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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP13/04/16 01:27 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:20 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP10/09/16 08:09 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP01/07/17 07:00 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:30 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:27 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:13 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:17 AM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:47 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:57 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:20 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:32 AM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP16/08/15 04:16 AM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:37 PM
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Late30sMasculist/r/askTRP25/03/16 06:00 PM
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"Of course just as friends. But make sure you wear some cute underwear just in case."
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:03 AM
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better yet, ghost the fuck out of her. You want her hamster wheel to spin till she dies. Why should he care what her hamster is doing? It's his ex. How long do you suggest he keep thinking about his ex-girlfriend and worrying about what she thinks of him?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:24 PM
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The fact that this bothers you enough to post means you definitely SHOULD go. Use it as practice in being cool and managing your emotions. Review and critique your behavior after the event. Yes, it's an awkward social situation, but once you go, you'll have more confidence for the next awkward situation and more experience. You strengthen your frame by putting yourself into difficult situations, doing the best you can, then reviewing later and do better in the future. You do not strengthen your …
/r/askTRP17/07/17 02:01 AM
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This girl is more my style, girl next door look but can actually hold a decent convo. I know abundance mentality and outcome independence is vital, but this one is really fucking with my head Edit: 2 seconds after posting I just got this message from her: Hey, it was really fun hanging out with you. But I'm not sure I feel enough of a connection to meet up again. Good luck That's good of her to outright reject you rather than dragging it out. You seem really into the chick. Maybe you came across…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:27 AM
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Edit: Fuck A first then tell her. Disagree. He works with her and this is a high-risk approach for making drama happen. OP can talk about problems and frustrations with getting Girl B to fuck him. Basically, use the first girl as an emotional tampon. This will push her away. If OP can get disentangled from his co-worker without drama, it is a victory for him.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 08:55 PM
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You left out something important. Did you continue to bang the soccer player after the jealous white knight manager got you fired?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 04:10 AM
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Smooth. I like your approach way better than the comment you replied to. Though DQing her like that could likely backfire and get her to try harder.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:21 PM
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not sure if serious or not. That's the best sort of troll!
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:18 PM
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This is likely. OP: tell your friend to google search for images of Dewar flasks, then check around for them in the girl's home. They are used for storing liquid nitrogen. If the chick has liquid nitrogen on hand, she is probably freezing his semen to get herself pregnant with it later, after the IUD is out.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 10:13 PM
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GLO's legit. Just send him a PM. If he doesn't get back to you, it's probably because your message was lost among his 300 other PMs. Send another PM a week later.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 08:30 AM
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I thought the same thing. He lists the exact day he's graduating residency, specific physical descriptions of 4 co-workers, fiancee's occupation, his area of specialty. And he has a nutcase female who likes to play private detective out to get him. Then he warns us, "be careful you don't get doxxed!" HAHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP03/07/17 02:09 AM
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I just recently threw a party where I invited a bunch of younger adults. At the start of this party, a bunch of us were standing around in a group, waiting for other guests to arrive. One girl said nervously, "I need to have a drink - I get anxiety when meeting new people." Her boyfriend agreed with her, and then we all proceeded to talk about how we all get nervous and uncomfortable when meeting new people, even to the point of "having anxiety" about it. Reading your story it sounds like you gu…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 03:49 PM
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I'm not huge, but went from 114lbs to 139lbs (I'm 1.67m tall) At 139 lbs, you should forget about pursuing a career as a jockey. Also - why mix English and metric units in your stats?
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:34 AM
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You are splitting hairs.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:19 AM
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Thanks. That counts as far as the "old" description of PTSD for whatever it's worth.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 09:32 PM
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Your answer doesn't do me much good, since I don't know if your PTSD is because you were in a war and saw horrible things, or if it's because the girl you had a crush on in 6th grade laughed at your haircut. I'm saying that I see this "anxiety" word thrown around so much that I can't tell anymore, thus my question. 10 or 15 years ago, PTSD was only for war vets, violent rape victims, people who watched family members get murdered, stuff like that.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 07:39 PM
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I'm 20 and every other girl, scratch that, person, around my age is too afraid to even call in a pizza order Are these the same people that always talk about how the "have anxiety?" That is something else that confuses an old bastard like me. To me that's like announcing that you are mentally ill and can't function in society. If you really do have problems like that, you generally don't advertise it, but now it seems like it's no big deal. I think I will post in Ask TRP about this since it hone…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 06:50 PM
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in my experience, calling is actually much better (on the assumption that you're good over the phone) because it sets you apart from most men I'm a little old school (see username) and I have the same experience of girls remarking that they liked that I called them. The context is online dating and my targets are girls early 20s-early 30s. I guess it shows confidence, or something? once in a while it will backfire and she'll be shit over the phone or there's very little chemistry, Exactly. In wh…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 06:47 PM
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She wanted to have sex—but I didn’t because there was something about her which I thought was a little bit off. I know what you mean about something being "off" with her. I had that happen once with a girl I met at a bonfire/campout party. We went so far that I had her naked in my tent and was fingering her. She also had something "off" about her, and I just knew somehow that fucking this chick would open up a can of worms, so I ended stuff and went back to the party. To this day, I still think …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 04:43 PM
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you want proof of the pregnancy right now or you're telling James and his wife. I LOLed.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:29 AM
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By the end of the night the HB7 was in tears and was literally talking out loud about how I didn't think she was good enough. This either sounds like bullshit, or the HB7 had mental problems that were serious enough to DQ her from letting her know where I live.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 02:57 PM
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85% of raped women experience pleasure and orgasm during rape Sounds like 100% bullshit. I do not know if the number is as high as 85%, but a lot of women do have orgasms from their rapes. This is not really publicized much. The reason I know about it is because out of curiosity, I read a few "how to emotionally deal with being raped" articles put out by non-profit rape support groups. The articles were aimed at women who had been raped and they all had a section about dealing with the guilty fe…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:51 PM
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Im talking about a women that you love and that doesnt expose herself to those situations. The "guy jumps out of the bushes" type of rape is extremely rare, as far as rapes go. Why even bother posting about it?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:47 PM
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You see what I mean?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:13 AM
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lol. Yeah I tend to have a pattern for creating fucked up situations "LOL! Golly gee, I just don't know why these things just keep happening to me, LOL!" grow up
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:42 AM
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The problem isn't that you shit where you eat. The problem is that you're a crybaby. If you had a solid frame, you could have just let your little fling peter out, then you and the boss would both smile and say good morning to each other and both would act like it never happened. Life would go on for both of you. Instead you lost emotional control and bitched her out so now you are stuck with the awkwardness. Truth is I have shitted where I eated a few times when I was younger and it was always …
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:36 AM
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My first few 3somes were a little rough around the edges. The number 1 thing I wish someone had told me is not to try and keep all the girls happy all the time. It's too much pressure. Instead, go into it preparing to lead the interaction, and focus on 1 person at a time. Think of it like two people teaming up on the other person to get the "receiver" all horny and feeling good. So you and Girl A team up on Girl B. The Girl A and Girl B team up on you and you don't worry about their pleasure dur…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:15 PM
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this is to get a response to cover you ass, in case she tries to pull some shit that girls sometimes do. The shit that ruins guys lives after a consensual night of drinking and sex This is the boogeyman of the Red Pill subreddits. Do you know anyone in real life that has had to deal with this? Stop worrying, and be glad the crazy bitch is not interested in you.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:14 PM
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You dumped your 5-year girlfriend via a text message, didn't you, you pussy?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:35 PM
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The fact that this bothers you so much shows that you are a very gentle, kind-hearted person. Some heavily tattooed woman will be lucky to call herself your wife some day.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:55 PM
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Doesn't happen to me. 90% of the time, I am pleasantly surprised when she first takes her clothes off. Once you see enough naked girls IRL, you can start to imagine what they will look like when the clothes come off. Taking the time to mentally undress her before you bring her home can save a lot of trouble.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 12:42 PM
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Where are you guys finding all these skanks that encourage you to hit it raw? Last time I had the chance to hit anything raw outside of an LTR was years ago. Lower class chicks tend to be more care free as far as condom usage. So to answer your question, OP, yes, it's just you.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:18 PM
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I like Black Dragon's rule about this. The first two bangs you should do ASAP because it prevents buyer's remorse and she is likely to continue fucking you. After you've laid her twice, then see her no more than once/week unless you're trying to turn her into a more serious relationship
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:05 AM
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You did fine. Remember, the girls don't want to cause a scene, either, so it's in everyone's interest that nobody starts drama. As long as you don't take her bait and remain polite and aloof it will all work out fine. Worst case, one gets over emotional and causes a scene. Again, if you remain calm you can laugh it off. Other people at the party will intervene with her because no one wants the bad vibes. If anything, it may help you score with another chick at the party, when she sees how your c…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:03 AM
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This post belongs with the chronic whiners in mensrights, IMO. I read the article and there's no way to tell if there really were dozens of guys complaining on facebook about women's night at the theater, or if there were only like 2 and the female authors made a big stink about it. Whether it was 2 guys or 2 dozen guys complaining, I would bet money that 100% of them don't even lift.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 04:58 AM
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I worked at a bike shop deep in Oakland and saw fightfights in the store LOL at fistfights breaking out in the middle of a bicycle store. those were the days....
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:48 AM
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Not my experience. I friggin love sex while tripping. The synesthesia that happens when you push your cock into a cute girl and close your eyes to watch the visuals is unlike anything else, except sex on mushrooms. That's even better.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:46 AM
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This is a great post. Very occasionally, I'll bang a hooker or escort, and I've had my share. One weakness that I have when I start dating girls (not escorts) is I tend to give them the benefit of the doubt too much. I expect them to be honest with me, be considerate and so forth. I got drunk one night with a plate before banging her, and figured out that she had been blatantly lying about something trivial. She said she had never been in a 3some. I was trying to get her to do a 3some with anoth…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:17 AM
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Yeah, I too find it funny that it's very common to see "no blacks." Or "No blacks under 40 years old" written in the ads. Here, you're dealing with the ultimate, pragmatic woman, and they are openly racist. I'd love to know what a typical SJW would say, but to even bring it up with them, you're admitting that you shop for hookers.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:08 AM
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WTF does "What do" mean? You already know how to get her to sleep with you: get her drunk. You have oneitis. Based on her behavior now, looks like she's putting you in orbit, telling you how great you are and how much she respects you, but then shutting you down when you make a move. She is stringing you along and that is how orbiters are made.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:27 PM
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https://tomtorero.com/2016/06/26/pua-photo-stack-for-dates/
/r/askTRP22/05/17 01:36 AM
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Making her feel that there is no scarcity for you will damage her the most. "Damaging her" should not even enter into the decision. You don't win life points damaging your ex-girlfriend for your own satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 10:47 PM
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You just used "had logical discussions with her" and "I stayed alpha" in a bitch puke about why your LTR doesn't want crazy sex with you anymore. That part of the post really stood out to me, too.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 06:09 PM
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I hard-nexted. So now she's no longer chasing that loser because...well, it's not in her interests now that he served his purpose. I do not get your point. What was his purpose?
/r/askTRP13/05/17 02:27 AM
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Should be plate if you can keep her that way. He doesn't have what it takes to resist her charms.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:29 PM
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she mentions her ex frequently but in a negative content and without mentioning her emotions (gonna call her out on this, tell her if she still has feelings for him that's a dealbreaker and I'm not interested in her past or drama). Don't "call her out." Tell her calmly that you are not interested in drama with her other relationships. mentioned marriage 'jokingly', super early on She was not joking. She was probing you to see if she could get commitment (resources) out of you. She is attempting …
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:26 PM
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This isn't rocket science. Just text the first girl: "So did you want to meet up around 7 tonight? I need to know within the next hour."
/r/askTRP07/05/17 06:33 PM
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Best advice I have heard is to put yourself in the mindset that you guys are old friends and hang out all the time. Concretely, this means greet her warmly like you missed her, and you take for granted that she's happy to see you also. Immediately take the lead and start talking about something you'd say to an old friend that's not personal. Try to keep it exciting or interesting, though. Example: "Did you see that crazy dude yelling about god on the street corner on the way in? Where do you thi…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:56 AM
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He's saying you got played. She used you for attention and validation, which you gave away for free.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 02:07 PM
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I didn't even try to argue against it because I know that I deserve better. Funny that you only realize that after she dumps you. Lesson learned: If a woman asks how much you make, break it off ASAP. There is nothing in your post that illustrates this lesson.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:05 PM
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I posted what you're replying to from the wrong account original text below. Anyways, yes it sounds weird until you try it because people give so much lip service to monogamy and how "I could never be serious with someone that was seeing other people." Again, check out Black Dragon. He goes into how to have this sort of conversation. If not on his site, then in his ebook about non-monogamous relationships. Or you could just make sure you have a rock-solid frame and barrel ahead. My original comm…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:11 AM
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/u/Pitchfork51 nailed it. So long as you are on good terms with the other girls, then the other girl gossiping will have very little bearing on what they think of you. Chicks know already not to take other women seriously. It's like the RP mantra, "Watch what she does, not what she says." Women already know not to give much thought to what other girls are saying.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 08:47 PM
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However, being so pissed off by some recent feminist events at that time, the moment she uttered the word, I stopped cold and said "I of course respect your wish and I realize that you dont want to have sexual intercourse with me." I then started getting dressed which she also did and I watched her leave without a word and a quite puzzled look on her face. I had a similar experience just yesterday. I was frustrated about trying to repair a machine and I just couldn't get it to work even after sp…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:28 PM
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How often have you been seeing her and are you seeing any other women?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 01:55 PM
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Some girls are very quiet and don't really show much reaction. They are a minority, though, so if this has happened over and over then it's probably a problem with your technique. Either that, or there's something about you that causes you to keep hooking up with girls who are dead inside.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:34 PM
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If she bothers you that much, then you are taking her too seriously. Either go find someone else or lighten up. I met a girl for a first date once and she talked about how she liked to play women's lacrosse, but she was frustrated that it was not a full-contact sport like men's lacrosse is. She was trying to show me her feminist cred. 90% of guys trying to impress her would go along with it, "Yeah, girls are just as tough as guys...." Instead I teased her about how she REALLY played lacrosse bec…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 05:16 PM
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Its like you willingly went to a strip-club and are baffled by the fact that there are naked woman there and dudes paying them. Perfect analogy. Then write a 5-page post about it. "OMG guys, I went to a gentleman's club and found that there's a whole culture of women who dance naked and take beta orbiters' money. So much degeneracy! And this is in the GENTLEMANS club! This is what passes for 'gentlemen' today. FML, amirite?"
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:25 PM
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This is a great post. I look forward to when you post about how he disciplines his girlfriends. Next time, just give him a pseudonym like "Charlie" or something. I hate the "B said to S that G was a jerk" ways of preserving anonymity makes it difficult to read.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:34 PM
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You lack imagination. Most dates happen at night, so go for a walk with her and bring a bottle of wine or a few beers. Just go walking in a place that is deserted at night and safe. Parks, railroad tracks, golf courses, whatever. Or tell her you're going to take her on a nighttime picnic. Then bring a picnic blanket to the park and the wine or beer. You should scope the places out ahead of time both during the day (to figure out good secluded places to go) and at night (to make sure there's no o…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 12:21 AM
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Learn the technical stuff behind operating a camera. Learn the following terms and how they relate to how your photo will look: ISO speed, shutter speed, rule of thirds, golden ratio, F-stop, aperture and depth-of-field. The last 3 terms are closely related. Read some short articles on composition. Learn how the light meter works (from the camera's manual) so you can avoid over/under exposure in weird lighting situations. That is the bare minimum. After you do your homework, start thinking about…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:03 AM
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hahaha! genius. I will remember this one.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:30 AM
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I just can't get myself to take the next step of initiating dates. I know the courage will come one day though... Keep lifting, right? Try a mental reframe. One of the big hurdles I did when I was younger was committing to myself that I would go for a makeout with the next girl that showed me something that MIGHT be an IOI. Because up to that point, I would never try to escalate with a chick without rock-solid crystal clear IOIs. So I was at a friend's apartment, at a small party. It was early s…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:21 PM
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Nothing good can come from OP playing womanly games like this in some sort of petty revenge fantasy. You should not be posting in this sub.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:22 PM
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Interesting field report. I've been around the block and I've never seen anyone be that blatant about getting free drinks. Usually a girl will "hit and run." Get one drink, make nice with the guy and then move to another part of the bar I guess to repeat. Was she socially engaged with the beer buying betas at all, or did she just play on her phone while they bought her multiple rounds? Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:35 PM
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Your post is an example of the very thing you're complaining about. It's too late now to try and blame the men who raised us. Even if they owned up to their failures and renounced 1970s feminism, it would not change anything on the ground. If you want to improve society, have kids and instill the values you want in them. I wish you luck.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:31 AM
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go for it
/r/askTRP18/03/17 07:26 AM
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Probably either an IOI, or she is prepping you to do her a favor (change the oil in her car, move furniture, fix her computer, etc)
/r/askTRP17/03/17 08:44 PM
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I like your analysis. How would you compare/contrast the defiant girl statue with the Tienanmen Square tank guy?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:11 PM
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afterwards I told her I regretted doing it I'm trying to figure out why the hell you would do this. What did you hope would happen when you said this to her?
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:40 PM
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First off, I know it's hard, but you need to relax. You are overthinking this and worrying about too many small details. Think about the IDEA behind the advice you get so if 1 thing doesn't pan out, you can improvise on the fly. Example: You want to put your arm around her at the show but the armrest for the chairs between you makes that awkward and uncomfortable. Now what? Anyways, for your questions: 1) Your texts were fine. Stop worrying about them. 2) You haven't kissed her yet. So when you …
/r/askTRP01/03/17 03:41 PM
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I record every conversation I have now, and then I listen it afterwards in order to analyze my interaction with my coworkers and see what I can improve. How do you do this? On your cell phone? Do you use an external mic, or just the phone itself? I've been thinking of doing the same for similar reasons.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:10 AM
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I only ltr'd her because of how compatible we are in every other aspect of life and how well we get along. This makes sense. Can you get a side piece?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:44 AM
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This post went viral and was even the subject of an article at Chateau Heartiste. I checked out the hashtag #stillsingletho on Instagram and found pretty quickly that the guy in question is doing some sort of religious missionary work (maybe he's a Mormon or something). So he found this girl who learned about God and now loves Jesus and he took her on the superdate to show her how to properly treat a lady. That's his story anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:03 PM
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I only have about 4 months left in this city before I complete my bachelors and move away, so I figure I could just keep this going until then. You have a built in escape hatch. If you've gone this long, you may as well ride it out the rest of the way since you enjoy her company. If you don't think you're strong enough to resist the next 4 months to prevent her problems from becoming your problems, then you should end it now. She may be aware of the 4 month timeline and her telling you about the…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:40 PM
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Don't forget offering to fix her car, computer, move heavy things, give her rides places, watch her cat when she's out of town and so on.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:43 PM
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evidenced by the fact you used time that you could have been lifting or meditating to post a wall of text about a dramatic bitch I thought the same thing. OP sounds like a teenaged girl himself. No wonder his gf said he's unmanly. "OMG I just need to vent!" "I am so over it" "I am a victim!" OP sounds like a woman & needs to work on emotional control.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:18 PM
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I agree with /u/vandaalen that you handled it fine. Though a soft next for 2 weeks may be a bit much. It depends on the girl. You know her better than we do, so.... Black Dragon has written a lot about using soft nexts for drama management. Article one. Article two. Read them.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 03:55 PM
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"I understand. Good luck. Keep my number. ;)". This is poetry. Love it!
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:22 AM
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"I understand. Good luck. Keep my number. ;)". This is poetry. Love it!
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:21 AM
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I actually read most of the Law of Attraction book so I am somewhat familiar with it. It works insofar as it focuses your intent. Example: if you're fat and out of shape and focus on the path to getting in shape, when you come across legit fitness advice you are more likely to take action on it because fitness is already on your mind. Whereas if you're a HAES proud-to-be fatty posting about body positivity and you are walking past a new cupcake store, then you are more likely to go in and eat so…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 08:12 PM
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Ask her out again in person. It will take two minutes and the worst she'll say is "no." If she doesn't do it, then move on and stop wasting time texting with her.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 04:41 PM
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No she has my number. It seems weird to ask now. You are way overthinking this. Just treat her like any other girl. Get her number and then ask her out for a drink. Since you already know she is a slut, then escalate more quickly than you normally would. If you think it's "weird" to ask for her number (it's not) then just say that when you swapped numbers last week it didn't save in your phone and you need her number again.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:57 AM
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You did not "hard next" the girl. Hard means "kicked her out of my life I will never talk to her again." It's for girls that are really bad news (fake accusers) or who have seriously wronged you.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:32 AM
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You already got great advice from the endorsed contributors about this situation, but I will add this: I can't seem to keep a plate for more than a few days before they realize that they need to lock me down because I'm fun If you are having this problem "within a few days" then you are seeing the girl too often. Meet girl, have sex twice on 2 separate occasions within a short period of time, then dial it back to seeing them once/week, max. Seeing her more than once/week is boyfriend behavior, a…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:40 PM
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Black Dragon recommends banging a girl on 2 separate occasions at the very beginning, and then seeing her no more than once/week. You want 2 quick lays to put yourself in her brain as "that guy I'm having sex with." Until you bang her on 2 separate occasions, the risk that she will flake is very high. After that, you keep it to 1 time/week because any more than that and they could categorize you in the "boyfriend" category. In my experience, these rules of thumb are pretty accurate. When I'm spi…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:00 PM
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Well if a girl is that wet, then don't add even more lube to the situation. But I have no idea why she would say that to you. It's never happened to me.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:38 AM
9

