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| 13 | Love and belonging comes before self esteem | Latter-Impression-26 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 10:06 PM |
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| 1 | The importance of teen love is underrated.Teen love in the Instagram era is how zoomers become blackpilled lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:24 PM |
| – | A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIMEYou know what else I see constantly on this sub? Women talking about killing all men and disavowing from ever touching a man again. Doesnt mean I use it as representative of the bluepill or all women on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:12 PM |
| – | A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIMEI would love for you to find me a single example of a popular redpiller talking head talking about how men are entitled to sex. I will wait. This is a non sequitur argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:11 PM |
| 6 | It's fine for women to be jealous or insecure in a relationship, but when men are it's a "red flag"Women will say this shit to your face and then 3 months later get angry at you for not being jealous over something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Yes, hypothetically, if you were a man. You can do thought experiments, right? We can do this, together. Imagine you are a dopey looking average fairly invisible 5'9 guy with a small-medium sized friend group of like 5-10 people, some girls but they all have boyfriends and arent really options, you have never been approached, dont get out much. You go to college but most of your classes are online since covid, you dont see many people at your work. You kindof feel nervous when you go to bars alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Also you literally did not even respond to my actual point lol. Did you have someone in your life who would have been able to help you with the contemporary dating market today if you were an average dopey looking guy? Right... So do you have a response to the actual point I made so we can get back on track to the actual point of this thread? Because this is just a strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for."Bu but broo... If you dont take care of your skin dotn shower eat a bunch of fast food you will get all fat and gross and look like shit ahahah gotcha!!!! Men dont age well I told you!!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Maybe you, but I have plenty of zoomer female friends that tell me their favorite thing about going to the club is rejecting like a hundred dudes while dancing because it makes them feel like a supermodel. Ive had friends tell me that pretty much verbatim. 40% of college students are virgins, dont need your anecdotes here. College students are not out partying, when they are, they are going to clubs. Also you literally did not even respond to my actual point lol. Did you have someone in your lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:59 PM |
| – | Are There Canonical Blue Pill Books?This is literally why I mentioned cold approaching god. What other stats do you want to use????? I hate it when people say this dude because this is the LARGEST DATING STAT THAT WE HAVE LOL. Ok so you can say that its not representative of the population (even though thats the largest statistic of how people meet) ill humor you and I already did in my previous comment. When cold approaching, that threshold still exists. The only place it doesnt exist are in warm approaches and the reality is tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | The dating sceneBecause: almost no one is under average, and almost no one is above average due to the logarithmic nature of straying away from the average. But yeah 70% of people consider themselves above average so most people say and think theyre a 6 or a 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?O.. Ok? Your dad teleported into the future and never had his 20s? Listen my point is did you have a figure in your life that was able to understand the contemporary dating market i.e dating apps, clubbing, etc? Because young men dont. Young girls dont go to bars anymore and when they do they arent doing it to be approached, for the most part when zoomers go out they are out clubbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Are There Canonical Blue Pill Books?Ok, so yes. Of course there will be statistic outliers of women who have low standards, fetishes, niche types, and whatnot, but more and more data is coming out showing that the level of attention you receive as a man is not linear as you get more attractive, it is exponential. As a dude, you either receive no matches, or you receive dozens. You either get 90% of women you approach interested in you, or you get like 5%. There is VERY LITTLE gradient at all due to the exponential nature of it and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:44 PM |
| – | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?yes this is why you lift for aesthetics. to enlargen your delts. Again youre probably ogremaxxed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:35 PM |
| – | Are There Canonical Blue Pill Books?Please, elaborate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:33 PM |
| – | Are There Canonical Blue Pill Books?I always see this argument and it is a complete cop out "durrrr no duh girls like tall goodlooking men??" but yeah this isnt the red/blackpill. The idea is that unless you are beyond this threshold of attractiveness (top 20-10%), girls WILL NOT find you physically attractive. That isnt common sense rather its a large elephant in the room thats existed for the past 70 years and IMO is the main cause for the high divorce rates. Sure its touched on in comedy and therapy and its a bit of a taboo sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you marry a woman making significantly more than you?yes please as long as shes actually attracted to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting men40% of college students are virgins dont be delusional. And no, its not just my brain chemistry lol, it is literally in your hormonal chemistry. This is how hormones work my guy. Average men are 100% invisible, what is this cope. They are average, that is what makes them invisible. Below average men are literally more visible lol. Are you a coping woman or a coping incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Your dad clubbed? Told you advice on how to pick up girls at the club huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Are There Canonical Blue Pill Books?To be blue pilled is to completely reject the pessimistic/vain theories of life and the dating market. If you dont have this philosophy hashed out I literally dont understand why youre on a debating subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Are There Canonical Blue Pill Books?The bible or probably some daoist philosophers book | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is.Water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:27 AM |
