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Isn't the issue that men are not able to attract and keep women they find attractive?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/26 07:23 AM
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My personal rule is to not get serious with a woman unless my body count is 20. I need enough sex to realise that 1. I can have it whenever I want 2. I can think clearly, without getting gungho on sex Till then, every woman is an experience, not a commitment.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/25 01:51 PM
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Briffault's law : Relationship continues as long as there is some immediate advantage to the female. Attraction + usefulness = good time with women
/r/TheRedPill05/06/25 06:40 PM
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As a summary, TRP is for short-term encounters and MRP is for LTR / marraige. I am also assuming that TRP is a prerequisite for MRP.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/25 12:21 PM
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One of the reasons prostitution has been banned (in most of the countries) is the economic problem of supply and demand. The demand for sex will never decrease. Because of this, supply will increase, often in illegal ways (imagine kidnapping girls from villages, forced or deceitful prostitution etc). So at scale , it's not the solution. There was a guy who had a nice article about using sugar babies as well. They offer you a pretense of intimacy and sex as long as your wallets are loaded. Again,…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 07:50 PM
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Statically true for what? Sexual needs?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/24 10:57 AM
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Wouldn't a regular girl (friend) be more needy? Women's demand for attention increases exponentially with time
/r/TheRedPill15/11/24 10:55 AM
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If others make my life uneasy, should I care about them? If they are fixated with themselves, I must be fixated with myself as well
/r/TheRedPill14/11/24 12:16 PM
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If I don't care about myself, who will?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/24 10:22 AM
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Which city is yours btw? Kind of curious to explore the nudist lifestyle
/r/TheRedPill10/11/24 09:30 AM
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I am a little hardcore on this. I usually just block the women. Had two cases She used to play the "block-unblock" game. Like, when got mad about something, she would block me and then unblock me later. After we broke off, I permanently blocked her I was with a girl who, I guess, considered me her soulmate or something. A sweet girl but an ugly one. Things happened and I realised I don't want to be in the relationship so I broke off but didn't block. One week later, she is neurotic and calling m…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/24 09:29 AM
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The "hard things" in this context means that the things which are difficult to do but yield significant rewards. Studying: covering your syllabus, doing practice questions and making notes everyday (or regularly) is hard. It's boring however it has good rewards Working: doing your job, being a multiplier for the team, learning new skills are hard things however have good rewards Social interaction: cold approach, getting out of your room, going to different unknown places are hard things that ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 03:47 PM
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How? What hard things do you think the author is talking about?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 01:59 PM
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I am talking about career. Imagine applying to a new company after being fired from one because of an accusation. Then you apply to a new company and when they perform your background check, you will have that stain
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 08:48 AM
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And, don't pay her man. Pay the police and judges. Paying her only makes her want to take more money from you and it neevr ends well I am concerned about reputation loss : Get arrested for a false charge and your employer will fire you away + you got a dirty little stain in your background history, irrespective of whether you are guilty or not. How do you deal with this?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/24 07:05 PM
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What about STD / STI ?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/24 06:07 PM
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If you are leaving a bar, have a go-to What is a "go-to" ? Is it someone else as a "witness" ? always make sure the bartender sees her leaving with you. How does this matter? Plus this also assumes that the bartender will be "interested" in being a court witness. It could be a bad thing for the bar owner in terms of reputation leaving not under duress. Again, she could claim "I felt threatened but in order to keep him calm and not overreact, I had to fake my expressions" Don’t roughly abuse girl…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/24 06:06 PM
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I have heard about stories where guys make her sign forms Null and void as consent can be revoked at any time If you are rich and powerful, you are safe from all this nonsense. Laughs in #MeToo movement A rich man can protect himself in numerous ways, so again, it is irrelevant for him. Indeed. Need to look more on that and compile a resource sometime
/r/TheRedPill08/10/24 06:01 PM
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AWALT. If she sees a benefit by sacrificing you, she will.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 08:21 PM
