Lairhoss Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Female Pastors - Some thoughts about it		Lairhoss	/r/RPChristians	14/01/19 01:33 PM

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2	A picture of a relationally solid church community What's the point of leaders controlling the information of other people relationship status? I cant believe something like this works, it seems absurdly surreal to me	/r/RPChristians	10/08/20 09:13 PM
1	When you have "feeeeelz" for someone else The last movie that made me feel that way was La La Land - though it was less despair and more an oxymoronic combination of forlorn hopefulness. Thinking a bit more about this feeling, I guess what strikes me with this movie is this idea that you fell out of something good that you know you won't get back. Life these days, we get to replace most of the things we lose, but a relationship that made you happy that is something to not take for granted. I might be wrong about this, but i think Hell c…	/r/RPChristians	04/08/20 06:14 PM
2	When you have "feeeeelz" for someone else I watched the movie last night and what a intense watch it was. All in all, it's a great picture of what happens when people assign impossible roles to another person. The girl believes she's a diva and she won't be happy unless she gets everyone to see what she is and she uses her husband as a comfort for her unhappiness. The guy believes the girl is his inspiration. Then it all changes, she realizes she's the tree in someone else's play and he realizes his muse is an anchor to his happiness. B…	/r/RPChristians	04/08/20 03:40 AM
2	Followup post...I guess you truly never know WHAT is going until you talk. Why go for such a complicated case, aren't there other women around who you could develop an easier relationship with?	/r/RPChristians	20/02/20 11:29 AM
7	When God chooses your spouse Solid explanation. We are told Rebecca is beautiful. She is a virgin. Isaac is said to have considerable resources and wealth. It's alarming how people avoid the fact that beauty and confidence are the never changing main aspects of atraction in women and men, respectively. God always has something better if it’s His will to give you something but a door closes in the process. I find it curious that getting a rejection in Christian circles seems to be such a big deal for people. It seems like it…	/r/RPChristians	14/02/20 12:43 PM
12	Someone Suggested I Crosspost This Here It seems you're very emotionally attached to your pastor, to the point where you can't even contest his actions without thinking you're being paranoid. Trust no one, my friend, especially those too close to us. It's clear this guy is very capable of charming others into doing what he wants and this kind of people, when not controlled by the Spirit, might very well ruin other peoples' lives. The usual advice for pointless infatuation could also be used in your case and it's to simply walk away fr…	/r/RPChristians	13/02/20 12:02 PM
7	Q&A With an untrusting wife Red have you ever considered blogging? Dalrock will leave quite a void now, maybe you could contribute from now on producing content for those who won't reach us here on reddit Great response btw	/r/RPChristians	11/02/20 07:52 PM
2	I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to do I'm going with the "it's gonna get awkward" crowd. Friendship between genders is ok, but since she already said she's into someone else, it's obvious she knows you want more than friends with her and built a wall so you don't get your hopes up. Spending a few hours with someone that likes you can get awkward pretty quickly if the thing isn't mutual. Therefore you'll spend the whole date trying not to sound like you're making a move. Besides the general advice is to avoid dates in which you just …	/r/RPChristians	06/02/20 08:06 PM
9	Heartbreak Beware who you give your heart to. This girl wasn't anything to you, just a stranger, and you assumed a bunch of stuff about her and then you got hurt when you found out she isn't the princess you thought she was. There's no cheating, no betrayal, you brought it on yourself. Since it seems you're in a bad place right now, i don't see the point of torturing you with words, specially because your situation is what brings most people to TRP. Now it's time to accept personal responsability to learn …	/r/RPChristians	27/01/20 07:04 PM
1	The Happiest Millionaire Beautiful story and a great summary, i'm going to watch it	/r/RPChristians	27/01/20 12:00 PM
5	Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs old I can't find in the Bible anything that condems birth control. I know it's a tradition inside the Catholic Church, but it never represented anything to me, since i could never identify a single verse to back up this line of thought. Children are a gift of the Lord, but just like a farmer can only cultivate what he can handle, parents should also be capable to determine how many kids they can have. Just because conception is a natural fenomenon, that doesn't mean we can't control when it will hap…	/r/RPChristians	13/01/20 04:43 PM
2	Could someone say anything about the statements this guy is making concerning the validity of the Bible? Christianity is based on X, Y, X. The history of the Ark comes from X, Y ,X. Jesus' story is similiar to the god X, Y, X. There's no simple way to confirm that the Bible narrative is the correct one, all we can do is trust that the testimony is real and that's where faith comes into place. I then looked at logical fallacies and how creationist arguments The Bible tell us to take Creation as a fact, not something to be proved (Hb 11.2). That's why there's not much point trying to find that scient…	/r/RPChristians	20/09/19 04:22 PM
9	More Than Marriage: How churchianity has screwed up friendships too One of your best posts here, great job!	/r/RPChristians	29/07/19 07:59 PM
4	Is the bulk of the modern church's approach ineffective? Adding up to your list of examples Gathering 1 Pastor apologizes to the congregation because he's gonna talk about the bible in his sermon instead of proclaiming healing and miracles during the celebration. Gathering 2 Another pastor decides middle sermon to teach the congregation how to prophesize. Takes everyone in front of the church and demands everyone to start shouting "city X will belong to the Lord". For me it comes down to a contemporary need to make an impact, not by showing the power …	/r/RPChristians	16/01/19 01:26 PM
1	The 5 Pillars Of An Alpha Male He was a protector of loved ones I believe David struggled a lot in this part. Look at Tamar's rape by her brother (II Sam 13), David heard about it and did nothing, which led Absalom to make justice by his own hand. Once Amnom was dead, David once again stood by and punished Absalom with a light banishment. But after Absalom's rebellion and subsequent death, i guess David realized how poor his relationship with his kids was and tried to make up with Salomon, which is hinted by him teaching Salo…	/r/RPChristians	10/01/19 02:45 PM
