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Man, that "Bro disqualifier" is pure gold! I can envision it working its magic on me and pretty much any other girl out there, all of us dislike being seen as unfeminine.
/r/seduction13/05/11 02:37 PM
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Well, asking much too private questions about my friends (I am fair game in a conversation, discussing close ones is disrespectful in my book), or very confidently teaching me about what all women like/dislike in bed. There`s a place for cocky and I have no trouble with an attitude if we are discussing midget porn or world peace. On more touchy matters.. tread carefully. Best to err on the safe side since you've already probably given the cocky vibe earlier in the conversation. I guess that's pa…
/r/seduction05/04/11 10:43 AM
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Some things work for both genders; heck, most do, but women must put them into practice very differently than men do to achieve the desired effect.
/r/seduction04/04/11 08:37 PM
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Hmm, if I were to nitpick, the original was said in my mother tongue and the 'right now' could be interpreted as 'this very second' as well as 'currenty'. BUT most A&A lines are obviously absurd, isn`t that the point? Besides isn`t seduction less about what you say and more about how you say it? The point of this post is not my oh-so-brilliant reply (obviously) but the effect I got with it.
/r/seduction04/04/11 08:32 PM
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The guy is definitely nowhere near a PUA. I don't know, I don't see the big difference between a girl asking a guy 'so how many other girls are you sleeping with?' and him saying 'twelve so far today'. This is my issue with A&A - not very funny and not at all witty (granted, a little bit cocky). Nevertheless it works.
/r/seduction04/04/11 05:16 PM
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One more vote for spending a friendly weekend in with the guy. ;) Man up and ask him on a date, all that effort of going through seduction material is useless without getting out and practicing game. Oh, and once you close we expect you to post back with another FR.
/r/seduction03/04/11 02:30 AM
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Hey! I have a feeling you are a lot like I was before I discovered PU stuff. I would talk to a guy for hours on end and drop flirty lines, but with no trace of physical contact, think it was going great, and then for no reason he would lose interest and randomly hook up with the first girl throwing herself at him without exchanging more than a few words. Then I learned about kino, how it is so crucial for establishing a connection and indicating interest. It wasn't easy for me to start doing it …
/r/seduction06/03/11 06:57 PM
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Thank you so much for your comment, honestly glad to have helped. :) On the flipside, reading male perspectives also fascinates me to no end as well, that's what got me hooked on seddit in the first place.
/r/seduction05/03/11 08:14 PM
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Ah, you see, there is a great difference between using your PU skills for good a.k.a. giving value (like this dude was focused on being fun to hang out with and offering me a pleasurable experience), and using them for evil a.k.a. just some quick close for another notch on the bedpost, which fragglemook seems to have given an example of. Granted, we women are inapt when it comes to many things; but one thing we can normally do is smell what your end goal is from miles away.
/r/seduction05/03/11 08:13 PM
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Hm, I could brainstorm a handy compilation of some female trivia, if it would be useful. But I have little to no experience in very 'mainstream' girl types (the cheerleader, drama queens etc.). And frankly I am a bit worried about the reactions; I see many people in this subreddit acting very negatively and condescending towards women 'infiltrating' it. What do you think? And are there any issues in particular that you'd like to see included?
/r/seduction05/03/11 07:53 PM
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Yesh, for some girls it is. But from what I've shared with male friends our version is much milder. The least mother nature could do, I guess..
/r/seduction05/03/11 07:46 PM
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Ohh, those little gestures are indeed pure gold, please go out to try them and report back! ASD is a tricky beast, it has to do with her friends, his friends, even the venue regulars who might give judgmental looks next time she is there. I have literally heard girls wanting to avoid so-and-so club because they hooked up with 2 different guys there in 2 different nights, and what will everyone think of them. Crazy? Absolutely. Fact? Sadly..
/r/seduction05/03/11 06:28 PM
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Maybe it's just the estrogen talking, but I fail to see how an F-close is the holy grail of any and all human interaction. Would you choose a random drunken hookup ending in a ten minute clumsy F-close over an awesome marathon of a night out with friends, girls, partying, the works? I know this is not the case but I am making a point here. Besides, the dude was totally in; had it not been for logistics beyond our control, we would still be banging instead of him visiting his asian lesbian friend…
