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| – | Q4W: does "empathy" matter for female issues? Do you want men to "listen"?I would be extremely bothered by a guy I was talking to denying domestic labor inequality, especially since there’s a high likelihood he has witnessed it firsthand. (Mom cooking most of the meals, doing all his laundry, picking up after everyone, etc.) As for harassment and creeps, I grew up with male figures that brought awareness to my vulnerability as a female and taught me to be cautious of men. I’d expect my partner to do the same for any future children I might have for their safety. A man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 12:28 PM |
| – | As a Man, the saying that "todays women are delusional in terms off standards" is not true. In the first time in 2000 Years, women can choose a Partner based on attraction and love only. This is a good thing.do they want to bring back forced marriages so they have a shot of getting laid? That’s exactly what a lot of them want. Women having full control of their dating prospects is not something many of them are too happy about lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 08:32 AM |
| – | As a Man, the saying that "todays women are delusional in terms off standards" is not true. In the first time in 2000 Years, women can choose a Partner based on attraction and love only. This is a good thing.I agree. And even if modern women’s standards are considered “delusional” to some men I couldn’t care less. At the end of the day, we live in a free society with the autonomy to fuck or date whoever we choose and that’s exactly how things should be 💁🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.Sure, not all of them are ‘unwanted leftovers’. There are some that simply leave for different prospects and mind their own business. However, men like op who make it their entire personality trait to disparage western women tend to be the shitty ones most of us weren’t touching with a 10 foot pole in the first place. I could give less of a fuck what these passport morons do as long as they keep us out of their mouths. That seems to be an impossible task on their end though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 07:14 AM |
| 7 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.Going to places for a foreign women and then writing schizo think pieces about how the western women that rejected you are all jealous harpies laser focused on your every move isn’t practical at all. It’s pathetic, main character syndrome indicative of nothing but a dire need of attention from them. It doesn’t suprise me at all though. Delusional, one-sided revenge fantasies are the only thing these type of men have in order to cope with their desperation for western women validation they will l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.Which is, ironically the reason no men want them If only they didn’t. I’d rejoice if these men that bitch all day about western women not reciprocating their sexual and romantic interest actually left us alone. We live in their minds rent free unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 03:45 AM |
| 0 | How do you think this "gender war" is going to end?Only thing naive here are incels with crippling main character syndrome thinking society is gonna revert back to some primitive state just because they aren’t getting their dicks wet. They’re in for a rude awakening when they realize the world will go on without them and this “return to monke” pipe dream they have is nothing more than a massive cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 02:35 AM |
| 14 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.I genuinely can’t think of anything more delusional. Unwanted leftovers are willingly taking themselves out of our dating market but we’re supposedly so bitter and upset about it. Let’s get you to bed grandma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.Passport bros are sooo desperate for western women’s validation and it’s starting to get pathetic. None of you were on our radars when you were here, and most of us still aren’t checking for you now that you’re gone. Please get over yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!I’m aware, still wanted to put in my 2 cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!Plenty of men that shower with good personality that aren’t also way below my league, so nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!Oh i misinterpreted. My bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:53 PM |
| 15 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!Anyone who genuinely believes looks don’t matter is an idiot. Nobody wants an unattractive partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!Finally someone forgot their meds and told the truth You’re insinuating that I lied in the first place and I’ve never done that here in regards to my preferences. A short fat guy making below the median income is below average. I have no interest in below average men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:51 PM |
| 25 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!lol it absolutely does matter A guy that was short, overweight, AND low income would dry me up immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:39 PM |
| 5 | How do you think this "gender war" is going to end?80% chance of being a permanent virgin in another generation 80% chance. Holy copium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Are sexual needs a mutual obligation?“I don’t believe it because it doesn’t fit my narrative” isn’t a very upstanding argument now is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:05 PM |
| 0 | How do you think this "gender war" is going to end?Probably. I’d weed myself out of the gene pool too if my counterpart was an incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 05:44 PM |