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One of the understated ways is to throw money at the problem : Pay her to shut up. This usually happens here (in India) where a couple got into a relationship, then if the guy doesn't marry the girl, she files a case of rape / sex under pretense of marriage (yes, this is a legit thing) and unnatural sex (anal sex is unnatural lol). Thanks to prevalent corruption, the case ends into two states : You in the jail or settling through money This is injustice at its core, however neither the governmen…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 08:20 PM
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Can be reframed in court as "she consented under duress or a potential threat of you doing something bad to her if she said that she got violated / didn't like" For the law, 5 year old girls and 25 year old girls are the same. Helpless.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 08:15 PM
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There are things that can only be learnt by experience. For example, kissing I like this quote better “Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.” Otto von Bismarck
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 04:25 PM
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When exactly to use honesty? When you were seeing these girls, from the start, were you honest about the fact that you would spin plates? Also, I have never been able to make sense of why a woman will share a man when no resource provisioning is involved. Is it purely for emotions? Or is it some method to achieve some goals?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 04:22 PM
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I feel you're seeing women for something like on a pedestal. They're not supposed to be played with, manipulated, they're innocent etc. society fed us this, but its time to start treating women as normal beings... Yeah. Instead of putting them on pedestal, I have been seeing them something similar to kids : Whatever shit the kid does, you (the older one) are responsible for it. Thanks for your observations. It seems that I need to change my view and gather some data.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/24 01:12 PM
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it is a great answer. It seems that I am really uncomfortable in doing things without any meaning or justification to it. (Yes I am from India as well). One of the roadblocks I have with dating and stuff is something which I guess only an Indian or a SEA guy can understand : The tendency of society to view women as "someone's something" Like, imagine you dated a girl without any scope of commitment (or even became her bf but don't want to marry). Most likely, her father or brother or any male in…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/24 09:46 PM
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Good point. I think my ideal scenario in a short term relationship would be to have her solely for relaxation purposes. Something like, I work and do my stuff on weekdays and goof off on weekends. In a short term relationship (except eagerness of sex), what are some expectations that I can keep and traits I can vet in a chick?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 12:56 PM
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Interesting. I can understand the allure of this in short term relationships but I wonder how it works in long term relationships. Plus, you don't just "reap the rewards" with the girl because you will have to put effort in getting / maintaining a girl (even an alpha has to do this, albeit the workload will be lighter).
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 05:46 AM
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Yes. No intention to marry. I am not in USA but the laws are as bad as USA. I got my T checked on July. It was 600 ng/dl. Its supposed to be "average". I do have sex drive but have been generally more concerned about false cases (especially one chick was borderline about to do that as I mentioned it early) Good suggestion. Will work on that.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 08:38 PM
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The point of providing that verbose information was that if I am doing some shit or have some weird assumptions / thoughts, then you and others can point that out. I can only experience what I have seen or heard about. I didn't expect to be roasted for being a programmer lol. I won't be surprised if I am on the spectrum. As for doing things outside, no. I don't have outdoor hobbies (except walking. When my friends were in my state, I used to go out for 1 or 2 hours of walk few times a week). Of …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 07:24 PM
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At that time, I had the following reasoning in mind "she will get uglier anyway, might as well focus more on personality and emotional compatibility". Wrong assumption. Some threshold of attraction is necessary Don't you lose attraction in a long term relationship / marriage?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 07:20 PM
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That's how my second relationship started. She was not exactly physically attractive but oh my god, the emotional compatibility! We talked for a while, went on dates, had tons of silly as well as deep talk and got physically closer. Thanks to her being unattractive, the fascade of lust faded quickly. I did not even have penetrative sex with her because she looked that ugly naked. For the sake of foreplay, I tried to eat her out but her pussy smelt horrible. I felt that all of my lust just drowne…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 01:15 PM
