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| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!Dating apps subscriptions and photoshoots are a waste of money if you're not attractive enough. That was definitely the biggest waste of money for me. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in MallsMy fault | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in MallsAre you sure that's flirting? I've had similar interactions, but they're definitely not flirting. It seems like they're just bad socially with strangers and get nervous a lot of those times. It's probably not a good idea to immediately claim it's flirting when it's most likely some sort of social anxiety. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in MallsHow do you know that she thinks you're hitting on her? | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in MallsYour mind is stuck at not being a man looking I'm not sure what this means What’s wrong with it? Women think it's creepy | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 08:38 PM |
| -2 | I am really worrier,i am 22 and i never had a relationship or had sexHope doesn't mean much | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 04:20 AM |
| -1 | I am really worrier,i am 22 and i never had a relationship or had sexThen why are you commenting on a seduction sub? | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?Even better: Don't approach women and avoid them as much as you can That will ensure you're never creepy | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching in MallsThis is why I avoid private property and stick to doing everything outside in public on the street I avoid approaching women altogether. There's also dangers to approaching women on the street. In public you can do and say whatever you want without getting in trouble That's not true at all | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsif he just walks around and asks random women “do you wanna fuck?” That's creepy | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching in MallsThat's a creepy thing to ask a woman | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:39 AM |
| 2 | I am really worrier,i am 22 and i never had a relationship or had sexIf it even happens | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:38 AM |
| 3 | I am really worrier,i am 22 and i never had a relationship or had sexI followed the same advice, and I'm still a kissless virgin. And I'll continue the same way if I keep following this advice | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I'm a beginner and need adviceYou're lucky you're attractive and received looks from women. Ugly short guys like me don't get that | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm a beginner and need adviceOnly if the guy is already good-looking. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The mindset you may need to cold approach women.How so? I'm sympathizing with her. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:03 PM |
| 0 | The mindset you may need to cold approach women.I started being cold approached only recently, Sorry that's happened to you it happened a couple of times and I loved it, it made my day I don't see how that's a good thing Do it in a place where many people are present so she doesn't feel threatened. Or don't do it at all Never approach with sexy or flirty comments, especially if she doesn't want to communicate this with her style Never approach with sexy or flirty comments, especially if she doesn't want to communicate this with her style. Tha… | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 02:42 AM |
| 0 | How should I approach a girl in the gymNo haircut or money will save me. Why would money matter when women can make money? | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How should I approach a girl in the gymThe good thing is, there are various ways you can make yourself more attractive. There isn't for me | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach a girl in the gymThat's why I don't try, I'm not attractive enough to try | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?Yes you will still have to approach them Sounds like it makes no difference then | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?The chicks will come No, they won't | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 12:27 AM |
| 2 | How should I approach a girl in the gymWhy would I ever want to approach anyone there? Because mainstream thinking states that it's creepy | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?What age do you consider someone a "grown ass man"? | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?Youve got a good ways to go before youre a "grown ass man." What age would you consider someone a "grown ass man"? | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a moveWhenever guys make these kind of posts, they should post how attractive they look so it won't be misleading. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a moveYep, too bad I was given terrible height, race and face genetics at birth | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?The best way to get a woman interested in you is to make her think that you didn’t notice her or aren’t interested. That's bs, I do this with everyone, and women never have shown interest in me. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I can't approach any girl, any advice?I always feel like the ugliest human being alive, like I have 0 masculinity, like I am just nothing more then a genetic failure, that no girl can ever like me, and i always thought that no matter what no matter how much I try to look better dress better stay in shape it's just pointless, girls are genetically wired to not feel any sexual desire That's me, except I'm actually a genetic failure where women have zero desire in me. It's mostly cause i always had awfull dating life, Same, I've never … | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else not know if they are attractive or not?I know for a fact that I'm undesirable/unattractive. I'm 26, and I've never been on a date or been kissed, and I definitely have never been approached or shown signs of interest from a woman. Dating apps were a complete waste of time, money, and energy (the money part was from hiring a photographer to get my pictures taken for my profile). Can't make a profile look good if the guy in the profile is undesirable. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 08:23 PM |