/r/seduction05/03/11 06:20 PM
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Solid game indeed. We left together and he walked me a couple minutes to my bike, during which I made sure to voice my concerns (sandwiched in between some compliments). He brushed them off and I said I appreciated his POV but it's hers I'm more interested in, bros before hoes etc. He was very understanding about it. The entire exchange was very mature and totally gentlemanly on his part. Come to think of it, it was perfectly in line with the general vibe of the evening, the guy being very patie…
/r/seduction05/03/11 02:39 PM
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You just described this guy I know to the T. Thing is, recently he appears as if he has turned his situation around as whenever I meet him he is smiling and confidently holding his head up (as opposing to moping and sad like he always used to be). Whereas before I rejected even the smallest advances coming from him, right now I definitely feel attracted to his new behaviour. If he manages to keep it up for some time without sliding back, I most likely won't be opposed to anything happening betwe…
/r/seduction05/03/11 04:37 AM
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after politely declining an invitation to join HD9 because I want a girls' night out. HD9 is already there (I mentioned where I was going because I never expected him to pop up). I was into him as a FWB, but needed my time away, and made a crystal clear request to him to give me some space, then he showed up and acted all boyfriend-like. Pretty bad behaviour in my book. The little scene was basically me telling him to get lost, with my most serious face and tone. From the outside it would defini…
/r/seduction03/03/11 12:15 PM
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Definitely. Your response is okay in itself, nishnasty, but it would be pretty strange for a guy who gives out strong alpha vibes in person to switch to super-nice mode over text. If you need to tone down your game or switch moods, I definitely recommend doing it in person and only afterwards text/whatever accordingly.
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:23 PM
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To me this would sound like trying too hard.
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:20 PM
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Nailed the response, nice job. This is especially good because most women will sometimes worry about coming on too strong / looking too desperate / generally overdoing it if they dress sexy enough to turn heads. This shows her you are comfortable with her sexuality and appreciate her ways of expressing it. Thumbs up!
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:18 PM
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My pleasure, hope they help or at least entertain somewhat.
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:09 PM
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Thanks for the feedback! Not sure what the "Lol, what?" was directed at, so if it refers to me almost crying, yeah, estrogen's a bitch. But if it was about the guy being clingy, how 'bout I told you he texted me the next day saying 'I know you made things perfectly clear but I still feel we need to talk'?
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:08 PM
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Eastern Europe. Look on the bright side, you have the perfect excuse for moving the party to your place. If I wait until 6 AM to get indoors there is a high chance of inebriation or being exhausted => less likely for things to get sexual.
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:05 PM
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This particular HD9 reminds me of Joseph Gordon Levitt a lot. To me he is a good example of a physical 9 - minus the celebrity aura which may take him up a notch.
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:01 PM
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Thank you! The main intention is to motivate female lurkers to get off their butts and go out there & rock some. But whatever you guys find useful is quite a nice bonus. As for the aggressiveness, it is one of my biggest hurdles, I am teaching myself to be more tame and appear harder to get although I can tell within 20 seconds if I want to take the guy home or not. So obviously take my FRs with a grain of salt and don`t assume all females are secretly gorillas.
/r/seduction24/02/11 06:57 PM
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Nice comment, Delightful_White. Come to think of it, I've never had a WWB (wingperson with benefits) situation..
/r/seduction24/02/11 06:52 PM
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In case anybody wants a female point of view, the best pings are definitely the ones that refer to a common experience or inside joke, as it makes us think back on the good times we had together. And FYI guys, it doesn't even have to be real. Make some shit up about seeing X which reminded you of Y - we can't tell. Also, common sense but needs to be reinstated: use statements instead of questions and do not phrase in a way that requires a reply. If we are interested we will follow up, spare us t…
/r/seduction24/02/11 06:42 PM
