Lady_Of_Nil_Repute Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Open relationship, stupid idea? I have many friends who are poly, and have complex and fulfilling relationships. One friend practices poly anarchy, which to me is a nightmare of insecurity and unattachment, but works beautifully for her. My ex is many times happier being poly than he was with me trying to make myself poly-compatible. I hate seeing poly so misunderstood. It's hard to do right but for those who can and have that emotional makeup, it brings immense joy. Besides, the line between mono and poly is as fluid as heter…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/18 08:33 AM
7	Open relationship, stupid idea? Speaking from experience, both my own and long, active involvement in the poly community. One-sided open marriages are almost always a recipe for disaster. Your chance of success is staggeringly low. You also want to consider what open means to you as far as sexual and emotional involvement. If he only wants ONS or pick-up play, he's going to spend a lot of time chasing it with lower chance of success. That means higher chance of frustration for him. If he wants a FWB or secondary partner, then …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/18 05:56 AM
1	What if there were an ACTUAL Gender War? As compared to men who stockpile and train as a hobby... You run into the issue of recruitment on a large enough scale while keeping it underground, funding the arms purchases, and training the women (likely by other women to about suspicion). That is very interesting about women snipers, I didn't know that. TIL!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 09:41 PM
2	What if there were an ACTUAL Gender War? Men own more guns than women by a significant margin. This includes civilian men who have never done military service. The vast majority of the military is men, and they have done training in handling and aiming weapons. The majority of gun shop owners are men. We would be limited to ordering online. We would be outmatched even using guns. Many men would die, yes. More men than women possibly, but only because instead of killing us after they defeat is handily they imprison, enslave, or otherwis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 02:08 PM
1	Why do women/blue pillers even visit the red pill? Nothing! :) I meant that men who reject LTRs can be especially harsh towards women - so it can be hard to read their posts and replies. There isn't anything wrong with rejecting LTRs though or being in the anger stage though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 01:50 PM
2	What if there were an ACTUAL Gender War? The fact that your even say something like that indicates you have no idea what it is like. Talk to any veteran who has actually served his country in war and see his response to asinine and childish responses like that. War is not a playground.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 07:31 AM
3	What if there were an ACTUAL Gender War? MAD requires the ability the cause mutual destruction. On any physical scale women are hopelessly outmatched. There is only one losing side in this case, and most if us are not dumb enough to jump on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 07:26 AM
2	What if there were an ACTUAL Gender War? Exactly this. Toe to toe we will always lose against men. Women gain some power via soft power and civilization. Hard power and brute force means we're slave labor, arranged marriages if we're lucky, and the loss if most, if not all of it rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 07:22 AM
8	Why do women/blue pillers even visit the red pill? I started reading TRP because for the same reason I read r/incels, r/adultery, and other horrific subreddits. But then I got sucked in and swallowed the pill, and became a RP woman. Now I read TRP to better understand myself and try to be a better woman for my man. Plus I find it fascinating. I very rarely post and am incredibly careful when I do. I dread getting banned so I try to only be helpful and if I do post anything that reveals my gender it's only because it is in context and I make sure…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/18 05:47 PM
2	[Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you? Got work on those tantrums! Those are far more bratty babyboy behaviors. Maybe he's trying to reverse-seek a Mommy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/17 08:02 AM
1	[Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you? Oh my goodness, you are a piece of work aren't you!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 09:33 PM
-1	[Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you? Dude, what is your obsession with BMI in this thread? It's getting creepy to keep asking chicks this. Or at least create a novelty account like "Ladies_Send_Me_Your_BMI" or some shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 06:37 PM
0	[Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you? Saw your deleted comment. Replying anyway. your dog leash type submission What exactly do you know about my submission? How it works within my current relationship or prior ones? Besides You are not submissive more dominant than submissive Which is it? Dog on a leash submissive or non-submissive Dominant? normal female to male submission Pray tell, what is "normal"? Exactly what do you know about the range of D/s relationships? Have you engaged in one or more? Have you known intimately, for mult…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 06:24 PM
1	[Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you? My extremely strict Master disagrees with you that I'm not submissive - as does my two former Daddies, and my ex Dominant play partner (the Edge Player mentioned above who was 1" taller than me). As do I. Submission is complex, just like attraction. There are many things that fall into play, and submissives are not all alike. Your statement is similar to the "Doms" who think that simply applying that label to themselves is all it takes for a submissive to fall in line with them. Part of my attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 04:23 PM
1	[Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you? Technically, no - but being 1" taller than me feels like they're shorter than me. But I have slept with two guys who were 5'6". One repeatedly, and that was because he was kinky as all hell and we both enjoyed some fucked up edge play that a narrower range of kinksters enjoy. But when you're on your knees/back/stomach, height matters much less. That wasn't a relationship though. Not even really a FWB - just play partners. As far as dating and LTRs (which is all I do now), height is one of my bug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/17 10:56 PM
