TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

LaserTst Archive

View 1 post and 15 comments by LaserTst on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
0

LaserTst/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:14 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Only you can let yourself be in the friendzone. You can become friends with her and put yourself there, or you can continue to escalate until she either gives in or stops it completely. ​ I'm sure I don't need to tell you to be careful, as 1. She's married, and 2. she has already denied you once so anything more could turn ugly. Metoo etc. ​ I'd drop this one, there's other girls out there without these hurdles to jump through.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:31 PM
0

Think of it this way, it should be the guy chilling on the couch while the girl comes over and tries to cuddle, never the other way around. The man is living his life, around and out of the house, regardless of what the girl is doing. She is thr one trying to be a part of his life. He should be the one who plans to do something while she joins him, not asking her what she is doing that day so he can come along.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:22 PM
1

Usually boring stuff, but since it's about them they are interested to talk anyways. Things like what kind of things are you into, hobbies etc.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:14 PM
4

If he's anything like me, then yeah it is. I've gotten better but I used to have huge difficulty talking about anything else but what interests me because I legitimately didn't care. I'd hate any type of small talk because I really couldn't give a crap about their life, so why would I ask. Now I do my best to seem interested in other conversations, but it's hard because I'm usually not.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:21 PM
2

One thing to definitely keep in mind is that another issue comes from your young ages. People continue to develop/change until around 25 years old, and there's a chance that within the next 5-6 years you and your girl will be very different people. This could mean you are no longer into her, she is no longer into you, or in some cases you happen to still be good matches. This is why most marriages after a certain age have a much higher success rate. Another thing to keep in mind is that many mar…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:39 PM
17

Broscience probably.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 10:27 PM
2

It sounds like you're someone that just wants some more affection from your girl. Here's the thing, your girl may never act around you like she does for her puppy and that's a good thing! Do you really want her to see you like a little puppy dog? I don't think you do. No girl wants to fuck a puppy dog.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 08:25 PM
4

I agree, and in this case (and always tbh) I feel like we should be saying "You're not hers, this is just her turn" (aka she doesn't own you), instead of it's just your turn with her. You are the prize here, and you're nexting her. She had her turn with you, but she doesn't own you and you'll give another girl a chance/turn to be with you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:52 PM
1

True, I actually find them pretty sexy but I know they are often times not a great sign of what kind of girl she is.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:59 PM
1

True, and this girl does have a few red flags, about 3-4 tats and used to be into the party scene but seems to have grown past it. Even if I go to the bar she doesn't seem interested in going. Do you ever wish you would have stayed with that girl and had kids with her? Eventually I want kids too, but I'm not sure I want some so early, I'm only 27.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:57 PM
1

Yeah, unfortunately I can't help but sit here waiting for the AWALT to start showing.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:44 PM
1

Yeah I definitely agreed into the LTR status too fast. Funny you say 29, she just turned 28 last month, yikes. That reminds me of the other thing that worries me, is if she might just be really good at putting up a good front. Nearing 30 I already knew she's probably starting to look to settle down, and probably showing me her "unicorn" traits.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:39 PM
1

She is extremely trusting, even after being cheated on. Unfortunately we have already established being monogamous, but even after that I have posted snaps of me at the bar with other girls (mostly just friends but she doesn't know that) and she never said a word. She also disregarded all the red flags with her cheating ex and only got mad at him for cheating because he got the other girl pregnant. Otherwise she probably would have kept going on naively. Due to this I feel like nothing short of …
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:33 PM
0

So it would mainly me a form of jealousy in her I'm looking for? She is also a little too trusting even after being cheated on. 10 red flags and she only got on her ex for cheating because he got the other girl pregnant. Unfortunately we have already established being monogamous (perhaps that was the biggest mistake), but even after that I have posted snaps of me at the bar with other girls (mostly just friends but she doesn't know that) and she never said a word.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:30 PM
0

Due to my ex being extremely clingy and needy, It's definitely strange being with someone who never texts me, but I don't really mind that. I wouldn't really think of her as boring, but she definitely doesn't have many hobbies. However when we are together things are pretty great and has fun doing just about anything. She enjoys kayaking, bowling, even video games from time to time so she's enjoyable to be around. I actually don't want more from her necessarily, I'm just worried that a lack of f…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:22 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter