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Me too. God forbid your child doesn’t…look like you. I’ve known of parents who seemed to treat the children who resembled them better than the ones who didn’t and it seemed unbelievable but this comment section is proving otherwise.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:39 AM
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“Commenters quickly weighed in, agreeing that it’s bizarre that women are expected to pay hundreds or thousands of dollars each month on pricey beauty treatments. “ Oof…and the woman blaming capitalism. No, it couldn’t be because you’re a bimbo who has to follow what everyone else is doing. It’s obviously the fault of “the system”.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 08:07 PM
1

Agree. It’s frustrating and I always have to remind myself that this is Reddit and there’s no incentive for critical thinking.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 04:37 PM
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This is not a same situation case, but I thought this was interesting. https://www.coloradoan.com/story/news/2019/02/13/dui-driver-fatal-larimer-county-colorado-motorcycle-accident/2720126002/ Dude was drunk and hit a guy, dude was charged with vehicular homicide, and dude was supposed to serve 2 years in prison but was instead put in an alternative county work facility where he was basically able to go to a job everyday and then go back to the facility at night. It seems like this county is jus…
/r/MensRights21/12/24 03:26 PM
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Ah fair enough. Yeah not sure about that.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 02:55 PM
32

A man here killed a teenage girl after he rear ended her vehicle. He was charged with manslaughter and assault with a deadly weapon. However, this is Texas, not Colorado, and a lot of people fail to realize the court systems vary drastically by municipality.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 02:31 PM
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Yes it’s a city thing, mostly in the shittier areas.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:47 PM
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I agree. Unfortunately it’s a very complex matter that does require a level of nuance. It just seems now that most people like to take either the “it’s happening everywhere and everyone who claims they’re a victim is one” or “it doesn’t happen at all and everyone is lying” approach. I would hope that greater protections for men who have been sexually and/or physically assaulted, stealthed, etc and protections for men who have been falsely accused would help change the attitudes of some of the na…
/r/MensRights11/10/24 10:27 PM
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Thanks. I was upvoted before I went to sleep last night. Didn’t think my take was that controversial😅 Thankfully it’s not something I think about more than once every few months. I was “lucky” because it wasn’t a complete stranger I guess. Some of these other comments are concerning though. Like the guy who said you have to be fighting for your life to have a legitimate rape claim. And claiming that only 1% of women are raped. The percentage of children molested is FAR greater than 1%. I feel li…
/r/MensRights10/10/24 01:06 PM
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Look, I’m with this sub on most things, but I don’t think rape is nearly as rare as many here think. Please consider that rapists are usually not some strange guy hiding in the bushes and snatching you; it’s usually someone you know. I was raped in college at a party by a guy I knew who was at my house for a party my roommates threw. He came into my room and got on top of me. I said no but couldn’t fight him off of me because I was drunk. I know more than a couple of other women who had similar …
/r/MensRights10/10/24 03:23 AM
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The only context in which this wouldn’t be insulting is if she’s one of the rare woman who has men of good character falling at her feet wanting to commit/offering marriage proposals. But those women typically aren’t entertaining fwb/casual situations anyway.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:52 PM
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I mean these are the same kind of people who support people who sit on their ass all day because they have anxiety and can’t work a job like the rest of the proles 🥹
/r/MensRights06/06/24 12:49 PM
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Do you have a link showing that the study was retracted? Not doubting it, just wondering if there is anything to link to.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 11:34 PM
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I’m a woman but the preferences I’ve noticed among my male friends/acquaintances/coworkers tends to be: -empathy/compassion -intelligence to some degree (not to be conflated with education) -emotional intelligence -confidence -style -sense of responsibility (such as having A job of some sort, taking care of family, hobbies…basically doing things other than brunch every weekend).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:49 PM
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Well for one thing, most men’s standards are lower for casual dating/sex than they are for a relationship, so the pool of women they’re willing to sleep with would easily include a lot of women you might not normally think they’d be into.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:35 PM
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I would argue that most people who are unfaithful don’t actually love their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:18 PM
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Honestly I know a lot of women who act similarly. It’s because we as humans are often hypocrites. Plenty of women like the idea of an “experienced” guy because it means other women want him. Then, If we fall in love with him, we become concerned and hope that none of that really happened because we want to feel special, and thinking about the highlight reel of women he’s slept with in the past can make us feel insecure. Even if we ourselves were promiscuous. It’s easy to justify because WE know …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:24 PM
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Even better is when they convert their “normal” IG into an OnlyFans IG page in order to capture all of their existing followers 🥴
/r/MensRights19/09/22 03:39 AM
2

Yup. Also worth noting you don’t have to pay to get your nails done to have nice, long nails. Nor do you have to pay tons of money to have nice-looking hair. Nor do you have to have a gym membership or spend a lot of time in the gym to be a healthy body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:08 PM
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Even razors aren’t difficult though. I have long legs and shit takes less than 3 minutes daily. Underarms 30 seconds. Pubic area is the bigger PITA because nobody likes the plucked chicken look but you don’t actually have to shave every day just to keep it tidy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:13 PM
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Well, I’m overall pleased with my appearance. My skin texture could be better, but that’s about all that concerns me. And it’s not so bad that I can’t go without makeup. I never wear it to go grocery shopping or errands or anything like that. However, I do hate the way I look in a lot of photos (although I do also take plenty of good ones). I just think my features are just not very photogenic (small eyes, angular jawline, flat-ish nose) in a candid way, where I would look good at all angles, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:16 AM
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Nobody outside of a few people on Twitter would have even heard about that joke if he hadn’t hit Chris Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:40 PM
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0% because it’s not even a weekly, much less daily occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:33 PM
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On one hand (by purely anecdote) I do think women tend to think they can punch higher than they actually can. I also think that are largely more picky than men when it comes to facial appearance, employment status, fitness, etc. However, I don’t think it’s as bad as it seems. I think a good part of the shortage of suitable women for men right now is because some of the hot ones have acted stupidly on social media and men who are seeking a LTR now place them into the “hoe” category and want nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:43 PM
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I think online dating, social media, and the illusion of choice has caused a lot of people to have overinflated standards relative to what they bring to the table. Every day on Facebook I see people bitching about being single and how there are no good ____ left.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:50 PM
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There’s no way a woman fucking this much is going to go 2 months without fucking the man she’s actually interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:40 AM
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Oh for sure. My roommate who is hot is the Queen of getting a few dates and then getting ghosted or set up as a perpetual booty call lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:14 PM
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A lot of people in the “post wall” age are just miserable because life didn’t turn out the way they expected. Single and married people both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:09 PM
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Honestly I think those who say that, only say that because they haven’t dated that many hot women. The men I know who can easily pull many hot women are much more discerning and will rule a lot out of them for being uninteresting, much less a c*nt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:10 PM
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Average man to me (in my city) is probably: 5’8”-5’10” significantly overweight but not yet obese can’t really comment on salary. Salaries vary so widely. likes video games and beers with the guys has a surface level understanding of politics/economics a little bit but gets most info from TV and social media and isn’t really that knowledgeable has a beard not particularly good looking but not hideous has a few dates here and there but is overall too shy to ask a woman out so he’ll go out with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:38 PM
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Nah you’re right. And it extends past overweight people. I shudder to think about what all of these BBLs will look like in ten years since all of that fat will start sagging as (inevitably) everything on the body begins to sag. I’m 31 and have a naturally fat ass right now and I’m working on building more muscle to lift it so it doesn’t look like a deflating balloon as I get older lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:08 PM
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All of the overweight women I know struggle to attract long term partners that they are initially very physically attracted to. They usually end up finding someone, but it wasn’t their first, second, third, etc choice. But I also know fit, hot chicks with no personality who have trouble attracting a long term partner that they’re very physically attracted to. They too end up settling for someone they would have passed on in their ideal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:14 PM
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Yes it’s wrong but in the extreme case that the man won’t take no for an answer and keeps asking, then I say sure, go ahead and give him the chance that he wants and then don’t talk to him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:57 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:40 AM
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Only the women who are oddly proud of fucking a bunch of guys (weird thing to be proud of, male or female tbh) and brag about it don’t understand that they’ll tuck anything. Those who have a high count but don’t brag about it typically know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:50 PM
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I thought 2 and 5 were cute but 9 was the only standout.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:35 AM
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Yeah I do believe some people care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:12 PM
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Where did you get these statistics from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:48 AM
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A year and a half
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:48 AM
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I’m 31F and have never met anyone who has been asked or has asked anyone how many people they’ve slept with either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:30 AM
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Yes it’s easy for women to get laid but I think some of you overestimate how easy it is for a woman to get laid by a “Chad”/alpha and how hard it is for a man to get laid. Unattractive women can fuck a Chad, yes, but only if Chad is really in a low place and has no other options. I’m not saying Chad is only fucking 10s, but normally Chad is only having to resort to 6/10s on a slow day (I mean we are assuming Chads are matching with 80% of the OLD women, right? And tons more IRL). Average and bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:04 AM
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I’m so glad I was in college 10 years ago because I can’t deal with this shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:08 PM
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Also men daily on this app get called predatory for being interested in legal age adult women if they’re deemed “too old” for them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:07 PM
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A lot of it is just biologically hardwired into men. Just as men are typically very attracted to women with wide hips and long, thick hair, they’re also typically attracted to young women. All of these characteristics denote fertility, and men are drawn to that whether they intend to impregnate the woman or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:33 AM
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Agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:27 AM
0

