LaughingDead_KC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Tips and advice concerning family court?	Edu./Occu.	LaughingDead_KC	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 04:24 PM

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12	As a woman, what’s something I might not understand about the struggles men face? It cost me 10 years and nearly a quarter million dollars to gain custody of my daughter. I have raised my near-adult little girl almost entirely by myself, and when I went to back-to-school night last week, Every. Single. Teacher. asked if mom was busy that day. The paperwork for a man to receive child support doesn't exist in my county, so I had to list myself as the mother and her as the father. This entire world finds it strange, unusual, and wrong that a father is a major part of their kids'…	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 10:50 AM
18	Do you think it's right for feminists to use men's rights issues to support their ideology? Just point out the fact that you stated gay men are persecuted more often and her response was that women are the victim of the story.	/r/MensRights	25/04/25 09:10 AM
3	What do men want to know about each other? I think you're putting way too much thought into it, honestly. I work 72 hours a week and spend far more time raising my daughter. I don't care what category a bunch of strangers decided I'm in. It's not important. Am I an alpha, or a beta, or a gamma or a theta or a delta? Sure, why not, whatever people need to call me to make themselves feel better and leave me to my task. I believe most men feel the same as I do about it. At best, these questions are distractions that take valuable time away …	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 10:00 PM
3	What do men want to know about each other? I understand the concept, I just can't imagine anyone having so few problems that this ever comes to their attention.	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 06:42 PM
22	What do men want to know about each other? This is a joke, right? I don't think I've ever met a dude who's so bored in his life that he worries about his 'alpha-ness' or his place on the pecking order. Every man I've ever met sees it as "This is where my life is, this is where I want it to be, this is what I'm doing to get there."	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 05:59 PM
1	Are men more likely to commit suicide because they are better able at violence? Well I mean.... we typically use the right tool for the job. Like others here have said already, it's a matter of intent. If someone really wanted to do it, it wouldn't be called an attempted suicide. Men use more lethal methods because the desired result is an end, not attention.	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 01:28 PM
1	I’ve forgotten how to cry Don't feel bad, we all forgot how to cry. It's nothing to cry about ;)	/r/MensRights	05/09/24 01:22 PM
2	Victim of FB are we dating the same guy Maybe don't date strippers?	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 09:09 PM
3	Am I the problem? Explain to him that you have reservations about throwing away your livelihood for a promise that can be broken, and is in fact broken around 60% of the time, statistically. That's one hell of a risk. It's not about taking someone's stuff, it's a matter of "if this goes belly up, I am heartbroken, homeless, unemployed, and depending on the length of time away from work, unemployable." School or training may be required for you to jump back into your profession, which means you'll be feeding and h…	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 12:19 PM
1	Any of you ever had your partners "take the kids" to stay with their family/friends for a while? Yeah, that was almost 10 years ago now. Time does seem to heal most wounds. My attorney was my superhero through the whole thing. Thanks to his tutoring over those 20 months and his performance in court, I was awarded 28 days a month custody and a comically small amount of child support. Me and the kids are doing pretty fantastic these days, after I won sole custody back in January 2024.	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 01:21 AM
100	Am I the problem? So I've been mulling this over for a bit, trying to figure out the words to explain it. Promise I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but people seem to think "being husband and wife" and "legal marriage" are the same thing. They are not. Legal marriage is a LEGAL contract, meant to establish the merging of property. THIS IS THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE IN THE LEGAL SYSTEM. This contract is intended to be permanent, "til death to us part." Marriage contracts are often accompanied by a second legal co…	/r/MensRights	06/08/24 08:55 PM
3	Any of you ever had your partners "take the kids" to stay with their family/friends for a while? I learned pretty early on that in court, if you can't prove something happened then it didnt, so I documented everything thoroughly. When she was called to testify, my lawyer asked her "did you say xxxxxxxx on this day at this time when [me] tried to pick up the children?" "No" He then played the dashcam video of her doing that thing Then he asked a similar question, she said no, and he forced her to read the texts. Then again, with a recorded phone call, then again, then again. 8 hours the firs…	/r/MensRights	06/08/24 07:20 PM
4	Any of you ever had your partners "take the kids" to stay with their family/friends for a while? Police are more likely to intervene if the dad takes the kids, but they typically don't wanna get involved if there's no proven danger. This is a contempt case for civil court, which is a "good luck with that" situation for men. My attorney had to threaten lawsuits to make the police enforce my custody order.	/r/MensRights	06/08/24 02:58 PM
5	Any of you ever had your partners "take the kids" to stay with their family/friends for a while? Went almost 2 years without seeing my children. What my lawyer did to her in court wasn't even pleasant for ME.	/r/MensRights	06/08/24 02:39 PM
11	Holyshit guys It's possible that the presidential election will turn to Men vs Women controversy It's not really going to make much difference in the election, and there won't really be much controversy. Republican women won't change teams just because it's a female candidate, and Democrat men won't switch sides because it's Trump. As far as anti-men, pro-women propaganda appearing.... you been sleeping under a rock the past decade, bro?	/r/MensRights	22/07/24 12:23 AM
