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| 1 | Is my mother in a toxic relationship? | RANT | Latter_Ostrich2875 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:55 PM |
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| 21 | I'm done with men shorter than meYeah I think a lot of people wouldn't actually care about height if it weren't for wee man syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?I think that an apology should be done with a genuine conversation and without a grand display for everyone to see. You could argue that it takes courage and humility to do that but he hasn't actually admitted to what he's done so everyone who sees that sign will just think he's sweet and romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 15 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSI was banned from a feminist sub too and when I asked why they just said “you violated our rules” I asked which one and I got blocked. There was nothing bad about my comment at all I was agreeing with everyone else there so I think it’s because I’m in this group | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 32 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueThis is so strange seeing so many other people talking about this. My father was abusive towards me and he used to pretend the lock didn’t work because he knew I had a fear of being trapped in places so I’d never lock it and he’d barge in. I had a sign up that you flip over to show whether or not someone’s using it so he knew I was in there but he still did it. I realised that the lock actually did work so I started locking it and he went nuts. He would scream and pound the door. A few times he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:51 AM |
| 20 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Wow “I don’t like talking to him” great pitch 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Are these kind of posts actually empowering?I do think it’s good so I can remind myself of who’s potentially out there and sometimes people are able to talk about experiences they had but I agree, I wish there was more inspiration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 29 | Why? Just why?When I was 17 i had a male friend who used to do this to me. He would send me disgusting porn videos saying it was a joke and then he ended up sexually assaulting me in a really similar way to the content he watched. It’s not always possible to know when a man is going to do something bad but if he does anything that creeps you out just leave, he’s not worth your safety. This kind of shit just escalates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:57 PM |
| 10 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.And they wonder why we don't like them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:27 PM |
| 32 | Why do males think it's okay to rank women?I hate it, I’ve seen videos posted like a family dancing at their wedding and someone always feels the need to point to it how he’s not attracted to anyone there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:30 AM |
| 11 | What do you all think about this?I’d want to get revenge and i want a partner who feels the same but I get why that might be a bad thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 30 | Most of that is still happening today ...Lmao I read about that and it turns out that’s how vibrators were invented and they had no clue women used them for pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:24 PM |
| 10 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessI remember when I was like 10 people kept asking me if I had a boyfriend. I said “no because I want one who’s nice and has stuff in common with me and won’t force me to cook and clean for him” they all scoffed and said I have really high standards 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:12 PM |
| 5 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanI’m scared of that too. I’m some places that’s already allowed and somewhere in America men are allowed to continue sex if a woman wants to stop at one point. I don’t want to grow up in a world where this can easily be my reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 27 | They really don't see a difference between rape and infidelityHe cares more about his “masculinity” than what his girlfriend went through. Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:49 PM |
| 17 | To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”?I agree, when people misuse labels like these it affects all of us. I am childfree and even if I did meet someone I would still not want kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 2 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offWhat the fuck? Moaning isn’t always sexual and even so it certainly isn’t an invitation to be ejaculated on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 07:27 PM |
| 8 | The new dating scam.That’s ridiculous. I’m perfectly happy to pay for myself if I go out with someone but I’m not splitting the bill, he clearly did that so he didn’t have to pay for all his food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:45 PM |
| 36 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.This is exactly why I despise football fans. I play football but don’t watch it because people get so violent over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 08:55 AM |
| 9 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳Fuck kinks. When people think crap like this is acceptable I really don’t care if I’m kinkshaming, I’ll never act like a man masturbating to pictures of injuries is ok. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:05 AM |
| 17 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Good on you, I think that’s the best way, just be content and if you run into the right person that’s a bonus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:36 PM |
| 31 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢I’m sorry you had some bad experiences, I hope you can find a partner who’s right for you. This is why people shouldn’t put pressure on aro aces to date, its not good for them or for the other person. I’m ace as well and used to think I needed to put myself into relationships, luckily I found out before I did anything too bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 13 | It finally sunk in. 50/50 is unfair.There was an AITA post the other day where a scrote let his girlfriend (who made way less than him) starve on an expensive holiday. Someone in the comments said "you can't expect financial contributions to be 50/50 if your income is not even close to 50/50" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:10 PM |
