
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:37 PM
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My husband did that for me if he’s in front of me, I do it for him when I’m in front of him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:31 PM
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Oh yes, I am what would be considered a feminist. I thought Fifty Shades of Grey was disgusting. Not because I’m not down with some BDSM but because it was in abusive relationship, not BDSM. but all the conservative voting I know for sure women at my office love to sit around the kitchen table and giggle about it gross. Several of us ladies in my group all of them would be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:26 PM
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Well, it is very true. It is easier to stay married to another person who is more cooperative and agreeable, and has good resolution skills. Not gonna lie, but that’s some thing that my husband and I had to work hard on because we both can be less than agreeable. But I’m going to say to you that many times the most submissive and agreeable wife still find yourself in a situation where she needs to get divorce or her husband wants to divorce her. Good luck with whatever comes your way!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:22 PM
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First, that’s laughable. Child support doesn’t even come close to covering the actual expenses and raising children. On top of that if you’d bother, checking the stats, you will discover that a substantial portion of child support isnt actually paid. Second, child support ends when the kids turn 18. It doesn’t make up for all the time that I’ve lost saving to my retirement getting good skill set and the rest of it if I’ve been out of work for 20 years. Give me a break, you guys must be infants i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:17 PM
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Children are the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:15 PM
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Because the women are the ones who are mostly saddled with the kids while the fathers runoff?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:14 PM
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So nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:14 PM
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All of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:13 PM
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“ often comment about how social awkwardness shouldn’t be seen as creepy or dangerous and am against recording guys in gyms who “stare.” No fucking recording in gym by anyone. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:11 PM
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I actually Support a lot more focus on educational attainment for men, particularly in high school. People are kicking around, delaying the age in which children enter school. Bringing back far more physical exercise. I’d like to see computers much more restricted in school. I like to see a lot more hands on work classes in school more than just the periodic shop or home EC. I’d like a lot more of financial investment into afterschool activities for both boys and girls but particularly for boys …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:10 PM
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lol what male things? I don’t see any women trashing men for working hard. But once you have kids, you also need to invest some of that time in your kids. Who criticizes men for becoming professionals? Who criticizes men for enjoying, and being part of athletics? I’ve a hell of a lot more support for trades, which I think is great I think we should. The only big change I’ve seen is a pushback on men hitting on women at their jobs and criticism of men who talk about women and really disgusting wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:59 PM
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Although we won’t say anything about my tiling. My husband looked at what I did to our bathroom floor, rolled his eyes, and got the handyman in. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:55 PM
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Two things - do you say that to black people? First,do you literally say, “yah I know we abused you, enslaved you, and made it so that you weren’t allowed to read” on one hand but then turn around and say “why didn’t you create anything?” I mean, wtf would you have done if you were barred from education and not allowed to go to college. Lol. Second thing - men who get high off what other men did generally don’t have shit that they’ve done in their own lives. You are telling on yourselves when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:53 PM
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Men receive affirmative action for college - yes white men. https://www.thenation.com/article/society/college-admissions-gender/tnamp/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:44 PM
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“ Most women want a world where they can nuke their kid without any consequence” Lol - you think men don’t support abortion????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:42 PM
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I actually agree with several of your recommendations. My mom as a teen dated a lot of guys at the same time before picking one to go steady with. No she wasn’t a ho. Back then you WERENT having hook up sex (although premarital sex may happen in a steady relationship.) so it was fine to go out with several guys on simple dates like to the movies or dinner or for a walk just to see whether you liked the guy as a person. And then eventually you picked one to go steady with. We really should get aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:39 PM
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My dad (now 83) dumped his wife (my mom) to run off with her friend. That friend by the way was on her second marriage. I was five at the time. Tell me about this commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:35 PM
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You mean what happens here all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:33 PM
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God I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:31 PM
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I agree with most of that except I think it’s quite good women have rights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:29 PM
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Thumbs up for third places
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:27 PM
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“ Single mothers are supported more than single fathers.” False. https://www.parents.com/parenting/dynamics/single-parenting/single-moms-vs-single-dads-a-look-at-the-double-standards-of-single-parenthood-how-we-can-do-better/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:24 PM
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Uh I do. I set up my WiFi myself when I was married to husband one. Like women can do plumbing and electrical work. And my husband is in IT and works with plenty of female coders. He considers the ladies very good and - more importantly - less egotistical when taking direction. My sister has been in IT enterprise for 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:17 PM
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All that. My husband is my love and my support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:02 PM
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Well that’s what happens when women have to fight to get into the work force and reach the same professional levels as men. And it’s what happens when you make women pay the mother penalty because they are stuck doing the unpaid labor of raising kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:00 PM
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You always make me think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:58 PM
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Lol. Yah, we saw in the pandemic how UNNECESSARY teachers were - They were very necessary. Families were screaming for school to go back. Kids lost ground in reading and other basic skills. I’ll never forget attending a literacy event where a major corporation talked about the difficulty relocating to our area because not enough of the workers read at an 8th grade level. Both my girls exceeded that in elementary school. Who do you think is teaching your kids to do high level math? Who do you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:56 PM
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So your parents are divorced and you don’t see why women caution against being a SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:44 PM
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You and most other men posting here can’t meet the standards of medical school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:43 PM
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Marital rape only became a crime in all states on July 5 1993 https://vawnet.org/material/marital-rape-new-research-and-directions#:~:text=Historically%2C%20most%20rape%20statutes%20read,of%20the%20sexual%20offense%20codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:37 PM
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No whats dangerous is to find your husband cheating and divorcing you at age 42, be dumped out on the labor market w/o marketable skills after 20 years of being a SAHM. You all are being deliberately obtuse. Or you are very very very young
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:33 PM
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Lol. I just don’t understand why men aren’t clambering to be SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:31 PM
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Not really. Have you considered asking why? Had my mom been a housewife our life would have SUXED when dad ran off with her best friend. No money, barely any child support. As it was, even with a job, our standard of living dropped. Had I been a housewife, I would have been stuck in a terrible first marriage with a man essentially incapable of holding down a good job. But here is the thing - I COULD! I could hold down a job that made 3x - 4x as much. So I should have just been poor? Like WTF? So…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:30 PM
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lol. “Tik toks” and “YouTube” videos are super reliable guys! We know if it’s on the internet it’s true! I had casual sex. I have an n-count of 12 I guess? I’m pair bonded with my husband. Until there is sound scientific data to back up this idea that being promiscuous means women won’t pair bond, I’m just going to laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:10 AM
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No I will not take anyone because I leerme what it was like to be in a shitty marriage. LA and DC are awful for dating. Good luck to your friend. I hope he gets out of there. Maybe AZ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:52 AM
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See the thing is? My “narrative” is backed up by MEDICAL sites that specifically quantify fat% to height to weight. Your narrative is pulled out of your ass. Your ass and some free-trash app on GirHub is just that, trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:45 AM
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Uh huh, see this guy wants to vote for Trump because he wants to burn it all down. Very analytical - so policy based - obviously non-emotional. I guess 58 year old men need to be barred from voting. https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2024/01/22/new-hampshire-primary-voter-00136850 This isn’t a commentary on Trump but on the profiled voter who wants to “break” the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:37 AM
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Dude can’t even spell the word “pity” but wants to take MY right to vote away. I, a practicing attorney who graduated in the top 10% of her class and demonstrated superior analytical skills to many men and women. Nah, dude, to hell with you. The ones keeping women out of the military and selective service are conservative men. https://www.rubio.senate.gov/rubio-colleagues-oppose-using-the-defense-bill-to-force-women-to-register-for-the-draft/ Real convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:33 AM
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Lizzo is pretty for someone with her stats. So if you like big girls up, she’s pretty. And while I am smaller than Lizzo every which way, she’s pretty for a big girl. I don’t want to be that fat. And I think I’m prettier than Lizzo. So why would I feel complimented about Lizzo?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:28 PM
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Please ignore this ladies - 125 for a 5’10 is underweight. This is absolutely wrong. A 5,10 woman at a healthy bmi should be 149 to 183. Ignore some GitHub stupidity that some nerd man put together. Actual fat should be assessed individually by a doctor with accurate tools. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323446#weight-and-height-guide https://www.bannerhealth.com/staying-well/health-and-wellness/fitness-nutrition/ideal-weight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:23 PM
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lolz. Men: multiple partners means you’re a stud. Men: multiple partners means women are gross
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:56 AM
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"Stupid incels, don't they know that sex, love and everything around romance isn't that important and they should learn to live without it" coming from the very same people who'd (rightly) cry homophobia the moment a social conservative who suggests that being gay or lesbian was never a problem, it's acting said deposition that was socially constrained. I’m really sorry you don’t understand the difference between a person being sexually/romantically unsuccessful versus society passing laws to pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:55 AM
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This has to be a joke. It’s ridiculous. If the dude wants more experience don’t enter a monogamous relationship. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:55 PM
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“ While I'm uncomfortable with cheating (i.e., outright adultery / infidelity), I am of the opinion that late bloomer men are definitely entitled to bully their SOs into accepting one-sided "ethical non-monogamy" arrangements, especially those that are short of open relationships.” Oh so bullying a spouse is acceptable? Fine. I advocate for bullying my spouse to accept being pegged as I didn’t get that opportunity for that experience pre-marriage. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:54 PM
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You ain’t nice if you are just being nice to fuck. You guys never learned that honor is doing the right thing when no one is looking. Just doing it for pussy and social credit means you aren’t honorable, nice, virtuous, or upstanding. You’re just an actor and only skin deep. Just a fucking liar. Jesus. And of course you only care about pussy, not the woman that it’s attached to. And you aren’t interested in having a family or relationship either. But then you’ll scream wondering why no one wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:22 PM
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Oh wow yah Sweden isn’t a great comparison to the US
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:00 PM
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lol. Because if you DIDNT have a husband back then, you’d be destitute. Jesus. Very few people give that much of a shit if a guy is single. The guy himself gives a shit because he wants sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:57 PM
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Napoleon came from a middling and poor aristocratic family on Corsica. So not the bottom of the barrel and not the top. Napoleon was an average height for a man of that time. He was neither short nor tall. The short man complex comes from English propaganda. Napoleon was actually pretty damned good looking. He also was a military genius. Josephine was older than Napoleon was. Just want to give Napoleon a little love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:54 PM
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Men are most likely to be the victims of other men. You all should start addressing that rather than blaming women who have learned the hard way and from their mothers and sisters that men will victimize them as well. You should join forces with women to stop male violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:45 PM
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Nice guys confuse nice with doormats. As I explained about my husband - how can I count on a man to stand up for me if he can’t stand up to me. Hub is nice - he has helped out friends, he volunteer coaches, he did a ton of work for the Red Cross. But he has self respect. And yes being “nice” isn’t enough to get into someone’s pants. If you are being nice in exchange for sex, you aren’t nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:39 PM
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Women parter with terrible man. Men here: “you should have vetted better. You should have listened to your daddy or brother….” Women ask advice from friends and family about man she is dating. Men here: “you are just a sheep! Men are more free thinking and independent!” The answer is always the same - “any woman who is not riding my dick alone and rejecting everyone else is wrong. I am always the correct choice.” Look, if only my brother had listened to his family, he wouldn’t have had that seco…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:07 PM
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Bahahaha. Way to insult women and demonstrate you don’t know shit about wolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:57 AM
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Nods head. Everyone thinks commercials don’t work on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:53 AM
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No. Men may fuck a chubby girl because it gets him hard. Men won’t be in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:50 AM
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Goddamn 🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:00 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:55 AM
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lol lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:54 AM
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No 50k is not unless you are somewhere really cheap like backwater West Va.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:50 AM
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Yup! Boss has to actually pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:49 AM
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Here’s an idea - research Martha Stewart. She is the first self made billionaire in the US - yes beat out all the men - by faking domesticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:48 AM
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You are so dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:47 AM
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Because you all are standing on the shoulders of all the feminists before you. You don’t have to worry about fault divorce or having to relocate and live in a different state like Nevada in order to get a divorce. You can get your own bank accounts and your own credit cards whether you’re staying at home mom or not. You don’t have to worry about not getting paid equal to men. You think you can always go back to school if you need to. There are laws in place to protect you from domestic violence.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:46 AM
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I always dated around about my age. My husband is five years older than I am. I will say when I was 17 there was a creepy man who was my boss like his late 40s early 50s thst kept hitting on me. he was gross. And at the time it wasn’t like I was terribly successful with dating. I still didn’t go near him I did date for a while a guy 20 years older than me. He was fun but I certainly wasn’t interested in anything long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:38 AM
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Let’s think logically. So you weren’t good looking or financially well off enough (sliding scale there) to smash 20 year olds when you were also in your twenties. Why do you think you are going to be able to compete in your 30s? Do you think you’ll be better looking than the good looking guys in their twenties? Or do you think you will have enough money in your 30s to draw off those girls motivated by that? I mean, that money has to be a lot, because girls make their own money now and many aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:30 AM
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I love how you start out with data and then start making all sorts of wild and stereotypical speculations about women and their cellphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:12 AM
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Let's clarify, how often do you mow the lawn? (My husband and I fight over who gets to mow the lawn. We share outdoors chores evenly. Why do you think women never do gardening etc? And in winter no one is doing much of anything) Take out the trash? (All the time. I easily do it more) Change the oil, spark plugs or fix a fence? (Last time we had to fix a fence, we both did it. I haven’t changed oil since my 20s. We both take our cars in. I admit my husband does more of the car stuff because he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:10 AM
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Nah, see these six figures guys don’t want to feel like they’ve bought a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:59 AM
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Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:56 AM
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You aren’t. All the venture capital dried up and the big companies are streamlining. Husband is in tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:54 AM
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My idea of masculinity is how one treats one’s family and the world - that is why I mentioned the teacher my uncle. But everyone I identified are excellent at their jobs. My husband is - competent - he can do anything, fix anything, etc. everyone there I’ve identified is successful financially. It’s not so much numbers (your salary) but whether you can handle your business and life. Honor comes out implicitly with fidelity to family. Valor - that would be feeling protected. Valor as in joining t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:53 AM
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I’m not taking an L because of what some dumbass influencer who makes money off your rage-clicks thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:16 PM
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Not for China
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:13 PM
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Hi five for the Swedish men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:11 PM
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Obama is a great man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:09 PM