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I think what stops me from pursuing women is a lack of vision. I will compare two facets of my life with the "vision" ideology of mine The first facet is career. I am an IT guy and genuinely enjoy programming. For the nascent vision that I had when I was a teen, the vision of a guy who codes and builds stuff, I went into an engineering college, got my computer science degree and a job. While I am at the job, I am learning new stuff and gaining experience. It has certainly made me get closer to t…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/24 10:32 PM
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TLDR: if you don't want to be a father, relationships is a net negative for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 05:24 PM
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To overcome your instincts, you need a reason. What reason do you think men and women today have to overcome their instincts?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 05:24 PM
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You can acknowledge that "losers" (people you perceive that way OR people who perceive themselves that way) are likely to exploit "winners," Could you explain what are "losers" and "winners" in this? Are "losers" the people I want to avoid and "winners" are the people I look upto? winners/losers dichotomy I am not sure if I have read this here (or anywhere before). Could you explain it a bit?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/24 09:31 PM
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Maybe your internal computer, which is far smarter than you, or this sub, is telling you something. This internal computer of ours is the most powerful yet the most susceptible piece of equipment (biases, experiences etc) Why don't you want to be a father? Why don’t you want to marry? I hate kids. I can't tolerate them. I consider them to be plain annoying. If I were to have kids, I will probably resent them because I will start considering them as an additional responsibility which I am forced …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/24 08:04 PM
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There are many different situations in life, and perhaps you think that the way you are living right now is normal. But there must certainly be a nagging feeling inside you that something is off. How do you differentiate between "something being off" and FOMO? For example, I have always felt about something off in dating and relationships I have been with because I have no intention to marry and be a father. It feels like "what am I even doing with her?" even when sex is good. On the other hand,…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/24 05:11 PM
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While I do get the point of this comment, I have a few questions True men don’t care about “working conditions” that’s literally the feminist propaganda that’s being peddled. Shouldn't they? Why should you as a man not care about your "working conditions" ? If you can get working conditions which are ideal to you (and others in general) why shouldn't you support it? you think your grand father while working in the coal mines to put food on his family’s table was saying “America is doomed! I can’…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 07:24 PM
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Moreover, you have women on the internet and mass media espousing the idea that men should "just be themselves" to get more women, but they don't realize that being themselves most likely won't get them more women because who they are presently isn't desirable to women. And, instead of seeking ways to develop ones self, they just conclude that the chicks who reject them aren't right for them because they didn't like them for who they are. The root cause of this is that the man assumes that he is…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/24 06:45 PM
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Women are not the problem. Women are only doing what men are allowing. ”I can still be a party girl/pornstar/whore and still find a guy”… that’s because men decide to marry the Riley’s and Mia’s of the world rather than doing what they should and cut them off from the rest of society. Imagine if every man stood on these convictions! Fucking based.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/24 06:42 PM
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Regular girls are perfect. They are exactly what you want. I like to find girls that are attractive, young, and with some kind of flaw. A young, cute, chubby girl should not be passed up. A girl with some weird teeth, should not be passed up. A girl with small boobs, should not be passed up. A girl with acne scars, should not be passed up. I say this with the qualifier of young and cute but to be honest young is usually good enough. Having a woman on your team that is grateful to be with a guy a…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/24 10:43 AM
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I know lol. What I assumed at the time of writing that repeated rejections by men (ofc in an ideal scenario) could change her heart" (that she isn't attractive as she thinks she is and should be grateful for her beta) but again, I assumed. Most likely, she will get pissed and try harder. Even fuck with the plumber and get her insides plumbed
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 05:08 PM
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There are 2 ways to think of this She would cheat anyway. She is responsible for her cheating, not the guy who seduced her. If she is going to cheat anyway, why not get your cock wet. You became the guy you despised. It takes two to tango and you were the second person. If you had rejected her, perhaps she could have a change of heart. At a personal level, you ,at worst destroyed a relationship and at best, encouraged cheating. The world is gray however, you decide which shade of grey will your …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/24 07:08 PM
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What are you really missing out? Girls when you aren't attractive enough to attract them? Your net loss is 0 bro because you never had anything. You can have girls 5 years later too.
