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| 8 | I love it when these men reveal themselves right away;💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 05:27 PM |
| 77 | My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funnyGirl, stop writing think pieces and twisting into a pretzel and just dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 217 | Ofc he blames it on her and not himselfHe has ED and is scared she will dump him so he's preemptively blaming it on her and trying to break her down mentally she she won't have the confidence and energy to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:31 PM |
| 55 | Wholesome❤️It's the remnant of the belief that the man is the seed and the woman is the dirt and as such she contributes nothing to the child because it's all father's genes creating it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 08:31 AM |
| 31 | I wonder if these are high expectationsEven before. Being with a woman that out of their league would make them feel inadequate by comparision and they would cheat to boost their self esteem and feel like they have the upper hand in the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 07:09 AM |
| 6 | What common FDS advice or opinions do you disagree with and why?It's a bit like the intuitive eating movement - works for people who are already eating healthy, gets the rest of us in trouble. That's why taking a break and doing therapy is always a recommended step before dating again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:46 PM |
| 192 | I am just so... disappointedIt's a shame he decided to ruin himself for love and relationships but that was his decision and is now his issue to deal with. Live and learn 💁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 23 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.Girl, you need to take a break from dating and go do therapy instead. Take at least a year off. Trust me you are not missing out on anything with the kind of energy you are giving off right now at this stage of healing. You would only be attracting and settling for people who can sense your issues and intend to take advantage of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:28 AM |
| 21 | Once again, Guard Your Womb, Sisters.They still do it for revenge and control even when they don't give a damn about their child and fully intend to neglect it after winning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 20 | Age Gaps in the MediaShe's a sheltered perpetually insecure introvert with a history of being around and dating misogynistic men. It's the perfect grooming recipe. She probably believes she's ✨lucky✨. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:03 AM |
| 9 | I’m not gonna ask on relationship advice subs to get gaslit, I’ll ask here if allowed. Do you think I should leave because he didn’t stand up for me, or is it trauma?Men are at their "progressive best" while in college because it is the thing that helps get them laid these days, and because having a feminist reputation gives them an additional degree of protection when they are called out by women they treat badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 61 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄You'd be surprised how many non-homosexual women call themselves gay these days and get all defensive and homophobic when called out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:17 AM |
| 54 | “Pussy is Not Charity” T-shirtThis is porn language and porn mindset that attracts porn addicted people. Women are not charity - I can stand behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:26 PM |
| 116 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityJust a couple of days ago I read an article on DailyMail about the man who murdered his famous writer wife and got away with it for years. Turns out he had already murdered his first wife too and got away with it by blaming her death on her health issues. Now, wait for it - after murdering his first wife he had used her death as a sob story to create an empathy bond with his second wife and manipulate her into trusting him and giving him a chance. And that's what the majority of widower men are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:41 PM |
| 147 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityHonestly after reading all about how men treat their wives when they get ill or have cancer, there is a big chance she was in such a bad state and had her natural life cut short because of him in the first place. I'd save my empathy for for the dead woman and keep walking if I were you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?I love the idea, very Harry Potter - like 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 105 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?We do have them but they get overrun by males and male loving women.Then we create a new space and the same thing happens all over again. The same thing happens with out bars and clubs. The moment they stop being underground we get overrun and then we can't go anymore and the place has to shut down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 32 | Thoughts on the queer community being saturated with kink and poly?That's because the q*eer community is made of primarily het attracted and het partnered people who bring all of their male-centric misogynistic sexuality issues along with them. lf you want to meet normal women you have to go underground where the lesbians are. But the thing is we will most likely stay away from you because using the q slur is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 05:05 PM |
| 77 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡Nah, if he's trying to get you to settle for less right from the start, even if you talk him into rising the standards this one time, he will still continue to lower the bar after that one "win". You can look forward to a whole relationship of fighting to prove you are worth the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:03 PM |
| 37 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksI have noticed this and it's downright sociopathic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:52 PM |