1	What is the difference between r/TheRedPill and r/Seduction? An incel/MGTOW or TeRP says that women are all brainless idiots that should be held like cattle: perfectly okay I won't disagree with incels thinking that way, and some MGTOW, but that isn't how TRP feels as a whole. TRP views women as teenagers, or slightly below adults. TRP men believe hetero/bi women as a whole seek guidance from their male partners, and thrive when following men. They do not believe we are universally brainless idiots who should be held like cattle. That's an absurd position…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/17 04:58 PM
2	I implemented TRP doctrine for two years. Here is the results. Sorry :(. I am very aware of the gender declaration rule, and that the various RP areas are male spaces. I really do lurk mostly, and read so I can learn how to be a better first mate. I thought the rule was no giving using your gender as a platform for authority though? I.e. no "As a women, I think you should..." I'm sorry if I got that wrong. My intent was only to reinforce OP, not to try and give any advice or speak from any authority. I just really liked his post. Not trying to defy mods or …	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/17 05:56 PM
10	Advice needed from experienced women He even said he hates women Run. This is a huge red flag. Unless it's followed by "...when women do [something awful]" or "[bad relationship skill like silent treatment]" it is a screaming red flag. and some other guys are trying harder to get my attention.... jokingly. This is never joking to men. Never an appropriate joke. Also, impossible to repair that damage. You can, over time, show via your actions how much you regret it, but you can never take back those words. This is a live and learn -…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/17 11:33 PM
2	I implemented TRP doctrine for two years. Here is the results. RPW absolutely agree with you too :) As much as TRP benefits men, it had also benefited women greatly with understanding themselves, myself included - especially shit tests, comfort tests, understanding my own irrational, emotion driven decisions and the importance of following his lead. I'm in a M/s LTR and I've mostly lurked here for several years. Ironically, I initially started reading TRP as a lark - a watch the "misogynist pigs at the zoo" mindset. Instead I ended up swallowing the pill. O…	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/17 07:55 PM
2	Made some very UN-RPW moves, help? Is the YT video still up? If so, I would consider taking it down. This guy may be a lost cause, but irregardless, leaving that YT up doesn't help your case with him or future prospects. I agree, cut ties with exes. Just because you are platonic with them, doesn't mean they are. They won't want a relationship, but they are likely DTF - and your future/potential partner will know that. RP men sometimes like their women to "trash talk" them a little bit, but not to be one of the guys. Think of it m…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/17 04:23 PM
1	How would you feel about your husband/SO going through your phone, journal, and computer? I am so sorry you’re going through this. When you’re trying to process trauma, it can feel like (and you can act like) you are a giant, fresh wound. You are very vulnerable, guarded, and what seems like something small, or even medium, feels huge. I’m guessing that the biggest part of the violation came from reading your journal and the texts to your family friend regarding the trauma. Without having consent, what your husband did is a huge violation. It doesn’t mean he did it with any mean inte…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/12/17 10:39 PM
1	Should I ignore illness (eating disorder) in a LTR? I absolutely agree with this. If you're at all interested in a D/s relationship, she would be a good candidate to try it out with given how you describe her. I'd be surprised if she didn't thrive as a submissive. Giving up control gives a girl a strong sense of safety and stability - two things that are ripped away by sexual assault and trauma. Being her Dom also gives you more power over her illness. In the end you can't control what she does, but the more you are in her mind, the more you cont…	/r/askTRP	19/12/17 06:51 PM
2	Girlfriend stopped swallowing The drink is for immediately after, if that won't ruin it for you. Rather than an immediate running for the bathroom to spit it out, or reaching for a tissue to spit into it, she grabs a drink and takes a couple sips. It helps dilute the taste and allows her to remain there with you. She still brushes her teeth after. I'm sorry if my comment about kissing a girl right after came across wrong - some men get off on that and I was trying to cover that too. I didn't mean to imply anything :-) Unless…	/r/askTRP	12/12/17 04:51 PM
13	Girlfriend stopped swallowing Spitting it out means it is in your mouth longer. The faster you swallow, the less you taste it. Keeping a drink nearby also helps - and unless your man gets off on tasting his semen on his girl - taking a drink afterwards can lead faster to kissing. IME, pineapple juice really helps improve the taste. I drink it after as well myself as a "reward", as I don't drink fruit juice otherwise, but he lets me have some of his. If your girl is into more rough sex, simply roughing it up a bit before the …	/r/askTRP	12/12/17 03:40 PM
5	let the plate break or is it just a shit test Could this be a comfort test? You ghosted her last time for really no reason. She seems really into you, made her intentions clear, fucked you that first date. You cancel on her the next time, for valid reasons, but she may not believe it. She may be spooking that you're getting ready to ghost again or otherwise be really flaky. So maybe she is more just wanting a confirmation of interest? That she isn't entirely wasting her time? Women are insecure, emotional, and she almost certainly is trying…	/r/askTRP	11/12/17 08:35 PM
5	Thinking about ejecting from relationship (Master/slave dynamic) Non-live-in M/s relationships are extremely difficult to do. I'd argue potentially impossible to do, so consider at most doing a D/s or a DD/bg. The intensity of the M/s dynamic makes it very hard for the slave to be that vulnerable, open, and give up that much power while still getting what she needs (comfort, protection, structure) from her Master without him being present the majority of the time. You are right that punishments aren't helpful if they don't stop bad behavior. I'm not a fan of …	/r/askTRP	09/12/17 02:09 PM
16	Update about possibly cheating boyfriend Have you told any of your girlfriends? Your mom (if you have a positive, healthy relationship with her)? If not, reach out to any of them who would be empathetic, angry in your behalf, and able to help you. You will need it. Think about what you want to say. Decide how you want to make your exit. Will you let him try to explain him self, knowing he will lie? What if he cries or begs you to stay? What will you do if you feel a draw to stay? Run through scenarios that may happen. Consider asking a…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/17 12:58 PM