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I mean, if you want advice on how to get a woman's number at a bar when she's with a less-attractive friend, that's what you should have asked. :)
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:31 AM
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I think I need to tone it down a bit and be slightly less direct by starting a conversation more naturally When a woman wants you to talk to her, they find it very flattering when you are direct.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:14 AM
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This has happened to me, verbatim. Some girls will schedule a date because they're bored, want a free meal, and can't afford a therapist. Oh, and she catfished me too.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:01 PM
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Have you tried dating someone that would make her jealous?
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:42 PM
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If you are interested in learning, do some online research or go to a bookstore. Lots has been written about this subject actually.
/r/seduction12/12/21 01:01 PM
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Depends on the guy. Some would say 15. Others, 50.
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:36 PM
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Sex & The City brings people to NY. Baywatch brings people to LA.
/r/seduction30/11/21 11:03 AM
56

reread the post.
/r/seduction13/11/21 01:04 AM
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let's just be friends
/r/seduction12/11/21 02:09 PM
11

something to do with your mom's tuna fish
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:29 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=how+to+talk+to+your+partner+about+sex
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:32 AM
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take the mojo upgrade test to see which kinks you two are compatible on. it'll be easier to keep a submissive/submissive relationship going if you identify and acknowledge it. maybe take turns being the partner out of their comfort zone. http://old.mojoupgrade.com/ It's possible he believes that dominating you in bed is either "bad", or just something he doesn't know how to do yet. There's still hope for you two.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:24 AM
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Don't give up. This is a common occurrence. Read about the right mindset to have.
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:01 PM
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A good-fitting, comfortable bra is its own reward all day long. Get professionally measured.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 03:28 PM
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My metaphor for life is that it's like bowling: it's terribly easy to put the ball in the left or right gutter. The trick is to put it down the middle. In life, it is a lot easier to do too much or too little of something. The trick is understanding what the right amount of something is perfect, and then aiming for that amount. So here's my advice. Self confidence isn't a bonus. It's a requirement. Without self confidence, you will never get what you want. With too much self confidence, you will…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 12:55 PM
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Some of his views are odd, but I wouldn't say he is uncommitted to the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 12:48 PM
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I suggest watching Anne With an 'E'. It's available on Netflix. Embrace what make you- you. By the way, these people who are telling you that you can be too loud at times are not your potential mates anyway, and trying to become their ideal would be very detrimental.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 12:43 PM
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I think mama's boy is a nebulous term. Is every guy who loves his mother a mama's boy? I'd say the issue is that he didn't listen to you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 01:50 AM
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/r/mealprep/
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 01:45 AM
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how do I make myself clear without scaring him away? "I'm not ready"
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 11:33 PM
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Spend time with feminine girls your age. Seems like you're not sure what they do yet. Maybe you'll need to make additional friends.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 11:27 PM
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After Keanu Reeves' gf died, he didn't date for decades. You have no idea what his anxiety timetable is.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 03:01 AM
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I've never been to the South, but I searched for "southern dresses", found this for $39, and thought "yeah, maybe" :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 05:00 PM
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Use the carrot instead of the stick. "I'm so excited to go to the gym with you again today. I just know after putting in the work, you're going to be so confident with the results!"
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:00 PM
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He's not that into you. He's seeing a lot of women at the moment.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 12:54 PM
1