| 4 | The dating sceneIm talking about genetic bone structure mainly. Theres going to be alot of ugly people because theyre old or got injured or have a disability or something but I am not really referring to that. But yeah probably to an extent you are right. The thing is you can get infinitely attractive while you cant get infinitely ugly you can just be a 0 and thats where it ends so that also skews the graph towards attractive a bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:25 AM |
| 2 | I truly believe that if sexwork was decriminalized, and normalized, a lot of people would be happierIt is legal in Nevada... I guess only time will tell. I don't think sex is the issue. Men have porn and women have boy toys. Its a partner that people lack which leads to so many people becoming lonely and depressed, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:17 AM |
| 9 | Is there any point of asking questions to women in this community?I am not a sexist person, not an incel, I have many female friends IRL and online, and I mean this with all due respect: but I have not seen a single woman on this subreddit who debates in good faith and isnt a complete coper with no argument. You have to assume that the types of woman who stumble across the manosphere are going to be insufferable individuals though I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:14 AM |
| 6 | The dating sceneWell because below average and above average people are very rare. A large majority of people are in the 4-6 average range, you have to realize the scale is a bell curve, not linear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menThis is how bell curves work.... You take an average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess I misunderstood what you meant by you cant fake attraction, being that the context you were using it in is "what are average men gonna do?" it would seem that you would be insinuating that men cant take steps to make themselves more attractive to women which is kind of blackpilled. And I dont know, what groups are you referring to then when you say "men complain about 80/20"?? Its literally a bluepill vs redpill subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:34 PM |
| -2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadgod this is such a TIRED WATERED DOWN ASS ARGUMENT how many times you guys gonna make this argument. Once again, for the millionth bagillionth time: no one is complaining...... Popular redpillers preach QUITE THE OPPOSITE OF THAT. It lays out a reality for young men to temper their expectations and to understand what is expected of them in the modern dating market. You taking 16 yr olds who make bitter little snickering remarks about female hypergamy and using it as a representative is the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:29 PM |
| 5 | What did your crush do that completely ruined your infatuation for them? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADthis is completely unrelated to this subreddit but when I was like 10 I had this HUGE crush on a girl for a year and one day I saw her blow this absolutely massive snot bubble right on to her shoulder and I instantly lost my crush and never liked her again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting men.. uh ok.... You realize this is a debating subreddit.... right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:58 PM |
| 8 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menI don't need solutions? I'm fine, I am just speaking from former experience. Love does not come to average men. When you have been being approached your whole life it becomes very easy to project that experience on to other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:56 PM |
| 11 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menDude, speaking from experience, when I was a virgin, it is ALL I could think about. I had other things going on, sports, a good job, college, family, but it didnt matter, ALL I could think about was finding a partner. It was just a constant weight looming over my head you cant just "get rid" of it its like telling a depressed person to not be depressed. It affects your passions your life your mental health like it seriously fucks with your brain. You fail to realize that this is literally just b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:50 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYou simply don't understand. Maybe if you ever have a boy some day you will see. It's not about being ready to fuck something, its about validation and being wanted, unless you've been a 20 year old virgin dude with not much of a social life, you literally cant understand lol. Its literally all you can think about, its like telling a depressed person not to be depressed, if you like that analogy better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menNo I didn't claim distortion of facts, however you are making the assumption that the reason for ALL mens impotence is their sanity and stating it as a matter of fact, which is gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:29 PM |
| 3 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menQuestioning their sanity can range from telling them they are experiencing hallucinations on a day to day basis to telling them they wore a different pair of socks then they claim they did yesterday. It is still gaslighting. It is manipulation because you are deliberately telling men they need to do something (that thing being to question their sanity) in order to achieve their goal (finding a partner) and this is literally by definition gaslighting lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:06 PM |
