LakersAreTerrible25 Archive

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1	I'm starting to give up (threesome game) You have to build an emotional attachment, which requires 3+ months of dating and not fucking up. Which isn't hard if your experienced, but that's what it requires. Whether she's down or not is kinda irrelevant. If she's really that into you, that means she's willing to make investments of her own	/r/seduction	15/10/21 01:25 AM
1	[deleted by user] You won't unless you ask for it. I could care less for photos	/r/seduction	15/10/21 12:32 AM
3	Honestly. Quit OLD. Most women who are on dating apps (a small percentage of the total available women) use it for attention and validation. The ones who do meet uo, do so because they're experienced doing it with many other guys. It's just a lose-lose cycle either way and approaching will always be best	/r/seduction	13/10/21 01:25 AM
1	This girl said she ‘doesn’t do this often’ but said she on the pill when I drew for the rubbers I promise you that girl does it often. A girl who doesn't who literally be shakey and nervous to do it, even if you did everything right to make her comfortable. The reason being is because she's never been in that situation, therefore is instinctively nervous. An experienced girl (like the girl you're alluding to), would act similar to the way you're describing and not be nervous whatsoever. You gotta wear condoms at all times though, to prevent stds and unwanted pregnancies. Even on the pill, …	/r/seduction	10/10/21 10:46 PM
1	Thoughts on the cold approach in college, especially during the day? Yes do it in great volume and fantastic results will come	/r/seduction	07/10/21 11:13 PM
1	Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals??? They don't care about sex like men do. So they can do without or just go find another dude on your level. Shit I'm 6'5 and good looking with money, but best believe there are a million other guys like me or better. At the end of day, you have to make the approach regardless	/r/seduction	07/10/21 11:12 PM
3	Unprotected sex Raw sex is a thousand times better, but not worth the inherent risks. Not just pregnancy, but stds that will stay with you forever. Plus you never truly know how many other dudes any given chick has been with, no matter how innocent they may seem. The only girls I fuck with are at a good uni and I still wouldn't trust any of them going raw. You just can't nowadays man	/r/seduction	06/10/21 04:13 AM
2	Roommate doesn’t like when I approach women You could be a 10/10 as a man and still have to approach if you want a 9-10/10. Especially if you don't have a huge social circle or dont contain significant status. Approaching is fun as fuck and you'll get laid a lot if you do it. Particularly on campus, just endless options	/r/seduction	05/10/21 03:30 AM
1	How to proceed after good second date? You should always move slow anyway. I'm in software eng and therefore have to approach random women on campus. I've met some extremely intelligent and beautiful women, who turned out to be kinda crazy when I brought them back to my place. The issue was I was bringing them back on lime the first encounter, instead of getting to know them beforehand. I'd wait at least 3 dates now, which for me would equate to about a month and a half. The kicker is I only see these women once every 2 weeks, so I c…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 07:45 PM
1	Understanding Infinite Abundance Of Women It's because you don't have options. Not to be a dick, but I'm speaking from experience. I'm also both tall and attractive, so anyone is prone to fixating on a particular woman. I got laid a lot more once I started approaching on campus and met a lot of attractive chicks. But it wasn't even about the sex, I was busting my ass trying to maintain a good GPA in software eng and I felt like life more or less came to me. Even though you're gunna have to make the initial approach, you should make her …	/r/seduction	04/10/21 07:40 PM
0	Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday? Don't shit where you eat in the first place	/r/seduction	03/10/21 08:20 PM
1	Men who have had lots and lots casual sex. How much do looks matter for getting laid? I'm tall, good looking and what not. But it doesn't play a huge role honestly. Guys like to think because they wanna fuck so do women. But a lot of times you'll find with a quality woman, she wants to have an experience before getting intimate. I'm in university currently and have had tremendous success, with chicks from campus. However, it comes down to my confidence to approach and then making it an experience for them. Considering a lot of times they're more inexperienced than us guys like to…	/r/seduction	30/09/21 06:16 AM
1	How do you rank yourself in terms of attractiveness? 9-9.5/10. Am it that to every girl? Of course not. But in highschool I was judged by women so much based off of my looks and they'd ask my friends to give them their number, without knowing me prior. When I'd talk to my buddies by their locker faced away from the girls, my friends would mention how they'd be checking me out. I'm around 6'5, good hairline and facial asthetic genetics (from both my mother and father), decent muscle mass, etc. I have flaws though and I give myself that rating based…	/r/seduction	29/09/21 02:38 AM
-4	Meet a girl who just clicked. Should I stop my game? Never get complacent when it comes to approaching. Even if you had a 5 girl rotation, full of chicks with low body counts with an attachment built. At the very least, other dudes are trying to hit them up. Anyday those girls could leave and then you're in a drought for several months. Always do it to continue getting to know new women over text, in the event that those girls do leave eventually. Normally it takes 2 weeks to a month to link anyway if you and the girl you just met are busy. So you…	/r/seduction	27/09/21 12:20 AM
0	Phone number Vs Instagram If you're in college approaching on campus, then I've had tremendous success getting snapchats. The girls let me add my snap to their phone for them and although I'm considered attractive, I'm shocked by how much this works. Phone number is good, but understand a lot of girls won't answer through text. Instagram is a straight up no no if you're a grown man. You really shouldn't be using it period if not for business reasons	/r/seduction	26/09/21 07:58 PM
0	[deleted by user] You gotta have the standards women have. In terms of seeing her 2-3 times before bringing her back to your spot or even fucking her. You're the prize, not her and therefore you need to act that way. Dude I've met/fucked some legit dimes at my school (a top 5 school in Canada) who were also fairly intelligent and some still were really off putting when I'd bring them back to my place. They'd be lowkey tryna go through my stuff and act kinda crazy in general. So, if these are supposed to be among …	/r/seduction	25/09/21 02:40 AM
5	How to approach girls indirectly (from art of seduction) Dude I've literally gotten over 100 snaps/numbers combined in the last year and fucked 60 of them at least. That was all from campus approaches, literally walking up to chicks between classes and shit. If school and other stuff didn't occupy me so much, I could've fucked like 80/100. The point being is that you gotta make the approach and understand rejection is part of it. Disclaimer, I am considered really good looking. But I really don't think that plays a huge role in attracting women, as ch…	/r/seduction	24/09/21 09:26 AM
2	How be successful at picking up any stranger so I can have more options? I would approach on campus of anywhere. I have a fuck ton of success at my school. Although I am consider very good looking by most women due to my height, face, hair and stuff. Just gotta bang out approaches. I get dead sets all of the time, but who cares	/r/seduction	21/09/21 12:52 AM
