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| 303 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer with a fondness for rope bondage is done with hookups. | Cock Carousel Rider | Lando_620 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 35 | Nothing says, "godly" woman more than a chest tattoo, ample amounts of underboob and a bastard child. Couldn't fit it in...but good vibes and serious intentions are a must for her. | Lando_620 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/21 04:53 PM | |
| 3 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer who enjoys rope bondage is done with hookups. | Lando_620 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/21 06:37 PM |
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| 3 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?If you have truly never been on a date my guess is one thing keeps happening. You are subtly discouraging men from interacting with you or directly asking you out. This may not be intentional. Keep in mind over half of men don't know how to approach or will avoid asking directly...at least until they have some positive feedback from you. If you are failing to realize this when a guy does approach, like your mom said, then you will never get asked. I only have this post to go off of, but your ton… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/23 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Do men actually like nice girls?Being nurturing, friendly and submissive and being a doormat to be walked all over are not the same. Nurturing, friendly and submissive is an energy and outlook to your life that will put you in a positive state of mind and as a man I can attest it is my preference in a partner. The core issue as I can see it from your post is both dynamics you describe are one-sided dynamics just with either you or him as the focus. Be it friendship or romance one-sided dynamics never work. The thing is, you ne… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/22 02:44 PM |
| 5 | College dating advice needed, nearly 20 years old with zero luckStep one, stop crushing yourself so much and if you feel the need to do so, try to learn how to do so in a playful way. Aubrey Plaza or Anna Kendrick are great examples of different ways to turn awkwardness into charm. Step two, project more positivity in general, even if you need to just start with your appearance. Try adding a splash of color (yellow, pinks, light blue/purple/teal) to your outfits or include more feminine pieces. Not saying you have to be in a yellow sundress 24/7, though if y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Fiance wants to exercise his options but I don't want to be cheated onFirst, spring that on you now is shitty, he could have at least said it when he proposed so you had an idea of what you would be saying yes to. Second, a good leader makes wise choices for the better of themselves and their partner. This is why it is important for a women to find a man with good morals & wisdom. If he knew this was your stance and just expects you to follow suit that is not a good sign. Side note, it can be argued that some men very cheating differently between the sexes as the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Am I ready to leave nun mode?First you seem in a decent place so I think you're mental ready to date. Second, if you really want to marry and have kids you waited pretty long to start the search. Not trying to be mean but the date suggests around 28 women tend to get less attention from men, by 32 it will be a fraction of what it was at 22-26. So time is not your friend. Third, by all means do dating apps if you don't mind the amount of work to filter and you don't get overwhelmed with options. As I guy though, everyone I'v… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 11 | Not sure how to explain this to my boyfriend.Yes, as part two of that statement was you either pay or be willing to voice (calmly or politely) that you should split 50/50. Ideally that should happen when you ask them to go. (I.E. Hey babe, lets grab drinks, my treat. OR Hey babe, do you want to go split some drinks at bar X?) How you invite matters. Your post gives the impression that you refused his first offer to split the bill, and then at drinks you "didn't want to talk about it". In other follow ups, you seem to be engaged to him and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 20 | Not sure how to explain this to my boyfriend.So you invited him out to dinner because you wanted a date night? While on that dinner date he jokes and says you got this babe, then later offers to pay half, to which you refuse. You then invite him to drinks, again because you want to, and again get mad because you have to pay. If you invite someone you should pay or at least be willing to voice that you want to split 50/50. If you can't do either of those, don't invite someone out. You seem very entitled, or like you just want to pick a figh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/22 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Porn AddictionIt takes roughly 30 days of not watching for the pathways to reset in your mind. That should help with you feeling more satisfied. However, your mental pathways are one things but if you enjoy those videos beyond that, then it is something you will have to manage or seek help for. Porn is very addictive, and it effects most men that watch it by lowering their overall drive and causes weaker or trouble staying aroused during real sex...as their brain is wired to feel their hand and view porn. For… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 4 | How do you feel about "settling" for someone?Is his face unattractive or is it just the weight? If your only issue is his weight, then just have a direct conversation about getting healthier. Plan for the two of you to workout and eat better. Not saying you eat poorly now, but if you do it would help you build good habits for later on when your metabolism slows down a bit. This will clue him in that you do see long term potential with him, and he should respond at least reasonably well since you're well intentioned and it is something for … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Design the ideal woman for this man?I mean you can think what you want, but all the data shows that at a macro level that is what men want. Especially, if OP is correct and he is a virgin or low sex experience guy, he will want a partner that is the same and a highly attractive women doesn't really make it to her mid to late 20s without a couple relationships. (according to the data on virginity rates) Beyond that if he is traditional and wants a bigger family like he had (3+ kids) dating anyone over 26 is unlikely, given courtshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 11:04 PM |
| 8 | Design the ideal woman for this man?Her: Age 21-24 Probably college but not career focused (SAHM) type. Height: (any / his preference) The more attractive the better, but low body count /not slutty. Personality: anything fun & joyful. Same values and worldview. Honestly, he can basically have anyone, so if you want him make yourself clearly available and interested but not clingy/needy. You just have to take a risk and maybe he will find what he wants in you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Straight men and women being friends - advice please!Straight men and straight women can be friends but it is very rare and you need to understand that. If either party was already in a relationship at the start of the friendship and still is, then that helps but doesn't mean there is no alternative motive for one side. You basically need both a women who isn't interested, (not super hard to find) and a guy that isn't interested (very uncommon). The reason it is so difficult is because typically the less interested one party is in a sexual relatio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | This might be a little controversial butAny guy wanting to be cucked is due to emasculation, and typically very low testosterone levels. With any race dynamic it can also be a bit of a fetish. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The whole "chad meme" shows that guys are often very insecure about themselves... and it's kinda sadI wasn't talking about online compliments, those basically are meaningless for the reason you stated. I meant only ones in real where they actually require sincerity and effort to give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/22 06:35 PM |
| 15 | The whole "chad meme" shows that guys are often very insecure about themselves... and it's kinda sadA few things about it, as I think you're viewing this through the female lens. One, most guys don't joke or even communicate in the same way women do. I would bet that most other men think the Chad meme is more a critique of the warped idol that most modern young women have, not as a standard they have to live up to. We have to be realistic from childhood, nobody is going to cater to us. Two, guys obviously do struggle with self perception just like everyone else. However, most women have no clu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Your husband comes before your children. Almost always.I agree. I've viewed it like this. In a marriage you're a team, your partner is in essence an extension of yourself. You can't neglect a part of yourself without doing your whole harm. Just like planes you have to put your mask on first before helping others. If you neglect your partner (husband or wife) in favor of even kids first, you will ultimately cause the kids greater harm in the long term. Are there going to be extreme examples of this that cause neglect of the children, certainly, you c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 12:55 PM |
| 10 | New to this.The redpill, in short, is making a choice to awaken to the reality (in this case the male female dynamic) verse the bluepill, which is staying in the propaganda / misinformation facade that has taken root of society. (mostly feminism ideas in this case but even some traditional notions.) Now the specifics of this forum, or others tend to deal with more how you/that group decides to approach life after that choice. Though there is still some minor debate between groups on some of the specifics, s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/22 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Is body count real?That is fine, and those may work on most guys, but again some will be able to tell. In person, people have a lot of tells, and the more experience someone has with people the more likely they are going to be able to discern lies. ...also I'm not just alluding to promiscuous stories from your life. Your past is your total lived experience and you will have qualities that bleed into all other facets. It is your choice, just I don't believe it will be as easy as you suggest. Honesty is about confro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Is body count real?Nobody but you can stop you, but it is about more than choosing a fake number. First, lying to a partner, if you truly want to build trust is problematic. You will always have to filter the stories of your past and may slip up and destroy the relationship. Most people are not very good at lying. Like 99% of the time I here an obese person talk about how they are dieting but not losing weight, they tend to reveal themselves. A simple inquiry about their diet and typically I can tell they're lying… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Refused redpill. Now My boyfriend wants to break up with meFirst, a few things I noticed from your post. You claim to have been a hardcore feminist because of work...that is an excuse. You didn't see the value of femininity & traditional traits which is fine, just you need to admit that to yourself as it may be a factor to why he doesn't see you as a wife. He doesn't owe you an engagement/marriage. Quality of time is more important than quantity of time. You seem to have a very self-centric view of you dynamic with this man, even wanting to take credit … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Which sites are best for online dating and when is the age when men are looking for marriage?If you are being serious, then any paid site or one that lets you see who is paying for it will probably be better then the free ones for LTR. As for the guys, there is no hard age, it is really a mindset you are going to have to screen for. My advice for someone your age is to focus on homely skills and femininity for a year or so. While doing that, you can causally date one man from each of the following groups, ideally for at least 3-6 months each. Group one, guys 20-24. Group two, guys 25-28… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/22 03:13 AM |
| 7 | Feel like I messed up in lifeI'm saying in a greater perspective. You are in the field so it seems like there are plenty of women in the field that do it. My point is in overall society it is not a very conducive path to the SAHM life, when compared to the sea of other options. Regardless of being able to work part time or not, it is a massive amount of debt to take on for a part time or no job future. The OP may want more kids then the people you know, or she may want to continue being a SAHM for longer. Having that massiv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Feel like I messed up in lifeMy advice, decide which is more import. If that is the SAHM life then find a cheaper school to reduce your debt. If you like the medical field try to switch to like billing or admin side. Something where the bit your already learned might prove useful but you don't need to be a medical student. This would mean switching your major to business, accounting or something along those lines. Once you do that you should be able to reduce your debts very quickly, You may be able to try and reconnect wit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 11:04 AM |
| 6 | Feel like I messed up in lifeIf she never gets to have the kids, which is OPs concern, then her "experience" as you say doesn't matter. Realistically, being a doctor is probably one of the worst "back ups" someone wanting to be a SAHM could pick. Which is what OP is conflicted over. - Ideally, you would want a field that only requires or uses a 4 year degree. (medical tends to be in the 6-8 range.) - Med school is massive debt and allows little time to date while completing it which makes it hard to multitask. (Plus if a ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 10:54 AM |
| 5 | bf says he feels rushedWell, for one you should be married before having kids, especially with this guy. Given his age & history, if he hasn't proposed and set a date for a wedding, then chances are he is still carrying baggage from his ex who repeatedly cheated. You could be waiting a very long time for him to come around given he already has two kids...he won't feel any real personal need to have more in a timely manner. You're basically just going to be waiting around. Golden rule is to listen to actions not words,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | About Emma WatsonI mean there are certainly outliers in every group that think that way sure. The majority though don't, that doesn't even fit the trad concept. Having a traditional family for multiple generations leads to massive family gatherings. Women in that sense are often the pillar around such events as they are the bearers of the food for such events. Food is the easiest way for people to gather thus the rich tradition of food in large family settings. Women are the more social of the sexes so tend to b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/22 02:37 PM |
| 10 | About Emma WatsonI think that some certainly are mocking her in that manner, however, I didn't see that as the primary message. I saw it as less of a be fearful of aging and more a critique on how these lefty ideas seem to poison ones an entire mentality and that often bleeds into their physical health. It is like an artificial accelerator of the aging process thus they look more sickly or withered. I think Ellen Page is a much better example of this as she literally looks drugged out walking zombie...this conce… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating established men as 19fMy advice, skip the dating apps and find an activity that appeals to you and would have men. Second, I tell all 18-21 year old women, decide what type of man appeals to you by dating a guy in each of the following age ranges; 18-23, 24-27, and 28-32. The reason is because as a women you have to decide if you like betting on a mans future potential or going with a known factor. Each age bracket tends to be tier up for men in pursuing their purpose and becoming more of a known asset. During this t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 12 | Men marry out of love or convenienceBoth are true, but because they represent different tiers of men. The top like 2% of men tend to not marry/stay married or cheat/open relationship. They are the third group and rules mostly don't apply to them as there are always some women willing to break the dating rules for them. So the first group you are looking at are the men who are like the top 15-3% of men, these men can typically find romantic partners and may marry but will only do so for "love/the right fit" as they have the choice … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/22 02:58 AM |
| 4 | What do you guys think?Introverted men are not always beta's but they tend to have far less experience with women and thus are more likely blue pilled. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/22 04:21 PM |
| 10 | MonogamyFirst your post & comments are a pain to read, use punctuation please. Second, it sounds kind of like you already know what you want to do...to stay with him. Your post & comments acknowledge his read flags, most of which he openly stated to you...yet you defend him in a manner that suggests you came here looking for validation in continuing the relationship not advice on what to do. Ultimately, if people don't want to change don't waste time trying to change them. It won't happen. That leaves y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/22 12:43 PM |
| 4 | Is being in the medical field an obstacle to a healthy love life ?The most universal advice is just to tell you to prioritize the thing you want most. If what you want above all else is to be married and have kids you should typically be investing the most time into attaining that goal. If you want to be nurse/doctor above everything else you should prioritize that first. Basically, ask yourself what will be most important to you in 5/10/20 years and put the bulk of you effort into that. A side note. As a man it is a fairly common assumption (which my own expe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible for one of us to be healthy while the other is terribly unhealthy?It can be hard if someone else in the house is buying/making bad food, but shouldn't stop you from trying. As for the health aspect...the biggest thing is to find what you can do consistently. I first tried the standard low fat diet they always seem to promote. I was hungry all the time, like I could eat 1000 calories and be hungry in an hour (6'4 and pretty active). So for me it was keto and I've been on it for like 4 years now. I don't do it to lose weight I do it because I honestly have never… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on prenup?Look every marriage basically has a prenup, just it is the default one the state provides. From a guys perspective that basic government agreement is a shit deal as the data shows they overwhelming favor the woman/wife. Honestly, I think every couple should draft a prenup together. It will reinforce the terms of the marriage and each others commitment. Both parties will enter with a greater knowledge of the vows they are making. This is good for both parties as you can have in it an actual fault… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/22 01:22 PM |
| 21 | Learning to communicate better?It sounds like you are not his peace at home. If he is always choosing the games/friends to decompress over you, he finds you taxing. You say yourself you are also passive aggressive in some of your communication which is poor behavior for an adult. Next time he goes to game, just say, "Babe, I'm going to do the dishes (laundry or whatever). Ask if he needs anything (beer, chips, or what not)." After he answer bring it for him then say you'd like it if you guys could (cuddle, watch a show, read … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/22 04:56 AM |
| 4 | Any dating online sites that are safe?Is possible to meet a marriage minded man on a dating app...yes, but it is highly improbable. Best thing is to look for groups that meet up to do an activity you are interested in doing. I went with ballroom/swing dancing but anything that will have a mix of men & women will work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Gentlemen, line up for this absolute QueenWants to be treated like a queen but speaks like a child raised by wolves. You better have a college degree though, she needs a real man after all. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/22 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Will my behavior/style prevent me from finding a man who would be interested in me?I think the key is just to still have a few feminine edges to your appearance. You don't have to a bunch of yellow sun dresses or anything. Black, red & white are the most striking color set and known for sexiness so just because you like dark colors or black isn't an issue. Dark blues & purples are also typically attractive and should fit in your preferred color style. Conversely, your can do a half/half mix. Like if you want to wear pants you can maybe do a more blousy / frilly feminine top...… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this.Yes, that is why men control or choose who gets commitment. The more women that throw their choice of sexual access at a man the less likely that specific man is to commit...because he is getting what he wants in the biological mating dynamic. Thus the traditional arrangement was no sex till marriage. In essence an agreement to give both men and women what they want at the same time. (Sex for commitment) Thus the core problem today is the destruction of the traditional arrangement actually hurts… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/22 02:40 AM |
| 3 | The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this.Your mom getting dates at 60 though is purely for companionship...people are social creatures so that is always a component. The concept of the wall is related to a long term pairing specifically with the idea of a family. That is why biologically men are wired for youthful preferences in women. If you want a family with kids you have to follow that drive in men. Thus the wall is simply when most men stop seeing a women in that light. (Side note, women are not the universal choosers in the human… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 10 | The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this.A common perspective difference seems to be tripping you up. Women tend to look at the possibility of things (hopeful). I.E a friend of mine is 32 and she found a good man, so the wall must be at 35 or older, I got plenty of time since I'm 28." Men tend to see the probability of things. I.E If she is 32 and we want multiple kids we could struggle by the time we date, get engaged and married. This is why the concept of the wall is not a set exact value. Each women will have her own set of traits … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/22 12:38 AM |
| 9 | The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this.If things are going good for you than that is great. The concept of the wall though is not a hard and fast age. Some women have personality that breaks through and some people just age better for a number of various reason...plus all guys have a different preference. The core idea is simply, there comes an age were the majority of men no longer pursue a women...that is her wall moment. If you are happy with your state in life and current direction/pace then good for you. I would simply say your … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/22 11:02 PM |
| 12 | The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this.Jack Murphy is a wolf wrapped in sheep wool. He is a false redpill guy and total piece of shit in my opinion. The only types of guys who actually seem to believe in a wall around 25 are like Leo DiCaprio. Last I knew he had like 4 girl friends in a row that were model types who he dated until they turned 24-25. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | There’s a calculator that shows how much you are marriage materialIt is just something you should look at for fun/laughs. It is not detailed enough to be accurate, and is off on some core values. (Like I'm 6'4" at 220 pounds and very fit, yet when I put that in it says I'm over weight with a high BMI. I wear a 32 waist pant...not even remotely chunky.) Beyond that, while some core things are universal and will up your appeal, there is a ton of nuance when it comes to fitting with a partner. Any test like this can only give you generally feedback. Which can con… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/22 01:08 AM |
| 12 | Where to meet men?Best way is to find an group activity that has a mix of men & women. It will give you a common ground starter to conversation as you both like said activity, which should help your shy/anxious nature. I started ballroom / swing dance at 25 as an overweight anti-social guy, it helped me with a lot in life to become a better person so I always recommend it. A plus side for you would be these types of dances allow for causal but paired short interactions. Men will mostly ask you to dance so no pres… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/22 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Need Advice and Reassurance (Age Gap Relationship)Ask yourself what you are really wanting in a relationship. (Because from your description you give the impression that you're not looking for a committed long term relationship/marriage.) Age gaps are normally fine and I would say you could do really well looking at men 30-35, but at more than a 25 year gap it tends to be a trade of wealth/youth and not a real relationship. Golden rule is to believe actions not words, empty promises are just that until proven otherwise. Likewise, he could consi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 3 | I’m worried he will cheat againI would say you both were a little naive. It sounds like you guys claimed bf/gf status before actually meeting up...that is just silly IMO. Beyond that, long distance relationships don't work...data just doesn't support trying to pursue one. He has lost your trust and honestly, if you get back with him he will lose what respect for you he does have. Best to just move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you date in a very liberal city?If you are more libertarian minded you could try New Hampshire...home of the free state project. It is a very limited government state in a lot of ways. This would also keep you moderately close to New York if you don't mind driving a couple hours to see your family. Texas, Georgia or Tennessee are pretty good. If you specifically want a city. I live northside of Atlanta Georgia, and it is pretty good here. You can have access to a major city but I would stay in the Woodstock/Roswell/Alpharetta … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/22 12:24 PM |
| 22 | How do you date in a very liberal city?Most conservative / traditional minded people have been fleeing big lefty cities since covid...especial in lefty states. I would say honestly, it probably isn't worth the time to even look there, you'd be better to work on moving yourself. That said, if you must, probably political groups/events (conservative ones) or perhaps a religious community of your choice. You already prefer older so that should help too. For real though, leave NYC it is only going to get worse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Understanding "lady game"smv = sexual market value (essential just physical beauty & health) cmv = commitment market value (basically the feminine motherly traits & qualities) rmv = romantic market value (I consider this the combination of your smv & cmv) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Understanding "lady game"Well, first we need to agree that lady game is getting commitment, and getting sex is guy game, as that is what is difficult for both parties to get. So sexual market value will be important but you will need commitment market value to get commitment more or less regardless of how attractive/sexy you are. Your full romantic value is a sum of your commitment value and sexual value. Everyone's job in life is to increase/maintain both of those to their best ability and then match those with an opti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/21 03:22 PM |
| 15 | How To Deal With Not Feeling Like You Belong Anywhere? (because of your values)Typically, the younger a person the more liberal and the older the more conservative. The vast majority of youthful liberal ideals are worthless...failed notions of hopeful ignorance. The vast majority of conservative principles are wisdom...acquired from experience in the real world or passed down from those before us. Now, both are needed in human society, otherwise you get a bloated liberal utopia that crumbles under it's own weight or a purely rigid conservative dystopia. The main issue toda… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/21 06:03 AM |
