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Yea, that shows you can make up for height. As a chub who's gotta be charismatic to make up for my own tubbiness, I can vouch that the whole thing can be exhausting.
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:08 AM
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It also leads into some really iffy categories if the chic is crazy and regrets the decision later... that's why it's a no go for me at all times. I love when I can get utterly trashed with a chic and she holds her composure and we can have mutual drunk fun together. It leaves all this kind of drama behind
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:51 AM
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I hate that "wooooooooooooo! I'm so drunk!!!!!" game they play
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:44 AM
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So true. I've met a few Korean women who went to America for school at one point in time, so they have a grasp on the language. They have always been the most receptive.
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:09 AM
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HAHA, you know what man, I show up in their part of town because I have no idea where the hotspots are in the Korean speaking areas, and they more than welome me. I understand how everyone views them, and it's warranted at times, but those guys have been nothing but great towards me. I just show up, mingle into a group, start drinking from their pitcher, and take part of their night. Seeing as I'm an hour and a half away from Itaewon, the Casey folks are fucking heroes for my sanity.
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:19 PM
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Casey, to be exact.
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:11 PM
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Good to hear from you! I love going to seoul (the few times I've been), and I've had a blast in Itaewon (sp?). I have no problem approaching people, even though I don't follow the PUA handbook strictly for a lot of the time (I like to just meet people, mingle, move on... no need for any type of close sometimes) Anyway, yea... fucking love the foreign areas, there just isn't one here (besides an army base, and I'm getting really tired of having 'bro-downs') And yes! I know a ton of people who's e…
/r/seduction18/04/12 11:33 AM
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Dude.... just such a fucking weirdo. I would have never entered a situation like that in the states, but I was just so damn out of my element. That guy was giving us directions, and then he ended up back at her apt. I kept saying "go home" and shit like that, and I thought there was just a language gap.... but apparently he was just trying to bone her.
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:58 AM
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Based on how goofy that second one is, are you dating Will Ferrel?
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:16 AM
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Man that's my problem! I would in the States... but the only English Speaker for miles around, who takes the bus back and forth to work with me... shit is convoluted
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:39 AM
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Yea, that's what I do. BUT... in the three months before I'm slimmed down, I need to figure something out. I just went spotting for those language exchange sites, and joined a few. So excellent suggestion there.
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:55 AM
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Great points. I think I might try the cafe thing. I've been at a loss lately to really find any good way around the suburb-itis. Even the online social groups are all based in Seoul, which is what makes everything inconvenient. And another thing, I'm a pretty big dude (out of shape), so I don't have looks to depend on, ALL of my game is from interaction. Without that, I'm dead in the water.
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:59 AM
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Dude, you're absolutely right. I'm a really social, fun time having, bar hopping kind of guy, and I would never hang out with someone that was so detrimental in the states. But.. I've found native women to be not so receptive to the King's English. Also, my attempts to speak Korean don't go over too well. ALTHOUGH... there is a certain part of town where I'm a rockstar. But it's WAY too far away. It's about an hour and a half train ride to get there, and the train closes at midnight. So I need t…
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:41 AM
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not, completely a man. My username is a mixture of terms that I thought was really witty.... but now just makes everyone think I'm a chic. But good advice. Terms: Lady's Man (yes, I know I'm lame) and Nerd
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:41 PM
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ahhh, well then, I think in a normal environment I'd agree. I'm at that weird point in my life, though, where i've moved to a different country and people who speak English are few and far between. So the inherent risks (losing my most solid contact and hang out friend) of saying "fuck it, it's all temporary anyways" is too high for my liking.
/r/seduction15/04/12 09:56 AM
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Everything's inherently temporary in nature? You're argument makes no sense at all
/r/seduction15/04/12 08:53 AM
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I always feel like I'm being a lame ass if I don't close, but you're right. If it's uncomfortable, probably shouldn't do it
/r/seduction15/04/12 04:39 AM
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That would make sense. Just feels so incredibly awkward to me every time
/r/seduction15/04/12 04:38 AM
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seconded, and thirded
/r/seduction15/04/12 04:38 AM
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see, i have no problem become friends with a new chick i've just slept with. But sleeping with an established friend, to me at least, is like dragging nails on the board.
/r/seduction15/04/12 04:22 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I guess I get caught in awkward situations, because I use my 'charm' in different social environments, which is probably not a good idea. Like, if I see some chick studying a couch over from me, I'll possibly end up studying with her. Or if I'm on an especially long train ride, I'll end up sitting next to her. Of course, my intent is to get to know them, and possibly allow a connection to spring up... but also to just mingle . I guess that borders on building an actual rela…
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:14 PM
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My bad, confused this with /r/commonmisconceptions
/r/seduction11/04/12 05:49 AM
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I find that I'm golden late at night, for casual encounters. But during the day, when I have chance encounters with folks on the bus, cafe, or train, after 30 minutes of being a charming fuck... I get winded. I just feel a natural lull coming on, and then BAM... awkward lull in conversation hits. I've generally timed myself, so that I can get the girl's digits before then and then abandon the situation. Anyone have advice for conquering these types of situations? EDIT: I also find that about 40%…
/r/seduction11/04/12 05:40 AM
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oh shit, more importantly... is a killer whale not really a whale?!?!?!?! my world is ruined!!!! To wikipedia I go...
