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| 13 | DON'T WASTE YOR TIMEI agree with this. If a guy keeps lingering or pestering after she’s clearly shown that she’s not interested in engaging, he’s entering creeper territory. You don’t want to be a creep. Walk away while you still have some dignity. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenNo. I don’t see how I can make myself any clearer at this point and I’ve moved on from this conversation. I encourage you to do your own research if you disagree with my statements. | /r/seduction | 27/05/21 12:04 PM |
| 4 | Women are mean to me after I don’t do what they want?What kind of requests are they making? And how are you responding? | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 8 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?I think that applies to everyone, not just men. Everyone wants to appear confident and interesting when they’re on stage. When someone is visibly struggling, I think it’s basic human instinct to feel some empathy. I wouldn’t be in the mindset of being turned off or on as an audience member. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 19 | How was dating / seduction like in the 90s or 2000s as opposed to now?I was a teenager in the 2000s. I would say people were generally more socially interactive since we didn’t have the same distractions with tech as we do now. Cell phones were mostly used for calls and texts; we weren’t staring at our phones all the time, and thus were more perceptive to what was going on around us. In regards to dating, I don’t think it was better or worse. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:39 PM |
| 5 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?Depends on his actions. Honestly, I wouldn’t say it’s a turn off, but it’s definitely not a turn on. I would feel bad for him. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenI disagree. I don’t think you should be picking a partner with the sole intent of “influencing” them. Your values and ideology should align, or at the very least, both partners should be consciously open to growth. The human brain isn’t even fully developed until around age 25 (coincidentally, the same age of peak fertility in women). An 18 year old brain literally does not have the ability to rationalize and consider long term consequences in the way that a 30 year old can. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenUmmm, I never indicated that there’s anything wrong with monogamy, so I’m not sure what modern progressive nonsense you’re referring to. Seduction is the act of attracting someone, which is different from manipulation. It’s clear from your comments that you have a very narrow view on the topic and are disinterested in differing opinions. I truly wish you nothing but the best in your pursuit of finding a mate whose value is equal to that of your own self perceived worth. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenI appreciate your comment, and there’s certainly some truth in what you’ve said, but grooming encompasses much more. A victim does not have to be a minor to be a victim, and the act does not have to be illegal. A quick internet search will confirm everything I’ve already stated. If a 30 year old man and an 18 year old girl want to engage in a consensual relationship, that is 100% legal and within their rights (though frowned upon by much of society). The issue is not the act itself, but the inte… | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenThis is incorrect. That would be statutory rape. Grooming can happen at any age. Adults can be groomed. The groomer builds a connection and level of trust with their victim (often young or impressionable), to exploit them or abuse them. It’s a manipulation tactic. When someone suggests that an older male should go for young girls because their inexperience will help with bonding, it certainly sounds like their interests are self serving and predatory. I’m not accusing the PP of any wrong doing, … | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenYou need to recheck your sources. Pair bonding basically just refers to monogamous behavior, and has absolutely nothing to do with age. Preying on very young girls because of their inexperience is called grooming, and it’s predatory... | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Quick question about twins and 3some...But they’re tWiNs! Of course they want a threesome. In fact, you should open with that when you actually talk to them. Come back with an update. | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 01:51 PM |
| 8 | As a girl how should I shoot my shotFrom one girl to another; if he’s interested, he’s probably already noticed you. It will be obvious. If he’s looking at you, it really doesn’t matter what you say. You can just smile or make eye contact and see if he approaches you. In regards to your fear of rejection, you have to remember that guys are not conditioned in the same way as females. They aren’t walking around with their guard up all day fending off pervs and predators. Traditional society makes it okay for a woman to approach a ma… | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | do women look at mens body the same way men look at theirs?I second this. I’ll notice an attractive guy but my eyes won’t linger and I’m not having sexual thoughts. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Turn on?What girl doesn’t like that? If you don’t own a toolbox, you can’t sit with me 😝 | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Turn on?Masculinity. Someone who’s assertive, decisive, and knows how to fix stuff 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Need some adviceCan’t you just tell her you don’t want to hear about her sexual frustrations? Or if that’s too awkward just excuse yourself when she brings it up. You can’t control your thoughts but you can control your behavior. If you don’t want to think about your girlfriend’s mom like that, and the conversations keep taking you to that place, then you need to remove yourself from the situation. | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Need some adviceThe only pressure you’re feeling is self imposed. Has her mother explicitly said she wants you? No. If someone else were in your exact position and asked you for advice, what would you say? It’s okay to be in a relationship and have sexual THOUGHTS about being with someone else. It’s not okay to act on those thoughts. Much less, with the parent of your partner. That’s unforgivable. Tread carefully. | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Need some adviceIs this a serious question? First you say that you’ve been with your girl for 6 years and are planning on starting a family with her, then you say you want to sleep with her mom. You can’t have both. | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 12:23 PM |
| 3 | When she gets back in touch after you distance yourselfI legitimately cannot believe some of the responses on here. I randomly stumbled across this sub and am thoroughly entertained by the absurdity of so much of this “advice.” Women are really not that complex 😆 | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Controversial never ending uncertainty regarding physique in attracting womenI’m not trying to hate on anyone for working out. I’m just saying there is a certain stigma, which I’ve said does not apply to everyone. I’m sure you’re a lovely person and will find yourself a lovely lady who values fitness as much as you do. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Conversation with mixed signalsYeah it sounds like maybe you’re not being direct enough. Next time you’re talking ask her if she wants to do XYZ on XYZ day and you’ll have your answer. If she says she can’t because whatever reason, ask her if there’s another day that’s better for her. If she really wants to meet up she’ll offer an alternative. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Controversial never ending uncertainty regarding physique in attracting womenI’m struggling to find the words to articulate my feelings on this. It’s not that we laugh at guys because they work out; it’s good to work out and care about your health. That is attractive. But if you want to look like a living statue of Adonis, there’s certain assumptions that go along with it. And those assumptions are what girls find funny and often, unattractive for anything beyond hooking up. No girl wants to seriously date a guy who is more into himself than he is her. The common assumpt… | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Conversation with mixed signalsIf she’s downright ignoring you about meeting up, stop asking. Girls who are interested but busy will offer an alternative, or at least an explanation as to why. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 33 | When she gets back in touch after you distance yourselfGood grief, text the girl back if you like her. If she wasn’t interested she wouldn’t be texting you. This isn’t some manipulation tactic, she’s feeling out if you’re still interested. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Controversial never ending uncertainty regarding physique in attracting womenFemale here. My response to your question depends on your desired outcome. If you’re just looking to hook up, then obviously looking good or having good “game” is going to work in your favor. If you’re looking for a relationship, then personality greatly outweighs physique. Most girls don’t want to date the guy who looks like he spends all day at the gym, we laugh at those guys. That said, most girls don’t want to date or hook up with guys who don’t take care of themselves either. Look healthy, … | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 04:59 PM |
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