| 4 | How do you stop a man from taking you for granted?In my opinion, he has checked out. In any relationship dynamic (friendly or romantic) you have two types...active and passive involvement. Active is someone who seeks interaction, be it being the first to text/call, setting up meets or whatever. Passive is someone who lets all the interaction find them. This balance doesn't have to be 50/50 as some people are just better at it than others but if you find yourself at like 95+ % of the active side than your dynamic has an issue. These are basicall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 4 | New mom feeling resentfulSome people enjoy cooking, like myself, it actually helps me unwind...my point was if she enjoys something like that it could be a nice adult based activity to help her relax. Why would he need supervision with his own kid, if he wants to be involved he is learning just the same as she is, as it is their first kid. If you mean with cooking, I personally am a far better cook then like every women I've dated so assuming he is bad at things is an unhelpful perspective to have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | New mom feeling resentfulI didn't say you did, just that you may...not everyone is the same, my sister struggled with leaving her first kid in another persons care, even with her husband. My point was just that your issue is probably a result of both you and your partner being new parents and you both are contributing to it. It was merely to suggest some self reflection and help you communicate your needs to each other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/21 12:09 PM |
| 10 | New mom feeling resentfulMost men will double down on work when a kid comes...we are wired to provide resources so it feels like our duty. (A lot of careers, the social events are massively important so I don't think him at a holiday party is anywhere near the same as a bar/club part or guys night.) Secondly, if he encouraged you to go to your holiday party and you didn't...you may have an issue with letting go of responsibility or in communicating with him. Lastly, if he helps when he is home, he wants to be involved/a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/21 02:30 AM |
| 7 | Do men really want to get married?Just going to give my male perspective, I can't speak for your guy. In the current day marriage is only worth the risk for men if they want kids, and even that is a massive ask. So I would only marry a lady if I want kids with her and honestly, I can vet/work that out in 6-12 months fairly easily. So I would say it is unlikely he really has a desire for those things with you. That means you basically have to decide which risk you want to take. That you stay the course with this man and maybe end… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/21 02:13 AM |
| 18 | Do you have a redpill role model that you draw inspiration fromOne of the best I've seen in a TV show is Anna from Downton Abbey. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/21 11:25 AM |
| 11 | How do I navigate dating, vetting, as a 21F with 0 experience with men?First, I would suggest finding a group/club that meets for something new but interesting to you. Preferably something with a mix of men & women. (I did ballroom/swing dancing which I highly recommend, but just something you're interested in learning/doing.) Now that you have a social setting to explore, I would try to not go on a date with anyone until you've at least interacted with them 3+ separate times at said activity. This will give you a chance to practice some social skills like flirting… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/21 06:12 AM |
| 4 | Honey or Vinegar?For men and women you have to balance confidence with temperance or you become arrogant/entitled. Long term nobody wants that in a partner. A good leader must listen to those that follow them just as a good follower must share their voice. If the leader ignores those that follow the dynamic becomes abusive and self surviving. That same result happens if the follower doesn't voice their goals / boundaries. If both parties are doing their role they will start to build trust and their dynamic will … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Honey or Vinegar?Their is a big difference between having boundaries and being rude or a bitch. That big difference tends to be entitlement and neither myself or any of my guy friends want an entitled woman as a long term partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Honey or Vinegar?In my experience women that act like that are either; A: very attractive with a ton of entitlement as a result of too much attention/validation. B: they are less attractive women who joined the feminist cult because they didn't get the level of attention/validation they felt like they deserved. I'm 34 now, but when I was in my mid-late twenties I learned I was consider pretty attractive for a guy. (6'4", moderately athletic, blue eyes, 8/10 face) I would specifically go after these rude attracti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 03:01 PM |
| 3 | If he never comes to you with his problems, how can you still be a soft place to land?As a guy I'm going to say why I don't vent my problems to my partner. Namely, men and women tend to approach challenges differently. It is a very common trope to have women vent to their boyfriend because they just want to be heard, but the guy then goes and tries to fix and it...which leads to shenanigans. See men tend to self process and tackle challenges. Women on the other hand vent, sometimes wanting advice, sometimes wanting help, and sometimes just wanting to be heard so they can release … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 14 | Anyone else have anxiety getting back into sex post lockdown?Porn can cause this problem in men, the more they use it, the worse it can be. I say this because dating overall has not been super easy during covid so your guy could have started using porn more during the lockdowns. If he stops watching it will correct itself in like 3-4 weeks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 9 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?Simply put, don't say things. Words mean nothing in comparison to actions, actions are the truth of things. You can typically get some idea of a man's success through careful observation and without directly asking or talking about it. Beyond that things like baking small treats/snacks, or offering to help clean up after a get together/party are the sort of little actions that show you offer more to a partnership. A women wanting a man that is successful is not automatically a gold digger. A gol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Cultivating happinessObviously selfcare is a main way to boost happiness, which I'm sure others have covered. For me though the primary thing that increases my happiness is when I'm in pursuit of purposeful boon. Completing actions that I feel give or contribute to my purpose always brings me the greatest happiness. Admittedly, I'm a guy so I would guess some of the things that give me purpose are different from you, but I would imagine the overall result is similar. Anyway, doesn't have to be big, something like tr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are men attracted to innocence?I'm struggle to understand want exactly your point is. Given your account name, I question earnest intent to converse, but I will give you the benefit of the doubt. 1: If you are talking about sexual innocence, then the only time it is "ripped" away it is by definition a crime. As a crime, that would mean it is NOT acceptable behavior. Thus your comment holds zero conversational value in this regard because it frames it in bad with what the culture already deems unacceptable. 2: The far more com… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 15 | How to ask subtly the men you are seeing if they are interested in you for a meaningful ltr or not?I don't personally like online dating. That said, the key things to making it work in my opinion are as follows: 1: Transition off the app as soon as possible for those you have interest in. Have an actual phone or video call...will weed out a ton of bad matches. Plus text is the worst form of communication especially if you don't know someone. 2: Meet in person as soon as you feel reasonable comfortable to do so. Chemistry is not the same in person as it is through tech. 3: Don't sext if you wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Why are men attracted to innocence?Men pursue as that is our biological role. Women's role is being the selector. The selector entire function is to protect said rarity in exchange for what they seek, which is long term commitment. The fewer people she selects the higher her rarity...it is not a zero or nothing sort of thing. (Also, the sexual innocence of men matters far less as men are not the arbiters of sex.) Second, the issue with the dating market is the free sex / quantity mentality culture that is promoted to women. That … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/21 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Why are men attracted to innocence?I mean that is true to an extent but the macro data seems to suggest that fathers in general have a massive positive influence. Girls with fathers tend to have sex at an older age (+2.8 years last I looked). They are less likely to date abusive men or stay in toxic relationships and they on average marry at younger ages. Beyond that, all kids with a two parent household are more likely to finish school, make a higher average salary, less likely to commit crime, and less likely to have children o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 64 | Why are men attracted to innocence?I'm going to list my thoughts and that should at least give you a bit of perspective on it. 1: Innocence is rare because the real world destroys innocence. Men know this as we have to face the world as part of the male role. The female role however is different and so women have an emotional affinity that is great for raising children. The downside is, that affinity makes women more vulnerable to emotional wear/damage, namely from the strife of said world. 2: Since innocence is rare, it triggers… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | How to repair damage I caused by all my lies?I'm not sure if you are in some sort of limbo with him now or what your end goal seems to be. It reads like you want him to move past this and for you guys to get back together. That is a bit delusional, you broke the trust and honestly I don't see why he would take you back. IMO if a woman has an affair it is done. His brain may be trying to put pieces together and sort it out but in all likelihood he knows it is over and just hasn't processed enough to cut you off yet. If your goal is truly to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 03:43 PM |
| 10 | How do I stay slim in this household? Has anyone had problems with compulsive eating?For me I found keto to be highly effective. A high fat diet kills urges to consume. Sugar & carbs don't last very long, like when eating carbs I could eat 1000 calories of pasta and be hungry in like 3 hours. On keto if I eat 2 crowns of broccoli with 4 spoons of olive oil & garlic it is about 800 calories and I'm good for like 8 hours. Additionally, find a solution to your core problem. If you're eating for anxiety you need to address that source. Therapy in whatever why you desire is needed. Y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 02:34 PM |
| 22 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?I think the key is to not let yourself adopt a defeated mindset. Do your best to be healthy, and to live in the moments you can, the best that you can. It will be a challenge, as is life. If possible you could have a sense of humor about, play of parts of it like you're that delicate female stereotype while doing your best to not be. If you're upbeat and honest about your weaknesses people will come to admire the strength of your effort. Socially awkward people like Aubrey Plaza or Emilia Clarke… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 14 | Are older men (late 20’s - 30ish) really at their peak value? I feel like many have emotional baggage from ex(es) and won’t really fall in love with me (asking as early 20’s)?So ideally yes, 26-34 is the prime for men. They will typically have found a path by then and be well on it, which allows them to provide the things women typically look for. Since the female prime is 20-26 you have two strategies you can follow. You can use your intuition like a crystal ball and bet on a guy your age becoming what you want. This has the advantage of the strongest possible pair bond between you two. Building together is something most women won't do now, they just wait at the fi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 0 | “What would you do if we were in a zombie apocalypse?”Guess that is where we differ. I see it as a pathway to improve ones ability to think critically and analyze information. I was merely attempting to do so using her example. I will try to avoid more rabbit hole critiques in the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | “What would you do if we were in a zombie apocalypse?”Going to guess it was more to do with the other (now hidden or removed) comment that said something along the lines of her boyfriend was stupid for not saying they needed to go buy guns immediately and that she should find a new boyfriend. Yes, I criticize because I enjoy giving and receiving critiques. If someone doesn't want such things they probably shouldn't post. I kept all my of comment focused on the concept of a zombie plan. I didn't personally attack her or her choice of boyfriend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/21 11:58 AM |
| 36 | The Wall or never learned to compete for men?I would say that is a secondary factor. The primary concept of the wall is based on the fact that men universally find young women (18-28 with 22-23 being the peak) more alluring. It is not so much that women become unattractive suddenly at 30. I think of it more like women lose the youthful glow that triggers the primal compulsion to breed in the male brain. I would wager that collagen is a key factor in this youthful glow, but also her hormone levels especial when in her fertility window...whi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The Male Dual Mating Strategy: Understanding the Theory [Part 1]Thanks, it is similar to my own. I prefer my definition though as the one you put forth in the link there seems to aim for a 50/50 (bullets from a list sort of idea) for a mirrored split of traits. That means it is operating in a completely separate definition framework from the greater culture of how men or RP use the terms...which is not ideal for clarity. Attraction and comfort as they put it which is essential masculinity & femininity from the point of view of a women. (The masculine being h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/21 05:54 PM |