Tbf it probably depends on how one defines “mom bod.” There’s a difference between the “mom bod” where they have flabby stomach/stretch marks/a few extra pounds from having a kid and the “mom bod” women who were fat to start with and get become fat/obese and blame it on having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:25 AM
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Men can simply not date women who wear tons of makeup if they are worried about the woman potentially not being that naturally attractive then. If you watch YouTube makeup tutorials you can get a good idea of what’s a lot of makeup vs a little makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:15 PM
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No more than about $50 for everything including foundation, powder, bronzer, eyeliner, mascara, and lipstick. And women almost always already own these products. Don’t act like most women only buy makeup for dates. This isn’t a special cost on top of everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:06 PM
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When I was dating I expected the man to pay but that’s also because I was usually dating men 10+ years older than me (I was in my mid to late 20s) who were in established and successful careers. With that age/income difference, they’re almost universally embarrassed if you even offer to pay. The idea of splitting a bill in those situations honestly would probably have been a turn-off to me, just because of the age difference. That being said, I went out with a guy my age who didn’t offer to pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:03 PM
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Nah there are plenty of women who get along with a 15 minute drugstore makeup routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:43 PM
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You don’t have to spend much money to get ready for a date as a woman. Some women choose to spend a lot of money to get ready for a date. Some women don’t even wear makeup and do their hair. I know average looking women who don’t and still get dates. Also my hair and makeup routine was about the same for a date as it was to go to work so really not a lot of extra time is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:32 PM
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If she’s progressive enough to ask a man out she’s also progressive enough to be paying the bill. If she doesn’t want to pay, then wait for a man to ask her out. Simple as that. If I were asking a stranger to coffee or lunch for business or networking purposes, I would also offer to pay. These courtesies extend far past the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:44 AM
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All of the reasons already stated and also being beautiful isn’t everything. I know beautiful women who are dumb and uninteresting, vapid, etc, and they found it hard to find anyone good looking except players/douche bags to want to date them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:31 PM
1

