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As other's have mentioned they are always quick to cut the ties emotionally..also it absolves them of ANY accountability.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 10:19 PM
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Having seen these sorts get their comeuppance i have noticed they never take ownership for their downfall anyway...it's either arrogance or sheer stupidity.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 10:06 PM
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They can convince themselves they are always in the right i know that much.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/26 05:50 PM
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She sounds absolutely toxic. For the sake of your mental health get out.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 08:57 PM
10

This is the truth. Then they turn it round that it's actually YOUR fault...
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 05:35 AM
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Call mine the archaeologist as she loves to dig up the past. Now if i do the same im just making stuff up obviously..
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 07:36 PM
8

Will always be the way. Hang in there🙏
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 07:34 PM
2

So live like Macauley from Heat😎i dig that🙏
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 06:42 PM
1

Ha mine recently told me she just wanted to be a trad wife which is a traditional stay at home wife...problem is she is so aggressively feminist in her actions she is literally the polar opposite!
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 09:17 PM
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I've had similar from my wife but being self-employed it really isn't that easy! Oh just quote jobs so low that im barely making any profit? I do think the deck is stacked against men.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 08:41 PM
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Tough when kids are involved though.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 06:38 PM
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Im not honestly sure i could ever trust another woman again. I mean what can you really gain from getting into another relationship? Not for me thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 06:37 PM
1

Im sorry but one thing i learned is they never change.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 01:26 PM
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Thing is you do definitely get conditioned to their mind games and lies so its hard to get past that.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 04:36 PM
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Yup this🙏they will literally cut their nose to spite their face rather than admit their shitty behaviour may in some way have caused it all.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 08:46 PM
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Remarkable coincidences in behaviour i find...they will literally make an argument out of nothing. And god forbid you offer to do a job they are in the middle of doing...as the old saying goes 'can't do right for doing wrong'.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 08:44 PM
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Yes absolutely because you can bet they will tell everyone THEIR reason behind it and it won't match the reason you give.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 01:56 PM
8

One thing i noticed with a lot of women either in the middle of divorce or afterwards is this mindset where they think they are being 'strong 'women. You know they won't let any man tell them what to do etc. But it's usually also an excuse to treat their partner like shit.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 01:54 PM
1

Even tougher situation. Hang in there💪
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 05:53 PM
3

Not quite as easy as just moving out immediately for me. Kids and finances for starters.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 01:54 PM
2

Yes and of those 20-30% its likely a tiny percentage that ever admit to it. They hate to lose what they see as the moral high ground even if they've behaved awfully.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 01:53 PM
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You have to just bear in mind they are just exactly designed to hurt. It would almost be easier if it was a physical attack but women like to twist the knife I've found.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 07:11 AM
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Im still currently cohabiting but the situation really doesn't suit me. Financially at the moment though i am screwed (self-employed) but i will definitely be looking to get out ASAP. My OH pretends its in the kids interests to stay in the same house but its only because i do so much with the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 07:08 AM
2

Pretty much yeah. No ownership of behaviour seems common.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 01:52 PM
3

I think that is a boredom thing a lot of the time. They just buy shit to occupy themselves! Her sister literally ran up thousands in debt and then cried when nobody wanted to pay it off for her.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 12:43 PM
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They will tell you anything. Remember that.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 05:06 PM
2

Amen to this 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 11:39 AM
3

Sounds a familiar story. The hard part is also you never get the truth from the questions you ask. You will likely only get their version of the truth.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 01:49 PM
7

Ah the working on our relationship bit but actually they are lining up dates...yes im coming to this part now i think.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 11:03 AM
5

PITA
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 04:12 PM
6

100% agree with that mindset. Even before i was married i was always happily single. Didn't need a partner for company, was happy with occasional meets.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 09:39 PM
2

Absolutely this. Re-connect with friends you realise you may have neglected as i did.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 07:43 PM
1

Try to keep busy. Obviously difficult come night time but anything to avoid having your head spinning. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 07:42 PM
1

Im sort of in this position currently. She has said im not going anywhere until you are better..(anxiety/depression) but i realise a lot of this has actually come about because of her behaviour in the past!
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 10:51 AM
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I wouldn't imagine its TikTok just complete disassociated from their normal lives. My wife has always told me i am on my phone a lot but she is literally never off hers.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/25 04:57 PM
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This place certainly bloody helps! Thankyou
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 07:53 PM
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Also the last paragraph...finding another? My god no. After this i will be alone the remainder of my days.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 03:27 PM
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Had the conversation today. Wife has moved on emotionally years since,i just hadn't realised.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 03:26 PM
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