| 0 | The Male Dual Mating Strategy: Understanding the Theory [Part 1]If there are alpha and beta traits then the logical conclusion is that at some point an individual has enough of those, be it just a simple majority of 51% or total extreme at 100%, that you could label them as alpha or beta as that is the core of their traits. I think we do have different definitions. I consider alpha or alpha traits those that emulate the masculine and leadership that inspires/attracts people (especially women). Having money/resources is one of those and it carries with it typ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The Male Dual Mating Strategy: Understanding the Theory [Part 1]My critique would be that the female mating strategy is quality. It only really became a duel strategy in modern times. It is not because they think beta bucks are better, as real alpha's have bucks too. They do beta bucks because most modern women shop well outside of their value for a relationship and end up single with an alpha kid. Their duel strategy is a solution to them then having to settle for any beta bucks to gain some support for their poor choices. Biologically speaking, men's strat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Almost 25 never had a bf, is this a red flag?I wouldn't tell men that you've never had a boyfriend. Assuming you are at least mildly attractive, any man that women typically want will know how easy causal dating is for women. Just my perspective but if I see a woman who is very socially active, attractive and 25 I'm going to assume she has had chances with men. That would mean if none of those men ever considered her for commitment at even a girlfriend level, then something might...and I stress might be wrong with her. Your best bet is jus… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/21 03:34 PM |
| -2 | My boyfriend of 6 months is on the verge of abuse when it comes to my diet; yet is very charming and affectionate at the same time. How would you react?This is the same as all the meat is murder vegan types. They bully instead of leading by example and giving actual encouragement. If you have the right ideas, people will generally follow if you model & encourage them...but you can't force others to change, they have to want to do it, so he is just being abusive/tyrannical. I personally follow keto, so I agree with his diet itself, but his methods are actually destructive to getting more people to eat better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women?Primary reason is the biological wiring of men's role in the mating dynamic. Men are supposed to plant their seed in any soil they can, which is a quantity strategy. Women conversely are the selectors of sex. Having to carry the burden/vulnerability of childbearing, thus they want the best men, which is a quality strategy. Beyond that, common reasons; are less combative as men want peace at home, less baggage as men don't want to pay off massive debt or carry additional burdens that are not thei… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 13 | New here! Truely have a question so please don't jump down my throat if I phrase something incorrectly or used the wrong flair. Are ugly women allowed to be RPW?The most important thing in RP is typically awareness/self improvement. For women that will mean some different goals but it is not primarily being physically attractive. The main thing for women is about embracing actual femininity. You should learn what traits outside of sex, men actually find attractive. Now, looks do matter to the vast majority of men, but men also tend to be more realistic when it comes to looks. Most guys would take a 5 that behaves very friendly and feminine over an 8 who… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | What makes men want to give girls surprises and treat them spontaneously?So most of this will only happen if you date down, as the man will feel compelled to impress. I would expect my partner to manage their own daily wellness, a sudden tragedy not withstanding, you should be able to manage your day to day self. I'm not trying to be harsh but I would never do these things...at least, not in the context you have put them. I'm not going to send flowers because I think you're sad. A lot of women suffer from depression and mental instability now and I'm not a therapist.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 40 | Did I have sex too soon?It is never really too early in the modern day, even the first date can work and become something series. I'll explain why, but first you have to understand one of the differences between men & women and that is our biological goal in relationships. The male goal is sex. Not saying men don't want relationships, just that the driving force for men to achieve in the dynamic is sex. This why women are known as the arbiters of sex, because typically it is hard for most men to earn/qualify for sexual… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Healthy eating and portions when cooking for a manI'm not sure what you mean by normal/standard portions. Portions depend a lot on various elements and can change for a number of factors. Unless he absolutely hates leftovers, you should make more than enough food, hell leftovers are great for lunches later on. Your effort is great and cooking is good for yourself & your partner it just may take some adjusting to balance everything out. For example on portions. I'm 6'4" and workout / have a high activity level. I do keto with 18 hour daily fasts… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/21 07:36 PM |
| 12 | Highly extroverted (F22) dating my wonderful introverted partner (26M) - looking for advice on keeping myself entertained while my man recharges!Some things that worked for me. Find a solo activity you two can do together. I.E. reading a book. The key is to have it be something that the introvert can relax with and the extrovert can look up for comfort. In addition, with something like reading you guys could set time to discuss after (like book club style) which would give you a social marker to look forward to while letting him recharge. I really enjoyed ballroom/swing dance personally. My partner & I could work on individual technique,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/21 03:35 AM |
| -5 | I'm not getting marriedI'm of his mindset. Marriage is nothing but dangerous to men, and I'm not just talking about if/when the marriage actually ends. See the overly zealous nature of how a marriage will end offers up in itself a massive change in the dynamic even during the marriage. See, marriage (or the inherited threat of divorce) risks your good behavior to maintain your female (follower) role, in that the legal rewards at the end can & as data suggests, is highly likely to, undermine your desire/drive to fulfil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional routeOne they are submissive because you can't have two leaders, someone has to follow and someone has to lead in any given dynamic. The only thing that is in that for men is peace when the man comes home as the world is a struggle, thus ones needs a sanctuary to recover in. Two, women chose who they submit to, there is a lot of strength in that choice. The loving and nurturing is not designed to be best for the women herself...but for her hopes which often tend to be her children. Just as men's purs… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 4 | What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional routeCulture has told women to not be in their element, because the masculine in their mind is better. The thing is we are symbiotic, we are supposed to compliment each other. This idea of the masculine is better, has lead to massive entitlement in modern women as they still want all the advantages of being a woman but also those of being a man. Add on top of that, the government has been made into a tool to destroy/replace men at the behest of women. It has made marriage beyond worthless for men, it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Combatting hypergamy in a LDRI'm not sure how old you are but what is the primary goal you have. Like what do you see yourself doing at 35, 40 or so on? I ask because if in 5 or 10 years you want to be a SAHM...why on earth are you wasting time & money on a masters degree. I'm assuming your degree is in a STEM since you said it was a male dominated field so at least you picked a good major, but it still begs the question of do you need it for what your primary life goal is? If you don't want kids that is fine, if you like w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Where can a man find you guys assuming that you don’t hang in places (bars club etc) where most people do and what kind of approach works for you?Best place for men or women to meet is to find hobby groups that actively meet. I do ballroom & swing dance for example. It has been where most of the women I've dated where met. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 6 | How do I become a red pill women?If you need a quick breakdown, watch the movie Spanglish with Adam Sandler...one woman is an example of everything not to do (complete modern feminist), the other is a pretty fine example of a RPW. It should be easy to tell who is who. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Help my friend who is not RPWHave you met him? If so, I would just suggest to him that your friend likes a guy that takes some initiative in pursuing the things he wants in life. Should be an easy enough idea to slip in his mind without going full inception. This way if he likes her, he'll make a move and retain more of the masculine role in their dynamic. Honestly, he sounds very feminine in his behavior so I don't have high hopes...I would personally try to red pill him, but that would take time and he may have zero desir… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE TO: How do I date a guy who seems a bit too interested in sex and not really romantic?I would avoid dating apps, they are just not a worthy endeavor anymore. You would be better to find social groups for activities you're interested in...preferably ones with a good mix of men/women. Good luck going forward, hopefully you have learned a good bit from this encounter. Just remember the golden rule of judging people by their actions not their words. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 7 | How do I date a guy who seems a bit too interested in sex and not really romantic?This is common for a lot of people now...both men & women lie a lot when it comes to dating. So, like I added to my last comment you have to judge them by their actions not their words. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 30 | How do I date a guy who seems a bit too interested in sex and not really romantic?Going to be honest, he probably only wanted sex & causal fun. If a guy is interested in an actual relationship he will ask vetting questions inter mixed with flirtation...if it is just all flirtation and you talking/vetting he doesn't care beyond sex. From your post that is my take away. You are young, and new to his area...probably figured you would be easy to distract and have causal sex with...sounds harsh, but highly probable. Edit: men & women often lie...but actions don't. Thus my advice i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 4 | I feel that my parents destroyed a lot of my valueI always say it is not someone's fault if they were abused or mistreated as a child. However, it is your responsibility once you're an adult to seek guidance/treatment and overcome those challenges/traumas...overwise you will most likely become self destructive or abuse/mistreat others and that will be your fault. Moral fortitude is about being able to do the right things when life is hard. To do that you have to accept responsibility for your actions/choices. Look, none us know when we will fac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 71 | Put up with my crap... Fly for free!37...wants marriage and kids now...good luck. As someone who does conventions and travel, I've hooked up with 4 of these sky princesses in their early 20s. Two of them said outloud they wanted to do a guy from each state. They all belong to the runway. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/07/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Im a bit confusedHonestly, that is how the world works now, unless you're very attractive and fit it is hard to get a woman as a young man. The majority of women your age are dating guys 28+ because they have those jobs and the money. This is shown by the rapidly rising rate of men who are virgins till 28+. Men & women have different rules & standards...for you just workout, focus on your career path and power through. If you do that your force of will & focus might draw some female attention but I would avoid m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 15 | My boyfriend doesn't want me to have male students and he also wants me to move in too quicklyHe has the excuse of being young (20) and the fact this is almost certainly his first relationship which explains why he has a sea of red flags. You at 33, don't have the time to spare with this doomed encounter. Second, getting tattoos in general makes women less attractive. When it is the name of a boyfriend, let alone one of 1 month, leads me to believe you have some personal issues you may need to address. I know this might seem harsh but at 33 your deepest connection being with a 20 year, o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 5 | What is pushing teenage boys towards MGTOW?To me simp is the male equivalent to slut/whore. Both are designed to shame a person for trading their value (relationship wise) without getting the commitment that normally comes from a romantic pairing. I agree, OF is sex work. I honestly don't blame women or men in general. It is the fault of those who are spreading these toxic & destructive ideas. We have to enlighten the others in order to purge the corruption and repair the damage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/21 12:00 AM |
