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This post doesn't even cover all the non-biological difficulties and disadvantages that come with being born female. There are too many sociological factors for me to list here, but one of the most devastating ones is the constant FEAR that you internalize. It's mercilness, unrelenting and EXHAUSTING! The fear of walking down a dark street alone. The fear of accidentally bumping into the 'wrong kind of male' even in a bright, busy setting. The fear of passing by a group of males who will casuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:51 AM
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This right here is one of the reasons why I hate getting into 'discussions' with my own brother! And he's genuinely confused about why I don't really talk to him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:33 PM
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In all honestly, on first read, I really thought that's what she meant. An enlightened post commenting on how MEN are far to used to being catered to and coddled without even the expectation of reciprocation. Then I read it again and realized the delusion. Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:24 PM
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I never understood this whole 'allowance' system. It's humiliating. My parents are classic boomers with breadwinner father and SAHM. My mother has literally NEVER had to ask for money, much less beg for it. Everything that my dad makes goes into joint accounts. She has several credit and debit cards linked to all accounts and can spend at her leisure and convenience. The idea of the SAHM being forced, again and AGAIN, to timidly ASK for an allowance... that's both enraging and heart-breaking. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 08:53 AM
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I'd just like to say that I'm loving the aspie info dump here XD XD XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:31 PM
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I sometimes use the word 'Aspergers' to describe myself because it's a pretty quick and easy descriptor that most people understand means 'high functioning autistic - likely able to mask symptoms and appear mostly neurotypical'. Having autism is NO EXCUSE FOR BEING AN ASSHOLE!!!!!!! Never! I was literally NEVER given any leeway to act like an awkward asshole without receiving some severely judgemental looks. Of course, I'm a woman, so I'm going to be cut considerably less slack compared to male …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:39 PM
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I think I can actually provide a number for this. My dad's not a member of the ultra wealthy, but he IS 'useful enough' to them to get some insight into their world and how they think. Basically, anyone whose net worth falls below 10 million dollars can be considered 'fair game' in terms of potential romance and compatibility. Above 10 million would mean entering the world of the really frightening 1% who have a truly alien perspective about how the world works. Avoid them at all costs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:17 PM
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Currency Crooners Solvency Sisters Retire Early Matrons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:01 PM
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I'm not entirely sure why this made me laugh, but I was howling XD XD XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:22 AM
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I misread the title, and legit thought that this woman faked an entire wedding to get her ex to FINALLY LEAVE HER ALONE. Even after realizing my mistake, it took another two readings to finally acknowledge that she did all this to GET an ex's attention, rather than try to drive a stalker away. Oh, honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:41 AM
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Yes! Very much, YES with this. I was heavily into BBC Sherlock fandom, NOT because I wanted to 'do Sherlock', but because I identified absolutely and completely with their version of Sherlock. BBC Sherlock was basically me, before I got therapy XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:05 AM
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Frances Hardinge. Her books have all have a 'creepy fairytale' vibe to them, but they're also eerily beautiful! I'd recommend 'The Lie Tree' to begin with. It's a coming of age of a young woman in Victorian times who learns that she DOESN'T need her brilliant scientist father's approval or validation to pursue science (or magic) herself. ugh. I checked the blurb on amazon and GoodReads. There are SO MANY SPOILERS. Just, WHY?!?! If possible, please don't read the summary blurb about the book. I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:24 AM
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I'm now imagining a world where there's an entire industry and market for plants, flowers and herbs that were grown exclusively in the presence of women only. Label would read: 'Oregeno grown in female only hotricultural community environment. Guaranteed 10/10 flavours of peace and happiness'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:10 AM
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I used to be intensely into JuJitsu when I was an undergrad an university. Like, VERY much into it. I attended tournaments and everything. I never won anything. Ever. My coordination was terrible and I was awful at it. BUT, the company, atmosphere, my sensei made it all worth it despite my incompetence. I have pretty much never met such a disparate group of people who are all so darned NICE as the peeps that I met at my Jujitsu club, or at the tournaments, or even hanging out afterwards at the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:34 PM
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There are some countries where pre-marital sex or adultery is actually illegal. The result is that any woman who DOES report non-marital rape, IS ACTUALLY ARRESTED HERSELF FOR ADMITTING TO NON-MARITAL SEX!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:09 AM
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LOL! Frick no! I don't give any warning or ask for permission. At this point, I honestly assume that all the space ahead of me is MY SPACE and MY PATH and MY DIRECTION, and everyone should just get out of the way. I make exceptions for kids, because little ones are unpredictable in their movements, and there have been times when I've almost tripped over them while they were in 'my path' ;P Full disclosure, I DID start side-stepping around people in 2020 when lockdown, social distancing and Covid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:14 PM