You make a big fuss about something that doesn't have to be. I've dated a few single mothers and enjoyed my time with them. The only time their kids cost me money was when I paid them to do yard work for me. I would never LTR a single mom, but as friends with benefits or as fuckbuddies...why not?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 04:09 PM
5

Threesomes are my favorite thing these days and I have had my share. This part is absolutely true: The typical advice for threesomes is to let the woman run the show, to set the logistics, to send the messages, to escalate, etc.. There is some sense to this, but there are serious drawbacks. Women, especially feminine women, are not up to taking the lead or being direct. This is especially true with sexual escalation in person. You will likely get two women who sit awkwardly and pour more and mor…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 10:13 PM
6

Don't let your lack of money get to your head. Remain confident in yourself, and display value in other ways. For instance, be good looking, be a good conversationalist. You don't have any money. She knows it and is OK with it. So don't worry about looking like you can "support and take care of her" like you said in a comment. It will come across as try-hard and awkward.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 02:32 PM
1

Post title says "tomorrow." Do you mean today?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:55 PM
8

Your best bet is to break up with her officially. Within a couple weeks or so she will probably re-engage with you to "see how you're doing." From there you can start fucking her again. Once that happens, then treat her like a plate - don't spend too much time with her, don't tell her your plans outside of what you do together, and so on. If she gives you a hard time about that, then remind her that you two broke up and if she doesn't like the arrangement, she's free to stop seeing you. I have s…
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:53 PM
6

Don't argue. Don't explain. If you give her reasons, she will try to negotiate. Don't get sucked into that. Quoted for emphasis. This will be the hardest part because it will happen in the heat of the moment, your emotions will be running high, etc.. The other stuff you can do on your own time. Mentally prepare yourself for this before you pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:05 PM
3

OP says he was shopping there, not working. My read: The girl could have been flirting, or she could have been teasing him for her own amusement. Only way to know would be to escalate. I.e., a smartassed, "The store closes in 5 minutes. Are you going to meet me for drink after work, or just keep talking about your crotch to me?" Whether she stays around after that would tell you if she's teasing or coming onto him.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 06:30 PM
3

decide whether or not you want to plate her and respond to her messages accordingly. Read the OP. He already has too many emotions that he can't control himself and he is acting all needy towards a crazy bitch. Plating her is the worst thing he could do.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:12 PM
3

In my experience you'll get no where if you wait for your GF to do the legwork. You need to push this and make it happen. Girls are used to being pursued, not doing the pursuing. They are also less likely to sexually escalate. So what winds up happening is you get two girls both waiting around for the other to make a move. An exception would be if your GF is already slutty and aggressive. Follow the model of most successful relationships - man leads, woman follows. Man hits on girl, girlfriend j…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:41 PM
2

Everyone is telling you to get a lawyer. I think you should find new social groups to hang out in. If what you say is true, this girl has repeatedly ruined lives and reputations without any evidence. Not only that, but the co-op people indulge her and support her in this. What this tells me is that the co-op organization itself is poisonous and you should leave it. Co-ops tend to attract liberals and SJW-types so this is not surprising to me. Find better friends. Leave this girl and any group th…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:26 PM
1

If a woman is sending IOIs, and you don't approach her, does she see you as unattractive, solid frame (has urges under control) or just uninterested? If you don't approach when she is sending you IOIs, she sees you as weak, uninterested, or oblivious to the IOIs she's sending. You are overthinking this. If she's sending signals, go talk to her. If she's sending signals, she WANTS you to talk to her, so you can say the dumbest shit and she'll make it easy on you. "Hey, I like your earrings." "Oh …
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:41 PM
2

She asks if we can pick another place, and asks for a neighborhood which is slightly closer to her. She would legit save like 3 minutes. ... I suspected that this girl was either incredibly unintelligent, or very entitled. Or it could have been the first of her shit tests. If it had been a shit test, she would have backtracked and agreed to your plan B, and no big deal. The way you handled it was perfect and allowed you to differentiate between an entitled, bitchy woman, and just a normal shit t…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 01:48 PM
1

