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Hahahaha “I get to make them uncomfortable”. I really really like your energy and this strategy! I could not pretend to be sad about it, but I’ll give this answer a try sometime in the future just for fun 😂. I’m usually straight and put people in their place “I don’t want to be as poor as you with a stupid child”. I’m usually brutal about it and I get joy from it too. 😂 people need to learn is not their place to ask my any types of questions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:24 PM
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I will never mention because I don’t want to give material away to be manipulated, in case they happen to be trash. And trust me, they’ll use everything they can, everything you tell them about yourself. I also don’t tell other people because I don’t want to hear “you need to be less high maintenance or you’re going to die alone” or some bullshit excuse from pickmes. I don’t care for that. And I also don’t want to hear it from men because they love to neg and also tell you how you’re never going…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:10 PM
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I honestly, I don't say this as a joke, but If I had a boyfriend right now, I would be down for doing an experiment and seeing how they react. I would lie and pretend I'm addicted to porn and lock myself in the bathroom. I would pretend to be busy but in reality I would be watching youtube videos with headphones on. That's an hilarious joke. I would love to see the outrage!!! And I would do this for days! It would be funny. I mean, it's what they deserve... Edit: the autocorrect changed “bathroo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:55 AM
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Impatience in men is always a red flag for me. My narcissist ex was very impatient and that was a big problem in the relationship. I also never had a good experience with impatient men in general. It shows their entitlement to you, like I gotta have you and it has to be when I want it! So yes, take your time always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:55 PM
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Well, for my ex it was money and status. The narcissist is obsessed with money and titles. He dreamed about being a doctor but he is simply too stupid, never made it. Found a doctor and proposed after a year. Now they are married. She is not beautiful but she isnt ugly either. She is just not his type, he never dated a blonde, she is brunette with highlighted hair, but he never dated anyone who looked like her. But for narcs, status is ALWAYS more important than anything else. He is not aging ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:35 PM
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We don’t know. I read the article just now and it says Gigi and zayn are no longer together. Yolanda is not a bitch to be messed with so I wouldn’t be surprised at all if Zayn did something to Gigi. One thing I’ve noticed about Yolanda is that even though she is insane she is crazy about her kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:25 AM
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Oh yeah I hate that too. “Even Beyoncé got cheated on, we have no chance!” I see that a lot everywhere. They’ll abuse you no matter what. In fact, I think it’s much easier for beautiful (standard) women to be victims of narcissistic abuse. Specially women who went through a “glow up”. That is because when women are suddenly perceived as beautiful and the world starts treating you differently, they think men will value them more as well. Then when a man compliments her and love bombs her, she bel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:17 AM
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Gigi and zayn have split?? And oh yeah don’t get me started on Kylie. The amount of teenagers I’ve seen and women in their early 20s saying they want to become mothers because of Kylie…. I’m like you’re comparing your life to someone who is 1% of the population. Kylie has several nannies, chefs, cleaners, personal assistants, bodyguards and drivers. She doesn’t have to do shit! And I’m sure she is a great mother I’m not talking about her as a mother, I’m talking about why she looks so rested and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:11 AM
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Just the phrase “I Don’t know” triggers me so much as an answer. My narc ex would use it ALL THE TIME. Whenever I asked him questions that required truth or emotional intelligence and work. It was his favorite answer. I now DEMAND answers. Fucking answer yes or no or I’m walking away from it. “Do you want to break up?” “I don’t know”. “How do you feel about me?” “I don’t know”. “What do you want to do then?” “I don’t know”. Everything was I don’t know. I’m traumatized by this phrase. And notice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:25 AM
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Did you see the tiktok where a woman exposed that the guy was cheating? And they found the wife and she is leaving him! All because of tiktok. She was on a plane and he was racist to her, so when she got off the plane she posted the tiktok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:06 AM
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I've never faked an orgasm in my life and it was only later in life that I realized women did this quite often. For some reason, I never felt like I needed to pretend. I'm just not a good performer like that lol. And the best part is to see the look on their face when I don't have an orgasm and they cant help but ask "did you?" and I'm like no, isn't that obvious? I havent been with more than 15 men I think, but out all of them, only 2 helped me have an orgasm. The other ones never even had a ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:57 PM
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Awesome!! Happy for you 💙🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:18 PM
