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| 1 | How do I Become ok with Myself?Look at it this way; the trash took itself out. If she left you for some random unknown, nothing's stopping her from doing that to next poor bastard she dates. The fact that you're able to question your own mental well-being is a sign of meta-cognition; The ability to observe and question your own thinking, instead of blindly accepting a narrative of your ex for example. You're not going to die alone. You're going to have hard time getting through this, but, in time, you'll look back at this exp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is she dead weight?There's your answer. For your own sake, start preparing for the inevitable. It seems to me that you're not worried about "what ifs", but rather you don't know how to start the process. So just say it. Maybe give a reasonable time for her to move her things. From what I've read, she's most likely going to play the victim and appeal to your good nature. When that happens, stay firm and stick to your resolution. Since you've had doubts about what to do for this long, you're likely going to feel pre… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Is she dead weight?Answer seems quite obivious. Consider a divorce. You could also try asking what made her go haywire 2 years ago. If you do ask, do it when she's sober. I take it the first years weren't that bad? You could refer her to a psychiatrist, and start trying to fix things if you think she's still worth the effort. Or... You could leave her right now | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 02:58 PM |
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