| 13 | Advice on how to deal with a LVM Misogynistic who is highly involved in my love life?He is either suspecting you are gay and is trying to force you to be with men to prove himself wrong or he has some incest by proxy fetish. Either way get the fuck out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:04 PM |
| 53 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.Elderly women are statistically most likely to be abused by their own sons than anybody else so... hell yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:30 AM |
| 96 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterHe came up with that story because he could tell she disliked him so he tried to isolate you from her so you wouldn't have anybody in your life questioning him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 24 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.There's so many stright and bi women on our lesbian dating apps that are just like this. They set up their own profile and act like a normal single woman and will swipe and talk to you even though you stated clearly that you don't want any of that shit only to come out as a couple and try to slide in their scrote boyfriend/husband after a while. One of the red flags is that they try to turn the conversation to something sexual early on and try to get you to exchange nudes so their scores have so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 181 | Dababy makes some (really stupid and uneducated) verbal comments and gets “cancelled” by a ton of companies/sponsors. Chris Brown beats the crap out of women and no one cares. The most (painfully) ironic thing was that news outlets were publishing “Chris Brown’s reaction to Dababy’s remarks.”It's not ok to he homophobic towards gay men specifically, lesbians are fair game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:00 AM |
| 57 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.Men are the reason why I buy all my tech online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:18 AM |
| 7 | How do I meet and make female friends?It helps to talk to them first before just asking them to hang out out of the blue 😅 What hobbies and interests outside of your degree do you have? What are theirs? If you don't have any that's something you need to work on fixing. If you don't show that you have a personality there will be nothing there for them to relate to whether they want to or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 106 | Can you imagine being a SPICE GIRL and still having to wait 21 years for him to make up his mind🤦🏻♀️Looks to me like a bandaid marriage move before the inevitable break up 💁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:56 AM |
| 14 | Rejected a man due to his height - family are giving me second thoughts +gaslighting me!Forcing yourself to have sex you don't want is way more than "awkward sex" - it's literally trauma inducing. The way that society downplays the extensive psychological damage women go through just bc the rape isn't violent sickens me. I have my own mother continuously pressure me into men "just to try it" to "see if I'd like it" (bc rape can cure lesbianism apparently) and she doesn't even care that it would be literal rape to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 29 | List of BoundariesYou should still avoid them if they do go to therapy. So many men use "but I am trying 😢" as an excuse to get away with shit and they only go to therapy for show. And, quite frankly, if he has mental issues he has no business thinking of his penis. He should be working on fixing himself first and only then starting dating once he's normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 6 | « In 2019, 65% of women reported only being attracted to men, a notable decrease from 77% in 2011 »According to our gay dating apps and spaces that are currently run over by "open" straight couples, it's seems like more of the cool girl nonsense where straight women claim to love anal and are suddenly all bi. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | « In 2019, 65% of women reported only being attracted to men, a notable decrease from 77% in 2011 »Yeah, as a lesbian, each time I hear this conversion therapy rhetoric of "sexuality is fluid" it makes my skin crawl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 59 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.When has not being attracted to a woman ever stopped a man from having sex with her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:00 PM |
| 40 | Why do we always have to prove we don't hate men?Because the oppressed class isn't allowed anger against their oppressor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.Yes, exactly. When the post went from "even if you are a lesbian" to "try dating women" I couldn't help but burst out laughing. On another note, as a lesbian, I have met a lot of straight people in my life who think that female homosexuality is not our natural drive and that we need to be taught or influenced somehow in order to "consider women" and not be into men. It was a bit surreal reading a bisexual woman's post that views us from that same pov too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:08 AM |
| -4 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.Why did you include lesbians in this post 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:10 PM |
| 10 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Nope, just trim. Shaving and waxing serves no practical purpose and gives you issues pretty fast afterwards. I wear older models of swimsuits that don't look like a clit hammock so I don' ever have to go in deep if I remove the leg bit of the hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | He likes deep and meaningful conversations with someone he can’t even see as human because of his pornsick brain 🙄Girl, they try to quit porn once it's affecting their erections irl, not for any other reason. They don't give a single damn about the female exploitation or a lack of connection to their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 34 | This is why FDS says we shouldn’t act like wives until we’re married. Scrote asks for pre-nup after his live-in bangmaid mommy bankrolls his life and “builds” with him for nearly a decade.They really think a man is some kind of irl ascending that elevates them above other women and qualifies them to give lectures 😅. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:29 AM |