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This is a game that I've played for as long as I can remember. It's become honestly the way that I walk now XD I only remember facing negative consequences of this ONCE. Two douches were walking side by side in front of me, and rather than side stepping around them to get ahead, I nudged myself between them to get ahead. They were TRIGGERED. One of them starts following me and cat-calling, and saying things like 'Don't you want to be friends. Let's be friends' in that pseudo aggressively cheery …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:44 AM
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Thank you very much. I think the post got deleted, so it's a non-issue now, but I wanted you to know I appreciated your comment :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:26 PM
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I know right! You've come up with some truly EXCELLENT examples on the different types of names that SHOULD be in circulation about men. And these names don't even include anything about the various kinds of racism fueled abuse that men hurl at women. The men who go after Asians because they believe them to be 'demure' submissive ready-made bang-maids just awaiting coding and instructions. Or the men who go after brown and black women because they're stereotyped to be 'furious, wild, sex-craving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:00 PM
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I have some thoughts... White men managed to recruit white women into their race based hierarchical rhetoric by promising them prestige and status above minorities. It's fine if you, as a white woman, are given second class citizenship because you're still higher in the hierarchy compared to POC, and will have your status protected by white supremacy establishments. White women were therefore recruited to become the social watchdogs of white supremacy where they could, and would, bark and snarl …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:21 PM
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First, I'm really sorry that your development led to you being sexualized so early in life. You were young and vulnerable, and all these intrusions on you led you to internalize some seriously messed up messages about value, worth and love. You deserved better! I'm also going to share some lessons that I've unpacked during my own therapy sessions. This isn't something that my therapist told me, but more like stuff that I realized while talking thing out with her. It's mostly about shifting blame…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:04 PM
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I didn't expect society to change for me - I changed myself for society. I built up an arsenal of coping mechanisms and learned lessons the hard way. These days, people say I'm very charismatic and put together. It seems that way because I make notes for every little thing and consciously make myself be a good listener and try to talk about things I know people are interested in! THIS! This is the not only the story of my life, but it also looks like almost everyone on this thread has had simila…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:22 AM
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I sometimes wonder who I would have been, if medicalised sexism didn't exist. I wonder what I could have achieved if I hadn't been fighting this my whole life, alone. I get this SO MUCH! My masking has become such an integrated part of my personality that I've honestly, genuinely lost track of the person I 'could' have been versus the person that I am right now. I now find myself picking apart the components of my thoughts, instincts and preferences and examining them as 'is this an autism thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:00 AM
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Do you find with this that you can fall prey to some cunning long game types, love bombers and bait & switch types, but are immune to the inconsistent ones who put on the playing hard to get act or play hot and cold to try and make you chase? That is actually a perfect summation of my strengths and weaknesses XD On the plus side, it takes a narc of exceptional intelligence and patience to make me fall for their tricks. I've adopted the 'better safe than sorry' motto when it comes to all kinds of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:42 AM
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I'm so glad you made this post. Beautifully written, and I'm looking forward to the answers :D I already mentioned that I've given up on finding a romantic relationship. My autism means that I take people at face value too easily and find it difficult to suss out their true intentions. This has left me, not only with several miles of trust issues, but also a tendency towards being a control-freak. Besides that, my decades of masking has actually, honestly made it near impossible for me to separa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:08 PM
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The reason that girls learn to mask so well is because of how we're treated. We aren't given a pass for being even just a bit blunt. We're taught to handle other people's feelings with care and often put them above our own wellbeing and sanity. In general, boys have it easier than girls and yet somehow escape accountability for their actions. It's really important that girls get diagnosed and have a supportive environment where they can talk openly about their experience and perception in the wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:45 PM
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I have the attention span of a dead hamster among other things and it's seriously messing me up. I feel pretty lost tbh I giggled a little bit imagining the attention span of a dead hamster. I don't believe I have ADHD, but I have a best friend who does. At least, she BELIEVES she does. The boomer (male) doctor that she visited told her that she apparently wasn't 'fidgety enough' to be given an official diagnosis and medication. Instead, he told he she had 'anxiety and depression'. Ugh! Anyhow, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:19 PM
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Also mixed sex autistic support groups are a nightmare as too many autistic men think they’re suitable places to try to pick up women. This is a pretty good tip. I was thinking about reaching out to support groups in my area. I'll be sure to focus on 'women only' autism support groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:09 PM
