LadyoftheDam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Yeah, this is simply a pipe dream. For how much people complain about the welfare state, there is no way the State is going to go for this. We can't fix any of our actual loomimg problems. The freedom of consequences for condomless sex are so far down the list, it's a meaningless proposition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 12:51 PM
3	What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb? Yeah, his biases run real deep. He's not trying to understand why he's struggling with it, he knows exactly why it bothers him and it's because he's a horrible racist. If he is open to introspection and becoming a better person, go for it, but you know exactly how deep his biases run. No one is ever past becoming a better person, but you've got your work cut out for you. There is plenty of dick in the sea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/18 08:53 PM
2	Has anyone here ever heard a woman be told "you need to learn to respect men"? I think you are underthinking the possibilities a great deal. There are certainly more reasons for the phenomenon you're discussing and I think there are reasons that are more applicable than the two rigid choices you've provided. I've never told a woman to respect men, but I don't think women are perfect angels, nor do I like it when women treat men like dirt. I do know of women that have not respected their male partners, and I definitely care if they are being mistreated. I suppose I've never…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/18 04:22 PM
7	Modern Relationships are exhausting because today everything is a negotiation. This whole scenario likely played out in like 30 seconds. "I want this bigger trash can", "ok, but I can't take out trash that big", "I'll take that on", "ok". And then she still tries to help because she considers them a team. This idea that this is "so much effort" or time, or whatever is completely foreign to me. I think your questions are interesting to think about, but their implication seems bizarre. There's not "bigger fish to fry" when you deal with them when they're small. How is this s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/18 12:59 PM
3	Mindy Kaling’s address to Dartmouth’s men about dating exemplifies the hostile, chilling attitude modern feminism takes towards men. What about a "you must go out into the world and work hard. The handouts stop here for the "Me me me" generation. Fight your innate entitlement." Even that's a bit better, but I'd be annoyed if my kid was being singled out and scolded for simply being part of a group they had no choice in being in. Surely being annoyed by this isn't that unreasonable. Why on earth would that inspire the audience? "We're watching you, don't get #metoo'd". Not really what I'd want to hear directed towards my son o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/18 11:55 AM
2	Q4All: List your "Same Sex" crush. Who do you idolize? Men, who's your "Man Crush"? Women, who's your "Woman Crush"? Wow, it took me waaaaay longer to figure out what you were saying than it should have 😂 that rumor is so 2010. Her expression of femininity is pretty traditional, so I think it fits whether you believe she has a penis or not. It'd be the best of both worlds for me, actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/18 02:02 PM
3	Q4All: List your "Same Sex" crush. Who do you idolize? Men, who's your "Man Crush"? Women, who's your "Woman Crush"? Lady Gaga. I think she'd be exhausting though. Ariana Grande is probs less high maintenance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/18 09:21 PM
20	Do you feel entitled to someone else’s body? I think the line is where they're contractually obligated and financially compensated for their labor, and they're free to rescind their labor at any time (relatively.) You can't walk up to a doctor on the street and demand a physical, and you can't demand sex, even from a prostitute. You don't get to lay claim to anyone's labor. You are entitled to enter agreements in which they provide labor, and they are within their right not to enter those agreements. If that's "entitlement to their labor" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/18 12:47 PM
1	CMV: The feminist/media reaction to the cancellation of a male BC trial is evidence that feminism is a female superiority movement. I think it mostly shows that journalism, especially medical journalism, is a complete joke, and feminism(at least millennial, sarcastic feminism)is a market to be tapped. I don't believe that people sharing this story don't think men's suffering is important. I think they're taking shoddy journalism at face value and reacting accordingly. Feminists surely can be annoying, but I think it's mostly because "journalism" reinforces their world view in such easily digestible clicks. It's really unfort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/16 03:02 PM