Google "spot reduction myth." This is beginner-level fitness and the fact that you are even asking shows that you have put no time into researching the most efficient ways to work out and eat. Compare the amount of time you spend exercising, with the 6-12 hours of research and reading it would take you to exercise effectively. If you don't have the mindset to be able to do that sort of research on your own, then pay someone to advise you.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:28 PM
1

How long is your beard? Are we talking ZZ-top beard, 5 o'clock shadow, or what?
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:12 PM
1

His problem isn't that he gets barely enough attention. According to the OP, he has plenty of attention, so losing 50% (if he even loses that much) is not a problem. His problem is that when he tries to explain his marriage situation, the girls aren't interested. Wearing a ring will make sure that only the girls willing to bang a married guy approach him, and avoid him having to talk about sterile topics like the sex life that he and his wife negotiated. He can even say, "Hey let's get a hotel r…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:11 PM
0

now, my wife loves it, so there's no problem there. she's actually encouraging me to go after these girls. it sounds perfect. however, a lot of these girls lose wood when i mention to them that i'm married (i don't wear a ring), even if i imply that it is an open marriage. Your situation is ideal. The wife likes that the young girls want to bang you, and you're in a position where they aggressively come onto you. Just start wearing a wedding ring, at least while you're at work. Then rent a hotel…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:06 PM
1

She's openly said that if we were to break up that I would most likely be the one breaking up with her. This was a golden opportunity to pass her comfort test, while still getting her to behave better towards you in the future. Her: If we break up, you're more likely to leave me than me leave you. You (hugging her, comforting her): Baby, why would I ever want to leave you? You're a great wife. You give me lots of sex. You learned to cook those (meals that fit your diet) and keep me fed. You're u…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:56 PM
2

Have you tried just asking them? I don't know if you can change the overall dynamic, but if you already put time in up front, you can get away with saying, "Hey, I got a bunch of stuff to do on Saturday, but I want to see you. Booty call?" But if you've already established the expectation that you do stuff in addition to sex, then you can probably only do that with 1 out of 3 meetings with a girl. Or you can start at 1 out of 3 meetings, then gradually ramp up the frequency, with the expectation…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:48 PM
3

Lots of passive aggressive bs here. I read all the replies (your reply is currently at the bottom of the thread) and was thinking the same thing. He doesn't get the message. My recommendation is to show a little teeth. Seriously. Ideally, the girl makes it crystal clear to the guy to back off. If she hasn't made it clear, then she is playing games or getting off on the attention. In which case, OP's beef is with his special snowflake girlfriend. If the orbiter keeps coming back after she explici…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:49 PM
2

Well her fantasy isn't really that extreme. You have 2 choices: make peace with the fact that just about all women have crazy fantasies, or 2) make sure your future girls are more restrained about what they are comfortable saying to you. This will let you live in blissful ignorance. FWIW, if I were in your position, I too would have been uncomfortable with her saying it, and I can't really decide if I would rather option 1 or 2. It's a personal preference, I guess. If she was otherwise a good ch…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:55 PM
3

It's likely nothing, or she could have been feeling you out about that cuckold shit. You know her better than us, so you decide. Women have all sorts of fucked up fantasies, most of which they would never actually go through with. It's likely that yours made an error in judgment as to what she should be telling you. A book I'd suggest checking out is My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday. It was published in the early 70s and the author interviewed a bunch of housewives about their sex fantasies, the…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:03 PM
11

Your whole post screams, "I have a victim complex." You'd be more at home in the Men's Rights subreddit.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:40 PM
1

It makes no sense that you would want to be exclusive with a promiscuous girl. If she's good sex and good company, then hang out with her, fuck her, but keep a couple other women spinning also.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:50 PM
1

Just another outlet for them to gossip and engage in drama. "OMG can you believe this creep?" By the way, I made the mistake of going on a few dates with a chick that made it a habit of posting such messages. She was high-drama, and thought she was superior to everyone else, which is exactly the same message they are trying to portray when they post this shit. "Hey look at me, and how much better I am than this loser who keeps messaging me. I get 59 message per day like this, fml, lol!"
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:42 PM
1

Search for "red pill guide to online dating." It was posted by OmLaLa. Do what he says. Worst mistake you can make is write too much. Keep all texting / messaging brief and very terse. From the app, get her number ASAP, from the phone #, a couple brief exchanges and you set up a meeting ASAP. I personally call them on the phone after 1 or two, "Hey it's me. How was your day?" messages. A lot of women have told me how much they appreciate that because apparently no one does it. I'm good at talkin…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:24 PM
5

How long has she been "working" on losing weight? Has she actually lost any? Many girls will "work on" losing weight, but somehow mysteriously continue to get fatter. Loose pussy can be fixed if she's willing to do kegels, as a lot of other posters have said. There was a fat secretary in my office that lost about 80 lbs.. She got married and was back to her old weight within a year. This is a common trick. If you do proceed with this girl, set your affairs up so you can leave her at any time wit…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:17 PM
2

You're getting terrible advice in this thread. Should have put my clothes on, asked her to leave, asked her why she was even here, etc. Was too busy being "nice" and trying to give her "time". Yes, this is what you should have done. "Why are you even here?" sounds too bitchy, otherwise, it's fine. Going forward...if a girl is sober-ish, naked in your bed, it's only a matter of time before she fucks you. So if she won't give it up, ask her nicely to leave and remain polite. You can just fuck her …
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:41 PM
1

To be fair, we don't call them "bastards" anymore. OP, it's 2016. "Bastard" is offensive. Please call them "illegitimate children."
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:16 PM
1

Probably was startled a bit by Red Pill articles of how guys get fucked over with false rape accusations. TRP worries about false rape claims too much. If you're not having sex with chicks that are fucking psycho, it's not a big worry, IME. The internet likes to cherry pick egregious examples of things throughout the world and blow them up into a big deal. The gays and trannies will pick the one queer who got beat up and act like it happens all the time. A 9 year old black kid gets shot by the c…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:04 PM
2

You're being oversensitive. You're worried that you'll break up some day and then she get mad and will say, "Well he raped me once and I continued dating and fucking him for another 2 years after that?" Who will she tell that matters that actually believes her? You should have remained aloof and chastised her: "Well if it bothered you so much you should have said something at the time, not 1.5 years later. Unless...(stroking her tits, pussy or inner thigh) you actually sort of liked it." Then ev…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:53 PM
1

There is a lot more to it than that when you decide to upgrade or not. How old are you? I lean toward "yes" to seeing her more often, just so you get some experience with a more serious relationship with a girl. Take notes or write some diary entries or something of how she behaves now so you can accurately track how that changes.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:19 PM
2

/u/lord-denning is right. You are treating your woman as if you're dealing with a man. "But baby, we talked about this and we both agreed that this was OK." You are trying to reason her into acceptance. You need to manage her feelings and get her to not worry so much about the specific rules. Frankly, her rules 1 and 3 are bullshit and if you abide by those restrictions it will make it many times harder for you to get action. Figure a way to get her to give you the green light, then do what you …
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:51 PM
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There's nothing wrong with this. You're overthinking it. Wait a day or 2, then call her to set up another date. Do not wait for her to contact you. Females generally don't have initiative. She could have canceled because her college project went longer than she thought, or because she wanted to party with her girlfriends, or went out with some other guy. Who knows? Find out where you stand by contacting her and proposing a new date. Edit: Also, you went out with her 1 time. This is way too soon …
/r/askTRP22/09/16 05:56 PM
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Where is this a high school? I've literally never seen anyone give a small/fat guy shit at a gym (to his face anyway) since becoming an adult I wondered the same thing....or a troll post maybe.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:20 AM
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Do you act like her LMR isn't a big deal, withdraw attention Yeah, pretty much. I can think of quite a few times when I had a girl naked, was fingering her, sucking her tits, etc. but she refused to have sex. So I would just stick with the "foreplay" and come back to trying to fuck her every 5-10 minutes or so after getting her extra horny. She'll either let you fuck her, or when you're tired of being denied, you wait for her to deny you, then tell her, "That's fine. I have to work in the mornin…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 05:09 PM
5

I agree with the others. You're making this too complicated. Just break up with the girl. Go to the event with your 2 friends and bring a female friend as a "date" or just go stag with your friends.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:31 PM
3

Yes that's exactly what I'm advocating.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 09:51 PM
2

You keep mentioning it, but I reread your OP with the edit. I can see what these guys are saying. You lost the game, means YOU move. Go put some money in the empty table and shoot pool by yourself if you want to practice. The guy that beat you at pool is the table champion and has the right to play the next dude in line. The way you wrote it, even with your edit, looks like you committed a serious etiquette breach and then were surprised when you got your ass kicked.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:47 PM
0

You've only had sex twice so it could be bad luck. Even champion sex gods have off days. You may want to try banging some hookers to get more experience and learn your body's responses to different stimulations. Worrying too much about PE will make it worse. It's a vicious cycle. I also want to know the answer to u/blackhawks93 's question. If you go for a round 2 with a girl, you're likely to last longer.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:19 AM
2

Do you lift?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:10 AM
1

Don't resend the text, and hope that it didn't go through so she didn't read the "you owe me" remark. CALL her Monday or Tuesday, and act like you never sent the text. Set up the meeting for Wednesday or whatever is good for you. If you want to chat, then politely ask if she had a good time with her friend. Then GTFO the phone.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 08:51 PM
1

Are you using a mixed grip on your deadlifts? If not, try doing that to help with grip strength and alternate which hand is overhand and which is underhand from workout to workout. For bench presses - either your form is wrong, or you should talk to a doctor about possible damage in your wrists.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 11:16 PM
1

When you ask them out, you need to give them an itinerary. Example: "I wanted to check out the hiking trails in the park on Thursday afternoon. Want to grab some beers and join me?" Be decisive. If she's busy Thursday afternoon and wants to see you, she will counter offer: "I'm busy this week except for Wednesday." That is your green light. If she sits there all indecisive or stalls, then she is not interested. "I'm not sure when I'm free" is her non-confrontational way of blowing you off. Like …
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:53 AM
16

Partly think its me, if I had more "game" they would be interested. But fuck me. If I had a physical "NEXT" button that shit would be faded, worn out and my thumb would be blistered. Yes, it's you. If they were interested, they would be much easier to deal with. Try dating some uglier girls for a while and they will probably treat you much better. Work to improve yourself in the meantime and go after hotter chicks as you improve. Even if the chicks are into you and don't flake on you, most of th…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 08:34 PM
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Listening to those calls I can see why you waited for her to be out of town to move her out instead of kicking her out yourself. Next time, be more careful with who you get close to and expose yourself to.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:46 PM
1

live and learn lol be harsh if you need to be lol and stop using "lol" so much as it makes you sound like a teenager. The others are right - your reply is way too wordy. Give very short replies always, then go for a phone number. Google search for "red pill guide to online dating" and follow the messaging guidelines in there.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:37 PM
4

It happens when you grow up too fast or get really really fat Or get pregnant.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:22 PM
1

Sounds to me like she is teasing you and will string you along to pull you into her beta orbit. You're talking sexual with the girl, but it has always been over text message. You should have tried to fuck her by now to see if she will put out or not. If you had fucked her already, it would be a different story. As it is, try to date / screw her ASAP so you'll know if you're wasting your time. You probably are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:38 PM
7

If you want her to join you at the tennis match, you could lie and say you got the tickets for free from a business contact, and that you don't know anyone else that would appreciate the ticket, so you are inviting her. This way, you get to spend time with her without sending the message that you will spend lots of money on her (thus avoiding provider frame). Plus if people are giving you £400 tickets, it shows you're important to people with money = high status, which never hurts.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:18 PM
3

Regarding body language: lately, when talking to a girl I have deliberately been making no effort to hide my desires from her. By that I mean, I will slowly and deliberately look her up and down as we're talking so she knows that I am evaluating her body, her clothing, and so on. I do this while still maintaining normal conversation, or during a lull in the conversation. Too aggressive? I could just keep eye contact and not let my eyes roam, but I'm trying to build an unspoken sexual vibe while …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:12 PM
5

I'm late 30's now and when I was younger, I noticed the attitude shift girls underwent after I fucked them. They became much more compliant and caring towards me after. These days I rarely see that sort of reaction from girls. The social circles I am in these days have a lot of slutty girls in them, so maybe the girls I tend to meet now are "ruined" this way, or maybe because I'm dating girls in their early 30s rather than early 20s they are just jaded by age. I sort of miss the days when a girl…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 03:22 PM
2

Can you define "apply dread"? But yeah reducing emotional investment is part of the plan for the next few weeks. We'll see if the relationship survives or not. There's posts all over this subreddit about dread game. Basically, it's hinting around and letting her have the idea that you may leave her. Search for "12 levels of dread." The first level is if you start working out when you didn't before, or you change your wardrobe, new haircut, etc.. She sees it and feels threatened that you'll leave…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:02 PM
1