5	Can confidence hide inexperience or does it always seep out? This is why I never dance at clubs or with women. It makes you look goofy, if you you're a fairly good dancer. My thing would be not to meet women in the club because even if you end up smashing, they're likely not so high in quality. If you're in school like me, definitely approach on campus as you go about your day (try to avoid doing it in class). If not, then I'd still recommend street approaches over clubs. Go to the club to enjoy the music and have a few brews with your buddies. I've gotte…	/r/seduction	19/09/21 11:25 PM
8	Can someone explain this behaviour? She grabbed your insta is already a receipe for disaster	/r/seduction	19/09/21 11:22 PM
1	Bottom line: no smelly dicks Lmaoooo	/r/seduction	18/09/21 10:01 PM
-2	When a female flakes If she flakes, then I'll say it's more than likely you talking too much or something in particular that was said. Yea sometimes girls flake for the fuck of it. But more often than not, they screened the guy out and therefore flaked. Women are much more abundant and they really don't care about sex when it comes down to it. Whereas us men only care about sex and will therefore wanna fuck anything attractive to us	/r/seduction	15/09/21 12:58 AM
0	[deleted by user] I wouldn't personally. I'm good looking/very tall and already have an easy time meeting new women on campus. Even if I'd get her most of the time, it's still way too much a hassle. Rather than just dating a chick who's likely seeing nobody else. I date out of my race (I'm white) and usually go for the short and fit brown girls. They're harder to get than most ethnicities and I say that to say you just gotta make the approach at the end of the day. Be like me and don't have any expectations going…	/r/seduction	14/09/21 11:42 PM
0	[deleted by user] Im a 6'5 fairly good looking white dude and I look short/fit brown or black women. But it's due to their beauty being far superior than white women. Along with the fact white women tend to have a big attitude problem, not for me	/r/seduction	13/09/21 03:57 AM
1	[deleted by user] Height and looks really dont matter, even when it pertains to casual sex. I'm 6'5 on top of being good looking and I would say my game has purely been the reason for my success with women. I know a lot of tall and good looking guys like me with little to no women. In reality, the average looking 5'7 guy is usually the one with the most women. Due to there being so much more to it than looks for women. Just go out and take a look around at the people walking with a hot woman. They're often times …	/r/seduction	13/09/21 03:53 AM
0	girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attracted It's funny because as a good-looking and tall white guy, I get to say this to every ego driven white girl out there. I date much more beautiful and fit brown women, who blow white women out of the water. Especially if i go to the club, I have to shoot them down a lot😂	/r/seduction	12/09/21 11:06 PM
3	You like them, they don't like you, they like you, you don't like them. As a good looking dude (6'5, jawline, hair, some muscle, etc), I still have to put in the work to bang chicks. I generally date short and fit brown girls though, which are hard to get with. But if I go approach after classes (engineering is a sausage fest), I could easily develop a rotation worth of these women within a few weeks that I've already fucked. Im talking high quality women with extremely low body counts. You can't just sit back and expect girls to chase you. That's not the real world…	/r/seduction	12/09/21 01:17 AM
1	Those Of You That Barely Have Any Luck, Do You Still Approach? Dude it's a you problem. Although I'm tall and good looking, I can go out and easily get a rotation of short brown girls (my type), within a couple of days from complete cold approach . Im white too btw, which makes it even harder theoretically, considering they're already difficult to get. Literally, after my string of engineering classes, I can go do this and get these girls on dates from getting their snap. Meaning anyone can do this. The key is likely where you're approaching. I'd only recom…	/r/seduction	11/09/21 11:37 PM
1	Meeting people but them not remembering me? Not everybody contains that level of intelligence to remember you like that. Specifically being short term memory. Most people will have below average intelligence, regardless of how great their character may be. That's just the game of chance and how our simulation works. Everything is chance based and on genetics as well. So they don't have bad intent or are disrespecting you, they simply cant remember stuff like that. Like maybe you or even I could	/r/seduction	11/09/21 11:30 PM
1	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? Ye library like the top post said. Or do what I do because im in software engineering. Use my looks to my advantage and go up to random women around campus. This is far superior to street approaching and is actually an acceptable setting for approaching. Also improve your social life and that'll open doors for you to meet women in groups. A lot of us men are missing out on those opportunities. Fuck how other people stigmatized approaching	/r/seduction	10/09/21 06:38 AM
3	So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc. Dude I've had girls very much interested in me many times and that's not how the progression works. If that's true then red flag	/r/seduction	09/09/21 07:43 PM
1	How do I know if she put me in friendzone and how do I get out of it? If you have to ask then that's a bad sign	/r/seduction	07/09/21 11:44 PM
1	Help me respond to this text I just fucked a girl yesterday who responded to me "i should be yeah" to "are you free sometime this weekend to link?". I had met her at my school a few weeks prior. She had high interest though and when we found out we liked different food, she suggested drinks and previously to hang out in the first place. My point being if you have to think like that, she probably isn't interested. What she says doesn't necessarily matter, it's the action she takes that does. Even if you have a meetup planned…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 12:43 AM
1	[deleted by user] Despite what porn may suggest, this kind of stuff doesn't happen in the real world. I mean it can, just extremely unlikely even if you're attractive yourself. I'm considered an attractive guy for example (height, face, hair, money, etc) and I still have to work to get the women I want. I'm only 21 at that, in theory I should be fucking like it's nothing. Then you'll have people saying looks matter and the attractive guys get all the women. So there are misconceptions everywhere when it comes to …	/r/seduction	04/09/21 06:57 PM
1	[deleted by user] People are grown in uni. Reputations no longer mean shit because of the sheer volume of chicks there. Most big institutions have thousands of dimes walking around at a given moment. Shit I'm in eng, so I have to approach girls I randomly see	/r/seduction	04/09/21 09:34 AM
2	I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do? That's her way of saying she's not interested. Even many women have come out publicly and admitted this is a common tactic	/r/seduction	01/09/21 06:16 PM
1	Does she like me or is she just feeling me out or am I reading in to it too much? Don't shit where you eat	/r/seduction	30/08/21 08:56 PM
3	Why the heck do I mostly attract taken girls? I wouldn't look too much into this unless you're actually fucking these chicks. I've fucked a few girls with boyfriends and they made it clear they wanted me. I didn't even find out until after I got with them a few times, that they had a boyfriend. Women do things because of reasons you wouldn't think. No point in speculation, just keep doing you and move forward.	/r/seduction	29/08/21 09:21 PM
