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For anyone reading: Arguing with people like this is like wrestling a pig: you both get muddy, but the pig likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:33 AM
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I know this feels hard, but helping someone else doesn’t mean we’re saying you’re bad or less important. It just means they didn’t get enough help before, so we’re making sure they get a little more now. You’re still important too. Everyone matters, and we just want things to feel fair for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:53 AM
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No. It’s not normal. But here we are and it’s super common for people to have a hard time crying and being vulnerable. In a perfect world.. it wouldn’t be so rough. But go read the rest of the replies from the men here and tell me you think they have a healthy relationship with their ability to cry and open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:49 AM
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Which would….. make it hard for you, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:47 AM
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No I’m just not anyone’s therapist so I’m not gonna do the leg work on a stupid question. Obviously there’s a correct way to express emotions and show vulnerability. DUH. But I’m not gonna explain it for free. Google it and come back to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:22 AM
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Depends on the person. I don’t care for oral so it wouldn’t help anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:59 AM
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It depends on what kind of struggle you mean. Statistically, women face more risk of things like sexual violence, intimate partner violence, workplace harassment, and reproductive health challenges. Men, on the other hand, show higher rates of workplace deaths, addiction, suicide, and homelessness. But privilege isn’t just about suffering.. it’s about which group the system was originally built to serve. Even when many men struggle, they’re still in a system historically designed by men for men’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:32 AM
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You’re misunderstanding privilege. It’s not about individual outcomes or saying men have easier lives overall. It’s about structural advantages.. who the system was built for, whose needs and voices were centered. That’s why we say whiteness is privileged even if poor white people struggle, and maleness is privileged even if many men suffer. It’s about how the system defaults, not personal guarantees of success. You keep talking about who has it better.. but privilege isn’t a scoreboard of who’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:14 AM
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You’re oversimplifying it. Systemic privilege doesn’t mean all men succeed or that all women fail.. it means the structure historically gave men more access, power, and protection, even if individuals within that group still struggle. When more men fail, it’s not because they’re inherently worse or the system is suddenly anti male.. it’s often because the same system that privileged men in power also ignored or discarded vulnerable men. Inequality at the top doesn’t magically make all men privil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:44 PM
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You jumping straight to insults and calling people bigoted garbage tells me you’re no longer interested in having a rational discussion. No one here said men never struggle or that individual women don’t face hardship.. systemic privilege means the structure was built in a way that benefits one group overall, even if not every individual reaps the same outcome. That’s why we talk about systems, not just individuals. If you can’t engage without spiraling into personal attacks, maybe you’re not re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:29 PM
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I get what you’re trying to say, but privilege isn’t about whether a group has an “easy” life. It’s about which group the system is historically designed to accommodate and protect. Just like whiteness comes with systemic advantages even when a white person’s life is hard, maleness comes with systemic advantages even when an individual man struggles. Saying men have privilege doesn’t mean they have no hardships.. it means the system, by default, has been shaped in ways that often favor men. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:15 PM
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See now I know you’re just making this up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:41 PM
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Exactly.. you’re basically agreeing with me. Average sex differences don’t define individual ability or overall usefulness. Women are just as capable of solving complex, coordination heavy, or strength requiring problems.. they just might approach them differently. That’s why saying “women couldn’t survive or build or hunt without men” is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:26 PM
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Did you even read what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:13 PM
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Actually, research shows women aren’t less adept.. they may just approach tasks differently. Studies on motor coordination (like this) found that while men may show slightly more precision at first, women are better at error correction and adaptive learning, meaning they reach the same (or better) levels of performance over time. So no, biology doesn’t make women less capable at machine or coordination heavy tasks.. it just means they may take a different route to mastery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:22 PM
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They’re perverts. And they’ve been given legal terminology to hide behind to try and justify their perversion. “But it’s legal” is an exhausted argument. Legality does not equate morality. 18 is considered an adult so they can start learning to navigate the adult world once they graduate. Not so grown men can exploit them. I’m hard pressed to believe this nuance is genuinely lost on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:16 PM
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No. You’re splitting hairs. When I think of children.. I think of all of them. As we should. Teenagers are children. Full stop. I will not continue to argue this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:13 PM
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I need these men to genuinely look me in the face and tell me that women can’t hunt ave never could in all of history. The whole “men were hunters and women were gatherers” thing isn’t even historically accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:07 PM
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Hallelujah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:04 PM
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We have tools and aids for these things. I’d needed, we would invent more. Women are not incapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:58 PM
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You’ve got that backwards. Expanding the conversation to include 18–20 year olds doesn’t weaken protections for younger kids.. it strengthens the bigger picture of how exploitation works. Groomers and predators don’t stop wanting control just because someone turns 18. Recognizing that just legal teens are still vulnerable helps close off one of the oldest grooming loopholes.. “Well, they’re legal now, so it’s fine.” If we really care about protecting young people, we need to acknowledge that mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:42 PM
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You can’t have this debate with the people here. They really, really like advocating for imaginary men having the right to defile teenagers. But you’re right. They’ll threaten to shoot her peer at prom if he touches her and think “yeah these boys only have one thing in mind”.. while encouraging older men to groom them. I don’t get it. It’s such a bad look and we shouldn’t even have to talk about it. But notice how this guy keeps saying “23” as if the post doesn’t say 23 is about as old as should…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:37 PM
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This is basically my argument. I’ll still side eye Leo cuz he’s still weird to me, but at least the women he pursues have some life experience under their belt.. and can have a beer. I’ll hold my tongue once the younger has at least some understanding of who they are and how the world around them functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:32 PM
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No one’s saying 18 year olds are toddlers. But they’re still basically brand new to adulthood.. they’re just out of high school, they’ve barely touched real independence, they’re still figuring out who they are. Sure, they’re “legal,” but that doesn’t mean it’s ethical for older adults to pursue them. Why? Because the life experience gap gives the older person a natural power advantage. That’s why it’s gross. Eighteen year olds should be gaining experience alongside their peers, not dating peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:29 PM
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I know. I just wanted to see if he’d try to actually say that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:50 PM
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Say it with me. Eight. Teen. Teenagers are children. They can’t drink. Buy smokes. Or get into a bar. Because we don’t trust them to make those choices for themselves. They sure as shit shouldn’t be allowed to join the military and they definitely don’t need to be fucked by adults. I’m not arguing with anyone about why we shouldn’t be fucking teenagers. Deuces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:41 PM
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Yeah. It’s scientific. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:18 PM
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Agreed. Leave the children alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:12 PM
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What kind of question is this? How do you want me to answer? An anecdote? Want a link to a “how to” website? It’s not rocket science. This isn’t top secret information.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:53 PM
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Cheaper rent and good food.. you can’t blame him. Just so long as he’s learning the recipes for himself and not being a man baby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:08 PM
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I mean.. At least in my situation, I can’t comfortably do sex where I live (it’s a roommate thing). So.. it’s gotta be at his. And I’m not about to make no woman’s son beg where she can hear it. I’m sorry. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:03 PM
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It’s an inconvenience. But I don’t care. Save your money, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:22 AM