Definitely not. She actually asked if I wanted children, because she said explicitly she doesn't and never will, and that she would get an abortion in a hurry if she ever did. She was actually worried that I may want children one day. She is very strongly opposed to having children. Yeah...be careful with this. Women get baby crazy, especially in their 30s. When their hormones hit, anything she said before no longer counts. It gets even worse if you actually knock her up. All of a sudden she is …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:57 PM
1

Weird that your DL and squats are the same. I'm curious what's your height / weight? How old are you? I'm asking because I've worked up to a 240 lb. squat, then started to struggle and will probably hit 300+ on DL soon. I'm talking working weights, not 1 RM.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 08:26 AM
1

I agree with others who said this girl is damaged goods. You don't really give any reason to keep her as an LTR aside from the fact that she's hot. You should probably dump her. Don't even try to plate her because you're too emotionally attached and don't seem like you can mentally handle it when she starts playing her female games. It sounds like she's holding you back which is why you should cut ties.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:42 PM
1

Reading all that you typed, sounds like this texting / chatting has been going on for a long time. Why haven't you tried to meet in person yet? When in doubt, escalate, bang if you can, cut her loose and move on if she's too much trouble. Your line about setting up a threesome is a pretty good example of A&A, shows that you have a clue what you're doing, so finish her, one way or the other.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 11:40 PM
4

Reply with: "What photo is your favorite and why?" Whatever they answer with: "I never thought of that before. I like the way you think. What's your number?" By asking her to pick a favorite photo and justify her choice, you show that you care about her opinion, while getting her to come up with her own reasons for why you are such a talented guy. So you are basically getting her hamster to do the hard work on your behalf.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 12:13 AM
16

It cherry picks data to support it's conclusions. I got 1/3 of the way through the book and then googled, "Sex at Dawn Critique." A half hour of reading the results and I was convinced that the book is intellectual trash. You're exactly right - it cherry picks data to support Ryan's ideology and lifestyle. Ryan has also been on Joe Rogan's podcast a few times, which I have listened to. If you've experienced dealing with really good manipulators and bullshitters before, you'll recognize the behav…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:57 PM
2

What could be a red flag, however, is if she says some shit like she wants to marry you if she isn't married by the time she's 30 LOL! You have to wonder WTF goes through women's heads sometimes to say stuff like this. I did break up with an LTR once because she wanted to be married and I wouldn't marry her. She said, "Even if I find someone and have kids, we should get together to have sex again sometime when I'm in my 40's." So I guess that's the opposite of what your sluts told you. She moved…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:24 PM
1

What have you done so far to make it less likely that you'll get played like this in the future?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:18 PM
1

Can you link to whatever Sam did that the guy wanted to trap him over?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 09:53 PM
3

I'm around the same age as OP. I never played Pokemon anything because it was popular when I was too old. Nevertheless I am going to give this a try since I've been trying to date more younger women lately. I put the app on and set up my character in 15 minutes. I'll try playing it a little after work today. This guide seems to explain it well if you have no idea WTF it's all about or how to play.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:12 PM
5

Until you've had sex with a girl on 2 separate occasions, it's very common for her to flake on you and just disappear. When I start dating a girl, I do everything I can to have sex with her twice as quickly as possible. Fucking her one time, she can still say, "Oh, I don't know what came over me. Why did I do that?" Do her twice and it makes it much harder for her hamster to call it an accident or a mistake. Then you can relax a little bit. From the moment you say "Hello" to a girl, you are in a…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:28 PM
2

You are misusing the term. "Hard next" means cut off all contact, avoid ever seeing or talking to her again. If you still see her in social settings and say, "Hello, nice weather we're having" then you have not hard nexted her. So you're confusing the people that are trying to answer your question.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:08 PM
2

Just google it, pussy!
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:24 AM
3

Listen to /u/50pluspiller . Buy non-latex condoms and use those with her -- either lambskins or the synthetic ones (there's a lot of different brands out there). If you need an excuse, tell her you had a friend or cousin that was on her type of birthcontrol and got pregnant anyways. There are guys here that will tell you to never trust a girl with birth control, and while I think that's going a little too far, that is not the sort of responsibility you want to give to some chick that you barely …
/r/askTRP03/07/16 01:42 AM
3

SUPPLEMENTATION You have any sources for this section?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 02:18 PM
1

Tell her you're sorry how bad the timing is and that you guys couldn't meet now and that you'll text her when you're going to be in town for a longer period. Chatting with a girl you're not having sex with regularly is a waste of time. When you come back to town, call her and see if she's still down to meet up. By the time that happens though, she will probably have moved on. You are investing way too much into a girl that you have never even met. Women will suck up all your free time and attent…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 01:05 PM
12

Just curious...is one of the girls significantly better looking than the other one?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 08:02 PM
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Had a LTR for two years. . wore protection despite knowing she had a ring. I never saw any red flags, and believe me, I was looking. You suck at choosing women. This sort of crazy doesn't come out of nowhere after two years.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:08 PM
1

Hahahaha! Funny how that works, ain't it?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:56 PM
1

Sorry to say, if your girl is already pregnant, then not even a vasectomy can help.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 03:05 AM
16

Escalate immediately. You already fucked her and she invited you to dinner, so you know she is DTF. While she is cooking, grab her ass, kiss her, then push her away telling her that you're hungry and she needs to finish dinner. Do this a few times as she's cooking. It will get her hot and bothered for what's to come and the sex will be better because of it.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:06 PM
2

Hannibal said that, not BA Baracus.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 10:24 PM
4

If it bothers you as much as you say, then you should dump her. There's not much you or she can do to change the past and it doesn't sound like you'll be able to "get over it." I'm dying to know, if this happened at another school, how did you find out about it?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 02:01 PM
3