| 191 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Yep, I'd feel a lot less lonely on my own than with a man who doesn't love me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 11:53 AM |
| 9 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Ok I understand not wanting someone to live off you but if you're rich and literally letting your partner starve you need to get some fucking humanity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?It’s weird, in nature male animals will be the pretty ones who dance and do displays to impress female animals so why are men so fucking awful? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Exactly, I have mental health problems and chronic pain but I’d at least try to shower or brush my teeth, if I was too exhausted I wouldn’t even be meeting a date in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?bUt I dOnT kNoW hOw CaN yOu dO iT fOr mE? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?I don’t understand why they feel the need to do that. The amount of guys I’ve met who just fart in front of people with no reaction. Its childish when they think it’s funny but what I cannot stand is when they don’t say sorry or anything and just continue with what they were doing like an animal. One of my relatives used to fart literally every 5 minutes anywhere we went, it was worse in the car. I ended up telling him off and he went “ok sorry” so then he would fart but just open the window mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?But floss costs like £1? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!Thank you, yeah it’s really disgusting that they’re projecting their messed up desires onto children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 40 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!I was abused by my father a kid. I heard this theory when I was about 12 and was so disgusted at the idea that I would be attracted to my father. It made me feel ashamed to come forward about his perverted behaviour because I thought it was my fault, that I was attracted to him and seduced him without me knowing. It’s downright disgusting and I don’t understand why phycology schools teach this crap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 18 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!I’m sorry that happened to you. I had the same, my father was abusive and instead of being horrified by it and protecting me my family dropped me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 10 | Dr. Jess just out there spewing straight facts as usual.lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 24 | Dr. Jess just out there spewing straight facts as usual.I think we should start doing the reverse. Upload pictures of us threatening girls with weapons if they dare take our boys virtue! Wonder how these guys would react... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Beware of Male PostersTrue I’ve never seen someone here who didn’t seem suspicious acting like that. They talk the way people think we are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Beware of Male PostersI think I saw a few posts like that and I was like wtf? I know some people here have high standards when it comes to looks but it did seem really suspicious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 43 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.It’s weird how it’s ok for them to say they like big boobs but women can’t say they like big dicks. Like which one is actually necessary for sexual intercourse? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 03:13 PM |
| 92 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADI'm sick of it, anywhere else I'd be torn apart by libfems for saying that little girls shouldn't be doing things like this. They'd have no problem with creeps and say that I'M the creepy one for "sexualising" them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:27 AM |
| 36 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADPetition to make this the new word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:22 AM |
| 112 | Men need to stop complaining 😂😂True, they even live longer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’It’s sad she felt she had to ask. You should never consider even being near a person like that. I found a bunch of scrotes in the comment section saying “he’s only 21 he doesn’t know any better. Did you think everything through at that age? Just because he hopes his girlfriend gets raped doesn’t mean he would rape someone” um yes he probably would given the opportunity, he thinks it’s totally fine for someone to be violated to “teach them a lesson” and if he’s not a rapist he’s a rape apologist.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 13 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesIf a woman feels uncomfortable with a man in the room she has every right to have privacy from him. It's absolutely ridiculous that people are offended by this. Another thing, why do some men feel the need to WATCH? Not sitting by her side, holding her hand and comforting her. I mean standing opposite her staring at her vagina? My father did this when I was born and I've heard of it happening a lot and it really disgusts me. They defend it with "What's the big deal, I've seen her naked before. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:32 AM |
| 16 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesI hate this world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:21 AM |
| 97 | The nerdboy syndrome is just as toxic as the f*ckboyI always thought nerdy guys were nice and jocks were bad like in those high school movies but I actually found nerds tend to be total assholes and jocks are way more fun and down to earth. I had a friend who fit the nerd stereotype but he was really sexist and condescending, he used to talk like he was writing an essay and trying to fill up the word count to sound “smarter”, I don’t think he even knew what half the words meant he just threw them in and thought that I couldn’t understand him beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:22 AM |
| 96 | The nerdboy syndrome is just as toxic as the f*ckboyI hate that show now. As a kid I didn’t notice but now I’m disturbed by how creepy they are and how it’s made out to be funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:12 AM |