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High five for Mr. Rogers and Fraser. Fraser has BALLS
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:09 PM
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My husband. Paul Newman. I know he divorced his first wife but divorces sometimes happen and he was devoted absolutely to his second wife for 50 years. Served in the military. Raised his kids away from Hollywood. Rick Moranis. Funny, devoted to his wife until her death. Devoted family man. This is sad, but I don’t include either my brother or my father on this. My uncle. Devoted to his kids, step kids, and all his nieces and nephews. He helped me out so much. All of us. A teacher for years. Exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:08 PM
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I rely on comics and Reddit posts to prove my point - see men are so much more intelligent! /s On anonymous testing, I outscored 90% of everyone - men and women - in my post doc. That tells me everything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:57 PM
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Franklin advanced x-ray crystallography and was supervising the doctoral student using her techniques and her lab equipment and her advances to take the picture. Crick and Watson also relied heavily on a report written by Franklin. https://www.jsonline.com/story/entertainment/arts/2019/01/17/photograph-51-asks-if-rosalind-franklin-gets-credit-she-deserves/2534710002/ https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-023-01313-5 I get it - you hate women. You want to pretend we do nothing, advance nothing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:54 PM
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Aw I love Rick Moranis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:43 PM
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Yes this is the source of the mother penalty: https://www.aauw.org/issues/equity/motherhood/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:41 PM
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God I have such a crush on you. The truth is that patriarchy is a lot like unfettered capitalism - too many people buy into it because they think they will be the one at the apex. King Henry fucked the wife of William Carey (Mary Boleyn), and did either have any choice? And Carey probably raised Henry’s bastard. If you were a low status man, high status just took from you whether you liked it or not. We really are much better off allowing for flexibility to pick what works for us individually. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:40 PM
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If you read, the guy pointed out, he was in a 50-50 situation for employment. Unless you think those women are by or lesbian, they don’t have anybody to cheat with if it’s a majority female work area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:20 PM
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No, you must agree with him and if you don’t you’re bad. Rolls eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:15 PM
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If you can’t handle the negative connotations of being a cradle robber you are too soft to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:14 PM
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Yup. Mom told me to never be financially dependent on a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:09 PM
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I don’t see cheating as quite as rampant in the professional offices where I work as what you describe. Cheating however has always been common. That’s why there were laws and moral codes against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:29 PM
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Why would any woman give a damned about your view when you not only tell them they are wrong about their own experiences, you then proceed to call them awful names. How pathetic are you. It’s like this for a lot of women - dying of thirst surrounded by salt water. Sure, take a sip - it will kill you faster. You may be desperate enough to stick your dick into anything but women are looking for a relationship and that means he’s got to have more than functioning tackle. Get some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:33 AM
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“ That men love women for who women are…” My husband loved me because I do a lot of things for him. They aren’t necessarily monetary but they are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:04 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:00 PM
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All the upvotes for that last line. Fucking thank you, thank you, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:58 PM
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The good man by and large
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:56 PM
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I agree the patriarchy doesn’t benefit men. The way the system is structured it is the high money men who benefit, not the entry level dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:53 PM
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But they often can’t get a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:51 PM
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My mom never remarried. My sister sporadically dating. My cus who is a very very attractive blonde, a triathlete, no kids, and a fucking pilot really struggles dating too. And she doesn’t want anything more than a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:49 PM
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I definitely support outlawing circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:48 PM
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Uh huh. Tell me how many men shame women over high n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:46 PM
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Tell me how many times guys challenge other guys for shitty behavior to girls? None? Then it’s society not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:43 PM
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All of this too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:40 PM
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I really agree with this, although I’m not sure how dismissive the average woman is. I’m not dismissive but I think the answer requires a societal adjustment (are you the third place guy) that encourages family formation and gives everyone more time to look to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:39 PM
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This is my response: Women can get SEX more easily, not relationships. Have you not read the many posts here of men saying they’ll fuck a landwhale but she can’t even be overweight for a relationship. And of course, what fun is having a lot of sex if men call you a whore, hoe, or reject you for having too high a n-count. I mean, my husband is a fabulous man, but when dating he got insecure a few times that I had had more sexual experience than he did. So it’s really delicious to hear from a man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:35 PM
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Posts like this make me realize I am very lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:05 PM
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The most successful family organization is single month with extended family. Second, you are comparing the cream of the crop to the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:58 PM
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Are you aware of the fact that men receive affirmative action to get in the college? That’s right men don’t have to meet the same standards that women do to get admitted to the same school. https://www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/what-would-sandra-day-oconnor-have-thought-about-affirmative-action-for-men#:~:text=In%20contrast%20to%20private%20universities,bodies%20that%20are%20gender%2Dbalanced. https://www.thenation.com/article/society/college-admissions-gender/tnamp/ https://www.cbsnews.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:47 PM
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And you don’t understand that Japanese women are expected to carry the majority of the child labor and caring for the man’s family. Yeah it isn’t that the women expect the men to be providers, if look at why women don’t want to marry in Japan it’s because they want their freedom, they want to keep working, and they don’t want to have to be responsible for all the unpaid labor involved in the household, which is far more expensive in Japan, then here. My cousin is an American, who immigrated to J…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:45 PM
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lol. Wonder what happens when no one is passing on knowledge. How does society work then? Wonder what happens when no one has kids? What happens to society.lets ask the Japanese See this is why women are sick of your shit. It’s all men build society, without men society crumbles. It’s men who do it all. No you need BOTH. I, a feminist, don’t run around and insist that men are worthless, and drag on society. As to construction…. It’s growing. https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2022/11/11/his…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:42 PM
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Tom Hanks. Keanu Reeves. He married/partnered twice but he stayed with first wife until her death. Matt Damon Denzel Washington.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:30 AM
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Do you get called a spinster or old maid? Do people tell you that if you don’t settle down by age 25 you are going to be a bitter old person with cats? Do you get told that if you are 30 you’ve hit the wall and you are worthless and low value and only worth being humped and dumped. wtf is this shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:24 AM
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Meanwhile, women being too obvious are “sluts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:22 AM
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Men demonize men sex drive - Jesus men here talk about lying and using women for pump and dump, how women with kids are only good for a fuck and on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:20 AM
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Posting links to old comics mocking men for approaching women who didn’t like it. Everyone wants to pretend it’s all different now and women are so much less approachable. Nah, women finally feel able to say no and be vocal about it. https://www.cartoonstock.com/cartoon?searchID=CC43498 https://www.cartoonstock.com/cartoon?searchID=CS354188 https://www.cartoonstock.com/cartoon?searchID=CS147728 https://images.app.goo.gl/fAQG5yhQ3BNGHmHw8
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:15 AM
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This is a really great explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:52 AM
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But of course if you are a woman that is unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:08 AM
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This exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:07 AM
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Haha my mom was being a jerk to me regarding my now husband and I said, “I know how I keep a man happy - his stomach full and his balls empty.” She never tried to give me advice unasked again. Seriously, I am good to my husband. I think of him - that means I do show him physical affection and I want to. I scratch his back and buy him things he wouldn’t think of, like leather coats. I care about his health. The number of things I do… But he thinks of me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:39 AM
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This for sure. I didn’t know very many ladies with kids out of wedlock because kids fuck with your career as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:24 AM
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So they exist but with standards that don’t include the men like this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:23 AM
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Lmao lol. Do you read? All the time it’s constant trashing of fat girls here. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:52 AM
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I think I mostly agree with that. But I also think that many people who got a court side view of raising small children decided they didn’t want that life. This is purely anecdotal, but I’ve know the kids from big families (especially the older girls) who have deliberately avoided kids almost entirely. It’s very difficult to judge the past as indicative of people’s true desires. Women and to a lesser extent men would face social and economic consequences for not marrying. And without birth contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:50 AM
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Xers were the children of broken homes and the first significant generation with divorced parents. My kids were deliberately put into in person situations like daycare, sports teams, and scouts. We over schedule them but that scheduling is in person. GenX is far more focused on being involved parents (helicopter parenting) than before. And as late Gen Ex we had shop (took it) and home ex (took it) My daughter took home ex as well. She is Gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:04 AM
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Almost half of young japanese adult women have never been in a relationship, have not been hoeing around (virginity rate from one report was almost 50% for girls in their 20s) Because they are done with Japanese men. They aren't virgins because they so value virginity. My cuz is there and has been for twenty years. He's married to a Japanese woman. Japanese women like American men who are egalitarian. That's why they don't marry Japanese men - they are chauvinist that expect women to take all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:53 AM
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That's what you get for having really high standards. Sorry if being vegan is a no-go. Same thing for a girl looking for 6/6/6
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:39 AM
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Jesus, I know oodles of women in their mid twenties, slender, no kids, but most of them are college professionals like doctors and lawyers. A lot of them are generally getting serious in mid-late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:37 AM
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People don’t stay teens forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:19 PM
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Glad you are in a better marriage. This guy, if you read his posts, has extremely specific standards on what he wants. And okay, good luck with that. He doesn’t want the reality your second marriage offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:18 PM
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Keep posting dude, it’s awesome. I’m so tired of listening to men on this board harp about women and their unreasonable standards…. And you want a woman who will provide, but is also not liberal, will love you no matter how shitty you are (drugs homeless), a virgin, intelligent, no doubt skinny, who will run away to live off the gird and eschew society… because sex is icky to you even though it is a natural bodily function. So no medical care? No birth control? No stores or easy access to power …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:12 PM
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And get this - he wants a provider in a wife/gf, but she also should be non liberal with a low body count. Do tell me about how men don’t have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:01 PM
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lol. You think a conservative girl is going to be interested in the unemployed? Heh heh heh. Conservative tends to mean adherence to traditional gender roles. If you can’t provide, that isn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:58 PM
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Nah love is the most important to hold you together when raising kids and life gets hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:36 PM
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Just keep in mind, both Romeo and Juliet end up dead by their own hands
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:34 PM
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I’ll let my husband know that he doesn’t know true love with me since he was like 33 when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:31 PM
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The problem is that getting married young means marrying before we’ve fully matured into who we are going to be or understanding what makes a good partner. Listen to this OP? You think he’s going to make a good choice? He’s thinking all hormones and no brain. Boomers - not GenX, millennials, or y - are the ones with the highest divorce rates. Yet they married “early” like they were supposed to during a time when there was significantly more social pressure to marry. The proof is in the results. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:24 PM
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Serious. I’m not keen on red pill but this red pill man is dead right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:10 PM
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But she doesn’t, does she, if getting high is more important than landing you into homelessness. You sound like an abused teen - it doesn’t matter if he hits me, he loves me. Love is everyday and in the details. It’s being better and thinking of what your actions take on the other person. If you love someone, you don’t make them homelessness. I’ve been married for 17 years now and I married my husband at 31. We’ve had good times and bad, but I can say that I’ve never loved him more than I do rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:10 PM
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Yes and being a woman I often know exactly what I want to eat and tell my husband And sometimes I honestly don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:48 PM
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Women aren’t fish. We are equal intellectually to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:47 PM
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Non sequitur Those rare and unique men who decide to be single fathers with full custody are not representative of men in general. It’s like comparing geniuses against the average population. Duh Anecdotal data is the poorest. Really sad analytical skills you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:02 PM
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You can hold your standards. But you don’t get to tell others that they must find your standards reasonable. If you slept around casually, then holding it against your potential date makes you at least a hypocrite or a misogynist. Otherwise, knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:46 PM
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This is really good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:39 PM
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I agree with based mama. It had to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:54 PM
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This. My white guy is short but was raised in south Texas and an avid soccer player so surrounded with many Mexican Americans. He always dressed snappy when we dated and smelled good. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:48 PM
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By what criteria, though. I’m mid - better than average but not much by looks. As a long term mate I’m more like a 9
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:41 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:38 PM
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Love the twist at the end
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:34 PM
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“ that makes it difficult to predict if she'd spread her legs or not.” God that’s disheartening
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:27 PM
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“ We all have the same reflexes as well, and react the same way to medications and even mental health procedures.” Uh no. That’s actually completely wrong. Men of different races often react differently to medications as well. It’s actually a significant problem with drug testing https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7275616/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:26 PM
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One state. And Montana gave women the right to vote in 1914 (they had limited rights since 1887). The us didn’t give women the right to vote for all states until passage for the 19th in 1919. https://montanawomenshistory.org/suffrage/ For allowing women to have bank accounts even if married without male co-signer it was 1973. Before then, many banks insisted the husband co-sign. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/banking/when-could-women-open-a-bank-account/#:~:text=It%20wasn't%20until%201974,a%20si…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:01 PM
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Oh dear, it’s the paranoid men here that are terrified of marrying anyone whose touched a penis before but it never crosses those men’s mind that women who don’t have sex generally don’t have a drive for sex. But then, I read what people write instead of venting my personal spleen on random posts like you. Get some fucking counseling. Not everything is about your shitty ex wife and not everyone is your shitty ex wife
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:51 AM
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If you are paying me for sex, it’s gonna be more than a fancy dinner. That said, sure split the check. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:40 AM
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lol lmao oh some guys very much do care about the n count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:54 PM
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Like find a sex positive woman. My husband knew I had a sexual history and had done sexually adventurous things. And I was sex positive while dating. And now he gets regularly laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:53 PM
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Can I say that I love every post you make
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:43 PM
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Yah no, that’s not bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:43 PM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:42 PM
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So you are saying men are essentially animals unable to control their bodily urges? Well then I guess you advocate stripping men of their rights and they should be treated like pets. No more voting, no more guns, no more difficult jobs like the cattle they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:39 PM
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Of course, that’s what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:36 PM