I do know that women who have pets in their dating profile pictures are more often than not, fucking crazy in some way. I'm not sure why this is, it's just something I've learned over the years. Indicates heightened female solipsism. "I think my furbabies are so adorable. I will put pictures of them in my profile because they are so cute and will make me look good." Never considering that most people don't give a shit about her animals at all and her cats look like every other cat. So it's a sig…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:16 AM
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Quick question: Should I avoid banging her the day of the "talk", whether it be before or after? No, don't avoid it. Bang her if you want to and she wants to. Chances are, if she doesn't want to do it right away, she will come around shortly on her own, so stick to your guns and wait her out. Oneitis is a real problem that happens when a girl's importance to you overcomes your ability to do what's best for you. For instance, if you went monogamous with this girl to keep her happy or posted, "I'm…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 04:30 AM
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know that no other man is touching her Also, you'll need to get over these feelings as well. The good news is that if she really is that into you, she will probably not be sleeping around anyways. Well, not often, probably. This honeymoon period lasts from several months, to a couple years.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:40 PM
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I'm older than a lot of guys around here (username checks out) and have had my share of monogamous LTRs. You hear on here often that "girls are only good for sex." When I see someone say that, I figure it's either oversimplified for the sake of newbies, or the person saying it has only been exposed to low-quality women and runs in scumbag social circles. It's normal and enjoyable to have strong feelings for a girl. The problem is you are 20 years old and have little experience with women that tr…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:38 PM
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she always claims to have been “bad with taking her birth control this month” which doesn’t make sense to me because I’m still using a condom It also doesn't make sense since she is hardly ever having sex, so why bother with the birth control? I would ask her that out of the blue. Surprise her and read her nonverbals while she thinks about how to answer. "You know, I was just thinking....you only have sex with me every 2 months. Why do you even bother with birth control? Activists like Sandra Fl…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 03:46 AM
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the problem is she is down to fuck and she knows I'm down to fuck yet I want to focus on my schoolwork and not get distracted by a chick You are making an issue where there is none. For all you know, you can just tell her, "I'm really serious about my grades and schoolwork, but let's blow off some steam on Friday." Then you two can go make love and if she tries to take up more of your time you respond, "Sorry, I'm busy for the next two days with a class. Let's talk then." If she tries to make dr…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:48 AM
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You already dumped the girl once because she was not good for you, even when your value was lower. Now that your value is higher, you want to make her a girlfriend while she is presumably at the same level she was at when you dumped her before. I get that spinning plates can start to feel hollow. You need to keep doing it. If you want an LTR, think of the plates as auditioning for that role. If they don't make the cut, you can still keep spinning them, bearing in mind the amount of time they tak…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:35 AM
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Put 3 drops of lube on the inside of the condom before putting it on. It makes a huge difference. If you use too much, the condom could slide off while you're fucking. Some lube on the outside of the condom or the girl's pussy can help, but that depends on how much lube the girl makes naturally. If she's been drinking and is dehydrated, even girls that normally make tons of lube can dry up. Natural Lamb brand condoms (I think they still sell them) feel way better than synthetic ones. They are ma…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:23 AM
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In addition to what others have said, maybe you're a bad kisser? Do you push-pull? Make out for a bit, then stop, go back to your friends, do other stuff, then go back to her 10-15 minutes later. Or makeout, tease her, act disinterested, then go back to kissing her. Or is it all make out all the time? If you wait for the girl to disengage from you, you probably waited too long.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:22 PM
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That's not what he meant by the term "generous."
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:53 AM
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I tested this theory over 10 years in fact. I faked orgasm 3 minutes into sex to see if it mattered, and it did NOT. What matters for plates is giving them the confident charismatic guy they are missing among their orbiters. This experiment fascinates me. How many girls did you do this with (sample size)? Was it the 1st time you had sex with them?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:30 AM
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I just dated a girl like that -- hot as hell, but would act super bitchy. I ignored or made fun of her when she acted up. She never got any better. Eventually I got fed up with her constant negativity even as hot as she was, it wasn't worth putting up with her. Funny thing was, for as much of a bitch as she acted like, she still would fuck me. Didn't make sense. In retrospect, if I could do it all over again, I would have set some ground rules early on in a date. Say, for date 1 or 2 I figure ou…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:25 AM
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You basically said to her, "Tell me what your sexual fantasies are" and then you got butthurt with her answers. You also entered the sexonairre game in bad faith by changing the rules once you started it. She knows this now and you look shifty, because you are. Had you kept with the sprit of the game, you only would have seen those answers from her if you had an interest in them yourself. Instead, you checked all the boxes to see the answers that she never intended you to see. Your question is "…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:32 PM
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That's pretty brilliant. Thanks for sharing!
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:52 PM
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There is no such thing as a win-win scenario ... there are always winners and losers. Wut? Do you really believe that? Every consensual economic transaction that happens is win-win. If a pair of shoes is worth $60 to me, and I buy the shoes for $50, then I win. The shoe seller also wins because he values the shoes at less than $50. You're making a fundamental error.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 05:16 PM
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Best advice so far. I don't think many people in this thread have ever dealt with a persistent asshole like OP is talking about. You can ignore him, or make sly comebacks, which is fine, but the AMOG is getting reinforcement for his behavior everytime a OP's conversation partner acknowledges the AMOG. Some people are fucking losers and they get their kicks out of dragging other people down. They don't care if you ignore them because they are used to being ignored. I had a guy like this in my soc…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 07:53 PM
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friends with a girl, Jane (HB7), since we were in elementary school ... there's always been some underlying sexual tension between us Well my question is if these statements are true, why have you not had sex with her yet, and why do you think it would be any different if she comes to the beach house? Other people ITT are saying she is DTF, but you have years of not escalating with her, so she may reasonably believe that she can get a free beach vacation out of you. You need to shit or get off t…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 07:35 PM
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There's an idea that people who lift and are muscular fit into the "meathead jock" stereotype: dumb, aggressive, vain, arrogant. So they probably assume that you are trying to adopt or emulate that stereotypical personality style because you are lifting. Obviously, anyone who has joined a gym knows that the stereotype is BS, but people will see what they want to see.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:51 PM
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You waited too long for date #2 in my opinion. Try to schedule a follow up date while the feelings and excitment is still new and fresh to her. Also, you could have countered by suggesting something free or very cheap. Walk in the park with a bottle of wine or some beers, or many museums will have free or discounted entry certain times of the month, for instance. And there's always Netflix and chill. If you suggested a fun and free outing, and she still declines, then you know her excuse is BS. …
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:43 AM
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She may have strong nurturing instincts, which is a good thing. Stay positive, and if she tries to take care of you, put up a small fight but let her win. For example, you're thirsty and going to the other room for a beer / water / whatever. She jumps up to get it for you...make like you insist on getting it yourself, but let her win out after your token resistance. Some (a lot?) of girls have the need to take care of something, so let her fill that instinct. Keep strong frame, lead the interact…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:38 AM
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Do you know any apps out there that can track multiple women's periods?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:15 PM
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Is there any way to get out of orbit and move closer in? Yes -- you cut of contact with this particular girl, make yourself more desirable to women and find a different, quality girl in the future. This one is already lost to you, and you have a long way to go before you can pull a 9, if ever. The more time you spend thinking about this girl, the more you slow your own progress. Just the fact that you are asking this question says a lot about where you are.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:59 PM
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Whats consistent with all these posts is that the woman most of the time before branch swinging warns the man in their own female way This is absolutely true. The LTR that was most compatible with me in my life did this, and I didn't realize it until after the fact when she was gone. I was too busy being "alpha" / aloof. So when she started subtly sending messages, I sort of knew what she was doing, but I couldn't be bothered to act on her subtle clues. After all, if she really wanted to talk to…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:24 PM
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IME, girls are terrible at getting other girls, unless they are already friends. Get your GFs approval, then you have to get the other girl interested in you. Most girls are just not aggressive enough and have no experience having to chase. Best thing you can do is you do most of the talking and escalating to the third chick, and have your GF put her at ease by being friendly toward her. You do this so the 3rd doesn't worry about a ton of girlfriend drama later and bolt. That said, all my 3 some…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:01 AM
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Many girls prefer older men. Some think it's gross. You can't tell unless you try to game them. In high school, most girls wanted to fuck the quarterback of the football team. Some girls wanted to fuck Mr. Chad, their math teacher.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:44 PM
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This was my experience with similar girls.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:36 PM
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I dated a girl like this in college -- she was 22, grad student, and had never even kissed a guy before. After dating a few times, she gave me blow jobs and was willing to fuck me, but I knew she was a "good girl" and thought she should save her cherry for a guy that would give her commitment. Beta move, yeah, but I don't regret it. She wound up marrying the next guy she dated after me. Anyways, from what I remember with her, since she is so inexperienced, don't look for IOI's on if you should e…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:34 PM
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Well why not tell her this, set strict boundaries on how much time you spend, and when, and continue to screw her? I'll admit I always felt shitty about banging a chick and then not seeing her again. Usually it was when a fat chick caught me in public when I was drunk. Hasn't happened in to me in a while though.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:18 PM
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Not going to comment on the specifics of this situation (other people already have), but noticing a couple general habits you have that will cause you grief until you change them. my LTR absolutely lost her mind. Hung up on me, accused me of cheating, basically had to talk her down from the proverbial ledge of our relationship. Just by engaging her when she's super emotional you break frame. Guys need to remember that girls' emotions are temporary. So calmly make a statement not admitting fault …
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:02 PM
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"3 years ago I was out walking and got hit by a car doing 50 mph. It threw me 20' through the air before I landed on the pavement. I broke my femur, collarbone, fractured my skull and I died and talked to angels during the ambulance ride to the hospital. So, I've had enough thrill rides for the next 10 years." Embellish your story to be more dramatic, but still believable. Show her your scars. If you do it right, you won't sound like you're asking for sympathy or a coward. You'll sound like a ba…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 05:50 PM
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Go out, spend some money on a new wardrobe and new cologne. When she asks or notices the change, change the subject immediately. For a real shot of dread, keep your phone off for an entire day. Agreed. You hear all the time on TRP, "Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do." I often wonder if girls understand that lesson by instinct. They are so used to saying things and not meaning it a short time later, that they assume it's the same with guys. So if you tell a girl that you'll dump h…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:28 PM
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In regards to option 1, are there any resources to help with that? I'm currently reading Sex God method, was wondering if there are other stuff too. Thanks I never read SGM. Just kiss her and touch her everywhere. If she starts moaning more, you found one of the spots that turns her on. By everywhere, I mean everywhere. The back of the neck is a common spot that is overlooked. You won't know if that's a spot for her unless you try. Behind the ears, ear lobes, triceps, thighs, asshole, small of h…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:14 PM
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A lot of girls will have "rules" for themselves about when they will fuck a guy. They make no logical sense, and there's not much point in arguing with them. Based on your account, what you ran into was not LMR, but a chick with the willpower to live by the rules she set for herself. She was already blowing you, so you were doing fine. I think this is a case where the chick says she doesn't fuck on the first date and she actually means it. There's two approaches you can take to this: 1) Become a…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 01:27 PM
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"Saving up for a Ferrari. Waiting for the next model year to come out since the 2016s suck."
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:13 PM
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"Shit out of luck."
/r/askTRP29/04/16 04:42 PM
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Meaningful non-monogamous relationships (where you have an emotional connection) are an entirely different animal than a typical monogamous relationship. It helps to have a strong frame that can withstand the girl's emotional outbursts, but it can be done with the right girl if your game is tight. Give it a try. It's doing the relationship game on hard mode, but will be great for your personal development. Also, check out /r/RedPillNonMonogamy . Lots of good posters over there, even though the t…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 03:21 PM
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Search google for "Red Pill Guide to Online Dating."
/r/askTRP26/04/16 03:10 PM
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Fuck what he thinks. This is classic 'investing in other peoples opinions' which is a BP trope that our society promotes so much. You're misinterpreting this. OP brings up the "no snitch" mentality not because he's afraid of hurting someone's feelings, but because by snitching, he is likely to anger a convicted violent felon who has already talked about wanting to kick OP's ass at first opportunity.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 03:57 PM
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What I am saying is that despite all of that success and self-improvement, a certain man's SMV will still not be large enough to be spinning any plates. This is bullshit. Even if a guy's SMV tops out at a 3/10, then he can still spin plates. They will just be lower SMV chicks than the 8/10 Chad will be spinning. So the "women are too much trouble" attitude comes across as a cop out to avoid the hard work of improving yourself.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:02 AM
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I'm thinking of sitting her down and spelling out the situation for her, that for this relationship to exist, sex must be on demand, but I'm also thinking that might be too direct. Yes this is too direct. Scratch this off the list of options immediately. Stop doing whatever beta behavior that you think lead you here. Introduce dread, figure out your own motivations like /u/longerdistance suggested. Consider a soft next / avoiding her for a while. If she asks why, then hint in vague terms at the …
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:34 PM