1	I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do? Use her to your advantage. If you're chill, then she'll actually help you get with other women. Her inviting you to a party is the best case scenario. She's essentially helping you get laid, if you make the best of it. However, genuinely go there to have a good time, not to hook up. The vast majority of women don't fuck with guys they're at parties with (exception being the sluts). They go out to have a laugh with their friends. It's extremely hard to pull a quality girl from a party because of …	/r/seduction	29/08/21 09:17 PM
1	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet Dude I'm both 6'5 and have good facial asthetics/hair. I can tell you it's never helped with women. In fact, it's also made it hard for me to make friends because most dudes are envious of me. Women don't like dating guys they know are better looking than themselves, it shatters their ego. That's why you often see the average guy height and looks wise get the best looking women. Having height and looks is only 5%, in terms of significance. Your confidence and charisma matter far more. Of course …	/r/seduction	29/08/21 12:10 AM
1	Meeting a girl for ‘studies’. How do I end up having s** If anything you should be the one not wanting to fuck. I'm at the point where I let the women wonder a bit. Most of them are physically attracted to me. So no effort needed once I got them chillin at my place	/r/seduction	28/08/21 03:54 PM
1	Be careful approaching women especially with the mask mandate going on Don't fuck with chicks at work. Most of them aren't aren't attractive anyway	/r/seduction	27/08/21 06:38 PM
4	Do women like validation more than sex? Sex is a form of validation. Except it won't be a deal breaker for her, like over complimenting is. In a lot of cases, complimenting period could be a deal breaker for her. Once she has that emotional validation, the man is no good to her anymore	/r/seduction	27/08/21 04:52 PM
1	Do's and don'ts in a first date I would say refrain from joking and completing. The woman's attractiveness is what determines the outcome. Not trying to be funny or overcomplimentary. That could in fact decrease her attraction	/r/seduction	26/08/21 08:42 PM
1	10 year age gap. Free to proceed? Hell yea, I'd even recommend it. Although I'm 22 and date women around my age, I want to remain dating women around this age. The mature 20 something year olds that is	/r/seduction	26/08/21 07:58 PM
10	Approached 4 girls today Expect that with numbers. The majority of them will be no responses	/r/seduction	25/08/21 04:32 AM
1	How can I overcome my fear of coming off as a creep? It's subjective. You can objectively be a 9-9.5/10 physically, but some women will not think you're that due to subjectivity. They'll go their grave saying a guy with a dad bod and 5'6 looks better than a 6'5 guy who has muscle and chiseled jawline. Which is their opinion and that's fine. Just the way it is, you have to keep testing the waters with different women. It'll take 100s, even if you're very attractive. For every woman that'll give you a shot from cold approach, count on anywhere from …	/r/seduction	23/08/21 11:58 PM
2	[deleted by user] I think the issue is you're thinking too much into it. You don't wanna be too pushy to begin with anyway. Its either shes attracted to you or not. Nothing you say (barring something stupid) is going to change that. Personally as I've gotten more experienced with women, I actually don't make the move as aggressively as I once did (although that worked too). Get to know her through basic conversation and most importantly make sure you're certain if you even wanna fuck the chick to begin with. A lo…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 12:25 AM
1	FWB is mad at me, anything i can do or it's over? Lmao.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 12:17 AM
1	What to do when she does a grossed out/weirded out face after you approach? Mamba mentality. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take	/r/seduction	20/08/21 03:35 AM
2	What do you guys opinion about dating younger girls? Ain't no way as a real man you can date that young. I'm 22 with my own place, car, assets, etc. They have to be on my maturity level in order to have a chance. Most women my age don't have their shit together, let aline a 17 or 18 year old still getting their phone bills paid for and using their mom's car to get around. Back when i was younger I used my looks and height to get women, but now I've completely shifted from that. I exclusively date women who I've screened out, in terms of what they …	/r/seduction	16/08/21 03:34 AM
2	[deleted by user] You don't need to compliment what so ever. Ask basic questions considering what you say isn't a big factor in her attractiveness to you (barring saying stupid shit). Just be you and understand it's a numbers game for everyone	/r/seduction	13/08/21 08:08 PM
8	Every girls is rejecting me for no reason The types of women you approach is gunna be important for success. Not just doing 100 approaches to any hot girl you see. I dont think anything about you is the issue. Approaching is an art that you learn overtime. You can be as tall as me at 6'5 or taller, along with having muscle and a full head of hair. Only to still get rejected because that isn't whats gunna get you the girl. It's your confidence and how you carry yourself. Hence why a 5'5 guy can pull women. That should tell you everything…	/r/seduction	13/08/21 03:33 AM
2	Girl goes cold after 4 dates Too needy and not enough balls. Text only for dates and always attempt to sexually close	/r/seduction	12/08/21 11:55 PM
6	Ballsy, anyone tried this: approach girl that’s walking with her father Say "daddy nice to meet you, I'm your daughters new man"	/r/seduction	11/08/21 07:04 PM
4	Cute barista gave me her number LMFAOOOOOO	/r/seduction	10/08/21 12:32 AM
1	How hard is to get FWB? Very difficult, even for me as a 6'5 good looking guy. I already give off the vibe I'm a fuck boy as is, so it makes it that much harder	/r/seduction	09/08/21 10:24 PM
2	Girls won’t meet up again after sex Most of the women I've been with I've fucked on the first or second encounter. What I'm thinking is you're coming across as too needy and as we all know women despise that. Even simple texts like saying you had a good time often makes you look bad to most women. Get to know the woman, but she should be doing some of the pursuing and most of the talking. Especially after you've fucked for the first time, that investment is already made on her part at that point. Which makes modern dating extremel…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 06:32 PM
0	Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMA Looks definitely don't matter. I'm 6'5 with a chiseled jaw line and a full head of hair. Never has it helped me in game because women don't care about sex nearly as much as men. In fact, a lot of them are fine with going without it. How you carry yourself, body language and charisma is 85%, financial stability (your own house and car) is 10% and looks is 5%. Especially as you get into your 20s, looks really don't mean shit and you'll notice most of the guys girls date are the same height or even…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 12:21 AM
1	“Don’t shit where you eat” is the stupidest advice I’ve ever heard in my life. There's a lot wrong with that though. Even for a guy in school with a casual job. Why fuck up a pay cheque for some ass? If anything, that's even more crucial for them. A casual fwb situation, with a co worker, ending will always make things extrmely difficult. For example, up until I was getting software engineering internships a couple of years ago, those summer and odd part time jobs were crucial to my eventual financial success. However, a few of the jobs I had were hard to continue working …	/r/seduction	05/08/21 03:28 AM
0	How to write your tinder bio (or bumble, hinge, etc) I'm gunna go out on the limb and say you haven't gotten 1000 matches. Firstly most matches are bots or don't answer and secondly Tinder has largely died down over the past 5 years. Aka, way more guys are actively using it than women. If you're a guy (good looking or not), you'll have to go out there and make some damn approaches. But do it in the process of your daily life instead of making it a flat out priority. Dating apps in 2021 just aren't what they used to be years ago	/r/seduction	05/08/21 03:17 AM
