Large-Ordinary-4231 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Sex while separated, do you consider it cheating? Still a thing in NH. Adultery that is; not just infidelity.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/23 04:20 AM
2	What Did You Tell Mutual Friends? I’ve used a similar “I realized it was getting too crowded for me in my relationship” response.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/23 11:41 AM
2	What Did You Tell Mutual Friends? These stories can be so similar it’s like their archetypes to be defined for future reference. Your story is just like mine: the classic emotional affair between married coworkers where the spouse rewrites history to claim how bad it was, makes it your fault for their lack of commitment and/or communication, and is upset there are consequences for being a shitty person. In my case my older kids, my former in-laws, mutual friends all found out, as well as work, partially through her own stupid ac…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/23 11:39 AM
2	Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdown I believe our ex-wives might actually be each others twin flames - as a similar blow up of two families, and it's scandalous with our children in the same school together, they were on a school board together, and the subsequent losing of friends, family, etc. and then wondering why it is so hard for us to "just be friends" because we "grew apart". Nothing to do with the lies and deception parts of her actions as she sent me in one direction with her concerns about my mental health - while she u…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/23 02:16 AM
3	Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdown I think in reality the self-centered a-holes actually vastly outnumber the true diagnoses.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/23 03:40 AM
2	Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdown I, too, have been on the receiving end of the Twin Flame nonsense and was told by my ex she had an awakening. Complete with Tarot cards and psychic readings. It’s sad. And it’s a horribly transparent way to shift blame and responsibility from them to “the universe” as it was told to me. The shit bag Ivy League lawyer on the other side of the Twin Flame crap with my ex is equally bonkers and both of them deserve each other. By every other measure these are “smart” people doing really dumb things …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/23 03:37 AM
2	The best part about being divorced. Hang in there. I’m on the final stretch in a similar situation of separation in place with kids. She’s finally got a lease signed and will be out in the next several weeks. One day at a time.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/23 05:35 PM
1	Dating after divorce Thank you - I read it this way!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/23 07:54 AM
1	Wife asked for divorce this week. Terrible feeling. Making slow steps to rebuild but am needing camaraderie and shoulders to lean on. You’re not alone! Any of you. I can’t say enough how grateful I am to hear all the other experiences. Sticking to core values is how I’m trying to stay on track, even when the loneliness hits. That, and hit the gym hard.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 11:36 AM
3	Wife asked for divorce this week. Terrible feeling. Making slow steps to rebuild but am needing camaraderie and shoulders to lean on. This. All of this. When it happens like a light switch just went off, there is a reason. Speaking from experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 11:29 AM