| 15 | What is pushing teenage boys towards MGTOW?You can't blame HVM men for it. Feminism told women they deserve the best, promoted promiscuity in women, and destroyed the foundational values that would have lead to proper pairing of HVM & HVW. So what is left, is all the women chase the best men and those men are rewarded for sleeping around and not settling down. Which is the biological principle of male dating strategy. This is the issue with modern progressive ideology, it only cares for "progress" regardless of the why to established sys… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/21 11:48 PM |
| 30 | What is pushing teenage boys towards MGTOW?1: the excess of feminist ideals in young women and the entitlement it breeds. 2: the rapidly rising rates of virginity in young men compared to women. 3: the sea of single mothers and void of male role models that misleads these men with lies. Especially if they witnessed these women destroying their father in divorce. 4: the growing tyranny of the political left, and the constant war they have pushed to vilify all men. ...also, it is unfair to say it madness or anger driving many of them. Some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is a high value man?My operating definition of HVM: a man with a strong purposeful focus in life that draws the respectful admiration of women and even other men. In other words someone with high sexual market value & high commitment market value. (A say this because at its absolute core, that is what it boils down to. Morality, wealth, or whatever are just various factors/markers of that.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Why progressive women want to date men who act conservativeReally just meant on a data perspective. When I looked at it by me, about 70% are ugly/obese/old but about 30% are attractive and 18-30ish. They just get burnout or partner up super fast. Honestly, that ratio is no worse than tinder/dating apps. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/07/21 12:57 PM |
| 32 | Why progressive women want to date men who act conservativeIt goes beyond this. Look at the kink community, it is becoming exceedingly common among young feminist type women and the vast majority of them want to be a submissive to a dominant man. This shows the complete lack of awareness they have, as they say they don't like all of those masculine traits but when push comes to shove those masculine men are what they want. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 69 | And you wonder where all the nice guys are?Was at a bar talking causally to this woman. She actually said at one point moderates, and libertarians are just conservatives in hiding and all conservatives/Republicans are fascist. I got up, was like, "So everyone else is the problem? Noted." And just walked away. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 7 | I just can't accept that the man is the Captain and the woman is the First Mate.I didn't say a perfect example...just the OP used the whole captain/ first mate example idea. To that, pilot and stewardess is more in line with showing the difference in duties than captain/first mate. I in no way implied it was a chore or less than...I even stressed the role of primary caretaker is very necessary and that a second "leader aka co-pilot" is not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 12 | I just can't accept that the man is the Captain and the woman is the First Mate.I think pilot and stewardess is a better descriptor of the romantic/family dynamic. Men are the leaders, they decide the destination, the course and are responsible for everyone's safety (the family) and getting to the destination. Women are the stewardess of the family. They make the journey a pleasure, tend to needs, and maintain the unity of those on said journey. That is how a romantic and family dynamic will flourish, we each have our rolls, they are not they same, neither one is better. It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/21 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Besides sex - HOW do men need women?HVM have a certain body count, earn +6 figures, is tall, and can be resourceful to as many other women as he wants. (But if everyone has him, how is he high value.?) ANYWAYS, a frequent question the hosts asks, is what women bring to the table besides sex+children, to which the women respond: I bring peace, I cook all the meals, I clean the house, I help him with his work, job, I provide emotional support, I take care kids. They say to have a high body count to understand the details of the game… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | His female friends/ex girlfriendsHonestly, 99% of the time men & women can't be platonic friends. Typically one of them would like to be romantic/sexual so unless there are other factors going on to limit or taboo their sexual energy...it is just very rare they will be truly platonic. If he is high value then he was probably just sleeping with these women which often gets labeled as "dating" because women in general don't like being used. Even most promiscuous women won't admit being a fuck buddy and try to claim girlfriend sta… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/21 11:05 AM |
| 12 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenAverage marriage is 32 but most kids are actually born well before that, as the sea of single 20 something tinder moms shows marriage doesn't equal kids anymore. If you break down the marriage numbers...many left leaning couples are also not having kids, or having only one kid which means reproduction isn't important to them so getting married late doesn't matter nearly as much if at all. Falling in line with those bigger data points. I have 4 couples in my boardgame circle of friends that all m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | He made me cut off my childhood friendsHonestly, the result of cutting you off from them is probably for the best, the method was terrible. You are probably like, well I won't follow the sex worker path. That may be true but we should surround ourselves with positive influences as studies show that on average you are a sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with. To which it is more than their career that is likely a threat. Those sex worker friends exist in a world that will corrupt other facets of life. Their ideas/behavior mi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 07:15 PM |
| 55 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?First, we need to agree on terms, before we wander about the dating scene/history. My operating definition of HVM: a man with a strong purposeful focus in life that draws the respectful admiration of women and even other men. In other words someone with high sexual market value & high commitment market value. (A say this because at its absolute core, that is what it boils down to. Morality, wealth, or whatever are just various factors/markers of that.) Now you need to understand the biological w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/21 11:34 PM |
| 11 | What questions do we need to ask men when deciding if they’re good men?Well, the first few dates you should explore your chemistry and fun...as the weeks progress you can sprinkle in more direct/serious vetting type questions. The biggest thing though is not his answers but the actions he takes. So compare his actions to his answers and that will tell you what you need to know...that is how I eliminate most women as people lie/tell half truths/ but their actions are much harder to fake especially over an extended period of time. (Like the first couple months or yea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/21 03:10 PM |
| 19 | Leaving my incompetent betaI would advise some introspection. You have put every issue on him and painted yourself a victim...where is your personal agency in life? You say you never date artsy guys yet you literally choose to date one & now are mad/blame him for not being manly enough. You don't like that he is unreliable and lacks urgency but if you're as attached to him as you say then you've known these things for awhile most likely and kept seeing him. You call him a man child, beta whatever repeatedly, saying you do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 02:05 PM |
| 13 | Alpha widow needing help.So he is 53 now, with a successful business, house and all that? If that is the case he has been on a good path for like 10 years?.. if I'm understanding your timeline correctly. If he likes you and you still like him, I assume by the fact you're asking this you do...why not date again? His previous choice as far as I can tell was based off laziness and desperation nothing personal. Honestly, it was for the best as he needed to do better for himself and if he had picked you any self improvement … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 12:51 PM |
| 23 | Update: Letting my husband pursue me.He probably has lower testosterone if he isn't sleeping as much or very well. Some of the main things that affect testosterone are lack of sleep & sugar...porn also doesn't help so if that is his problem it would not get him in the mood. Since testosterone is the driving force for sex in men, that coupled with a lower attraction to you due to your unhealthy diet/weight is probably why your sex life is currently dead. Working out increases testosterone so I would say you both should do it togethe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 44 | Wow I just can’t figure out why this woman is having trouble attracting a man. It’s a mystery.Easy way to trap these women is ask them if they would date a smoker...most will say no...then you just say that is same reason I/you won't date fat/obese girls. Tobacco and sugar are both addictive and terrible for ones health. It also speaks to ones character that they have poor self respect and self control. Why would anyone want to invest emotionally into that? Plus, it is just physical repulsive...we (the majority of humans) are biologically wired to be turned off by markers of poor health/… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Can I be honest? I don’t know if I like being feminine.You seem to think that men have it easier and your life would be perfect as a man. I'm going to guess you're basing this off the perspective of men you find attractive...the top 20%...you don't realize all the men that history forgot. Look, men and women are simply different, neither is better. The main thing is, you need to realize that women start with their value in society and they must leverage it before it depreciates in order to get the future they want. Maybe that path is kids and a fami… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | R/pornhateswomen is a toxic subLike most of modern day lefty politics...they don't teach personal responsibility, instead they promote being a victim to an oppressor as that creates division which will allow them to gain power. Those women are simply a byproduct of that division. It is literally from the Marxism playbook. Same reason they are waging a war on the nuclear family...easier to indoctrinate & control those who don't have a strong circle of support. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 29 | New to the redpill at 25, how can I get myself ready for being single again at 26. Help?First, you seem to be clinging to your current partner out of fear of being alone over desire to be with him. Not a healthy approach. Second, guys are pretty direct with their communication, so if he says he doesn't want kids and you do that is a problem. Don't date someone hoping they will change...that is asking to be disappointed. Even if he does change, the epiphany on kids moment tends to occur much later for men then women so it could be too late for you by then. Third, giving your age & d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/21 12:05 PM |
| 6 | This guys knows whats upMy list was socially acceptable not dating...though if I already had kids I would accept a widow for dating or a runner up position but never my primary. For his I don't know his acceptable reference but my stance would be; If raped a woman would probably get rid of the child (abortion, adoption or whatever) thus she wouldn't be a mom. Still I wouldn't date either way as she will probably be extremely emotional damaged. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | How to force myself to be attracted to him?The best thing you could do in my opinion is to show him this post and show him better bachelor, Kevin Samuels, fresh and fit or whatever red pill YouTube you like. It may seem harsh but that brutal honesty is how men interact with eachother and should help drive home the importance. It will make him better as men must struggle to become. Breaking up just is you best route, as it sounds like you both need to grow before any future relationship you or he might have. For you, your medication will … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/21 02:32 AM |
| 36 | This guys knows whats upI never said you had to date...just that they are the only ones I find socially acceptable. Apologies for the confusion. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 90 | This guys knows whats upSingle moms come in 4 types only 1 is "edit: socially not romantically" acceptable and even then it has a condition. 1: a woman who ain't shit and was left by a guy. 2: a woman who is selfish and put trying to monkey branch over her kids future. 3: a woman who proved her makes poor choices and let a deadbeat be the baby daddy. 4: a woman who is widow...acceptable as long as she didn't kill him. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | For the men on here: If a woman doesn't have biological kids with a man, is she mostly only good for her looks and likely to be discarded after the wall?Never said they were...and obviously red pill men that choose not to date or only causally date would not match in values. My point was simply there is a very sizable section of men, who want longterm relationships that she is eliminating...thus her path will be harder. Red pill men prefer childless women, so yes they would date her but the ones that would marry...overwhelming want biological kids. So she is unlikely to find any red pill guy as a mate, and red pill is a steadily growing section … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | For the men on here: If a woman doesn't have biological kids with a man, is she mostly only good for her looks and likely to be discarded after the wall?Never said they did...but in not wanting kids she is eliminating a sizable section of men that do want longterm relationships. Thus, her path will be much harder. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 206 | Single woman lists her deal breakers, which include doctors and anyone with a boss because “it’s beta”I'm guessing it is more lefty political doctors she doesn't like given her other requirements...or those she sees following the democrat narrative. Honestly, she appears to be trying to appeal to red pill aware men who want kids...except she still feels entitled enough to think this guy won't keep at least another sexual option around. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/05/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Nothing says, "godly" woman more than a chest tattoo, ample amounts of underboob and a bastard child. Couldn't fit it in...but good vibes and serious intentions are a must for her.In the context of the post against the mother "bastard" was a mark on the mother, but point noted for the future. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | He's an attractive 30 year old that's never been in love. Is this a huge red flag?Not unusual...I'm 6'4" and from my estimates an 8/8.5 out of 10 attractiveness wise. Was very antisocial and 80 pounds over weight till about 26 when I started ballroom dancing and working out...I probably would have been a virgin if I hadn't gotten lucky in high school. Anyways, it took me a couple years to catch up socially / learn to date and my first real relationship (more than just sex or longer than a month) started at 29. Basically, since 2010ish it has been getting progressively harder … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/21 12:21 PM |
