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I’m a sexist then. Man up. There’s higher expectations for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:11 PM
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You cannot communicate through a sexual issue in my experience. You can’t make someone like something or someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:24 PM
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Are men people with free will or are they people easily led around by the dick? My idea of a man is someone who has self control and takes accountability is this not the case? You can choose not to look at porn. You can choose to dump the starfish. Grow up and man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:11 PM
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They wear casual sex on demand with 18 year old women not a traditional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:21 PM
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She moved to LA after 15 seconds of internet fame 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:06 AM
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I’m really not obligated to have conversations that don’t serve me or make my life better. Sorry. Go bug someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:19 PM
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No, I just don’t wanna continue to talk to you. I don’t see it going in a way that’s gonna make my evening better. I don’t really like your vibes. I was being polite in my response before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:00 PM
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We don’t have to agree. This isn’t going anywhere. Have a good evening. Enjoy the Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:51 PM
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You’re not properly living if you’re not fucking something up. I understand the value of stability but there’s something be said for people who take risks and try things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:44 PM
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Yeah neither of us lived at home. We fucked off at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:20 PM
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I love that for you. I’m happy you figured it out so fast. I don’t regret anything that I did. I don’t know if that’s your aim. I’m happy you got it together so fast. You’re a heck of a lot smarter than me or my spouse. We had to do it the hard way to get it to stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:15 PM
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Ok. What exactly was the aim of this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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I already did. He also had a rock and rolling 20s filled with missteps and fun. He has a tattoo he regrets and had a few financial challenges that he worked through as well as some regrettable girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:54 PM
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Kinksters is the key word. He’s talking about normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:51 PM
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The 20s are for dumb decisions. If you never made a single one- congrats you’re perfect and also you missed out. This is THE TIME to do stuff that’s probably not super super good for you and your finances. You have all the time in the world to be responsible later. In addition, there is something character building about digging yourself out of a mess. I learned to budget via several debt failures and now I’ve got that shit on lock. No amount of hypothetical advice and lessons taught me what lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:49 PM
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Again what’s wrong with 50/50 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:37 PM
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Are 50/50 dates a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:01 PM
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No. She’s a whore who slept her way up and also wasn’t good enough to breed with. Sucking some cock doesn’t make her special. Any woman can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:26 AM
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Coffee dates have unfortunately gained a reputation as a cheap fuckboy date. Thats why women don’t like them. Guys will often demand sex after a 5 dollar coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:21 PM
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Most men get crushed on in middle school lmao. Things aren’t as bleak as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:15 PM
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Absolutely! There’s a lot more to life than having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:14 PM
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Seriously lmao. I used to against it but holy shit it sounds a lot more convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:27 PM
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Facts. People who complain about these crazy aches and pains in their 30s are usually fat out of shape people for whom the chickens are coming home to roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:44 AM
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That’s amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:32 PM
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D&D is for losers. Jazz Choir is fine but sports are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:22 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:05 PM
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Yeah no, sorry we should stamp out quirks. Not stamping out quirks and weirdness is what got us into this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:27 PM
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That wasn’t your question. I’m not doing this. Accept my answer and engage with it or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:27 PM
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What do you mean? I don’t know I’m not a man. You asked women a question. I answered. I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:03 PM
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They’re usually doing it for gross reasons- to fuck or take advantage of her youth. It’s never to improve her life. She’s usually dumped as soon as she hits 25 or something or is anything but “youthful.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:54 PM
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Of course you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:08 PM
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This is who prenups are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:04 PM
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Gender roles are largely a good thing. Both genders have their own roles and strengths. There’s zero need to change it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:34 PM
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Send me one. I can’t embroider.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:46 PM
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If it’s a frequent occurrence we won’t be having sex again. I’m not a charity whoreganization. I need to cum when I have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:25 PM
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Michael sounds the least neurotic. Also it’s clear he has social skills. Sign me up. Before PPD, I would have said the other two but I have since learned what sniveling pathetic pussies those kinds of men are. So yes Michael, bring it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:22 AM
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I’m not reading all that babe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:31 PM
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Linking to Slutty Confessions I’m dead and dying hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:02 PM
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For women: not overspending. I love Olivia Rodrigo but there was no way in hell that I was gonna spend thousands to see her in concert like some other fans (typically women) did. There is no artist worth that amount of money. Look at all the women spending crazy amounts on fucking TSwift. Women are the ones who have the most credit card debt too. So easily influenced (guilty of this so no glass houses anything- I am working on it.) For men: an ability to plan and remember family events. This sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:04 AM
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This is the most unmanly girly bitch thing I’ve ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:15 AM
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Absolutely. This is a general answer- not about anyone. A lot of cheaters do regret it, they just feel like it’s their “karma” to stay and put on a show of happiness. Also it’s really embarrassing to leave for someone and not have it work out so people will hide problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:31 PM
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It’s true. It’s really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:53 PM
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It’s gotta come from inside. I used to feel this pressure too. Then I slowly realized that the only people whose opinions I cared about were my husband and family and they love me. If they’re happy, so am I. Family first. I still have moments of pressure but it’s usually applied by other women and it’s easy to ignore since dumb cunts are easily ignored if you think about who they are. They’re not people to try to mollify.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:40 PM
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They promote this gender war stuff and can’t just be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:46 AM
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Most normal people do. I should exist outside the pill sphere lmaooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:10 AM
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They should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:12 PM
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Let me offer a perspective here that could be interesting. This isn’t factual and there’s no studies involved. It’s dangerous to like men a lot. I’m someone who gives a lot of love if I don’t hold back that energy. You want money? The shirt off my back? You need help? I’m here. I’m ready. This is for everyone. However, and I’ve talked about this before- I had to seriously cut back on this for my sanity and health. People will seriously take advantage of you and treat you as a workhorse and thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:11 PM