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From a female point of view, there is only so many IOIs we will give out before we shut a guy down completely if he is not responding positively to them. Tread carefully, if you step over that line she will feel humiliated because in her mind she has thrown herself at you and you have not appreciated her and what she has to offer. Your best bet is to meet her again in person and act a little more interested (without being a chump, of course). Phone or text won't cut it at this point, she won't b…
/r/seduction08/02/11 08:49 PM
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Aw, thank you. :) I'm pretty much across the ocean from you but I'll make sure to keep your offer in mind.
/r/seduction09/01/11 12:21 PM
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Also, any guy who claims girls just need to look pretty really deserves a girl who just looks pretty. :)
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:24 AM
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Oh, YAY for more FFRs!! I honestly can't wait to read your stories. Though I am a bit afraid that, unlike MFRs which sound more or less alike, our FRs might end up having too little points in common..
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:20 AM
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Ha, I was expecting a lot worse from the way your comment began. :) Thank you! Here's to hoping my thought process will inspire a few women to man up. Or, like me, man down a tad..
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:16 AM
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The fact that by the end of the night the tables had turned completely leads me to believe that HG8 had in fact been interested, just intimidated by my initiatives.
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:13 AM
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This! I cringe at the sight of girl AFCs. Holding out for Prince Charming until they get a few drinks in them and then proceed go home with the first penis holder that throws them a bone..
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:11 AM
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Be in the right place at the right time. :)
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:08 AM
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Ah, I understand now that my phrasing wasn't the best. To me the 'also have a fun ride along the way' part was implied. :)
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:04 AM
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No offense taken and I have already addressed similar concerns several times in other replies, but here goes: I don't claim much effort, but I do claim much better signal to noise ratio. ;) Don't read too much into my story and appreciate my encouragement for the women of seddit to make your life a little easier. Also, real life experience has taught me that women who are outgoing and participating have much more men to choose from than the ones who just sit there looking pretty.
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:02 AM
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I so wish I was better at this! And many guys need to keep a special eye out for the 'it's okay for you to lead me' signals. It`s a consequence of trust build up and therefore if you pass on building this connection with us we are bound to feel rejected and this will only affect your game.
/r/seduction09/01/11 02:56 AM
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Noted! Btw, quick question here: do you think guys react well to such openers? I ask because I normally make it a point not to mess with male ego and will mostly open with something obviously positive or neutral.
/r/seduction09/01/11 02:52 AM
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Thank you for your feedback! Engineer here so definitely technical, though I have a soft spot for arts and humanity. I've read pretty much every resource and FR posted on seddit within the past month or so. Also Robert Greene's Art of Seduction. Will definitely check out more from Wygant, thanks for the tip! As for summoning HG9 over, I just met his eye contact, smiled, lingered and did a little come hither look (eyebrows raised, head tilt to the side). The k-close just flowed during a really cl…
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:27 PM
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Thank you. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:19 PM
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I somewhat agree, but you forgot 'also makes it much more fun for both parties'. Also, many of you assume I am acting like I reinvented the wheel. Far from that, just encouraging more ladies to say 'yes'. You're welcome. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:18 PM
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Thank you, glad I could be of service.
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:15 PM
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I whore myself out for food for 40 hours a week, might as well whore myself out for fun and sex for a few more. No offense, but you sound douchey.
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:14 PM
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Have an upboat, good sir. _^
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:13 PM
1