| 8 | Creating space without rejectionCreating space for this is a dangerous and misguided solution. The idea of space is to incite more chase and longing but you can do that in other ways that won't be nearly as jarring/damaging. For example the next time he goes to initiate anything sexual, don't say no, but escape and playfully tease him. You will want to be subtle so as to not seem eager but overt enough he doesn't give up. Basically, you want to behave like prey to illicit his hunter instincts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 10 | What kinds of compliments do men appreciate most?Since it is for an audio recording that he will hopefully listen to repeated it will be a little different. I wouldn't compliment him directly (I.E he has has nice eyes or strong arms.) Instead go with something like, "I love how safe I feel when you hug me." These type of compliments will sound much better when whispered in the ASMR slow & sensual soft tone. As for other options, if you guys have a slow dance or favorite song, you could use the lyrics, just make sure it is a song that fits the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 9 | My ultimate guide to RPW online datingWhen I had tinder...I just had, "Trust me I'm taller than you." Putting your height is boring and ultimately doesn't matter or can only hurt you. (I'm a 6'4" guy so I made it fun.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Would really like thoughts on this video, is the guy really being a creep?I'm guessing the guy was older...which means it is rather creepy as the odds are he knew the social cues but didn't care. People, and especially young women like her can comply with others out of fear, even if they are afraid of that person. (Reminds me of the moment in the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Villain invites Danial Craig's character inside for a drink, Craig hesitates but says yes. Inside the villain says something like. It is funny, your fear to offend caused you to comply even knowin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 8 | Tips for online dating?Online dating is basically just for hookups or attention in my experience...while yes there are exceptions it isn't worth the effort IMO. I have found all my relationships through my hobbies. (Namely partner dances like ballroom & swing.) My suggestion is to find an activity you enjoy or want to try, especially if it is something the opposite gender enjoys (hench why I chose dance as a guy) then go to events/groups for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 7 | 35 and and still looking for that forever partner. But in the meantime she will keep building her resume and collecting cats. Another women who fell for the career women trap.This lady is a lefty authoritarian type who is a walking red flag, the definition of poor life choices and she is in academia because it isn't enough her ideas ruined her life...she wants them to ruin other lives too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 35 | How do I know my worth?Going to be a little brutally honest...if you're paying 2/3rds (66%) of your family's lifestyle then you married a man who isn't performing at the level to allow you to embrace your feminine role. My guess is your are finding that fact hard to swallow as it goes opposite to female nature. This is why statistically speaking, relationship in which the woman out performs the man at the provider role tend to split up at a much higher rate. I don't know you or your relationship personally but also ty… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Don't let Chad's seed growing inside her scare you off. When she days she's been through loads, she means loads of dicks.Some serious mental issues, pregnant, and basically done at 19...if making bad choices was a sport she'd qualify for the Olympic team. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | I’m new to the term Red pill.They can claim whatever agenda they like, it doesn't change what the majority of people percieved it to be then & now. Even if it was their intent the issue is being secretly transgender is not a waking thought for 99% of people so that is not what it will mean to most viewers. Besides my definition still would apply to someone saying they are transgender as pretending to a gender that they feel is wrong is just a layer of a perspective that has been pulled over their eyes...at least to them. So… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 18 | Must have a job to support Chad’s baby!They always wear their single motherhood like a badge of honor. No sweety, you made piss poor life choices, so you get to deal with the consequences not me. The only acceptable single mom is a widow...assuming she didn't kill him. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/05/21 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Look how media advertises by demeaning men. Season 3 is about a fat kween dumping her lame ass boyfriend. Look up “Lindy West” to get a perspectiveIt happens a lot. An ex of mine used to watch a show...drop dead diva. It had the pretty redhead who was candy in two & half men...but the main lady was a fat lawyer who consistantly got the attention of hot successful men. I was like that shit is fucking stupid. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/05/21 10:39 PM |
| 21 | Look how media advertises by demeaning men. Season 3 is about a fat kween dumping her lame ass boyfriend. Look up “Lindy West” to get a perspectiveDon't forget fathers are almost always a stupid goofball now in sitcoms while mom is driven career woman who is also a near perfect wife. Or how every obese modern/younger female character tends to be a lawyer or something with masculine traits. Yet she still has the love interest of Chad...just showing women don't know what traits are attractive to men, they just assume it is what they find attractive. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 34 | I’m new to the term Red pill.At it's core red pill is an idea/event that awakens men & women to their biological tendencies, preference, and roles in the human relationship dynamic. It is a reference to the matrix and Neo waking to the false world that was pulled over his eyes. While not as false as that world, the real world has societal constructs like (equality of outcome, equality of ability, modern feminism, woke/cancel culture and the bulk of left leaning politics) used at the behest of power hungry forces. Those idea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 38 | Did you hear the one about the department store that sells husbands?I would say the wife store is; 1st: these women enjoy sex 2nd: these women enjoy sex, and aren't fat/obese 3rd: these women enjoy sex, aren't fat/obese, and do homely duties. 4th, 5th, and 6th floor have never been visited | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Tall women and DatingI would workout and correct your posture. It will strengthen your bones & your spine will thank you once your youthfulness stops compensating for the discomfort of bad posture. Beyond that don't worry about how other people might perceive you for your height. It can't be changed, so just be happy about it and others will tend to respond the same. If you are wanting to feel more feminine then try moving to area with more tall guys or guys who have a strong heavy build as that will make you feel m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Are there different kinds of feminity?So I'll do my best with text. When I think style the core is delicate/soft...feminine. Think dresses, skirts, flaired pants, blouses. These things tend to be both flowing yet fitted enough that they exaggerate the female "hourglass" shape. They are often made of soft or light materials. Then you have your styles edge, or the personal niche/touch. - Sultry is one...think eva green in the purple or black dress from casino royale. Honestly, most of her roles are sultry. It fits her personality and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 07:33 PM |
| 0 | What’s some advice that you have for college aged girls ?You arguing for your own path, which is fine, except you're overlooking my key points. My advice was for her to know what path has more of a clock so she could prioritize for herself what she deems is more important. Neither you or I get to tell her that. I'm done, my point was made long ago, and you appear to be in defense or seeking some validation in your own path...or perhaps the medium of text is just interfering in our understanding of one another. Regardless, hope you have a good day, and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What’s some advice that you have for college aged girls ?My main point is that trying to play it safe will often lead to one missing out in life. Men have to take risks to build themselves in the world. A relationship and family is the risk women have to take in life. It just is, that is why you guys tend to be so picky when mating because biologically it is a vulnerable state. So yes vet guys, work on a career or whatever but if you want a family at some point you need to take a risk on someone and it better to do that when you have the most options … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 34 | Looks plays a massive role in men’s value in women. How can I work on this when I'm average-looking? I am also not a very agreeable girl.Most guys (high value/RP types) will place agreeableness/submissiveness over looks as long as you're still healthy (bath, workout, eat well). This is because they typically are out battling & competing with other men in order to provide. When that is the case, you don't want to come home to headaches and confrontation. The other thing too, is the things you mention get you the most heated are things you should really have in common. So you shouldn't need to argue or correct him as you guys shoul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | What’s some advice that you have for college aged girls ?The whole "having kids past 35 is not good" has been mostly debunked by now. If she doesn't want kids, then she doesn't have to worry about prioritizing at all. If she does then she would be far better served having kids in her mid 20s as opposed to mid 30s. You can claim it is debunked all you want but the numbers don't hold to that. At minimum a couple should have 2 kids to at least replace themselves in the population, most women who start at 35 have to spend money on medically assisted impre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to make more time for sex?Instead of planning a specific time...I would set goals for the week/month. Then you can divide up those days and you are each responsible for a mini goal of 50% of the main goal. Example your starting goal might be twice a week. So you're responsible for Monday, Wednesday, Friday...him Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday with Sunday being free all/make up day. You have those times to initiate sex and a goal of 1 time each. This encourages you both to pull a little extra weight on one of your days and s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 01:27 AM |
| 57 | What’s some advice that you have for college aged girls ?The clock of having a family expires much sooner than that of a career so prioritize accordingly. Don't take advice from 30-40 something women who are single if said advice would have you following their path. Learning homely skills, cooking especially will build confidence and add value to your future family. It also teaches you to consider what other people like and how to compromise those things which is good socially and for having kids later. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 12 | Are there different kinds of feminity?Femininity is in my opinion, firstly about being attractive/healthy. Though attractive/healthy applies to men too as it is universal, it has some different aspects. Secondly, being warmly kind & nurturing. Thirdly, submissive and agreeable...which doesn't mean a victim or slave. Simply that you trust your man/leader enough to be happy with his choice of direction while feeling that he hears/considers your input as valuable but also understanding his path & that of the family you're building toge… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | My 4 year relationship is ending and I'm 26.What type of role do you each have in the relationship? Did you ever feel sexually attracted to him / enjoy sex with him? Have you ever craved sex with another man or is the lack of sexual impulse common for you? I can give more advice if you can answer those...right now I'd say this. I also feel fear about moving on and I don't even want to think about dating. Never make life choices out of fear. Staying in a relationship out of fear of being single/dating is a terrible plan. One of my favorite… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 8 | High Earning WomenQuestion 1, do you plan on having kids? Most career women stop working when they have kids so if that is your plan I'd ditch the teaching job & just do your online thing that will free you up to focus more on homely duties till you reach the kid stage. Honestly, all your problems to me are coming from your priorities of work over family...you seem to not trust him in his role and are trying to take control. All masculine behavior. Basically, you need to reevaluate your assessment of him & yourse… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | ExerciseIt is all about finding what you can do with consistency. Also, assuming you're a lady don't be afraid of strength training/ weight. A lot of ladies only do cardio or are afraid of looking manly...you won't unless you dedicate yourself to looking that way. Strength training will help with posture something many people suck at...especially the more busty ladies. It also strengthens bones & increases metabolism. Also, when I first decided to lose weight 8 years ago, I added ballroom & swing dancin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | He's lucky he had the body camI'm all for it be legal to use at home but you should not be driving while stoned/high. Which is actually where we run into a snag. To my knowledge the only tests we have for weed just detect if you have used it in the last few weeks...we don't have a test like with alchohol that says you are currently impaired. So it becomes harder/more subjective to enforce in a DUI capacity. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/04/21 11:15 AM |