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That’s it buddies! You guys are going to paying a lot more for those Chad babies you hate! Because we can’t have wild rabid kids running around! They’ve got to be in school and they’ve got to be fed. Oh you don’t want to? Yuh ready for more David copperfields out there breaking into your house, picking your pockets, and engaging in petty crime? And now Tyrone and Chad have even LESS incentive to be careful. After alll, he doesn’t have to worry about being hauled into court to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:33 PM
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And maybe men who don’t want to be daddy’s wrap it up or wait until marriage too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:21 PM
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He can see the child. He has rights. He doesn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:19 PM
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Here is the deal. The reason women have a right to abortion is bodily autonomy. Because the fetus grows inside of her, she can end it. Once it is no longer growing inside her, she can’t. She has absolute control to stop pregnancy (within limits) in most (but not all) states. This isn’t sexism. If a lesbian couple - and one gets pregnant - the other one can’t force the one carrying the fetus. So the man can’t force anything on the women because he doesn’t have control over her body. Now the man d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:09 PM
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I wonder. Would men want to live with the same economic and legal restraints as women? So you get to be a SAHD, but you don’t get your own bank account. And no car loans or mortgages. And you cant call the cops if she hits you or pegs you. Cops say domestic violence is a “private matter.” They won’t get involved. And marital rape isn’t a thing. Why aren’t you taking care or your husband’s needs. Sure she’s supposed to be a good provider but is she isn’t, oh well. That’s not grounds for divorce. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:42 PM
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Uh huh. I have no idea what men like - I’ll tell my husband that. I’ll spell it out since you seem a bit slow, but you cannot claim that marriage and women were so much better in the past when women were essentially trapped and unable to leave bad marriages and shitty husbands through laws that prevented them from accessing financial resources to do so or to easily pursue divorce in case of abuse or other issues. I’m sure the master thought their slaves were great and so much better but the slav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:09 PM
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lol. I have not “only seen the negative.” Both my grandparents had happy marriages. But you cannot conclude that people were happy because they didn’t divorce because divorce was almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:56 PM
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My sister is never married, no kids, at over fifty and happy. I don’t think your sister is the best choice to base what the average woman will feel. That’s the same for my sister. We are in a somewhat different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:33 PM
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My grandpa fought in the first and was a civilian spy in the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:31 PM
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Right there with you. I’m married now but I was able to buy my own house as a single person. It was awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:26 PM
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The ones advocating for this don’t care about women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:20 PM
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Men here are basically arguing to return to a time when women were second class citizens. What would you think if we said we should pass laws that prevent men from having back accounts or loans unless his mommy or his wife signed? How would you like it if we barred men from access to most major universities or professions because they’ve got a penis? If I said that, would you consider me garbage? Because I consider any man pushing to strip me of my legal rights garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:17 PM
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I really agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:12 PM
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“ stayed married until death parted them” Because they couldn’t divorce. Lmao. Why is it the baby boomers have the highest divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:10 PM
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Omg, no. They couldn’t have bank accounts, couldn’t get insurance on their cars, they couldn’t go to most colleges and were by and large blocked from the best paying professions. For all the bashing you all do on “feminism” have you ever researched why it developed????
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:55 PM
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Some are. SOME. And some men are choosing to be SAHD. Freedom to choose! Weird that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:39 PM
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My doctor just subscribed me an antidepressant - which I haven’t taken - for perimenopausal synonyms (I’m almost 50). So that isn’t necessarily what you think it is. But let me tell you something, boyo, if I was given the choice to be perfectly and forever happy in exchange for giving up my ability to be an equal participant in education, employment, and be independent, I’ll take independence. It’s funny how men insist women should go back to the way it was because women will be happier (lol), b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:37 PM
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But we get to leave if our husband’s beat us. Grandma couldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:29 PM
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What women online?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:28 PM
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See how great women get treated if they are all like “no short men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:27 PM
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Some of these men do, because women are less than people to them. My husband would be broken hearted if I didn’t love him or didn’t love having sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:25 PM
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And women did all that and often ALSO worked. Most women, particularly the poorer or those of color worked too as help, taking in washing etc. My husband’s mom was a SAHM for much of her her marriage. She still baked wedding cakes and birthday cakes for extra money and then went back and got her book keeping degree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:21 PM
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Hehe high five and love the flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:16 PM
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That is the point bucko. She knows she isn’t so wonderful, just a person. And that’s why a man acting crazy clingy indicates that the man doesn’t have good judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:16 PM
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Ding ding ding. And this goes the same with women too - like a lot of guys I know wouldn’t want to sleep with a virgin because they get attached to fast - it’s the same thing. Those with good judgment know that you can’t fall in love* with a person or know that they are the “one” on a few dates because that’s not enough time. Get insanely clingy and healthy people back away, because healthy people want to date healthy people. *lust is different but if you are confusing lust with love that’s anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:14 PM
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Happened to my best friend exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:24 PM
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Best guy I ever slept with was old - like 20 years older. He was short and not really huge. Not even close to a chad. But damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:20 PM
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“Women - When it comes to sex, does all dick feel the same to you...” Oh hell no. There have absolutely been guys with better equipment and better skills using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:18 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:48 AM
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Stoicism is recognizing the good you have, often by visualizing how much worse it would be without what you have. Stoics are really happy in general.* *studying stoicism really helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:46 AM
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Dude it’s a joint fucking account - that’s how they work in the US. If you don’t want to do one, don’t. But every one who is on the joint account has a right to use all the money in it. I’ve had one with my husband for 17 years. It’s been good so far
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:54 AM
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That’s bullshit man. She did you wrong in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:49 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:39 PM
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“ Try to imagine an alternate dimension where women cater to men socially then reverse it in your head and that's our reality” You mean fifty years ago? When my mom wasn’t allowed to go to a flag ship state university? Or could have her own bank account?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:30 PM
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No it isn’t. And that you cannot tell the difference in social context is a problem for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:24 PM
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Do you understand the difference between a man investing in understanding his girlfriend and a message board? I spend some time discussing racism issues with my dad when he goes boomer. I don’t bother with idiots online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:17 PM
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The man can take it all too. That’s why it’s called a joint account
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:16 PM
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Money pooled. Household budget. Discussed every month. My money and his money is our money. We luckily are both tight. Make sure your view of money matches the other persons view Edited to add that we started out at the same amount salary but I stepped back with the kids but always worked. I still trail a bit when I went back full time. He is getting ready to make a massive financial jump. I did a huge investment of time and effort into his education and it’s going to pay off. It only works beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:15 PM
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I wonder who has been fighting to get women into the military? What’s that you say? Feminists? Guess you are a feminist, ITM. https://www.brookings.edu/articles/women-warriors-the-ongoing-story-of-integrating-and-diversifying-the-armed-forces/ https://www.womenshistory.org/resources/general/military#:~:text=In%20preparation%20for%20war%2C%20Eleanor,but%20they%20had%20not%20fought. https://www.army.mil/women/history/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:21 AM
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Thorazine will knock you on your ass. It can be used as a chemical restraint. I did a bunch of research on it for a book. No doubt your doc will be careful of the dosage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:53 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:51 AM
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I mean, isn’t that what it means when men trade in for the younger model?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:50 AM
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Yo, coping is healthy. It’s called stoicism. It’s called playing the hand dealt and being happy for it. Married or single, the most miserable humans are the ones who are bitter over what they didn’t get. That goes for spinsters or mid-forties midlife crisis men who regret not getting more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:47 AM
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You know another name for coping? Stoicism. It’s actually really healthy to accept what you have and enjoy it rather than being a bitter bitch. I mean sure, if Enrique Suave proposed to Mother Teresa she might’ve been happier have ten little suaves. So? Coulda woulda shoulda. You play the hand you are dealt. Do you all waste this time wondering if your bachelor uncle would have been happier had he married. Do you worry about the single old guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:45 AM
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I don’t believe that’s accurate. https://www.indy100.com/news/women-happier-single-relationship-study# https://www.distractify.com/p/women-happiest-no-kids There are contrary studies https://ifstudies.org/blog/shrinking-american-motherhood-1-in-6-women-in-their-40s-have-never-given-birth-
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:41 AM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:33 AM
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Sorry dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:33 AM
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I don’t care. I watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:54 PM
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Yes even with a sinus infection. I’m all proud of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:54 PM
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Mostly true feelings. I’m a very happily married woman. I’ve had discussions with other married ladies that if something happened to my husband, I’d never remarry and probably wouldn’t date seriously. I have two friends right now, entirely single, that got off the dating treadmill about seven years ago. They are both in their mid to upper 30s now. They are now glad they didn’t have kids and didn’t marry. One of these girls is a smart traditional religious woman who was looking for a traditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:52 PM
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Phew, back to the drawing board boyo. You don’t know nearly as much about SPQR than you think. The elite regularly had sex slaves of both genders. Sounds pretty fucking degenerate to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:46 PM
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Or get a lot more militant about making the dads pay. I’m all for force work camps for men who don’t pay for their kids. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:33 PM
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I say that about men all the time but then they insist on “no fatties” and “she must be 25”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:31 PM
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As a woman I’d love to know how I can get this special woman money from the state
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:44 PM
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Well it’s good he’s also thinking about his son
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:41 PM
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I mean, I saw my husband absolutely devastated by the death of his dad and his closest friend. He is definitely extremely stoic. He would cry at night and I’d hold him when no one would see him. I’d actually screen him at the funerals. I lost no respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:32 PM
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Got any evidence for that? Or are you just pulling it out of your ass like every other post I’ve seen? And are you SERIOUSLY basing your view on anecdotal YouTube videos? Take a class on digital media literacy - you sound like a tween girl mainlining TikTok. This is why I laugh when men insist that women aren’t as analytical as men. I just watched a custody dispute where a judge slammed a woman trying to up child support for failing to bring any evidence. Does that mean women are always shut dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:10 PM
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Roman libel ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:52 PM
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Then be a chad. Oh you can’t. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:51 PM
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This guy just wants hook ups. Why the fuck would he inspire love? Love takes time to develop. That’s it. You don’t get it to get hook ups
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:50 PM
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This whole set of posts deserves all the upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:47 PM
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Goddamned I just don’t see why young women wont touch you. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:47 PM
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Nah the correct title is “why can’t I, an average guy, be loved by a Brazilian bombshell instead of an average women?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:42 PM
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So you want to be a Chad and just fuck women without monogamy, effort, or commitment. That’s like a woman wondering why she can’t be a Stacy and have the majority of men buying her everything, falling al over her, and offering marriage. I mean, shit, why didn’t every man I meet wanna date me, buy me expensive dinners, or simp for me? Oh I’m not a Stacy! Jesus, men whine women ride the cock carousel (ignoring all stats to the contrary) and then whine that women WON’T sleep with lots of guys. Grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:40 PM
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If it’s bullshit please cite your source
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:27 PM
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And you could also point out that men don’t usually fight for full custody. And I agree it is good that the courts are shifting to 50/50 shared custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:25 PM
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No, they don’t have an incentive https://fortune.com/2023/08/23/divorce-laws-designed-create-unnecessary-financial-hardship-women-personal-finance/amp/ What is notable - women’s household income drops 43% after divorce compared to men’s (23% drop after divorce) Men’s income recovers, not women, because women bear the brunt of kid care. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:23 PM
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There is no incentive for women to divorce. None. Most women are financially hurt by divorce while the men recover financially. https://fortune.com/2023/08/23/divorce-laws-designed-create-unnecessary-financial-hardship-women-personal-finance/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:19 PM
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Gee it so escapes me why you struggle with women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:01 AM
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As a woman of the same generation listen to this man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:57 AM
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Hershel Walker’s son is gay. What does he know about male female dating. And he isn’t progressive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:53 AM
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Interesting to see a guy say this. Back when you were doing causal sex did you want something more serious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:49 AM
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It’s a good comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:44 AM
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He is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:44 AM
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Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:41 AM
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They would be so so very stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:38 AM
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And making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:38 AM
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No one is going to throw anyone a fuck without reliable contraception
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:37 AM
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So you want to be a sexless marriage huh? Good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:36 AM
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You don’t know SHIT about history. We have the best birth control NOW starting with the pill. And fuck dude, Rome was at its Zenith under a gay Emperor - Hadrian. Stop be clowning yourself. Some of us actually studied Rome and Greece.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:36 AM
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Uh social media is not an accurate representation of the real world. It’s all about attention which encourages outrageous behavior to drive clicks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:36 PM
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Dude I open the door for men and women all the time. This is so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:35 PM
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As I work (as most women do) and my money goes into a single pot to pay our household expenses, nah we are claiming equality of benefits and responsibilities. Women are living independently out of their parents home, right? Even single
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:34 PM
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Uh she changed. Do you think women spring out as adults fully formed? Or do you recognize that like all humans (even dudes!) they have the capacity to grow?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:14 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:12 PM
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Some, dear, some
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:11 PM
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I agree. The point of gift giving is to usually build bonds of reciprocation. Not always (like parents to children) but often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:11 PM
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No. Why would it? I know things are shifting slowly but being a house husband or the more low paying is more and more accepted. I have several friends in that position .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:10 PM
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“ His money is our money but my money is my money”. That doesn’t seem to be the way most marriages/relationships work. I pool money with my husband and then things are paid out. We discuss major purchases and keep each other aware. I am sure there are people like this but I don’t think it is the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:08 PM
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I do the same. I also always liked the first date to be really low pressure - like let’s get coffee for an hour. Dutch is more common in Europe and it needs to be adopted here. That also means that men shouldn’t shame or emasculate other men over not being a provider or showing that they can pay. It says something that it is men here insisting that to get a woman you need to pay everything etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:07 PM