1	Restaurant seduction Coffee n fuck my dude	/r/seduction	01/08/21 12:56 AM
8	Hey guys how to get into fwb ? Most women aren't gunna go for it. This is coming from someone with many fwbs over the years. But how many women I've had to screen through to find those was a tremendous amount. Game is a numbers situation, even for the best looking guys. You get fwb by being in the right place at the right time, to talk to that particular woman who'd be down. What happens the majority of the time is you'll fuck a woman a few times, then she wants a commitment	/r/seduction	28/07/21 11:34 PM
8	Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away! This won't work because women have easy access to sex. Even the top guys have to work to get it. So, if you're a regular guy and do this then she'll certainly never chase you. The only time she will is if an attachment is built over the course of months. Be a man and make the move	/r/seduction	27/07/21 03:26 PM
2	What made you approach women? You're not gunna meet quality women online. They're all ran through or on there for validation, so its a means to an end. Even if you're a 10, be prepared to get rejected a lot due to preferences. You have to move along and on to the next	/r/seduction	23/07/21 07:50 PM
1	I don‘t get clubbing. You shouldn't be going out to meet women. Many women I've fucked explicitly told me that they don't mess with guys at clubs (due to it coming up in conversation). Very rare does it happen and you'll likely pick up a ran through woman. Do it to enjoy the vibe and I promise you you'll enjoy clubs more	/r/seduction	22/07/21 03:37 PM
1	Another night of approaches and eventually found the one Dude you look like a hungry hound with all those approaches. Even big clubs have a lot of cliques and you really only have room for two spaced out approaches at most, throughout the whole night. A big reason you're getting rejected a lot is due to validating them, on top of other women seeing you approach	/r/seduction	20/07/21 08:59 PM
1	Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle?? Bruh it's warm as fuck out in the summer. Ain't no one like me wants to cuddle and get sweaty, when i can avoid it and be cooled down. Same thing goes for if it's too hot out, I'm not fucking a girl outside just to get sweaty as hell. Don't overthini it, some people are just particular	/r/seduction	20/07/21 07:38 PM
1	[deleted by user] FWB from contrary belief is very difficult to find. I've dated a lot of girls. But let's face it, it's more serious than just sex even if by definition it isn't a relationship. The point being try to find women you vibe with over just fucking. A good quality girl who has looks on top of that usually isn't gunna be down for FWB. I'm 21 and have experienced the game enough to realize this	/r/seduction	17/07/21 01:57 AM
5	Going out solo this weekend. Any tips for being successful in hooking up with girls when out solo to bars/dance clubs? It's better to go solo dolo tbh. I'm 6'5 with muscle, jawline, my hairline makes my forehead small, etc. All of that just to ruin the bag because of my "wingman", who btw is arguably just as good with women as me. It just doesn't help when you're tryna casual date women and social proof is vastly overrated. Go to a big club where 100+ people are on the dance floor. No one will know you're by yourself and if they do, just say your friend left with a girl already	/r/seduction	15/07/21 01:09 AM
5	How to not be a nice guy online? Well its okay to be a nice guy, just don't be a simp. In fact, you don't wanna be known as an asshole by your personality. If at all, it should be because you date a lot of different women and are living in abundance. Which a lot of women try to claim thats an asshole when it's not. But that's fine, since it won't affect your likeability	/r/seduction	13/07/21 09:03 PM
2	Have any of yall splitted the bill? I mean you don't have to be that strict with things. The point is to avoid going on expensive dates period. If you go to a restaurant, it should only be a cheap one to switch things up. Shit, im 21 with my own place and I just invite girls over to cook with me. Way more intimate and effective for casual dating. Public dates remove the touch barrier due to a lot of women or people in general not liking PDA (including myself)	/r/seduction	12/07/21 11:59 PM
1	2 Second Dates in one night? Need help I'm 21 and have had 4 dates with 4 different girls on a Saturday, where I've squeezed in studying, gym or other responsibilities with that. Time management is key and keep the dates of short duration	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:45 PM
1	Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in control This is good dude, you didnt do anything inherently wrong. Only thing is now that you know she likes you, there's no need in taking her out for drinks or dinner dates very often. Which in my opinion, they're a good way to get comfortable with somebody initially for both sides. Only do it to switch things up, but keep that spontaneity alive like you did on the first meeting	/r/seduction	12/07/21 02:10 PM
-1	[deleted by user] I would've waited a week at least. Especially in the case where this is two girls and not one. You want them to think you have a life outside of them. To get the threesome, you need to not insinuate that's your intention. Until the point of where you have two of them in your bed and are making the move. Perseverance is key to fucking two girls at the same time	/r/seduction	11/07/21 08:20 AM
0	I asked for her number - she said shes comfortable texting on Instagram. Shall I just move on? Ig is for validation. Just move along	/r/seduction	05/07/21 02:34 PM
12	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Well if it's your first time linking. From my experience with woman (I'm 6'5 and good looking according to the general woman), if I escalated too fast that could also turn them off. Even though everything else went well and I remained masculine entirely throughout. My theory is the touching and flirting somewhat shows feminine characteristics. There's nothing wrong with showing intent and trying to fuck, but do it in a masculine way if that makes sense. So, what I do now is the first date is a f…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:01 AM
-5	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Well if it's your first time linking. From my experience with woman (I'm 6'5 and good looking according to the general woman), if I escalated too fast that could also turn them off. Even though everything else went well and I remained masculine entirely throughout. My theory is the touching and flirting somewhat shows feminine characteristics. There's nothing wrong with showing intent and trying to fuck, but do it in a masculine way if that makes sense. So, what I do now is the first date is a f…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:00 AM
-2	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Well if it's your first time linking. From my experience with woman (I'm 6'5 and good looking according to the general woman), if I escalated too fast that could also turn them off. Even though everything else went well and I remained masculine entirely throughout. My theory is the touching and flirting somewhat shows feminine characteristics. There's nothing wrong with showing intent and trying to fuck, but do it in a masculine way if that makes sense. So, what I do now is the first date is a f…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:00 AM
3	How do I get a girl to grind on me and eventually make out at loud dance club? Is it all about non verbal? Meh don't be at that shit. Been there and done that. You wanna be a mystery somewhat and act masculine. Trying to grope women is feminine in my opinion. Don't believe me? Try it in practical application and see the results. What are those results? Let that be a nice surprise. You'll be way better off meeting women elsewhere and creating a good vibe, not at a club.	/r/seduction	19/06/21 11:21 PM
