Last_Nerve42 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
68	Dump him first Oof, what is it with that green day song? I dated a guy in the military who tried to guilt me with the exact same music video. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 01:17 AM
36	On what men do with nudes of their exes, majority responds “they are mine to do what I want with.” This is the entitlement they feel towards our bodies. LADIES DO NOT SEND NUDES EVER do not even watermark as those can be removed with photoshop Definitely. I've also chosen not to blame myself for the ways another person has chosen to try to hurt me (ie post/share said media). I'm not ashamed, but he certainly should be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 01:01 PM
6	FDS: thank you for helping me to open my heart to women Same! My relationships with other women in my life are so much closer now, and richer, and I appreciate them so much. Female friendships are so much more rewarding than any male friendship I've ever had.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 01:12 PM
121	A "compliment" that men need to stop using When a guy says "wow, you do athletic thing so much better than other girls I know." Like dude. Get to know some more girls.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 02:09 AM
7	A year of climbing without men That's bad ass!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 02:06 AM
38	👀 Right? I want a recommendation too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/21 05:47 PM
56	This Queen 👸 glowed up after leaving her LVM and is a solid example of the better life that awaits you I love how happy she is about those jars!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 05:10 PM
55	Things you used to find romantic before FDS? Ugh yes this was me, every time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 12:34 AM
7	I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalm I ❤️ Nightwish!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/21 03:06 PM
146	Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial man How about men with several "close friends", but he insists on dumping all his emotions and problems on his female significant other because he "doesn't have anyone else to talk to"?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/21 07:56 PM
89	This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help. Girl RUN! What a creep. I'm so glad this younger generation has the ability to record this behavior and share it with each other as a warning.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 01:10 PM
9	Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small) This is fantastic strategy!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 04:28 PM
5	I Leveled Up my Home Improvement skills today! Heck yes!!! Good tools and home improvement skills are SO important!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 12:10 PM
152	Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous. I've seen this in real time. They don't mind receiving what life (or women) will just hand them, and won't put in even the slightest amount of effort for anything beyond that. You're right to call it. It won't get better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 01:17 AM
105	Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost? My ring is not a large stone but it is his family's treasured heirloom. So that to me showed a level of commitment similar to a large financial investment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 12:17 PM
60	We don't compete against other women & we don't chase men Heck yes!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/21 12:56 PM
651	What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you? Be a "supermom". It sounds like a compliment but it's just a way for men to shirk their duties and put everything on some poor exhausted woman just trying to have a family and get through the day. And she can't complain because he called her "supermom".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 01:21 AM
22	The most dangerous thing about narcissism is that people think it’s excessive self-love, when it’s actually chronic self-loathing. That is brilliant. Beautifully said!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 01:17 AM
39	Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice. Same!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 04:42 PM
18	Miya Marcano: Another woman missing at the hands of a man That poor young woman. I hope she is found safe but it doesn't seem likely at this point.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 12:16 PM
16	Be Wary of Male Therapists / Psychs Sounds like he knew he probably wouldn't meet any of your high standards, and that bummed him out. Sorry that's happening to you, he sounds pretty unprofessional.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 07:07 PM
11	What should you do when you can't trust your own intuition? Have you read The Gift of Fear? The author talks a LOT about women tapping into their own intuition, particularly where it comes to interactions with men. I'm reading it now, so not done with it yet, but it's been very interesting so far.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 12:53 AM
31	Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal? No man would ever "talk it out" if another man slapped him in the face, for any reason. No, it's not normal and we shouldn't let it become normal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 04:24 PM
1	Times you need confort are good for vetting... And on that note, I'm also sorry about your aunt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 04:07 PM
3	Times you need confort are good for vetting... This is an excellent behavior/personality trait to vet people on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 04:07 PM
24	Since breaking up… I've trained in kenpo, isshinryu and capoeira. Capoeira was by far my favorite.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/21 12:09 AM
50	Since breaking up… After leaving a toxic relationship, I ran a marathon, trained in martial arts, lost some weight, read a TON of books... I had the time of my life!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 11:08 PM
36	Dump him on the first lie Your menagerie sounds delightful. I'm glad they bring you joy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 04:33 PM
6	Wild Take I received while vetting: I'm really curious about the various answers to that question you've gotten from other people. It's not something I've ever thought to ask.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 02:32 AM
6	Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag? Yikes. I think your gut is right on. If you have a friend or family member who could stay with you for a couple days (or you stay somewhere else) that might help you feel safer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 12:03 PM
1	Is this meant to be belittling? Is he forgetful about other things? If not, I think you have your answer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 04:49 PM
12	Ladies, what are your current level ups? This year I've decided to finally manage my anxiety (yay for meds that help!) Get a handle on finances (almost out of debt, woohoo!) Become a better, more engaged listener, be more present for my child, pamper my pets more, and also let go of a lot of junk and clutter. my local buy nothing group is making out like bandits.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 03:53 PM
1	Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that Scrote Thank you. I needed to read this today. Might have to save it to read again later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 04:47 PM
6	Using "political lesbian" as an insult is a homophobic and misogynist slur. I haven't heard this term yet but your analysis sounds spot on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 12:07 AM
13	Nah a degree >>> a man. A man can leave, die or be broke. You will always have your degree & it will always put money in your pocket. A good piece of Red Velvet cake can replace a husband Congrats, that's amazing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/21 12:51 AM
38	Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish! This is a really beautiful way to look at it. I'm glad you have those memories to cherish!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 10:27 PM
12	No ones asked for your opinion and you have no room to talk I adore natural hair. Your uncle is nuts if he thinks his negative opinion on your hair is worth anything. Wear your hair the way it suits you and let him sit in the knowledge that you don't care what he wants.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 12:06 AM
12	Weird Red Flags? I despise this behavior. It took me years to figure out why "talks" would always seem to get derailed. Now I don't fall for it so easily.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 08:29 PM
100	For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solution That's fantastic. I think my new goal in life is to walk around feeling like the SS No Fucks Given.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 04:33 PM
2	My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about. That's awful, I'm so sorry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 11:25 AM
3	Time to focus on me after breakup I'm so sorry you're hurting. You're so right though, and you do deserve better. Now you get to focus on treating yourself the way you deserve to be treated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 04:58 PM
1	I can buy my own damn flowers! Enjoy those flowers! They are beautiful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 12:05 PM
2	My female neighbor gave me this ring! She’s moving to another country and gifted several women on our block beautiful pieces of vintage jewelry. Female friends will always care and appreciate one another! You are so talented! Those paintings are lovely.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:21 PM