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Dating apps subscriptions and photoshoots are a waste of money if you're not attractive enough. That was definitely the biggest waste of money for me.
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:22 PM
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My fault
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:36 AM
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Are you sure that's flirting? I've had similar interactions, but they're definitely not flirting. It seems like they're just bad socially with strangers and get nervous a lot of those times. It's probably not a good idea to immediately claim it's flirting when it's most likely some sort of social anxiety.
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:08 AM
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How do you know that she thinks you're hitting on her?
/r/seduction12/07/24 04:44 PM
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Your mind is stuck at not being a man looking I'm not sure what this means What’s wrong with it? Women think it's creepy
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:38 PM
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Hope doesn't mean much
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:20 AM
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Then why are you commenting on a seduction sub?
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:10 AM
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Even better: Don't approach women and avoid them as much as you can That will ensure you're never creepy
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:09 AM
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This is why I avoid private property and stick to doing everything outside in public on the street I avoid approaching women altogether. There's also dangers to approaching women on the street. In public you can do and say whatever you want without getting in trouble That's not true at all
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:45 AM
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if he just walks around and asks random women “do you wanna fuck?” That's creepy
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:41 AM
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That's a creepy thing to ask a woman
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:39 AM
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If it even happens
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:38 AM
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I followed the same advice, and I'm still a kissless virgin. And I'll continue the same way if I keep following this advice
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:38 AM
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You're lucky you're attractive and received looks from women. Ugly short guys like me don't get that
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:36 PM
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Only if the guy is already good-looking.
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:35 PM
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How so? I'm sympathizing with her.
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:03 PM
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I started being cold approached only recently, Sorry that's happened to you it happened a couple of times and I loved it, it made my day I don't see how that's a good thing Do it in a place where many people are present so she doesn't feel threatened. Or don't do it at all Never approach with sexy or flirty comments, especially if she doesn't want to communicate this with her style Never approach with sexy or flirty comments, especially if she doesn't want to communicate this with her style. Tha…
/r/seduction09/06/24 02:42 AM
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I've had my prime for some time now, zero women at age 26. Life is good enough with video games, Netflix, Lego sets, gym, and traveling
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:00 PM
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But honestly I have no interest in debating someone who automatically starts crying about “the left” in their very first comment. You're the one that brought up the whole patriarchy bs myth Pretty obvious when you look at the list of richest men vs richest women, and how they accumulated their wealth. Give it a look The men accumulated that wealth by working. The richest women got theirs by divorcing those men.
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:22 AM
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The U.S. is not a patriarchy bud. How is it easier for men to accumulate wealth compared to women? The leftists have fried your brain into believing the whole patriarchy idea.
/r/seduction24/05/24 04:12 PM
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No haircut or money will save me. Why would money matter when women can make money?
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:02 AM
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The good thing is, there are various ways you can make yourself more attractive. There isn't for me
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:46 PM
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That's why I don't try, I'm not attractive enough to try
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:53 AM
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Yes you will still have to approach them Sounds like it makes no difference then
/r/seduction19/05/24 12:51 AM
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The chicks will come No, they won't
/r/seduction19/05/24 12:27 AM
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Why would I ever want to approach anyone there? Because mainstream thinking states that it's creepy
/r/seduction18/05/24 11:51 PM
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What age do you consider someone a "grown ass man"?
/r/seduction18/03/24 09:40 PM
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Youve got a good ways to go before youre a "grown ass man." What age would you consider someone a "grown ass man"?
/r/seduction18/03/24 09:07 PM
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Yeah, that's what I was talking about. Your post probably isn't geared towards less than average looking guys. I knew this was the case when I read you had success off of Tinder (place where you need good looks to find success)
/r/seduction18/03/24 08:45 PM
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Whenever guys make these kind of posts, they should post how attractive they look so it won't be misleading.
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:00 PM
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Yep, too bad I was given terrible height, race and face genetics at birth
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:06 PM
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The best way to get a woman interested in you is to make her think that you didn’t notice her or aren’t interested. That's bs, I do this with everyone, and women never have shown interest in me.