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Some of the worst sex I’ve had has been with dudes who have high body counts. The best sex comes from autistic men, believe it or not. Not sure what that’s about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:14 AM
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Nah. Have a preference. It’s the whole “women with high body counts can’t pair bond and aren’t worth a relationship” thing that gets yall lectured. No one cares that you wanna fuck virgins. Just not super thrilled at being called subhuman for living life. Plus it’s a debate sub. No one talks about this off the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:11 AM
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Not really. I asked this one only cuz we joke that we’re both whores and I wanted to know who was the biggest. Turns out we’re neck and neck LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:09 AM
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Wait what do dick sizes have to do with orgasm intensity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:08 AM
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Hi. My tastes are constantly evolving 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:06 AM
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Cuz I can’t sleep and I’m bored. Why not? Catch me over in r/bigdickproblems next
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:04 AM
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I think a key issue here is that you assume I actually remember sex with other people that well. It’s bit really comparable. I can remember a vague impression, but for the most part I’m not thinking about it. Good is good. Bad is bad. If I like you, you’re better by default. I’ve found that men think about the men I’ve slept with more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:58 AM
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I don’t know how to tell you this.. but sex is the same exact thing no matter who it’s with. Some people vary a little, but for the most part.. it’s all the same. It’s the people involved that make the difference. You can’t get used to meeting and fucking new people. It’s always a completely new experience because of the partner, the dance stays the same. So partner 11 can and will do stuff different. One guy 10000 times won’t. There’s only so many ways to skin a cat. At the end of the day, enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:54 AM
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As a promiscuous women.. fully agree with you here. It’s just as exciting every time. But there’s something to be said for a good continuous partner you really click with. I guess it depends on what you value/enjoy most about sex. First times are fun, but I love me an ole reliable. I really get the vibe this guy doesn’t have enough experience to be able to even have his theories
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:49 AM
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Holy shit what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:11 AM
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lol. Google it, chief. Being vulnerable isn’t easy. It’s hard to let down all your safety measures and let someone have the ability to destroy you. It takes strength. Only a weak person relies on walls and refuses to ever grow or let anyone in. Just cuz it’s the easier option doesn’t make it then better one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:39 AM
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Have you never cried? It’s hard to do. Especially with people around. You have to be strong to be that vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:34 AM
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I’d say like 99% of situations should be met with deescalation. But every now and then.. someone just needs to be punched in the face. Is this not a common take? I thought we all accepted that we rarely have to revert to animal kingdom rules while still not being confrontational, aggressive jagoffs the rest of the time? Idk. Maybe that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:12 AM
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I hate to burst your bubble… but no. Were women from all walks of life. I’m not an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:11 AM
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The people who posts cars are posting Honda civics, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:58 AM
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What does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:47 AM
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No one’s posting luxury cars on tinder lol. No one with actual wealth is on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:47 AM
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No. Your Honda civic doesn’t show wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:29 AM
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Like the other commenter said. You’re failing to see the nuance. Even in my example, it’s not the aggression itself that’s attractive. It’s the conviction with which my friend wanted to protect the woman he saw get punched in the face. You’re purposely avoiding the truth of the situation in favor of your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:55 AM
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a sexually attractive woman is approachable. A sexually attractive man is not necessarily approachable. Care to elaborate? Cuz what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:53 AM
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Now THIS.. is a take I’d like to see talked about. Because wow. I had to sit back and blink slowly to process this. It fits right along side why they put fish and cars into their dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:52 AM
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Ohhhh. Is that what it is? That makes sense. Cuz idk why I’m explaining that protective in an extreme situation is good while being a confrontational, aggressive psycho is bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:10 AM
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There’s a difference between protecting people who can’t protect themselves and just being aggressive. Don’t be intentionally dense. Demons run when a good man goes to war and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:05 AM
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I don’t want a man who deals with anything (outside someone literally being violently assaulted) aggressively. I value calm far more. If we’re out and some guy disrespects me, I’d be WAY more turned on by a man handling that with a calm “hey man, you should go have a good night somewhere else.” Than by being aggressive. Aggression is not a good trait and will always end up turned towards you at some point. I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:59 AM
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No. Because that wasn’t being confrontational. He was correcting bad behavior. That doesn’t happen often. ALL people should respond to witnessing someone being aggressively assaulted that way. But if a stranger smacked my ass or something and the guy I was with started a fight? I’d leave his ass there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:48 AM
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Who in their right mind is attracted to confrontational men? Jesus. Please stop this. The only time I’ve seen anything attractive about a confrontational man was once.. when I watched a man punch a woman in the face, and a friend of mine FLEW across the bar and beat the brakes off the offender. That’s the acception. Genuinely nothing more embarrassing than a man you can’t take anywhere cuz he gets in fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:40 AM
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Better works because obviously that was satire.. there’s no way people think like that and actually live among us
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:44 PM
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I spent the whole time reading that comment looking like this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:36 PM
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Because they… don’t sexualize people in their daily lives? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:35 PM
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Gonna be honest. I don’t remember what brought me to that conclusion. Cuz I don’t see it now.. maybe I got conversations confused. My bad. I think the point here is that men have privilege by default. The system attempting to correct itself from that is what makes it seem like women have privileges. But we’re just being brought to the same level. Which is why it seems like we’re getting special treatment and men are being left behind. No one’s leaving men behind. Women are just catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:34 PM
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It sounds awful No, friend. Thank you. I walk through life hoping everyone I run into is like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:52 PM
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There’s no instinctual disgust. But you can very much “do it wrong”. An emotional outburst is not “being vulnerable” and crying only turns into “like a bitch” when you refuse to actually fix the root issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:51 PM
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The replies to this are so exhausting. Of course we want our men to be capable of being vulnerable. Capable of cry. Sobbing even. What we don’t want is to have to now carry that because ole boy thinks that’s enough. Wrong. You have to also accept and grow. Change. Fix what’s wrong. Go to the therapy. You don’t get to say “I think I behave this way because my hamster died when I was 10” and then never deal with it so you just keep acting whatever way is the issue. You can cry because work is so s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:49 PM
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It takes strength to cry. It’s not easy to do. It’s what you do after the crying that makes or breaks it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:34 PM
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Crying because you’re scared of a great beast is completely different than crying cuz you opened up to me about something. Neither are off putting. You can cry while you kill the beast. I’ll even help you. I’m only put off if killing the beast suddenly becomes my sole responsibility. It’s not my beast to kill. I shouldn’t have to bear that alone. Much like if you open up to me and sob and whine and complain and then do nothing about that.. it suddenly becomes my burden to carry. Open up to me. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:33 PM
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Mine just pulls off one shoulder and I get tired of fixing it. My theory is that it’s cuz that sides boob is a little bit bigger so it grabs more fabric and over time just pulls it down off my shoulder. But who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:28 PM
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More likely to judge sex workers This isn’t my experience at all. While plenty of conservative Karens exist.. men are usually worse about it. More likely to avoid bisexual men Also not my experience. Everyone has a preference, sure. But even just recently I got in a debate with someone about this and was told that there’s no such thing as bi men. Only gay men trying to pretend they aren’t gay. And apparently this is how most men feel about it. Not sure. But it’s definitely rhetoric I hear from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:03 PM