1	Is it just me or for every dating advice there is an opposite advice? Every woman encounter you have will be different. Thus any dating advice doesn't apply to the average woman you deal with. Different preferences and perceptions on what's acceptable to them and what's not. You be the king and let the woman fall in place	/r/seduction	19/06/21 11:16 PM
1	I keep making out with girls at the bar, but can’t close Don't kiss the girl until you're doing shit sexually. I've done both ways and succeeded in both. But being masculine and allowing the vibe, instead of trying to kiss her or something is far superior. The average woman we as men date are not gunna have super high interest initially. So, trying to kiss or make a minor move like that is often not the way to go. Getting the woman's respect is everything or it'll be super boring, even if you do end of fucking. That's what I've observed over the years…	/r/seduction	19/06/21 11:09 PM
1	In response to the "do girls like muscles" post Well its not for women because it's true that they don't care for it like they once did. I'm 6'5, 230 pounds at 12% bf and girls don't get with me for my hair, face, muscles or height. Maybe at one point and time 10-20 years ago women liked height and muscle. But times have changed a tremendous amount. In fact, a lot of women date down to fuel their egos. Along with the fact they see guys who are tall and fit as "fuckboys". Work out for being healthy and increasing your strength, if that's your …	/r/seduction	12/06/21 10:53 PM
4	I wanted to share a small victory Well you did the right thing. If you want quality women who take care of their bodies and/or have shit going for them, then gym, school and the street are the only places to find them. You ain't gunna find them in a club or concert. But if you take initiative like you have, you'll get quality women. Whereas dating apps and clubs are full of ran through girls who no one else wants	/r/seduction	09/06/21 03:36 AM
2	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? I'm 23 and about 90ish different women. I've been fucking since I was 12 though, so I have over a decade of experience. Women aren't even a focus of my life currently, i alternate two girls seeing them once every other week. But I could really even go without that to be honest. Programming 80 hours a week, lifting, cooking and caring for myself isn't easy	/r/seduction	11/05/21 11:38 PM
0	Is asking girls for feedback on what you did wrong when approaching a weak move? That's like asking for validation. I'm sure you're smart enough to understand this. You just need to think before you say things, then you'll quickly realize that the answer is HELL NO	/r/seduction	09/05/21 06:33 PM
2	“I totally would but i have a boyfriend” Most girls cheat on their boyfriends regularly. So if they say that, it's simply they're not interested which is fine. But by no means is it because she's being loyal. It's a way for a girl to reject guys without being direct	/r/seduction	02/05/21 05:33 PM
3	If a person really wants to see you, they will make the time. Some people literally can't make the time is the issue. Believe it or not, there are people (like me) who have been with enough women to where the hype is gone. Plus I'm 23 now, so I'm graduated from university and working as a software engineer. Then I lift, cook, take care of all my household responsibilities and then maybe I have time for 1 chick or friend a week. If youre grown, you shouldn't even worry about women if you don't have your stuff together	/r/seduction	02/05/21 05:27 PM
2	how do you respond when a girl says "wow you're tall"? I'm 6'5 on top of pretty good facial features and it's not the advantage people like to think it is. When a girl asks me that, a lot of times it's more out of fear than liking tall guys. The height thing is super overblown. But there are obviously girls I deal with that like it. Most won't though from my experience. I normally talk to girls who are under 5'4, so that could he a reason😂	/r/seduction	24/04/21 12:16 AM
5	After how many cold approaches did you get your first date? Even if you're really good looking, expect it to take 50-100 on average. It's the best way in theory since the quality of girls is higher, but be prepared to get rejected a lot. The only girls you'll find online are ran through, that goes for all of them	/r/seduction	21/04/21 06:50 PM
4	Girls don't do things by accident This is overthinking. You're always gunna have to make the first move, particularly with a 9 or 10. Girls don't care about dating and sex like us men do, so it makes us learn to approach. Contrary to popular belief, where most guys think every girl has been ran through. Not the case when you're dealing with quality women. A lot of them don't care for sex or being with someone nearly as much as you'd think. Hence why a lot of women are single	/r/seduction	18/04/21 06:33 PM
2	What's better?bluntly asking a woman if they want to go on a date?Or asking if you can take them out? Ask some basic questions like her name, where she's from and what are her hobbies and things she likes to do in her free time. In a confident manner with a bit of enthusiasm too, don't be monotoned when interacting. Then you relate what she likes to do to a potential meet up. Maybe you end up chilling and not doing what you planned. But the idea is to find an excuse to get her to hang out. Asking her to get a coffee or drink is a dead end idea that rarely works. Will likely only work on girls wh…	/r/seduction	16/04/21 09:25 AM
1	Do you approach enough? I only approach and date short punjabi, latina or black girls (my types). I'm studying software eng in school, so I really only meet guy friends through class. For background I'm white, making there be even less options of those girls for me. Although my school overall is packed with girls of those ethnicities. Giving me enough consistent opportunities, but nothing crazy	/r/seduction	15/04/21 06:01 AM
1	Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa. Shit last nigjt me and a girl I just met hit it off within a few hours of talking. Asked me to link right away and keep complimenting my height, hair and face. She gwaked and I hit after we vibed for a bit. I love when a girl is attracted to me for my physical traits, the intimacy is so much better and no effort is required	/r/seduction	08/04/21 09:27 AM
2	I'm 20 and can only attract older women I'm 23 and at this point older women are lowkey better. Some of them look even better than girls my age and the maturity is a big factor. I work 100 hours a week as a software designer and then go to the gym when I'm not working. It's not like I don't date girls my age, but that shit is getting old to me	/r/seduction	06/04/21 07:08 AM
1	Do you still believe in the whole "Alpha Male" thing? Yes but it's not about being some tough guy or above everybody else. It's about not giving a fuck about anyone else and only being concerned about where your life is headed. That's the difference between alpha and beta. It really has nothing to do with women because guys about their own shit don't have time for women to begin with. Whereas the betas do, so they resort to simping and shit to fill their time	/r/seduction	04/04/21 12:08 AM
2	"Work on yourself" Working on yourself alone won't inherently get you more girls. Although I'm a fairly good looking guy at 6'5 with good facial and hair genetics, I get my no more girls now that I have money than I did when I was broke living with my mother (probably less to be honest). Looks don't really matter either, but my point being that actually being around enough women is the only way to get them. Quality girls don't do online dating anymore, so in person is the only way now	/r/seduction	02/04/21 05:37 AM