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I can go on and on, so many things in my life boil down to "that's yet another Dyspraxia thing" but never knowing that's what I have until my mom finally told me in 2019, up until that point I just thought I was stupid or slow or whatever. Ouch! I know exactly what you mean here. I get why some people wouldn't see the point of a late diagnosis, but for me, it felt like unlocking an entirely new layer of meaning within myself to finally, FINALLY give myself a label. It's clear that, even though y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:06 PM
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My introverted otherworldlyness. Wow! That's a REALLY great way to put it. I remember my mother told me that a family friend made a pretty similar remark about me. I think the word they used was 'Farishta'. It's difficult to translate, but it's a word commonly used for poets and divine messengers. It was one of the sweetest ways anyone has ever noted my difference. I've also been called a 'unicorn'. Not in a creepy way by a dude, but in an almost awed tone by a fellow female work colleague XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:51 PM
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Did you engage in imaginary play? Autistic kids don’t engage in imaginary play like with dolls. I am the first-born amongst my siblings, so my mother didn't really note anything different about me during early developmental years. She did mention that I was pretty content in my own company and never threw any tantrums. As for 'imaginary play'... I now know that I had a very female autistic style of play, although it would have been very difficult to pick up from outside observation. I didn't pla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:41 PM
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Do you mask around men (when dating them)? btw, while I can't really help you in this, I think this will make a great discussion post. Gauging by the replies I've received to my rant, I think there are a LOT of neurodivergent ladies on FDS who might have some really interesting thoughts on your question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:21 PM
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it’s so fucking hard to do things that seem easy for everyone else and I’m waaaay behind any life goals I know what you mean about feeling like everything is an uphill climb where everyone else seems to get an escalator. I've learned not to take the whole 'life goals' and 'life script' too seriously since it's mostly based on being a Productive Contributor To Capitalism. I'm in a relatively peaceful place where I know what I personally want and need to feel fulfilled. I set my goals accordingly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:15 PM
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My superpower is making connections other people can’t see. It's one of the most satisfying feelings being able to appreciate your own neurodiversity as an asset. I've also come to love my hyper-focusing as a super-power too. It's taken a while, but I've come to understand that it's much easier for me to enter The Zone compared to neurotypicals. I'm so happy for you. For both of us! It sounds like you're living your best life now, as you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:04 PM
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I've long since given up on men. There was a grieving process that I went through specifically when I realized that the type of man I wanted probably doesn't even exist. In the end, I chose safety over romance. It's definitely NOT the choice for everyone, since my decision was based on a loss of hope and trust in men, and I will always encourage hopefulness in others even if I'm missing it myself. I've decided that I prefer the company of a close-knit circle of friends rather than romantic pursu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:59 PM
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There is no representation for autistic females at all If you're looking for solid female representation of autism, they're finally, FINALLY being produced in mainstream media in modern animations like She-Ra and Steven Universe. She-Ra has a character that I 'met' for the first time and thought 'that's me'!!! Her name is Entrapta, and from the first moment I saw her, I actually felt 'seen'. It was wonderful. And Steven Universe has at least TWO major characters that I would definitely identify …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:37 PM
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I was locked alone in empty rooms and left to cry it out many, many times. I am so sorry! You deserved so much better. In my case, I spent a good part of my schooling years seeking out empty classrooms to hide in for lunch breaks because the thought of performing out the correct social cues for my peers was just exhausting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:26 PM
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diagnosed late, no support given, also very angry Let's go burn down the world together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:21 PM
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I seem to process the audio slower than everyone SAME! I actually spent a long time wondering if I was actually stupid while KNOWING, deep down in my bones, that I was usually the smartest person in any given company. It was a VERY strange dichotomy *rolls eyes*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:21 PM
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Everyone on this thread is just so kind! So much kinder and supportive than my own family members when it comes to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:18 PM
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So I had to learn by myself, just like you, by reading books, by mirroring other people’s (agreeable) behaviour, I had to get out of my comfort zone, learn what is offensive and what is not, learn how to not be so blunt when I talk I related SO MUCH to this that I actually teared up a little. I'm so sorry that you also had this experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:14 PM
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The symptoms of illness are different between the sexes and normally just the typical male symptoms are known. I know right! My specific resentment comes from under-diagnosis of neurodiversity in women, but you're absolutely right that the entire medical community focuses almost exclusively on the male physique and the male psyche as the 'default' for all forms of pharmaceutical research and testing. I even remember reading one of the 'rationalizations' given by the pharma industry against testi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:03 PM