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And I totally fell for it. Guys who say get to the in-person are right. and I’ve got sympathy for the wall that dating apps cause. Me I’m much better looking in person, too. He is wicked smart with a wicked sense of humor and built (all natural). I was meh for the first thirty seconds and hooked in the next thirty seconds. Then the push ups. Here is the thing with these gigachads or whatever. They are like a beautiful woman - someone somewhere is tired of her shit and gigachad’s too. Cheers mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:00 AM
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It has. My husband watches Reacher. I thought Ritchson was an oddly attractive man. Then I caught one of the more recent shows and was like wtf happened to him, and not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:44 AM
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YES listen to this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:43 AM
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I liked the Rock when he was younger and leaner. I don’t like his body nearly as much now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:42 AM
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When we were dating my now husband would let me lay on his back while he did push ups. Short dude too - 5/6 -5/7. F-U-C-K-I-N-G HOT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:41 AM
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Heh. I know a thing or two about open relationships (no not in one). It’s a death sentence most of the time. Am I correct that RP think they get to fuck around but not the girl? I guess that makes destiny BP since they both fucked around. All I have to say is that fucking around will usually result in a dead marriage and a wife walking out the door, especially with the means. I don’t see anyone selling BP to mean that it allows open relationships to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:30 AM
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You sound cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:52 PM
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That’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:41 PM
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Lmao. Uh huh. Sure. Thats why there are all these men here complaining that they can’t get the time of day. Look if I am replaceable to my husband by an AI doll, then that tells me that my husband doesn’t see me as a human person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:39 PM
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I was so revolted when the women at my office kept talking about 50 shades over lunch. And I like erotica. I also don’t have issues with porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:35 PM
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Lolz never going to forget when my neighbor called for my husband to get a black snake out of her garage and I came over instead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:32 PM
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lol. Those are communities where wives can be beaten or raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:32 PM
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Nah. You only say that because you have no idea what it was like to be a woman or black in the US. You just wish you could have a bangmaid back. For the vast majority of people world wide life is far better now. Poverty has improved (although we had a set back due to the pandemic) https://www.worldbank.org/en/topic/poverty/overview Life expectancy has improved: https://www.who.int/data/gho/data/themes/mortality-and-global-health-estimates/ghe-life-expectancy-and-healthy-life-expectancy Violence …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:31 PM
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I give you an upvote, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:21 PM
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“ argued with my husband for no reason” Why do you assume working women argue for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:18 PM
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Literally talking to my cus about this - friend was a SAHM with a husband provider. That’s what she went for. Then he had alll sorts of health issues, ended up out of work, and is struggling to get back. The SAHm is very upset about the situation but won’t dirty her hands to go back to work. My husband gives me everything this little hothouse flower gets and I could have been a SAHm. I didn’t want to. I work. And he’s glad because it’s given him more flexibility to switch jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:16 PM
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But it’s MEN that struggle to commit, not women. Men aren’t rushing to wife up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:10 PM
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It’s a book about an impossible situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:09 PM
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Plenty of women aren’t saying that in this thread. A few are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:06 PM
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I’m only forcing you into a subordinate role for your own good. Lmao, do you hear yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:04 PM
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Says that I’m not submissive and have a very happy marriage. Let me know when you find those peer reviewed studies of how everyone is happier when the men rule the roost. https://www.cbeinternational.org/resource/egalitarian-marriages-are-happier-and-healthier/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:59 PM
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Probably. Agreeable really is a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:55 PM
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Yup, and unlike your fantasy of 30 seconds from death, it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:54 PM
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I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:53 PM
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lol and so few men want to retain full custody
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:09 PM
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But you sure as shit want to insist women have to always put out for their husbands. Fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:05 PM
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“ So use it and give them some.” Fuck that. Marriage doesn’t mean I lose bodily autonomy. And I say this as a woman who rode her husband last night. Do I get to peg my husband? Am I owed it? Am I owed being eaten out? Like wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:04 PM
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“ Thats liberal, feminism talk. Most egalitarian countries dont thrive if goes about family structure and overal happiness.” The happiest countries in the world are highly egalitarian - the Scandinavian countries and like Denmark. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Happiness_Report#2023_report
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:51 PM
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I agree entirely. Being argumentative is not the same as being assertive. I am not submissive. But I’ve worked hard on developing a cooperative style with my husband to avoid arguments. He trusts me and thus will often go along with me in decisions and vice versa. So three years ago I drove the decision to move. He was hesitant but went along with it and acknowledged that in the end the results showed my decision was smart and good and right. Vice versa, I check in on our financies but generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:37 PM
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But I get that all without being submissive. And I don’t see “following” someone in my own life as a benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:42 AM
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“ male warrior needs primarily a capable sidekick who doesn’t question his plan when life and death are milliseconds apart.” Lmao. Bertha you must be on your knees every day because I’m gonna save your life. After I drink this beer. I can think of one time that I was in a true life and death situation. The power had died on my soon to be husband’s pos old Camaro as we were barreling down a snowy mountain road late at night. He squeals, “I can’t stop!” Ten seconds later it is ME pulling the emerg…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:40 AM
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If a man has to have his foot on my neck to cherish me, fuck that man. I am not submissive. I am agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:35 AM
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And you have no idea whatsoever that childless women over fifty are going to be crying tears that they didn’t listen to their “betters” - some forty year old man like you - who knows what would make them happy. This entire chain is men telling women that they are stupid brainwashed idiots who would be super happy if only they married someone and popped out a few kids. Instead they are all - gasp - career women! And feminists! Without a fucking career my mom would never have been able to support …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:32 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:18 AM
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repopulate the earth. The earth’s population is higher now than it has ever been
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:08 AM
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I wasn’t aware Japan and Singapore were western. Even the developing world is slowing down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:05 AM
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Let me tell you what my mother - 80 now - said to me. Never quit your job and never rely on a man. I have two children and a great husband. I take this tact not because I “parrot” shit, but because I watched my mother struggle with three children on a teachers salary after my dad walked out the door and refused to pay a dime. Good thing my grandad was an honorable man. So no, it’s not “parroting.” It’s that we know we need to see to our own financial security and children are expensive. Baby gig…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:03 AM
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Oh yes poor little women just can’t be expected to understand the consequences of their decisions unlike some man child whose never lifted his hands in child care or reproduction . I know you desperately wish with all the malice and spleen in your heart that the single ladies at fifty would call you up and cry, “you were right, I should have given up my job and spawned five kids.” But we women talk to other older women, women who had and haven’t had children. And it’s really clear that many are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:57 AM
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Fuck off little man. Pregnancy and birth - especially birth - is awful. Did you NOtT read what she wrote? You think death is cool? What about the post partum psychosis. What about the screaming untreatable pain. Does that sound fun to you? This is what happens when men are subjected to labor pain. They scream. I wish all men did this. Might stop with delusional opinions that it’s all the mean feminists fault women don’t like fucking pregnancy. https://youtu.be/_ByvqKau47c?si=aWYp3Aqzp0f-mjMH
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:50 AM
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I would have liked a third one myself but stopped at two
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:47 AM
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No woman unless she is on drugs loves childbirth. Pregnancy some do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:46 AM
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This is not correct. Feudalism predated the Black Death and the massive population loss started the peasants revolts (although not super successful) and also spurred Protestantism. Admittedly the connection is over played but it definitely was a factor https://www.bbc.co.uk/history/british/middle_ages/black_impact_01.shtml
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:44 AM
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Some women enjoy pregnancy. My mom was one of those weirdos. Giving birth? They might have enjoyed it with enough drugs or if they were under anesthesia. I had mine naturally and for the second the epidural didn’t work. Let me tell you I remember the burning pain as each contraction went through. And I was mean as a timber rattler.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:36 AM
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Birth is awful and pregnancy is very physically demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:31 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:27 AM
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^ We’ve gone through significant population collapses before - most famously the black plague. We also lost massive numbers of people in the 1918 pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:27 AM
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I mean I make my kids wear hand me downs - lol there are only two. But I want to launch them into a world where they can have jobs that put a roof over their head, medical care, and some fun. That takes money. I also need retirement. I don’t want to live in poverty eating cat food
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:16 AM
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And yet they complain about a woman with a high body count. Yet a high body count woman who loves sex will keep it up more so after marriage. I’m not that high of a body count but I do love sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:07 AM
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Nah ai fools the men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:50 AM
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Lol. Are you serious? You think women never go outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:47 AM
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Damn 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:44 AM
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have less successful/stable long term relationships, they're generally unhappier with their social-sexual outcomes and so on. This is questionable. Marriage length does not mean those marriages were successful or even stable long term. It’s really easy to claim marriages laster longer back in the day when you ignore that people could not divorce. See all the Reno divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:38 AM
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“ Women spend their 20s being involuntarily part of an attractive man's harem. They wade from harem to harem with maybe a few stable, lower value boyfriends in between.” Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:33 AM
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And won’t men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:23 AM
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Women in the west have lower n counts than men, at least in the US https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/speaking-in-tongues/202307/whats-an-average-number-of-sexual-partners?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:21 AM
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Nah man, that’s why so many of these guys are so salty here. Men who got around- and I’ve known many - rhey don’t care about body count. These guys here, they are ducking salty that girls ride the cock carousel and he didn’t get to be one of those cocks. The only man who got squirrelly on me had less experience. He didn’t slut shame me and admitted it was due to intimidation. He married me and hasn’t regretted it. Thing about girls who like to have sex? They like to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:19 AM
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Fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:15 AM
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All you are saying is that you aren’t trustworthy since you are a promiscuous male. Why should they marry you then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:14 AM
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Well women’s natural preferences are to be promisicuous in some form (although still less than men). If men can’t control their natural inclinations, I guess women can’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:12 AM
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If they aren’t having sex, they aren’t doing hoe things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:10 AM
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First, a few = multiple Second, the average sexual partners a woman has is 4.2. Is that multiple? Men still have more. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/speaking-in-tongues/202307/whats-an-average-number-of-sexual-partners?amp Why don’t you ask that question of men? If it doesn’t matter for men to screw multiples why does it matter for women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:08 AM
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Lol and there is some nut who constantly posts that 50% of women are going to be unmarried by 2030. Many women have decided marriage and childbearing isn’t what it is cracked up to be, and we get panicked posts here about the end of civilization because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:06 AM
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So what you are saying is that you compare every woman you are with to your exes. How sad. “ thus putting more pressure on the husband to do non conventional sexual things like toys or cuckoldry” Citation needed. Ps cuckoldry is a MALE kink. “sexual satisfaction of promiscuous women is the second leading cause of divorce in the west.” Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:02 AM
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Lol lmao. Way to show your insecurity dude.. Wait, so if I married a man with a high body count he only saw as meh for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:58 AM
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If he’s marrying someone he loves and who loves him, how is that settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:56 AM
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People here are pretty young I think (“Duke” 🙂🙂)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:55 AM
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None of this surprises me concerning our closest relatives - bonobos and chimps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:45 AM
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I mean they still did get around. Men regularly abandoned families to start new ones. Men had mistresses and illegitimate children. Women also got up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:42 AM
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That last paragraph - chef’s kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:37 AM
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You do you, NYT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:36 AM
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Touché. Love your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:33 AM
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What a great story. So glad it has worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:32 AM
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Not really. 4.2 for women between 25 and 44. 6.1 for men in same range. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/speaking-in-tongues/202307/whats-an-average-number-of-sexual-partners?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:25 AM
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Have you looked at the stats? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:23 AM
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They won’t get the men if the men aren’t in their league. This is so weird. I’ve seen plenty of chunky girls with chunky guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:07 AM
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You know I’d 100% agree with that last paragraph but apply it to all people. But part of growing up is realizing that we aren’t the most beautiful or handsome. My husband now could have married someone far better looking. He loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:58 AM
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Okay. I re-married a great guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:50 AM
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“ Women for example have a preference for tall men and men are aware and accept that.” Have you visited this board before? “ Women have a preference for men who can provide, which in some cases can reduces men down to ATM machine. Men are aware and accept that” To the contrary, the entire point of this post is the many many complaints (which you can see here) that men are angry that they drew no interest until they started to stabilize in their thirties. They don’t accept it; they are absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:04 PM
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That is weird. I was someone freshly divorced without kids at 28. I had plenty of suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:48 PM
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Society is a lot better for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:45 PM
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Oh lord this is hubris. SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:44 PM
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That you can’t handle other people have other values apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:43 PM
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Looks at all the women graduating from college, medical school, and lawschool. Uh huh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:42 PM
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That is just an anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:41 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:38 PM
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Yup. And I got a GREAT and loyal man who makes six figures. L-o-l And I wouldn’t have touched you. Bet you wave that money around. Nope. I make my own way and earn my own income.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:37 PM
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Lol. “Can you walk in society without the fear of abuse?” No You all really tell on yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:35 PM
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The burden of choice. More choice, less happy. https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/having-fewer-choices-can-promote-happiness But but but, I’d rather the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:33 PM
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I myself engaged in casual sex for a while. I am now in a committed marriage that just reached 17 years. We are happy and love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:35 PM
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This is very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:27 PM
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Let me tell you how much advice I as a girl received about watching out for a dangerous world. And I tell my girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:23 PM