| 31 | Apparently platonic friendship with men means a lot to this woman. I wonder whyWhy is it women can't understand, men cannot be friends with women they find attractive. If a man doesn't find a woman attractive he won't waste energy on you as honestly 99% of women are terrible friends to men. That leaves two other possibilities, a guy who treats you like one of his male friends because he finds you physically attractive and would smash. Typically he knows it would never be more than that due to political views, life goals or whatever. He invests minimal effort (in a woman's … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 16 | Freaking OutSounds like you are fulfilling your role & taking care of yourself so my only advice is this. As long as he is providing for your lifestyle he values you as a partner so do worry about it. Best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Can I apply RP ideas if I'm attracted to women?The ideas can still apply, as it is mostly about having the symbiotic dynamic that is the goal. I.E one leader/protector and one follower/nurturer. So you just need to decide which role you want to play in the relationship then look for a partner that fills the other one. The sexual aspect will still apply to you for your actual sex (female) so don't sleep around regardless of if you decide to be the masculine (leader) role or the feminine (follower) role...same for your perspective partner. Thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Would you ever LTR a man with a lot of sexual partners?I get what you're saying but a woman like in your example most likely doesn't present behavoir traits that attract men, she is probably just beautiful and taking advantage of desperate men. A guy that has a high body count has to possesses at least some traits beyond beauty that women find attractive. My point was simply that if she doesn't like a guy with a high body count that is fine...nothing wrong with it. Just trying to keep it realistic that most of the guys women chase have high body cou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/21 09:23 PM |
| -8 | Would you ever LTR a man with a lot of sexual partners?Are you newer to red pill? I'm asking because typically women assume if they are shamed by a high body count then it must be bad for a man too. An equality comparison...but men and women are not equal, because we are different and thus have different standards. For example; in regards to sex women are like locks as they have to preserve their value. Men are like keys as they have to earn their sexual value. So a key that opens a 100 locks has shown more value then one that opens 5...conversely a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Question : Are healthy stable Women really that hypergamous as these redpill/manosphere dating youtube channels show to be??See hypergamy is not bad or good by itself. The issue is many modern women let it consume them as they've been lead to believe they are entitled to only the best regardless of their actions. But seeking ones best option is not bad if you have realistic understanding and the moral strength & willpower to know what your value is. For men, use that knowledge of hypergamy to motivate you and the right lady will gladly assist & follow. That is how you build a bond that lasts as team & family. The iss… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | No man and every man wants me. They run away as soon as they fall in love! Help!!! 😫These women never get it. Guy game is getting sex, lady game is keeping a guy around post sex. She has zero lady game and like most women, she just expects her showing up to be enough to keep a man. It is not. On top of that she actively behaves in a masculine manor. You can speak your mind and share your input and a good man who knows how to lead will listen, but if you're a bossy entitled princess who can never be wrong you're a headache and no guys wants to deal with that. You can't have two … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 14 | Question : Are healthy stable Women really that hypergamous as these redpill/manosphere dating youtube channels show to be??It is a biological nature, it is hard wired into women, thus Red Pill accepts that truth and gives men the knowledge to understand. Now, can women overcome this? Yes, but it takes a combination of will, personal morals, and positive societal structures/feedback to help them. Not impossible but in the growing societal decay and collapse of personal morals it means it is now the minority of women. It is not just women who those issues have destroyed, men have also succumbed to their weakness and i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 69 | It's insulting to insinuate that our times equivalent to the cost of coffee. Perhaps less if they expect us to pay for our own.Standing someone up shows you don't value their time. Spending time with them by default means you value their time as much as your own. Which given women tend to date up means his time is probably more valuable if we follow this posters logic of conflating it to money paid. Second, aggressively putting men in their place, being confrontational instead of agreeable, and working in those high competitive fields they listed would all make a woman very masculine in behavior so no high value guy is … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | I'm a (20)F and I'm always worried about my bf(25)M cheatingFair, thus why those features exist and why I try to state my points and stay on topic to futher a discussion. Men cheat, women cheat it is a thing...merely trying to give insight as to why so people can be prepared and deal with it as they deem appropriate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | I'm a (20)F and I'm always worried about my bf(25)M cheatingI seem to get a mix...so just depends on how well it is articulated + who reads it + a bit of luck I'd guess. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 13 | I'm a (20)F and I'm always worried about my bf(25)M cheatingProbably going to get down voted but here is a harsh truth. Men at Manson level...or a better example is Tiger Woods "cheat" because they can. If you date a guy of that level, 99% likelihood he will have sex with other women...regardless of how pretty or talented she is this is because: Women seek quality over quantity given they are biologically wired to do so. They need the best option for their protection & provision if they become pregnant which before birth control was common. Women control… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Where can I find tinder conversations that worked ?Don't use tinder...find a hobby that appeals to you, will have women and that is a meet in person type activity. Go, learn about the hobby get involved make friends (male & female). You will get better at conversing this way and after time build confidence. Then you can start flirting with any of the women you are interested in...though not all of them at one time. Be respectful of them, but also yourself...don't let them walk all over you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 01:25 AM |
| -2 | Please decode these texts of what he’s looking for. Do I run?Hard to tell, he could want exactly what he said... only casual sex or he could be confirming you want him in a serious manner. I would just be direct, say you would like to pursue something more exclusive & serious. If he doesn't then you can part if he does then you know. I'm a guy though so direct is my mode of operation unless specifically being flirtatious as then innuendo & indirect conversation is king. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels?Better Bachelor I think is a more all around channel...bit more humor. Probably the best one for women to watch. Red pill in general does have a pool of guys that follow it but only because they like hearing good things. If they aren't making the changes to actually better themselves they are going to be bad news. It is similar to the super feminist blue pill men, who tend to be wolves in sheep's clothing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/21 03:27 PM |
| 15 | How much does your past or lack of one matter?People are individuals and there are enough that yes some are exceptions...but what I'm saying is given the studies we have and just a logical breakdown of the biological role of men & women we can understand primary nature. You stated your preferences and maybe you are an outlier but giving advice for the exception to a rule is potentially harmful. Every study done on pair bonding has backed up that it effects women rather significantly and the sea of now used up unwanted women in their 30s sho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | How do I increase my SMV as a 27-year-old woman?Since I'm also an INTJ, one thing that I suffer from and that is common in that group is we are not as adept at picking up social cues. I've literally had women be like you know I tried flirting with you for like 2 weeks and you never noticed. I'm much better now but man was I bad before. Another issue is most men your age have spent the last 10 years basically not dating because most women overlook/reject them, so they have either given up or they are stilling learning / figuring out how to be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I increase my SMV as a 27-year-old woman?This depends on the man, but if he owns his own business...help promote it, or ask if there are any minor things you could help him with. Maybe he had a 60 hour work week so you clean his apartment. You will have to use your best judgement with the man you are dating, but find a way to be helpful. Start with small gestures, anything to get a ball rolling. If you're helpful without needing to be told or directed that is best, though again be mindful of where your current trust is. I wish I could … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 41 | How much does your past or lack of one matter?Alright, to start with, many women's channels I've seen that say body count doesn't matter are typically the ones that also tell you to hide your number/past. Which means they know it does matter. To men body count doesn't matter for causal sex, but it does for committed relationships...with one stipulation. If the women is dating down, a lower value man is less likely to care. I'll explain why, at least in my opinion. It comes down to the rarity value of a women, as I've deemed. Women are the a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | 21 F single - looking for ways to optimize my lifeI didn't say not to be, just be mindful, competition can be good to build ones self yes...however, it also encourages masculine behavior. Since men of high status don't care about a woman's job/ability to provide (his role) chasing a high power career is only a liability to her as she could potential reduce her value for something a partner doesn't care about. Basically, a millionaire will date the front desk lady of a hotel or the cashier at CVS if she is cute & feminine because he doesn't care… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 11:56 AM |
| 0 | How do I increase my SMV as a 27-year-old woman?The reason I say after is because there are shitty men, those men will promise commitment beforehand. Basically, until sex has happened you ultimately don't know if it was real...thus it is fair to say after IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 06:14 AM |
| 21 | How do I increase my SMV as a 27-year-old woman?The three most attractive qualities to masculine men in a woman are; (Note, only health/beauty matters for sex, the others are if you want a relationship.) Health/Beauty: This is a depreciating asset, as youth is a key factor. That said you can maintain this value best by simply taking care of your body. Workout, eat healthy, bath, don't smoke, don't tan, use minimalist/natural makeup looks. Feminine Nurturing: This is an appreciating asset, so learn to support your partners passion/purpose, be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 4 | 21 F single - looking for ways to optimize my lifeTime is everyone's biggest enemy...time is ultimately our only resource, it shapes everything. I would say the same thing to a 21 man who wasn't trying to find his purpose. Also, if she wants husband and a couple kids...it will realistically take about 2-3 years to find a good partner another 1-2 years to court & marry and typically 2 years per kid she desires. I'm just being realistic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/21 01:50 AM |