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You can’t hold youthful decisions against people that’s douchey. Youth is for making mistakes. I’m glad you were perfect though!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:49 PM
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Like how do you phrase it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:27 AM
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How do you ask? I don’t see this discussion being a sexy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:18 AM
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The Bitch Be Crazy red flag is so real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:13 AM
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Over the age of 30, yes. I give grace to those still finding themselves in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:12 AM
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A lot of childfree people end up regretting it when they’re all alone and everyone has moved on to prioritizing their real family and not their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:33 PM
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Anti social behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:32 PM
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It doesn’t mean I need to keep interacting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:38 PM
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Then I guess I’m not hip with the kids or what the fuck ever. Or I’m not in those circles. Everyone I know married before 27 at the latest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:27 PM
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You’re not socialized as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:21 PM
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I guess I’m a Christian tradcon then. Except I’m not Christian. You can’t just call normal people tradcons because you are a Marxist/Anarchist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:20 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:07 PM
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Because that’s how this is usually done. This hippie free love no marriage nonsense is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:04 PM
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Victim Pilled. Discussion over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:00 PM
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Men and women are meant to live together and complete each other. I can believe that never married folks are a little worse off than married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:59 AM
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No. I’m not doing this. You will always find some hole in it. If you can’t understand women and humans it’s not something I can fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:51 AM
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You’re not understanding human concepts. Have you ever interacted with a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:35 AM
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You’re not a red pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:34 AM
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Have you ever dated before?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:34 AM
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Women can but they will often shut down their gut feelings to be “nice”, which often results in those toxic exes. Women would be much better served by trusting their gut more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:39 AM
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Because that’s part of western dating. Sometimes you date an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:38 AM
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If you date in any capacity, you often end up with a “toxic ex” or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:37 AM
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I got too drunk at a Christmas party and my husband had to help me all night long. I apologized for over indulging and cut back on the drinks after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:54 AM
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Facts and morals. I’m only a human being. I’ve been wrong and apologized for a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:40 AM
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Plenty of times. I won’t go into detail because it will 100% be picked apart especially on PPD, but I’ve eaten crow plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:39 AM
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I’m not reading that tripe sorry. You enjoy though!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:27 AM
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Yes I’m married. It didn’t really change our relationship, we still got on great. There was no great conflict or craziness. We’re 8 years married now. We didn’t need a whole crazy vetting process to know that it was right for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:13 AM
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This is a great way to get weird DMs 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:08 AM
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Oh you’re a marxist. It all makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:06 AM
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Yes give me that edgy blah blah. I just came boo. Say it again. 🫦🫦
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:01 AM
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This is exact logic that men use to waste women’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:46 PM
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If you can’t understand why people value marriage, you haven’t been paying attention or are being edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:43 PM
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It’s fine honey. That would shock anyone. That’s a massive heartbreak. Don’t let anyone shame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:36 PM
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Agree. You can’t swallow all the lies about getting to know you or perfect surprise proposals or something. They know almost straight away. Don’t let them bullshit you. That’s how you waste 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:46 PM
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Yes. It’s what you guys tell us. Sorry you’re getting your own harsh treatment back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:24 PM
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He loved her and thought she was cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:15 PM
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Yup. I like experience dining and that can run a bit high. I don’t want a man who is gonna kvetch about it or not enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:23 PM
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I don’t believe in wallowing in the past for victimhood sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:47 PM
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Because it’s over and he needs to get his shit together. The past isn’t relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:58 PM
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It doesn’t matter at this point. He’s stunted. Fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:23 PM
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No shit. However, if you can be friends with anyone you probably have good social skills and will get laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:21 PM
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Because love is nice. Moms are people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:49 PM
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I guess I’m a sexist then. Sorry you asked and this is the honest answer no filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:07 PM
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Not emotionally regulating and being a drama queen. Relying on men for money and validation Not trying at all with her looks Being fat Being a nasty cunt Using girl game to take people down and then using info against people Being a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:10 PM
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You’re 23. Don’t become a loser yet, still young. Lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:52 PM
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Great then he should go fuck robots as much as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:51 PM
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If you’re lonely go find a real human girlfriend or go visit with a friend. See your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:40 PM
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I don’t have real concerns about it. I think people who want robot girlfriends are pathetic. There is nothing that will kill this ick. How sad do you have to be to seriously consider a relationship with a robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:37 PM
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Don’t breed if you’re this paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:37 PM
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I’ve been on PPD. I’ve seen all I need to see. I’m never getting fucking divorced and if he dies, I’m just done with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:25 PM
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I never said the second bit. I’m pretty red pilled on that matter. I just try to be more positive. Today isn’t a positive day obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:24 PM
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I’m in my 30s now. Married, so you understand where I’m coming from. In my early 20s with my H when he was late 20s, low key dates were fine. Now we only go on date nights formally for anniversaries and birthdays so yes, we go all out for those 3 dates. Casual date nights are all the time. We don’t want to do what we do everyday on special occasions. I don’t want a cheap anniversary or birthday meal sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:27 PM
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Where is the limit? Trying to please men is a thing that fades away with time and age. Look at how men talk about women past the age of 29, where does that incentivize any women to cater to what men want? It’s a better deal to be yourself in full even if it’s a man repellent because they hate you once you turn 30 anyway. Please explain why women should cater to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:21 PM