I think looksmatch is when most outsiders can look at the couple and say “oh yes they look like they go together”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:14 AM
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And Brie Larson is a 5? Lol what? mean if this is a scale for ONLY famous, very in-shape people (who are already much more attractive than the average person), then sure I guess???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:13 AM
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At 18-22 I would not have looked twice at at a 25 year old. Once I got to the real world (post college) I would have looked more at the 35 year old because most men my age were making about the same as me. At that point I also had enough wealth (not rich, but more then 90% of people my age) that I would have desired someone who had more money than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:22 PM
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The average man who is making $70K and is overweight will not have more success after 35. The men who have established successful careers and stay fit and are naturally good-looking will find more success after 35 than as a younger man. The reason for this is easy—they start to really stand out against the sea of average joes and now they have the attention of women their own as well as a percentage of younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:57 PM
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Sure did🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:02 PM
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Yeah I was blackout drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:34 PM
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It’s not a great idea but I had flings with 1 manager and 1 director at my first job and had an ongoing fling with my manager at my second job. I was a salesperson though so not really shocking. Yes, a lot of people do have work spouses. If you’re in a happy relationship, steer clear of having one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:56 AM
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That has been my observation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:49 AM
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That’s tough. Both have pros and cons. Hot girls in a small-ish city swiping on the same guys in Bumble can get really competitive with each other, which has caused tension and rifts between women in my friend group. I think the guys I know tend to be less drama, but that’s just a personal anecdote. Not sure how it is in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:49 PM
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You’re worried about women feeling entitled and delusional? Did you read the rest of your post and your little rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:08 PM
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Isn’t this most men? For most guys I know, unless they have a strong emotional connection to a woman they end up getting bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:06 AM
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My point is that that 40% number doesn’t factor in people who are only overweight but not obese. That would bring the 60% eligible figure down even more. I don’t know what the figure is for 20-39, but over the last few years, I’ve seen most statistics describe about 30% of adults as overweight but not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:54 PM
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That link shows that 40% of 20-39 are obese. That’s about consistent with the general rate. “The obesity prevalence was 40.0% among adults aged 20 to 39 years, 44.8% among adults aged 40 to 59 years, and 42.8% among adults aged 60 and older.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:31 PM
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OP said 70% overweight I believe. Google “percentage of overweight Americans.” CDC.gov says 73.6% of adults over 20 are overweight, and that was as if 2016-2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:26 PM
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I know Reddit generally thinks women over 30 (and certainly 35) are pretty much done, but in my city, if you’re a woman who’s in shape with a decent face, you’ll probably get hit on a lot even into your 50s because everyone is so fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:23 PM
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I assume he means “looks fat”. That’s all relative though. On another sub there was a photo of a young tall man with a beer belly posted and some people thought he looked like a “normal” 20something “skinny fat” and the other people thought he looked fat. On 1970s/1980s standards he would easily be considered fat, and I’m almost certain he is medically overweight. Western perception of fatness has been skewed so much by the obesity rate here that people who aren’t very obese are often seen as “n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:05 PM
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I agree. I think that’s why (at least in my 7 years of sales experience) sales jobs tend to attract fewer women than men. Nobody cares that your sales territory isn’t as good or “fair” as Bob’s or Jim’s territory, nobody is going to pat you on the back because you “tried your hardest”, you’ll be embarrassed in front of your team if you don’t have enough deals in your pipeline when your manager does a review during team meeting on Monday morning, and you can be fired without earning on the 1st of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:44 PM
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Damn I’ve never seen a post like that but I believe you. If that’s the case, man has to leave. I don’t discuss anyone I dated or hooked up with previously even alone with my friends because I honestly find it disrespectful to my fiancé. I would definitely never even try compare them but tbh they all sucked compared to my fiancé. I actually feel like I reached up for him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:04 PM
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You can love someone and even be super sexually attracted to them based on non-physical attributes. “Your personality won me over” is actually very flattering. As an attractive woman, I’d be offended if the first thing my fiancé led with when telling people about me is “she’s so hot.” I’ll agree though about the other phrases though—not flattering at all. No reason to tell people your SO doesn’t have your ideal look. You can emphasize plenty of non physical things about them without directly shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:34 PM
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I noticed a lot of FDS women actually don’t want to be SAHM. They basically say that it’s a bad move because men aren’t shit and will leave you or “force” you to divorce them so you’ll need your career to fall back on. This is obviously non traditional though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:03 PM
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Hours a day? There are men who watch porn for HOURS a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:21 PM
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I get what you mean, but a lot of people do end up settling. Statistically, half of the population is below average. You think a large portion of these people are socialized as children and young adults to look for a mate that’s below average? No. At a certain point in life though, these people face reality, realize they want a family or need a level of security, and settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:55 PM
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I think a big distinction is that it didn't go on nearly as long as it does now. Women have party phases now until they're 35 then look up and wonder why everyone except them is settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:58 PM
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I really hate these tired, regurgitated articles that are make us supposed to feel sorry for the extremely beautiful woman who can’t find love. Because she’s SO beautiful she’s obviously entitled to everlasting love and being unsuccessful in her love life could not possibly be her fault at all. Oh the horror, she gets to experience what most men and ugly women experience all the time :(
/r/MensRights01/03/22 08:56 PM
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Got it. That’s fair. I think I was confused what was meant as “conservative”, the American definition or global.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:01 PM
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Being alone is much preferable to being with someone just for the sake of not being alone. Yes I’m a woman, no I never complained about being alone when I was alone (which was most of my life). I also have one family member and that’s it. I think it’s better to supplement your life with friendships and family (if you have any) than settle for someone you feel lukewarm about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:32 PM
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Yes, some people do this, just as other people intentionally pick less desirable partners intentionally because they don’t want them to have options and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:29 PM
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You think super conservative religious people are the only ones popping out lots of kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:12 PM
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I’m 31 and since I’ve been around 23 I’ve thought older men look better (not as a general rule, but I think a conventionally good-looking man at 40 looks better than a good-looking one at 20-25). I guess they look more distinguished and established to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:30 PM
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Women also usually get personal satisfaction/fulfillment/pleasure/whatever you want to call it from having those children. It’s not a selfless act to have children unless maybe you’re one of those people adopting foster kids.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 11:28 PM
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Average Gen Z/young millennial man is getting less attractive. Their social skills are terrible, they’re getting fatter, they’re not very masculine. I would say the average woman is getting less attractive too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:36 PM
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Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:34 PM
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Why would you want to be with someone who’s only with you for your looks? Those are the kind of partners who will leave you for the next hottest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:18 PM
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Agree. I think putting forth the best version of yourself goes a long way and that includes being in shape, grooming, hygiene, etc. While it’s not a panacea, it helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:16 PM
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I’m a prize, but I feel like my fiancé is also a prize, possibly more so than I am. We both had tons of options, weren’t even actively looking for a relationship, but found each other and and decided on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:10 PM
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Weight tends to be the main factor in retaining a youthful look, for men and women. Women who get fat by 30 will look much older than women who stay in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:49 PM
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Yeah this checks out with the idea men’s social capital is largely success (which usually goes hand in hand with money/resources) and women’s is appearance and youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:56 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:47 PM
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Tbf a lot of women are in shitty relationships. Based on the number of cheaters, people who “settled”, and generally dysfunctional couples I’ve run into in the IRL, I feel like only 30% or so of relationships have a real, true ride or die kind of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:24 PM
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Lmao I’m glad I wasn’t the only one thinking “not this shit again”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:13 PM
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As a woman I would have preferred that when I was dating. On OLD, I came across too many guys blowing up my phone all day and all night before we even met, even though I was not keeping up the texting pace. Seriously had a guy texting me “I can’t stop thinking about you ;)” during his night shift as ER doc. Very weird IMO since we hadn’t even met yet. So texting can come off as desperate if you’re not careful. (TBF that guy came off as desperate in person too.) However, if done correctly and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:45 PM
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Unattractive men with money get laid all the time if they’re not completely antisocial. Every man I personally know with enough money to fly to another country for a couple of weeks could get laid. Of the 5 of them I know well, one is 70, one is 58 short (5’5”) and balding, one is 45 with a big pot belly and balding, and another is 39 with a belly and balding. But you know what they all are? Sociable and funny. Idk why this sub acts like you need to look like John Stamos to get one crumb of puss…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:58 PM
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I just don’t understand why a man who can afford to fly to a foreign country for a couple of weeks to have sex with prostitutes can’t pick up women at the local bar/lounge in his hometown for a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:23 AM
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I think so but doesn’t seem that much different than with the Anglos here. Most of my friends are Anglo and have also dated/are open to dating man 10+ years older. My city is fairly old school/socially conservative though with not many young successful men. It’s not a place thats considered a good city for young professionals AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:13 AM
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Anglo/Hispanic in a city where 90% of the people are Anglo, Hispanic, or a mix of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:48 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:07 AM
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THIS. I was a B2B salesperson for 7 years with a 45k base and the top people on my team were making $150k after commissions. Top reps in the company making like $350k. And there are way higher paying sales jobs than that. That was really a low paying company bc we already easily #2 in the market and were publicly traded. My friends who went to smaller competitors are at like $90k base with extremely lucrative commissions and residuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:58 PM
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I know a few men making 6 figures who are 5’10”- 5’11” at least. Idk about 6 feet and idk about 6 pack. Physically fit though? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:55 PM
2