| 2 | 21 F single - looking for ways to optimize my lifeI brought it up because, dating blue pill men/lefty types or trans men drastically increases the likelihood they suffer from depression as every metric puts them at 2 to 8 times the depression rate of conservative men. They tend to have much lower levels of testosterone which effects drive and their protective instincts. All these factors will mean finding a LTR with one will more likely waste your time. Your call obviously but if you haven't dated a masculine man, I would consider it before wri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 5 | 21 F single - looking for ways to optimize my lifeSince you are young I'm curious if you know the three primary attractors men seek? As Kevin Samuels puts it, the three F's are Fit, Feminine, and Friendly. First I would examine your dating selector strategy. I say this because the fact that your only long term relationship was with someone that is trans (female) meaning they probably had several feminine traits and behaviors. They almost certainly would not of been redpill aware or holding themselves like a high value man should. Second, I'm no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Quick question... as 25M should I be reading this subreddit or...I would suggest you both check out, better bachelor, freshandfit, Kevin Samuels or others on YouTube. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | For any young women here planning to have children "later"... be careful that it doesn't become "too late".Text is the worst medium of communication. I would normally agree to the ignorance over malice statement, however as I said they are batting a complete 0, ignorance would mean they occasionally get it right...but they don't. Can you give an example of what you mean by equally? I'm trying to understand the definition you're using of equal. I'm not so much saying it is a grand conspiracy, the corporations are exploiting it on their end, because they know what it is doing. The government is doing t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | For any young women here planning to have children "later"... be careful that it doesn't become "too late".That is a bit of a rant I said it was. seems like it's trying to paint some puppet master behind the scenes, manipulating the population for their personal gain. I mean it is my perspective and think it is an issue but when I read most of the goals of leftist groups and the laws most Democrats push. They literally are taking the wrong course of action every time. To score a zero you have to know how to score a hundred...so they must be gaining something from scoring 0. For example, we should con… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 5 | For any young women here planning to have children "later"... be careful that it doesn't become "too late"....please don't be a single parent on purpose. It is literally the worst thing you can do for a kid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 14 | For any young women here planning to have children "later"... be careful that it doesn't become "too late".Freezing eggs & IVF are longshots and in my opinion just another way women have been lied to to milk them of resources. ...the rest is a bit of rant... Look at most mega corporations...they target women because women make 70-85% of the buying market. Their ads support these feminists agenda & lefty policies, they sell these hopes & dreams of fairytales. Why because on average women are more emotionally compulsive, but a married woman spends far less frivolous money & mother's even less. So the s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you define Success and a High Value Male?Fair enough, text is a garbage medium for communication. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 26 | Seems like a keeper.You know in home alone 2 when he falls through the floor then looks and says "Wow, what a hole." That is my thought watching her dig the grave of her romantic life. She dug like 1 foot for each of her 34 years of life. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you define Success and a High Value Male?This seems less red pill and more just a belief in returning to the religious foundation of marriage from the past. As if you accept good & evil you can accept high & low value...because "god" gave rights & free will...what you do with them is up to you but some actions inherently provide greater value than others just as some are more good than others. You seem to have an equity / equality of outcome mind set. A high value man to me...or rather my goal being I'm a man. Earning the desire of wom… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 41 | For any young women here planning to have children "later"... be careful that it doesn't become "too late".Modern feminism tells women to do things backwards...your career should be "later" and marriage/family primary. If women spent 18-22 in college but dating with serious intent. Say 2-3 year long relationships. I would advise trying a relationship with one man age 18-23, one man 26-29 and one 31-34 the reason being is women have basically three tiers of risk in commitment. The youngest men are the highest risk of becoming low status men, rarely even knowing their career path. The middle is moderat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 9 | How to hypergamously date?when I’m older. 1: How old are you now? if I make 40k a year how would I attract someone who makes 90k or 6 figures? 2: the hypergamy idea of dating "up" is a half truth. I say that because it assumes men look for the same traits as women in romance. Namely status (wealth, connection, power in this case.) So in that trait alone, yes she is dating "up"...beyond her own status. 3: ....but she isn't dating up in her sexual/romantic value, so in that case it is false. To a man the three traits he de… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | BJ on the 3rd date?So there are three primary traits of attraction for men & women. Men are attracted to feminine health/beauty, a nurturing warmth, and rarity (Her sexual selective-ness.) Women are attracted to masculine health/beauty, protector instincts, and status (wealth, connection, power, ability to provide) Any romantic pairing is a trade of these traits to form a productive balanced symbiotic partnership and raise kids. (Biologically speaking) As to those two traits you asked about. Subconsciously men & w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 11:03 PM |
| 9 | BJ on the 3rd date?Oh, and side note for the ladies. The withholding only matters for the first time having sex. Once the deal is made you're treating him with your rarity (sex) for his status...that is the trade/commitment. If you withhold after that a man of value will most likely find a replacement...or at the very least withhold his status. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | BJ on the 3rd date?Exactly...thus why I said she would have to determine the level of commitment she deems necessary in the trade. Which can depend on her own core principles as well as the core principles of the partner she is trying to attract. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 15 | BJ on the 3rd date?1...maybe, maybe not. Ultimately it doesn't matter if that is what you felt comfortable with. 2...doesn't matter if you spook him. Relationships are ongoing trades. Women are the arbiters of sex but men of value are the arbiters of relationships so a woman of value will require actual commitment before making a trade. You can determine what level of commitment you deem necessary. Just remember men want to respect the potential mother of their kids...so a woman who trades sex easily has little lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Are the ways we love fundamentally different?I know you asked the female perspective...but men aren't less practical. To me this speaks as the growing problem of feminist women where it assumes men value the same traits as women. Protection, status, etc. Men generally don't care if you're "poorer" as it is his role to provide status not hers...men generally don't care if you're "weaker" (assuming physical) as it is his role to provide protection not hers. The "dumber" I assume refers to Education not actual intellectual/cognitive ability..… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/21 11:17 AM |
| 8 | Am I crazy or how am i so in love with his BO?Yeah, there are tons of things people don't consider but that our brains are wired to notice. Humans are just very social and it took a long time for our language to develop complexity. This is why body language, tone, scent, eye contact all play massive roles in communication. For example, human eyes are white with a color as opposed to most apes (like gorillas) which have brown on brown eyes. This is because eye contact is very important in humans to build trust and it is easier to tell where … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/21 02:50 AM |
| 48 | Am I crazy or how am i so in love with his BO?Body odor/scent is based on immune system...the more you like someone's scent the more compatible their immune system is with yours. Typically it will be even more intoxicating for women when at their peak fertility window...which is also when women's scent is strongest to allure men. Scent is also the sense most tied to memory and as such women with very positive or very negative relationships with their father tend to also find similar scents equally positive/negative. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer with a fondness for rope bondage is done with hookups.Noted, though I didn't put a flair, so it either defaulted or another mod did it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer with a fondness for rope bondage is done with hookups.A lot of women in the kink world are obese...really it seems to be they are hot or obese...no in between. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | I want to have a kid, I'm 23 already, but how can you be a young mother nowadays?You ultimately have two choices if you truly want to prioritize a family. 1: Find a man your age with promise and make a bet on your future. Commit and have a family. It can be hard to find a young man willing to start a family soon so you need to be selective but in the right way...a balance of his potential and desire for kids. 2: Find a man 5-10 years older who is in a more established position. I'll use myself here for an example...I'm 32, house hunting as my company has built up some moment… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/21 12:17 AM |
| 10 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer with a fondness for rope bondage is done with hookups.The picture is shibari rope suspension which is a form of rope bondage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 24 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer with a fondness for rope bondage is done with hookups.You'd be surprised...if you get good at and carry confidence you can do well. The guy I befriended and get advice from on rope is like 5'7 maybe 5'8 and he has 2 petite little play partner he has sex with. It is a rare skill...so if you stick with it, it can pay off. Note, though most of the women are super lefty which makes them insufferable...luckily most of them enjoy ball gags.😆 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/21 07:44 PM |
| 30 | Rave festival party girl, professional dancer with a fondness for rope bondage is done with hookups.Well, we matched so I'll probably message her later...I know rope like she likes, am 6'4" and athletic from ballroom dancing...pretty sure we'll fuck (with condoms don't need a baby momma). Just she is delusional to think she has value beyond that. And...my profile say: Trust me I'm taller than you. Also, like Neo I've taken the red pill so prefer casual. 😆 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | This is how people are celebrating Int'l Women's Day, by celebrating the murder of menFeminist, "Women are just as strong as men." ...yet it takes two of them with weapons to kill a sleeping man. Crazy world of double standards continues, they don't want equality they just want power with zero responsibility. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Single mom pushing 40 is done with alpha male doms and now wants a respectful man who can cook and put her first."Life is a journey not the destination, so I'm enjoying the ride." Let me correct it for her...Life is a journey not a destination, so I enjoyed riding the CC but I now just want a guy to cook, and be my submissive slave. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 4 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.I'm 6'4", moderately athletic (ballroom & swing dancer), early 30s. The language is a result of written erotic roleplay which one of my kinky play partners enjoys. Toys are not for everyone but one of my other comments explains why I use them. Any who was just sharing my perspective/experience. My point being that just because something is different or unusual doesn't mean it is false, and I understand that my experiences don't hold across the board but they do have common elements to the relate… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 15/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 7 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.Vibrator was for the initial hour of sex play/edging her while tied up...after that it was my hands/fingers to edge her when she misbehave and then my cock when I fucked her in the shower. I learned the hard way not to use my dick early on if I know I'm going to deny her as about 30% of the time that gives me blue balls. If you're curious I kept fucking her after she orgasmed till she was too sensitive then she finished me with mouth. Hope that helps. (Edit: It is a sort of mental conditioning t… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 7 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.Appreciate the compliment but mostly just takes willpower, an afternoon to waste, and a good vibrator. 😆 | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 08/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 18 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.It is a kink and at least some really enjoy it...the constant excitement & frustration sort of builds up your orgasm so when it hits it hits hard. Works for guys too, but not nearly the same level (at least not for me as I can still use my willpower to stop) women don't seem to be able to. It can consume them. Example, I had a lady follow me for hours, like how a puppy will when you bring them home. I had played with her sexually for about an hour bringing her to the edge of orgasm 7 times...the… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 08/02/21 02:39 PM |
| 22 | PSA: Men want sex, women need sex.Can confirm...as a guy who enjoys the occasional kinky adventure...I've seen women try to chew out rope knots or beg/plead for 10+ minutes straight because I kept teasing them right up to the edge of their orgasm only to deny them and walk away for 15 minutes leaving them still tied to the bed. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 08/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 8 | Woman has TOXIC views against men saying They have no right to defend them selves.Here is the thing though...it only takes one lucky hit or shove to do damage and sometimes very serious damage, thus it is always wrong and the person being attacked has the right to defend themselves. Additionally, it teaches any kids who witness this, and reinforces in the adult women that they won't suffer any reprisal/punishment for their bad behavior/actions. These women feel entitled and that is problem. Example of entitlement: I'm 6'4" 210 pounds and fairly athletic, I had a handful of da… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/04/20 03:49 PM |
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