| 3 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYour statement. You are manipulating (men) using psychological methods (hypothetical reward of getting a girlfriend) into questioning their own sanity (something seriously wrong with them preventing them from doing this thing) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf they weren't, almost nobody would be working 40+ hours in a low-wage job to afford the kind of lifestyle you say you're living. Um... Have you looks at the labor rates among young men? Also what kind of lifestyle did I say I was living?? I literally said men are able to live frugally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd that friend that lent them money were they men or women. Some guys are bums, I'm talking about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:23 PM |
| 3 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menlots of friends and alcohol. Like it is just hard lol theres no trick, youre going to be nervous and youll probably get rejected a few times. Just be really drunk and take it on the chin and just do it dont even expect anything out of it just do it for the fun of going and talking to random girls and getting social experience. The only trick for me was bursting out of my bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn 2023? Yes, there is literally not a single zoomer woman who cannot go online and start a tinder or a pof and find a sugar daddy. This is reality dude. Couchsurfing is easier then ever but dont act like it didnt exist before online dating. Please cut me the sophism because it is pretty common sense that when it comes to financial support men are much more likely to rely on themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk, but the point is that there are plenty of ways to get neetbucks and men can live significantly more frugal then most women. Like others have said in this thread they work 10 hours as a security guard each week to support themselves. I dont even see what your point is you just sound like you are coping and raging at mgtow for existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:17 PM |
| 3 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menlow inhib and cold approaches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menEveryone in real life tells people they are a 7 lol. Dont trust random people you have to get rated by wheat waffles or Nero or put your face on a looksmaxxing forum theyll humble you pretty hard. If people IRL are rating you 7/10 then i have bad news for you. If you were actually chadlite you would receive significantly different responses that mention your good looks and would seem more surprised by your situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menit is probably just a joke username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:07 PM |
| 2 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYou do realize this is by definition gaslighting right? "manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:05 PM |
| 18 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menDude, speaking from experience, when I was a virgin, it is ALL I could think about. I had other things going on, sports, a good job, college, family, but it didnt matter, ALL I could think about was finding a partner. It was just a constant weight looming over my head you cant just "get rid" of it its like telling a depressed person to not be depressed. It affects your passions your life your mental health like it seriously fucks with your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:04 PM |
| 2 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYeah I have pointed this out a lot I am glad it is being brought up. This is literally PURE gaslighting argument. Convincing men that they are mentally unstable and that's what is causing their issues when that may or may not be the case is literally the definition of gaslighting lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Low inhibition is the most important trait a man can have.Yeah for sure I am not trying to discourage the behavior because its obviously better to put yourself out there rather than to be shy. I just feel bad I guess because I know multiple guys who are really cool and smart and down to earth (more so than most people) but people can just tell by their voice and mannerisms that they are autistic and treat them differently based off it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Yes. But thats the ironic part. people will say looksmaxxing doesnt work without even doing the basic shit and they end up looking like a zombie. If you think skincare, orthodontics, losing bodyfat has no affect than you are probably just some doomer incel. Yes chads were born with decent bone structure but also 50% of the reason they grew up from a pretty handsome kid into a chad rather then a fat ogremaxxed jock is BECAUSE they focused on these things. Eating right, proper grooming, skincare, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm working 10 hours a month and making nearly 400 a day. Cope lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey absolutely do. Generally speaking, if a woman needs 1000 dollars within 3 days, she is going to rely on others. If a man does, hes generally going to rely on himself. When you have had to make rent in a jiffy multiple times, 1000 becomes not very much money to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhas nothing to do with your ability to support yourself. The point is that if you lost your job you likely would have to run to support where the average man never had this level of support and learned to lean on themselves in situations like that. Being a woman you simply cant understand that lol. Being a homeless woman is literally a choice. Notice I mentioned supporting yourself IN BETWEEN JOBS and you conveniently completely ignored that bit of the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Low inhibition is the most important trait a man can have.if you are completely NT sure. If you have any sort of mental issues whatsoever then it isnt good. Also people with aspie speech impediments with low inhibition come off as cringe and tryhard and abrasive to most people. Ive always liked those types of guys which is why I've seen first hand the social rejection they receive. There is always an underlying condescension that people feel towards them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddude charges like 25 bucks to rate other guys faces and give them looksmaxxing advice theres a whole community of people who charge to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?Well, this is an inherently loaded question. You have to look at those communities at a case to case basis. The fitness community has a MASSIVE overlap with the redpill/manosphere, and in a lot of the cases if you want legitimate information you have to go towards those communities rather