Lakenvelderin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Fair enough on the first part, if sex is all you're after then I guess whatever works lmao. On the second part... I guess? Technically you're right? I'm pretty sure a large part of the issue is women not caring if you're putting on a front-- which, again, if sex is all you're going for then I suppose that doesn't matter much. "Narcissistic" and other abuse is a whole different can of worms that has many layers of complexity past "women can't tell if men are lying," so I'm not gonna try to respon…	/r/seduction	06/05/20 04:02 PM
1	Boys, girls should be messaging first on. I'm glad! Frankly that just hasn't been my experience, though I'm sure it's possible-- I don't personally base my respect for anyone off of whether they act feminine or masculine. Yes, I am a female, and while I wouldn't be into actual neediness, I think there's a huge gap in interpretation here. What a lot of guys call "needy," I would consider a normal amount of attention to give someone you care about. What a lot of y'all call "push and pull" or "playing the game" or whatever is just being di…	/r/seduction	06/05/20 03:57 PM
1	Why is it when you give a girl less attention, she eventually starts giving you more attention? Are you? No, I just think people have the right to know that they're coming across in a sexist way.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 03:52 PM
1	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Fair enough, I guess.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 03:51 PM
-2	Boys, girls should be messaging first on. Relationship dynamics are closely tied to equality and lack thereof, so it's difficult to separate them. With that said, you seem upset about the changing dynamics, even though the "new" dynamics are better for a lot of women (and a fair amount of men, ime). Do you see where I'm coming from?	/r/seduction	05/05/20 09:13 PM
2	What’s the difference between seduction and charming? Seduction is sexual, charming is an umbrella term that can be platonic but isn't always.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 09:10 PM
1	Why is it when you give a girl less attention, she eventually starts giving you more attention? You're good. And yeah, people tend to appreciate it when you care about them lmao.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 08:58 PM
-3	Boys, girls should be messaging first on. Women aren't messaging you because you are probably sexist. "The girls," "girls are beginning to be masculine," "today's society," this post reeks of entitlement, and gals can smell it a mile away. We're not stupid. Talk to people irl, connect with them, learn from them. Equality is a good thing, and if you fail to recognize that, you will be left behind.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 08:55 PM
4	Quarentine rejection. That's creepy. You creeped her out. People don't like being approached (let alone asked out! pump the brakes, man!) out of the blue, especially women by men they don't know. Next time, give it more time to see if she: Actually wants to talk (she's walking her dog, just living her life, not asking around for male attention. leave her be) Might be interested in you (i.e. NOT crossing her arms and looking self-conscious) Is even someone you're interested in Things tend to work out better when you k…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 08:51 PM
0	Why is it when you give a girl less attention, she eventually starts giving you more attention? This is going to sound harsh, and I don't mean it in a rude way: First: Guys are not the most important thing in a girl's life. She has a family, school/work, hobbies, and a million other things to take care of, so chances are it's not about you. Maybe she was busy for a week, or stressed, or she has more free time now 'cause of quarantine. It doesn't mean she's just trying to play games or mess with you. Secondly: Don't stereotype. Generalizing women/girls as always "playing games" and "on thei…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 08:47 PM
44	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Myth #4: All women are the same, and this guy is irresistible. You can't really boil down half the population to a simple step-by-step list, for instance: "Never go on dinner date and some crap like that." I love dinner dates. My friend hates them. It's a matter of individual preferences, and while this "guide" might be fine if you're looking for quick sex, plenty of women won't be interested and you'll probably just make them uncomfortable. I agree that you should listen (you should do that any…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 08:39 PM
18	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it You gotta be able to have serious conversations, ime. My best friend, a wonderful gal, has broken up with at least 4 guys that are absolutely hilarious, but also absolutely shallow. Being able to make people smile is great! But if you really, actually want a genuine relationship, you have to be willing to make yourself vulnerable and communicate sincerely-- talk about your feelings/dreams/goals even if it makes you uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 08:34 PM