How about going to the gym together?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 05:01 AM
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Tell him that you didn't correctly predict the future: the bitterest part of your life now is that you have to lie to everyone else in your life, and it's eating you up. I think it would be heartwarming for him to hear how honest you live your life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:48 AM
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Do you live in a country where your value will go down if you are no longer a virgin? If not, why not have sex with him, and see if you still feel the same way? It is possible that your opinion will change.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:45 AM
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Did you badmouth him to your friends when you broke up? What is the reason why you thought this has to be a secret?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:41 AM
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Later on in life, when you can afford to get him something fancy for his birthday- don't. This is what he wants.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 02:49 PM
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He's going to watch you make dinner, right? I wonder what recipe makes the best show. Chopping onions and crying is definitely out. Do you have a rolling pin? Bending over the counter to roll dough into a pizza crust shape is the best idea I can think of. The rolling pin itself is also pretty suggestive.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 11:48 AM
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Flirtation is sexually harassing a willing participant.
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:34 AM
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Yes
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 04:40 AM
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re: Ellen Page- she has a receding hairline. Aside from that, I think it's just the character she plays now is usually sad instead of perky like the characters she's played in the past. Sad vs perky expressiveness makes a person seem older.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 03:53 AM
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Don't overthink it. Trying to play it too cool, and doing the opposite of what you feel can give you the opposite of what you want. There's no magic formula "1 text equals sweetheart, 2 texts equals nag". :p
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 10:51 AM
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Lana Del Rey makes a unfitted sweatshirt look more girly
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 08:54 AM
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Are you talking about r/Diabla? That advice is so dumb. If one's premise is that men are the enemy, it will be a guaranteed self-fulfilling prophecy. It's also the opposite of progressive: regressive (the only way for a woman to make money is to take it from a man.)
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 05:54 AM
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For any premise built on "men are...*", expect it to be wrong on as often as it is right when analyzing an individual as opposed to a large population. The advice is as reliable as flipping a coin. *or "women are..."
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 05:42 AM
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"Honey, I want to pay for part of the costs because I am invested in us. I was thinking of paying for the hotel for my friends and family. Please don't say no, because I want to feel invested."
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 05:32 AM
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With COVID and all that I can't buy new clothes You have heard of online shopping, right? Right? I know some people who are clothes shopping more often than they used to. I mean, best not to become an addict, but it's how some people are staying sane.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 04:40 AM
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Let's pretend you'll never get married again (not true, but pretend). Let's pretend you'll never have sex again (not true, but pretend). Even in this sad scenario, wouldn't the sacrifice of your relationship still be worth it, to teach your children to break out of the cycle? Currently, I fear, you are on course to teach them to reenact the ways of you or your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 04:35 AM
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Try therapy. It sounds like your opinion of yourself is that you don't deserve happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 03:25 AM
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You see yourself as a victim of other people's choices and views. You need to learn to have confidence, trust your own choices and view of yourself. Better for each day to be a little healing than a little dying. And you know who dates women in their 30's with 3 kids? Men 30+ with kids (aka millions of people). There are lots of men with kids who fear starting up a relationship with no kids because they predict eventually that woman will want kids of her own, something he doesn't want to do. The…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 03:08 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't advise it currently. But after the crisis is over, everyone's going to want to socialize. Make sure to be a part of it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 03:03 AM
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Do you have any platonic friendships with men? It seems like bonding over Star Trek would be a great starting point. Before coronavirus, Meetup was my favorite app for finding like-minded people. You just need to convince yourself you're doing great. You're not married/stuck in a relationship with the wrong person. You don't share custody of a child from a relationship that went south. You're not even in your mid twenties yet. Your whole life is ahead of you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 12:40 AM
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Are you afraid you can't find a relationship with another man? If you gained confidence in your ability to attract someone better, would you be willing to put this relationship in the past? Try /r/TheGlowUp You love someone that doesn't exist; a version of your husband who is faithful that you can trust fully.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 12:32 AM
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Put a hand on his shoulder, and add an emphatic "Yeah" at the appropriate time. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 03:26 PM
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If you're in a country with the coronavirus, dating apps is what everyone's going to be using. Can't fault you there. Here's the pro-tip for what to say on your profile: temporarily tell Tinder that you are interested in 30 year old women. Swipe left on profiles until you see someone who has just the right words, then plagiarize shamelessly. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 03:21 PM
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All that's missing is practice. Practice with a confidant or in front of the mirror.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 01:54 PM
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For makeup, could you go to a makeup counter girl in a department store & tell her how you never learned anything about makeup? It's possibly more common nowadays with more single parents, not that you were raised that way. As a paying customer, I'm sure you won't have a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 11:58 AM
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Set up a double date with a friend that has her shit together & her partner. You need a role model. Pay attention to her involvement in the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 11:52 AM
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Children cannot save their parents. You're having mental health issues. Your job is to protect yourself first. He's not put himself in a state where you can help him yet. Don't internalize his problems. They're not your problems. If you are put in a confrontation with him, or decide to initiate, you could say "I want to discuss you getting the help you need."
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 11:40 AM
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If the issue is likely in your head, have you tried therapy?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 11:33 AM
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"I love your outfit. But your behavior is downright penniless." "Honey, you're an embarrassment to our gender." "Watch that tongue. I almost mistook you for a lady." "I'm feeling benevolent. I won't charge you for this lesson on how to behave with grace and dignity."
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 11:29 AM
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If you don't have any straight male friends, maybe a friend's significant other could help steer you in the right direction. You probably have a simple blind spot that is hindering you. People will often resonate emotions with the person they are talking to. Talk to a person who is happy, and you will be happy. Maybe your body language (something you can change if you are aware of it) is telling men you are afraid, which makes them hesitant/afraid.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 06:32 AM
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The Jersey Shore?
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:01 AM
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We live in a binary culture: boys big, girls small, boys hard, girls soft. As a people, we could have decided the small boys and the big girls were the most desirable, but we didn't. WHAT they were saying: something innocuous. "You're a boy, the opposite of me." WHY were they saying it: they desired to touch you. Maybe they thought your body was fascinating.
/r/seduction11/08/20 10:23 AM
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Are you saying there's actually tons of down to earth women in your city, but the issue is the ones you attract aren't hot enough for a LTR? So you date high maintenance, image-conscious women?
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:24 AM
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Whatever issues you're facing, I believe they will follow you to your new city. Best to address them.
/r/seduction11/08/20 06:59 AM
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Number one: her personal opinion.
/r/seduction10/08/20 12:13 PM
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On Tinder, I frequently find that women list that they are "very sarcastic." It's a turn-off for some people. So these women are selecting for a man who doesn't have a problem with this personality trait. The point is: meeting more people is the key to finding a match.
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:54 AM
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In the seduction community, they talk about "not having one-itis". Is this desirable man one person in particular? Whatever you do to improve yourself won't necessarily end in he choosing you. The goal should be that there exists a man who will find and treasure you. A particular person is impossible to guarantee.
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:17 AM
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/r/BoneAppleTea/comments/hzgzne/that_must_be_one_nice_colon/
/r/seduction29/07/20 08:10 PM
2