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Are you using ChatGPT to talk to me? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:38 PM
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This just reads like you think we’re all dumb idiots who are easily made to do things we wouldn’t normally do. I just like sex. I’m glad I was born in a time when I’m allowed to do what and who I want. When I want. Has nothing to do with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:11 PM
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I think you’re oversimplifying what systemic privilege means. It doesn’t mean “every man has a good life” or “no woman ever suffers.” It means that, on average, men benefit from systems and structures historically designed around their inclusion, authority, and advancement.. even if many individual men fall through the cracks. Women face systemic barriers even when their individual lives are okay. As for scholarships, they exist to correct long standing underrepresentation, just like any form of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:00 PM
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Men are systemically privileged. But it’s a case by case basis. Just because men are over represented in high positions of power doesn’t mean individuals benefit from that.. individually. Also there actually aren’t scholarships that exist just because you’re a woman. The scholarships you’re probably thinking of are for women entering fields where they’ve been historically underrepresented, like STEM, or for first gen women or minority women. It’s not about “female privilege”.. it’s about correct…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:08 AM
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But female privilege isn’t that men are nicer to women cuz they want something. That’s not a privilege. So what is female privilege to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:36 PM
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Thank you, random citizen. But yeah I agree.. there’s a hole in this logic. Degrees are too useless for this to be a metric of measuring value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:35 PM
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Sure. But if men must want a woman with a degree in order to not be worthless.. kinda means having a woman without one (me) brings down their value. So the only men I can be with are the worthless losers who don’t mind my lack of a degree devaluing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:33 PM
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Obviously I’m referencing a specific scenario. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:31 PM
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Do you know the man who is paying for women’s lives? Can you give him my info?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:25 PM
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I think it’s weird to date someone you don’t find physically attractive. I know personality can amplify physical attractiveness.. that’s dandy.. but it has to start somewhere. You can start out cute and then end up sexy because of your personality. You’re not gonna start out unattractive “not my type” and end up sexy. Just won’t happen. If you’re ok with someone telling you they don’t like looking at you as much as they like looking at other people.. that’s all you. Imma pass on that tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:20 PM
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As a woman without a degree.. not sure where I fit into your position here. I deserve to be alone or only with worthless losers? I guess cuz I am worthless. Learn something new everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:12 PM
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I’m going to agree with you. Rape may traumatize you all at once.. but sleeping with someone you don’t really want to? That feels the same, in my experience, over time. Obviously not “I’ve been raped” but it leaves you with the same gross, awful, hollow feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:07 PM
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I’d leave him. I’ve done this. There’s too many people on the planet to be someone’s “At least she’s funny tho”. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:05 PM
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No. My ex husband was a virgin. He left me to “explore”. Give me a retired whore any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:04 PM
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Yeah.. men being nice cuz they want something isn’t really a privilege. Especially not when they’ll kill you if the being nice doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:01 PM
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It’s gotta be a “company you keep” thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:35 AM
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I’m not a misandrist. Nothing I’ve said in any of my comments has been misandrist. You’re just a conspiracy theorist and I’m not going to even try to argue with that. Also nothing about the article you linked is objective evidence. It’s far right leaning religious nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:53 AM
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Go outside. Where do yall live that you don’t see normal people in normal relationships? In basements?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:09 PM
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You just restated my point and then called it stupid. That’s not a rebuttal. That’s just you not liking that it makes sense. Biological resilience isn’t just about immune systems or lifespans.. it affects energy regulation, stress tolerance, and behavior under pressure. All things that influence academic success in structured environments. You don’t have to like the theory, but at least try to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:08 PM
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Homie what’s the point of replying just to say “you’re wrong on some points”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:06 PM
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As a race? No. As individuals? Absolutely. But not the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:05 AM
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Well in that case.. I still say there’s no friendzone. Friendzone is just base existence. It’s the man (in this scenario) who’s made it different by romancezoning someone. So there. Friendzone debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:46 PM
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So the man put her in a romanticzone and couldn’t let it go after he found out she wasn’t interested so instead of recognizing that he’s the one who made it weird.. he insists there’s some awful friendzone she put him in?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:38 PM
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There’s nothing inherently romantic about spending time with your friends? And of course it’s reciprocal. Women are actually known for being good at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:43 PM
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Friends.. are supposed to give you time and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:19 PM
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I don’t agree. I think some people are just friends. The friendzone implies there’s some chance this guy had to be with her and she intentionally denied him. But really she’s just not interested. There wasn’t a chance. If there had been.. he’d be an ex or a failed talking stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:54 PM
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Do you see where I said “overwhelmingly”? Do you see where I left space for the acceptions to the rule? But the OP did not? Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:44 PM
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Well we definitely won’t get along because I don’t believe in the friendzone. That’s just.. friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:28 PM
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I’m not equipped to reply to this. Have you ever been outside? How do yall even find these parts of the internet? A facebook chain email, perhaps? Stop eating drywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:28 PM
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(I agree.. but go outside)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:15 PM
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That doesn’t make sense. Petfinder doesn’t allow me to treat all the animals on that website like my pets? It’s a bad metaphor for a stupid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:15 PM
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Just because they exist doesn’t mean I’m keeping them as pets? Half the world’s population are men. Duh there’s options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:14 PM
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We don’t need a sci-fi question. Women survive in survival situations better than men. Commonly occurring ones. It’s documented. But yes. We are stuck with each other. Might as well be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:13 PM
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I simply don’t agree that I have to acknowledge anyone cold approaching. Ever. Obviously there are situations that require being polite.. I crash into on accident or something. But a cold approach? Never. I’m not saying I should cuss you out or anything.. but imma keep walking. Because you’re not welcome and you’re not invited into my space. I don’t have to reply. Your emotional state is not my responsibility. I don’t have to regulate you because you don’t like rejection. I don’t have to make yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:11 PM
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I’m probably more mature than a lot of the guys you’ve dated.. I know you’re not. Because of how you’re speaking to me right now. If the goal is to be seen as emotionally grounded, thoughtful, and stable, then arguing with “I’m probably more mature than the men you dated” isn’t the way to make that case. That’s the exact tone that gets dismissed… not because of your age, but because of your delivery. by 21 When I say young people are stupid.. I don’t mean intellectually. Your prefrontal cortex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:04 PM
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I’ll agree. It happens, sure. It’s uncommon. There’s this idea that young women are all secretly drawn to these imaginary rich silver foxes. It’s just not reality. And those men don’t even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:50 PM
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I am approached constantly. The only men who make me uncomfortable are the weird ones. So. I see the problem being had.. but it’s not what you think it is. Also. Why do these men feel like they have to be acknowledged anyway? I’m well within my rights to ignore anyone I want. It doesn’t have to be personal or because you’re a troglodyte. I’m hard pressed to believe that if a man said “I get approached by women constantly, it makes me uncomfortable, so I ignore them” he’d be met with anything oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:48 PM
3