2	I might get fucking flamed but I need to know how worried I should be. Always dig deeper into their past relationships; they are the common factor in all of them. A woman's past can often tell you your future.	/r/MensRights	09/07/24 03:27 PM
7	I might get fucking flamed but I need to know how worried I should be. Hope you learned something. It's amazing. Dudes will know everything about a sandwich before putting it in their mouth, but the only prerequisite for putting their dick in a woman is "she didn't say 'no.'" Your standards for women should not be lower than your standards for a cheeseburger. Curious... did you know she accused these other men of rape "just for funsies" BEFORE sticking your dick in her 3 times?	/r/MensRights	09/07/24 12:28 PM
2	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. I wanted to address something you said above, concerning inner strength. Jaffar said it best, "you'd be surprised by what you can live through" We humans are far more durable than we know, in mind and body. All we need is an excuse to not die. Thank you for this conversation, friend. I've got some errands to run, but I appreciate the dialogue. Perhaps the left has their own loud idiots, too, making the rest of you look bad. I'll shoot you a DM so we can continue this discussion in our own time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 10:42 PM
2	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. Perhaps naive, perhaps not. My case is more average than one would think. Having someone there to light that fire certainly wouldn't hurt. But again, difficult to do on a large scale. Forums and subreddits provide a venue for that, as well as the youtubes. A hindrance to those venues would be, as you and I demonstrated earlier, is the widespread assumption that groups like the right and left, mgtow, and various others are villains and should be exterminated. Open-minded dialogue such as this wou…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 10:31 PM
1	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. The real world kicked the absolute SHIT out of me, and nobody cared. That's when I got off my ass and saved myself.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 10:13 PM
2	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. You're probably not gonna like my answer. https://www.reddit.com/r/SingleDads/s/YhEFXbVZZ7	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 10:07 PM
2	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. I think the best method is probably somewhere in-between both extremes. Take some of the harshness out of the world while simultaneously building up boys' emotional defenses. I couldn't even begin to decide how to do that in the macro, across an entire society. But in the micro, a father teaching a son... that's manageable. A thousand fathers teaching a thousand sons, well that's a small town. A million fathers teaching a million sons.... I think we can probably both agree that changing the fami…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 10:00 PM
0	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. Well, take this post for example. Reading through it, it's nearly identical to things I've read on my usual subs. But to me, it just comes off as a bit naive. Probably because of the experiences I've had throughout my life. Fundamentally, it's my belief that a man should be the pillar of his family. The one immovable point that everyone can anchor themselves to. Yes, it's tragic that men can't show weakness or emotion, but it's also a necessary part of being that pillar. My children slept peacef…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 09:09 PM
2	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. In regards to this topic, I'd say we (left vs right) disagree on the solutions, or perhaps the methods. We have the same destination, but don't believe in the same path. Honestly I think the biggest issue in many situations is the whole "left vs right" part of it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 08:50 PM
2	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. Thanks for not downvoting me into oblivion, lol. I'm not left wing, but reddit suggested this subreddit because of all the other men's/father's rights subs I visit regularly. I think it's wise to hear all sides of a story, so a person can make an informed decision. I'd say both sides of the aisle seem to agree for the most part, at least on the topic of men's/father's advocacy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 08:45 PM
8	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. Yeah, there's always a bunch of loud idiots making the whole group look bad. They don't speak for everyone, they just happened to be the ones speaking loudest. Most of us don't even consider ourselves mgtow because it implies that we're part of some club. The few online spaces I visit are around 20% bitching, and that's mostly guys who are currently getting destroyed. We don't hate women either. Well, MOST of us don't hate women. Again, loud idiots. The majority of our anger is toward our younge…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 07:55 PM
9	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. I am curious and want to understand, what is bad about mgtow? I'm under the impression it's just dudes saying "screw this, I'm out" about dating, women, politics, pretty much everything.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 06:50 PM
1	I think it's high time we teach men to be independent and support each other. THIS	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 06:42 PM
2	Paternity Tests Should Be Destigmatized. Why do you think Women are still so against it? Is it Paternity Fraud reasons? According to the US National Institute of Health, around 28% of paternity tests are concluded "not the father." It's important to note that this only includes babies that are actually tested and not the entire population, which could be either higher or lower than this statistic. It would also be irresponsible not to mention that this statistic comes from 2006, and may not reflect current times. As for the "why," there are likely as many reasons as there are humans on the planet, but here's a ve…	/r/MensRights	10/06/24 03:20 PM
2	today I realized a brutal truth about males in todays world…nobody cares about us and i broke down in tears earlier Dust yourself off and get back to living, man. Take pride in having the fortitude keep going despite the indifference of the world, and get some swagger about you, because everything you've done, you've done without any fuckin body else's help.	/r/MensRights	07/06/24 12:04 PM