Never thought of that, nice one! Stealing it for next FR.
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:12 PM
1

Thank you. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:12 PM
1

'Hey, my flatmate and her friend are heading back home soon, so if you think we should share a cab with them we might as well get ready in a bit.' (somewhere along those lines)
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:12 PM
1

I tend to not even acknowledge a poorly groomed and dressed dude, no matter how physically fit. But my standards are not ridiculous, just basic hygiene and maintenance really. Everything else definitely takes a back seat to looks when you're out to get a one night stand. For a LTR, looks definitely take a back seat to everything else. ;)
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:10 PM
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Not in the slightest..
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:06 PM
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I can attest to that. Before reading up on seduction I had no trouble saying hello, but I definitely had a flawed game and a lower close rate than you'd expect a girl to have.
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:06 PM
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Instant erection - just add water!
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:04 PM
4

Is this a very intricate way to say 'tits or gtfo'? :D FWIW I have a good body, cute but not supermodel pretty face, and a fucking awesome attitude when I`m in state.
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:03 PM
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Just so you know, I am upvoting the hell out of everything you have ever, are currently, and will ever post. :) That is all.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:59 PM
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YES!
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:58 PM
1

Thank you, white knight. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:57 PM
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Hey, I don't feel offended, to each their own. Judging by your reply, you and I would probably have a square peg round hole situation anyway. I have actually had feedback that me chasing guys comes off as intimidating so I am trying to better myself and tone down a bit. Other than that, maybe you would like to elaborate on what was so horrible about my game? Genuinely curious, not trying to pick a fight.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:56 PM
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I completely agree with the first paragraph, guys definitely drew the short straw where seduction is concerned. I wouldn't even dare claim I have such a hard time attracting a decent man. However, the second part I completely disagree with. My definition of success is not someone sticking a dick in me by the end of the night, but, as JimmyShockTreatment cleverly pointed out, having a great time before, during and after sex. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:53 PM
2

Thank you! I know it isn't perfect but I'm taking mental notes of the feedback and hope to get better at these.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:50 PM
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Thank you for your comment! :) I do have a healthy sexual appetite and normally have a boyfriend or FWB to turn to, but sometimes I just get a craving to go out and pick up someone new, y'know? Maybe it's the fact that I need reassurance that I've still got it, maybe it's the fact that I've been in LTRs since I was 15 and have so much curiosity built up, maybe it's just human nature.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:49 PM
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Thanks a lot! :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:47 PM
7

Quality over quantity highfive!.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:41 PM
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Haha, it's not rocket science, never claimed it was. I've just noticed so many girls asking about this, and the timing was perfect, so I decided to post. Edit: Also, in reply to your second comment: Just in case it wasn't obvious from the post, I am initiating contact as well. One of the primary goals of my FR is to encourage other girls to do the same.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:41 PM
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Very good point! Looking back, HG8's beta-ness was definitely killing it, and his hooking up was the last straw. Had the HG8 completely engaged me, I probably wouldn't have been looking around for another target.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:39 PM
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FWIW a guy who's been all over other girls all night long is really offputting for me (and my other female friends too). We could be the exception, but since we know girls usually do the turning down, to us it is less of a 'got the trophy' and more of a 'got to be the consolation prize', y'know what I mean?
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:38 PM
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Agree x1000!
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:34 PM
2

Pretty much hit the nail on the head here. Confidence and game always bring your hotness rank up a notch or more.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:33 PM
2

We don`t have it as tough as you guys do, but some work definitely needs to be put in just so both parties have a nice time during the chase process. And what is this Bugs Bunny overbite you speak of?
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:32 PM
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Been there, done that! Attraction just flew out the window. Though he was a pretty nice looking fellow, we ended up not doing it at all and never going on a second date. I'll bet you anything he was probably left with the impression that I was some crazy bipolar chick who didn't know what she wanted. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 02:00 PM
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Hey, we`re all human beings and share the same triggers. The main difference is that girls are submissive in nature (therefore needing more authority and in-your-face delivery) and guys dominant (responding best to playfulness and subtle delivery).
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:58 PM
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I was curious after you posted in my thread so I read your post. Congrats on making it work for you! Some women (myself included) really have to work on 'being gamed' rather than gaming, cause that's a lot of fun that we`re missing out on. Definitely know your limit when it comes to drinking. Shots are pretty bad because they add up and sneak up on you, some beer or light mixed drink would be better. Or even wine for extra clasiness. ;) One tip I have heard is follow each drink by a large glass …
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:54 PM
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Thank you for the appreciation! Besides, just as I have found the male FRs useful, some guys might get an idea or two out of mine. I seriously believe female pick-up to be somewhere in between true male PUA and AFC random shots in the dark. :)
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:43 PM
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Hey! Rereading I can understand I've overdone it with the PUA language, probably because I`ve been reading up on a ton of stuff lately. But please feel free to ask details on anything! I didn't zoom in a lot on specific things I did or said because it was an already huge post. Till I get better at writing these, you`ll just have to take my word for it (though my ex is a redditor, I doubt getting him to post here is proof).
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:39 PM
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