1	Evangelical Culture is Beta Culture Definitely he didn't die for this lukewarm structure that people try to maintain, but most of the time it's inside it we'll find the remnant of true Christians fellowship though	/r/RPChristians	13/12/18 08:16 PM
5	Evangelical Culture is Beta Culture It's a good text, a bit too much on the pessimist side for my taste, but that's the reality nowadays anyway. I find it hard to fit on any chuch since there's no place to discuss masculine topics anymore, even talking about women became a subject of deep respect and distance, as if it was a subject too far away from the Christian life. I have also seen a rampant increase of female pastors everywhere, which brings masculinity even farther away from the leadership that it was supposed to have. But …	/r/RPChristians	13/12/18 07:51 PM
3	I’m fairly new to redpill, but with my Christian beliefs I don’t fully trust redpill. As i said: Red Pill is a description of human nature when it comes to gender dynamics, that's all, there's no agenda, no morality in it. Therefore, Red Pill isn't wrong, whatever people do with the information is up to themselves. Gaming girls, lifting, sleeping around are just things that people in the RP community do to develop themselves, whether it's wrong or right, not everyone has to follow this pattern. Over here in RP Christians there's another focus: using the RP knowledge to develop me…	/r/RPChristians	03/07/18 09:57 PM
4	I’m fairly new to redpill, but with my Christian beliefs I don’t fully trust redpill. I've never seen scientology being preached in RP forums, atheist are common but i've not seen them preaching as well. There's some level of mocking the Christian faith, but nothing abnormal. RP's objective is to explain the framework of human relationships and it has nothing to do with morality. Is it immoral to understand why Earth rotates daily? Neither it's to explain human nature. Some of the tools used by the RP community could conflict with the Christian framework, just leave those aside a…	/r/RPChristians	03/07/18 02:22 PM
1	Found an interesting article which helps explain the process of swallowing the red pill. Your last paragraph makes sense, even the author pointed out that under certains circumstances "Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and Tired", it's easier to drawback to previous behaviors. I can see how a critical loneliness can bring the beta out of red piller	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/18 12:54 PM
2	1. “How does God feel about it?”, or Feminine morality in dystopia I guess non-Brazilians will have a different opinion of your post. Our country is a thing, there's little respect for the law or the institutions. Jeitinho runs wild over here, therefore foreigners won't have a good perspective about it. Is it sinful to respect the law to an extreme as it is to completely ignoring it? I believe it is. The law gives no room for mercy, it doesn't argue with the facts very well, specially in Brazil, where judges apply the norms with subjective interpretation all th…	/r/RPChristians	04/04/18 07:57 PM
3	Filtering RP through a Christian Worldview I have always made my wife the sole focus of my affection. Is that ONEitis? Not at all. Oneitis is the thing you described before, a false perception that one girl is your soul mate, the answer to a preconception of what a perfect companion is. There are multiple people you could choose to be with, i also don't buy into the "special someone" that some Christians tend to believe. Even if you chose a person that is as flawless as one can be, you would still find imperfections to deal with. But, ju…	/r/RPChristians	22/01/18 09:43 PM
1	Defining RP for this sub - and understanding the toolbox It doesn't matter so much how things got this way as it does understanding the way things actually are. Ah, ok. I misinterpreted what you wrote about the descriptive nature. I'm too interested in the nature of ideas and how they came to be, so as soon as read "descriptive", I assumed you're talking about the roots of Red Pill. But I agree with your approach, taking RP as a pragmatic idea is essential to have a greater impact out there. That said, if you want to skip ahead and make some more post…	/r/RPChristians	19/10/17 02:12 AM
2	Defining RP for this sub - and understanding the toolbox IMO both the descriptive and prescriptive nature of the RP are flawed, because they don't consider the sinful aspect of individuals. The premisses of most RP material is based on evolution. Men and women developed different roles since ancient times and they still stick to these roles for survival purposes. It would be reasonable if evolution was a thing, but in a Christian perspective we know that both genders were designed by God to serve a purpose and that sin perverted how people lead their …	/r/RPChristians	17/10/17 03:28 PM
1	The Red Pill Strikes Again ... ''What do women want? Maximized hypergamy with a man blissfully unaware of hypergamy. The perfect union of emotional investment, parental investment and provisional investment with her hypergamous nature." This is a line in Rollo's book. It seems to fit your friend s situation, the woman is waiting on him to submit to her hypergamy drive while backing her and the children up financially. The Word clarifies very well that an unfaithful spouse can be divorced. It doesn't seem like she is willing t…	/r/RPChristians	11/10/17 08:08 PM
1	Pre-marital sex, experience, and reality I think to myself, if I don't plough X girl the first date, there's a chance that someone else will steal her. yeah, this is the motto of regular RP, seazing opportunity while it's there. But it's unbiblical, if the girl is willing to stick with you, she'll do that despite the sex. Take your time to learn about the person, then settle when you know it's someone worth keeping. And if she does bang someone else, it's her loss and it saves you from an unfaithful companion. What do you think? I'm pr…	/r/RPChristians	07/10/17 06:03 PM
4	Pre-marital sex, experience, and reality Having sex, in a biblical context, has everthing to do with bonding with people. The text of genesis talks about leaving and old covenant - submission to parents - and picking a new one - submission to a spouse. I know that many people think like you used to: "I like this girl, why can't i just sleep with her? She's the one i want to marry anyway". But what i saw my whole life is this being used as a excuse to sleep around and most regreted it or got someone pregnant and had to live miserable fo…	/r/RPChristians	06/10/17 05:03 PM