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I’m not reading as another guy tells us how much he wants to fuck tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:05 AM
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Face and body is more important. Tall and ugly won’t get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:17 AM
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Self improvement should not be about getting women or not getting women. It should be because you want to be a better version of yourself. There’s a lot more to life than dating and sex believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:19 PM
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It feels really good when someone gets back on their feet thanks to your help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:55 PM
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I used to have a really bad savior thing. It came from a bad childhood. It was so well meaning. I didn’t want anyone to feel like I had, I just wanted everyone to be happy and to see the best in people. This unfortunately led to me being targeted by a lot of disordered individuals. My husband thankfully is great- I am such a lucky girl. But making friends have been rough AF. I tend to attract broken birds…who I then enable and become a therapist friend for. This isn’t good for me. This is horrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:18 PM
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His wife didn’t say no. He just doesn’t want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:00 PM
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No. My husband routinely throws me under the bus lol because he doesn’t wanna hang out with whoever asked. I found out at our wedding about all the events I supposedly said no to. Your friends are making socially acceptable excuses to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:59 PM
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Grow up. Your interests aren’t special just because they aren’t mainstream. You’re on Reddit right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:54 PM
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But that’s the important thing now- please step into the 21st century
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:03 PM
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They’re usually no fun and don’t want to go out and do young people things. They smell and get tired easily. Erectile Dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:02 PM
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He didn’t owe her anything, but that was scummy behavior. Our goal as humans should be to reduce scummy behavior as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:54 PM
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He’s old and ugly so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:19 AM
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It’s not worth trying to seriously talk to men about dating. The ones who get it, get it. The ones who don’t, are really committed to not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:53 PM
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Haha same. Mine is and was just a normal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:40 PM
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There will be no healthy balance on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:49 PM
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You can definitely learn social graces to an extent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:09 PM
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Then why keep talking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:07 PM
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Ok women have it easier. Acknowledged. Now what? How can we change anything? Move on from the bitter bunny behavior. It’s not attractive. Work with the hand you were dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:03 PM
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You’re determined to be miserable eh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:35 PM
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Have you ever been married? How many relationships have you been in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:11 PM
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No one divorces for shits and giggles. Stop listening to the loser men on this board who tell you stories that only cast themselves as the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:10 PM
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First of all get off Tinder. Second, yes the attitude matters a lot more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:33 AM
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Thanks. Genuinely, my anxiety went away when I changed my attitude and stopped being a realist. I do not suit any kind of realism let’s be honest. I don’t care if I’m delusional. I was an anxious fucking mess. This is so much better for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:35 AM
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Yes I love it. I’m much happier and my life is better when I lie to myself. I no longer have anxiety. I love my life and generally enjoy my days. Lying is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:29 AM
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Yup!! I don’t agree anymore that truth and realism is the ideal. This can often be negativity that’s wholly off putting and detrimental to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:16 PM
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Never mind. It’s fine. Don’t worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:05 AM
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Oh you were serious. Yeah I was messing with you dude….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:01 AM
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I text him that everyday as a matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:45 AM
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Men over 30 are similarly annoying just FYI. I’m happily married but holy god can this man bitch. He’s not exactly happy go lucky or in his prime (neither am I, we have both aged.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:38 AM
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They want you to be insecure and susceptible to casual sex. It’s the RP thing. Once I realized that, I stopped feeling bad about aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:36 AM
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Just get a hooker. Strip clubs are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:03 PM
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You didn’t have daddy issues so you didn’t like old men. This tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:06 PM
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I don’t lol. Dating sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:37 PM
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Extroverts will adopt introverts and love on them. It’s really sweet most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:49 PM
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I cackle at what the manosphere turned prenups into. It’s a document for rich people not Kyle in Ohio with a 2022 Honda Civic. I promise you that your potential divorce isn’t going to make your ex wife rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:40 PM
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No, sorry. Empathy is for my loved ones not random internet strangers. He’s being inappropriately dramatic. If he’s serious he needs to chitchat with a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:32 PM
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Don’t be so dramatic. It’s not cute
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:44 PM
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A man who made a living off rage bait. Rest in piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:04 AM
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It’s grey but I just really don’t think cheating is a good move. It won’t matter what the circumstances were when people find out about it. You want to make yourself a pariah and your wife a saint? Cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:35 PM
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Probably more than they ever realized
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:45 PM
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It’s usually not because they are excellent people. Just my experience on this planet so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:04 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:55 PM
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They are lonely for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:54 PM
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I’m very lucky that I have a great husband because I also was very concerned about settling and not dying alone. I very much could have walked into a situation like this. I’m sorry you went through that. Be a picky princess. You’ll be much better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:53 PM
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It’s usually pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:50 PM
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What female personality detector? You don’t need special skills to see when someone is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:29 PM
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Right. Negativity is a vibe killer and these incels don’t realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:36 PM
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The older I get, the more I understand boomer mentality (and I hate that thats happening lol.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:31 PM
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This is why people usually start to date in middle school. It’s never serious but it’s age appropriate practice. Immigrant parents hamper their kids when they don’t allow this sort of normal development with their western kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:16 PM
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Right. Pandering to male sexuality by not wearing things is a slippery slope IMO. It completely leaves out the part where men control their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:29 PM
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It’s rough. I’ll give you that. But you must keep trying if you want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:01 AM
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That does happen but not in every relationship. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:51 AM
42