1	Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer. This is cuck behavior. If someone declines your offer to link, then its over and no more pursuing should be done. Some people are gunna like you and some will not. Don't be a simp and persist on bothering someone if they've already declined once. Matter of fact cut contact all together, there's no point in further communication	/r/seduction	01/04/21 08:09 PM
1	DON'T compliment their bodies or face, Compliment their STYLE. Or don't compliment at all. All you're telling girl is they're so much better than you when you do shit like that. Ask the person about themselves, particularly when it comes to women, to get them talking and thats how you build rapport in sexual terms. Actually talking about sex or complimenting anything really is a recipe to turn most (not all) women off. Even if it's style, in my opinion it can still fuck things up for a lot of guys	/r/seduction	31/03/21 03:18 AM
0	I slid in the dm's and got rejected You can get chicks over dms, but I dont recommend it. Real life is way better due to the better quality of girls you can get, plus a far higher success rate than dms	/r/seduction	22/03/21 06:17 AM
2	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. The dating game is just fucked up. I've been with enough girls at 23 to know how pointless it is unless you're looking for a family (which I'm not). At this point I'm too busy with software designing and lifting to try nearly as much. Back in the day there was always excitement to date because there's was less access to it theoretically without technology. Now every other dude or chick has been with their share of people dating wise. It's just a different time overall, more emphasizing getting o…	/r/seduction	15/03/21 07:28 AM
1	Run from insecure women! My standards are high to begin with. I only date girls who get good grades like I do, go to the gym consistently and are at least a 9/10. Plus with the fact I'm in software engineering, I'm very busy and expect women I'm seeing to be the same and not text me a whole lot outside of logistics for meeting up. Whether that's hooking up or dating for several months. Too many guys settle for average looking women that have nothing going for them. If all of us had this approach, then this would force w…	/r/seduction	29/11/20 11:19 PM
9	Is cold approach worth learning if your end goal is marriage? It should be regardless of your goals. What people don't understand when stigmatizing cold approach as a bad thing is that you're limiting yourself to the girls in your everyday life. In some cases guys aren't ever around attractive girls in their job or school. Im in my 3rd year of software eng and there's no way I could met an attractive woman in any of the classes I'm taking. Approach on campus, the gym in certain cases, grocery store, or wherever you go outside of work or school. How attract…	/r/seduction	27/11/20 02:26 AM
4	3 signs you are her beta orbiter. Why talk to someone in the first place in whom you aren't hanging with? I'm too busy to be at that shit	/r/seduction	24/11/20 02:35 AM
2	stop TEXTING women I dont care to talk to people over text in general. I use it for logistics and thats it	/r/seduction	23/11/20 10:11 PM
1	I noticed when I got busy in life, people/ attention became less important, but then they suddenly wanted more of my attention. As someone who's both considered attractive by many women and also am successful, being successful isn't gunna necessarily attract new people. Maybe people who previously knew you will change their opinions on you. But if you don't go out and meet new people (aka approaching), you'll still never have anybody in your life. A lot of people get this misconstrued like self improvement is a magic pill. Regardless of your life situation action is required to get more women or friends in general	/r/seduction	23/11/20 09:18 PM
2	What is your best advice on cold approach? Some people are gunna like you, some people aren't. But I still advocate doing approaches	/r/seduction	15/11/20 01:42 AM
6	How to tell the difference between approach me eye contact and just random eye contact Stop over thinking. If you wanna approach, then approach and have a basic quick introduction before suggesting to go for a drink/coffee. What you say doesn't matter, its how attractive you are to her and talking for longer periods will only lower any attraction that's there	/r/seduction	11/11/20 02:05 AM
3	Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys? I'm 22 and have my last year of software engineering to go in university. Even though I'm not extremely old I've certainly learned a lot from prior mistakes I've made. Keep yourself busy and accept potential sacrifices that need to be made. For me, I have to do 6 classes a semester, go to the gym for 3 full body workouts a week, on top of studying a fair bit. All while still having a 3.8-3.9 gpa in my program. Not to mention the cooking and cleaning that needs to be done on a daily basis. The co…	/r/seduction	09/11/20 03:15 AM
14	Gym and diet I can tell you as someone who's 6'5, good facial structure and an advanced lifter strength and physique wise, looks only get your foot in the door at best. I've been with enough women at this point to know it's way more about how you carry yourself and your status (money or friends), rather than how you look. Plus I have multiple friends who are in the 5'5-5'7 range and don't lift, who far better because of intrinsic factors and sexual charisma. Hence why there are a lot of below average looking…	/r/seduction	26/10/20 02:10 AM
5	How is this, first time using “game”, I think I’m just using my ego more and acting more like a narcissist, any advice? Lmfao, only text for logistics my guy	/r/seduction	17/10/20 02:37 AM
-4	How to gain a girl’s interest on a date? Fuck the guts out of her. She'll come back, they always do	/r/seduction	26/08/20 06:42 PM
5	How to tease a girl? Don't. If you need to do all that, then her interest is low and you're essentially voluntarily being a dancing monkey. Especially if youre 21+, youre a grown man and being goofy could cost you with a lot of women in that demographic. There's ways to seduce a woman without coming across as a try hard or corny. Let your vibe and how you carry yourself speak for itself and just get to know her like a normal adult	/r/seduction	14/08/20 12:21 AM
1	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. Yes, that urge would go away though if men started doing semen rentention. Not for the bs benefits that some people say, but to learn how not to be so thirsty like a lot of guys tend to be. Ive been with enough women to know that sex will never supercede being about purpose and in the gym. If you can't go a day or two without nutting, then that's a serious addiction that should be addressed	/r/seduction	10/08/20 11:17 PM
2	I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake too Well thats the whole point of casually dating. Women aren't stupid and can easily tell when you're looking for sex. With certain guys they just want free dick. Even if you were more "interesting", a lot of the girls probably don't want anything serious to begin with	/r/seduction	28/07/20 04:27 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 55 Progress Report I like your confidence. But at the same time, it seems like you're submitting a lot to the girls still. For instance, suggest that you'd like to get a coffee or drink instead of asking. In instances like cold approach, she already thinks she's better than you. Therefore your diction alone could be giving you away	/r/seduction	25/07/20 04:28 AM
1	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive. Women are still not gunna chase you no matter how high value or good looking you are, thats just reality. They have options up the ass and even if they think you're attractive, you're still disposable. Focus on your purpose and when you wanna approach a particular girl, do it. At the end of the day, you're gonna have to pursue the woman until she has built enough of an attachment, for her to even care about you. Purpose is for your enjoyment and possible monetary benefit. But it isn't gonna magi…	/r/seduction	21/07/20 07:15 PM