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My brother was abused and I believed him. I helped him get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:21 PM
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Same for men the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:14 PM
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It absolutely is the norm. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:10 PM
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Height. Men are way more forgiving towards women regarding height. I have never seen a male midget with a girlfriend. But weight on the other hand. lol lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:09 PM
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If I’m a girl I’ll go for the 30yo former loser working at Goldman rather than 30yo Brad still living Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:08 PM
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You really do not see how this view of women is incredibly dehumanizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:07 PM
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“ ( I once worked with a guy who's ex wife refused to do anal with him despite doing it in the past” I refuse to do anal with my now husband even though I did it in the past. You know why? Because it fucking hurt. See I tried it and I learned. As my husband loves me - yes loves me - he doesn’t want to cause me pain. If a man insists I go through pain because I allowed another man do it because I lacked so much self esteem back then, that man doesn’t see me as a person but as a service for him. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:04 PM
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Not really. Common law marriage doesn’t exist in most states
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:56 PM
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I think it’s a very childish way of looking at the world. These people have never reached the point or acceptance. I was mid in my teens and twenties. A 7 at my top in my thirties (compared to the other thirties). My husband probably could have scored a better looking woman than me, especially with his salary. I’m not the best looking woman he has, but I have the best package that he could expect to get at the time, AND he loves me. Same for me. I landed taller men and even married a 6/2 guy. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:55 PM
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They just want to be Chad - the end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:39 PM
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So if I tolerated my first husband cheating before I wised up and left, I’m required to let my second husband cheat? And if I cheated on my first husband - I did - and he let me and begged me not to go, my second husband must tolerate me cheating on him? I tried anal sex with my first husband. It left me bleeding. I’m required to let my second husband do it anyway? Basically what you are saying is that if your partner can never learn, never grow, and never demand better treatment. Is that how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:38 PM
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Nah don’t need church
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:23 PM
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It’s not helpful to the woman. And people here conflate submissive with agreeable and non-argumentative. I am reasonably agreeable. I engage in cooperative resolution of issues where husband and I discuss issues and work them out. We recently have been resolving a massive water leak in our kitchen. We discuss. He lets me lead in certain arenas. I let them lead in others but we always have input. But neither of us is submissive. I argue for a living. I’m sure people here will make comments. But h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:22 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:52 PM
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One of the best pre-k teachers where my girls went was a dude. Everyone loved him. That’s it, that’s the story. He was a good dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:25 AM
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This. After husband one I steered well away from any religious conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:20 AM
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Uh huh. And clearly didn’t wait for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:16 AM
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48/F/married. Yah mommy told me not to have sex until marriage. Of course she didn’t wait. But she maybe had a body count of 2. He divorced her for a twice married woman with sex appeal. I married the first man I had sex with. It wasn’t “special” or “romantic” or even so pleasurable. And as a divorcee pretending I was some innocent was stupid. Back then, there was a three date rule - you were supposed to have sex after three dates. I tossed that and the Rules into the garbage. after a controllin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:15 AM
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He loves the idea of a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:04 AM
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lol. Sure men will go for waiting 8”90’days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:25 PM
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When I was dating 20 years ago, it was on the 3rd date. I said fuck that - I consent to sex when I want to. Not anyone’s arbitrarily lines - same for OP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:25 PM
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Wow do I feel bad for your daughters. Must feel good to know their only value in a relationship expires at 30. Feel bad for your wife too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:21 PM
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He thinks you are valueless over the age of 30
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:21 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:19 PM
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So what if they aren’t having kids? I had kids in my 30s. It was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:19 PM
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Because sexual compatibility is a very important part of long term stability. Just visit dead bedrooms and take a look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:17 PM
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lol. Sure, you are REALLY worried about all the single ladies. I don’t have an issue with it. Most the single girls I know are pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:15 PM
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Nah. Thx bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:13 PM
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Are you fucking kidding? If a woman is raising a child and the father is a dead beat, she is absolutely fully accountable. She is doing to all and even when ordered child support doesn’t come close to addressing the financial costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:30 PM
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Society HAS closed the gap - men got condoms and surgery. Men aren’t forced to marry the woman. Men are only responsible for financial obligations and can easily avoid that (and do). They aren’t required to take on the parental care taking responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:29 PM
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Do you have kids? Because I don’t think you understand the costs of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:24 PM
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Men and women have equal rights to stop pregnancy by control over their bodies. Please remember the question of choice has to do with BODILY AUTONOMY, not money directly. Men have full control over their bodily autonomy and can act to stop the creation of a new human to the full limits of that bodily autonomy - they can wear condoms, eschew ONS or strange, and also get surgery. Similarly, women too can end pregnancy within the limits of their bodily autonomy. They can be careful who they sleep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:22 PM
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Do you understand that choice comes from bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:05 PM
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Errors like that, especially when made several times, are reflective of the person's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:00 PM
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Ooo sorry to hear you had an abusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:33 PM
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Weight is in part heredity. Genetic and environmental factors interact to regulate body weight. Overall, the heritability of obesity is estimated at 40% to 70% https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2787002/#:~:text=Genetic%20and%20environmental%20factors%20interact,overexpressed%20or%20deleted%20in%20mice. Height is also btw: n addition to genetic and biological determinants, height is also influenced by environmental factors, including a mother's nutrition during pregnancy, whether she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:31 PM
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I had an acquaintance like you. She was very proud of being 5/2 and 100 lbs. She was rather snotty to me (our husbands were friends) and competitive. I was definitely chunky. Imagine my amusement when checking in on my ex-h facebook (I kept an eye on him for a long time because he did delightful things like slashing my tires) to see that she was now in her mid forties and ballooned up to twice my size. I myself stayed pretty much the same. But my daughters both shamed me for my schadenfreude, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:28 PM
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Fat women fascinate me. Your main job on earth is to be attractive to a man that will commit to you and they choose to be fat as fuck. It’s weird to me That is, in fact, not my job. My job is be able to take care of myself, not be reliant on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:22 PM
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"Must be 6 feet or taller" no one bats an eye (or if a guy complains, you call him an incel), but a guy puts "No girls over 200 pounds" on a profile, everyone loses their minds. Really? Who is or isn't losing their minds? You? me? I mean, I know a shit ton of men who were really pissed off by that "must be six feet" requirement, and plenty of women offended by the "must be less than 200 lbs". Men always put in "athletic" or other euphemisms too. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:21 PM
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My short husband used to tell me he was fine dating taller women since he could bury his face in their boobies as they danced. I'm shorter than he is, so he's out of luck on that with me. He doesn't seem to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:17 PM
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Being shorter for a man is a disadvantage. I think the reason why you MIGHT not get the sympathy you'd expect is that we ALL deal with disadvantages in the dating market unless we're in the top 5%. For a lot of us, we know it and learned it - god knows I did - growing up through school. Most of us come to terms with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:16 PM
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I've married a 5/6 man. He's fabulous. I adore him. 17 years and going strong. Today he swept up the house because he knew I have several people coming over but was rushing to get the kidlets to ice skating. He'll be rewarded for his thoughtfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:14 PM
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The stats actually do not bear that out. . In a meta-analysis of 29 long-term weight loss studies, more than half of the lost weight was regained within two years, and by five years more than 80% of lost weight was regained. This means that based on our best estimates, only one in five individuals who is overweight is successful in long-term weight loss (that's harvard) below is a scientific american article more up to date and discusses the Biggest Loser https://www.scientificamerican.com/artic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:13 PM
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I'm concerned for you. We should strive to be healthy at any size, and that means the super slender as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:06 PM
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This. I'm fine with a guy refusing to date a fat woman. If there is one area that people are allowed to be as picky as wanted, it's in this area. I think people push back because on one hand we have people complaining about others having standards (ie. height or whatever) but insisting on their own standards. If you are going to have certain standards, you need to accept that others will also have standards that cut you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:41 PM
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YUP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:35 PM
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Society shames fat people. And yet obesity is increasing. What is the definition of insanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:33 PM
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You should google how the Japanese pulled that off - it wasn't through shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:32 PM
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We tell women that it's perfectly fine for an overweight women to desire and even insist on a normal-weight man. We KNOW that any overweight man with the same intentions would be ridiculed mercilessly. What? A few nuts on Reddit? I'm not part of that "we." Are you? Do you tell fat ladies their standards demanding a skinny man are entirely reasonable? Doesn't seem like it. So who is the "we"? Because society trashes fat people of both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:31 PM
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As they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:29 PM
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The studies show that men pay far less of a weight penalty than women - both in reduced salaries, negative views, etc. https://www.npr.org/2023/04/29/1171593736/women-weight-bias-wages-workplace-wage-gap Skinny men btw are also penalized. https://www.forbes.com/sites/freekvermeulen/2011/03/22/the-price-of-obesity-how-your-salary-depends-on-your-weight/?sh=3d6b12c03d9a We discuss less the short penalty against women, because it is far less pronounced, than the short penalty against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:26 PM
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Now we are up to 1 million from 100k lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:43 AM
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Look, dude. Don’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:42 AM
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And of course, you can’t be over 30 or you’re worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:42 AM
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“Write.” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:40 AM
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Look, I know you are looking for a servant, but high value women don’t need to be servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:39 AM
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You assume that every man has your exact criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:34 AM
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This man just can’t understand why all the women don’t want him even though he’s 6’3 and makes 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:33 AM
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I’ll watch :).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:31 AM
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I make more money than you and have for a decade. You don’t impress me much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:29 AM
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My husband isn’t my boss, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:28 PM
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Whole heartedly agree all around
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:46 AM
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My sister has an android. So does my best and oldest female friend. Actually I can think of several off the top of my head. I have an iPhone. I had an android in the past - Samsung.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:52 PM
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I do. I love epic fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:23 AM
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No man lays a violent hand on me. And I live by the same standards. I won’t hit a man either. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:21 AM
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It’s been a while but I sure saw it in high school and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:53 PM
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I didn’t make it clear (that ^ wasn’t clear) but agree with you entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:52 PM
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Uh uh. You must have slept through the pandemic if you didn’t think schools shutting down is a “mild” inconvenience. And hospitals do a lot more than emergency care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:22 AM
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Nah that’s a you issue, Roo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:17 AM
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Right there with you Lily
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:16 AM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:08 AM
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lol. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:05 AM
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High five. I’m a mom. I adore my children, but I have plenty of lady friends who are super glad they didn’t reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:04 AM
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Men’s fertility also drops as does the quality of their sperm as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:00 AM
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^ Have you seen how women get vicious to other women when competing for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:58 AM
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Yah it is. It’s the female form of simping
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:58 AM
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Yup. Just tells you it’s bigotry. Imagine rejecting someone over having a stupid laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:57 AM
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Based mama is trying to “gatekeep blackness.” Donald Harris, Kamala’s father, is a black man from Jamaica, but like MOST Africans sent as slaves, including those in the US, Donald Harris has a shit ton of white blood. And of course, Kamala’s mother is Indian. So people like based mama like to claim she isn’t suitably “black” enough, even though in American society, having stereotypically black features gets you treated as black and Donald Harris considered himself black. Remember, Obama was half…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:55 AM
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umans, and women especially, are extremly visual creatures, Ah no. Men are more visual with sex attention or are the same. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2739403/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:40 PM
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Yah speak for yourself. I love nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:37 PM
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Wow, that point just flew over your head over land wars in Europe not staying in Europe, huh? And yet the only way you can express your happiness is by crapping on your fellow liberal women who apparently can’t keep their porn addicted husbands happy or kids in working order. It’s so weird - I’m one of those “liberal women.” And I don’t need to make myself feel better about my choices or home life by trashing the conservative women and their marriages that surround me. Seems like one of us is on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:30 PM
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This I think is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:16 PM
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Paradox of Choice; I have concerns about the accuracy of the surveys. See what happens when wives were asked in front of husbands. When you separate them, the numbers changed. https://www.jstor.org/stable/2749096 Happiness is more of an internal thing I think. I’ve been a generally unhappy person most of my life until I adopted stoicism as a philosophy. There is a difference among happy feelings humans experience. Being a mother hasn’t made me “happy.” There have been some really difficult and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:12 PM
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Did you… read that Vice article? Did you look at the “conservative” they spoke to - who is bisexual and dating both a man and a woman at the same time. Lol so “conservative.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:47 PM
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Glad it worked out for her. Sometimes it does for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:45 PM
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“ . Unlike the miserable cunts of r/TwoXChromosomes, we regard our men as men, not as defective women.” You seem so very very happy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:43 PM
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Why do you assume only liberal are out there getting random cream pies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:39 PM
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It’s like you think history started in the 1970s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:33 PM
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“ Maybe if you paid attention to your own house, your partner wouldn't be addicted to porn and your kids wouldn't be feral little shits.” I see how you maintain your happiness … by trashing others and ignorance. I’m sure war in Europe or the Middle East has never ever involved the US. Weird. I’ve got a happy husband not addicted to porn and two lovely little high performing girls. And I’m not conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:31 PM
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Ha one of the best dudes in bed I ever experienced was like 5/5.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:52 PM
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Married men live longer. Ask yourself why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:04 PM
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My first husband was 6-2 and fit. I am 5 feet and was pudgy but not porky. I dumped him and left him crying. lol. Lotta guys like short chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:43 PM
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Whole heartedly agree for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:03 PM