25 year old women who have their shit together in my city are not choosing 25 year old men because they’re out-earning a lot of those men. Those seem to be often the same kind of men who count only video games and drinking with the boys as their hobbies. The 25 year old men I know who do have their shit together are grinding away at their careers and enjoying playing the field here and there bc they know they have plenty of time to fuck around before they decide to settle down. FWIW I live in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:34 PM
8

Thank you. I’m 31F and over the last 5-7 years I’ve known plenty of attractive women who were into men in their late 30s and even much older. Yes, all of those men were in good shape and had all their hair and were making over $100K (in a low cost of living city), but they were still much older.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:19 PM
5

Yup, but not even “rich” per se, but upper-middle class even helps a lot. Especially if you’re in a city where wages are low, you’ll see a lot of age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:14 PM
1

Be affirmative, but polite. That’s really it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:43 AM
14

Lmaooooooo I love this When I was single and dating I used to judge men based on how I imagined they would look talking to the manager of a restaurant because the bill was wrong and shit like that, so this is a valid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:40 PM
3

Tbh I do know a some women that don’t like overly buff men because they feel like they’re going to be judged for being a little bit soft or dragged to the gym every day. These are all women who are 7-9 physically. But I would guess this guys problem is that he looks kind of nerdy in some pics. That would translate well IRL, but on OLD when you’re swiping quickly and there are a bunch of Chads, Tyrones, and Miguels getting all of the likes, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:14 PM
1

As large as FDS is, I’d argue it’s likely mostly average-looking women with bad attitudes. That’s what’s keeping them from finding a good man. Their attitudes weed out the assholes and general losers, but they carry a hostility and aggressiveness that is also a big turn-off to good men. I don’t know anything about TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:06 PM
1

I saw a post with pics compiled of women on FDS (it was actually a post from an FDS mod warning them to stop posting pics because they were getting shared ok other subs) and I’d say out of the ten women in those pics, I’d say 2-3 were attractive, 3-4 average, 4 below average. I have no idea how that translates to the attractiveness of actual members though since those are the ones confident (or crazy lol) enough to post a pic of themselves on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:59 PM
11

Yeah unless the they’re going through some mental health stuff where they’re not even able to function normally, it’s the bare minimum if someone gives a shit about you. Obviously if you’re agreed beforehand that you’re not getting each other gifts, that’s one thing, but otherwise…even if you have no money, a homemade card with a nice message would work. Or cooking dinner at home. I just see too many women posting stuff like “my man didn’t get me anything for Christmas or my birthday but got all…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:04 PM
2

Women ask this???? That’s wild to me. Maybe I’m just old lol (just turned 31).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:13 AM
3

That makes a lot more sense haha. Although I’ll say some women keep their promiscuity on the DL pretty well though. A lot don’t though and everybody knows their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:02 AM
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I just want to know what men are even asking. I’ve never met a man IRL who has asked a woman and none of my friends have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:43 PM
17

Hard agree. You get a lot of opinions on the Internet that I just don’t see out in the wild. For example, I’ve never met a woman like the women in FDS. It’s rare I meet a woman who truly cares about finding the “high value male.” My friends date guys who make far less than $100k a year and are below 6 feet tall and are happy. On the other side of things, I’ve also never met a man who cares about a woman’s “body count” as long as she doesn’t have a bad reputation that precedes her around the comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:48 PM
3

Salary > $150K, lives within his means, has options but doesn’t exercise them all, well-respected in their employment industry, intelligent/interesting, confident, in good physical shape. Dick size, height, hair have little to do with it IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:15 AM
1