| 13 | Did my first true cold approach and oofBrutal | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with the amount of rejection you get as a man?You don't cope, you just give up and accept defeat. That's what I did, I've accepted that I'm a loser and will always be a loser in the eyes of women | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 05:52 AM |
| 7 | AI girlfriends are ruining an entire generation of menbut that’s not only what incel as a concept is anymore. It’s much more a hatred of women No it's not, you people just like twisting the definition of words to fit your own little agendas | /r/MensRights | 01/10/23 05:38 PM |
| 42 | Campaign: complimenting a woman, asking for her number, or giving her any attention is regarded as predatory in the off-chance it is unwanted. At some point, even a cynic should wonder if the purpose is simply to demonize men.That's why I just assume none of them want me since I'm an ugly manlet. Too much risk to even compliment a woman now | /r/MensRights | 29/09/23 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?No, it's like buying a lottery ticket knowing you won't win. You already just know it, and what do you know, you didn't win. Had a guy purchased a lotto ticket with confidence, and it wouldn't have made a difference. | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?What parts are made up? | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?this constant crying and self loathing is becoming absurd and you're just bringing down everyone else in here. Is presenting another side of the argument considered absurd now? and you constantly just tell everyone to give up and that nothing is possible Not everyone should give up, only some | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 08:08 PM |
| -1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?I bet you feel regret when you don't approach someone you were attracted to. I used to, not anymore though. Now I've trained myself to avoid looking at women and if I do end getting infatuation over one, I just tell myself that she's most likely already taken and she wouldn't want me anyways as she can do better. | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?No, but I can make an mostly accurate assessment from a situation based upon the available evidence to support the situation at hand. | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Of course nothing resonates with me, I'm a kissless virgin with no dating experience It’s clear that you have limiting beliefs and a low sense of self worth and no confidence at all What makes you say that? id suggest looking into therapy or coaching to help fix your mental game No offense, but how is that going to help at all? | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?It’s completely fine when she wants you to touch her and allows you to touch her and doesn’t back away. That's never going to happen with me, though as I'm an undesirable manlet. Unless I pay for it, but that's about it. | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:50 PM |
| -2 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Press charges will never happen unless you physically assault or touch a girl but nobody does that anyways unless you’re a complete and total moron Yep, that's I will never touch another woman | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Ok | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:40 PM |
| -1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Man, you risk humiliation every time, who cares Me Pressed charges? Yeah, if you're out of your mind, maybe Ever heard or false accusations? Rep destroyed? What are we talking about here, you're just asking a girl out for a drink or her number. She says yes or no thanks and life moves on. But sometimes life doesn't move on. The woman can decide to say the guy was being creepy when he asked her or he made her feel uncomfortable when he asked her, etc. Then the guy will become known as the creep. … | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:32 PM |
| -2 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Risk humiliation, you risk being pressed charges against you, you risk having your reputation destroyed, many other things can go wrong | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?What if you already know/can accurately predict the answer will be a "no"? | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:17 PM |
| -1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?No | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?You actually do | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Whose? The parents who decided to procreate and have an ugly child that would be set up to fail in his 20s and 30s dating life? | /r/seduction | 08/09/23 01:46 AM |
| 6 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Is that your next cop out answer? Emotional > Physical So you're telling me women don't have physical attractiveness preferences? You're telling me all those women that prefer taller men are liars? Wtf are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Well, it’s not assholes and jerks is it? I said physically attractive, why do you keep bringing up personality traits when I said "physically attractive"? Lol that's women cop out answer always | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 08:32 PM |
| 3 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:What's attractive to you has a high chance of being physically attractive to most other women | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Doesn't take away the fact that you'd still friendzone the non attractive manlet just because he's not hot | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 4 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Lmao, right | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 06:45 PM |
| 0 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR LOOKS. It does You are failing miserably with women BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO BOUNDARIES. So women friendzone you and some use you Do most women friendzone the tall, attractive looking Adonis male? Probably not | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 04:37 PM |