/r/seduction16/03/24 01:34 AM
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I always feel like the ugliest human being alive, like I have 0 masculinity, like I am just nothing more then a genetic failure, that no girl can ever like me, and i always thought that no matter what no matter how much I try to look better dress better stay in shape it's just pointless, girls are genetically wired to not feel any sexual desire That's me, except I'm actually a genetic failure where women have zero desire in me. It's mostly cause i always had awfull dating life, Same, I've never …
/r/seduction09/03/24 04:35 PM
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I know for a fact that I'm undesirable/unattractive. I'm 26, and I've never been on a date or been kissed, and I definitely have never been approached or shown signs of interest from a woman. Dating apps were a complete waste of time, money, and energy (the money part was from hiring a photographer to get my pictures taken for my profile). Can't make a profile look good if the guy in the profile is undesirable.
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:23 PM
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What does it say about you as a person that I told you I didn’t want to engage with you anymore, and you start a sock account u/LaughingStockTheBoat? Am I living rent-free in your head that now you think I'm someone else? Lmao, what a 🤡
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:51 PM
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I hope this is not the attitude when it comes to everything in life. What do you mean?
/r/seduction05/03/24 07:54 AM
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No. I just have zero interest in talking further to such a negative, woman hating loser Because you ran out of flawed logic, and now you're resorting to name calling. This is typical from someone like you that has flawed logic. And I’m not replying to you upthread anymore either Ok, I know I'm right If you hate women so much and don’t want to actually meet or date, then this isn’t the sub for you. This isn't the sub for you either since you don't want men to shoot their shots 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:02 AM
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I'll meet them elsewhere. This is also a disaster waiting to happen for this same reason: Especially since women LOVE to record and ridicule people. Best thing to do is give up on dating and write women off
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:00 AM
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I don't agree either, men need to avoid women and write women off and leave them alone
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:58 AM
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your a bitch. I know I am
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:56 AM
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The only common sense is for men to avoid women and give up on dating or trying to approach women.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:51 AM
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Hahaha you ran out of flawed logic there huh
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:48 AM
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Ugh 🥱 You’re not agreeing with me. You’re saying that there’s two options. Be that guy, or give up. That’s not it! Those are the only two options Option three is be a decent human, treat women well, and have healthy relationships. Ok, and what does that entail? How is a relationship between a man and a woman going to happen? That’s the option we all actually want taken, right??? No
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:42 AM
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Those who aren’t comfortable do go to female gyms And why don't people just segregate gyms altogether? Seems like that would solve the problem. You said that YOU are uncomfortable with women at your gym I didn't say I'm uncomfortable, I just would prefer to not be around them. Unfortunately, there is no male only gyms near me that are as cheap, so unfortunately, I have to put up with being around women at the gym I go to. Seriously? Bars, clubs, libraries, social groups, parties, events, concert…
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:40 AM
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Read his original comment and tell me honestly that you don’t see any problematic attitudes towards women. I did, and I'm agreeing with you. So why are you being confrontational? I already said that men should give up on dating and write women off, that would make a lot of women happy. Good men do not behave like this. I agree. Good men are the ones that have given up on women and dating.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:30 AM
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Don't approach them if they have headphones on. It's that simple. There, fixed it for you
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:48 AM
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Yep, men need to just give up on dating and write women off.
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:35 AM
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There’s a time & place for everything, and this isn’t it. There is no time and place to hit on women, I agree with the rest of what you said regarding the gym though.
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:34 AM
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You should have reported her to the gym staff for being a creep
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:33 AM
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Just give up on dating ez
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:31 AM
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Do. Not. Approach. Women. At. The. Gym. Do. Not. Approach. Women. At. The. Gym. Fixed it for you
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:31 AM
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Comes across as "I'm a guy and I can't contain myself." it's creepy enough being gawked at anywhere in your life that you go. It's hard to deal with men being so relentlessly thirsty I agree. That's why I gave up on dating. I will never be a creep if I don't even look in women's direction and definitely if I don't try to date them.
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:30 AM
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Yep, I never approach women either.
