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You've got the gift of gab. Some of us would pay for your natural conversational abilities.
/r/seduction26/04/14 07:16 AM
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Okay, now that being said, imagine you come up and talk to this girl. One of the techniques that just kills me regarding PUA is the negging. Really? You have to passive-aggressively insult a girl, who probably has self-esteem issues anyway, in order to make her lower her self-esteem some more? You don't need to do that. Don't do that. Just be honest and if she looks good, tell her so. Then, if she acts like a bitch, tell her she was hot until she opened her mouth. No offense, but you really don'…
/r/seduction18/08/12 07:06 AM
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Also evolutionary driven. You want to fuck other girls because you want to impregnate other girls since it makes it more likely your genetic traits would pass on.
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:51 AM
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It makes me revel at how impressive a phenomena evolution is.
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:41 AM
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No, she is actually pretty correct. Evolutionary psychology is all about this type of behavior. It's absolutely true. Your interactions are based upon mating. Everything you do and the way you think is completely controlled by mating.
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:40 AM
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Good! Do it again. By the time you do it 30 times, you will be numb to it.
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:37 PM
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I find it weird that you have to get past the "he's a psycho" phase in the first place.
/r/seduction07/08/12 11:46 PM
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Just show up...
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:27 AM
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Go to a club and makeout. Never do women find men more attractive then when it is obvious that he is taken. I was making out with a girl this weekend at a nightclub and the hottest girl that I saw that night walked up and grabbed my butt. Fun stuff.
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:01 PM
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I like to point out my personal experience. I'm a good looking guy. My best friend and wing man, however, is not good looking by any stretch of leniency. Gap teeth, fat, jaw of a 6 year old girl, can't bench press the bar. I went out a month or two ago, just me and him. He picked up a girl I consider a 9.5. I got one number. I was in a tired mood and had low confidence. He doesn't give a fuck about anything and just swagged all over the town. Confidence gets you MUCH FURTHER then looks.
/r/seduction07/07/12 09:07 AM
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Why is it a topic of conversation. Your virginity has nothing to do with them. You're a virgin because you lack confidence. You lack confidence because you are a virgin. Fix one of these problems. Furthermore, what the fuck does it matter if a girl cares if you are a virgin? As soon as you realize that her opinion of you has never, and will never, matter in the slightest bit to ANYTHING about your life, you will stop giving a fuck.
/r/seduction02/06/12 07:32 PM
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The average sedditer isn't the average redditer.
/r/seduction02/06/12 02:54 AM
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This is the type of stupid shit that gives seduction a bad name...
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:17 AM
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"which I have since realized is meaningless bullshit." Trust, me, this is entirely fucking wrong. I'm a good looking guy and in great shape. One of my best friends is an ugly chubby bastard with fucked up teeth. Many of times we have gone out with me leaving practically empty handed and him pulling a 9. Look up Tyler Durden. Not from fight club but the seduction coach guy. That man is homely and he puts my game to absolute shame.
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:15 AM
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"just saw the girl I liked" Found your problem. Get over it.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:17 PM
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I just want to help the poor things... This happened to me recently. I was out one night and ran across a girl who I used to tutor. She was with some AFC. I walk up, talk to her, flirt, pull her away, end up kissing her and continuing on my way with her number. I could feel the poor kids heartbreak from across the room.