| 5 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:I promise you that when you improve yourself, your life improves as well, and you become a person that attracts others. Becoming a beautiful garden depends only on you, do what you can with what you have, you are the gardener of your own life. You're still playing along with that massive cope even though that guy stated his 30s were worst than his 20s. What are you going to say next? His 70s are his prime? Lmao | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 04:36 PM |
| 8 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:once you hit 30 you'll notice a really strong shift in your attractiveness towards women, they'll start to be interested in you by the dozen No it doesn't happen to every guy, that's terribly misleading As for your current situation, here is my advice: Focus on yourself, stop chasing girls, start hitting the gym, read books, find something you are passionate about and persue it with discipline You forgot to mention: Give up on dating completely | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?Don’t blame women for not liking you when you can just work on yourself and improve your chances. I'm not blaming women, I'm just saying I'm undesirable to them. And no, I can't improve my genetic looks. | /r/seduction | 03/09/23 04:04 AM |
| 2 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youI'm not saying everyone has experienced it, I'm saying it's not true that it only happens for really attractive guys Sure, there's some component of luck to it. But that sort of luck is akin to winning the lottery. and you might get lucky as well I don't think I will | /r/seduction | 02/09/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?The genetic component of hotness is actually your pheromones. They can smell how strong your immune system is and how compatible it is with theirs. If you have good genes in that sense you can be busted and still pull mates Lol that sounds like pseudoscience Hotness is like not just genes, but it’s also: Ambition Coolness Confidence Physical Fitness Masculinity Perhaps to women in their 30s or 40s looking to settle after they've dated around, it's definitely not it for girls my age in their 20s … | /r/seduction | 02/09/23 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youThis isn't true You're telling someone who has always been too unattractive looking for girls that it's not true... it just happens sometimes a girl decides she's into you and if you don't shut it down they basically end up making it very very easy for you And it also just happens that not every has ever experienced this and might never experience (me for example). | /r/seduction | 02/09/23 03:47 AM |
| 4 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youThis post isn't for the average looking guy, this kind of attraction only happens to the very good looking men | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?So just be hot I can't, my genetics prevent that | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 02:20 PM |
| 10 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?I wish I was hot, cool and confident | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 02:11 AM |
| 3 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?But its not your fault you were that way. Doesn't it upset you that other guys who were luckier got to have the girls? This definitely upsets me Like we can work on ourselves and stuff but these guys got it with way less effort. While others don't "work on themselves" yet get girls effortlessly | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 02:06 AM |
| 3 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?That means nature has taken its course to weed me out of the dating pool | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night standIt's pretty much over for the average guy then | /r/seduction | 28/08/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally Hit on My CrushYeah that's not it, especially when most are fat | /r/seduction | 22/08/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Accidentally Hit on My CrushNot always | /r/seduction | 22/08/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally Hit on My Crush5 is the median, 6 is slightly above the median | /r/seduction | 22/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Do not give a person power over youHow can I be the one who decides if I don't have any choices at all? Women have choices, I don't have any choices | /r/seduction | 18/07/23 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Do not give a person power over youBut women do have power over me, they're the ones that get to decide whether I will date them or not. | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Teenagers still shop at malls? I honestly have no idea how to even differentiate anymore, but last time I went (a couple weeks ago to pick out a fragrance and some clothes), there were a lot of girls that seemed around my age and younger and slightly older. Again, I don't know how to differentiate or tell the difference on who's my age, that's one of the reasons I haven't tried. | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Unless you're balding or look particularly old. I'm not good at judging myself, I don't know if I look old or not. I have a head full of hair though | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 07:58 PM |
| -2 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Have you ever considered that the reason you have no luck with women is that your attitude is absolutely fucking bullshit? Why do you say that? | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 06:34 PM |
| 2 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.So then it's also a bad place for a 25 year old guy then (me)? | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 02:52 PM |
| -22 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Honestly, I was getting my hopes up until I saw your pic in your profile. Now I see how you get girls from all ages interested in you, you're actually attractive and seem pretty tall. That killed my hope 🤣 | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 05:32 AM |