10	Student at Columbia is reported to Gender Misconduct office for calling himself handsome in class. I don't know how much better that is."We know this is bullshit, but we have to waste your time because we have no ability/autonomy to discern what complaints are worthy of investigation and what are not." What I'd hope for is for someone to say "this complaint does not warrant investigation". The fact that this happened in a foreign language course makes it all the more absurd, imo. I can't imagine why a "thorough investigation" would be necessary for this at all. Even if he was being an arrogan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/16 11:04 PM
1	Do you have a "deep" answer to why does strength training change a mans mind so much more than other manly stuff? Can't see yoga doing much good if you're fat though It's not going to make you not fat, but yoga is going to be much more beneficial to anyone, fat or not, than not doing it. Fat women can excel at yoga, and it is doing them a lot of good. It's just the fat part isn't doing them a lot of good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/16 07:30 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you ever ask a man to marry you? I suppose I would. My husband and I just talked about it many times. I did want a ring because I like jewelry and liked the idea of an engagement ring. I didn't actually want a proposal. It just felt weird. It's just not our thing. It took another five years for us to actually get married. Not really a big priority for either of us. My proposal would probably just be "I'd like to make this official" or something boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/16 11:48 PM
2	how many people have you had sex with? 1	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/15 02:56 AM
2	Why are women less happy now than they were in the 70's? Ah, I see, I think we're just misunderstanding each other. I'm not panicked about any of this. Mainly excited and curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/15 04:33 PM
2	Why are women less happy now than they were in the 70's? All of that has changed us. But it's absolutely moving at a much quicker, much more advanced pace. I understand what you're saying, but we're moving along faster than ever. And I do think having Instagram and Facebook at your fingertips are much, much more different than passing notes in class, or hopping into a chat room after school. I'm still thankful I didn't have that when I was a kid. I do think that would have changed my growth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/15 04:25 PM
5	Why are women less happy now than they were in the 70's? In watching the show Generation Earth (a show about how humans adapt, essentially) there is one thing that is often repeated: "in the last 30 years." They didn't invent everything, but there is clearly something to be said for the massive amount of advancement humans have made in the past 30 years. In the time it takes for you to call in a dedication to the radio station about how much you love your SO, or send in a photo to the newspaper to be included in the Sunday edition, you can send your w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/15 04:08 PM
16	Why are women less happy now than they were in the 70's? Over time it is likely that women are aggregating satis- faction over an increasingly larger domain set. For example, life satisfaction may have previously meant “satisfaction at home” and has increasingly come to mean some combination of “satisfaction at home” and “satisfaction at work.” This averag- ing over many domains may lead to falling average satisfaction if it is difficult to achieve the same degree of satisfaction in multiple domains. This makes some sense. If women feel pressure to "h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/15 12:02 PM
3	Do you think that attractive people are superior? greater chance at passing on their genes. I don't really buy this. Ugly people have kids all the time. It really isn't that amazing of a feat anymore. Attractive people get more out of life, but ultimately if the end goal is "pass along genes" they don't really have the advantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/15 07:59 PM
8	Why doesn't Bluepill provide analysis on posts? Sarcasm is not that great of a skill. There is a reason you see every yahoo who thinks they're hilarious sporting an "I'm so sarcastic" t-shirt or promoting their "biting wit" on Facebook via a meme. There may be value to sarcasm, but for some reason it attracts people who aren't that smart or funny, but since there is some value to it and it's fairly easy to execute they'll use it for self promotion. Since pretty much everyone with a healthy level of social intelligence can pick up on it, I'm n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/15 01:58 PM
2	Red pillers, what do your girlfriends think about gender issues etc? I read what he said, and read what you said and asked for more elaboration. Thank you for elaborating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/14 06:40 PM
5	Red pillers, what do your girlfriends think about gender issues etc? What exactly is "daddy issues" anyway. I've never seen it used in any way that isn't pejorative. It doesn't always have to dive into some Freudian bullshit. Could it be that they're talking about non-sexual traits? I've always hated the phrase "daddy issues". it always just seems to be used in a way that's hurtful and mean, and vague.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/14 02:01 PM