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:05 AM
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Women don’t need to absent themselves from public spaces to make you comfortable Clearly it's so they're comfortable, afterall that's why you said female only gyms exist. If they're so comfortable, then why don't you all just take a hike and go to your own gyms instead? It will make everyone's lives easier. There are plenty of liminal spaces where men and women can meet that aren’t dating apps No there's not lol, give an example But apps aren’t all bad - You're a woman, so obviously, you're goin…
/r/seduction05/03/24 01:32 AM
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Also, men please understand that this behaviour is why female only gyms exist Then why don't the rest of women go to those gyms instead? I'd prefer if I didn't see any woman at all at the gym I go to. We don’t want to be hit on when we are PAYING to use a space for a specific purpose that isn’t dating. I agree, that being said, there is no space that is meant for dating besides...dating apps. So if a guy doesn't have any luck on dating apps, then it's over for that guy.
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:31 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:13 AM
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And how exactly do you get a "good man" if men are never supposed to make the 1st move on you?
/r/seduction04/03/24 11:42 PM
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Women don't like to be hit on or approached anywhere
/r/seduction04/03/24 11:28 PM
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Yep, give up on dating, trying to date is creepy. I agree
/r/seduction04/03/24 11:24 PM
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It would take a significantly big pair to do this at the gym you go to every day
/r/seduction21/02/24 09:42 PM
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By talking to someone? Not just anyone, but a woman, and particularly in a flirtatious manner. You being told to go away or they aren’t interested and you continuing to push, that will ruin your life Definitely, I agree. But even being told to go away will cause the woman to spread rumors or falsely accuse the guy. You should be talking to all sorts of people at all times of the day I don't, I haven't spoken to a woman my age in years. I occasionally speak to other strangers though. you shouldn’…
/r/seduction21/02/24 09:06 PM
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You might get embarrassed but it won’t ruin your life It can ruin your life
/r/seduction21/02/24 07:37 PM
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or ya might get rejected when approaching a woman. Or falsely accused by the woman you're approaching. It's a scary world out there
/r/seduction21/02/24 07:26 PM
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stop talking to women forever it's the only way to be safe. I agree
/r/seduction21/02/24 07:25 PM
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Talking to women is now a heinous crime
/r/seduction21/02/24 06:55 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:35 AM
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Googling around it seems various surveys have found that 20% of men masturbate 4 or more times a week, and average is 3. That sounds awful There's still this weird stigma that persists about masturbation There should be. It's a dirty, awful act, I hate it whenever I've done it and am always ashamed of it. I'm trying to stop altogether, so far the only possible solution to my problem there is castration. But it's too expensive unfortunately. A lot of it is designed to sort of shame people over so…
/r/seduction21/02/24 01:35 AM
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15 MIN of videos ASMR/ Woman saying things to you and desiring you OR Porn in first person point of view : this rewires your brain in the right path, making you understand that women desire you Rewires or deluded? I know for a fact that women don't desire me. Porn puts you certain beliefs regarding women wich externalizes in the physical world like "woman dont want sex with me" or "woman want to give pleasure to other men except me" But thus is true for me though, women don't want to do that wit…
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:31 PM
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I wish I was castrated. That way, I wouldn't have to worry about this crap.
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:27 PM
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Your motivation to get out there and date and meet women will be at an all time high if you can't get sexual relief from yourself I'm abstaining as well, but I have the opposite effect. It made me realize that I'm never going to experience ejaculating ever again since women don't desire me.
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:26 PM
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You're saying if you abstain from doing it long enough, eventually, you'll lose interest in sex and dating?
/r/seduction20/02/24 05:11 PM
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but I can tell you I do it perhaps 6-8 times a week. That's a lot Not every day, but some especially stressful days it might be 2-3 times. That's even more lol Don't let it take over your live, and I think you're fine. If I (or men) didn't have a sex drive, then this wouldn't even be a topic of discussion and there would be one less problem in the world for men.
/r/seduction20/02/24 04:56 PM
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What if I'm not meeting any women at all?
/r/seduction20/02/24 02:51 PM
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Brutal
/r/seduction15/02/24 04:08 PM
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I'm not going to go overseas just for a woman. Nature has deemed me as undesirable to the women in my area. I'm not going to become one of those passport bros. I have many strengths in life, none of them are applicable to dating.
