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| 2 | The REAL Problem with Men today...Yeah make sure you make your self happy and women will come. I started gym, will start reading more, hanging out with people. Mostly I want to feel productive, helps to drown out the feeling of "deteriorating" till you get old and die. Lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | The REAL Problem with Men today...Damn. Good luck to you brother. I'm wanting to get back to meeting friends again. Just not sure how :D slowly ya know | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | The REAL Problem with Men today...That is true. My obsession was to find someone. I was so depressed I got into pickup. I think the underlying goal was for people to like me... I think. And I think it's a cause of what ever I showed my parents when I was a child, they wouldn't be impressed. Or they pretended to be impressed and I would see through it. I think i got a bit scarred by it haha If I had to guess, I wanted to improve my self, but not for my self... But in the whole process I started to like my self more, I felt smarte… | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | The REAL Problem with Men today...A lot of pickup artists are douchebags, but if you follow the ones that basically say "become more interesting and outgoing", that just leads you to do more fun stuff and make friends and girlfriends in the process. Best thing that ever happened to me is I started seeing everything as an experience. I programmed my self think everything is fascinating and cool to try at least once before judging. Every girl I met became this interesting subject to explore. I was genuinely interested in them and … | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | The REAL Problem with Men today...Everyone does manipulation on some level. You using a fork instead of your hands is a slight manipulation. You're making people believe you're well managed while in reality you had to learn all that. Fake it till you make it. You seem manipulative at 1st cause these things are foreign to you. But then they become part of you. You become that confident person ya know | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | The REAL Problem with Men today...And the creepy walk up too? | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Stop Dressing Like SHIT!It just looks cheap. Or overpriced. Either way, not something to proudly wear | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Ahh! Guys i did it im dating the coolest sexiest chick I've met!!I know what you mean, but as soon as you mention "pickup" or "game", I assume you're faking some things. But I'm just guessing. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 03:28 AM |
| 16 | Ahh! Guys i did it im dating the coolest sexiest chick I've met!!At the same time you can't forget you are putting on an act, big or small, it depends on your personality. Same goes for her. Over time you will drop the act a bit, she will too. It's fine. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?It's not a bad habit as long as it doesn't look like you're looking for something out of it. But that's almost impossible to achieve... | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my mental state consistent?A lot of girls love "I'm the shit" attitude, they love to be behind someone who's better/smarter/stronger than others. But they're not stupid, if you're faking it, you become nothing to them. For example, you walk down the street, with a big golden chain to catch a bus. No one's buying that thats a real gold chain, and you're catching a bus, means you don't have value in this world, means you're not tough. You hoot at a girl on the sidewalk, while in passanger side, of your best friends ride(ha … | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my mental state consistent?Elaborate senpai. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | STOP Dressing Like Sh*tI walk around dressed like a bum, and I couldn't be anymore proud of my self. I can't afford clothes cause I spend every penny on tools/material to renovate the house I bought. And if I had to choose between looking good or building a future/learning new skills, I'd pick future everytime. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | The BEST trait a man can haveBe your self means don't pretend to be someone you're not. So don't be fake. Don't lie about your job, don't lie that you're a player. Just believe in your self basically. Here solved it. You're welcome. But yes it is a bad advice, cause if we were actually our selves as people, we would be more like monkey and less of people who try to fit into the society. | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to make eye contact when walking past an attractive woman without being a weirdo?For 99% of guys out there it's impossible until she becomes less valuable to you. Then you automatically stop looking like a creep | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl about what exactly went wrong and turned her off?As long as you realise that it's over, it should work to get an answer and learn from your mistakes but definetly depends on her personality. Some won't want to crush you so they will avoid answering. If they get laid often or is open minded, she most likely will tell you. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 01:46 AM |
| 2 | frustration at being unable to hold a conversation with strangersUsually I try to direct conversations towards direction which I'm not familiar with. That's where the whole "i love conversation and hearing people stories" comes from. If they mention something I'm not familiar with, I ask more about that subject. It teaches me something new and the person feels important. The person feels like their knowledge is important to someone | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 12 | frustration at being unable to hold a conversation with strangersI dk how about openers. But on dates what works for me the best is mindset:"I love life, I love people and I love to hear people's life stories and be open minded about everything they say. Everything is an experience and learning". This mindset helps me to genuinely put my self in to a state where I care so much about hearing from them and learning from them, that I don't look desperate and I don't feel awkward. | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I look 1-10?Is say you look like ex loser who turned his life around, gj | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 08:50 AM |
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