6	21 Men Holding Signs Quoting Their Rapists I want you to respect people, man. It's not an SRS or a feminism thing. I don't know why being anti-SRS or feminism is even a response to someone asking you to respect other people. You can respect people, and want to help fix their problems too. They're not mutually exclusive, and it doesn't look like you're interested in fixing anything by being offensive. And any "don't you have anything better to do" bullshit is just stupid. Anyone on Reddit doesn't have anything better to do.	/r/MensRights	28/06/14 07:35 PM
8	21 Men Holding Signs Quoting Their Rapists It's really not that hard to be remotely respectful with what you say. I'll tell you this, referring to anyone, especially marginalized people, as "things", it makes you look super disrespectful. It's not about being PC, just respect. Trans folk have been around much longer than tumblr. I suggest you try to meet different people, instead of trying to gain culture and understanding through tumblr.	/r/MensRights	28/06/14 06:49 PM
3	In case anyone here still likes Bill Maher, this happened. Bill Maher viciously mocking male rape victims. I believe they used to date. Gross.	/r/MensRights	25/06/14 01:49 PM
1	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? Most people who could really use your time and input are going to be a waste of time. It's too bad you would rather feel superior than help people understand your perspective.	/r/MensRights	21/06/14 12:31 AM
1	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? Yes, I am speaking of the Federal definition, as States have had plenty of crimes that fit reasonable definitions of rape but do not count towards Federal statistics. I don't agree that the Federal definition is better than other definitions. The Federal definition is behind the times, just starting to catch up.	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 08:12 PM
3	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? Rape includes male victims now, but not male victims that have been forced to penetrate. Fingering a male would now be considered rape by the Federal definition. Which is great, but we need to recognize males as victims that were forced to penetrate. I don't know that I agree that it is i n order to exclude male victims, but it does, so it still needs to be revised.	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 07:37 PM
0	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? This isn't fair, because I can't even name 6 major feminists besides Gloria Steinem, Ellie Schmeal, Mary Daly and Andrea Dworkin (and I have a Women's Studies degree. Just shameful). Not enough feminists do, but i know two feminists that work in Sociology, and as a Victim Advocate, who abhor that monologue. And they read Jezebel. Not nearly enough, which is disturbing and really is "too tiny", but I think it's something Feminism wouldn't agree with when given the chance. In my experience, TVM is…	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 07:33 PM
6	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? Her experience isn't the problem, it's the reaction to her experience. It's the celebration of an adult giving a child alcohol and having sex with her. That's not something to be celebrated. If someone tells me their story, it's one thing. If someone performs that story, in a positive light, to the hooting and hollering of the audience in approval is a completely different thing. It would absolutely not be celebrated if it's a 24 year old man with a minor female. It should not be celebrated eith…	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 07:23 PM
7	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? What I don't like is the hooting and hollering from the audience and cast members that comes out during that monologue. If anything glorifies rape, this monologue does. Said by a cheery woman, reminiscing about her experience, and the audience praising what happened. Maybe that's just my local show, but it was pretty terrible. In the monologue, she wasn't homeless. But if that's added to the story it's even more fucked up.	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 12:53 PM
5	Iggy Azalea notes that she is most frequently groped by women while crowd surfing. Maybe we should stop teaching girls that sexual assault/rape are only committed by men and that they are exempt? In my experience, it's not that tiny. That monologue should never be used again, unless it's explaining how fucking problematic it is to celebrate statutory rape, and it boggles my mind that it is still used, but I think there is much more outage about it than your comment let's on. My local Vagina Monologues is the Lesbian Monologues. They literally straight shame heterosexuals that are in the show. It's a disaster.	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 12:51 PM