Yeah dating sucks. That’s why people settle down. They find their person and GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:42 AM
7

Who will RP men fuck if there are no women with daddy issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:41 PM
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It hurt more than from a man tbh. Cause she billed herself as this caring person who was everyone’s friend. The shame about falling for it was worse than the actual information getting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:37 PM
14

Ignoring my intuition has led me to some pretty unpleasant situations. Personal example- I met this woman everyone loved and thought was so smart. I immediately got bad person vibes from her but pushed it down because I didn’t know her in full yet. Fast forward to years later, I’ve somewhat connected to and confided in her. We get in a fight and she tells everyone about my private business. I should have gone with my gut that this woman was a snake but now because I didn’t- I have my private inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:51 PM
0

Did you accomplish your goal of feeling superior? Does your ego feel sufficiently fluffed? Did you cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:32 AM
2

Right? Even alfafas want love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:42 AM
8

Mid 20s early 30s isn’t an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:42 AM
44

I don’t have anything to add here that others haven’t said other than- men don’t age well either. Women just don’t point out the receding hairline, or doughy belly or wrinkles to be kind. I’m thinking that may need to come to an end. Y’all need a reality check. Everyone ages and looks “worse” with age. It’s a privilege to live long enough to do that. Many people die young and never get hit that stage of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:35 AM
0