Or that he asks a lot. I know a guy who is definitely not considered generally desirable but he asks for enough numbers when he’s out at the bars while also buying girls free drinks, then spends a couple of hundred on a first date to impress them, gets them drunk, and BAM! He’s also 39 and my city has a large sugar baby/wannabe sugar baby scene so the prospect of a nice dinner and free drinks and a guy who has a nice car is good enough for a 20 year old with student loans to sleep with a guy. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:01 AM
5

Best way? Through hobbies and activities. Really. Everyone I know in a stable relationship met through their clubs, hobby groups, etc or mutual friends (or at work but that’s probably not a good idea as a rule). Could be something as simple as meeting someone at a monthly networking group for people in contracting or tech, or could be something like an coed softball league.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:07 PM
1

You’re definitely right there. Women’s preferences for men so much. For example, I’ve always been into men 10+ years older who are successful (somewhat, not talking about millionaires in Bugattis lol) and smart with good hair, while my other friends were more into tall guys our age with “good body” . They could not care less about success or intelligence or hair and I couldn’t care less about how buff the guy is or how tall he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:00 PM
3

I’m actually considered between a 7-9, depending on preferences lol. I’ve never responded to men approaching me, so nothing would work on me. I’d venture to say trying to pick up women doesn’t work for a lot of women. Even he’s Ryan Gosling, a lot of women don’t like to be approached by strangers. It’s not a super comfortable feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:52 PM
1

Yeah the weird thing is he would actually hit on 9-10s. I think maybe he was talking about in general more men are afraid to hit on the 9-10s? Idk. Seems like if you’re going to swing, may go ahead and swing hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:49 PM
2

My old sales manager (who is a pickup artist) would agree. He says 7-8s get hit on the most, because 9-10s are just too intimidating sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:11 PM
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30F. When I was single, it was every time I went out to a bar/restaurant with friends. When I did sales, it was pretty normal when I’d be cold calling/pulling on doors and such. I WFH now and have a fiancé, so I don’t go out by myself or with my single friends really at all, but still get approached at the grocery store/Target occasionally (my engagement ring isn’t traditional-looking at all.) Never been hit on at the gym though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:46 PM
2

Straight 30F here. A lot of circumstantial things here, like the definition of “friend.” If it’s a friend you were close with for a long time and started out platonic and just hooked up with once or twice because they were convenient but you didn’t have feelings for them, I think it’s ok. If it’s someone who was only a “friend” because you were in love with them and had a real connection with, they shouldn’t be a big part of your life. Not saying you can’t talk to them occasionally, but shouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:56 PM
1

Nobody said anything about having to get a newer model every 5 years or not settling down lol. Sure, there are some like that, but some people in their 40s and 50s who had 10-20 year marriages do get divorced due to incompatibility. I’ve noticed l though that red pill subs on here act like all marriages that and are because the woman is cheating and FDS-type subs always act like it’s because the man is cheating, and while I’m sure that happens some of the time, but it’s not a rule. If you a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:13 PM
1

It also can depend on socioeconomic status. Sure there are men in their 40s and 50s going for much younger women because they’re immature and underemployed and women closer to their age won’t put up with their shit, but there are also men in their 40s and 50s who have their shit together, are extremely successful, and have enough money and status to attract a large amount of women (relative to the average joe) and thus choose younger women. The latter is what I see a lot in my city. Also FWIW ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:48 AM
2

Shit I’m 30, have an amazing father and zero daddy issues and I’ve always preferred men minimum 10 years older lol. My dad was 51 when I was born, my parents were 14 years apart, and my half brother is 21 years older than me, so I’m used to being around age gaps and also people much older than me. Most of my friends are in their 40s-50s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:31 AM
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Yup, but also older men who can’t even get a woman their age, let alone a younger one will act really bitter. It’s hard for people to watch others live their dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:05 AM
6

This. Back in the day you married someone in your hometown because it was expected that you settled down and had kids. Now people hold off for the best because they can see hot chicks/successful guys another town or city over and the result is a lot of single, unhappy people feeling like they’re losing if they have to settle for someone on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:47 PM
7

This happens to women commonly when seeking hysterectomies too. Had no idea they try to stop men as well.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:26 PM
-1

I can only speak for the US, but the main reason 80% of women are not getting noticed is largely because so many are overweight/obese .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:12 PM
6

Because even average and below-average people want someone above-average now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:01 PM
5

Being attractive is certainly enough to overcome the confidence issue. Being attractive will make people overlook a LOT of things. But I know plenty of fat and/or ugly guys who pull pussy because they’re confident, funny, outgoing, etc Edit: Didn’t realize what the guy you were replying to was saying. I agree with you. He’s dead wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:38 PM
1

It would be a no from me. Even ugly guys I know in my 20s could get laid once a month by some thirsty chick at a bar or party. If a guy is outgoing and funny and socializes regularly, it shouldn’t be that big of problem to get laid. And that’s just talking about women in their 20s. Thirsty divorced women in their 40s will bang nearly any guy who’s in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:33 PM
3