| 3 | bought myself a ring as a promise to myself to always value myself, and to stay away from men who don’t!Lovely! I want to do something like that too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Stats on how FDS is spreading compared to male tactics. They’ve been strategizing for 15 years, it’s our turn. 💪That’s a great idea! Hopefully someone starts one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 285 | 👇This gave me a good chuckle 😂 beautifully said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?As a woman who grew up having aspergers syndrome, endometriosis and anxiety problems-all of which were inherited- I can say it's not horrible or eugenic to want a child that is healthy. In my country we have free healthcare so it wasn't too bad for my mum though it probably took an emotional toll on her seeing me in pain all the time and dealing with emotional outbursts and depressive episodes. No parent wants to see their child in so much pain. In other places there's not only an emotional toll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | If he isn't putting effort into celebrating your life, leave him behind. Men like this exist.This is what I want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:02 AM |
| 3 | I have no wordsIt’s strange how he keeps calling it “talking about the birth of his son” because he isn’t focused on his son at all, he’s focused on that one upsetting moment. “You’ve made me hate the memory of the birth of my son!” Typical gaslighting. He knows fine well that’s not what he was on about he’s just saying that to guilt trip her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:53 AM |
| 11 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.Exactly! If he was single he'd do his chores himself so why is it only when she's around she needs to do everything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 69 | Worst proposal ideas 💀I hate any form of public proposals, it's just full on humiliation and peer pressure, how is that romantic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 14 | I've just read the result of a survey: "which of the followings do you consider a BONUS when looking for a male partner?"What the fuck? Bonuses? Those are basic standards not some extra special treat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 17 | Popular Canadian brand targeting teens suggesting a prostitution site in their advertising email headline. Has pandering to the patriarchy gone too far?That pisses me off so much! I don't get it, in many places girls are sent home from school for wearing crop tops yet it's all shops sell. And why sweaters? They're supposed to keep you warm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 40 | Wish I found this sub before being baby trapped.You're welcome. Sorry I misunderstood and thought you were still pregnant. It is quite difficult to leave when you have to protect your child as well. Just remember that your child is better off without a father than with an abusive one. I really hope you can get to safety soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 12 | Why is it that most milestones in life that are celebrated include a man and procreation?About a year ago I applied for college. I went in for an interview and the teacher was very impressed and told me right then that I would definitely have a place on the course. I wanted to celebrate it with my family but they all got into a fight over something ridiculous and started being rude to me. I said "Why are you doing this on my big day?" One of them sputtered and said "It's not your big day!" I replied that it was and they said that my big day can only be when I get married. Fuck you, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 57 | Wish I found this sub before being baby trapped.I'm so sorry this is happening. I was abused before too. Do you have any friends who can help you? If not there might be women's shelters in your area where you can go. If I were you I would save up money then go to another state where you can get an abortion and get away from him. If you want to talk let me know and I can message you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Gets mad at women for having “loose” vaginas when really he just has a tiny dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?Oh yeah I’ve heard of that, terrifying. Thank you, I think silicone bands would be a good idea since they won’t break as easily and can be cleaned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 5 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?I’m not fussed about the price but it does need to be something durable and strong since I have a physical job and it has to be personal in some way, maybe some symbols engraved on it that have special meaning to me. As for proposals definitely not public. As a kid I thought they were sweet but it’s just wrong. Why on earth would anyone want to ask such a big question in front of tonnes of people if not to pressure the person? Even if I loved the person I wouldn’t accept if they did that to me. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Are you proud of yourself?Thank you! I’m glad you got what you wanted too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 45 | Are you proud of yourself?My father abused me in lots of ways as a child. I left but stayed in contact and he tried to get me back. Last year I tried to apply for college which pissed him off. He started trying to convince me to live with him and bribed me with money, when that didn’t work he threatened me and when that didn’t work he spread rumours about me. Eventually I took his money... then used it to pay for my college course. I stood up to my father and cut him out for good. I have my own flat now with a little gar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 9 | Irritating Difference in Treatment of Female Anger v Male AngerI’m always called hormonal and bitchy, even when I’m not angry, people just assume I am because I don’t smile and talk in a high pitched voice 24/7. Guys can literally punch walls and it’s just “letting off steam” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 61 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.I mean most of them are the kind of guys who would never give a woman oral so we know that’s a lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:18 AM |