You’re right. I did base it on PPD. To my knowledge, my husband had/has never thought of anything like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:26 PM
3

Mm…that doesn’t always work. I’d check on those. https://www.vox.com/health/24141538/egg-freezing-cost-age-ivf-fertility-pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:55 PM
3

That’s about when it’s time to get seriously get cracking on babies and marriage for women as a last chance to have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:02 PM
7

I tried. She’s convinced Mr Right is coming any day now. 😬. I suspect that bday no 35 is gonna be one for the books.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:54 PM
9

What I understand to be the male POV: She has definitely gone home on the first date before why am I not good enough? Am I her patsy or something? Female POV: he’s really nice but I’m trying to take it slow after (whatever.) Date was so fun but no sex yet. Men rightfully get annoyed at what they perceive to be “unequal” treatment without thinking of or taking into account what led to the so called unequal treatment. Women get annoyed that a few mistakes they made doom them to first date sex fore…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:50 PM
13

I’ve got a friend whose standards are way too damn high for a 31 year old single woman who wants bio kids, but she won’t listen to reason and won’t scale back her expectations. It’s really frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:45 PM
5

Very few women too. Bio clock is real. Women who want children can’t faff about waiting for Mr 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:42 PM
2

Right. I maybe got mesmerized as a teenager but then I grew up…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:57 PM
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America is a great place to date. Compared to other more traditional places- you’re so free to do whatever you want. Idk how you don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:52 PM
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Right? Let’s let the trash do trash things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:51 PM
9

Goodness. That one should have stayed in the diary. 😭. Secrets are ok to keep lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:14 AM
8

I’m not responsible for male hamstering. The ring and mentioning the husband is as far as I’ll go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:12 PM
2

If the ring and the husband aren’t a fuck off, I don’t know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:58 AM
5

I try not to keep orbiters. I make it super clear I’m married. If they don’t get the hint after that, then idk what else I can do/what signal to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:43 AM
3

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:47 AM
4

Guys will often try to act hard all the time for their girl. This is what they mean by the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:45 AM
1

She wants you to stop the act and just be a normal person with feelings and insecurities. Don’t dump it all on her obvs but show some softness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:16 AM
3

Spot on. It’s nice to be soft and serious sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:15 AM
5

The prerequisite is implied. Don’t you have social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:13 PM
20

No, this is some whacko insecurity like most of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:47 AM
1

Idk it’s silly I guess dunno what to tell you….i answered the fucking question what more do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:02 AM
11

I think 30+ men and teen (20 and under)girls will always be creepy. However once over 21, I’m really not concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:51 AM
7

I’m married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:51 PM
11

Oh my god. The Bitch Be Crazy red flag is so real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:14 PM
12

I don’t date so this is just stuff I’ve observed from friends who do date and couple friends. • resents their wife and tells everyone about it • talks way too much about how much they hate fat women • hates sports with a passion and calls it sportsball • too driven borderline workaholic • never moved on from college/high school
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:12 PM
7

Adaptability and resilience- I love a man who can roll with the punches
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:17 PM
-1

Typically yes. I’m not really all that modern minded. It’s fine it works for me and my spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:32 PM
-5

Give up on this. If you want to get laid, you need to approach. Stop being a pussy baby, you’re not a woman- man up. Women get approached men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:17 AM
2

Optimistic, responsible and intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:24 AM
14

You know damn well that’s not what they meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:47 AM
12

I don’t know dude. This is just why the pressure happens. It’s not that deep, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:11 AM
12

Because it’s the normal life path. Feel free to take your own. Most people find comfort in marriage. Do whatever the fuck you wanna do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:08 AM
13

Be a man and reject the pressure. Idk dude. Nut up. You’re not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:05 AM
79

Why do you want women to convince you to do something that you clearly aren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:59 AM
0

Hubby and I also went into it thinking that divorce was off the table and anything could be worked through. Barring murder, I wouldn’t leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:05 PM
1

It usually is. I’m not really a live together before marriage girl either. When I moved in with my H, it really wasn’t that dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:22 PM
0