then the mainstream c list actor certified "2000 pushups in the morning 2000 situps at night 20 raw eggs just buy this dvd for 49 99" snake oil type of fitness advice because in reality that is what the mainstr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?There is nothing he could have done lol. Manosphere is not a supplement for the lack of a father figure its a solution for an extremely competitive dating market that didnt exist when our fathers were our age. Not even just online dating but clubbing was niche in the 90s, now most zoomer girls go to clubs. Average dudes are completely invisible in environments like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadgo on craigslist real quick and you will find 9 pages of gigs paying 300-500 for a weekend of work. It's funny because you seem to not have much experience in life supporting yourself in between jobs and are projecting your own reliance off of parents and inability to be independent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt really isnt. You are just a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadno its just cheap. Cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI work like 40 hours a month and support myself perfectly fine I think I will be alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou would be just so interested in the blackpill then. Ever heard of wheat waffles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women."short and kindof ugly" 5'11 and 6/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.no you just overrate yourself. There is nothing wrong with this most people overrate their own SMV including men but men have to be humbled by reality while women are blinded and validated by a flood of non serious and desperate options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?youre probably high bf and dont exfoliate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:16 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?No, 1 point is actually very significant. You have to look at as a bell curve. Most people are going to look around average, as you get further and further away from average attractiveness you are in a logarithmically smaller percentile, not linearly. Going from a 7 to an 8 can take you from a semi decent dating life to being openly approached by women anywhere you go. Furthermore say you start as a 4 women are not going to consider you attractive whatsoever, you are exponentially uglier then th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:12 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Because men like to complain without having to put in any effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?keep not showering every day and rotting and not brushing your teeth dude. If you seriously think this you are an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Women are happiest single, therefore their dating issues are irrelevantstatistics prove this to not be the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to lookmax?Low BF + skincare + dental care + orthodontist/bimax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?40% of college men are virgins. Stop being delusional. "crisis" is a gaslighting term. Noone is calling it that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Cuddling is more intimate than sex?because most men are deprived from touch lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Cuddling is more intimate than sex?dang. Apparently I cant even want a bit of a cuddle without being considered creepy :/ being ugly truly sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:51 AM |
| 4 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)are your friends 13 year olds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Female smv question?Weight is subjective until they are unreasonably fat so IMO take that out of the picture. Tattoos are subjective too. Even ugly faces dont really matter like butterface women exist not butterface men. I'd say noticeable blemishes all over body that maybe denotes a drug addicted past, crooked/yellow teeth, dirty matted hair. high T faces and boyish bodies are some of the most unattractive features a girl can have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do men really get better with age?Into their mid/late 20s yes. Around the time young women start hitting their wall is around the same time men peak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 12 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysThere is a reason that 70% of romance movies are about a woman being swooped away from a dull average husband lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemOf course it is. That was my point. If you were never given a proper homelife or were taught social skills in the first place and resort to the internet it just makes it significantly worse as you grow older and into your early 20s. Also the whole point of this post was to make the claim that love and belonging comes before esteem. Yes, you can build esteem at work, but you aren't going to truly care or start building anything until you have a sense of family and intimacy in your life. Otherwise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemAgain, as I said in the post, it is indeed their fault for not developing those relationships and their families fault for not teaching them those skills. That doesn't detract from that a large percentage of gen z are in this position though, and it is undoubtebly a shitty situation for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemAlso, lets be clear here: you are assuming that you just need to meet one of the criteria to fulfill one category of needs, but that is not the theory. You need to meet ALL the criteria, including intimacy, according to Maslow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemYes but this is just super hard to say when you are talking about families in the past 20-30 years. High divorce rates, living through the recession, and anti-socialization through the internet, It makes sense that so many individuals seem to have a lack of intimacy and sense of connection in their lives. Also lets be clear, the things listed in each category arent one or the other. You need to meet all of those criteria to fulfill that level of needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemWell, to be fair, we literally cant even comprehend the level of hate and terrible comments that anyone with any level of fame receives. Of course that is going to have a major impact on their self esteem. I forget the phenomenons name specifically but it is a concept that a negative comment will stick out over thousands of positive ones. That absolutely is what prevents most celebrities from reaching self actualization, and alot of pro athletes and celebrities are deeply consumed scrolling thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemFair assessment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Love and belonging comes before self esteemSure, but hypothetically if someone doesnt have these things (toxic family, antisocial in school), then getting love becomes a catch 22. You need self esteem to get love but you need love to get self esteem. Sure that might be their fault for not developing relationships, to be fair. But that doesnt mean its not a pretty shitty position to be in where they are stuck in a loop and cant even reach the 3rd step of actualization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessBoth female and male supermodels are attempting to appeal to women. The female supermodels arent trying to appeal to men, its trying to tell women "hey use this product and you will look like this" and than show that girl with a hot male model and insinuate "maybe if you use this product you will get that chad" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessbitter and lonely men being upwards of 40% of 18-24 yr olds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessTheyre settling in a different ay. Women settle for someone who isnt chad while men settle for someone who isnt going to show them genuine affection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenesstheyre cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:29 PM |
| 3 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessaverage men are not considered attractive by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsunless they are attractive and the fix is a mental thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:19 PM |
| -1 | What if dating gets easier for short men?this dudes 100% a manlet. That just explained alot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Is the “friend zone” real? Why are men and women so divided about the concept?My god these replies are ridiculously vain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell we are talking about dating apps in particular, there are plenty of experiments that prove this to be completely the case. When it comes to robberies: https://nypost.com/2022/10/02/tinder-date-turns-into-3k-armed-robbery-carried-out-by-criminal-couple/Heres one, I mean it takes one google search and dozens show up. Do you want more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey're not suitable because they're unattractive* not because of their habits, job, anything else. It is purely based off their looks. Just want to clear that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Because while sure, some young 20 year olds with tattoos might truly be symbolic artistic people, the majority of time it signifies a lack of responsibility and care in a person when they have a shit ton of stupid tattoos all over themselves that mean nothing when they are young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCatfish men. Then rob them. Not that difficult to put together. Super common. It is unsettling to women because they don't want to believe that the percentage of men they are attracted to is so low and rare. Really no need for this cyclical argument, you know that few men get many matches, the rest none at all. Has nothing to do with the ratio of men to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain just like when this argument was made last week these are both technically the same issue being that women keep seeming to match up with the same abusive men. Also its very common for women to catfish men into robberies over dating apps. And noone is calling it a social crisis, communities of men are just reaching out to each other to feel comfortable and feel like theyre not buttfuck ugly/worthless and this is 80% of mens experience. Women just seem to have a vile reaction when its pointe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Sadly, objectifiying women is the only thing that works(at the start).Dude, if you are a "former manwhore" unless you are some super attractive dude who doesnt get turned down by anyone, you KNOW that theres a level of objectification that goes on. When you have to play the numbers game and approach 5/6/7 girls, you start to use the same lines and the same puns and shit and you really do kindof look at them as a challenge to complete. Sure once you get them to engage in conversation with you of course you see them as people, but maybe its just me when I approach s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Tips to avoid a sexless relationship/marriageVirgin alert | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Tips to avoid a sexless relationship/marriageman i cant understand a single sentence of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - what happens to TRP when you get a girlfriend?Purge week had a large vocal group of blackpillers not redpillers. Youre conflating the two groups but in reality these are two ENTIRELY different demographics of people. Blackpillers are generally virgins who have had little to no interaction with women intimately in their entire lives. It will take one remotely attractive girl showing any level of interest in them to completely shift their ideology and bluepill them. Redpillers are generally dudes who got their heart broken by someone in the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Tips to avoid a sexless relationship/marriageFocus on what your partner finds sexy and pleasurable rather than what you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Tips to avoid a sexless relationship/marriagehow old are you..? Genuinely curious. No offence but you seem like a virgin. You are completely misinterpreting what 80/20 means. 80/20 is about actual rejection, the amount of men they are actually giving chances to. It has nothing to do with sex. If you are good in bed or have a big dick it doesn't matter at that point. The best sex is with partners you've been in relationships with for a decent amount of time and you both know what eachother like and are comfortable with and you can be yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:07 AM |
| 5 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Ugly man = average man with proper hygeine and possibly even a decent body Ugly women = extremely unattractive individuals/woman with extremely poor health and hygeine. There literally arent enough ugly women for the average guys lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:56 AM |