2	As a woman, I came here expecting a load of bull, as the media portrays it.. You came to know that we exist because of "bad" publicity, and you aren't the first. That leaves most of us without a desire to counter that publicity. This is why I try to steer people away from spreading myths and spreading bad info, because people are going to find out anyway and then they won't trust what you say! That's why I started to distrust most feminists explanations of things, I always assumed there was something I was missing or at least was overblown. It's disheartening when you ge…	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 07:51 PM
4	As a woman, I came here expecting a load of bull, as the media portrays it.. I don't think they have similar goals. TRP is essentially "fuck the way it is, here's how you deal with it and come out on top" and MR is "fuck the way it is, we need to change it." TRP is all about working on yourself and not making any excuses about why life isn't fair. It's "knowing the way the world really works" and making it work for you rather than working towards men's rights. From what I've seen, TRP isn't that big of a fan of MRM and don't consider themselves a part of it.	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 07:48 PM
6	As a woman, I came here expecting a load of bull, as the media portrays it.. You have to filter out an awful lot of junk, and I think to a point it can be unhealthy (as constantly reading about how you're ALWAYS IN DANGER, IT'S LURKING AROUND EVERY CORNER" is unhealthy), but there is a reason they're drawn there. Self-improvement, not needing validation from women who treat you poorly, those are great things to work for and from what I've experienced extremely important for men to know because so many are involved in horrible relationships with horrible women and they th…	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 07:45 PM
9	As a woman, I came here expecting a load of bull, as the media portrays it.. Well, how could it not be? Reading that recent article about the Men's Rights Movement and how terrible they and the Red Pill were and then watching as every single example was supported by a Red Pill link, just made me furious that everyone was jumping on board. It's clearly a shitty article that only supports half its premise! Why do we have to like it just because it's got a feminist theme!? If feminists, and, well, everyone, were more discerning with the information they consume, probably ab…	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 07:42 PM
9	As a woman, I came here expecting a load of bull, as the media portrays it.. Considering their answer to issues with consent was to ask first at every step instead of just assuming a woman has a mind of her own and will say "no, I don't want to do that" when the time comes, I'd say that paints them as "perpetual victims and ignorant children." So now we don't even expect women to speak up for themselves? And we don't encourage it, we have to make sure men know to ask first because women are too scared to speak for themselves? If you can't speak up for yourself in that ve…	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 07:33 PM
5	Instead of having "feminism" and "men's rights," why isn't there one civil rights group that works to solve inequalities suffered by both genders? I think you're going to be hard-pressed to get your point across when you dismiss their concerns like that. To say that they just misattributed their blame, and you guys are taking care of the problem by bringing down the patriarchy, it's just all very vague and very dismissive. I don't really buy it myself, and I don't think that your explanation was any less vague. It's going to be hard for men to listen to "Just wait, your problems are not our fault, it's the patriarchy. We're working to demo…	/r/MensRights	04/06/14 03:10 PM
4	Instead of having "feminism" and "men's rights," why isn't there one civil rights group that works to solve inequalities suffered by both genders? If you think feminism doesn't do their own fair share of demonizing and mischaracterizing, then you're probably a bit biased. You can't say "just let us have ours, yours will work itself out after we get ours." Come on. Of course you're going to be downvoted. It's exceptionally dismissive, and overall vague about how feminism helps men. Patriarchy is basically a buzzword that means nothing. I'm interested to hear how men's issues will "work themselves out" when feminism reaches their goal. Can y…	/r/MensRights	04/06/14 02:06 PM
10	Instead of having "feminism" and "men's rights," why isn't there one civil rights group that works to solve inequalities suffered by both genders? Considering that it's always "Men's Rights, god I cringe saying those words" and a big joke to them, I'm finding it hard to believe myself. And I'm sympathetic to feminism. Men's Rights is a big joke to just about everyone, and I am also interested in the feminist space you were in. Because I can't think of any feminist space where you can bring up Men's Rights and not get pummelled. They think it's a hate group. Where did you go that this type of conversation wasn't silenced? I'd really like to…	/r/MensRights	04/06/14 01:45 PM