| 102 | I love Reductress. They cover a range of topics, I just grabbed ones I thought you all would like. 👏I love them. My all time favourite is ““don’t be so dramatic” says boyfriend who punches holes in walls” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 9 | Smelly scrotesThere was one guy I knew in one of my classes and he smelled really weird. I don’t know how to describe it, like this sour, off smell. Is it semen? I’ve smelt it on quite a lot of guys, it’s so disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 6 | A forced “Yes” is not consentThank you. That's true, no matter what we do someone will come up with some sick reason to not care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 57 | A forced “Yes” is not consentI was once pressured into sending a guy pictures when I was about 15. I repeatedly told him no but he used a bunch of manipulative techniques to make me do it. I told someone and they just told me off and said "you did it though so stop whining, it's not like you were threatened." I know it's not the worst thing but it was still violating. A forced yes is not a yes. Things they can do include: Physical force, trapping the victim. Threatening and blackmailing. Guilt tripping. Making you feel like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on reddit“bUt iTs gAy tO cOmpLiMeNt mY fRiEndS sWeAtEr” /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 45 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditI hate when they act like women not sleeping with them is oppression, like it’s the worst thing ever and they feel the need to start up a movement for their “rights” like seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Why it’s okay to make small dick jokes 🍤 🤏🏻They’re allowed to have all these useless standards for women they have sex with but we aren’t allowed to want a certain penis size- which is actually necessary for an orgasm during penetrative sex? I’m sick of all these articles saying “you don’t need to orgasm” “small penises are totally the same” they claim to be feminist but they always pander to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Women aren’t actually as complicated as men like to pretend we are. Men just benefit more from acting like morons, so they spread this narrative that women can’t be understood.What kind of gift is that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathMe too, personal space is finally respected for once | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Women aren’t actually as complicated as men like to pretend we are. Men just benefit more from acting like morons, so they spread this narrative that women can’t be understood.They say they want us to talk but then they don’t 🤦♀️ sorry you had to deal with one of those | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 13 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathI like it too, I have social anxiety and the mask helps me feel less insecure and I don’t have that awkward thing of not knowing what to do with my face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:15 AM |
| 27 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathRight! They don’t give a damn about our bodily autonomy though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:08 AM |
| 98 | Women aren’t actually as complicated as men like to pretend we are. Men just benefit more from acting like morons, so they spread this narrative that women can’t be understood.I hate constantly being called confusing. I’ve never understood what I did that was so confusing, I’m pretty straightforward. “I can’t read your mind!” Dude I’m telling you exactly what I think! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:02 AM |
| 44 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.That’s fucked up. I’m the same I’m literally unable to have kids but I’m still told “you might change your mind” like I literally can’t wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:41 AM |
| 7 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’They want us to be housewives, to cook and clean up after them and to be their broodmares, yet they degrade us if we do. What do they want from us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 64 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantDamn I knew there was something off about this. I remember since I was a kid I always watched nature documentaries and it weirded me out how the males would be the pretty ones who put in all the effort to impress the females but with humans it’s women who are expected to look beautiful. Why did it get reversed? If guys are going to bang on about biological roles maybe they should consider wearing makeup and vibrant clothes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieI love how lvm will say they NEED a thin blonde woman with a big butt and boobs but when we say we need a big dick they freak out. Like which is actually necessary here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 10 | To counteract liberal feminists and beta males trying to manipulate us into thinking "dad bod" is the hottest male form, we will be instituting one day a week to post photos of actual hotties! Let us know what we should call it!Weak knees Wednesday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 8 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKESame. My father was just like this. It never got better, it’s important to leave right away when things are like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 18 | TikTok is grooming teenage girls to be okay with sexual violenceGrowing up I actually thought that was normal. My friends would talk about choking and hitting and say that I was weird for thinking that was horrible. I’m not interested in sex and it makes me wonder if maybe that’s because people convinced me it was all about violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 10 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!“Your standards are too high!” “...Good.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?I must say you're an awesome parent! I'm glad you're teaching her right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?I don’t know if you are ok using swear words but I always got called a bitch when I was confident | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:07 AM |
| 20 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.There’s this guy I know who’s a nutter, if I ever see him again I’m going to call him bitchy and moody 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthOh that sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 15 | Once again, from the horse’s mouth“Men don’t seem ugly without makeup because they’ve never been told they needed it to be beautiful” His response is amazing though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:04 PM |