| 7 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?When they are average looking dudes who live alone in their own apartment, dress nicely, make legitimate legal income (arent drug dealers), have no tattoos, go to the gym, have hobbies, working on a career while taking care of mental health, and have proper hygeine. Literally GAURUNTEED they have a lonely rough dating life and probably have been cheated on. Seriously. Like I don't know a single dude who gets a lot of girls who isn't a complete bum ass handsome loser. Especially 18-22 age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?that would be a percentage of the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:41 AM |
| 2 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?No you aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:40 AM |
| 2 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Jesus you seem like an insufferable individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:35 AM |
| 3 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?No its not being ugly is extremely objective. I love how you probably tried all of this and it failed and resorted to escorts is what I am getting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:33 AM |
| 5 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Ok? It is easy to say that when you aren't stuck in a negative feedback loop. It is like telling a homeless person to not be homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Thanks for the first r/purplepilldebate meetup guys. Was fun meeting all of you. Can't wait till next time!This post is honestly just low key racist lol. If it was just the group of white guys youd think it was a normal nerdy crowd. Include an awkward indian and a cosplaying mullato and now theyre a bunch of incels. You're probably a way bigger loser than these guys IRL I bet. Way to expose yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Thanks for the first r/purplepilldebate meetup guys. Was fun meeting all of you. Can't wait till next time!Yeah, nice crazy conjecture and mental gymnastics to try and save face. Not a single mention about if they were "going for average women" nor did I even mentioned anything about attracting women, but ill humor you, say that was my point: at least 4 of them are average, one or two of them are slightly above average (hoodie guy looks handsome just short), their fashion is COMPLETELY fine outside of three guys who literally seem to be cosplaying. Blue pill = low IQ cope about the harsh realities in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:16 AM |
| 5 | Thanks for the first r/purplepilldebate meetup guys. Was fun meeting all of you. Can't wait till next time!Ok, so, theyre ugly??? And??? What is your point??? Body positivity much??? Theyre just being themselves arent they??? Theyre going outside??? Blue pillers expose themselves so hard lmfao. Such a joke ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:44 AM |
| 6 | Thanks for the first r/purplepilldebate meetup guys. Was fun meeting all of you. Can't wait till next time!Bunch of average, shorter, and some ugly guys hanging out and expressing their personality. They're even lean. Whats wrong with them? Well: they are short nerdy average and ethnic. Blue pill is black pill. The irony is that these nerds are probably just blue pilled redditors working on a career in tech or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Unrealistic beauty standards are created and fostered by women, not men.create a tinder profile with the exact same getup and like 2 blurry ass selfies. Tell me how little attention you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:24 AM |
| 0 | How beta vs alpha is treated.Dude literally just look up frat house inside on google. Rooms of 4chan. Your school was the outlier lol. Your frat house sounds like job corps to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 01:00 AM |
| 2 | That OkCupid chart reinventedtiktok is now explaining the blackpill but not understanding that attraction is based off relation to the average person lol.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How beta vs alpha is treated.Yes. Because that is what they are. Dorm houses.... In fact my brothers who lived in dorms kept their rooms SIGNIFICANTLY cleaner than my brothers frat house. He lived next to a bunch of other frat houses, they all looked filthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How beta vs alpha is treated.frats are cringe and fucking disgusting. My brother was in a frat. None of the dudes were "alpha" (I don't like using the terminology but let's be honest: A leadership managerial individual or a dude who actually doesnt have any issues getting girls to like them is not looking to join a frat). The entire thing was FILTHY like a literal fucking crack den, the bathroom was like a camping outhouse that hadn't been cleaned in 2 years, they ate nothing but chicken strips and prison commissary.. I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Men age like wine, women age like...Thermonuclear cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Men age like wine, women age like...Lmfao, THIS is the cope. No they don't. They prefer tall, athletic, groomed 6'3+ Nordic chads. They prefer their emotional support boyfriends to have a twinky emo cope fashion is what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Men age like wine, women age like...Tell me you are still in highschool without telling me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Men age like wine, women age like...These are all things that come with a poor lifestyle, not aging. Yes, an old fat unhealthy man is unattractive, but that isn't the point. The point is that old healthy successful men are able to be just as attractive if not more attractive than they were at a younger age as long as you dont live like an amerimutt. As a young dude you are literally just trying to make yourself look put together, more successful, more mature, more muscular and manly, more hairy, well groomed, youre literally TRYIN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The true reason of why women don't like big age gap couplesIt is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | The true reason of why women don't like big age gap couplesIt is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.Keep telling yourself that bud. What is your line of work I am genuinely curious. I can show you