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It's really going to depend on the girl. I used to be really direct because like you, I just wanted everything out in the open. Some girls can't handle that, though, even if they say that they can, it will eat at them while they put on a brave face. Saying you're busy or being evasive is a way to get the message across without beating them over the head with it. Which approach to take is sort of nuanced and requires you to read your woman and not just take her at her word. But it seems to be wor…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:33 PM
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You can't do that if you're crying yourself to sleep because she went on a date with another guy.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 07:36 PM
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First off, nice work. Since you're new at this and you only have the 1 plate, I'd suggest limiting yourself to seeing her at most only once every 7-10 days or so. Take it seriously enough that you track when you see her and stay disciplined. Don't see her more often than that. Stick to the schedule. Once you have another girl or two, then you can relax your rules because with other chicks competing for your time, your schedule will work itself out on its own. This will do several things: 1) Keep…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:10 PM
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but also want her to know she fucked up. This never leads to anything positive. You should give up on this motivation.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:02 PM
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If she ever mentions your age negatively it's a guaranteed shit test. Yup. I'm closing in on 40...just started dating a hot 19 year old. She teases me about my age sometimes. The other day I was at her place and I asked her to repeat something she just said. Instead she said, "You better get your hearing aids checked, old man!" "No, I think you need to practice using your big girl voice, little one." We're both well aware of the age difference, so make a joke out of it. I think you need to find …
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:56 PM
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You did fine. I agree with the others that you're still giving this chick too much power, especially after all these months. Get over that. Not banging her was the right thing to do. Not causing excess drama was the right thing to do. Not "telling her like it is" was the right thing to do. You can "tell it like it is" all you want, but her hamster will use that as evidence that you're the one with the problem and how she was so right to dump you when she did. You need to rise above this girl.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:45 AM
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if it was that easy I would do. Obviously, you should do the easy thing then. Get back together with her. It would be so easy to do. What could go wrong?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 03:37 PM
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Makes sense now. The numbers seemed sort of arbitrary considering the variations in different people's size and ability to grow muscle.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:47 PM
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You should aim to hit 315/225/405 for squat/bench/deadlift Where are you getting these numbers from?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:04 PM
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I've never used or even seen snapchat. Care to explain more what it is and how specifically it's useful?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 04:07 PM
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I "confronted" a few girls that I was orbiting way back in my younger days. The number of times it successfully turned the relationship sexual: ZERO. Confront her, embarrass yourself, and learn that it never works. Or listen to the people here and just walk from this one. You have a lot of work to do on yourself before you start banging attractive women.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 12:08 PM
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Then she will gossip and talk shit about you to all the people in your social circle.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 01:02 AM
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Reading your post, you want to talk to her directly, and you are taking her words at face value as if she is speaking in direct / man-talk. Example: Since she said she still wanted to hang out, I told her my schedule for this week/weekend and told her if she wanted to hang out beyond that we would have to work something out and I left it at that. I've gotten no response (been a day and a half). She may have said that she wanted to hang out. What she meant was that she has feelings for you and do…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:06 PM
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Now OP already said that he doesn't want to reveal those details, so why would you go around speculating?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 07:23 PM
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Assuming you are not lying about your income, you make enough scratch that you should pay a lawyer for a few hours of his time and ask about ways to protect your assets in a marriage. Trusts, pre-nups, etc.. At the stakes you're playing, you would be foolish to run your life on blanket advice from a group of internet guys that make less than 1/3 of what you do.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 07:18 PM
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Normally, it's a bitch move, but why not go all needy on the current girl? Write her love poems, talk about your emotions with her, do the opposite of what you're supposed to to get her attracted to you. If she pushes for more commitment like marriage or something, and you feel locked in because you have to live up to the sentiments in the love poems, then pick a fight with her that leaves you both pissed off. After a few arguments like this, you say, "Even though I love you very much, and I can…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:53 PM
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Good luck. Remember these words: "We're not boyfriend-girlfriend anymore, so I don't owe you an explanation for how I feel. Good bye." Additionally, don't put yourself in the position to talk to her anyways. But if she is persistent and desperate enough she will find you anyways. That's when you use the above line, and stick to it.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 01:12 PM
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Read everything /u/MuhTriggersGuise said in the parent comment to this one. And also add: bring your own condoms. Don't let her give you one of hers to use. If you have to, make up some BS like "the lubricant in a lot of condoms irritates my skin. This is the only brand I found that doesn't do that."
/r/askTRP15/04/16 01:06 PM
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I'll just say "I just fell out of love somehow-it's weird but I can't explain it" I believe I read that on here somewhere or somewhere similar and plan on deploying the same thing in the worst case scenario. Don't say this because it opens the door to her pressuring you for more discussions. "What do you mean you fell out of love? I can't believe that when we did X together, you're telling me that it meant nothing to you!" Then you'll want to say, "No, that did mean a lot to me it's just that...…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 12:40 PM
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It's unreasonable to expect a college student to pay, so have her contribute in other ways -- making dinner for you would be a great way to let her take care of you. Solid idea. I will bring that up with her. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:54 AM
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See user name. This has been my first teenager in 7 years. I honestly thought that my days with young girls were behind me, but I plated a 23 year old last summer and then found TRP subs where a lot of people talk about being with young girls, so I figured, "Why not? Age is just a number, amirite?" Best part is that even though this girl is really hot, I'm not wild about her personality and she was sort of a PITA sexually. Her looks make up for it somewhat, but the novelty will wear off soon. Bu…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:54 AM
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"Seriously? THAT'S what you're going with?" and then I paid the tab. I like this. Call her out for her pettiness, then followup by paying or doing what she was angling for. In powertalk this says, "I know what you're doing, but it's so trivial, that I will not cause a scene and embarrass myself. Can't believe you would make an issue like this." I guess anything that keeps the social interaction smooth yet puts her on alert that you're aware of her BS and slightly annoyed would work well. It's a …
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:33 PM
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I like how just writing these posts causes solutions to start coming to me. In the case of the Case 1 girl, I probably should have cut a deal with her right there, "That's cute that you forgot your wallet. You can buy dinner sometime next week." Whether she follows through or not, at least she will be on notice that I'm on to her and she will cut it out in the future. This sort of pressure flip I think would have been good since she orchestrated an awkward situation by bringing this up at the ti…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 01:59 PM
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The root cause of oneitis is vision . Men are great visionaries. They built great civilizations in their mind even before they became reality. From a young age, they envision how they want to change or improve the world. And many men will work towards their vision, regardless of any obstacles they may face. But when it comes to relationship with women, men's ability to stick to their vision until it becomes a reality, becomes their bane. They pursue women with the same energy with which they pur…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 12:01 PM
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Exactly this. It is standard advice in Seduction 101. The fact that she is shy does not change anything. If you are not having sex or and you never get told "no," then you are not escalating hard enough.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:25 PM
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How old are you? If you're still in your mid-20s, then hold off on marriage until you're mid-30s or more. Use the time to gain experience. Get close to some women so you can see first hand how they act and how to manage them. If you spend your time working on your career and developing a stronger personality, you will be able to pull higher quality women as your SMV nears its peak. If girls had more foresight, they would start families in their 20s when they have the energy and fertility. It rea…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 09:16 PM
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Yep. Closet feminists. See my comment a couple posts above this one.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:26 PM
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Ultimately I believe that a woman's submission is always a gift that should never be expected. No one, no matter how high their SMV is entitled to have another person submit to them (sexually or not). You sound like a feminist. I really don't understand why you are even reading this subreddit. TRP endorses a "captain / first mate" dynamic. It is an exchange, not a gift. Women hate to make decisions and hate to take responsibility, so the natural thing for them to desire is a man to submit to -- …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:57 PM
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I've seen a few decent starting cars for like 500$ No you didn't. You will have to pay $3000 minimum for a car that won't be in the shop every week. A car selling for $500-1000 is good for riding in a demolition derby or as a parts car, and not much else. I'm assuming that you're in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:30 PM
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Yes you have to stop giving her your time. She is not into you. If she is into you, she will try to win your attention back once you cut her off. Stop texting her. Stop waiting to see what happens with prom. Ask another girl to prom right now and let this girl hear about it through the rumor mill. Not only will you go to prom with a girl that doesn't play games like this, but you might spark up some jealousy / competitive instinct from the other girl if you don't even give her the chance to reje…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 03:18 PM
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If you're talking about using a girl as a pivot to meet new girls, you're making a mistake judging her as an "HB7." This is really just an extension of "social circle game" and if a girl is not that hot, but has friends that are, then you would be foolish to discount her because she's ugly. Example: I know a fat ugly girl that is still a local celebrity and "life of the party" type of chick. It would be foolish of me to blow her off because she's a 3. She is not worth fucking, but her personalit…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 07:48 AM
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From reading your responses, this is bothering you more than it should. You have weak frame, from what I've read. If this is really causing you practical problems, i.e. causing lower status among important people at work, then it's worth worrying about. If this is a case of, "Yo, this douchebag is disrespecting me" then the answer is, "ignore the douchebag." Going meta is always an interesting strategy. It's one I use when I am sick of someone's shit, but they are too far beneath me to warrant a…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 07:39 AM
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Yes, YOU need to take 100% responsibility. As /u/Verve11 said, it's alarming how many girls will let or encourage you to hit it raw in the heat of the moment. Sometimes they will be rubbing their pussies on you, then just grab you and slide it in. At that point, it feels way better than you're used to, but you have to be disciplined and stop and put the condom on. She may even tell you right then that she's on the pill, but you're not thinking straight, so you can't trust your judgment. This is …
/r/askTRP06/04/16 03:01 AM
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You're letting him get under your skin. You say you are the more mature and valuable employee, so act like it. If some 5 year old ran up to you, called you a poopyhead and then laughed, would it bother you? Treat this guy the same way. Yeah, some people at work may laugh along with the guy at your expense. Chances are those same people are also losers and of no value to you. If even the good workers and bosses listen to the little bitch, then you are working for a shitty company. Do your time, g…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:54 AM
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Condoms break all the time What do you mean "all the time?" I have no idea how many thousands of condoms I've used in my life, but I've had breaks only 5-10 times. Usually, it's with a girl with a really tight pussy and not enough lubrication. Also, you don't always feel that it broke until it's too late. It would not hurt to keep a stash of emergency contraception in your house in case it does happen.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:48 AM
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Sounds like she's not into you, and texts you so quickly to keep herself amused. She is cold when you see her face-to-face so that you don't try to sleep with her again. I'm wondering how it was that you hooked up in the first place. Did you get the impression that she had been thinking about you a lot before hand, or did it just "happen?" Was she drinking or maybe went out with a friend that went home with a guy so then this girl felt lonely and you were convenient? Just curious, because this s…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:43 AM
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if we find in a few years time that Vasalgel keeps mysteriously running into inexplicable roadblocks at the FDA, we'll know who's behind it. The demand for Vasalgel is so huge, I can guarantee that overseas clinics would open up left and right if the FDA banned it in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 10:24 PM
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Many men are far more hindered by doubt than women, because of our sense of justice. We'd rather not be the axe that mistakenly swings on the wrong head, Wow. Coming across stuff like this is why I keep reading here.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:53 PM
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You should always make a girl cum, if you can. Always. What's a good rule of business? Doing a good job gets you repeat business. This is also true with sex. You really have no idea how many plates I can string along and treat like complete shit simply because I am "good dick" and make them orgasm from PIV intercourse alone. You're missing the point of his post. He is challenging conventional wisdom that says for a woman to have enjoy sex, she has to have an orgasm. You are equating female orgas…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:08 PM
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It is very contextual, but in general any open plea to you for instruction (of course, backed by giving you what you want), is simply her reporting ship status to her captain. Let's see it was Wednesday, my current main texted me and asks is it okay if I pick up an extra shift today? "Why the fuck would I care." i immediately thought, we had nothing planned, I hadn't spoken to her in a few days-- "wait, that's it." She just wanted to remind me she's still following, the ship is coasting along, e…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:23 PM
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Like I said, just type "Sex at Dawn Critique" into google. It should not take long to find an article that will very specifically show a full excerpt of an original sources vs. what Ryan edited out for his book. Using other, credible, sources to convey meaning opposite of what the original source was saying kills any credibility Ryan has. It will take you less time to read a couple critiques of the book than it will for you to finish the book. So read some of the criticism and make up your own m…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:34 PM
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Christopher Ryan (author of sex at dawn) is a commie that made up a bunch of anthropology to reinforce his political beliefs. He is also a charismatic bullshit artists. I say this because I listened to a couple episodes when he was on the Joe Rogan podcast and I recognized that Christopher Ryan had many of the same traits of other bullshitters I've met in life. Type "sex at dawn critique" into google and read some of the articles by actual anthropologists, and how he selectively quotes from sour…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:07 AM
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I guess you are screwed then.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 06:45 PM
2