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I can’t tell you how much resentment formed listening to these guys go on and on about themselves, their interests, cutting off others, making stupid jokes, and worst of all trying to hit on me. I'm so sorry. I always thought that 'if only' I had at least received some kind of basic RECOGNITION about my differential needs, then maybe my own childhood and teen years might have been a little more bearable. But hearing about how men monopolize all the attention even AFTER it's known that you need a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:55 PM
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Neuro divergent men use their diagnosis as an excuse for being shitty people, meanwhile neuro divergent women are taught to internalize it all and make extra efforts to be emotionally intelligent and understand social rules, which leads to depression and burn out. YES! This is exactly the kind of pandering that makes me furious. I've lost count on the number of autistic MEN I've personally met who use their autism as a shield against criticism for being an asshole. Men: 'Oh, I didn't understand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:51 PM
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I KNOW that if I had been born male my entire life would be different OMG, YES! I know exactly what you mean. I feel such bitter resentment about being deemed 'broken and defective' in so many ways. And then I look at all the ways that men are accommodated and catered to WITHOUT being dismissed with a condescending pat on the head and instructed to 'just be better'.... Sometimes the rage is just a primal scream beyond all words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:31 PM
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I watched the video AGAIN to see if there was something, ANYTHING that I was missing. Maybe some tiny glimmer of teasing warmth in his eyes? Nothing! Why are the vast majority of non-FDS viewers looking at this video and calling it heartwarming?!? WTF is wrong with people?! Rewatching the video only made me realize that this video has been CUT and EDITED by the GF to make it look as cute as possible, and not like her boyfriend is a reptile living in his terrarium tank!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:41 PM
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other women are saying he’s looking at her with love Just... HOW?!?!? HOW are the vast majority of viewers looking at this and seeing ANY kind of warmth?!?!?!?!? Seriously WTF is wrong with people?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:31 PM
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OMG, that flat dead-eyed stare that he gave her when she asked her question was actually horrifying. This man is not only self aware about how broken and numb he is, but doesn't even have any hope or interest in being 'fixed'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:47 PM
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I truly don't know whether this is a side effect of my autism, but I LOATHE removing my body hair. It's not just that the process is tedious and painful, but for literally weeks afterwards my skin feels like someone is running a very mild taser all over it. It's only mildly painful, but IT'S STILL PAINFUL! FOR WEEKS AFTERWARDS!!! Until I grow my body hair back! It's been this way for as long as I can remember. When I entered my teen years, my mother, sisters and even my so called friends at the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:33 AM
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WTF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:07 AM
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I always found it interesting to observe the narcs in my family interact with people who had actual boundaries. Very interesting in hindsight. I'd love to know more about this. These observations you made about how these boundaries were established and possibly tested during their interactions. How did 'your narcs' react to the boundaries? Did they back off immediately to search for greener pastures, or did they try to push a bit before giving up? Any interesting and/or unexpected lessons or tip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:45 AM
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if they were raised like women they would’ve known they were ugly by the age of 7 Ouch. This one hit hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:43 AM
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It's true that we live in a hyper-pornified society where the phrase 'sex sells' has been carried forward to absurd and horrifying corporate and policy schemes. The world we live in sometimes twists and stretches to tie EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that it can to appeal to (usually male) sexual gratification. Even those of us who grew up with vigilant parents who tried to keep our content as wholesome and porn-free as possible... even we could not help but be exposed to 'soft porn' in our shows, maga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:39 AM
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LOL! I actually did a post about this when I first joined. It was my first post to FDS, but it was removed. Not a big deal. I'm not sure how I might have violated posting guidelines, but I trust the moderators knew what they were doing. Anyhow, I don't feel like copying and pasting the old rant, and even less like typing out a new version of the rant from scratch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:23 AM
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Also speaking of male entitlement, it must be nice growing up in a society that sees all of your emotional and psychological needs as the default. Girls are told to either STFU and adapt or just flat out told that our specific 'female problems' are just not as important as the 'problems of the menfolk'. Example: I'm sure most of my neurodivergent sisters out there know how freaking difficult it is to relentlessly have our female presenting neurodiversity symptoms constantly compared to 'the defa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:15 AM
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Besides the coddling that men get, let's not forget that boys are given a lot more space to develop their sexuality at their own pace without being intruded on preyed upon. Obviously these are pedo predators out there who prey on little boys too, BUT it's much more common for young girls to be the targets of older sexual predators. So, on top of being granted significantly more space to grow organically into themselves, young boys are also granted the privilege of protection from sexual intrusio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:06 AM
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Your thought patterns and methodologies in navigating social dynamics strike me as remarkably similar to my own. In my case though, it's a by-product of my autism. Literally decades of being out of social sync with neuro-typicals has resulted in me becoming a fervent and yet also detached observer of group dynamics so I can learn to pass for 'normal'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:03 PM