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Yes. My H a went from 6 to 10 during our first meet and greet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:02 PM
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First marriage divorces are less than 50% and dropping https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/westrick-payne-first-divorce-rate-2021-fp-23-18.html#:~:text=The%20first%20divorce%20rate%20has,a%20first%20marriage%20in%202021. https://psychcentral.com/health/the-myth-of-the-high-rate-of-divorce#divorce-statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:50 PM
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I agree your friend who married the barista should be paying alimony. I wonder if he can go back. Alimony is less and less common and usually ends after a set number of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:43 PM
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Why the fuck get married then if it’s about “responsibility and duty?”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:21 PM
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UVA. It’s interesting. I’ve been reading through the studies. Not full garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:58 PM
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I agree. Really underrated movie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:25 AM
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A lot of men here seem shocked that women act like men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:54 AM
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That is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:52 AM
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Agreed. Here is my positive on men. I find men easier to get along with than women. Obviously, individuals may vary, but men by and large seem more straightforward. Here is my positive on my husband. I love to use him to stick a knife in my dad and brother because they sometimes look down on him as a conservative but then he comes with the most thoughtful gifts that they never bother to give their own wives. For Xmas this year, he gave me a puzzle box that hid secret messages that he loves me an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:51 AM
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“Bless your heart.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:47 AM
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So I’ve been here about two weeks or so hanging around, and this is what I’ve learned: Men are shocked and horrified to learn that women and men are far more similar than they ever thought. Me, an older lady who was out there when match was a thing - no shit, Sherlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:45 AM
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Men are absolutely are hypergamous. And men cheat at higher rates than women. Sounds like they aren’t the least bit loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:42 AM
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The location really matters. And he had been married before. He was in his early forties. He had lots of very interested early to mid thirties women. He married a surgeon a decade his junior. But my brother is also liberal (a blue dog like me), makes good money and doesn’t care that his wife makes more, is very intelligent; and has always been pretty with women. I can’t call him a Chad. It’s gross to think of my brother that way and I can’t. But I’ve heard a lotta guys like him say that they get…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:40 AM
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“ Okay so WHAT is she supposed to do then. Start fights and be defiant when he’s doing nothing wrong? Y’all love to create your own hell I swear.” weird, considering that isn’t what I said. And bitch I’m happily married to a man who recognizes that in some areas - like the law - I fucking run circles around him. And he kicks my ass in finance. We discuss things and reach a decision together. My ex loved to pretend he was so smart and dictate shit to me, including what job I’d take. Ha that’s why…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:33 AM
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Serious. Don’t want you played.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:20 AM
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I won’t lie - women with degrees like to pair with men with degrees. I was a little more unusual. I started dating a guy w/o a degree even though I was post doc. I married him too. Let me tell you, he had the same kind of problems as you - he isn’t tall, hadn’t finished his degree, and plenty of ladies think he was sophisticated. When he asked me out, I made sure to lock his ass down. Brilliant programmer, ex mechanic. You know why? Because I’d already had learned what a shitty man looks like an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:20 AM
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If you haven’t met in person you aren’t boyfriend girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:49 PM
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Move on. I don’t buy that alpha/beta paradigm, but this calling and never meeting in person is just a fantasy. Way too often men and women create false images of each other when they only talk or email. You and she need to meet in person to know if you all are genuinely compatible on the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:48 PM
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I’m fine with no free ivf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:46 PM
1

I think this sounds very healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:40 PM
1

Uh, pay for housing, her car, retirement? Trips? Clothes? Medical care?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:35 PM
1

Love the cut of your jib
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:35 PM
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You might appreciate this which lines somewhat up. I’ll note that once married the commitment is the same: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8266382/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:18 PM
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That is an interesting study. I’m digging into it. I found it fascinating that independents have more sex than Republican or democrats. I give a bit of a side eye over the cheating claims though - that is notoriously unreliable. https://ifstudies.org/blog/sex-in-red-and-blue-america And the author admits as much: “ Finally, I shouldn’t overlook the most basic explanation: Republicans might be simply more inclined to lie about adultery than Democrats. More insight here could be gained from a surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:07 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:53 PM
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Nah. Like I know tons of women who married good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:51 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:50 PM
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Which makes them human. I mean, why do you think some women become man haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:46 PM
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Summary of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:45 PM
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Uh most of these people have families and close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:43 PM
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Largely happy. I have a sister, several cousins, and friends who are solidly into the late thirties to fifties who are single now no kids. A few never married. They are all very happy and aren’t really looking for anything serious. One dates casually and that’s it. It’s like they get past the baby hunger years of their early thirties and are fine. That has also been told to me by a few older ladies when I was in my twenties. Single older women aren’t nearly as ostracized from society as they use…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:40 PM
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No it won’t. I am not the prettiest girl on the planet and I found a guy like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:31 PM
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Always be able to pay your own way. I’ve got a great man. What happens if he dies tomorrow? I have kids that need to go to college? Male or female, in this country you have to be able to support yourself to be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:28 PM
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Yah sorry. I have my fingers crossed for you. I can’t give any advice outside the US that would be worth a tinkers damned
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:25 PM
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Location does matter because we really are “grouping.” Cities or on the edge of them is a great place to find quality mates among the chaff. And you don’t have to live forever in a big city. I live in exburbia of Atlanta because husband doesn’t like the city and we have a great school system.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:23 PM
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Yes. A lot of conservative democrats or socially liberal republicans are like that. It’s hard to “see” them because they aren’t as noisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:20 PM
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Naive or ingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:17 PM
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Frankly men should become more like women - have standards and don’t boink whatever moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:24 PM
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Get lynched. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:07 PM
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This is smart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:05 PM
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Seriously. What kills me is how so many men just can’t accept the fact that they aren’t the best looking man a woman might have dated, and a better looking guy could come along. And yet as a woman I grew up knowing that a prettier younger girl could have swept in and taken him or he’d be out having affairs or visiting sex workers. After all, the term trophy wife long predated the sexual revolution. It’s an incredible script flip. Now some men shake as they confront the reality that women have li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:03 PM
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If you both are virgins, you shouldn’t be bashed. People get mad when YOU aren’t a virgin but want to marry someone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:54 PM
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Physical courage is different than emotional courage. Just like intelligence, courage can come in many versions. Is ND neurodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:53 PM
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Look at Northern Va outside of DC. A lot of “liberal” women are actually better bets. The liberal well educated women (of which I am one) don’t have kids out of wedlock, good jobs, usually take care of themselves, and are looking for a good educated man. Really, a lot of those ladies would be considered Rockefeller republicans or old style northern republicans. The only reason you wouldn’t want one is if you are deeply religious. People say crappy things about “libs” because they’ve bought into …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:49 PM
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Ah yes, women must fix “deadbeat dads.” I guess my mom should have nailed my dad inside the house to keep him from walking out on a 15 year marriage and three kids. Ah yes, it’s women’s fault that fathers opt out of fatherhood. I forgot that women can chain them to the house with an ankle bracelet on. Once again, men expect women to fix men’s ad behavior and make them care about their progeny. Men have no self control, no personal responsibility, and no accountability. No they are perpetual chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:40 PM
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Once again, men refuse to acknowledge they are half the fucking problem. I guess you men are just little children unable to control your base urges and you need mommies to keep you in line. Sounds like maybe you can’t handle adulthood and it should be in the hands of the real adults - the women. Here’s an idea, tell your stupid boys to keep their pene in their pants instead of relying on mommy to do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:33 PM
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Of course not. All the battles he picks are totally appropriate! All of his demands are right and just!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:29 PM
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You literally are describing a doormat. If I disagree with my boss’s decisions, I can quit tomorrow. And his/her decisions generally will have no long term impact on my life. My husband making a stupid decision and landing us in deep debt. Yah no. I was married to one of those. Good thing I wasn’t submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:26 PM
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Yah fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:25 PM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:23 PM
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As a masculine woman, get back in the kitchen, femme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:22 PM
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If you look at the studies, men do jump into the lifeboats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:21 PM
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It always revolves to violence with a lotta guys here. Lower your standards or we’ll take your rights. Lower your standards or we’ll let men run wild raping you. Yah, we see you and who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:18 PM
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But men fucking lots of women is aokay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:17 PM
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“ And yes men would still be working those jobs because they need to be done to keep society afloat.” Can’t even get Americans to pick vegetables for pay and you think men are going to be police men or crabbers for free. Lmao. “ I’ve heard so far for curbing women’s rights” Yeah, we know you don’t see women as equal but as property. Sorry you are so pathetic no woman will have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:16 PM
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Then start paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:12 PM
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Yah we are sick of the threats. You want babies? Fucking PAY for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:10 PM
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If men would be smart and not put their dicks in everything that moves, hey there wouldn’t be any single moms! But thanks for making the point for women. We never should give up looking after ourselves rather than society. Because that is exactly what men are doing - looking after themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:09 PM
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No. If society won’t support motherhood why should women? Why should I and my daughters be pushed into poverty to procreate for society? Why should we forgo a more secure retirement? If you aren’t willing to put YOUR money where your mouth is, why should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:07 PM
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Nobody is culling - this is all voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:04 PM
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Sounds like we should impose some worker protections huh? Instead of forcing half of the population into a financial slavery to their spouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:02 PM
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Start planning now for a soft landing. Allow for immigration. See what happens to Japan. I really wonder about China due to their m/f ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:47 PM
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That’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:45 PM
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I’d add in erotica like 50 shades (books and movies)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:44 PM
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lol. Uh huh. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:39 PM
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“ Murder being illegal for women is like only fans being illegal for men. For the overwhelming majority it is not something that was within their instinct or power to do. It is not women acting against their instinct or giving up acting like an animal to not murder. It's women's instinct to get with a strong man to handle those conflicts for her.” I can’t help that you are completely ignorant of human history. But it’s pretty hilarious that you think women don’t engage in violence and have over …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:27 PM
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I mean that’s not unique now. Plenty of women and men entered monasteries and nunneries
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:09 PM
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“Women have access to precessional athletes.” Oh please, how many women are waiting around hoping a stupid baseball player contacts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:07 PM
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Nah. You are free to have your standards dude. If that means you don’t end up matching, that’s the way the cookie crumbles. Same for girls holding out for 6 ft plus men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:05 PM
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Men f-king everything that moves - “men are so civilized” (sips a nice rose) Women f-king who they want - “women are so uncivilized.” It’s just pure hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:48 PM
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You mean, women and men have the same rights to engage or not engage in sexual relationships. Sounds like equality to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:46 PM
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Lol. Men seeking the best mate - “totally fine.” Women seeking the best mate - “it’s the end of the world!” ALL of us - men and women - agreed to give up murder and brute force. You think it’s only men that use brute force or violence - lol. A little bit of arsenic takes out the biggest man. And you think men’s decision to “give up on violence” only benefits women so we gotta marry men to protect ourselves? Lol. Hope you are a little man, a disabled man, and old man…. Because those laws are in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:45 PM
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Only for cis white men. It sucked for women, black people, and gays. Sorry, I’m really glad I got an education and am financially dependent. I’m really glad I could divorce my stupid first husband and marry a great second one. I’m really glad I have an intellectually stimulating job. I’m really glad I could STOP having kids and had access to birth control. Fuck the 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:38 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:39 AM
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Because you are generalizing the statements of a few women to every woman on the planet. Women aren’t all the same. And women here aren’t necessarily representative of women at large
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:39 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:28 AM
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This is where Red Pill get the dread game idea from, and perhaps why men who cheat often (ironically) have a faithful woman around complaining about his indiscretions. The answer: she knows he can have another her in a minute. This invokes the "he's mine you can't have him" jealously function of the female algorithm. Women aren’t computer programs. And any man playing that stupid game of cheating on a loyal woman usually gets divorce papers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:42 AM
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Let me know when teens are consistently abstinent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:27 AM
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Worked out great for me. And based on the statistics for a lot more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:19 AM
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I’d like to see some support for that last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:18 AM
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Yes - gotta be careful of the it guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:14 AM
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That’s what happened to me - I married at 22. Way too young. He was my first. No kids. Hit the market at 28 with no debt, a good career, no kids, and I had to knock them off with a bat. My husband is a keeper
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:13 AM
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A bit later than you 33 and 35 for my kiddos and wouldn’t change it for the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:09 AM
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I also advise women to never ever have kids unless they are sure the guy is completely committed and will 100% stick around as a full time father AND shown it over several years. The final nail in the coffin of my first marriage was realizing that married or not, I’d be both the breadwinner and responsible for the lion’s share of the kid care. Noped out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:07 AM
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What consequences? That they won’t get the pleasure of dating or marrying you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:05 AM
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Exactly what is the problem with “high body count?” Can you even tell? And most of my friends who are unmarried in their thirties do not have kids. This is so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:03 AM
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Those numbers don’t get significant until the late 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:01 AM
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This is very correct. I married twice - once at 22 and then at 31. My first marriage was a disaster. We were terrible for each other (although a good match on paper). I learned. I’m a much much better wife to my current (and forever) husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:00 AM
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This is a funny comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:58 PM
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Unhappy people divorce (or wish they had). It can be inferred that less divorce means those marriages are on average happier, but I acknowledge there could be other factors. I’m glad I married at 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:58 PM
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lol. A five year difference isn’t that significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:57 PM
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Well sorry. I’ve got a forceful and direct personality. I’m past trying to play something I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:06 PM