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It seems to be the case. They marry who is available and whoever has the potential to become a great personal assistant. My ex (narc) married the girl who seems to be the most generic, desperate to get married because she is older than him and checks all of his boxes in terms of money and career. She has his dream career and I believe it's what drove the proposal, besides money. They marry whomever they notice that will take their bullshit without standing up for themselves. Whoever has the most…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:00 PM
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The narcissist that got away. (thank God)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:47 PM
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She said on a podcast interview that her first year of marriage was THE HARDEST. I was like ooohhhh nooo… if it’s this hard the first year, imagine years from now. Sadly, Hailey is the girl that only got picked because she puts up with all his bullshit and terrible behavior. Selena clearly did not, that’s why they couldn’t work out. She made it very clear what she didn’t like, that his behavior was terrible and abusive etc. Hailey is a pickmeisha that will waste her 20s and her beauty on a man t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:05 PM
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If you spend a while browsing the /narcissisticabuse sub you'll see that this is a very common pattern with narcs. But non-narcs as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:33 AM
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About the comment on WhatsApp. In my country everyone uses WhatsApp, exclusively. No one here does text, so keep that in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:25 PM
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Never go 50/50, because even when he pays, you’re already at a loss 99% of the time. Don’t settle for LVM. There’s no downside of not settling, but settling for the wrong guy can wreck your life forever and you could be happier going alone and enjoying life. Dying alone should not be something you fear. Keep your standards and a happy life. Better than lowering your standard and moving in with a problem that will just drain you. Women don’t need men, but they need us for a lot they know it, reme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:50 PM
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Yes to all of this. I'm so glad and proud of myself for only having tried to teach a man how to treat me ONCE. I had one relationship when I was a teen and spent the entire course of the relationship trying to teach him how I deserved to be treated and trying to stop the lying, abuse, manipulation, psychological abuse and torture. Guess what? DIDN'T WORK. It never does!!! It's not only a poor investment of women's time, but also a NO RETURN investment. It's actually a negative value investment b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:14 PM
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Yes. To me the whole thing was just SAD. She could leave and be with anyone she wants. She stayed because she wanted to prove to him that she is the best etc. Which she didnt have to AT ALL. Who knows what goes on behind close doors but I'm assuming she never cheated on him. Otherwise why bother. But it's not empowerment. People are so blinded. Indoctrinated. Forgiveness is just not a thing in my life. I'm soooo against the whole idea of forgiveness because it's basically "forgive people, be goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:59 AM
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I can't. Whenever you comment on anything regarding the cheatation situation people go WILD on you on social media. It's just sooooo depressing. I still cant believe she is happy with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:54 AM
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Exactly. There's no point in explaining or teaching anything. Someone's character doesn't change overnight just because you told them something. Waste of time. Also soooo much easier to leave before falling for them and being attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:15 PM
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Congratulations for leaving a narcissist. I know it’s not easy. And yes, they don’t see women as people, everyone is just supply. That’s why they move on so fast. And of course he is on sex delivery apps, they want speed, the faster he can get supply the better. Supply is oxygen for a narcissist. You dodged it by leaving it. Nothing they do is real. And it has nothing to do with who you are. It doesn’t matter how amazing someone is, narcs gonna narc. Take time and heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:08 AM
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This is painfully accurate. My ex narcissist was constantly looking for someone better. I became severely anxious because I could feel it. He knew I was one level above him because a) it was obvious b) people told him. That planted this idea to him that he was hot. One day he wanted to become a model lol, of course he didnt. He wasnt even tall. When I finally got rid of him for good, he only dated ugly people and even I couldn't believe it. Once he realized he couldnt do better than me, he chase…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:34 PM
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This is a RULE for me. NEVER EVER SAVE A MAN. I dont believe people change. They just become more of who they are and mature, sometimes. In this case, I see rehab in his future. I also dont believe in saving men from their own mistakes, not even small mistakes. If a guy acts a certain way, pathetic, is stupid, an asshole, I'm not teaching him ANYTHING. I'm moving on. I also dont believe in telling men where they did me wrong (they'll put a mask in front of you and pretend they changed so you sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:29 PM
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