Sure. But maybe it’s good to leave some mystery before marriage. So there is something to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:43 PM
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On a side note, I wish people would scale back on “showing the realities” of childbirth. Yes it’s important to be fully aware but the level of detail going on now is killing birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:29 PM
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Unless you’re a fundie yes. No more large families like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:20 PM
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You’ll figure it out. You’re smart enough I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:15 PM
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For a long time, the running “joke” has been that children suck and ruin your life. Think of all the humor that relates to how annoying kids are and how much mama wants to have her wine. Who the fuck wants to have kids when this is how they are portrayed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:14 PM
2

I’ll figure it out if it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:02 PM
2

I dunno. I’ll figure it out then. Probably my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:57 PM
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Haha I did this. After I turned 30, I cut my hair off into that cute style I wanted for years but was too afraid to get. I fucking love my hair now. I look so much better even if men no longer like my hair. I learned to knit and got serious about my running training. It was almost freeing to be “ugly and over the hill.” I wish I had leaned into not caring a lot sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:50 PM
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It’s a small subset who compete with 20 something’s. Usually women who never got their shit together. This is why women should never use men as a plan. Their attention is fickle AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:25 PM
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Stop taking the internet as gospel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:23 PM
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My husband went to a strip club for his bachelor party and ended up talking to the stripper the whole time about how much he liked me and was excited to marry me lol. He was super drunk and I found out from one of his friends that this is what he did. It was so cute and sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:20 PM
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Yeah idk if it’s my area or not but hubby and I went as a gag thing (the wings actually are good) and it was Mid Central lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:16 PM
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I don’t get the point of ogling only. Such a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:15 PM
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Hahah. I’m very much a DADT girl about that stuff. Don’t let me find out because I WILL be upset. I’m never gonna be the chill girl who wants to see tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:13 PM
1

This is something only single women can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:37 PM
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So you’re the one giving the be friends first advice eh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:41 AM
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They can be. Just not in way that’s beneficial to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:25 PM
3

It’s just not a priority sometimes. I had a miscarriage in 2022 and in the year after, got fat and wasn’t focused on losing it. I was busy with recovery, work and spending time with family as well some serious financial difficulties. Losing weight just wasn’t a priority. I lost the weight in 2024. Other people might have some variation of this story. I was thin until the unfortunate event happened. Thankfully my husband cut me a ton of slack to bounce back. He knew how much I struggled. I am bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:53 PM
1

It’s useless unless you’re actually close with her and know she won’t flip out. Some girls are like that. You can’t be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:58 PM
0

Do you think female rights activists just skipped up and were treated well? Nut up buttercup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:28 AM
3

Not really no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:11 AM
2

They’re silly for people who aren’t rich
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:58 AM
14

If you ask for a prenup you better be rich or old money. Otherwise GTFO, I don’t (general I) want your 2021 Toyota Camry and 5K in savings. LOL bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:08 PM
4

Have kids while married. Don’t bang low class whores. That’ll solve that problem for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:29 PM
3

Me personally I never could switch a man from a friend to a lover. It needed to be lovers straight away or nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:15 PM
3

Yeah, no. It’s a bit icky and guaranteed to get you flack from other women and scrunity if you say yes…..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:50 PM
7

No, I did not get fuck zoned when I did date. I didn’t fuck until we were official. I think being friends first is a shit idea. Start things how you intend to end them aka romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:48 PM
11

I don’t think about it like that. I just want a little baby with my boo lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:37 PM
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You should get off the internet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:31 PM
1

He’s gay anyway. They’re all beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:29 PM
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Correct. It’s serving the male imperative to the detriment of the woman involved. As much as men like to pretend they’re all valiant knights who would NEVER- let’s be real for a minute. They’d absolutely use and abuse a woman who never laid down a single boundary. Then make fun of her later for being single after he dragged his feet for 8 years and she’s unmarried and childless at 30 after being his perfect uncommitted sex kitten.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:13 PM
0

Nah. I’m good. I like my husband. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:39 AM
0

I married young for this exact reason. There was no life while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:46 PM
0

Yeah. Sorry. Too religious to do what you did. Awesome for you though! I didn’t do any of that stuff until I got married and never would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:31 PM
2

Eh. I don’t really believe that. That’s just long term dating if you don’t marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:42 PM
11

Marriage is nice. It’s having your best friend around all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:55 PM
10

People in good marriages often don’t gush about them and it’s mistaken for the marriage being in bad shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:24 PM
35

If a woman is friends with a man, the odds are good that she isn’t interested in fucking him so the feelings confession is unwelcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:37 PM
13

I’m a zillenial and I like Nara but I can see that she’s playing it up for clicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:31 PM
9

Men love trad wives why would they say anything. They are also stupid to female manipulation sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:28 PM
3