This is LITERALLY not true. You absolutely have to go outside and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:42 PM
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I think.. like just as a potential.. he’s thinking about friendships that result from meeting on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:41 PM
1

…how? I don’t get meat or milk. And they aren’t fun to pet. They don’t play fetch. Can’t be taught any tricks. Super lame. But actually what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:41 PM
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The point is that young women dont want to date older men. Has nothing to do with older men’s ability to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:27 PM
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I actually really appreciate your reply. You’re right.. it is a delicate balance. I don’t think biology explains everything, and I agree that leaning too hard on it can make people feel boxed in or defeated before they try. My point was never “boys just can’t do it.” It’s that girls may have certain baseline advantages in the current academic structure that are worth acknowledging so we can better understand the gap. But I think you’re absolutely correct that the real problem is how people react…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:25 PM
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No.. I didn’t “bring up” strength and leadership the way you’re trying to frame it. I questioned why boys, who are often claimed to be smarter, stronger, and more fit to lead, are dropping out and falling behind academically. That’s not the same as saying those traits cause success. It’s pointing out the contradiction. I never said girls are physically stronger. I said girls tend to be biologically more resilient.. developmentally, neurologically, and emotionally. They handle stress more efficie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:21 PM
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The point was that our inherent ability to survive situations makes us better at sitting in school. On accident. A side effect of biology. And yes. Women survive. It’s more important to the species that we do. Kinda doesn’t matter anymore, but it definitely used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:18 PM
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And thats what the argument is about. Women do better in a lot of situations. Particularly survival situations which I’ve always found amusing but it makes sense. We can create life. Evolutionarily? We should be better at surviving. I think people forget we’re animals. That said. We were never meant to sit in classrooms. Women might be better at it but it’s only cuz we happen to excel in things that help but also have better uses outside the classroom. And just to avoid this.. Do I kinda think w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:15 PM
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You wrote all that just to prove you skim abstracts and still missed the point. I never said women are always healthier, smarter, or superior in every single way. I said women tend to be more biologically resilient. We handle stress better, we live longer, we survive infancy at higher rates, we bounce back from illness faster. That’s not a fairy tale. That’s observable. You’re the one cherry picking complexity just to flatten it into “actually men are better.” And you’re wrong about testosterone…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:06 PM
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This feels a bit like rambling. Do you have a point? Statistically, most relationships only have a couple years between them. And this post is about older men by 20 years too. Also… young men are stupid. So are young women. It’s a canon event. Your brain isn’t fully formed for a bit after you graduate high school. And young people know nothing. They think they do. But they don’t have the experience. It’s part of it. No one thinks less of youth for being young lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:58 PM
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Why are you talking about physical strength and leadership capabilities? I’m not understanding your point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:54 PM
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We’re not talking about lesbians. Keep your fallacy to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:47 PM
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What’s the point of this comment? It happens. Sure. And some guys in their 20s like grannies. Doesn’t change the fact that kids in their 20s overwhelmingly date other kids in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:24 AM
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Your side was that you could list studies to counter mine lol. You can’t or won’t. Time wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:54 AM
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So.. you claimed there were just as many studies backing your side, but you’re not going to share them because you don’t trust any of them either?? That’s not debating. That’s just admitting you walked in here with no intention of having a good faith argument. I linked actual research from peer reviewed sources. You laughed at it, declared it “not conclusive,” and now say you don’t believe your own supposed evidence either. You’ve wasted both our times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:47 AM
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Thanks for walking the nazi thing back. I wasn’t trying to start a supremacy debate. I literally said it’s not about value. It’s biology. Women tend to be more resilient in ways that have real-world effects. That doesn’t mean women are “smarter,” it means we’re better suited to thrive in structured, demanding systems like school. You’re saying those things don’t relate to academic performance, but I think they do. Not in the sense of raw intelligence, but in terms of who can show up every day, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:43 AM
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Link them. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:38 AM
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Actually there are multiple studies that show clear differences in how men and women experience and tolerate pain. A 2022 study published in the Journal of Pain found that women have more consistent pain tolerance over time than men, even when accounting for hormonal fluctuations. That completely shuts down the idea that women are too “inconsistent” to measure accurately. Another study from the University of Arizona found biological differences in how pain is produced in men and women at the ner…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:27 AM
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Actually, there kinda is. Pain tolerance’s been studied pretty extensively. Women consistently report higher pain thresholds in clinical settings and are more likely to endure long term or chronic pain without intervention. You know… like labor, endometriosis, migraines, autoimmune stuff. For years medicine underestimated women’s pain tolerance because we were socialized to downplay it, but turns out that makes us better at handling it, not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:16 AM
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The OP was about how boys are falling behind in school. I said women are biologically better built, and that maybe that’s part of why we’re outperforming them. You came in swinging with an SAT stat like that somehow disproves what I said, immediately tried to guess how I’d respond, and then accused me of reinventing nazism. I didn’t say anything remotely supremacist. I said women are more resilient. We survive infancy more. We live longer. We fight illness better. We recover from brain injuries …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:08 AM
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Wild how you came in guns blazing with an SAT math stat like I care, then immediately tried to guess what I’d say next.. as if anticipating a counterpoint somehow wins the argument. I wasn’t talking about test scores. I was talking about biological resilience, survival, and long term health. You shifted the goalpost because you had no response to what I actually said. I didn’t even mention sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:55 AM
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Perhaps we have a different idea of what an ego boost is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:49 PM
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I’m gonna argue that girls are just better. And I mean this biologically. Not a value thing. Female babies are more resilient. Females have stronger immune systems. Women live longer. Females are more resilient to starvation and famine. Women are more resistant to infection and sepsis. Females recover more quickly from traumatic brain injury. Females are more likely to survive extreme old age. Females have more stable physiology under stress. Female brains age more slowly. Greater pain tolerance…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:45 PM
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It’s not an ego boost. It only would be if the rest of our lives weren’t full of men being obnoxious. Getting matches on tinder isn’t flattering.. it’s expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:03 PM
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Yeah no. This isn’t a thing. Young women date young men overwhelmingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:58 PM
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People cannot do whatever they want even if it is within our laws.. This is a straw man. No one said people can do whatever they want without consequence. I said women can choose how to live.. just like men.. and no longer need to marry for survival. You’re reframing a statement about autonomy as if it were a claim about lawless chaos. It’s dishonest, and lazy. The struggle for survival affects men and women… Sure. That’s not a revelation. What I pointed out was that historically, survival optio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:50 AM
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Homie. I know vaginas are different sizes. I’m saying the size of tampons has nothing to do with the size of the vagina. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:35 AM
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Grew up being told to remain pure for my husband, being taught how to run a home, being told I was meant for making children to carry on my husbands legacy.. my mom told me that sex isnt pleasant for women, it’s something god put us here to do to make our husbands happy. Miss me with this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:12 AM
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You’re not debating. You’re deflecting, backpedaling, and hoping I won’t notice you still haven’t engaged with a single point I made. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:07 AM
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I’m not exhausted because your argument was too good.. I’m exhausted because it’s the same recycled logic that blames women for everything except the systems that confined them. You want to talk about survival? Great. Let’s talk about how survival used to mean marrying whoever could pay the bills.. and now.. women finally get to survive how they please. What you pulled was textbook tone policing.. If you’re exhausted, maybe you shouldn’t be debating. As if being tired of lazy arguments somehow m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:55 AM
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Oh good.. the “women consented to the system, so any complaints are invalid” argument. Exhausting. Never mind the centuries where “consent” meant “marry or starve,” or where opting out of the nuclear family meant social exile and economic ruin. You’re not pointing out hypocrisy. You’re just mad that women now have the right to choose.. and that their choices don’t always serve your personal version of “gender neutrality,” which unsurprisingly seems to still expects women to pick up the slack eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:41 AM
1