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:55 PM
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Jokes are good at these situations. For example, the response to her "you can't cook so" could be "not that I am asking you to give me head 24/7 🤣"
/r/seduction02/05/24 02:16 PM
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I would be good for breeding Excuse me wtf ? That is.... way too unexpected lol
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:44 AM
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Attention
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:43 AM
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What exactly makes it difficult to pickup women in person these days? False accusations?
/r/seduction25/02/24 02:23 PM
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Newbie question : Who is HSP?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 06:44 PM
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I created a post called "From Average to Above Average.... Just Why?" on this sub and a few other subs. Received a lot of advice but the ultimate change for me was "Life is inherently meaningless and that is a good thing". I quote some of what I wrote in my journal below (I will create a post on TRP the day I actually turn my life around) Life has no inherent meaning. I am nothing more than a combination of a sperm and an egg. I am currently breathing because my parents did not use any kind of p…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 06:55 PM
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What kind of pleasure will I be achieving by going to the gym regularly? Plus the "pain" (of first developing the body and then maintaining it) would still exist right?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 03:40 PM
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What is a good relationship from RP standards? The examples which I can see on internet are blue pilled, basically a guy who has convinced himself that this is the best he could get. What does a man, with RP knowledge, seek from a relationship? What is it like?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 05:48 AM
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Neutral in a sense. For my mother, I am someone who can't do anything right by himself, basically I am clumsy on steroids. For my father, I am not exactly sure because my memories of moments with him have been mostly on eating together (he cooks chicken really well). My apathy in relationships stems from the type of marriage my parents have. They are in a traditional setup where mom is a stay at home mom and dad is the one who works and earns. I have seen my mom mostly engaged in housework and t…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 04:44 AM
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Thanks, I probably should get tested
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 06:16 PM
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Yes. I very well realise the value of purpose, having something to strive for. Any tips for finding purpose?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 06:15 PM
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With women, my stance is undecided. The "best use" of women is procreation : Marry and pop kids however I have no wish to be a father. Even if I am in a relationship, I am having a hard time understanding what will I get from the woman I am with except sex? The relationship will be work from my side because women are chaotic in nature, they are fickle minded. ​ If I (or any man) could have his sex desire transmuted / controlled, would he still seek women?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 05:32 PM
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What if you do the bare minimum and exclude women to keep your living more-or-less the same?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 04:54 PM
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While this certainly makes sense, how many older women do you think would be willing to be with a young man? What would her expectations be from this young man?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:47 PM
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A man here: it's a hypothetical example but a good food for thought: if all young women (let's say, women of age < 25) start dating older men (greater than 30), then how will the young guys get an idea of what they want from a relationship? Isn't the whole point of dating and having relationships young is to know yourself, to know your needs and then seek someone who can provide them what they need?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 11:03 AM
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As soon as he can hit the gym. Don't directly introduce the redpill, use it to make him curious about how the world functions: from the popular people in class to the girls he would date to how you (the father) enjoys a relationship with his mother. Red pill is just an overview of what you need to do / acquire to enjoy the real world.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 06:50 PM
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Was it the truth? Or a simple sounding answer so that she can stop asking about it?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/23 07:03 AM
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The simplest response could have been "watching too much breaking bad eh?" Ultimately, whenever you are in doubt, just be cocky and sarcastic. If she shows seriousness, then tell her the story like you did in initial response
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 11:07 AM
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Long distance is a trap. My fundamental rule of relationships is that if there is no physical intimacy, the girl has no worth to add in my life. Leave her and find someone else
/r/TheRedPill20/07/23 01:32 AM
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Then how do you develop your "tribe", the people who will help you when you need it? Is the answer to be "truly independent" ? Is that even humanely possible?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 11:02 AM
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I have updated the question. This is how I Currently look like. Should I continue cutting? https://ibb.co/JtSrhx4 https://ibb.co/zr8DxJm 3. Will test this out. 4. How exactly do I work on my balance? If I am falling backwards while doing a squat, for example, how can I rectify this? 5. Will incorporate this and see if the "tiredness" changes or not
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 11:10 AM
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I have updated the question. This is how I Currently look like. Should I continue cutting? https://ibb.co/JtSrhx4 https://ibb.co/zr8DxJm
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 10:58 AM
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I will track this. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 10:57 AM
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Because of apathy? I think that there is no apparent benefit for me to marry and raise a family. I don't have a hope from the future and I am Afraid of getting fucked by the law. Ultimately, I need to ensure that I am happy, with or without relationships and marriage.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 04:14 PM
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That's neat.