| 6 | How do you think this "gender war" is going to end?As much as ppd incels love to fear monger about the collapse of society and a potential regression into a theocratic shithole, I highly doubt anything substantial will actually happen The earth will keep spinning, and the ones struggling the most will either overcome it with time or get weeded out of the gene pool as nature intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Are sexual needs a mutual obligation?This isn’t 1960, both are working to make money. And even in relationships where women are the main source of income, they still end up doing a disproportionate amount of the chores. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Are sexual needs a mutual obligation?🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooTrust me, we find the constant demonization of female sexuality equally cringe lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 01:41 PM |
| – | The 80:20 rule some men push is flipped.Nah I think 80:20 purely based on physical appearance isn’t that exaggerated. I see attractive women out and about all the time while a dude that genuinely catches my eye is pretty rare. Men are just less aesthetically pleasing imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 05:06 AM |
| – | Do you feel that Logical conversations with women lead them being emotional and manipulative ?It’s a miracle this girl is even friends with op in the first place. He sounds absolutely insufferable to be around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:14 PM |
| – | Do you feel that Logical conversations with women lead them being emotional and manipulative ?You tore your alleged friend to shreds and made extremely personal digs at her over a meaningless hypothetical yet are riding some high horse over “logic” after she got rightfully upset? The lack of emotional intelligence and social awareness here is worthy of a comedy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Why Do People Use Dating Apps?Women aren’t responsible for monkey-brained man babies who resort to violence because they can’t get their dick wet. No amount of fear mongering and shaming tactics will ever make us fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Why Do People Use Dating Apps?But those men are going to become violent if they don’t get sex Thankfully we have prisons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Why Do People Use Dating Apps?it’s causing harm because this results in men not having as much sex as they want Tough shit. Men aren’t owed sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 09:36 AM |
| 7 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThis is just another one of the 1000 shaming tactics men here come up with in an attempt to convince women to give dudes that dry them up pity sex. Nothing new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 05:24 AM |
| 9 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existBasic Bobs aren’t these holier than thou, commitment minded beings that come from a completely different species than their Chad-rone counterparts. Most of you want to play the field all the same, you just aren’t hot enough to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Men are the ones who settle.How is it proving the point? Yes they are aware Chad gets easier sex, but they also think THEY deserve that same treatment. Feeling entitled to the same quick ass as a highly desirable man isn’t understanding what you qualify for in the SMV market, It’s being delusional. “If she broke rules for Chad, then she also has to break those same rules for me!” “She slept with him within 1 hour while I had to court her for 2 months! I shouldn’t have to wait either!” “If she gave it up early she has to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Men are the ones who settle.If men actually understood what they qualify for on the SMV market they wouldn’t constantly say things like, “Why does Chad get to bang in the McDonald’s parking lot on the first date while I don’t get the same treatment?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 12:09 AM |
| 5 | In response to the "why are promiscuous women undesirable but doesn't necessarily apply to promiscuous men"It just reads like jealousy Bingo. It all comes down to bitterness from perpetually single men that women can get laid at the tip of a hat while they have the collective SMV of wet cardboard. I’d be willing to bet money that if a pretty girl with 20 bodies showed interest in dating the men here a majority of them would fold like paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 11:49 PM |
| – | A man requires variety, there are simply healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing with that fact.Better deal with that by casually flirting with other women, if it’s excitement you’re looking for. Nothing too deep though, stopping before it escalates Ladies go to the club in a skimpy outfit and casually flirt with other men. As long as you keep your hands to yourself and stop before anything escalates it’s perfectly reasonable to want the attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: When you say “women are wonderful” effect, can you provide some examples of why, how, and what is causing that effect?Most of those commenters are just coping. The real reasoning for WAW is obvious, it’s just a hard pill to swallow for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"Spot on. It’s almost laughable how these men expect women to just lock in and rely on nothing but a “trust me bro” that he’ll fulfill his end of the deal. Meanwhile, married men have huge wandering eyes and tend to be some of the biggest opportunistic cheaters on planet earth lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"Men absolutely do pressure women just as much, if not even more intensely than other women do. What planet are you living on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:53 PM |