my gridwise want to see? I doubt it because than it would really keep you up at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.I think you legitimately have no rebuttal because you tried to make a silly claim and so now you are devolving to a rudimentary tactic of "sureee you won whatever i wont humor this conversation" after being verbally demolished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.Right, so your family was upper middle class LMFAO. Hey buddy I make more than you do now I am only 21 and I don't have to go clock in at 9 every morning so dont need to convince me of anything. I make over 600 a day running a business out of my van. Keep coping lil bro. You are literally sitting in this thread trying to convince yourself the time you spent was worth it. I understand when you are skillless in general it seems important to waste 10 years of your life grinding away, but I actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.It is in the same thread. I see you have no rebuttal however so I will take that as a verbal TKO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:57 PM |
| 0 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.pftaahaha you really lost in life didnt you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.Do you have an argument? It seems to me like you are just in here trying to convince to yourself that you made thr right choice melting your 20s away even though you still get cucked and treated like shit. Guy I probably make just as much as you I am 21 I never had to go to school AND I didn't grow up privileged like you. Keep coping wagie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.Again, it is in the top 9% of earnings at that age in America. You have no argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.How low IQ are you? No it literally is not, first of all, this analogy doesnt work because the statistics of fat people and rich people are both skewed in opposite directions in terms of SMV. if you REALLY want to use this stupid analogy then its like saying the skinniest 9% of people in America is a decent weight (141) which is probably is? 9% is not a median? Again dude you're just showing me that you are privileged because I doubt you landed a decent job with just this level of competency alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | The dating market will never be equalized. A fit and financially stable man has no choice nowadays but to settle for an STD-ridden, hedonistic, narcissistic, broken and prematurely post-wall mess.What..? Yes. That is how statistics work. When something is significantly better then average (literally in the top 10%) it is considered good, some consider it elite. Again, cut me the sophism. You grew up in an upper middle class home. Its always so silly when people grow up out of upper middle class homes, go on to make relatively the same as their parents accounting inflation, and then talk about their life as if they did better then lower class children who went on to be lower class adults.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Sure they are, if they were attractive, they could be none of those things and you would still praise them rather than finding something negative to say about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?ugly men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Such blanket terms. I dont think there are any studies but fitness is a huge fad among zoomers and I would bet a huge percentage of zoomer men are going to the gym. Most people are sedentary outside of that. Most jobs are sedentary. A majority of Americans are overweight. Its hard to be positive when everyone actively tries to make you feel like shit about who you are. Sure, they're unhygienic, you are probably right about that. Most men are. And yeah, they're ugly. (average) That's why you want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Yeah but the fittest truly doesnt matter. I could physically kill 98% of men, like ragdoll them around like little children (including you.) aswell as make more than a majority of people n my age group. The reality is that the features women are attracted to (skinny frame, malnourished face, small hips, tall lanky kleinfelter builds) are actually very much genetically inferior. Social media has greatly skewed what is considered attractive to the point of 135 lb prettyboys believing they are alph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Remember: if they are young ugly (average) impressionable men, they are mentally ill losers, if they are young average impressionable women, they are suffering the negative affects of social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Remember, most attractive men being extraordinarily attractive men, slightly above average being very attractive men, average being above average men, and men who "hate themselves" are just ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.If you are average (aka unattractive) sure. You play jester essentially and show Women that you are fit to be an emotional support/simp role. However you are still considered unattractive physically, which is the most important factor in any relationship, otherwise it is just a plutonic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.There are literally hundreds of people swiping left on your face a second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:They die with the support of others or alongside loved ones. Not completely alone, with no-one to reach out to, no-one who is going to arrange their funeral. Like I said, its once the options begin to completely diminish in an individuals senior years that it really starts affecting their mental stability from my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:This is a very naïve point of view. Unless you are quite literally a psychopath, you will likely go into a deep psychosis living alone into your death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:The idea that "women are born to be mothers and wives" is the wrong way to put it, however I work with a lot of old people and I don't know any of them, man or woman, who are alone and happy. I don't think anybody enjoys the prospect of living into your completely alone and withered for 20, 30, 40 years into your 80s past the statistic likelyhood of finding a partner with a cycle of pets that come and go and friends that backstab you only to die alone with no one to support you, no children or f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:34 AM |
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