I hate this question. I know it comes with the conversation but it always feels like collecting dick sizes for some fetish. Anyway. 9”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:44 AM
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What your grandparents had sounds beautiful.. but I think that’s exactly what makes it stand out. That kind of love has always been rare. It’s not that it used to be common and now it’s gone.. it’s that back then, people didn’t talk about the marriages that were cold, resentful, abusive, or just quietly miserable. They stayed silent, because they had to. Sure divorce existed but not like it does now. It wasn’t easy and women were brutally shamed for it. Your grandfather sounds like the kind of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:20 AM
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Of course I’ve used a tampon. It’s for flow. It’s not for vagina size. Lord. I can squeeze a finger so tight they say ouch.. I wear a super plus. It’s not the size of the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:10 AM
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Yeah, women couldn’t leave. That’s not a love story.. it’s a horror movie. You’re reminiscing about marriages that lasted because women had no real way out, and calling that “fantastic.” But what you’re really mourning isn’t the loss of love.. it’s the loss of women having no choice but to love men who hadn’t earned it. You’re not upset that women have options now.. you’re upset that for the first time in history? Being a decent man is actually required. And if that reality feels unfair, maybe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:58 AM
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I dumped a man for it. After that I have turned men down for being too big. At this point I’ll ask for pictures beforehand to make sure it’ll be something I can handle. I actively have a friend I remind regularly that I prefer to maintain my structural integrity and won’t sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:21 AM
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“Some people get left behind in dating” isn’t a new crisis.. it’s just louder now because more women are allowed to say no. Not being someone’s first choice doesn’t make you a victim of feminism. It makes you a human being in a world where attraction has always been selective. Subjective. Women aren’t forming a united front to “leave behind” men.. they’re just not being guilted into settling like they used to be. If a guy doesn’t want to be passed over, it’s useless to rant about women’s empower…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:13 AM
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Nah. Ai is so good now that those ai sensing programs recognize ai where there isn’t any. I’ve written things that got flagged and been both flattered and annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:10 AM
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I think I’m maybe just willing to believe people like words like I do, but yeah. The dashes and the quote make sense. I’m gonna get better at recognizing ai for better arguments 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:49 AM
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If your question is: At what point will women be satisfied? Then you’ve got to separate that from the nonsense OP posted. You’re not wasting your time by asking a question. You’re wasting it by tethering that question to a post that devolves into “women are sad because they’re too empowered and won’t date broke short guys.” Framing societal progress as a zero-sum game where women’s gains = men’s losses is the real issue. Women aren’t pushing the goalposts out of spite.. they’re reacting to a sys…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:26 AM
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In what world is tampon size about vagina size? What on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:21 AM
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“Your dick felt bigger because I liked you” is a real phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:17 AM
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Genuine question.. how can yall tell it’s ChatGPT? Is it the dashes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:06 AM
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I didn’t ignore the question. I just didn’t pretend it was a real one. The post spirals from cherry picked stats into literal femdom erotica dressed up as sociopolitical analysis. If you think that was a genuine inquiry into women’s happiness, I’ve got bad news.. you’re not here for a debate.. you’re here for a group therapy session disguised as discourse. I’m not obligated to treat kink fanfiction like it’s a serious contribution to gender politics just because someone sprinkled in a few number…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:00 AM
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No. It’s someone’s BDSM lifestyle lol. You didn’t write a feminist utopia. You wrote what you consider the most ridiculous and undesirable thing possible and are now trying to pass it off as a kink lifestyle women collectively long for. You made a joke out of your own point and discredited yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:53 PM
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Couldn’t waterboard that little snippet out of me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:47 PM
2