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15 years ago, this 'Tamara' was just a 10 year old kid. Which means that, even since her 'new stepmom' left her, her father has probably been sledgehammering into his kids' head that OP was a vicious, heartless harpie who abandoned the family at the time of their greatest need or some BS like that. He's effectively brainwashed his now ADULT child that any and all problems with the family only happened because of this 'evil stepmother who abandoned them' rather than an incompetent husband and fat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:13 AM
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Sexual harassment should be normalized This genuinely unnerved me. Sexual harassment IS ALREADY NORMALIZED!!! Victims know that it's an uphill battle just to report it, and damn near impossible to have the perpetrator punished without some SERIOUSLY hard evidence. People in general barely blink when they see it happening. Women are resigned to sexual harassment at work, on the streets, or in any place that's not a female exclusive somehow. Most rapes go unreported because the survivors know that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:04 PM
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Thank you so much. The post was deleted very soon after I wrote it, and it felt like it had been balled up and thrown away before anyone got a chance to read my thoughts. It's good to know that it IS somehow still available for people to connect with, even if it is 'spam', lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:01 AM
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Yikes! omg, I'm so sorry that happened to you. You did not deserve that kind of treatment AT ALL. I was already wincing when you told me about how this woman pushed for more personal details than you were ready to share at the time. She was trying to force intimacy on you by over-sharing her own personal traumas. And THEN I was livid when I found out that she reacted to your rejection by punishing you with rather intense hostility. What happened between you and that woman is NOT NORMAL. I'm trul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:08 PM
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I am in my early 40s. Not sure if that's what you had in mind for 'older' XD But yeah, I do already have Friendship Tiers, and currently she's in my Tier 2 friendship circle. I'm just a little frustrated because I want to move her forward to Tier 1. I suppose you're right that there's a threshold with her that I cannot push into, no matter how much I want it. I know I didn't ask for advice, but this was indeed good advice that you offered here. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:08 PM
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Wow. This made me think of a very, VERY dear platonic friend of mine and how our relationship is currently in a stalled state of emotional intimacy that I have no idea how to take to the next level. Here's the details. My friend, 'Melissa' and I genuinely love each other. Whenever we get together, we just click on everything. We laugh at the same kind of jokes. We both agree that we both are awesome people who deserve all the very best things that life has to offer. We both fervently admire each…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:52 AM
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Yep. I got the same tone. It just sounded so absurd, that it felt more like really clever satire than a cry for help XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:31 AM
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I love it. That's a really great angle that I hadn't considered at all! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:59 AM
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Oh yeah, I played the 'How is runaway hyper-capitalism most directly the result of the patriarchy' question too. It was one of my first 'fun questions' to myself, lol. And yes, absolutely it's about gaining unearned status through labour exploitation. But it's more interesting when you think of capitalism in terms of the beginning of the establishment of the hierarchy in early civilizations. More specifically, I came to an uneasy conclusion that WOMEN are the ones who probably began the practice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:58 AM
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That's a brilliant answer. I love it! Also continuing on your thoughts, allowing access to of mind altering substances to all women all the time, anytime... it might lead to women discovering their inner rage, or, even worse, their actual inner-led purpose in life. Can't have the women taking a moment out of society's relentless gaslighting to have a moment of easy self-reflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:19 PM
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This is a fascinating post. I would love to hear more of these thoughts on a post of your own making. If you have the inclination to do so, obviously. Completely your choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:32 AM
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Oh, absolutely YES on edible induced orgasms! Edibles send me on a journey where I become significantly more aware of my emotional needs, as well as more open to exploring and fulfilling as much of those emotional needs as possible. A walk in the park. Watching my favourite shows. Eating my favourite kinds of meals and snacks... and of course, the emotional need for tension release and fulfillment through orgasms. Just me and my vibrator/s, and it's actually really REALLY easy for me to orgasm u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:30 AM
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Does she 'look 17 or 18 tops', OR does she look like 'a fully grown woman'. IT CAN'T BE BOTH!!!!! If you can see that she's a child accompanied by her freaking parents, then you should know that he can freaking see it too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:14 PM
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Thank you so much for bringing this singer to my attention. I clicked the video, and also opened up a side window with the lyrics, because with raspy metal voice technique I need the lyrics on the side, lol. Anyhow, the lyrics that I opened on the side were from what I now know were the original Powerwolf lyrics, and while listening (and reading) I realized that there were subtle tiny differences that changed the tone of the song. For example, some of the original lyrics were: They wanna make yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:04 PM
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