/r/seduction26/02/12 01:12 AM
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Don't jump off the proverbial cliff into the lake. Climb down the proverbial mountain side and step in... A lot of people say "just do it." But that can be too hard to deal with. Expose yourself to situations that give you a controllable amount of anxiety and just blow your way through it. You do this a few times and the previously anxiety-inducing situation becomes comfortable, then you move to the next level of anxiety. Example; Feel kind of embarrassed while talking to your mom on the phone i…
/r/seduction20/02/12 05:27 AM
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It's part of the flight or fight mechanism. She could have been discomforted or she could have been flattered. A simple blush isn't telling enough. Either way, you worked up a strong reaction in her. I call that a win.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:51 AM
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Nothing went wrong. Do it again. Next time you'll be laughing your way to the car. The time after that, you'll be bringing her with you.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:47 AM
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Move on.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:36 AM
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It doesn't matter. You only worry about this topic when you are uncomfortable with the concept of talking to girls. When you are comfortable with the interaction... A. You won't care what you say. B. The right things to say just come to you naturally. Go make a full of yourself and enjoy it.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:32 AM
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No we aren't. My response was to the thought of pulling a cute girl into my bed after a night out. I've got the life skills and use them everywhere in my life. I hate Sundays because today I was at school/work from 9am until 8pm and now I study. Similarly until Thursday night where I can go out and enjoy myself.
/r/seduction31/01/12 01:34 AM
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It is when you work + school 60 hours a week.
/r/seduction30/01/12 02:15 PM
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It's posts like this that make me hate Sundays. Five more days until I can go out again.
/r/seduction30/01/12 03:36 AM
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Repetition. Have you ever done something a thousand times? By the 1000th time the process is so mindless and automatic that you might not realize you are doing it. Same thing here, you become action oriented rather then feedback oriented.
/r/seduction24/01/12 02:16 PM
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Yes. I'm 6'1, in great shape, good looking, outgoing and very confident. One of my best friends is 5'6, chubby and average looking. Guess who pulled the certified 12/10 girl this weekend? Hint; not me.
/r/seduction23/01/12 02:25 PM
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You have to be misinterpreting your situation and, in turn, incorrectly informing us what's going on. You're describing a guy who would go at worst 20% and you're talking about 0/50. Something doesn't tie up.
/r/seduction16/01/12 12:02 AM
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I wish this subreddit would stop talking about social skills as if they were completely unique to fucking girls that you meet at a club. Don't look at seddit as help getting laid, look at it as taking over and molding your social skills to lead to a more satisfying life. I went out last night and ended up making out with two different girls. I wasn't using game, I was enjoying being myself with my friends and found girls that way. All day, you should be working on improving your social skills. Y…
/r/seduction15/01/12 08:57 PM
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You're doing something wrong. Record audio of yourself and post it on a new thread in seddit. I've seen fat ugly cavemen go better then 0/50.
/r/seduction15/01/12 08:16 PM
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If this is a problem for you, I'm assuming you have drastic confidence problems in the first place. Nobody gives a fuck about your foot.
/r/seduction15/01/12 08:03 PM
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Why be a douche? Just let them be. Out of the 1 billionish men on earth, approximately 1 billion of them want to get laid. Who the fuck are you to step on other's toes? Worry about you.
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:40 AM
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Hit them. Hard. I probably would kill a man for less. That's pretty fucked up and they deserve no respect. That being said, there is no "once in a lifetime chance." If you got one that hot, then you can find more. Trust me.
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:32 AM
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A. Never you let yourself think you are attractive enough. If you are a 1, strive to be a god damn 3. Women are attracted to this desire for self improvement. Fuck doing it for the girls, do it for you. Same thing for good looking guys, if you are a 9.9, strive to shame Brad Pitt. Complacency is woefully unattractive to everybody. B. Looks help... a lot. With confidence and success rate. I'll tell you right now, the biggest thing that looks help with is the confidence necessary. Catching girls l…
/r/seduction13/01/12 04:47 AM
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It's all about not giving a fuck. It's confidence in the pointlessness and lack of value of other's judgement of you. Aside from a small group of permanent and important people in your life(family, boss, close friends), nobody else fucking matters. If I were to judge you right now and insult you by calling you weak or pathetic, it has no effect on your life as soon as my face were to disappear. Any semblance of my actions will cease to exist as soon as the moment is over. Confidence exists in ow…
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:25 AM
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Don't. A girl losing her virginity is a nightmare to deal with. If you don't want emotional attachment, don't chase girls with the single highest propensity for emotional attachment. I think that's kind of obvious. Plus, they suck in bed.