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Ding ding ding!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:05 PM
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Because I’m marrying a husband, not hiring a rocket scientist. And I AM married to a math whiz.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:04 PM
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Marriages made when the spouses are a little older are more stable and less likely to end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:25 PM
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“Just turn women into financial slaves.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:34 PM
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My question is - what does this guy consider his equal? What are his standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:31 PM
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I always read for you NR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:15 PM
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I’m time blind - I use a timer on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:50 AM
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I have ADHD and I don’t do this shit to my husband. As I explain to my adhd teen, it’s an explanation not an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:49 AM
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THiS. I am ADHD but somehow I learned to function and pay my goddamned bills
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:48 AM
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She’s amazing. It’s amazing people would talk down Biles while some guy is talking about kissing Renaldo’s feet. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:41 PM
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I don’t go on my knees to kiss the feet of anyone, male or female. Keep your sub kink to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:38 PM
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I hated boy bands myself - I was all grunge - but god I remember one friend of mine obsessed with NKoTB. I found my husband on Match in 2002. I am way older than people around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:17 PM
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That a lot of people want love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:26 PM
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“ do. My dad literally NEVER says "I love you" or shows affection. It's normal for certain cultures to be stoic.” This has nothing to do with stoicism and is not stoic. It is sad. My husband is stoic. He tells me he loves me and is very affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:26 PM
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THIS!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:54 PM
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“ Do your children run off and suck a strangers dick to piss you off for telling her no?” Stop dating shitty women. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:43 PM
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Gotta love the casual misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:40 PM
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Bingo, give the lady a prize. For most women’s teens and twenties, they are hammered over their flaws. A lot of times they do self affirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:36 PM
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My lived experience is… so radically different. I met my husband via match?!? My brother met his wife on chemistry, and my best friend met her husband on eharmony, so it isn’t like I never knew the world of internet dating, but I admit that was before tinder etc. People (not men, not women, BOTH) in the abstract always want the most attractive, richest, hottest, tallest, and skinniest…. I mean, this was well known in my teenaged years in high school at the dawn of AOL personals and people still …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:32 PM
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Women try suicide at higher rates but use less effective methods. Men unfortunately pick methods that are more effective (guns mostly). That said, one of the reasons we have just recently had a dip in the average life span of men in the US is drug use and suicide. I do think it’s a problem that should be addressed societally. But like everything that requires a societal response, our libertarian no tax fellow citizens don’t want to consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:39 PM
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Or the number of women who took their own lives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:25 PM
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Ever been in a shitty marriage? I have. She isn’t exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:24 PM
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Then get you a working wife and you stay home. I was a SAHM for a brief period. I became depressed and went to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:22 PM
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And strangely aren’t married. I guess you aren’t husband material yet. Seriously dude, you can keep your weird poo kink to yourself and stop trying to make yourself feel better by running your female friend into the ground. It’s all gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:14 PM
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Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:05 PM
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Because one person isn’t married?? You aren’t married EITHER. I am and have been 17 years. Don’t like those types of jokes and my husband doesn’t make those kinds of jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:04 PM
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I’m with her. I am married and have been for 17 years. My husband doesn’t make those types of jokes although he likes to make dirty jokes. I like the dirty jokes. He isn’t texting me about his bowel movements. And we all self censor. I don’t talk about every hot man I see. He doesn’t tell me about who he wants to see naked. To me, your jokes aren’t funny. But that’s fine - you have a gf who doesn’t mind or is right there with you. And that’s fine. You really need to recognize that not everyone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:03 PM
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Pro tip, don’t compare humans to objects. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:57 PM
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Damn, men be a bit romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:55 PM
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Heheh I have that last kink too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:49 PM
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“ The only people I see stigmatizing SAHMs are hardcore feminists.” And men. You are trashing SAHMs in your own goddamn post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:47 PM
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https://www.atrainceu.com/content/4-irritable-male-syndrome https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/12/science-of-anger-gender-age-personality Why are men so much angrier than women? Why are men less able to control their anger than women? Is anger an emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:46 PM
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My daughters - both teens - are so into toilet humor right now. People tend to grow out of it - men and women - but husband and I love hitting the comedy clubs occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:40 PM
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Once again, men claim women are more emotional because men are unable to comprehend that anger is an emotion. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:39 PM
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Dishes - daily. Sometime three times a day (like today) when I cook a breakfast and dinner for family. Sometimes dishes get left overnight. It’s 80% me and two kids and 20% hub. Laundry - I wash my sheets every weekend unless I’m away/busy but I’d never go more than 2 weeks. Same. Laundry for clothes is usually every couple of days. Two kids. Kids do most. I and husband help. Hoovering/mopping - cleaning people or husband. He takes care of 90% dog/cat messes. (Who has puked again?) I will chip i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:00 AM
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The peak was 1980 in the us. It’s gotten better. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-us-divorce-rate-has-hit-a-50-year-low
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:15 AM
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“Again with this High IQ argument of countering stats and trends with personal anecdotes.” You really should stop projecting. It’s pretty pathetic considering how your entire screed of “trends” is simply your personal fucking opinion fueled by internet stupidity. The only cite I see is about women filing for divorce now. You make the massive assumption that women who bail are doing so even when the guy is blameless. To the contrary a friend just filed because her fucking husband cheated on her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:14 AM
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Not everyone lives their lives steeped in a Bronze Age sheep herder’s religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:44 PM
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Im not a big red pill proponent but fucking yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:43 PM
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He’s got no understanding of history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:41 PM
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Lol, lmao. I watched my mother’s generation (she’s 80 now) get dumped left and right by men in middle age. You all have no understanding of history. You all don’t talk to your elders - especially your mothers and grandmothers - and you don’t read studies about divorce rates. We GenX watched all our daddies walk right out. The Baby boomers perfected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:41 PM
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You do see it. Often those girls bitch that feminists don’t respect SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:37 PM
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It’s a gold digger. That’s all they mean. A women that wants a daddy to take care do them, but them things, do all the household chores or get a maid for it, give them spa days and a car. And the girls do nothing - no work, no kid raising (nanny for that or no kids at all), just look pretty and be arm candy. It’s pretty much a trope. It’s a rich dude buying a trophy wife thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:36 PM
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I wanna give a high five to millennials and zennials. On average the men are a shit ton better about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:31 PM
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That’s a really good point. I knew women who had to work in psyche wards. They were spat on and hit. Men too. There are a load of shitty gross jobs that both do. Another one - poultry factories. Holy shit gross work and men and women migrants (and kids - fuck you Huckabee Sanders) doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:30 PM
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Poor dude your buddy. Btw, I wanted to be a plumber. My mom wouldn’t let me. She insisted I go to college
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:27 PM
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I remember helping my bf (now husband) locate the poisoned and rotting rats in his attic as we were trying to clean them out. Like meet people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:26 PM
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Omg projectile vomiting at 3 pm for the win. And the smell - holy shit - the smell of half digested milk or diary projects??!! 🤢 Thank GOD my husband helped me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:21 PM
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Only for those who don’t actually date women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:19 PM
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When you make statements like this, I wonder if you’ve ever cooked. Cooking can be gross and hard work. I have oil burns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:18 PM
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Well this morning my husband made me coffee and last night I was cooing big daddy in his ear. These people are so insecure. I made naan from scratch for my fam this morning. That doesn’t make me subservient to my husband. He made me coffee. That doesn’t make him a soy boy or betabuxx or whatever else social posturing these insecure people do on here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:16 PM
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Here’s to you Mrs Robinson…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:13 PM
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Yes, those women are called golddiggers. And when any of them have the temerity to post about how they’re just looking for a paycheck and what not out of their husband so they can sit at home and file their nails holy cow, do people come out of the woodwork to put them in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:00 PM
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Imagine thinking reality tv is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:10 PM
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Omg those stories are crazy… especially being set up to be a home wrecker. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:09 PM
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Yah my parents’s marriage was a disaster and so was their divorce. Twenty years of petty drama. No way did I need or want their advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:07 PM
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I’m wondering if I should Google Omegle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:06 PM
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I’ve known both men and women who have fallen for the internet romance schemers. I think the point is that hormones make fools of us all, men and women. Men are not the more logical sex. Neither are women. The truth is the genders are much more similar than they are different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:04 PM
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Well I said it in a nicer way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:24 AM
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I strongly recommend not taking advice to someone who refers to women as bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:10 AM
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Because women want to be first in their husband’s priority and life. They need to know that you have their back against a domineering MIL. Women want to raise their kids and run their household how they see fit, not how MIL thinks it should be. If you think your parents have the right to run your life because they raised you, they raised you poorly. Drawing a line in the sand regarding their interference will not end your relationship. You are an adult now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:08 AM
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I am sorry my guys. You all sound like pretty good guys here. Sending you all some good vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:01 AM
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I told my parents to shut it the second they talked about grandkids. That’s not their decision. They did get grands though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:56 AM
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And the women who used to commit suicide before no fault divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:52 AM
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In your mind maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:39 AM
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I’m fine with the Euro custom of Dutch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:30 AM
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And a big chunk do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:28 AM
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Like they think this is some kind of threat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:27 AM
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In other words, you’d cheat if you had a chance so you’d assume she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:25 AM
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Sex is not an obligation. Jesus Christ. You do not own your spouse’s body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:23 AM
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I can spit out unsourced percentages and throw around gen z internet slang too. If you aren’t mentally capable of analyzing the bullshit you hear in Reddit maybe it’s just as well you don’t pass on your genes. Me I’ve married twice. I’ve passed on my genes and have built a very nice life with a dude. Seems like only one of us knows what we are doing, and it isn’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:16 AM
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OP says, “I want sex on demand.” You: “ I don't think most men expect sex on demand, honestly. Kind of sounds like a feminist straw man.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:03 AM
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Slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:02 AM
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You want a slave. And it’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:58 PM
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Or relationships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:57 PM
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The husband shouldn't be expected to do 50% of all the household chores if his wife isn't giving him sex any time he wants This makes you a fucking asshole, lazy, and you WILL be dumped. You don’t own your wife’s body. She isn’t your fucking slave. There are going to be days that she’s exhausted and (especially if she’s got a baby hanging off her nipple) she will not want you touching her body. If my husband ever pulled this shit with me, he’d be served divorce papers. You are responsible for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:57 PM
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This!!! I get texted from my husband (god bless him) asking me whether it’s violin for one or our kids even though I’ve put it on his calendar. Or asking me about where the orthodontist is (on your calendar dear…) Don’t get me wrong, he’s a good dude. But I’m the one who got her scheduled, stays in contact with the teacher, and pays the bills for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:47 PM
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Jesus go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:44 PM
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Found my people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:43 PM
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If I was getting a child that was biologically mine, a happy relationship that doesn't end in divorce, and sex on demand. I'd split chores 70 / 30, I'm not even kidding Paternity fraud is a minority. Keep insisting that you own your wife’s body (sex on demand) and you will end in a divorce. My body is mine. And sometimes I have to goddamned get up and go to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:39 PM
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No, only that the fact that women file more than men doesn’t mean women are bailing on blameless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:35 PM
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Glad my husband didn’t want a submissive woman. Jesus do you hear yourselves? If you wouldn’t be submissive in a marriage why do you expect women to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:23 PM
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Abused women get held to legal consequences (ie the costs of divorce) too when they divorce their shitty ex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:04 PM
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That’s because gay men arrange open marriages more often. I think you can’t just say “lesbians get divorced more” without seeing why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:29 PM
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That dude wasn’t a Chad. Lol, lmao. Talk about demonstrating you don’t have ANY experience. Chads aren’t the only ones who cheat. And he cheated on her after 16 years of marriage. He’s a poor ass police deputy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:24 PM
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Can you not see how trite this advice is for the “started wife.”? I don’t know how common this really is now, but man was it common when my mom was young. So many women were helping support their men through medical or law school only to be dumped once they graduated or were established. In my generation, I can think of two that may fit that mold. To avoid being a starter wife, women can do a few things. First, they can make sure to choose a partner who truly values and respects them. This means…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:05 PM
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Sounds like you’ve got a great marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:54 PM
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No. I am sick and tired of this stupid trope that women are supposed to see the diamond in the rough and polish him up into a successful man through her magic p-y. My mom once said that this guy friend of the family was “so nice” and she hoped he found a “good woman” to help straighten him up. I sent my two girls out of the room and told her she would never say that shit around them again. If W- wanted a good woman, he needed to be a good man. And that meant he needed to put the goddamned bottle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:47 PM
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YES. This is me! I hit my stride in my mid twenties
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:20 PM
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Nah. My husband makes very good decisions - but not all of them are - I get to have a say in my life and the way the family goes. So does he. It’s cooperative. As an example - we moved to a house that I mainly picked after living fourteen years in one he mainly picked. He agreed but had some reservations. Two years later he is absolutely thrilled with the choice - it was better for us (reduced our chore demands and expenses), better for our kids (much better school system) and better for our dog…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:06 PM
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It’s amazing how the only solution you seem willing to entertain is forcing women to give up liberty rather than ensuring aren’t penalized for procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:34 PM
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No. First, a lot of men don’t want a nest of kids. Second, look at cultures popping out indiscriminate numbers of kids. They look flourishing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:32 PM