2	If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested. I have time for maybe one girl or friend a week. School, gym and work got me busy enough	/r/seduction	30/06/20 08:41 PM
1	She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend” This the the norm. For me I'm too busy to do anything else but casually date with school, gym and work on my plate. Therefore I'd say the vast majority of girls I've been with have had other dudes in their life, during the time I was fucking with them. Especially the 10s, you can't expect to be the only dude that she messes with. I've seen some of their dms, they literally get 500 different dudes in them	/r/seduction	19/06/20 03:11 AM
-2	What race of woman are you guys most attracted to? What's your preference in hooking up or dating? Definitely a brown girl thats about 5'2 with a slim waist and fat ass. Im 6'5 230 so I can lift that shit around easy and pull out my duffy	/r/seduction	09/06/20 08:03 AM
1	How do I get a dancefloor makeout and also pull? Any tips? Don't. Firstly most of the girls at the club are kinda trashy. Second, if she ain't asking to spend the night with you at your pace, don't fuck with her at all. Girls think dudes on the dance floor and at the bar are thirsty	/r/seduction	07/06/20 01:11 AM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 1 Progress Report I'd advise you to just introduce yourself and ask one or two questions before asking her out. Its either she likes what she sees or not, no special pickup line is gonna change that reality. Ask for the number after she has agreed to the meeting and only text her when you're setting up logistical factors. No need to ramble on and compliment women, you're only giving them validation, which will force them to lose respect for you. Get right to the point, that'll give you the best chance of actually…	/r/seduction	29/05/20 08:32 PM
2	Mental Strength Training - Rejecting Women Thats easy for me. Now, I will make a premise and say its not too often I've ever had to reject women. But, between school, work, gym and cleaning up my place, I barely have time for more than one or two women in a week anyway. I'm not much of a texter either, so I don't even entertain other women if those one or two spots are filled already. Normally I'll just tell a girl if she's choosing me that I'm seeing someone already. Although in reality, I'm just casually dating and if not with a girl i…	/r/seduction	24/05/20 05:08 PM
1	The ultimate goal to confidence is not being able to give a fuck. No matter how many rejections you get, no many how times you get turned down you do not let it determine you. Because results comes when you stop giving a fuck and getting outside of your comfort zone. I agree. Not every girl is gonna like your appearance, even if you're a 10 looks wise. But, there's also no fancy pickup lines that will work either. All these dating coaches using these lines successfully are talking to women with high initial interest already. Just introduce yourself and ask for her name, then ask if she'd like to hang out sometime. No need to take her out on a fancy date, go for a coffee or even a walk. You only ask for the number when there's a premise around it. Its either …	/r/seduction	23/05/20 06:25 PM
2	How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally? Don't be on your phone so much. Its a device thats a great tool for everyday tasks, but nothing more. For me personally I'm in school, working in the lab or at the gym 90% of the time. The other 5% is cleaning up after myself and cooking food, then I need to work on assignments and studying for tests. It was fine banging a rotation of chicks in high school when there was time and I was doing fuck all. But the reality is that life is full of hell and tasks to be done throughout each day just to s…	/r/seduction	22/05/20 11:29 PM
1	How do you find the perfect balance between confidence and arrogance ? Just let your actions speak for itself. You can stand up for yourself and be a confident man, but don't start bragging to your friends or women about your accomplishments. Let them find out about how great you are naturally, then it won't come off as conceited. Some girls or even your friends might ask about what you got. Always underplay how you're doing from a monetary standpoint. Be a little humorous and say "I do fine, I get by". If its a situation where you're on a date and plan on bringing…	/r/seduction	22/05/20 01:35 AM
2	Dating apps are bullshit They used to be much better. I'm 21 now and used pretty much all the dating apps when I was 17/18. Now its just full of bots and they promote paying for premium to get matches. Its better to meet girls in person anyway, my school is full of girls who are 9s or 10s and have low body counts. One advantage to being in an academically based school, less of the girls are sluts. Dating apps are full of girls who have 100+ body counts	/r/seduction	18/05/20 07:43 PM
4	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Girls will never just come up to you like that. Doesn't matter if you're a 10 on the looks scale or a 4, she'll only send choosing signals at best. These choosing signals can be a simple quick glance, to putting herself within your vicinity. But, a high quality woman who doesn't bang everything she looks at will want you to make the approach. You make a good point though with the texting game and doing things with your friends, that will cause the woman to send choosing signals your way	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:36 PM
1	Are some girls / guys really out of your league? No, they are dimes dating dudes who are 5s and 6s looks wise literally all the time. Charisma is the most important factor for getting women. If you're not confident, don't expect much results. I'm about a 9 looks wise according to women on average who I've asked, plus I'm pretty tall at 6'5. Guess what? It does absolutely nothing to help me in game. Looks are subjective too btw, to some women I may be a 5 or 6. Social skills and confidence will always be the biggest factor in determining "leagu…	/r/seduction	22/04/20 06:53 PM
2	I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this. I had a lot of guy friends growing up (I'm a dude). One thing I've notice is as my success has increased, the number of friends I have has decreased. It's a combination of the positions of our lives being so different and our personalities not meshing. Successful people surround themselves with like minded individuals. Most of my friends growing up amounted to basically nothing. Everyone's priorities are different and there's nothing wrong with that	/r/seduction	15/04/20 10:59 PM
1	WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS SUBREDDIT? I dont understand Depends if the person pays for their own bills and has their own vehicle. This is the difference of someone not being able to even go out to get groceries and someone who's at home, but can meet up with someone if they choose to. A lot of girls in my age group still have their damn phone bills payed for them and rely on their parents for transportation. Which is the vast majority of women in college. I couldn't imagine not being to go outside or get groceries. All of these girls leeching off the…	/r/seduction	11/04/20 09:43 PM
1	How do I become an Alpha? Stop caring about women, get on your purpose and hit the gym consistently	/r/seduction	11/04/20 09:32 PM
2	How to Get A Girl INVESTED Through Text Dont unless you're sexually flirting. Other than that, keep texting for logistical reasons and short 15 minute conversations if absolutely necessary that you need to text her	/r/seduction	10/04/20 07:58 PM