| – | A woman's value as a human being has absolutely nothing to do with her "body count".I could care less about body count talk. It’s mainly an online thing, and the men who fixate on it the most tend to be undesirables that are jealous and bitter over women’s easy access to casual sex. It’s mainly a “if I can’t have it, she shouldn’t either!” type of thing. Irl men rarely, if ever inquire about sexual history when dating women. Most of them are just happy to be getting any attention all. If you are decently attractive, n count becomes even more of a nonfactor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Cad Law: Zero efforts, Max rewardsAny man will pick a more attractive low body count woman over a non attractive low body count woman, but in reality low body count women are rare Any woman will bang a hot chad quicker than they will bang average joe, but in reality hot chads are rare How a woman acts and her being low body count is definitely more valuable than how she looks this is an even bigger virtue signaling lie than the “women only care about personality” claim LOL. Looks trump any behavior in women men dislike and that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Cad Law: Zero efforts, Max rewardsA 5/10 with a low body count is more valuable to me than 8/10 with a high body count Who said anything about the 8/10 having a high body count? Both Becky and Stacy are virgins therefore they both deserve equal treatment. If a man doesn’t allocate them the same amount of resources and commit in the same period of time, he is being unfair and becky knows her worth for tossing him to the curb. His wallet and relationship prospects should be equally accessible to every low body count women regardle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Cad Law: Zero efforts, Max rewardsThat’s 100% okay to expect as long as you yourself keep your standards universal and believe a majority of men should also operate the same way. 5/10 low body count Becky deserves nothing less than the same expensive courting, high effort, and quick commitment as 8/10 stacy or else she’s wasting her time and should move on to the next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:41 AM |
| 4 | Cad Law: Zero efforts, Max rewardsMy whole philosophy is if he fucked after 5 days why can’t I? The same reason why plain jane isn’t getting hundreds of men tripping over themselves to put a ring on it like stacy Thinking you deserve quick, effortless sex without offering high desirability in return is just as delusional and entitled as 5/10 women thinking they are owed a $300 lobster dinner on the first date. Hotties will be afforded benefits that Non-Hotties don’t get and both genders are equally guilty of this behavior. It is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:19 AM |
| 13 | Will we ever stop the "standards" madness?Women that fit this description are, at best, called “hypegamous”. At worse, they’re called “women with high standards” (no derogation, whatsoever). This is hilariously disingenuous and a complete lie LOL. Women are absolutely slammed all the time for their selective nature in dating. We’re called entitled, delusional, immoral, unintelligent, illogical, responsible for the “downfall” of society, etc. And don’t let the woman be 30+ or else she will also be called a used up, valueless cumrag on to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:58 PM |
| – | Men should NOT have to "fight" for his kids.Men only truly “want” their kids on the condition that their partner will be the one that changes their diapers, cleans up their puke/shit, cooks their meals, does most of the emotional labor, books their appointments, stays in touch with their teachers, etc. Once they stop fucking the mother and realize they will now have to shoulder more parental responsibility a good majority of their interest in children pretty much flies out the window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing?Nope. Kids require lots of nurturing and emotional labor to raise and men aren’t generally socialized to be good at either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 11:06 PM |
| 11 | Female Attraction StandardsOnly way I can get my looksmatch is irl approaching So you do have success with women in your league when you approach them. I’m failing to see what the issue is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:04 PM |
| 34 | Female Attraction StandardsMost men are fat so being jacked absolutely puts you ahead of the competition. Unless you are ugly, short, balding, socially retarded, don’t approach, or shooting out of your league. You should definitely be getting at least some success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Female Attraction StandardsWhat you and other dudes here fail to understand is that the average woman and average man will never be equal in terms of SMV. Men primarily value youth, beauty, fertility, and sex appeal in women so an average female in her 20’s is inherently more valuable than an average male in their 20’s regardless if they are both technically “looksmatched”. Female selectively is at its highest due to feminism and inclusion of women in the work force. When they aren’t relying on men to eat and have a roof … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Would you say dating is easier as a straight girl or guy, or easier as a gay guy or girl?Yup also have a close gay friend who shows me what goes down on Grindr and it’s an absolute shitshow. Just a bunch of headless torsos with some form of “no blacks, no asians, no fats, no olds, no femmes” in their bios. It’s seriously dystopian how superficial gay men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Would you say dating is easier as a straight girl or guy, or easier as a gay guy or girl?Straight men are also pretty commitment-phobic tbh. Depends. If you are attractive, commitment is easy. If you are average, you have to be likable or compatible to him in some form. If you are ugly, pump and dump material for life unfortunately I full believe relationships would become scarce if it weren’t for the fact that women basically require them for sex I agree and disagree. I think relationships would still definitely be common they just wouldn’t be monogamous anymore. Straight men who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:23 AM |