/r/seduction14/04/23 02:32 PM
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Is his advice dependent on which stage of career you are? My first reaction on reading the advice was "that's interesting however since I am just out of college, it's not yet applicable for me". So, apart from using chatgpt (a side note: be careful with it. It stores your data on its databases so don't provide company confidential code / info to it. It's better to fine tune it in your local system and run it), is there any advice for a fresher?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 02:27 PM
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Self esteem comes from a realisation of yourself. The more achievements you have, the more experiences you have, the better you will realise your own capabilities. Crack life. Learn whatever you can. With time and taste of success, you will be in a better position. And ofcourse, change the therapist if this one isn't helping you.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 05:22 PM
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How do you get your fulfillment while staying single? How do you control your sex drive?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/23 03:14 PM
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TLDR: being a slave of sex has the potential to ruin you. You can be happy without sex. The more you seek pussy, the more you lose yourself. Don't be Paul.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/23 04:21 PM
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So ultimately, to be happy as a man, you opt out of the traditional system. By sacrificing the need for marriage, children and romantic relationships, you can live peacefully (the MGTOW movement). What circumstances can men create so that the society values them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:39 PM
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If you raise a man like a woman, the man would one day be frustrated (or at least crave, to feel like a man even though he might be unaware of what it means to be a man). Similarly, if you raise a woman like a man, she would one day get frustrated and yearn to be treated like a woman. So societal expectations / practices are derived from observation of natural behaviour OR behaviour which benefits the whole (society) than the individual. A tall man is evolutionarily perceived as a better protect…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:51 PM
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Exactly what opportunities are the men in West being denied to thrive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:17 PM
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No woman can fuck me if I fuck myself ~ you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:22 PM
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You are right. If I prey on an insecure woman, that is what I get. Maybe getting cheated a few times has created something similar to "abandonment issues" and so I was thinking of preying on chicks who won't abandon me.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 11:51 AM
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Because I don't believe in the concept of love. Everything is ultimately a power game. A relationship is work and there needs to be mutual benefit for a relationship to sustain. If you have power, then the relationship is on your terms. What this method does is that it specifically finds the type of women which are "beneath" you in something. This can allow her to respect you (and thus love you). When you are better than your woman, she will be, in a sense, insecure about her position ("I think …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/23 04:56 PM
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How does it benefit in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:48 PM
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That's why, the advice for when your woman stops having sex with you is to focus on yourself. Go to gym again and make yourself attractive. Attention and commitment are the two weapons a man has against women. (Redpill handbook)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:44 PM
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Very well. Thank you for the answer. Certainly detailed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:00 PM
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Interesting answer. A follow up to this: by doing all this, what would this man (a young man or a man who has enough time to make something for himself) gets?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:37 PM
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It's one of the line of thoughts which make you question: even if you are in a traditional marriage, what benefit do you get except children and occasional sex? Even after having children, you can't spend time with them because you have to provide them financially. If you try to manage both (money and children), you eventually stop caring for yourself. So marriage, in terms of individuals, harms both. However as a society, it is beneficial because children are generated. Both men and women can b…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/23 04:51 PM
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What am I, as a man, supposed to do in this situation? What am I supposed to expect? Put in another way, if a man from 50 years ago travelled to the present, how would he have to adapt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:39 PM
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Being slim does not empower a woman? There is literally no advantage in being fat. Tattoos are not inherently evil. The reason men avoid tattooed women is because of correlation (which may be statistical or something seen by them in real life). The correlation of tattooed women and them being promiscuous/involved with drugs, gangsters etc is the cause of men avoiding tattooed women. Is the reverse true? I am not sure but if it were true, it would be for similar reasons. Tattoos are not inherentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:16 PM