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I don’t know if I buy everything you are selling, but you’ve got a way with words.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:28 PM
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You literally cited NOTHING but a Reddit post and you are complaining about a news article
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:17 PM
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Wives initiate divorce. But often they aren’t the ones who wrecked the marriage. Good friend of mine - her husband cheated on her with two different women - she filed for divorce. Wouldn’t you have if your wife cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:15 PM
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“ Why should women enter relationships when any man has to power to legally easily ruin you life forever?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:14 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:13 PM
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Lol. I mow the lawn and do plenty of the male work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:12 PM
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The poster is demanding sex on demand. So …. Maybe stop blaming that on feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:11 PM
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It’s actually extremely rare. My dad didn’t pay a dime for 12 years and never saw one negative result
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:11 PM
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Thank you. I spend the most during the month because I’m paying for the kids stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:09 PM
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It’s easier for men to get into college than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:08 PM
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What do you call sex on demand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:07 PM
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I tell that to women all the time - men cheat. Cut your losses and hide the money you have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:05 PM
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If a man wouldn’t cheat on me with another person and actually stick to his word, I’d marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:04 PM
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lol lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:03 PM
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Or you could fuxxing touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:55 PM
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Fine. Don’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:54 PM
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It’s not the least bit hypocritical. If I’m working full time (I am) why should I be responsible for all the household chores? Nah. I’ll stay alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:54 PM
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Right. When you live alone does the cleaning fairy come by? I’m so glad my husband lived alone for several years when I met him and could keep a house
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:52 PM
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You believe everything on tic tok? God I thought the younger generation was internet savvy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:51 PM
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“But I don’t want a high body count woman!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:13 AM
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Because that’s called slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:07 AM
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Dude hates the constitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:06 AM
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Do you understand the concept of slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:03 AM
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We tried that. Didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:01 AM
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This exactly. Thanks. I spent a lot of time envying others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:39 AM
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Raises hand. I had a total crush on fucking Tommy Lee Jones as he was in the fugitive. I also had a thing for Sean Connery. I dated someone who said I had daddy issues. He was likely right. He was 20 years older than me. Go figure. I look at teens or young twenty somethings - nah. Babies and probably bad at it. Older men are better. Buuuttt I’m also married and off the market lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:35 AM
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Wow. Look how you are talking about your future potential relationship. Be real careful you are treating women, even semi causal ones, as real people with real feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:24 PM
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THIS! My husband was an over looked (pretty crappy luck with the ladies) in his twenties, in part because he wouldn’t lower his standards or flash his wallet, and he’s not a tall lean dude. When he came through my life, I snatched him up so fast…. He was 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:17 PM
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Do you pine over the fact you weren’t born with money? Or that you daddy isn’t a Rockefeller? I think you should do some reading on stoicism. We will always have people more successful than we are in all walks of life - that’s life. Why wreck yours by envy. A lot of these people around here are pretty miserable. Is that the life you want to live? Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:14 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t understand a lot of the terms used here. I met my now husband when he was 33 and I 28. I had been married before, no kids and no debts. We are still married now 17 years later. I think dating in your late 20s and early 30s, you find women who want to settle down (not settle for!) and start a family. People will call them bad names or claim it’s because they’ve learned not to chase the Chad. But i didn’t find a lot of guys that interested in settling down in their 20s either…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:09 PM
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And some women decide they want to stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:46 PM
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Not the AH although I hope he was a little kinder when sending in her way. And she isn’t the AH. She’s free to see if he’s interested in a different arrangement. He isn’t. The end. It’s run its course. Maybe she isnt cut out for sexual relationships only
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:39 PM
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Country club? Sports? I’m a lady and was having the same problem with isolation. I started playing soccer again, started martial arts, and then joined a writers group. That did the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:45 PM
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Something like 95% of diets fail for men and women. What exactly are you doing for the fat among us calling them names? Other than casual cruelty?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:35 PM
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“ you can have your spouse sent to jail, and divorce isn't a thing.” I can trap my spouse and never let her leave no matter how I treat her. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:30 PM
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Yah you might want the escort experience because it takes all the pressure off. People can smell desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:28 PM
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This is the way. This is the issue with doormats - “if a guy isn’t strong enough to stand up to me, he won’t be strong enough to stand up for me.” You really wanna be dating some girl btw that screws someone’s fiancé? Or do you just want to get your dick wet? If it’s the latter, then stop trying to be their friends. If it’s the former, don’t go out with unrepentant cheaters. Go back to counseling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:21 PM
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Yes women like men, including naked men. Penises aren’t particularly pretty but that doesn’t mean they aren’t attractive. If that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:16 PM
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I get my hub up because he is a much better shot than I am. But I will do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:14 PM
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Seriously. I helped the next door neighbor lady instead of my husband to get rid of the snake in her garage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:14 PM
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There are many good men. I will point out that those good men are protecting against bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:13 PM
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Better to be a wage slave than to be dependent on another wage slave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:10 PM
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Are you claiming you don’t have a duty to be a father to your own offspring?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:07 PM
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Brava
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:03 PM
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Both my girls took Krav Maga
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:01 PM
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Companionship? For my husband, companionship, help me build a good life together, makes me smile, very responsible, and a good father to my kids. And sex. Sex is good., too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:01 PM
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lol. Ignores entire history of this country until the 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:53 PM
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This really misunderstands the history of family structure. I’d invite you do some reading on family structure. As an example, boys were often substantially removed from women’s influence at 8-9 to either go into trade (as a guild system) or with their father’s line of work. I don’t think that’s bad (well the whole sending away part is bad) - I think fathers matter for both daughters and sons - but it also means that boys receive early and substantial education from men. I’m referring to right n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:53 PM
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They were. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:47 PM
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It is very smart. That entire movie was very subversive. People think it’s all girl power and there is some of that, but it also was really harsh on the Barbie’s for their treatment of the Kens. And Alan. Alan was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:47 PM
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I mean, for gods sake, stop making sweeping generalizations that are not backed up by legit scientific study. This is the same type of thinking that leads to bigotry and prejudice that is then used to punish the targeted group. It also completely contradicts the other stereotype around here that most women only want sexy chads and criminals who treat them like dog squeeze. They both can’t be right! People are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:45 PM
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I feel seen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:44 PM
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Sounds like a partnership. Seems great!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:38 PM
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She points out she brings education and motivation to better her life and you say “men don’t care.” You just proved her point. PS you don’t speak for all men. My husband is quite happy I make money and have a post doc. Seems he appreciated what I brought to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:37 PM
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Believe me, my husband loves that I make money too. And it enables us to go on great trips we couldn’t otherwise. Like my money and his go in the same pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:31 PM
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Your dad sounds awesome and good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:47 AM
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This is dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:42 AM
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I’m sorry love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:38 AM
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I agree this far - women in my generation, GenX, were definitely told to settle. my mom came out of a generation where women couldnt go to colleges or had to be teachers and nurses, not doctors and lawyers. But my kids won’t need to because they are fine being single and can earn their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:38 AM
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Leonardo Da Vinci had a live in male lover - Salai And lol thinking monks were celibate. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:39 PM
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Men are sentenced far more harshly for the same crimes. That needs to change - I agree. But much of the rest is bull crap. Just to take one sample - men are actually admitted to college here in the US with lesser grades and standards than women. Men are getting in based on diversity initiatives. Men get affirmative action, y’all. lol https://hechingerreport.org/an-unnoticed-result-of-the-decline-of-men-in-college-its-harder-for-women-to-get-in/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/20…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:36 PM
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It’s such a good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:14 PM
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I see a tiny nugget of good advice here - people (not men and not women but people) should be open to being a little more flexible on their standards in going out on a first date. For me, I (like many women) prefer tall guys. My first husband was 6-2. I am five feet tall. When I started dating after my divorce I asked myself how rigid I should be about height and removed it as a filter on Match. A 5/6 guy reached out to me. He was funny. We met somewhere publicly really quick after a few calls b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:06 PM
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lol. And a lot of stats show that single women without kids are pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:50 PM
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FWIW, i dated several men at the same time. And they dated more than me. We weren’t exclusive. Don’t you think that’s what you are seeing? Then I got serious with one and we became exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:47 PM
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Have you been on this sub or seen all the panic porn out there about young women not marrying? Women are opting out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:39 PM
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This is incorrect. The laws do not punish men, no matter your anecdotal data
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:36 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:27 PM
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Omg you’ve never done laundry. It isn’t just putting into the washing machine - it’s sorting, folding, hanging up. And that shit (I hate it) takes me a couple hours on the weekends with two kids helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:27 PM
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As a woman, I know how to change oil, tires, etc. When I lived alone in my own house, I mowed the lawn, did all the gardening, painted, paid all my bills, cleaned the place, did laundry … everything … by myself. And maintained my two cars and took care of my dog?!? It was just me?!?! God knows I cleaned gutters as a kid and hated it. We have gutter guards now. Like why do you think women can’t or won’t do these things. Oh and I make money, thanks. Like wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:25 PM
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Ooo hard disagree. Little kids give so much more love back than teens. But teens grow out of that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:44 PM
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Do you have data to support this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:11 PM
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My husband took a lot of time off the first month. He was always available to help me - he made sure to bring me stuff to eat, took the baby so I could nap, and would do the middle night feeding even to let me get a full night sleep periodically. It was so helpful. I have a really good husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 PM
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Yes!!!! For me it did get better but lord
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
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Yes! Everyone makes fun of “it’s takes a village” but fuck it takes a village
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
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lol lmao. Please….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:44 AM
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You should judge everyone, male and female, by their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:42 AM
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“ And women were literally going around killing infants.” The Romans would like a word….. it was the male patriarch that would decide which newborn infant lived or died, not the mother. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:40 AM
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I am married to a short (5/6) man. He is in no way repulsive. WTF? I adore him and after 16 years of marriage and two kids we still bang a couple times a week. One of the most charismatic and sexually successful men I’ve ever known was a short (like 5/5 -5/6) and skinny Cuban dude. Man had a body count over 100 and that was after being off the market during a fifteen year marriage. Dude had game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:02 PM
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Imagine thinking liberal men aren’t successful too. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:08 PM
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Shhh don’t wreck his stupid stereotypes - he probably thinks liberals don’t have guns either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:01 PM
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We definitely should shame all those guys here who lie to get pussy. Pure sluts, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:00 PM
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I brought up prochoice right away because I am not fucking a prolife man ever. And I was looking for a LTR. I’m married now to a conservative who is prochoice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:58 PM
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If you are an old time Rockefeller Republican, you are a dying breed and would be very attractive. You guys are big on individual rights. The turn off are the new maga right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:56 PM
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Right there with you sister being moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:53 PM
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We are well aware - my hub is conservative an entirely prochoice. The problem is that he keeps voting for people who want to ban that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:49 PM
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Because republicans are banning abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:48 PM
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Trump. We avoid the subject. He’s a wonderful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:45 PM
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I have put my hand up and sworn to protect and uphold the US Constitution as part of my employment. I meant it. The Orange Man in fact was bad and continues to be bad. Listen to Judge Luttig.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:44 PM
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lol. How is that comment in any way responsive to mine? I guess you agree - men in general are shallow. All they care about is looks and age. Second, you honestly think men don’t require anything - you read this sub ever? Sure seems like men have plenty of requirements for marriage. Third, why should I care about marriage rates? I don’t. Men don’t want to be single forever? Then be something more. This reminds me of a discussion amongst myself and three friends. I’ve been married twice (and stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:41 PM
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I think it goes back to the idea that teen boys are all sex monsters who would love to get experience from a cougar. We have a lot of negative stereotypes of men in our culture as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:59 PM
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Her reputation was pretty much trashed in that town. I was too young at the time but I heard it later. She did live it down a bit as my bro and she remained married for a long time - 14/15 years. It was skeevy. It’s gross when male teachers do it and gross when female teachers do it. But most women are consistent in finding it gross. It’s men who will give the boys the high five in comment sections. (Some men).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:55 PM
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And? How do you know her friends were giving her a pass? Do you know what they said to her in private? Do you know if she lost friends? And way to be so fragile that a question testing your knowledge made you downvote me. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:49 PM
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My bro dated and married a woman 20 years his senior. You better believe my dad and other men pulled him aside and were concerned. I don’t know what his friends said tho. Where is your data for this: “ Why do older guys feel the young men can handle it, compared to vice versa?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:45 PM
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Personally I’m happy when my male friends date… But I also noted some weirdness from some of my now husband’s female friends when I started dating him. It was absolutely losing access to a helpful man and back up plan. Some female competitiveness. Men are like that too. My hub was a little worried introducing me to a male friend of his because that dude was a “chad” (but a really good dude). Lots of the girls introduced into that male group would get all crushy on the dude. He was a good dude an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:41 PM
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Then how do you know if people have her a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:31 PM
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