| -47 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.I'm not using it as an excuse, I actually am pretty old (25) to be doing that from the look of things. That's something you do when you're younger, at my age many get married and have kids of their own | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 04:39 AM |
| -29 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.I don't literally hang out at the mall looking for random women to cold approach. That is very tennage-esque I just talk to girls while I need to buy clothes at a thrift store or am getting food. Start small talk and continue. This sounds very teenage-esque as well. Makes me feel old too...now that I see it this way...I am old...and I missed out on that phase....and it's too late Cold-approaching should be an addition to your routine/errands. Not a standalone activity unless you are extremely ne… | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 04:28 AM |
| 57 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.There was a post the other day saying that malls are terrible and that there's only teenagers there and that you're basically a creep if you try to cold approach there. | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 04:09 AM |
| 17 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.I saw that post as well, I saw most people trashing the mall as well and saying to go for night clubs instead. Then there's people trashing night clubs here | /r/seduction | 04/07/23 04:08 AM |
| 41 | I got laid!Same, we live a different reality | /r/seduction | 02/07/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.I tried to file the hair transplant, under my ability to attract women as a medical need, but they rejected my request :(. No offense, but that's a laughable reason to mention on your insurance. I would never go that far. Yea, I've seen them charging like $700/visit They charged me about $300 per visit but I could make it $700 or so for 3 visits (once per month). It was honestly pretty effective but it started to drain my wallet, and I also pay for botox every 3 or so months since I have a frown… | /r/seduction | 15/06/23 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.Might be able to do it with microneedling I've did microneedling last year for a good 5 months at least. It did significantly reduce the scars but my trashy genetics keep making my acne come back (which I also use skin care products to kill of the active pimples). And micro needling isn't cheap btw | /r/seduction | 15/06/23 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.Damn, hair loss sounds brutal. At least according to my immediate family genetics, I won't suffer from that. But I have my own set of defects, I'm short with an acne scars and bad facial harmony. | /r/seduction | 15/06/23 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.So you're telling me I don't need plastic surgery nor height surgery? | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?Nice | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Men being attracted to women = sexism or misogyny?Yet, here we are, talking about how it's acceptable that we do it to heterosexual men who only want to be with somebody, like human beings do, and how "maybe one day we'll get medicine that disables core parts of our humanity", like we're fucking sex offenders being castrated so we don't fuck kids. That's not aimed at you, I understand where you're coming from, but Christ on a fucking unicycle, to be in a place where we even have to contemplate that, it's grotesque. That's a alternative I sugges… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Men being attracted to women = sexism or misogyny?But what about the men who are lonely and who are trying to figure out how to respectfully interact with women, perhaps with a view to becoming friends, or finding a relationship? Unfortunately, those men will die lonely and without experiencing relationships. Unless they want to risk being seen as a criminal now for committing the crime of speaking to a woman. For them, the best chance of success would come from isolation from women. How do you think they're going to feel about women in 10, 20,… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Men being attracted to women = sexism or misogyny?You'd be surprised. I don't want to be like "hurr hurr, I know more than you" but you cannot claim something like that for certain if you're not a woman yourself Fair enough These women are a lot of times extremists or women in a very distressing personal situation You cannot claim something like that if you're not a man yourself since you aren't the one getting smeared I understand how bad it feels to have your entire gender be generalized like this, but aren't you doing it right now? I'm at th… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Men being attracted to women = sexism or misogyny?With misogynistic comments I mean things like "nice ass" "great boobs", which is a problem because it is objectifying a woman I understand these things still happen, but they're rare. Maybe they weren't as rare 10-20 years ago, but in today's era where the majority of young guys won't even approach or talk to women, it is rare that these types of comments get thrown around in public. Saying stuff like "Nice dress!" and "You look good today!" are perfectly fine; if a woman has a problem with that… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 06:52 PM |