/r/seduction10/01/12 06:01 AM
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You lack confidence. Trust me. I could walk up to a girl and ask her whether she likes vegetables or not and develop from there. You lack confidence in the pointlessness of the interaction. Not confidence in yourself or what the outcome could be, but confidence in the face of judgement based on what you say. You need to numb yourself to the awkwardness and rejection. At that point what you say doesn't matter. From there, the things you say become natural and effective regardless. Go up to girls …
/r/seduction10/01/12 05:59 AM
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You are hesitant. Find hobbies that make you feel better about who you are instead of just trying to convince yourself that you should. Genuinely believing something for bona fide reasons makes for a hell of a better argument then does telling yourself so. I've got myself to the point where I'm like 5% body fat. I feel like a physical god nowadays. Whereas before, I used to tell myself "I'm in decent shape, I can get girls with this physique." Now, I have absolutely no doubt about it and assume …
/r/seduction30/10/11 06:16 PM
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How did you miss Women are attracted to who you are, not how you look. ?
/r/seduction13/09/11 04:08 AM
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I hate this bullshit. As a good looking guy, trust me... looks matter. I've made out with models before saying a word to them based entirely on my looks... Looks aren't as important to women as to men, but "looks don't matter" is total bullshit. A good looking guy starts with a girl assuming that she likes you and anything that happens is just the argument for or against. Ugly guys have to start at a blank slate and build themselves up.
/r/seduction12/09/11 10:44 PM
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Jeez... no offense, but please learn somewhat proper sentence structure. I wanted to read this through, but the first like six sentences have half of a complete thought...
/r/seduction10/09/11 09:10 PM
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Who gives a fuck? You'll never see them again. Thinking about it only hurts your confidence.
/r/seduction10/09/11 09:06 PM
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I'm a physics major. I tell them I'm a genius and milk it up as much as possible.
/r/seduction05/09/11 08:46 PM
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Forget she exists. Move on.
/r/seduction05/09/11 08:36 PM
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You are prioritizing your life wrong if fucking random girls is more important to you then your relationship with your parents. Seddit is about life skills, not pussy count.
/r/seduction05/09/11 03:09 AM
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Improve yourself. If she treats you like her little brother, then you obviously have no sexual appeal to her. If you aren't in shape, get in shape. If you dress poorly, dress better. If you got your looks together, get your game together.
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:44 PM
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That's such terrible advice... The fear of failing is so deeply engraved into a person who experiences it that simple listed facts don't mean anything. Yea, cool, you quoted a common line. But you didn't say anything. Not that I'm helping his cause... But simple things like this don't really do anything for anybody except karma for the poster.
/r/seduction30/08/11 02:19 AM
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Maybe. I saw it in a comment and thought it was wonderful, so I figured if I hadn't seen it then many others haven't as well, so worth a repost.
/r/seduction22/08/11 11:45 AM
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It's subconscious. You're awareness and interest of another person's presence makes you subconsciously aware of their physical actions. So a girl seeing a guy she is interested in rest his hand on his hip causes the girl to have the notion of resting her hand on her hip seep into her head. Frequently, this awareness causes the girl to mimic the action. Next time you are around a really attractive girl, notice that you do the same thing.
/r/seduction01/07/11 12:42 AM
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It's cute how feminist think that women are people.
/r/seduction30/06/11 11:46 PM
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Just to give an idea... attraction felt by men and women are ENTIRELY different. They have just about nothing in common. The reason men get friend zoned is because they are trying to attract a girl by displaying traits that would make a female attractive to them. And women find these traits to be of friend-quality, not of lover-quality. Men evolved to find a mate that is right for them on a personal level. Mutual interests, interesting conversation, fun to be around. Men were their own providers…
/r/seduction28/05/11 06:25 PM
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Disagree heavily. 95% of learning to pick up girls is your confidence and enthusiasm. If he wants to be and is excited, then let him be excited. Surely, a few capitalized words won't derail your day, you can deal with it.