1	Why do Marxist feminists not allow men to discuss loneliness? The fact that women didn't have the right to vote 70 years ago. It's a serious issue that requires all of the world's attention 100% of the time. We must not rest until something is done about this!	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 03:20 PM
1	Trying to understand this a bit myself but from a more holistic perspective why would a man on the top rather either add hurdles to a man on the bottom of hierarchy or worse, be completely apathetic to his hardships and turmoils? You're not too far off. It's not so much "throwing people under the bus" as it is "not my problem." At least in the median income range. I work 60 hours a week, earning just over the average income for my age. I am a single father with sole custody living in a major city. I simply can't afford to worry about anyone's situation but my own. If I see someone struggling or down on their luck, I do feel bad for them. But I can't do anything for them but feel bad, and that doesn't help anyone. I do wo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/24 09:13 PM
31	Why do Marxist feminists not allow men to discuss loneliness? "Other problems make my problems less important."	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 05:13 PM
-6	Why do Marxist feminists not allow men to discuss loneliness? This is like saying all MGTOW are Andrew Tates. I'm personally against Marxism but I can tell a crocodile from an alligator. We are all free to dislike both, but at least be fair enough to hate each for their own teachings.	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 04:20 PM
198	Why do Marxist feminists not allow men to discuss loneliness? Because if you're talking about our problems you're not talking about their problems.	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 03:29 PM
6	Are there any content creators in this field that aren't gigantic pieces of human garbage? We all owe that bear a drink, taking one for the team.	/r/MensRights	17/05/24 09:54 PM
11	Are there any content creators in this field that aren't gigantic pieces of human garbage? Because it doesn't NEED said. It's common sense, and preaching about it only comes off as condescending and antagonistic. Do you really think we view our own daughters as "the enemy"? Hell, we've got a ton of women right here in this subreddit who watched their fathers, brothers, uncles, friends or sons' lives ripped apart. Do you think we call THEM enemies? Look, this is a subreddit for discussing men's rights and helping eachother through the worst possible moments of our lives. This is not a …	/r/MensRights	17/05/24 08:37 PM
5	Are there any content creators in this field that aren't gigantic pieces of human garbage? Strong Successful Male has 3 channels on YouTube that's probably what you're looking for. It's not as cheesy as it sounds. Also, read the room, dude. You came into a subreddit specifically for men who are going through hell with their exes to say "women aren't our enemy." Yes, We know there are good women, but those aren't the ones we are dealing with here. Everyone here is hurting and pissed off about their situations, so kindly take your preaching somewhere else.	/r/MensRights	17/05/24 07:15 PM
4	Shes a single mom. She dates — but she doesn’t date single dads. I understand keeping your dating life away from your kids, I do the same. My daughter was really attached to a girl I was with for 5 years, it tore her up pretty bad when things went south. Never doing that again.	/r/MensRights	27/04/24 05:08 PM
15	Shes a single mom. She dates — but she doesn’t date single dads. "Men are evil if they take any custody from the mother. Also, men are deadbeats if they don't have custody of their kids"	/r/MensRights	27/04/24 04:58 PM
25	Shes a single mom. She dates — but she doesn’t date single dads. Single dad with sole custody of my daughter. We do exist. I don't date single moms because I've seen what happens when those situations end. My friend raised someone's kids for a decade and it killed him to lose those kids.	/r/MensRights	27/04/24 04:55 PM
14	Why so many decent single men are single I was genuinely offended for like 7 whole seconds after reading that. Truth hurts, I suppose. To be fair, "body count" wasn't even a thing in 2006 small town Missouri. The sluttiest high school hoe had only slept with 3 or 4 dudes by graduation. Average was one or two, with a big portion being virgins because "God burns all the whores" But yes, I was raised by a single mother, taught that if a woman cheats, I did something wrong, and that the mother wins custody 100% of the time. I was raised to…	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 08:13 PM
27	Why so many decent single men are single Borderline Personality Disorder. Diagnosed by 3 different professionals and hasn't filled a single prescription since 2008. Arguably the craziest a person can possibly be without a hugyerself jacket. Good news is, me and the kid haven't heard from her once after the judge gave me sole custody of my daughter back on Jan 3rd of this year. Been peaceful. I think it legitimately burned away all desire for romantic connections, put me in a place where I won't allow anyone into a position to even cons…	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 05:49 PM
1	Why do women gossip about such intimate details of a relationship. It's for competition. Who has the richest husband? Who gets the biggest dick every night? Who knows what they're doing down there? Etc etc.	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 02:23 PM
77	Why so many decent single men are single I don't even waste my time dating. Been approached by a handful of women the past few years and none of them had a decent answer for the question "why should i bother?" Been even more offers since I got custody of my daughter but I can't find any excuse to actually agree to a date. I think that part of me is just gone now.	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 01:20 PM
72	Why so many decent single men are single Upvote for using the word "amok" after 1913, demonstrating the beauty and versatility of the English language.	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 01:00 PM
508	Why so many decent single men are single 7 years with a cheating wife who refused to get a job and spent on average $150 more per week than I earned, threatening to take my kids if I make her mad. $106,000 on 2 cases in custody court over 10 years. 2 years without seeing or speaking to my kids, because I refused to sign paternal rights away. My mother paying my ex's lawyer to take my kids from me. All the females in my family telling me I deserved it all because I'm a man. My ex throwing my son out in the street, and convincing him it'…	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 12:12 PM