I don’t know a single successful man who cares if a woman is as successful as him or as educated. General kindness—yes. Intelligence—yes. Industriousness—yes. Occupation/education? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:26 AM
1

You have a fair point and maybe it varies by locality but in my city, you really don’t have to spend much money to take a woman out and especially not to get laid. But I live in a “B list city” (on a similar level to OKC, Cleveland, Memphis, etc), where we don’t have many upscale restaurants, the bars we have are 95% neighborhood bars, and we have literally one “club.” What flies here would probably not fly in large metro cities Dallas , Atlanta, Chicago, LA, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:49 PM
2

That would be a turn-off, but I’ve honestly only ever been interested in/dated men who have had numerous options, so there would be no reason for them to use prostitutes if they really wanted to get laid. Also most of the men I’ve been interested in are 40+, established, career-minded with their kids so they had lots of responsibilities and weren’t spending tons of time prowling for pussy or worrying about getting laid regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:38 AM
1

This. Almost any man who looks good on paper on OLD is a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:10 AM
3

Men are struggling because a lot of women don’t need a man just to survive (or at least don’t feel like they do), so they’re selecting a mate more on looks and allure than they used to. A stable middle class job might have been alluring to a woman 40 years ago, but it’s not as alluring now. Of course there are still the women who are looking for a high-earning man, so a lot of men now find themselves having to be in the six figure salary range (even in a lower cost of living city) or be very goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:05 AM
1

Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:04 AM
1

Well of course. All being hot does is get your foot in the door though. I’m considered super hot but in my city (although in Miami I’m sure I’d be a 6), but it doesn’t mean I’m going to necessarily be more appealing to a man than another woman who’s less objectively attractive. Men have a physical threshold for romantic interest that a woman must meet. After that, the value that being marginally more hot adds to the woman is very little. For example, my fiancé thinks I’m very beautiful, but our …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:37 PM
0

I think you’re going to have a hard time finding a good man to remarry you if you give your kids up to foster care because you got divorced.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/22 05:15 PM
10

Well in America, we treat 30-year-olds like they’re 20–olds, so no surprise there.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/22 06:44 AM
1

Ditch the kids? With who? Honest question.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/22 06:43 AM
1

Because it’s not “unpaid” if she’s equally sharing in the money he brings home from working. That’s just basic partnership. Now if she doesn’t get access to the money he brings home, then that’s a different situation and financially abusive. If she’s also assuming all of those domestic roles while working a full-time job as you said with no help from the husband, that’s also fucked up, but it’s not what the original tweet is discussing. It’s discussing SAHM, which I presume to be women with husb…
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/22 02:31 PM
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The rest of those things are nowhere NEAR the severity of sexual assault or harassment in the workplace. Jesus. You know how many girls are fat shamed or skinny shamed by their mothers and other women?
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 05:14 PM
3

There’s zero chance this happened
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/22 05:56 PM
3

I mean…dressing up isn’t hard. It doesn’t sound like he’s asking her to cake on a full face of makeup, do her hair, or dress to the nines, so it sounds pretty reasonable unless he’s a complete slob. It used to be that people dressed up to go places out of respect. Work, church, airplanes, Saturday lunch. Since we’re now in the era of People of Walmart, I guess asking others to dress up is a controversial take.
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/22 11:52 PM
24

Can these women really afford to be that choosy?🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:09 PM
1

I feel for you. It's hard. A lot of my male friends come to me lamenting the state of the dating world. I know it's not much advice, but if you're doing online dating--get off. 90% are hoes and desperate women. Maybe join a club for something you're interested in and start by making platonic connections--anything that helps boost your confidence and approach with people. Half of it truly is confidence. I've known average-looking and average-income guys who are extremely confident or extremely fu…
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/22 02:03 AM
0

You're right--those women do scream bloody murder but they also can't find a decent man to stay with them. Women living trainwreck lives end up financing the lifestyle of their boyfriend who sits on the couch and plays video games and smokes weed all day despite having 2 other kids from 2 other women. Most of the women in healthy, committed relationships are in the top 20%.
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/22 01:59 AM
1

This is the same sub that says that men are predators for dating women more than 5 years younger than them ☠️
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/21 10:01 PM
2

💯they’re a sea of garbage. It’s 99% players/hoes and desperate dudes/women.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 07:43 PM
4

Exactly. He said most women can’t have kids by their 30s. This is demonstrably false. Having children in early 30s is not at all unlikely. Statistics do show a big drop off in chances of natural pregnancy each month between 35 and 40, but it’s still doable. Natural pregnancy after 40 is kind of a long shot, but it’s still doable.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 07:35 PM
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I really should haha. To be fair though, it's not usually the "professional" women I know that I hear parroting this myth. It's the ones whose lives are complete wrecks already and need someone to blame.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 04:33 PM
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​ So. many. people. including people who brag about being educated and also 70% of women under 40. I pulled that number out of my ass but as a 30F, I know of far too many women (liberal women in my city at least) who keep perpetuating this bullshit.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 04:24 PM
3