| 20 | Would you say dating is easier as a straight girl or guy, or easier as a gay guy or girl?Dating as a straight man is painful but gay dating is objectively worse for many reasons: Your dating pool is essentially cut by 90% since a majority of the population is straight. If you don’t live somewhere super populated it will be closer to 98% It’s extremely difficult to find anything meaningful since gay men mainly want to sleep around rather than get into relationships. Theres also rampant cheating since men find it damn near impossible to stay loyal if they have hundreds of options of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:20 AM |
| 13 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeThis reads like cope tbh. Most of a woman’s value comes from her sexual appeal so aging and becoming unattractive will always be much more of detriment to them than men. Just look at all the post wall women in the acting and entertainment industry who complain about being discarded once they hit their 30’s while their male peers seem to have much more longevity in their careers It’s not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:48 AM |
| 26 | Q4M - Why do some men look down upon women who are single and child-free?Because people generally want the opposite gender to cater to them in some form and dislike when they act in their own self interests. A woman who is single and childless is also a woman who likely doesn’t want to give a man a child, raise them, cook, clean, etc. To be fair though, women are also guilty of doing this. Lots of them start taking dating seriously in their late 20’s and then get extremely upset when the men in their age range aren’t as eager to settle down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.If stating that misandry doesn’t come anywhere near to the harm that misogyny perpetuates (which is a literal fact) means I’m downplaying misandry, then I’ll happily continue to do it. cry about it I guess 🤷♀️ | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.That’s about the dumbest shit I’ve ever read. You rarely if EVER hear feminists executing or going on mass killings against men. At worst most of the time it’s just some blue haired idiot saying kam or obnoxiously screaming about the patriarchy. Meanwhile men (especially religious ones) all around the world murder women everyday for not being submissive, innocent housewives that cater to their every whim. But sure, keep convincing yourself misandry is as bad as misogyny because some woman online… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.If you don’t feel comfortable enough to share your emotions without feeling ridiculed and looked at weird, it’s not a true strong bond brotherhood. And in case you haven’t noticed, a majority of men don’t feel secure enough in their masculinity to share their emotions with each other. And why wouldn’t women complain about emotionally unavailable men when that’s all that’s out there these days? Girls don’t want a stoic, emotionally unintelligent dude Anyways the wall of text back and forth is get… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 08:13 AM |
| -14 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.There’s literally women being killed in iran because of misogyny which is evidence for her statement lmao. When men start getting murdered and beaten for not covering their bodies due to women supposedly being “unable to control their primal urges” maybe I’ll start taking misandry seriously. Until then, it can stay the huge nonfactor that it already is 🤷♀️ | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.Not a single one of those women hit or killed a man out of misandry except for maybe Amber turd. Way to prove my point that men are way more prone to express their contempt with women through physical retaliation than women ever will with your garbage examples | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.Okay and? Most male suicide victims still don’t commit because of misandry. In fact, misandry is such a nonfactor, a majority of dudes in the real world outside the echo chamber of manosphere spaces don’t even know the word exists. Men enforce the whole “don’t show emotions” thing more than anyone else as much as you guys love to pretend it’s the other way around lmao. 98% of you wouldn’t be caught dead trauma dumping with another dude because you know he would either A. not give a single fuck B… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.A majority of male suicide victims aren’t DV victims, divorced men, or false accuation victims most of them are just socially isolated men that are single and don’t have meaningful enough friendships to emotionally unload with other men because “hurrrr sharing your emotions is gay and feminine” | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.Nah divorced men have the highest suicide rate because they no longer have their mommy bangmaid to pick up after them, cook their meals, and do most of the emotional labor in the relationship lmao | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.kam is a hashtag that hasn’t and will never come into fruition meanwhile misogynists are killing women as we speak for not wearing hijabs. lots of women may say misandrist things but at least we don’t express our misandry with violence. Can’t say the same for men 🤷♀️ | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.those high suicide rates aren’t because of misandry | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.Men don’t die more than women because of misandry so she didn’t lie at all lmao | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | “It’s not the same.” I have no words. Absolutely disgusting.she didn’t lie 🤷♀️ | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the Iranian protests?please be fucking serious in what universe is Iran gynocentric | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 11:27 PM |
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