| 5 | To those who refer to FDS members as “femcels/female incels”... 🤣I saw on one of those posts that they think we’re a hate group just like incels. Wtf we just discuss sexism don’t want to date awful men, incels seem to hate all women and they have incited terrorism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:12 AM |
| 9 | wow.I really hope they both get out of there because that kind of behaviour, the casual name calling is not a safe environment to be in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 5 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.Damn where is this place? I want to go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:26 AM |
| 39 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.True. I thought at first maybe it’s so they don’t overheat but surely a vest on top can’t be that bad, or a sports bra that has fabric covering the stomach? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 138 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Yeah how come male athletes wear a vest and shorts and women basically get underwear? I guess a sports bra is understandable but why no shorts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:32 AM |
| 83 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreHoly shit someone used to say this EXACT same thing to me. “I never said you’re... I said you’re being...” he would always insult me and then say that. I didn’t realise this was a common thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 13 | I felt this. Love and life are so much more than your relationship status.I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 50 | I felt this. Love and life are so much more than your relationship status.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 7 | 'It is what it is'. This is dismissive at best, gaslighting at worst.The fuck? Why would someone leave shit on the floor for days in a house they live in? I would get it if the person was just gross and couldn't be bothered cleaning up but she has food poisoning and can't do it herself. You're supposed to look out for each other | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:07 AM |
| 46 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)Of course he thinks women don’t enjoy sex. Absolutely ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 179 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!Imagine being uncomfortable seeing someone sitting without a date, the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 16 | On today’s episode of MEN (TM) fetishists ruin EVERYTHING. 🤢🤢It pisses me off so much. We can’t do ANYTHING without them sexualising us. I posted a photo on a body positivity site once about not shaving. All that was visible was some leg below the knee and my shoes. After I posted it I had tonnes of guys with porn all over their accounts following me and sending me private messages. Like wtf I posted it to spread body positivity and to rebel against sexist social norms not for some creeps to get off to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Would love to see your additions 😂I know some people like that too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 14 | Would love to see your additions 😂Over-Emotional-Bitch by The dudes who punch holes in walls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | You don't owe your family marriage and grandkidsI thought that way too. People pushed that on me until I just went with it. Growing up I was constantly thinking that I would get married at 30 and have kids. I never desired that or even thought about it properly and when I did I realised I hated it. It was just something I thought everyone had to do. You’re right, no one has to follow those expectations if they don’t want to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 82 | Just a reminder, LV/NV men only see you as an extension of themselvesThey always talk about locking up their daughters but never their sons... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 21 | This will never not be funny.And they think if you can’t understand them it means your an idiot rather than them not knowing how to use words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 14 | This will never not be funny.Ugh met tonnes of them. And whenever I call them out on it they go “oh clearly I’m too sophisticated for those like yourself to comprehend what I am reciting” they make it out like I’m the dumb one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upI love how a high value woman in his eyes is “young, fit, attractive, friendly, fertile and adventurous in the bedroom” and he’s criticising us. Like we want a man who treats us with fucking respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 57 | Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting.I hate that “tight” thing. It’s not normal it means she’s not aroused and probably isn’t enjoying herself at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 13 | I am BOILING. Ad that came up on my fb feed. A five year old with eye bags that need correcting?? The grooming starts so young. Thankfully they got dragged in comments.Eye bags? Are they serious I can’t even see them. And people wonder why women are so insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 14 | The increasing number of men such as him scare meThat's so ridiculous. If that's what they think shouldn't they be asking "why do humans orgasm at all, why don't men just ejaculate after a few seconds with no pleasure?" I feel like they know how stupid they sound but they are just trying to come up with excuses as to why they can't be bothered giving their partners an orgasm. Yes that's an excellent point! I had heard about some of that but not about penises being clitorises before the chromosome. That makes a lot more sense. They always want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:31 AM |
| 28 | The increasing number of men such as him scare meHow is that even a question? “Do women need to orgasm” what the hell? If we weren’t supposed to orgasm then why would it be possible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 7 | What are some physical/“sex-life” related red flags you’ve developed after encountering FDS?•when the guy don’t make sure she feels good. He should watch and check in to make sure she likes it, if she doesn’t he should ask what to do. It’s disgusting the amount of people who act like that’s weird. •when he only gets involved in sexual activities for HIS pleasure: head, handjobs, sex, etc but he would never do that for her. •If he puts pressure on a woman to have sex until she says yes. That’s not really consent, it’s coercion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:08 PM |