Good women don’t do this disgusting practice. That’s not how women should treat men. Marriage is meant to be about love not making money off a divorce. What a disgusting attitude…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:30 AM
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Women are emotional doncha know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:05 AM
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This is such a chronically online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:04 AM
9

Yeah…this is why people pair up in their 20s. 30s dating is a shitshow for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:46 AM
1

I thought this was a purge post :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:45 AM
6

You want us all to be cool girls and want to be endless FWBs for years and have lines to put us off. Next try please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:13 PM
16

No. There are still plenty of good men out there. I’m married but our couple friend still drove me to my car when we all went out as a friend group and hubby wasn’t there to get me safely back to my car since he was out of town. I was prepared to walk but he said absolutely not. Good men exist and are plentiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:12 PM
3

Are men just devoid of common sense anymore? Why are women upset? Jesus fuck use your 7 braincells for a minute. The hell is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:02 PM
7

You assholes encourage not nagging and pressing your man about marriage….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:00 PM
3

Is this whole post resentment over being the abandoned single friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:58 PM
0

Shit like this is why I resisted femininity for a long time. I’m not a child just because I like fun things or being cared for. I’m happy to care for myself and not be cutesy but then I won’t be submissive and will except egalitarian relationships…which yall don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:40 PM
40

This is just young people in general. They all think they’re mature AF and know everything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:52 PM
5

Is it ok if I give you the answer in several environments? Men: following, not taking no for an answer, getting me drunk while not drinking as much themselves. Colleagues: tracking my breaks, putting read receipts on everything, micromanaging Family: psycho levels of control, excessive texting and calling, excessive doom and gloom Friends: too close too fast, running into them too much for it to be a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:33 PM
0

Yeah, I do that sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:07 AM
1

This is what they don’t get. If it was just for “love” no one would have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:01 AM
3

When guys here talk about feminine, they mean submissive doormats that’s why I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:20 PM
6

I didn’t date that many people before getting married. It was maybe 2 men- and no I didn’t give a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:16 PM
4

You’d be absolute moron to be “feminine” aka agreeable the way they want in this world with no bounds. Great way to end up raped and dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:15 PM
9

No. I didn’t. That’s psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:07 PM
10

No. I’m married. I got married a while ago. I didn’t compete for this man. We just had a normal relationship and have normal power dynamics. This is psycho cluster B shit you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:04 PM
7

I don’t compete. I haven’t competed since before I got self esteem. Sorry, that’s fucking beneath me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:02 PM
10

I don’t compete for men. So whatever he sees in me. It’s not a healthy behavior to see this sort of question as a normal part of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:56 PM
9

Why do you keep asking this? Healthy people don’t compete like this for partners….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:55 PM
11

Because he likes me? Idk it’s his call who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:51 PM
31

Rescuing people is generally a poor idea. It rarely works out and leaves one person drained most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:10 AM
12

It’s not “his” shit anymore once they marry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:08 PM
0

No one ever is gonna find this level of charting about something that should be easy sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:14 PM
3

It absolutely does! I find men are trash rhetoric pretty gross too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:06 PM
11

It’s not pleasant. I’ve got some rather unsavory opinions of men sometimes too but try not to take it out on them. They’re only people. Perhaps this sounds arrogant or delusional, but I don’t believe I have obligation to be nice or tolerant of people who dislike me and are rude and nasty to me. This is why I do not take anything red pill related to be serious. I understand it’s for men. I understand it’s not gonna be soft, but damn man it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:34 PM
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It’s the red pill rhetoric. It treats women as dumb, incapable sluts who can’t even breathe correctly. I actually agree with a lot of RP stuff but can’t in good faith support nasty misogynists. I don’t support people who don’t treat me like a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:52 PM
7

No, because I don’t wanna deal with some guy hitting on me when I’m married. I tend to look very unapproachable in public. The ring is another “fuck off” symbol. It’s not even worth flirting because I want an intact marriage and flirting gets you in trouble. I don’t believe in my own self control that much- just being honest. I’d rather not even set up the opportunity or situation for any garbage behavior to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:46 PM
0

How did she take it when you broke up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:24 PM
10

I’m not the one writing essays with numbers about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:11 AM
9

That’s me. Hypergamous. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:06 AM
16

Dating shouldn’t be this technical. Step away from the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:04 AM
3