Neither me or my friends take many photos when we go out You know how to work a cell phone camera. You need photos. So take photos next time you do something interesting. Who cares if you don't usually do it? Why is this even a question?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 03:42 PM
1

Thanks for your concrete advice / examples. I think my fatal error was taking her shit too seriously. And you are right...I hate texting, so I admit my "text game" is weak sauce. Gotta learn how to handle it though if I want to keep after the young girls. I'm curious roughly how old you are. I ask because I had been out of college for a few years by the time people started texting each other. Now it seems to be the primary mode of communication for a lot of people. It's almost like I'm in a fore…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:25 AM
1

See updated OP. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 05:34 AM
1

texting her and get pegged has a validation-supplier I'm aware of this and want to avoid it, plus texting is a PITA to begin with. You say its not oneitis but all the further rationalizing under it tells me otherwise, but I'm no expert Could be. I admit I'm more invested than I should be, due to her hotness. But her demands for validation have pretty much cancelled out her "hotness points" by now. It's your ball. Don't play her game with it. Take it and leave the park. It's what I need to do at …
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:20 AM
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Sluts are good for what you're talking about. My favorite sex though is taking a "good girl" and getting her to do things that she would not have dreamed of before meeting me. This takes weeks/months of building trust and yes...an emotional connection. These days I have actually gotten more attracted to girls that put up a bit of a fuss. I have been nailing only sluts for the past 5 years and when I finally found a girl that put up a fight, I'm welcoming the challenge. It makes me feel young aga…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:46 AM
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And it's even worse in the "progressive" subs that talk about non-traditional relationships like /r/polyamory. Feminists, non-gender people, etc etc.. It's why I'm so glad I found /r/RedPillNonMonogamy. Lots of good advice there for men that aren't the losers you'll find in the other subs. RPNM is still a somewhat new subreddit, so I try to bring it up when I can so other people know it exists.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:05 PM
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Do what you can to minimize damage to your life if you get divorced. Talk to a lawyer and accountant for advice on what to do with your assets. This will put you in a stronger bargaining position because it will remove a lot of the fear out of, "but what if she leaves me?" You sound like you want to stay with her, so plan for that, but you need to emotionally be OK with leaving her if you don't get your way. Decide what you would be happy with, and stick to it. Anytime I'm dating a girl and she …
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:13 PM
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I didn't go into the back story but there was definitely something off about this girl. So you found a crazy Tinder slut and thought it would be a good idea to antagonize her with butt hurt text messages after she walked out on you mid-fuck?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 05:50 AM
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Do an internet search for "red pill guide to online dating." It was posted around here by /u/omlala I've been following that and and am surprised at how well it's been working. I used to sit around trying to make good online conversation before going for a number unless it was obvious the girl was way into me. Now, if she says, "Hey how are you" and writes one or two other fluff questions/responses, that's enough. I started following that guide 3 days ago and have 4 girls currently on the line (…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:33 AM
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How serious have you gotten with feminists that you were seeing? And if they made an offhand comment about something that you knew was BS, did you say anything, or let it slide? If, for instance, they mention the "women make 70% as much as men for the same work" stat offhand, do you correct them, or just let them talk?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 04:14 AM
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"wow, your more excited about it than I am!" Which got laughs from the group, but pissed him off He actually bought me a fucking shot. You already made him your bitch twice in front of others, and he kept pestering you. At this point you can just roll your eyes and ignore him. Message is, "I'm sick of this jerk and above this." The rest of the people in the group will know what's up. If you were trying to get sex from the girl you were with, it would be the perfect time to pull her aside and say…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:01 PM
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Do you have a mission that you are passionate about? If there is something in your life that is more important than making women happy, and you unapologetically elevate its importance above all else in your life, then a lot of the "internal alpha" traits will happen on their own. If you don't have a mission, then find one that's suitably motivational. It's funny, but as I got older and my sex drive went down a little, I found it easier to resist the distractions of new pussy and focus on things …
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:55 PM
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First off, you don't know that she is out slutting around. If you were her first kiss at 17, she doesn't sound that slutty to me. Secondly, don't worry about if she is or not. You have oneitis because you are inexperienced. Go date more girls, don't get serious with any for a while. The more women you date, the more experience you have and you can start comparing them. There's a good chance that after you date another 10 chicks you will look back on this one and cringe that you thought she was s…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:54 AM
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You need to demonstrate your disinterest. You do this by ignoring her and not messaging her anymore. You want to give her the idea that she is not important to you anymore. If you bump into her and ignore her, then you are being rude. So if she causes you to break rules of etiquette, then you are not sending the message that she is not important to you. So if you do bump into her, say in a week or two, say "hi" politely, then something vague like, "Well I was on my way somewhere. I need to get g…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 07:05 PM
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Give it a couple months, then send her a message, "How have you been?" If she replies, then feel her out from there. If she ignores, then wait for a longer period and then repeat.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:01 AM
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I dont live in the US and false rape claims while they do happen are no were near as common. They are not that common in the US, either. It's blown out of proportion in the RP subs. As long as you avoid mentally ill girls, then the risk is really low.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:15 PM
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I just know I can (and have) do sooo much fucking better You are making this too difficult. If you can do better, then go out and do better. Get another girl or two that you can see. Then fuck the fat girl every now and then to keep her as a backup. If she is unhappy, then she will stop sleeping with you, but you can do better, right? What's the issue? If she is preventing you from getting new pussy, then you are letting her eat up too much of your time.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:13 PM
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Will there come a point in time where those connections are no longer secondary through her, but established primary contacts to you specifically? Yes. Pretty soon after meeting them, actually. Thanks for your replies, BTW. You're one of the only posters here that seems to realize there is some possible nuance to the situation and don't start with black and white, "Never let a girl help you. Help yourself" boilerplate. I have a pretty good idea of what to do with her tonight, was just fishing fo…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:00 PM
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A plate who you are now dependent on for your mission, and now you are going to have a sit down talk with her about wanting to see her less? Dis gun be good. Believe it or not, I sort of relish the challenge. And "dependent" is a strong word, but she is an asset outside to what I'm trying to do. If she quit fucking me and just kept working with me, that would be fine.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:58 PM
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I generally respect your opinions. In this case, I think you are making assumptions that aren't true. And I can understand that because I was deliberately vague. See this comment for a better explanation, if you want.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:52 PM
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How does she help you with your mission? Why is her help more valuable/useful than the help you can find elsewhere (from, say a friend)? Why can't you provide yourself with the help you need? Giving more specifics would make me uncomfortable in case of possible SJW doxxing in the future. I will say that I have a career for money and a non-profit that I run for personal fulfillment (the mission). She is extremely well-connected in this city and has a lot of friends with talents that would enhance…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:48 PM
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You can make six figures a year in a few years opening a landscaping business or a home PC repair business, or you can make zero, the difference will be your sales and marketing knowledge and your ability to be strategic in your spending and promotion. This is exactly right. I would also add...be proactive. Do research, and then take action on your decision. Your basic auto mechanics class was a brilliant idea. I could do something similar and I already know the people that would put it on and w…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 06:04 PM
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A few months ago I had dates lined up 3 days in a row with 3 different chicks. I had not fucked any of them. My goal was to get 3 strange pussies in 3 days. First night I fucked one girl. She was fun, good lay. I saw her a few more times. Second night I realized the chick was a royal PITA but I fucked her anyways because I had set a challenge for myself. Great tits, starfish sex that sucked. Never called her again she sent me a pissy text message. It wasn't worth it and I started to question why…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 05:34 PM
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No text in a few days? She's not interested.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 05:37 AM
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I think you are intimidated by her e-fame. Do what you can to treat her like any other girl that is into you. If you talk about her e-fame, do it matter-of-factly and let her bring it up. Treat it like a non-issue. If she does bring it up, ask about certain specific aspects of it, but don't treat her like a special person. Example - she mentions a video that got really popular: "15,000 is a lot of hits. What do you think made that one so much more popular than your other videos?" If you treat he…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:24 PM
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I agree with this. A really good move is when they get started with the complaining, you just hug them and hold them and confidently say, "I know you're having a rough time, but everything will be OK." You don't even have to listen to what they are saying and you can often just interrupt them mid-sentence and they'll quiet down so you don't have to listen to too much. If it doesn't work, then let her blow off more steam and try again in a few minutes. And like /u/RedApathy said, if it's too much…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:15 PM
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How do I maintain a simple casual fwb relationship with her? Some things to keep in mind while dating each other? Don't do boyfriend/girlfriend things with her. Don't try to meet her friends, minimize her contact with your friends, don't meet her parents, don't buy her flowers. Just do fun things with her alone and have sex with her. Some social overlap/mixing friends is OK, but you want to avoid getting to the part where your lives are too intertwined. Always ask yourself: if you dumped her tom…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:10 PM
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Acknowledge that you are being manipulated. Catalog her specific actions and how they make you feel in a diary or word processing document. Move on from this one and get manipulated by a few more women. Write diary entries about them also. Refer often to the diary in coming years once the emotions fade and you can analyze with a clear head. You'll do better in the future. Make the most of this learning experience. Red pill posts are nice as a guide and all, but nothing speaks to a dude like his …
/r/askTRP10/03/16 03:15 AM
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You're quickly becoming my favorite poster around here.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:33 PM
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Try using the female condoms. They're actually ridiculous and harder to use than regular condoms, but in your case, you should give it a try. You can make light of it like, "Hey they were handing these out at the health center. Let's try it." Or you can say that you think it will be fun to just dive right in when the moment is right without you having to stop and wrestle with condom packaging. But seriously...I would talk to a doctor. You said that in high school your gf had to blow you for you …
/r/askTRP05/03/16 03:27 AM
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I am like you -- absolutely no interest in sports, but I have to talk to a lot of people for my job, and people like to talk about sports. So I ask questions of the one guy at work who follows the local teams whatever he tells me, I just repeat to other people. He knows I don't give a shit, but he likes talking about it. People who talk sports are all talking out their ass anyways. It's just a way to talk about something that you have in common. So pick one friend, ask him questions, then repeat…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 07:36 PM
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Pro-ambition The most succinct way to describe it that I've seen. I love it. A "pro-ambition" message is important when you live in a culture where it's common for reinforce and make excuses for each other's failures or lack of excellence. After reading it, I often said that she cleared out years of mental pollution that I had unknowingly absorbed just from the messages that society constantly feeds you.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:38 AM
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Although I didn't exactly read it to agree with it, I remember it made me want to work toward great things. I had the same reaction from Atlas Shrugged. Read Rand. I know her books are long and time consuming, but she unapologetically praises talented people who work hard on their mission and eviscerates those who expect shit to be handed to them on a platter. Fantastic stuff that fits really well with a lot of things discussed on the RP subs.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:13 AM
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Do you think these two girls had gotten it on together before this night, or was it a first time for them being together?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:15 PM
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Its like dating another man That's the best part, actually. Instead of worrying about her giving you drama when she catches you looking at another girl, you both can critique pieces that walk by and plot on how to get them in bed together. Other than that, they are like most other women in their behaviors. Or at least the ones I've dated, anyways. But to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:14 PM
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"Big project starting at work in the morning. I have to make sure I'm rested."
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:09 AM
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I wrote back "I like chicks with a fat ass" before your reply. You could have done worse. She answered with a non-answer, so follow up with a very curt: "So are we on for Saturday? I'm trying to make plans for that day." If she doesn't answer within a couple hours, then write her one last time, "Never mind Saturday isn't so good after all. What about Tuesday at 6?" If she is still not getting back after that, then stop contacting her. Wait for her to reach out to you, which she probably never wi…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:12 PM
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If you're over about 35 then I guess I can see it filling in for the downturn in sex most men see at that age. Ummmm.... I'm wondering where you got that number.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 03:49 PM
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I agree it was a great FR. He did "tame her" as you say, but he will have to keep that up, which gets tiring once the shine starts wearing off of the new pussy. OP knows this: Conclusion: Demanding, and critical. One-night-stand or plate-material at best. With a lot of girls, once they give it up and have some great sex, their whole demeanor changes towards you and they become much more accommodating and pleasant to be around. It happens pretty quickly, and it's a great thing to experience. Then…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:54 PM
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I'm glad someone called OP out on taking a legit math article and twisting the meaning to make it relevant to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:52 AM
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Summary: Female tries to justify the CC with so-called “math.” She didn't use "so-called 'math'" she used real math. You totally mis-characterized the article. It's about taking a real life question: When to stop dating and get married to someone? And then applying mathematics to give the best probability for success. The writer isn't trying to justify the CC, sluttery or anything else. She's just coldly applying math concepts to personal relationships. I thought the article was pretty cool.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:46 AM
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Tell her to come over earlier because you have stuff to do tonight. Have sex, tell her she has to leave then take a shower and meet with your current plate as planned. If she can't fit into the schedule that you already have set up with your current plate, then tell her to reschedule on a day more convenient to you.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:29 PM
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It's not my job as her friend of 13 years to make her feel worse about it. I get it, and agree. Your pressure flip in the OP is awful because you sound like you're spoiling for an argument. Try amused mastery. Her: "Why would you call her a cougar? Because she likes sex? Because she's old? Because...." You: Because that's the official term for women that fuck dudes 15 years younger than they are. Jeeze! Haven't you ever logged on to Urban Dictionary? EDIT: On the other hand, there's the matter o…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 06:44 AM
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If he says all women are feminine and all men are masculine his readers would be programmed into trying to debunk that or debunking that with anecdotal data discarding the rest of the book. Good point. we have her freely expressing "I'm cold. Please someone bring me a sweater." We already know she doesn't want to be masculine based on that alone. I read the coldness as a result of the flight-or-fight response...restricted bloodflow to the extremities means she will feel cold. Then we have OP sta…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:34 PM
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That is about as masculine of a solution as it can get. She meditates before you talk to find her calm, her inner masculinity (read the way of the superior men). That is not good for a relationship. That inner calm should be you, that is your role. That is why I said she doesn't trust you to be her alpha. She may trust you to be her friend or even her lover, but you are not in a feminine - masculine relationship. She is a strong independent woman who has balanced her feminine and masculine needs…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:04 PM
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Thanks for posting. This sub can sound like an echo chamber sometimes, so I like reading this stuff. I'd like to hear more about swinger clubs from a red pill perspective. I always assumed that people that go to such clubs would be old and/or fat. Do certain clubs "curate" better looking members? Most of my threesome experiences have been by bringing girls together from the different social circles I run in. I always assumed the swinger scene would either be full of ugly people, or I'd be pressu…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 10:58 PM
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If confronted: "You didn't seem like the sort of girl to bring all this drama into my life. I just wanted to enjoy our time together. That's too bad." Then cut contact. Gives the hamster food to work, and puts pressure on the girl to behave better in the future when she decides to "take you back." I agree with others that you have to internally be OK with banging multiple girls at once, or your insecurity will leak through.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:20 PM
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Why does my life depend on it. Isn't that mind set counter productive He's just saying to give her lots of good sex. It will amplify her emotions towards you and give you more power. Also, you're getting lots of good advice in this thread. I hope you follow it. This post is the best one so far, though. Print it out and refer to it as your "relationship" with this girl progresses (or after you dump her). You'll understand it even more when you have more experience.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 03:26 AM
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I'm going to take your post at face value and assume that both incidents happened just as you relayed them. Accused of rape and sexual assault two times by 21 years old is not normal. I'd take a hard look at the sort of people you hang out with. TRP is paranoid about false accusations, but in my experience they are not that common. What happens on this sub is that a guy somewhere in the world will get falsely accused, kicked out of school, then the media outlets sympathetic to the MRA cause rais…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:14 PM
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I'm not anti-drug by any means and have no axe to grind either way, but I would advise avoiding molly. Easiest way I can explain -- any asshole with $20 in their pocket can buy the "molly experience" that you had. You feel awesome, the world is yours for the taking etc etc etc.. It's all fake and will fade when you come down. If you lift, improve yourself, grow your skills, solidify your personal connections and build a great life, that shit will stay with you and yield real, enduring results in…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:41 AM
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I really like your advice here. Have you been in a similar situation befare? I've have, and I wish I had seen this back then.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 03:13 AM
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Not sure about the country you're in, but in the USA it's traditional to kiss someone at midnight on new years. Any girl that doesn't already have a date is feeling all lonely and left out so they are ripe for picking. If you start working the party an hour before, you can easily at least get a makeout with a chick that you just met and if you like her enough, maybe see her later. Single girls on New Years Eve are thirsty af. Not sure if your country has the same traditions. If so, I'd leave the…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 01:17 AM
1