I actually like the sentiment (as I felt that way until I managed to find my fiancé at age 28 after going on a total of like 7 first dates the first ten years of my life because I'm picky), but that sub also promotes dating like 5 guys at a time to try to find someone, so...I'm confused. lol
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/21 05:09 PM
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I only saw one photo compilation posted on a subreddit of 9 or so women and the ones in that were (mostly) surprisingly normal-looking. I’m sure I’ve missed other posts though lol. I really have to imagine their attitudes are the biggest turn-off honestly. Even average-looking women can get quite a few dates if she’s in shape and pleasant/fun to be around. I do find it hard to believe every single woman posting there is interesting/different enough to be demanding what they deem a “HVM” though. …
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/21 12:01 AM
1

I’m sure they don’t but that’s ok. Not every comment needs to be a hard agree with the OP or community. I’m with you though. I do try to remain civil too. I’m a relatively new Redditor and was afraid to comment any adversarial positions on any subreddits for awhile since people get completely dragged for them sometimes. Seems silly since this is completely anonymous but I’m very non-adversarial (and certainly non-confrontational) in real life so this helps me assert myself a little bit lol
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:40 PM
3

“Unpaid childcare” is such a gross phrase. Those are your children. You or your husband are SUPPOSED to take care of your OWN kids. What do you want? An extra $20 an hour for each hour you’re working at home in addition to the money he brings home? But me guess, you also think it’s your “right” to have free childcare and have society pay for another woman to take care of your kids so you don’t have to. If you hate kids so much, why did you have them?
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 05:46 PM
1

Your last point is fair. I did see some whacko going too far with the comments about rape and I hope he’s still downvoted. I’ll admit maybe the “saying anything to women dressed a certain way” is not a societal rule, but as a young-ish woman, I know more than a few women who get mad when men respectfully try to try talk to them at all despite constantly posting sexy photos on IG. Like to the point where they screenshot the guy’s attempt to start a conversation and berate him for being creepy and…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:31 PM
1

I think it’s completely in line to say don’t touch women when they’re dressed a certain way. However, we went from “don’t touch women” to “don’t say sexual things to women because they’re dressed a certain way” (also fair) to “don’t say anything to women if they’re dressed a certain way because it’s creepy” to “don’t even look at women if they’re dressed a certain way.” Yes, ogling is creepy, but you can’t tell from his stare if he’s even ogling. The guy honestly looks non plussed. He’s not cran…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:14 PM
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No, the comparison is idiotic because she’s not even a victim. It’s not illegal to look at someone. Apparently you’re too stupid to understand that. Looking at someone is not “creeping” on them. This woman is a drama queen.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:35 AM
5

Another TikTok mom making the most out of nothing in order to get more channel views.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:33 AM
9

Did you just compare murder victims to some lady at the gym who went viral to try to get attention because some old guy may have looked at her for too long a couple of times? LMAO. Staring at someone is not a crime. She is not a victim. My God if I confronted and posted a video every time some man (or woman) stared at me, I’d have no time left in the day for anything else. Anyway, she doesn’t even know if he’s gay, legally blind, or what. People sometimes stare by accident.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:28 AM
1

That’s a good point. I’m in Texas though and I personally know couples (coworkers. I’m a B2B salesperson) who can’t get along like mature adults where the woman has started a physical altercation and man has hit back. I guess it may be different depending on location, but in their cases, when the cops have come out, they’ve told the woman that she’s free to file battery charges against the man, but that they’re going to have to file battery charges against her as well since she admitted to hitti…
/r/MensRights04/12/21 09:25 AM
2

Nah. Treat her like any man tbh. If she’s trying to start shit anyway, she’s a broad, not a lady.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 09:20 AM
9

I’m a 30 year old woman and I think men should hit women back if they’re hit first. I’ve never in my life hit another person and it’s ridiculous that so many people go through life thinking it’s acceptable to do so. Until these bullies get put in their place, they will continue to do so.
/r/MensRights03/12/21 09:23 PM
2

Ahh okay. Thank you for that.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 01:26 AM
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Most of the world doesn’t circumcise. Don’t feel bad about your decision. https://pophealthmetrics.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12963-016-0073-5/tables/1
/r/MensRights25/11/21 04:44 PM
9

Thanks for sharing your story. I was afraid to share mine since I’m 30 and my fiancé is 53 and thought I might get criticized. While I don’t have a bad marriage and ex who overdosed (I’m so, so sorry), I’ve been through a lot of shit in my life. One of my half brothers committed suicide years ago, nobody in my family really talks, and my mom intentionally stopped talking to me before she died. I found out from a fucking phone call from her landlord. I also have an elderly father to take care of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:31 PM
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