creepy “ur beautiful” ?
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:02 PM
1

Read a book about self confidence
/r/seduction16/06/20 04:42 AM
3

Forgive my ignorance, but coronavirus isolation is over in Korea?
/r/seduction15/06/20 03:13 AM
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Are you regular retarded? People don't go to /r/seduction because they know how to do it already.
/r/seduction13/06/20 10:40 PM
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It's Japanese for "goodbye".
/r/seduction13/06/20 10:37 PM
1

Don't talk to strangers? Lol.
/r/seduction13/06/20 10:37 PM
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The 2017 Oscar-winning film, Call Me By Your Name, was hailed as a groundbreaking piece of LGBT cinema upon it's release. ... As reported by Bustle, the film is currently not available to stream on Netflix, however, you can purchase a digital or physical copy of the film, as well as stream on Now TV and Amazon Prime.
/r/seduction11/04/20 08:55 AM
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the most famous example is whistling
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:29 PM
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I think the most important lesson is to cultivate and maintain friendships with friends who will help you hook up. P.S. If you want to see her again, you need to call her.
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:18 AM
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Accept your flaws. Be your own bro. If you can give compliments to others, why not to yourself?
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:16 AM
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The powerless are not responsible for their circumstances; the powerful are.
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:32 AM
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That quote wasn't from me, but it sounds like you have a plan, so it's great to hear!
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:34 AM
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You are talking like someone who is convinced they have no value. Find your value, and hone it. For every woman that is most impressed by a guy with muscles, there is a different woman who is most impressed by a guy who can make her laugh, etc. Plenty of comedians have no social skills. Or do anything else that people would be interested in. Hundreds of millions of men have crossed the threshold from thinking they have no chance, to making a success for themselves. Every great biography begins w…
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:11 AM
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You need to build up your self esteem before you can meet the woman you're interested in. When you tell someone you just met that you have little worth, they are inclined to believe you. You need to change your message to change their response.
/r/seduction24/04/18 12:39 PM
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what is all the squiggly and apostrophes for byproducts of copy pasta
/r/becomeaman02/03/15 12:24 PM
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