Because when I was trying to be a chill girl with no hoops, it didn’t go well. Setting up some rules and boundaries got me what I wanted. Men see no hoops as license to use and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:57 PM
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You probably shouldn’t date her. She might be cool but she isn’t for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:39 AM
8

I agree. Makeup definitely used to be a bigger thing. There’s been a real push to be “natural.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:13 PM
2

Some people need to think less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:27 PM
5

Brian Atlas yells at college girls for a living. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:02 AM
9

This is by design. Men love it when we hamper ourselves so they can always be top dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:22 PM
3

We were not told. We experienced it…you might value these things. Many guys don’t or even make fun of women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:21 PM
15

Yes. They have demonized femininity and agreeableness so much as stupid, weak and dumb, that there is no incentive to be those things. This is consequences of being nasty and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:19 PM
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I fear not many do this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:28 PM
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I admire your hypothetical standards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:56 PM
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Men don’t do this for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:44 PM
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Well if you go in with this attitude that everyone is lying then what do you expect? Ok. Cool. Your mind is made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:57 PM
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Who is yall
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:45 PM
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I never fucked around. Don’t put that on me. I don’t endorse that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:25 PM
4

I obviously don’t operate that way. I am close with my family and care what they think. It was a big factor in me choosing my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:49 AM
3

Cool. So you’re not close with your family. It isn’t dictating. It’s valuing their approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:43 AM
2

This isn’t really true. You cannot in fact just date whoever you want. What your family thinks matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:39 AM
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26-27- by that point her brain is as developed as it is gonna be and she should rock on with her bad self and do what she wants. No longer a “young woman” really- just a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:40 PM
3

Ill advised too. Men will take “free” sex all day long and never commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah, basically had this same realization some time ago. Very freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:22 AM
2

If it’s not fun to date them, it’s certainly not gonna be fun to marry them. Dating is the easy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:20 AM
19

Sure. We’ve all made poor choices. I’d be glad he cut them off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:39 PM
46

Most people want to do all those “unpleasant” things you don’t like about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:52 AM
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This is a lot of work. Relationships should not be that much work. You really wanna be the relationship police?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:41 PM
2

I tried to do this with my husband. He didn’t listen and would blow it off. I no longer try to help. If he wants a trashy car, he can have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:01 PM
3

Yes. I take excellent care of my own car.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:34 PM
6

Men who don’t take care of their cars and don’t get them serviced when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:01 PM
4

It’s just what I like idk, sorry, I don’t have a better answer. I don’t know if I can change at this point. I’m married anyway, it doesn’t matter. I found my second half ages ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:19 PM
2

I’m glad it filters. It keeps out people who aren’t right for me. Unfortunately I’m not the kind of lady who is for even remotely shy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:12 PM
7

Yes. I don’t have spontaneous desire/feelings and need that kick start: I’m probably not the right girl for shy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:05 PM
3

Agreed. It must be mutual. Reciprocity matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:23 PM
6

It would. I think women get tired of being the only ones who ever think of what someone might need in the future or family plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:00 PM
0

No girl wants to be some guy’s sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:47 AM
-5

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:30 AM
1

I mean do you blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:20 AM
25

Cute but cute in the way that puppies are. Not in a sexy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:34 PM
5

I agree it’s a hard job. I still would not wanna date a garbage man. My parents would never approve and I care about their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:38 PM
-1

You know therapists who are paid to help you exist. You should make use of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:57 AM
1

I probably didn’t. It’s whatever at this point. I’m not gonna lie and say that it hasn’t motivated me to be a really good wife.. cause that shit sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:55 PM
1

Don’t fuck with me. You know that’s not realistic. I never bought into the whole I’m equal to a man thing anyway. So don’t put that on me. Whatever, nice chat as long as it lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:19 AM
1

I don’t blame them at all for white lying. Have you seen a man take a rejection like that well? We don’t wanna get our asses beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:00 AM
0

You’re right I don’t. I’m married and I have been for 8 years. I used to have a lot more empathy for people who whined about dating. But it just never stops. Dating sucks full stop. I’m happy to be with my husband. But I never whinged this much when I was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:53 PM
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I am blue pill soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:33 PM
0

Talks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:41 PM
0

Is that why most of RP these days is guys whinging about how bad and awful women are? Not seeing a ton of accountability…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:40 PM
0

By having the best relationship you can despite that. This is a lifelong relationship, some blinders must be put on sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:13 AM
2

The only way to keep on keeping on. No use dwelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:12 AM
5

Mid 30s I’d argue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:02 AM
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