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It's the equivalent to women wanting men to be fit, above a certain height and earning a certain amount of money. According to your logic, it interferes with a man's autonomy to be valued for what they truly are (especially height and looks because I am helpless in that) Every action has consequences. You have the freedom to do whatever you want but face the consequences. If any action of yours makes you unattractive (attraction is not logical, it's primal) in the eyes of others, you must face t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:08 PM
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The framework is beautiful and I can see that this has a great potential for LTR. You are getting a chick who 1. Is "less" than you in some factor (thus, she respects you) 2. Is high on virtue (to compensate for her deficiencies) 3. Emotionally dependent on you What steps would you recommend to manage this in LTR?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 04:41 PM
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As for "lying about yourself", lying about your height (and demonstrating it by wearing shoes which raise your height by a few inches) is the equivalent of her wearing a heel. By the time she knows you are short (than she saw at the date), both of you are naked 😂 For getting surgery, it depends on the risks involved and how valuable a pussy is to you.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 04:39 PM
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The problem is not "just fucking going for it", the problem is "if I do it , will I be able to handle the situation/consequences?". The people (like me) who are asking these types of questions are people who don't have faith in themselves, in their ability to deal with these problems. What they try to do, is to get a "rationalisation" for them to execute the move they want but are hesitant to do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 03:35 PM
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Watch Rick and Morty. It will teach you how to be cocky in a comedic way. Also, standup comedy (available on YouTube) also helps a lot. Your entire life has been spent in replying seriously so don't expect radical changes. Even if you are talking about something completely foreign to you, just act curious.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 04:38 PM
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I see. It seems like an interesting experiment to undertake. Thank you for the information.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:38 PM
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If you consider the scenarios where a man whose age is above 25 and he wants to get laid using the warm approach method, how successful would he be? If one were to talk to random men and women without any ulterior motives; simply talking for the sake of talking, then if they are someone you genuinely find interesting and wish to stay in contact with, how would you do it? If you ask for mobile details, wouldn't it be equivalent to a cold approach? Do the IOI develop only due to physical attractio…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:22 PM
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I think that the point of cold approaching is getting used to talk with women. Maybe to prevent this kind of scenario: "a girl is interested in you but you lack the balls to talk to her because you are afraid of a possible rejection" To a certain extent, cold approach is a good idea. It enforces the fact that 1. You are not special (yet) 2. A woman's rejection is not the end of the world 3. You are not closing off yourself to possible relationships / hookups just because you are afraid As for bu…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:54 PM
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I’m not trying to be combative, but if your goal is to be in a happy relationship then probably keep your body count low. If your goal is to sleep with as many women as possible then keep your body count to yourself 😅. This is good in theory and it makes sense : Don't fuck around and focus on your life. However, if others in the society are doing it and what I am getting in a relationship is someone who has a higher body count than mine, what am I supposed to do? One point of yours can be that "…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 11:51 AM
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Bonding in terms of oxytocin(and that's generally accepted science argument), if someone is bonding with everyone who are you really bonding with? or are you becoming desensitised and carrying trauma from every sexual encounter, where people become sexual things to satisfy their lust This poses a question : Is bonding initiated by the act of sex OR is it initiated by the "view" a woman has of the man? For example, if a woman is raped, she will not pair bond with her rapist. If the bonding proces…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 11:11 AM
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Not necessarily. There are two types of liquids Wetting Liquids : They "wet" the surface they touch. For example, water Non Wetting Liquids : They "don't wet" the surface they touch. For example, Mercury is a metal which is in a liquid form but it does not wet the surface it touches. When a liquid like mercury is spilled on a smooth surface, it tends to form the droplets. The cohesive molecular forces between the molecules of mercury are more than the adhesive forces between the molecules of mer…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 11:06 AM
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Red pill (and to a lot of extent, religion) is a "salad plate": you take what you want and reject what you don't need. I understand your viewpoints and maybe the youtuber called "Hamza" might be helpful to you. He is someone who uses RP principles (geared towards self improvement) to attain LTR's. Recommendation: Format long text into paragraphs for better reading. All the best in your journey.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 10:38 PM