/r/seduction11/04/12 05:29 AM
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I know. My phone's kinda old, and apparently wasn't able to switch to international, which sucks.
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:50 AM
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I've fresh to this sub, and the only problem I have with it is... it feel like cheating!!! Took me forever to perfect my 'game', and then I discovered PUA tactics, and they're basically the same. I hate you guys for figuring out the quicker way!!! But I also love you guys cuz this place is full of funny/awesome stories that a broshemi can relate to.
/r/seduction08/04/12 04:37 AM
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My US phone does not work anywhere in the world. I would have to buy an international plan, but my type of phone wouldn't support it. So now I'm getting a local Korean phone
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:20 AM
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I agree. Just can't get one till that paperwork is through! George is getting upset!
/r/seduction07/04/12 04:56 PM
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I guess i'm just so pissed because I rarely get openings. Live in a pretty non-Western friendly area, and that was the first Western chick I talked to this week. But you're right... but it was such a whiff!
/r/seduction07/04/12 04:56 PM
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It's not. Have to get an alien registration number, and I have to go through my workplace for that. Been here for two weeks, and I can honestly see it taking 2 weeks more for all of the paper work to settle. Especially dealing with workplace bureaucracy
/r/seduction07/04/12 02:44 PM
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Same issue with her FB, privacy settings set to HULK like heights. I think the general lesson I learned is that I need a fucking phone
/r/seduction07/04/12 12:41 PM
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1) Don't want to be a dick, but I know the general response to people is "get out of your comfort zone" but that's not really helpful in this scenario. Been pushing boundaries since I was a kid and have no problem going out and about, I especially don't have a problem networking. I literally work a FUCK ton. When I'm out of work, I have to prepare for work. This is my second weekend in the country and I decided to go see the sights. But in all honesty, I've been to a few spots, and the closest h…
/r/seduction07/04/12 12:40 PM
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dude, i just went on a youtubing binge cause of you!!! I'm definitely looking forward to that. Dude, I'm new to this /r/, so I've just been diving through all the content. I can't believe there's such a huge glossary of terms still, but it's definitely going to make discussing a night's events easier. I'm usually like a caricature of Larry David the day after, with 10 minute explanations of mundane social interactions.
/r/seduction23/03/12 05:02 AM
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Wasn't me!!! I was just busy reading your story, which was pretty damn awesome, if you ask me. I have to admit, the weight is definitely something i need to work on. I find that I have awesome, funny conversations with randos in any venue, but I just never take that last step of closing. I'll just make them laugh, throw up the deuces, and say "Cool, well... I'll see you later". I'm actually going to teach English in Korea, so knowing how expensive greasy food is over there, I'll probably shred a…
/r/seduction22/03/12 10:10 PM
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great points, and what a fucking great post. I know exactly what one of the commenters was talking about... after feeling apathetic for so long, it turns into anxiety. That's why I love the shit out of wingmen, but my wingmen are usually so damn.... loserish. There's no other way to put it. I'm the one that socializes, gets numbers, and finds the best spots to go to, and they contribute nothing. I love them and all, but god damn, at least fucking go up to some new people and network. It's so fuc…
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:50 PM
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You're right on that point. I tag an honest to god Hotty of the Hot Hots about once every 6 months, and it's not really due to game. It's more or less a combination of factors that allows me to, like the town celebrating a winning football game and me being the typical bar bro. I know the weight's gotta go, it's just so damn hard! I used to play raquetball and rec sports with my guys back in the day, but now I'm on the job hunt and away from my folks, and finding a workout bud is the most diffic…
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:42 PM
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The "Take up a lot of space" concept is really interesting. I gotta say, the slouching aspect really does me in. But I think I'm also fighting a losing battle, or at least was. I'm about Kevin Smith's level of fat, and I used to dress like a little hipster bum... but heavier on the bum aspect. I recently made the jump to 'douchey' yacht club look.. you know, the 'bro' style of dress shirt, leather belt, and nice shorts. Well, that certainly raised my stock a good bit, but I still think weight ca…
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:18 PM
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Very interesting. I let myself go from awkwardly chubby to fatty, and I noticed for one strange summer I could do no wrong with women. I was outgoing (aided by whiskey) and much to my surprise, I was hooking up a good amount of the time. I think the "I don't like myself" the fault in my plan nowadays though. I don't even actively try to hookup with women anymore, because I feel like they treat fat guys like gay guys... as in having a great time with them, but then not wanting to bone. And I don'…
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:15 PM
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