A drift missile will end it's life as a drift missile, it will never be more than that "Drift missile" LOL! I had to look that one up on Urban Dictionary. Nice comparison.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:07 PM
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No, 300 spouse got it for my birthday. No offense to your wife. I think it's funny/ironic though that in a thread about women spending more than men for basically the same items, you come in here and say she dropped $300 on a razor for you. The highest price I've seen online so far is about $100. Most are in the $30-50 range. Thanks for the tips. I'll probably move to using a safety razor myself.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 11:45 PM
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300 and change for the set Do you mean $30 and change? I haven't even seen a safety razor for 30 years. I didn't know they were still a thing. Just was looking on Amazon though and you can get blades for as little as 10 cents each if you buy a hundred at a time. How does the shave compare to the high-end "quad blade" stuff you get from a Gillete fusion? I do like the multiple blade setup because it seems that I can shave clean with fewer passes, and so fewer bumps / less razor burn. But maybe it…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 06:19 PM
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Made no sense to me either. FWIW until he explained further.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:39 PM
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All the commercials and hype in the 90s to wrap it up to avoid getting HIV was some weird conservative propaganda against casual sex. I remember all the hype in the 90s and even back then I knew the HIV hype was all overblown. I don't think it was conservatives so much as HIV is really a gay problem and not a problem for straight people that don't shoot drugs. The gays were already politically organized for gay rights activism, plus a lot of artists, actors, top fashion designers and hollywood t…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:11 PM
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I've thrown a lot of raging parties and it's obvious you know what you're talking about. Good advice, all around. Just one thing I would add - anything on your list should be outsourced to reliable friends if they can do it better than you. For example, the types of music I listen to are not suited for a party atmosphere, but I have a friend with a great music selection that appeals to a wide group of people, so I have talk to him ahead of time and he's happy to put the playlists together for me…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:43 PM
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Most likely, this is the right answer. Best thing for OP to do is to escalate. Either isolate the girl and try to kiss her, or invite her to his place for drinks, Netflix and Chill or whatever. She will likely cut back on the meaningless flirtation at that point. Or she'll bang him. Either way...OP wins.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:02 AM
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No, but if this article is well received I can. I'd love to read such a guide. IME, I have attained that "dominant frame" you write about with several different women. There are some though that, as you say, "Like to kick hard" against it. I generally just walk from them because I figure it's not worth the hassle. I'd love to read some of your insights on taming such women. Maybe I can learn something.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:29 AM
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Sometimes I get nostalgic about it, but then I remember she made me feel like I was worthless, less than nothing. I have never been married, but after breaking up with girlfriends, when I caught myself getting nostalgic for them, I would often read through some of the old emails they sent me. It would bring back all the feelings I had when they would get bitchy, whiny and demanding, and I would very quickly say, "Oh yeah....THAT'S why I dumped her."
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:07 PM
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I always wrap it. What she meant was I came while I was fucking the other girl's pussy (while my plate held her legs back for me), and she wanted me to come in her pussy (with condom) instead.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:01 PM
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Most say something to the effect of "that was disappointing", but by then i feel like sending one would be a beta move. Thoughts? Sounds like your cute joke is not giving you the results you want. So use another line.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 09:59 PM
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I like your reply. I was out with a girl a few weeks ago and had a similar thing that I suspect was a shit test, but I flunked it because it was so trivial that I didn't want to turn it into an issue. How would you handle this situation: Me and girl sitting at a table in a small bar/restaurant. There is a "help yourself" popcorn machine 30 feet away. Place is not crowded. Girl says to me, "Can you go get me some popcorn?" I know it sounds trivial because it is. Based on other intangible factors …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:36 PM
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I'm curious, how'd you swing a threesome? Did you ask both girls if they were down or did you already know they were into that sort of thing? I run in very sexually liberated circles, so female bisexuals are common. I have been fucking the other girl (not the plate who is the subject of my post) from time to time for over a year and knew she was into chicks and very slutty. As for the plate, I showed her a sexy pic of a girl in my instagram feed and she mentioned how it turned her on, so then I …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:24 PM
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2.) Move on - Sounds like you are only with her for the pussy and are not really compatible LTR wise. Cultivate some abundance and spin some new plates and I'm sure you wont miss this one. Actually, she brings far more value to me than just her pussy, which is why I am being more fussy with this one than other girls that I spend time with that have less to offer. I want to get this one trained at the beginning so I enjoy keeping her around a while. I'm not sure if you follow Black Dragon's stuff…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:58 PM
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Right - if she gets the idea that you habitually "kiss and tell" then she will take steps to protect her reputation.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:40 PM
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Depending on your relationship with the person talking to you, I would give them their own medicine. "It's funny you mention that because I was just thinking about how skinny your arms look. Let me know if you want any tips about putting on some muscle." Then again, I am a dyed in the wool smartass and the type of person that would say that sort of shit to me like they say to you is not someone whose relationship I'm going to value very much. About 80% of the problems asked about in this sub can…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:16 AM
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GENERALLY when a girl does that at the end of a convo, or if they tap you to ask a question when you're sitting right in front of them if it means anything. It happens sort of frequently. Generally, it can mean lots of things. IOIs are subtle and you need to be getting a lot of them for it to be considered a sure thing. Think "plausible deniability." Best thing to do if you're not sure is ask her to Netflix and chill. Her reaction to that will eliminate the ambiguity. If you wait for a sure thin…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:50 AM
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I can't comment on how to handle your university, but since you're in college, I assume you're still pretty young. Use this experience to reflect on your time with the girl. This is not the last crazy woman you will have to deal with, but they're easy to spot early on once you get to know them. I had 2 crazy girlfriends in my life - they were my first two. After those experiences, I learned what to avoid and have not had to deal with any major girl drama like that since. I'm almost 40 now. So ev…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:09 PM
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His wife is a psychotherapist. Years ago, he sometimes had people call into his show and talk about their problems, and his wife would sometimes advise them "as a therapist." She was censured for doing this by the Canadian Psychotherapist Board or whatever their professional organization is called. She had to attend some remedial classes as a condition of keeping her license to practice. I don't have the links, but some anti-Moleneux people dug up the records, which are public domain, and posted…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:46 PM
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There was recently a related post at Chateau Heartiste that this makes me think of. Maybe teen girls in the brightest bloom of their ripening womanhood feel a devilish compulsion to test the boundaries of their feminine power over older men when that power is at its zenith but still, ostensibly, under the authority of their parents. Freud was a crackpot but some of his insights have merit, and a Freudian take on this would say that the teenage nymphet subconsciously desires to exert the same pow…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:03 AM
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I'm really getting sick of "Men's spaces are being invaded" complaints. Yup. This sort of whinging is better suited to the MRA sub. And the article that sparked this post was guys complaining that the government won't renovate the space for them. a Men's Shed in Scotland was appealing for funds from the local council to help pay for renovations If you want to hang out in a men's space, then go find one and spend time there, or build it yourself. Al: "I have some space on my property, let's build…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:16 PM
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So I get less, pay more. No thanks. 22-28 is my range. When I can no longer pull that, I'll just stop entirely, but so far, it hasn't been a problem. Where do you meet the women you date? I've recently started dating again after my last LTR and my plates are aged 29, 32, 32, 41. I'd like to bump a couple off and replace them with one or two in their early 20s, but I'm not sure where to find girls in their late teens / early 20s that will go for a guy who's pushing 40.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 10:53 PM
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she is one of two people who know I relapsed and I'm fighting off my addiction again. Not what you asked about, but I have to wonder why you are still going to festivals when you have an acknowledged problem with drugs. You may want to look into developing a new social circle where drugs are not commonplace.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:24 PM
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Looking back again at the convo, OP is totally ambiguous. Is this a guy's trip or not? Is she welcome or not? Do you actually want her to come or will she be imposing? A leader should always give clear, unambiguous orders/instructions/decisions. She is not sure where she fits in. She doesn't want to miss out on fun, nor does she want to show up when she isn't wanted. Perfectly understandable for any human, male or female, plate or not. I read the exact same thing between the lines. Surprised tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:26 PM
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The worst thing you can do is to start walking on eggshells around here because you don't know what you did or said that set her off. Similar to what others have said, the thing to do when she tries this is to freeze her out or ignore her. Tell her matter-of-factly, "A minute ago we were having a good time. Now you're moping around. Either tell me what's on your mind, or cut the crap. I'm not a mind reader." If she sticks with, "Oh it's nothing. You're imagining things." "I'm not going to beg yo…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:02 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. Be aware that that late 20s to late 30s is the danger zone for when they are getting baby rabies in full force. This is especially true if they don't have children yet. Always bring your own condoms. Don't trust them with contraception. Even if they claim to not want children, or that they would get an abortion if the do wind up knocked up. They may be telling the truth, or they may not. Don't risk it.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:32 PM
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As soon as I read your question I knew someone would quote the "48 Laws" without regard to context. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others Act like a sheep when you could otherwise display independence and still suffer no negative sanction. If the lecture is put on by someone that has no power over you or your grades, and you have the social skills to disagree without coming off like a dick, then go ahead and say your piece. If they get combative with you, then give them the last word…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:44 AM
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I was going to say the same thing after watching the video. It looks to me like she is "performing" for the camera, because she knows it will be on youtube later. Apparently it worked; the video has a million and a half views.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:05 PM
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Definitely gonna look into photography and ways to monetize it as I really enjoy it, thanks! ♂ Photographers are a dime a dozen. Have you ever known a pro photographer that's actually wealthy? As a side job, you could learn video production, which is sort of related to photography. Approach retail businesses in your area that are too small for state-of-the-art marketing and offer to shoot a good-looking "commercial" for them that you can put on youtube and they will add to their website. Think w…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 04:53 PM
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What sort of repairs are you doing? Hardware repairs where you swap out bad video cards or something? Or is it more like virus removal and data recovery where you pull a hard drive out of a busted computer and then save the person's data?
/r/askTRP01/10/15 04:50 PM
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The big bummer is that I feel like I won't get that 3rd chance now cause I was such a bitch. You'll get a 3rd chance, just probably not with this one. You already have an LTR, who I assume is willing to cut you some slack because she has a history of good sex with you. The mistake I made my first couple times was trying to pay attention to all the girls at once -- eat one chick out, while fingering the other, then changing position to swap out one for the other (my first time was with 3 girls, o…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 10:00 PM
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Lots of other good advice ITT. Do what those guys say. The sad thing is a year ago "relax and go there" would mean "whack off before the date", the worst idea ever. I want that sexual tension to drive me You're getting the idea. Use your masculine sexuality as a tool to keep her hooked. "Guys wanting sex all the time" is a meme that society uses to bring us to heel. If she's sitting at a bar stool playing trivia, stand next to her to block the view, then discretely slide your hand up her skirt a…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:40 PM
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I love my Kindle with the e-ink. It's 5 years old and still very useful. Buy a used kindle off of ebay for cheap. You'll be glad you did.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 04:42 PM
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Tell me if you slay so much pussy why you would bother settling for crazy? Because these chicks may be managably crazy. Crazy in the head, crazy in the bed. If I see signs of too much craziness, I can eject pretty easily. I am not currently slaying that much pussy. I only have 2 girls on the roster right now. I'm recently out of an LTR and my game is rusty. I'm enjoying getting back into it, though. It's like picking up a musical instrument after years of neglect. At first, you suck, but the ski…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:09 PM
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I'm sure they would try and milk me for resources if I turned them into FBs. AWALT. They have no reason to think that I'm wealthy or anything, though. In fact, the clothes I was wearing were pretty dingy. I wasn't planning to go to this meeting. I was hanging with my friend and when he invited me along, I said sure, why not? Anyways, every stripper I've seen will act nice. They don't throw shit tests because it would frighten off too many betas with money.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:04 PM
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I am not a big fan of the false-rape-claim hysteria. Your chances to be a victim of them is just too low to worry and waste time over it. I'm glad someone else is thinking this. I'm in my late 30s and have known 3 or 4 girls that were raped. The closest I have come to personally knowing someone that was falsely accused was a co-worker's friend's nephew. I sort of wonder if the preoccupation with false rape accusations is a boogeyman that MRAs use to whip the crowd up. Sort of the analog to the f…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 07:38 PM
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I've had flings with a few girls from NYC that I met on vacation (not in NYC) and I don't live anywhere near there. They all liked me quite a bit, would travel out to my hometown to spend the weekend having sex and going out, etc.. If I had to take a guess, I'm more masculine than a lot of guys they would run into in NYC. I remember one girl being really impressed/surprised when she found out that I change the oil in my car myself. Or based on your post, maybe there are just not enough single du…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 08:58 PM
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Understood. Maybe /u/VasiliyZaitzev knows of some corner of the Internet with what we're looking for.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 08:11 PM
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You know any online forums for guys like us that are past 35 years old? I like the TRP subreddit, but I have been at this stuff a while and there seems to be a lot of guys in their early 20s that lack experience. More established/older guys have a different set of life circumstances and I'd rather not unknowingly take advice from a 20 year old keyboard warrior.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:09 PM
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It doesn't work that way, there is no such thing as an alpha / beta male amongst humans. We use those terms to clearly define different behaviors that tend to coexist together, but they are not hard definitions. The AF/BB is a separation WE made not women. Just because you have provider traits doesn't mean her pussy dries up, it's neutral towards them. It's the wimpy, insecure, fearful behaviors that tend to accompany people who focus solely on their wealth that makes her pussy dry up. This need…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:39 PM
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You're European and your Facebook friends are all celebrating a USA court decision? That seems funny to me, and even proves my point. Why the hell show support for a court decision that will affect 1/500 people in a far off country when as you say, the Greece currency crisis will have an effect on every single person living in the EU -- the people you look in the eye as soon as you step out of the house? It blows my mind.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:42 PM
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I read your post and the top few replies. The gay marriage thing is a manufactured controversy. If I believed in conspiracies, I would say that "they" want to get the regular people wasting their energy fighting each other over trivialities than paying attention to more complicated issues. The reason I think you are wrong is that gays make up...what? 2% of the population? I am friends or acquainted with quite a few gays and very few of them want to be "married." So if 10% of gay couples do get "…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:13 AM
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I don't think he cares so much as he would rather that she STFU and just lay with him already. Shit tests and LMR are an annoyance. It makes sense to attenuate them as much as possible.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:19 PM
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Great story! And re: SJW overheard me talking with Paulo and she goes on about how I can´t treat Vanessa as a commodity, deciding for her which guy she should choose. Weeks later she stills bitches about it. I LOL'd.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:14 PM
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I've something similar to what you're proposing once. Had a girl that was in love with me, had been dating for a couple years, then I started banging another girl. Rather than give up one of them, I convinced the first one that we should all date each other. The key was the girl I was already in a LTR with was submissive to me and generally did what I told her to do, so I was able to sell her on the idea. She sometimes had fits of jealousy, but she took it out on the other girl and me rather tha…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 02:48 AM
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I spent a wonderful three day weekend with my girlfriend of five months. We've been monogamous since March. Know what you want. I was not in love. I was never looking for a LTR. I don't have time to spin plates, so I prefer short-term relationships. Those 2 quotes seem contradictory to me. I'm curious about why you would get into a monogamous relationship in the first place. Was it your idea or hers? If hers, why did you agree to it? What did you get out of it? If you're after what amounts to a …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:22 AM
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How long were you with her? If you were serious for more than a few months, I'd advise that you pass on this and get a new girl instead. In my own life I have tried to pull that off a few times and each time you fall back into the same mental habits that you developed as your way of relating to her. I've watched plenty of friends do the same thing. If you're traveling to a different city where an ex lives and you call her up for a ONS/"for old time's sake" that is one thing. To regularly see a g…
/r/askTRP07/06/15 07:34 PM
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It was a test. Next time don't answer. Turn it around on her. Her: "Are you looking for a one night stand?" You: "Are you?" Even better: Her: Are you looking for a one night stand? You: I can't answer that until I know if you're a good lover or not.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:39 AM
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Not today. If you act aloof around her, she may throw you another test in a few days or weeks to try and bring you back into orbit. Hopefully you'll do better next time.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:28 AM
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/u/karmasutur3 already gave you an excellent response. Read what he wrote a few times. She is most likely testing you to see if she can use her sex appeal to add you to her stable of beta orbiters. You failed. The best case scenario from here is that she throws you a bone from time to time with more sexy pix along with frequent requests to help her move furniture or some shit. The winning play here would be to show indifference to the sight of her tits, and mix in some teasing. She: (sends censo…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:17 AM
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