| 70 | Ofcourse she cleans this..My father actually did the same thing, he used to piss all over the place but luckily my mum left. It’s sad how women are brainwashed into thinking cleaning up after a repulsive excuse for a man is normal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:01 AM |
| 13 | Hint; this is done on purpose. It's not that men/grown boys can't aim, it's an assertion of dominance over women.Why can’t men just SIT DOWN. Absolutely manky, I knew they had to be doing it on purpose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Don’t be meIt's okay, you didn't do anything wrong. Lots of people fall victim to abusive relationships and struggle to get out. Abusers are very manipulative and make you feel like you aren't your own person. Don't feel bad. There's this metaphor I heard to describe abuse and it helps me when I blame myself for staying: Domestic abuse is like boiling a frog. If you drop a frog straight into a pot of boiling water it will hop out. If you put a frog into a pot of cold water it stays, as you gradually increa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:27 PM |
| 14 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"I had the same thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:27 AM |
| 36 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"It’s weird, how come the incel subs which promote violence are more accepted than this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:26 AM |
| 35 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"I got banned from a feminist subreddit too. It was just a regular post and I was agreeing with it like everyone else in the comments and I got permanently banned for no reason. I asked the moderator to explain why I was banned. They said “you have violated community guidelines, no further communication is wanted.” I didn’t violate any guidelines and asked them to look at my comments again. I got blocked. I didn’t get why because there were no arguments, anything. The OP said porn is full of viol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:24 AM |
| 3 | A first in Aoetearoa (New Zealand): Man convicted of rape after he removed a condom partway through intercourse without a woman's consent. 👏🏼👏🏼Lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 15 | A first in Aoetearoa (New Zealand): Man convicted of rape after he removed a condom partway through intercourse without a woman's consent. 👏🏼👏🏼I’m so glad he’s been convicted. It’s disgusting. Why are so many men so insistent on not wearing condoms? I don’t understand it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 11 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever readSo many people seem to believe this. When I was in high school we did a class on sex education, consent, etc and we had to organise cards with scenarios on them into categories: rape/unsure/not rape. One said “a man forcing his wife to have sex when she’s said no” a bunch of people put it into the “not rape” category. When asked to explain they said “but if you got married that’s what you signed up for. You have to do it.” These were teenagers and many of them were girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:05 AM |
| 27 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENAll of my life I’ve been harassed by people about whether or not I had a boyfriend yet . The pressure really started when I was 12 and everyone around me was dating. I was called weird and some people told me I should just date people despite feeling nothing towards them because it’s mean to reject someone. I was called heartless and that I would be miserable, by peers, adults and family. All my friends were miserable when they dated these boys. They got used and broke up every week. I’m in coll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 62 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?I don’t use Linkedln so I can set up an account and no harm done. Let’s fuck him up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:09 AM |
| 4 | Stop mourning awful men dying.I hate how people say “but he didn’t deserve to suffer from *insert cause of death” the people he abused didn’t deserve to suffer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 11 | It do be that wayYeah, I’m so sick of it. The constant “what about men?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...I’m going to throw up. How do we get rid of it? I can report the posts and users but I don’t know how to report the whole subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.That’s disturbing. Wtf is going through his head? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:14 AM |
| 42 | It do be that wayLmao this is true for so many things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:48 AM |
| 13 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Growing up I was told that's just what men are like. I was forced to clean up after my abusive father and cook for him and everyone would say how cute it was. Society thinks a 5 year old girl is more responsible and suited to housework than a 30 year old man and it's absoloutley disgusting. People brainwash us into thinking that this is the ideal way to live. Never date a man who does not look after himself, it starts off as him asking you to do the dishes and then before you know it you're clea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 12 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMHoly shit I thought I was the only one who noticed this, it's been bugging me for ages. My stepdad always walks faster than my mum, me and my brother or at least walks in front of us. Sometimes we stop perhaps if we need to sit down and he will continue walking, he will walk way ahead. It makes me so angry because I've noticed it's nothing to do with a quick pace, I was once out with them on a walk on a very narrow path so we all had to walk in single file and i walked ahead, only by a few metre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Women exist only for male pleasure...🤢🤢Well if we were actually provided with clothes made of thick material this wouldn’t happen...but you want us to wear skintight see through clothing don’t you? Oh wait I forgot, even though these clothes turn you off but you also want us to wear them you would also call us sluts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:35 PM |
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