1	Masculine v. Effeminate men From my experience, it's better to stay in your masculine and be a mystery to women. Even so much as arguing with a woman for any reason and portraying feminine energy WILL reduce a woman's interest bigtime. Doesnt matter if she's only been with 1 dude or 100, it's female nature. The reason for this is simply due to how she'll start exhibiting masculine energy, in order to match the feminine energy being demonstrated. I found staying in my masculine causes women I date to become obsessed with me…	/r/seduction	08/04/20 10:10 PM
3	The best way i can learn how to text a girl on Instagram I'm the same age as you man. Just don't even bring up social media and if they do, say you don't care for it. Works everytime cause they know it's all fake lives being lived on there	/r/seduction	08/04/20 05:19 AM
10	The best way i can learn how to text a girl on Instagram Don't, it's a validation app. Very rarely will you get to a point with a woman where you'll hook up from dms. Most will just want a conversation or free attention. Meeting women in person will always be better trust me	/r/seduction	07/04/20 11:47 PM
2	How to be playfully persistent with a girl Despite what people may insinuate about now being the time to text a girl. The truth is it's never the time, keep texting for logistical purposes only. The only exceptions I'd make is if the girl clearly has high interest and you're just getting to know each other. Also, if you've been seeing her for a while and she's developed a high enough interest in you, to the point where she hits you up everyday. Other than that, texting any woman, with or without the Coronvirus situation, can only be a re…	/r/seduction	04/04/20 10:21 PM
1	Left on read A true dime that's a 9.5-10/10 has other dudes texting her. Doesnt necessarily mean they're fucking her, but they're at least orbiters. You have to leave texting for logisctal purposes, unless the girl initiates contact with you everyday	/r/seduction	03/04/20 10:32 PM
1	Im not good at showing girls I like them. What can I do to flirt better and make my interest clear? Escalation is key, girls already know what us guys want. That doesn't mean get her to sit on your lap in the restaurant. But if that date goes well, you need to start gearing her towards coming back to your place. To avoid awkwardness, gauge her interest on the date, to see if it's high enough to do so on the first date. I personally have a 3 date rule with a girl. Which is obviously if I can't sleep with her by the 3rd date, I'm moving on. Most girls whether they're sluts or not will give it up…	/r/seduction	02/04/20 10:25 PM
7	How to text girls [Guide + Personal tips] Texting should be used for small 20 minute conversations and logistical reasons only. It's better to ask questions and get to know the girl on the date. So, you get her talking and that warms her up to you enough to sleep with you on the first or second time hanging out. Also, keep the first few dates cheap. Go for a walk on the first date and do coffee on the second. I found that cheapening up the dates didnt affect the womans interest. You want her liking you for you, no matter how much money …	/r/seduction	01/04/20 10:51 PM
2	Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes. Nawh man, you can still do it. I'm sure you're not actually a 4/10. Even with me, some girls will still find me unattractive. The point is that you honestly dont wanna drag conversations with women out, despite what you've been told. You just need to show your confidence and prove to her that its nothing for you to pull a dime	/r/seduction	01/04/20 10:02 PM
6	Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes. Most girls usually rate me a 9/10, so keep that in mind when I discuss this. Some girls will still see me as a 4/10, 2/10 and that's the approaches that I give up on quickly because I'm just not attractive in their eyes. The idea of the bold approach is that if you're a fairly good looking guy, literally introducing yourself to a girl and then asking her out right away really does work. The biggest mistake I made when I was learning to approach was having an actual conversation, which isnt neces…	/r/seduction	01/04/20 09:42 PM
8	How to apply the idea of taking attractive girls off a pedestal? I'm a couple of years younger than you. But one important thing from my experience is don't compliment a woman. You're already validating her by approaching her. So, you wanna have a conversation to build rapport and then suggest a date. Only then will you ask for the number. Dont ask for social media because those are huge validation apps and most of the time every girl is just looking for another follower on ig. Worst case scenario, give her your number and she'll text you if she's down. Getti…	/r/seduction	30/03/20 05:46 PM
1	How often should you text a girl? Like other people on here have said, it really depends. I'm in uni right now and from my experience with the women I've been with is that there's no definitive answer. Some women I've been with will say they hate texting a lot, some say they don't mind it, some say they really enjoy it. Then you have to consider their preferences in terms of conversation topics on top of that. Some will love to flirt over text, others won't. Same applies to in person, some girls just like to get straight to the …	/r/seduction	28/03/20 09:46 PM
1	Told a girl no today Make sure the police don't see you interacting with people like there's no Coronavirus going on. They're starting to fine any non essential companies 50k for staying open and finding people 1-5k, for not providing by social distancing rule. There will always be time to girls	/r/seduction	26/03/20 06:55 PM
1	How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you? I met a true dime in one of my classes and hooked up with her like a week ago, not long before the whole Corona outbreak. Gauging that with the other girls I've been with, I find that the ones truly into me will show a lot of signs of flirting and even start complimenting my looks right out of the gate. Girls do consider personality, but if a girl fucks with you on a physical level it's basically guaranteed sex. How many guys they've been with doesn't determine how they act in regards to this ei…	/r/seduction	26/03/20 05:41 AM
6	Theres a girl I have been friends with for 2 years and recently developed feelings for her, what should I do? Jesus 2 years? If I'm into a girl and she doesn't show signs within the first few days, I move on. If she's just a friend, she's probably staying that way	/r/seduction	14/03/20 02:48 AM
5	Takes balls and a lot of confidence to cold approach women It does. But it'll be nothing once you get into the 100s of cold approaches. It's mostly always a cold approach to get women at the end of the day. Whether it's school, work, out on the street, even social gatherings require a pretty cold approach. You can somewhat be familiar with a girl beforehand, but you still have to take the initiative and try to turn things sexual from those conversations you were having. Keep approaching bro and it'll be easy work for you a few months from now when you h…	/r/seduction	13/03/20 04:08 AM
-1	My tip when going for a first kiss (been successful with it recently) I've been on dates with hundreds of women and one thing I've learned is not to kiss unless she's over. Even though a lot of them were down for a kiss before that, I just don't see the point. The whole reason I even kiss a girl period is to initiate physical contact for sex. It also inadvertently made them enjoy it more, as the ones who wanted it had to wait to come over	/r/seduction	28/02/20 05:10 PM
-1	Interesting shit test yesterday Well she's a milf. She doesnt have the same sexual drive or energy like in her prime. No matter what age really, having a kid takes the energy out of most girls I know	/r/seduction	19/02/20 11:27 PM
1	Wrote a girl a note at my college, she texted back. Let's hope I get a date! Such a good method for approaching random girls on general tbh. No pressure type of situation, she likely finds you attractive so a W	/r/seduction	19/02/20 11:07 PM