| 39 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pageThere is literally nothing "brutal" about this story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:24 AM |
| 14 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantThis is actively dangerous advice and I wasn't even sure what to report her for as we don't have that category. jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 28 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYSo it's neither a feminist nor a radfem site then 😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:48 PM |
| 44 | PSA about hormones and hormonal birth control when dating and selectingI have been struggling with this for a while now. I am on birth control to manage my reproductive health issues and very much aware that with each new year of using I expose myself to more risk of side effects including literally dying of blood clots. Each time I tried to stop it would only take a couple of months before the symptoms came back and started to get worse and I would freak out and get back on the pill. The only other alternative is to take my uterus out and that's fucking extreme. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:47 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, stop giving HIS house free renovations with YOUR moneyOh, man, Ashley the pickme princess? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 14 | The friend zone doesn't existThere is a tiktok post of a man saying men should be caring about violence against women without derailing conversations with what about men, and everybody is borderline sucking him off. You'd think FDS would be aware of manipulative men using #feminism performance to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:34 AM |
| 15 | The friend zone doesn't existThere have been many posts lately where a man just takes some well known woman's words and everybody here falls over themselves to compliment him for it, acting like he didn't just steal shit from women. husband material my ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:05 AM |
| 11 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...The only thing I remember from that book is him arguing that femicide in Asia is LoGicAl because *men can have sex with multiple women but women are only pregnant once at a time*. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:21 AM |
| 11 | Woman is violently assaulted/raped by a Dom. The comments tell her she should have spoken up and stopped it. FDS gets a ton of heat for opposing BDSM, but it’s a world that is an a misogynist and abuser’s playground.Abuse is "the real BDSM", that's literally all BDSM is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | An analysis of toxic masculinity. Do you agree?Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | An analysis of toxic masculinity. Do you agree?So? Because "men won't listen" it's all cool, he can just give up on fixing female oppression while at the same time playing woke and a feminist in front of women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:27 PM |
| 20 | An analysis of toxic masculinity. Do you agree?Can we stop posting videos and comments of men repeating what women have already been saying for decades back at us? Do you want us to give him kudos for this? He should go say it to fellow men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:37 PM |
| 122 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.He has already found that woman, it's his mom 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Men Shaming Anger, Gaslighting/ Manipulating Down Your Concerns, then Getting Angry When the Problem Pops Up AgainIf you say that something is unacceptable but then proceed to accept it (and just give him a warning about next time) instead of walking away right away - you are letting him know that it is in fact acceptable so long he can argue it is the first time and he "won't do it again". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.The "gay guy" who harrassed you was most likely a bisexual himself who "uses gay as un umbrela term". Actual gay people, both the men and lesbians, have a clear preference for dating and settling down within their own group and would never go after you for doing the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 36 | LVM on TikTok “pranks” his wife by saying she could be nicer 🤢Men always run and hide while their wives and girlfriends have to do the dirty work of defending them to the public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:23 PM |
| -18 | Gina knows bestNo we aren't, but our potential is. Welcome to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:05 PM |
| -11 | Gina knows bestBi women predominantly date men instead of other bi women so in essence it changes nothing. So much wasted potential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:19 PM |
| 42 | How men on reddit look complaining about FDsThey forgot to add a gay man who demands women be available to him for surrogacy, and a man in a dress who demands women stop calling abortion a woman's issue and take part in future uteri transplant experiments for his womanhood role play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 6 | We ShOuLd TrY aN oPeN rElAtIoNsHiP! 👍Yeah, I'm not here for fetlife promotion and acting like being gangbanged is something to aspire to. This is some libfem sexposi bull. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:09 PM |
| 6 | Prepare to be Shocked 😱: Young adult women who read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' are more likely than nonreaders to exhibit signs of eating disorders and have a verbally abusive partner, finds a new study.All BDSM is abuse period. There is no "right way" of abusing a woman that magically makes it not abuse.The fact that a woman "wants it" doesn't change what the man is doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:17 AM |
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