Ohhhh.. is that what he was trying to say? So is the point the were keeping them from ourselves? If I’m thinking about Chad shouldn’t I be shaking with orgasms? Why am I still not getting off? Hmmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:45 PM
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Can’t tell me what I think. This is also not how debating works. Bad faith. Which is likely why you believe women don’t care about men’s feelings.. you’re wrong. Women don’t care about men’s feelings when they’re presented the way you’re presenting your debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:44 PM
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I think.. actually.. you can do whatever you want. That’s the point. If women want to be empowered and then do none of the things listed.. they can. Same way men can do whatever. What’s with the fanfiction tho? Airing out your kinks doesn’t help anyone debate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:42 PM
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Ok so this isn’t even in good faith. Ok. This isn’t how debating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:40 PM
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I mean.. I guess. “I’m really really bad at sex” just doesn’t feel like a good way to lower the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:39 PM
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I don’t think you know what emotionally available means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:38 PM
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Absolutely not. I will hold him and listen and try to help. I lose respect only when the man can’t express or deal with his feelings in a healthy way. Crying is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:38 PM
2

There’s art on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:35 PM
2

I guess I’m surprised cuz it’s not even good rage bait. It doesn’t make him look good lmao. A blatant admission that he firmly believes he’s not compelling enough to hold a woman’s attention during sex is just so wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:34 PM
2