| 9 | Men being attracted to women = sexism or misogyny?If Im understanding correctly, you're confused on the usage of the word misogyny. The word misogyny is used nowadays to describe everything that hurts women, therefore creepy comments might not mean the man in question hates women, rather that he doesn't respect them enough to understand why certain things are harmful to say to them. Sometimes compliments you may think are flattering might be offensive to the other person. It's important to reflect on why some things aren't okay to say and both … | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?Like omg, even my mother who is also an active feminist and somewhat responsible for his mindset, now that she sees her own son suffering from it, has changed her tune and is even talking about helping him find a girl, basically arrange something for him, she who actually has gone to feminist marches has now done a 180 Hopefully she feels massive guilt over this, why aren't you throwing this at her face saying she's one of the reasons why you're brother is in this situation? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenValue in the world isn't based on having a girlfriend/wife. And not having one, does not mean you have zero value as a human being It can definitely give you value, because it shows that you're actually desirable as a man. There's a reason why women are attracted to taken men. Nonetheless, instead of giving up, you can work on yourself, learn new skills, get a better job, dress better, lose weight etc... You can't change your physical appearance but you can change everything else. Well technical… | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 09:30 PM |
| 5 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenbased on what you subjectively think women think about you *objectively It's not subjective And also, what you think women want, which apparently is tall smart men only And good looking men as well, don't forget that part You didn't even mention wealth, social status etc.. You're right, the more boxes a guy checks off, the better. Tall, smart, rich, good looking, etc. If you barely check off any, then it's over | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 07:50 PM |
| -4 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenYou don't see it as a bad thing Absolutely not, I'm just recognizing how women feel about me in general. I know that they desire taller, more handsome, smarter men than me, I've already accepted that fact. | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenYou're not taking into account the looks inflation though. So a barely average looking guy can very well be perceived as a gollum to women now | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 14 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenWhen we care too much about what a woman thinks about us whether it be before approaching or even during conversation , I believe deep down we don’t like ourselves Of course I care about what women think before even getting the idea of approaching. If women think a guy looks ugly which means creepy, then they can accuse the guy of harassment if he dares to approach her. It doesn't have anything to do with the guy hating himself, it's a perfectly acceptable precaution | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 05:04 AM |
| 33 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenI personally hate myself and don't see any value in myself in any way unless someone else wants me. Same, except no girl would ever want me so objectively speaking I have no value in myself. It's not something good of course, but at least I recognise it for what it is. This is where we seem to differ, is I do view this as a good thing. | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they make excuses and self-victimizeIf you come off like you’re only talking to them to fuck them What's an example of coming off like that? You’ve made a lot of excuses so far already. How are precautions excuses? | /r/seduction | 06/06/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they make excuses and self-victimizeAnywhere out in public you see an attractive woman lol Not anywhere, remember gyms are off-limits High end grocery stores Target Don't women complain about being hit on at grocery stores and bookstores? | /r/seduction | 06/06/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they make excuses and self-victimizedaygame Where are you supposed to daygame? | /r/seduction | 06/06/23 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they make excuses and self-victimizeBottom line is, you have to put yourself out there Out where? | /r/seduction | 05/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Approaching is normal and so many men are doing itSocial media did | /r/seduction | 01/06/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Approaching is normal and so many men are doing itAccording to that, I'm 70% of the way there, which sounds fake | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 08:03 PM |
| 18 | Approaching is normal and so many men are doing itNot always, just being ugly is enough to make you a creep | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 05:44 PM |
| 71 | Approaching is normal and so many men are doing itYou mean ugly people? | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 04:27 PM |
| -3 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “Almost as prevalent as in India in the U.S. | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 09:22 PM |
| -5 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “It kind of is though, women in the U.S. don't want to be approached | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 09:16 PM |
| 17 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “The U.S. isn't the same as India btw | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 09:06 PM |
| 78 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “I'm a shy guy myself | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 07:20 PM |
| 27 | Breaking news: “We got are we dating the same guy” Chicago and Boston taken downExcellent work | /r/MensRights | 30/05/23 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Adoption and / or surrogacy for single men?Personally, I'm probably going to end up going down the road of surrogacy. I've always been too ugly for girls to want to date me | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 05:12 AM |
| 3 | I've been so touched deprived, it's really starting to affect my mental healthMe too, I've never even held hands with another girl and I'm in my mid 20s. At this point it doesn't seem like things are going to change and I'll probably just grow old and die as a virgin. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 05:07 AM |
| 67 | Boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women, study findsThis is what happens when boys and men are publicly painted as villains | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 05:01 AM |
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