/r/seduction25/05/11 08:21 PM
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If you stay with her, you are wrong. It's not going to work. She's already told you that she considers you more or less friend zoned, but accidentally took it too far.
/r/seduction25/05/11 08:17 PM
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Well, a general way to beat the "she's out of my league" thought is to look at it like this; She might be really good looking, but she's definitely not perfect. Somewhere, many people hate her and can't stand to think of her or see her face again. She surely has flaws so frustrating that she could easily make you hate her. If you were to talk to her about one of your passions, she'd sit there like "Yea, thats cool. have you seen Lady Gaga's latest outfit?" If you look and think about her in this…
/r/seduction25/05/11 08:09 PM
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Oneitis. You are using seddit to vent in order to rationalize this obsession. Never think of her again and move on.
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:35 PM
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Blowing you off. You didnt develop enough interest during your date.
/r/seduction19/05/11 06:28 AM
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Confront your fear. Every irrational fear like this deteriorates the more you act against it. Find ways to expose yourself to the anxiety and you will rid of it.
/r/seduction19/05/11 06:26 AM
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Be more invested in improving your skills with girls, less invested in any one interaction.
/r/seduction17/05/11 08:30 PM
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It's too much of a social dynamic situation. There is no cookie cutter to this. This just takes confidence building and social skills. You need to develop the natural skills to do this. Just practice. Oh, one trick is making up a tough guy excuse to be hard of hearing in his direction. "Sorry, I'm hard of hearing, had my ear drum ruptured by a grizzly bear when I was 20." And then, of course, the girl will be like "OMG WHAT?"
/r/seduction16/05/11 09:19 PM
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Grab your balls and invite her to hang out with you.
/r/seduction16/05/11 09:10 PM
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Hot girl: "Jakedebest, you are really hot." Jakedebest: "So are millions and millions of other guys." hot girl leaves Jakedebest forever alone
/r/seduction03/05/11 01:04 AM
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Thank you TofuTofu. I will be shoving girls every chance I get from now on. PPP feels like hacking real life. Context?
/r/seduction21/04/11 01:45 AM
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If Liam Neeson were to hit on me, I couldn't help myself but give it up. And I'm a straight male.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:41 PM
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You're looking at the wrong aspect. I'm not saying the principles of evolution bound us presently. I'm saying that our evolutionary history has made it so the human brain is completely hardwired to obey what evolution has decided. Human's value "alpha" traits and devalue "beta" traits because, well, those that didn't died. So we continue following that rule... naturally.
/r/MensRights27/02/11 06:14 AM
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Not really. Life evolved over many millions of years with the underlying concepts of "alpha" and "beta" being the driving force. Human society in the 2000s is the only real protestor to this notion in all of the history of life on earth.
/r/MensRights27/02/11 05:10 AM
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It's called hyperbole. Torture for false rape charges? Is there any feasibility or logic to that? Any rational way to implement it? Any possibility of it happening? Obviously, no. Therefore, it's to be interpreted as sarcasm.
/r/MensRights29/01/11 03:55 AM
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The first part; no. They did what they could. If such a law were to be enacted, nobody would work trials due to possible trouble caused by not being perfect. It's kind of the same reason for the Good Samaritan laws. Why try to do what's right when failure to do so will hurt you? Simple, you don't, you just let what's right fall by the wayside and more wrong happens because of it. The unfortunate truth is that there has to be sacrifices in everything. There is no way to perfect the trial process,…
/r/MensRights28/01/11 12:28 AM
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Your view is kind of skewed. You are viewing feminism in a vacuum and as a movement for what it should be; equality. But let's be real, it's a political issue and it turns into a power tug of war. I don't follow the entire movements in the world of politics, so I can't argue specifics. But it's clearly not for complete equality like it's claimed. And as far as reddit goes, the feminist subreddit is disgusting, anti male, pro female bullshit. Similarly, the mensrights subreddit is disgusting, ant…
/r/MensRights14/01/11 11:04 PM
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