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Alright. Thank you for the detailed analysis.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:29 PM
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Question : What are the benefits of being a content creator? With 2K followers (let's assume 10K), how much impact and revenue can I have?Isn't the creator economy too saturated? Plus maintaining it with a job (assuming that being a self reliant content creator is a tough thing) would be a hassle without any substantial rewards (imagine working in a tech job and posting reels about a side hobby) I am thinking of using instagram as follows A subtle way of staying connected with strangers and "vet…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 07:34 AM
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You addressed almost everything I could say about not being on Instagram.... Thank you, I finally got a few reasons to use this now. Especially as a conversation starter, something which I have often trouble with. I am in my 20's and nearly all the people I know are on Instagram. Would it be weird if that I create an insta account now and when I share it with someone, they ask me "your account is so new" and other stuff?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 02:23 AM
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Thank you for your clarifications. Regarding squats, if too many squats (like in stronglifts where I will be squatting almost every without) can result in immense fatigue and a big ass (not an attractive trait in a guy), what can I replace it with? Isn't leg strength a good trait to have? (Especially for sexual activities)
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 06:47 PM
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Alright. I shall take my time. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 06:21 PM
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An unrelated question : What is the minimum karma required to make a post on this sub? I tried making one when I had less karma (around 150 I guess).
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 04:29 PM
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You are committing the cardinal sin of red pill logic here that is encouraged by the equality movement - that men and women are the same, we are not. My major concern is not equality but of hypocrisy : That I would be a hypocrite for seeking a girl with low body count when I have a high body count myself. Don't use prostitutes unless you must. It is important to learn the skills to seduce, lead and sexually gratify women as these are important skill sets if you desire either regular sexual partn…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 04:26 PM
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I certainly don't know a lot of guys who were hardcore players in their younger years who now have stable loving marriages. What do you define a "hardcore" player as? Like what's the bodycount (or other parameters) by which you consider someone a player? If your goal is marriage, why not gain experience together with your partner? If your frame is strong enough it won't matter that you don't know what the fuck you're doing. In my case, I am in progress of "consuming the redpill" (trimming myself…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 04:23 PM
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If I expect a low body count wife, I need to have a low body count too Who said? Resist the slave mind. Men and women are different. Have different standards for their partners Assume a hypothetical scenario : I am interested in a girl (LTR). Our body counts are vastly different (assume mine is in two digits and hers is in single digits). Maybe out of jealousy or her being a bitch, she points out this fact and tries to put me down "So you are just a playboy who fucks around huh". How should I de…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 04:19 PM
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Would this be true for a guy? Like as a guy, should I then indulge in casual sex or have sex in relationships (before marriage)? A woman has a high body count because other men fucked her and thus, it is indirectly our responsibility as men. If I expect a low body count wife, I need to have a low body count too but if I, the guy who performs an active part in sex, has less experience, would the sex session be pleasurable? Wouldn't I be confused or anxious because of a lack of experience? Or shou…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 02:32 PM
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Question: what's the alternative to this? Like they are mentioning their age which can be used to provide context. Advice for a 30 year old is not the same as 19 year old. Or do you simply suggest that personal questions should not be asked and this sub should be used for posts which analyse men,women and their respective psychology / actions etc.?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 06:49 PM
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Yeah. It's surprising. A guy has no problem with a younger girl (in fact it's often preferred I guess) but women with younger guys is often weird (my hypothesis is that women have a tendency for older guys)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:22 PM
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I posted a comment with the roadmap here
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:20 PM
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You are 2 years younger than her so probably in her mind, she thinks of you as a kid. She might be busy but there is a probability that she just sees you as a friend (an entertainment). If your relationship with her is of mutual benefit (you are getting as much as you are investing), then feel free to continue the friendship with her but in relationships, attraction matters and 90% of time, if you are attracted to someone, you don't keep them on hold for long (she prioritised replying to main ch…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 03:56 PM
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