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| 14 | Signs that's she not into youThe things we know but need to be reminded of...thanks man. I had a co-worker who pulled that hot cold shit on me...even though she's the hottest chick there I just said fuck this shit. I just say hi every once in a while but if I try to conversate with her it goes nowhere really quick.🤷🏻♂️ Was probably a bad idea to try and hook up with a co-worker anyways. Good thing I go to school and realize how many hundreds of other girls are out there.🚣♂️🎏🎏🎏🎏 | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Communication foundations and overcoming fear of rejectionIs this off the counter?Where do I find it? | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Communication foundations and overcoming fear of rejectionGood advice.. unfortunately I'm the type that has that crippling anxiety (sweaty palms when around women I'm attracted to that just worsens the anxiety as I'm trying to make my best first impression) probably the worst of it, but also that I seem to not be able to focus on the important thing which is to not worry about a thing. Also that I'm usually fine unless it's exactly me trying to put myself out there. Iv'e recently thought about how aware I am at all my faults and straight simple things … | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | JMULV claimed he slept with 18 girls in 3 days. In America. What % chance would you give this of being true?I can't even eat at 18 different burger joints in 3 days.Even if the have money for it, and I really like burgers. | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks man.I get what you mean. On that note, I feel I joke to much (naturally) and everywheren lol.Is that bad for Attraction?I don't wanna be 'that funny guy from class'.Maybe I should tone It down and let her talk more? When I was talking she paid attention ,but as soon as I stopped she didn't say much and was texting someone on her phone. I was trying to see if she had something she wanted to talk about or keep my interest in her. That was the last 20 min of class and she put her headphones … | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Date and a kiss.And then you woke up? Lol jk dood..well done | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What about if you have a classmate...about how many classes after should you try and hang out if you have her laughing and she giving you high fives?And how many is too late? | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Half of the game is just showing upWell shit...yea I guess that a good sign lol. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Half of the game is just showing upRight on man👌. Gotta ask were there any initial iois when first meeting or even before talking to this girl? | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What are the tips that helped you the most?I'm realizing the girls I kinda decided I won't fuck(like married coworkers) I flirt with the best and most naturally. And often I impress myself when I get them to blush or give me I flirty look. But to be completely honest when Im caught of guard and see a girl I'm really attracted to, it's hard for me to make the right mental shift to go approach... happened to me the other day walking out a Walmart and an attractive younger girl came out from between cars..(I got stuck checking her out and i… | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?I should mention I'm 31, have people mad about how "skinny" I am, go to school and work, am focused on me, but no girls really show me that this is enough to be considered for dating...I did better when I was partying as a younger stupid crazy me as far as girls. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?Have not read this book but I do read plenty of stuff about this subject and am more confused that I can understand about the whole topic of "needy". On one hand there is lots of advice that you should not focus on women because that is needy...but at the core of anything about hooking up with women You "need" to approach women and show her your interest if you wanna be masculine and show you are confident enough. If I approach a girl in a club and get shot down...then approach another, is that … | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 10:12 PM |
| -1 | bouta approach this library employeeDid this recently with a clerk at the college..got her to laugh but I didn't feel she was reciprocating interest..I asked about if she goes to school at my college and if that how she landed her job there...she just said "no just pays good" without going into depth on anything..I smiled said thanks and bye bye. Just didn't get any real signs of interest/attraction from her. I should try harder but I'm stuck between that and plenty fish in the sea. Thinking the latter more as I'm approaching and … | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you get rejected by a girl you see on a everyday basis?I asked a co-worker who is much younger than me that we should hang out and I said I'd like to go "hiking or something".Terrible timing as people are always talking to her, terrible everything really, she responded with" I'm kinda seeing someone but we can go out just as friends". I said "of course" she was going to Mexico for a week, so I said I'd talk to her when shes back, walked away didn't even ask for her number🤦🏻♂️ So time goes by and my life got busy and there was lots of heavy family d… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Interesting post...I gotta say the 'approach anxiety' is more like nervousness...but I have been through that and see how it transforms into a 'go' signal as you mentioned... I'm starting all over again after a long relationship but I'm getting back at it and im remembering that after a while it turns from that nervousness to a shot of adrenaline of some sort and in my mind I'm saying something like "her" and I just go. 🤔I suppose I should start saying "now or never your in control" in my head a… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:32 AM |