It’s gotta be rage bait for engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:33 PM
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I don’t actually think you could be any more wrong. Is this rage bait? Tell me you’re not serious. The only thing you got right here is that most sexual encounters with men are “meh”. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:15 PM
1

I mean.. how could I possibly know? I don’t have a dick lol. Idk. It hurts. It’s shocking to have someone bottom out. It makes my stomach cramp not just my uterus. Idk. Umm.. I guess have you ever had someone give you a Charlie horse? Like punch you in the thigh with a knuckle? I guess it feels like that? Only.. on the inside. Hard to explain. Girth is fine tho. I have yet to meet a dick that was too thick.. tho I’m 100% sure they exist. Being aroused is like magic tho. A dick that’s too big won…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:50 AM
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Ask an actual question. Use more than 2 words answers. Know enough about something to be able to talk about it. Most of these dudes reply with “That’s cool” to everything and then just ask you to come over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:04 PM
3

Jeffery is absolutely beautiful. It’s almost like.. attraction is subjective. No need to be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:52 PM
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No one called you emotional instead of addressing your argument.. they pointed out that your argument was weak because it hinges on emotion, not evidence. That’s not dismissal, it’s analysis. And frankly, the fact that you keep misrepresenting what was said suggests this is more a reading comprehension issue than a logical one. You’re not being attacked.. you’re being corrected. If that feels like an attack, maybe ask yourself why. Let’s list a few fallacies you’re using while we’re here. 1. Str…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:47 PM
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Definition of ad hominem: This fallacy occurs when, instead of addressing someone's argument or position, you irrelevantly attack the person or some aspect of the person who is making the argument. No, that’s still not ad hominem. Pointing out that your emotional reaction is disproportionate to the facts is not a personal attack.. it’s a critique of the foundation of your argument. Ad hominem would be if I said you’re wrong because you’re emotional. I’m saying your argument falls apart because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:10 PM
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Hi. I am someone who could charge for sex and I’m here to tell you she could charge for sex too. Most women could. Because there’s a slew of absolutely desperate men who will do anything for attention. Also, “average” is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:08 PM
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There’s a big conversation to be had here about the effects of porn, not just the “freedom” to consume it. Porn use might not physically harm someone else in the moment, but it absolutely reshapes how men view women, sex, and even themselves. Frequent porn use.. especially the algorithm fed, extreme content most popular today.. conditions men to get off to novelty and fantasy rather than intimacy and connection. Over time, this can literally change brain wiring, decreasing sensitivity to real li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:02 PM
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Anyone can check out at any time regardless of marital status? A marriage certificate is not a gun. It’s not a prison. People leave. Constantly. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:47 PM
1

Her comment wasn’t ad hom as it didn’t attack you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:33 PM
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The pain of someone bottoming out is not pleasant at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:15 PM
1

Probably. If they were exposed to it too early. But honestly, no. But what really doesn’t help is men lying about their size. No one knows what anything is anymore anyway cuz everyone’s lying. 5” is called 6” and suddenly we forget how enormous 8” actually is. Also most dudes have no idea how big their dicks actually are because their hands are so big. You can’t gauge it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:14 PM
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Even if the issue were a lack of family and marriage.. it’s still not women’s problem to sort out 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:04 PM
2

Jeffery Dean Morgan. Lee Pace. Legolas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:00 PM
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I’m attracted exclusively to masculinity. It’s just a thing you can have/be. Sex/gender is irrelevant. See also: Rhea Ripley.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:52 PM
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A bunch. New ones all the time. I have at least two guy friends who are so beautiful to me they almost hurt to look at. The guy I’m seeing now is also beautiful.. I stare at him sometimes cuz I don’t understand how he looks like that. See also: Jensen Ackles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:40 PM
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We all have inherent value. And no, I can’t get a relationship whenever I want. Don’t write fanfiction about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:24 PM
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You know what? Hell yeah. “Find your people” is honestly genuinely great advice. But the men who complain about stuff like this don’t appreciate their people and look down on them.. thinking they should be with the Stacy’s of the world and not with the blue haired dorks who play dnd. So they rage against their enclosure and stay miserable. And truly.. the dnd community is better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:41 PM
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If it were accurate, fair, and came from a place of you communicating instead of just attacking someone who said something you don’t like.. you’d be fine. The guy who replied to this comment and called me a bitch was not being accurate, fair, or communicating. He was angry. Me finding it intriguing to watch these men pitch huge fits while refusing to actually do anything about their situations is not me being a “bitch” or a “sadist”. I do not actively wish harm on these people. I take no pleasur…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:07 PM
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That’s correct. If you don’t want to be called something.. don’t act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:00 PM
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I’m real convinced by your ad hom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:59 PM
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But see. You don’t genuinely care. Because you aren’t going to do anything to help. See? I can sit in this group and read these posts and comment on them.. but I don’t care enough to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 AM
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I’m not reveling in misery. I’m watching people actively do nothing about their problems and then complain nothings changed. If you succeed I’ll celebrate with you. And I’m not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:08 PM
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Here’s the thing. No. If you don’t want to be called an incel.. you have to not act like one. We’re adults. No one’s going to pander to anyone’s feelings. Men in this group say that to women all the time. Facts don’t care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:16 PM
1

Yeah no. I don’t cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:07 PM
2

Lmao. Don’t I wish that were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:07 PM
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Conveniently for you, this one’s tall. My last match and boyfriend of a couple months was 5’6. The one before that was 5’8. The other guy im talking to rn is 5’9. It’s not about height, bud. Height does absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:05 PM
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It’s not about being cold, friend. But we can’t baby adults. That how we end up with people who complain on reddit instead of taking hold of their lives and fixing their problems. If my children need actual help? Trust me. I’d take a life. But “wahhh.. no one likes me?” Statistically impossible and my child is the common denominator. I can’t and won’t fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:04 PM
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It’s neither. Because I’d say the same thing to my daughter. I’m not going to baby my adult children. This is what life is. If you aren’t getting what you want out of it you have to grow or you’ll die on the vine. It’s no one’s responsibility but yours. I can have all the empathy in the world for people who can’t get partners. Holding your hand and crying with you won’t help. You’re not gonna find a “oh you poor baby” here. Pick yourself up and keep walking or get left behind. We all have to. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:36 PM
4

Absolutely. And they end up alone because they haven’t/can’t experience what comes after that initial interest so they can’t fake it. Which is both hilarious and sad. I’m biased tho. My dad’s a narcissist. I’m not convinced they’re actually humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:29 PM
1

I just had this conversation with someone else. The journey should be pleasant. Stop worrying about the goal. Make the journey as pleasant as you possibly can. Listen to her. Her breathing. Her sounds. Pay attention to how she moves. Last longer than 5 minutes. Use fingers. Your mouth. But do it cuz it’s fun.. not to get to the finish line. You’ll figure it out. And she’ll call you back. People are too obsessed with orgasms. Ruins sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:34 PM
0

Imma be honest.. most of the guys I match with are just fucking boring. Has very little to do with how they look or their bio. We message and it’s just so bland and dry. So I stop. That or it’s IMMEDIATELY sexual. Gross. Boring. I’m still sleeping with the last guy I met on tinder. He was immediately hilarious and making me smile. Replied quickly. Slipped so easily into banter. Loved it. Met him the next day. But guess what? He was no better or worse looking than anyone else I matched with. Mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:28 PM
3

I’m gonna argue that it’s because they learned how to fake what chemistry looks like initially. They can’t maintain it, but they are really good at mimicking human like behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:18 PM
2

I’m not trying to get a one up on anyone. For the record, I don’t think you’re automatically not a dweeb cuz you can “pump and dump”. Go make a post about your situation and I’ll form an opinion of that one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:12 PM
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Why do you guys always try to flip the script as a “gotcha”. I’d say the same thing to my daughter. You have to do the work. If you don’t have an idea of where to start……. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:07 PM
1

Honestly. Approach or don’t. No one is genuinely put off by someone being polite. The issue is when men are creepy about it or can’t take a no. That said. It falls on the person doing the approaching to know when it’s appropriate and when it’s not. If I’m at the store, I’m almost definitely not looking for company of any kind. That’s just critical thinking. If I turned the corner and you had a slow motion moment where god told you I’m your wife.. that’s cool. But I’m under no obligation to ackno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:04 PM
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Simply replying to your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:59 PM
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If they’re desperate to get married.. that’s the advice they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:54 PM
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“Telling men what they need to hear” such as “I don’t care that you can’t get laid” and “hit the gym and develop a personality”? That’s not me rubbing anything in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:46 PM
3

I’m not punching down. Saying “I don’t care that you can’t get laid” isn’t punching down. It’s not even mean. Telling you to hit the gym and learn a skill and develop a personality isn’t me punching down. You’re not oppressed cuz you can’t pull. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:45 PM
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Not at all. No part of watching a toddler pitch a fit is sadistic. It’s just intriguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:25 PM
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Hey! I commented on that one too lmao. This sub is so wild sometimes. If they aren’t complaining about not getting laid.. they’re complaining about making women squirt too much. Lord almighty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:24 PM
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If I had a son and he couldn’t get/keep a relationship, I’d tell him the same shit I tell yall.. “work on yourself”.. I wouldnt want some woman to sacrifice her life and happiness for my son who isn’t up to snuff lol. That’s dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:23 PM
3

“Care” is a strong word. But I don’t mind adding my voice to the constant chorus of women telling men exactly what they need to hear.. so I can watch them deny reality kicking and screaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:16 PM
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Again. I just don’t think a handful of dweebs not being able to get laid is an “issue”. Not to anyone but them. I don’t see that as a sex or gender issue. It’s not a wide spread, systemic issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:06 PM
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I mean.. no. The purpose of this sub is not to talk about why losers can’t get laid and think it’s everyone else’s problem. It’s just become that. We’re supposed to discuss actual issues.. and we do sometimes. So I stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:02 PM
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Cuz that’s how working works lmao. The point is that I have a life and stuff to do. I can’t waste time wringing my hands over men’s inability to convince women they’re worth the trouble. Just like you don’t care about my bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:46 PM
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There’s no mask here. Do you genuinely care that I’m gonna have to ask for an extension on my credit card bill so I can eat this week? No. You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:42 PM
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Genuinely. Like. I have bills. I do not care about some guy getting his dick wet. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:41 PM
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