| 2 | I'm a complete beginner and I approached 7 women tonight; got rejected by all 7. No, it doesn't make me feel better at all. I want to be castrated so I can finally stop thinking about women. I hate them so much.Hope you feel different man ...I see where your coming from.rejection hurts,it's embarrassing,palms get sweaty,you feel akward. I'll tell you right now that your not alone, even though I speak with girls at work and when I'm out I still got a long road ahead of me and I still get nervous, I still get akward,I'm 31 ,but I know where I wanna go and I am more afraid of regret than anything. Iv'e felt some disgust over girls too but I think to myself that those were certain girls and 'types' of indi… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuckThis is quite a dilly of a dally isn't it..to give a fuck.... or to not give a fuck, that is the question. I'll say this...the not giving a fuck thing has to be selective...I walk into stores and there's a good looking women and say " wow she's cute,hot, beautiful etc...But I dont give a fuck. Maybe she notices that and thinks it's hot that I don't give a fuck...but if I really dgaf ,and don't approach her...then I never really get a chance to meet her....but if I go an show interest is it not "… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractive😃 fucking guy..I make beats.so much knowledge there. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveWhat a fuckin climb..I'm in LA hmu..but I'm an inspiring welder/ beatmaker lol how do..i mean🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:45 PM |
| 3 | confused about a girlThat tommy set you up for an automatic no..maybe not a good wingman. Find another girl that might be interested and show her a "little bit of interest" if a girl is hanging out with you in front of other girls the other girls will be more than willing to feel good about taking your time away from "the other girl". If tommy pulls the same line. Then you know what's up. Girl #1 will definitely notice her lack of attention and step it up. In front of tommy be confident as fuck and say"maybe your ri… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveVery nice advice!Not to be that one guy but...you are an international student...that sets you apart right off the bat.You definitely put in the work tho.Im just saying that height is probably not at all a factor because you are a very interesting person just based off the fact that your a traveling and studying man. But you seem to have applied yourself and set yourself apart as your own path that was decided. I'm going to take this as a great lesson that I have the opportunity to join clubs or… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.Hell yea...not sure if it's considered daygame🤔 I have to quickly drop some advice if you wanna put your game to the test.... Unfortunately for me I bit off more than I could chew and couldn't close or see what I got myself in🤦🏻♂️ But in jury duty I sat next to a hot girl I spotted when I walked in...put my shit to the test. Half an hour later saying something like I said"are you a model or something" arm up on the couch/chairs She showed me pics of her in a bikin on vacation with her bf,to whi… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Wrote for nice guys as basic things not to do in r/nice guysI'm gonna have to chime in here and say I think I have nice guy traits, been raised to become one as being morally correct yadads, and done alot of reading on game,seduction. Honestly I don't discredit most things as they make sense..but the application of it and fighting every inch of your body's discomfort from trying to flip everything you have done into another way if fucking hard. Let alone trying to control yourself and remeber chapters of things that you should do a certain way..it's so e… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Read the body language before going in for the first kissGreat stuff... Looking is everything..deep in here eyes then back to her lips a few times ..think in your mind "I'm gonna kiss you" and smile...if she's doing the same back then she's %100 game. You can do this a few times during the date without the intent of doing it. A girl will get close enough when she wants a kiss..and yea often they will make it easy and do it for you but you had to get her to want that kiss that bad in the first place. Also during the date when you talk to her get close … | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Whats a good first date idea?You just said it's wasn't one place. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Whats a good first date idea?Many places...don't do to one place ever | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually improve your personality?Dan Carnegie's : How to win friends and influence people...it's on YouTube..sorta boring but all sounds very effective and true.Main point being to make people do the talking and you do the listening | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | I did it!Takes guts man.. hopefully she hyu!👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Just failed my first cold approach and I feel greatDon't listen to Webby..people talking too loud can make people uncomfortable..your a guy and if you wanna approach a girl there's nothing wrong with that...I approached two girls who are classmates just to chat a bit ..no different.As long as your not trying to pull some over sexual stuff this is not an issue. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 06:37 PM |
| 13 | I finally know seduction isn't bullInspiring to read I'm glad you are going through this change. I have my ups and downs with self belief and it feels amazing when you work up the courage to go out and talk to new people or flirt with girls even though the fear is gut wrenching sometime. Still gotta work on being more social with everyone and getting out more. Thanks for this post man. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Extremely harsh rejectionThe struggle is real....I talked to a girl at Starbucks...maybe it was weird because she moved to sit on those single couches...so I did a few minutes later next to her, because my ass was hurting from those stools. Anyways, I asked her where I remember her face from.,and if she worked nearby....the look on her face was like if I was talking another language...and the thing was she was super chill and she really did work near where I work, and I don't consider myself too bad looking. But she loo… | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 02:32 AM |
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