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:43 PM
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If you're going to do cold approach, (talk to women anywhere), then it's important that you have the below qualities going for you For this reason, I don't recommend the cold approach method for men on the autism spectrum or men will poor social skills since most of them lack the social intelligence to pull this off Yep, that's why many guys like me are destined to never experience dating. We're not attractive enough for dating apps, and we're not sociable enough to approach women. Brutal
/r/seduction13/02/24 09:31 PM
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So, learn how to read women's minds?
/r/seduction13/02/24 09:18 PM
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One can get creep status from not being attractive as well
/r/seduction13/02/24 09:17 PM
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Because I just don't
/r/seduction13/02/24 07:44 PM
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You're already assuming that the guy personally knows a woman then?
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:49 PM
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What do you mean by making a move?
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:30 AM
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Me too, I'm 26, and I wish I could be 24 again.
/r/seduction12/02/24 01:21 AM
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Don't quit just take a break Or take a permanent break (aka quit)
/r/seduction02/02/24 01:50 AM
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Brutal
/r/seduction30/01/24 08:40 PM
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You shouldn't do anything without consulting your doctor first
/r/seduction13/11/23 11:58 PM
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How can i kill my seggs drive permanently? I've heard chemical and physical castration might help How do i get rid of sex entirely? i just want to give up! I'm on the same boat as you, I also wish there was a kill switch for my romantic and sex drive
/r/seduction13/11/23 11:54 PM
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You don't cope, you just give up and accept defeat. That's what I did, I've accepted that I'm a loser and will always be a loser in the eyes of women
/r/MensRights23/10/23 05:52 AM
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but that’s not only what incel as a concept is anymore. It’s much more a hatred of women No it's not, you people just like twisting the definition of words to fit your own little agendas
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:38 PM
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That's why I just assume none of them want me since I'm an ugly manlet. Too much risk to even compliment a woman now
/r/MensRights29/09/23 04:53 PM
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No, it's like buying a lottery ticket knowing you won't win. You already just know it, and what do you know, you didn't win. Had a guy purchased a lotto ticket with confidence, and it wouldn't have made a difference.
/r/seduction14/09/23 06:08 AM
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Sorry I upset you
/r/seduction13/09/23 11:26 PM
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I mean, the other day I saw a guy got kicked out of a mall for approaching girls. Also, since loitering is illegal, couldn't a certain type of day game technically be considered illegal?
/r/seduction13/09/23 10:57 PM
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If you go up to a woman and say "Hey I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you" that's not illegal at all and you can't get in trouble for that. You sure about that?
/r/seduction13/09/23 10:42 PM
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What parts are made up?
/r/seduction13/09/23 09:04 PM
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this constant crying and self loathing is becoming absurd and you're just bringing down everyone else in here. Is presenting another side of the argument considered absurd now? and you constantly just tell everyone to give up and that nothing is possible Not everyone should give up, only some
/r/seduction13/09/23 08:08 PM
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I bet you feel regret when you don't approach someone you were attracted to. I used to, not anymore though. Now I've trained myself to avoid looking at women and if I do end getting infatuation over one, I just tell myself that she's most likely already taken and she wouldn't want me anyways as she can do better.
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:47 PM
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No, but I can make an mostly accurate assessment from a situation based upon the available evidence to support the situation at hand.
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:29 PM
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Not every guy is an undesirable manlet, though. And most people lose their virginity early on and don't keep it (involuntarily) past mid 20s.
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:16 PM
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Of course nothing resonates with me, I'm a kissless virgin with no dating experience It’s clear that you have limiting beliefs and a low sense of self worth and no confidence at all What makes you say that? id suggest looking into therapy or coaching to help fix your mental game No offense, but how is that going to help at all?
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:12 PM
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It’s completely fine when she wants you to touch her and allows you to touch her and doesn’t back away. That's never going to happen with me, though as I'm an undesirable manlet. Unless I pay for it, but that's about it.
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:50 PM
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Press charges will never happen unless you physically assault or touch a girl but nobody does that anyways unless you’re a complete and total moron Yep, that's I will never touch another woman
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:45 PM
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Ok
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:40 PM
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Man, you risk humiliation every time, who cares Me Pressed charges? Yeah, if you're out of your mind, maybe Ever heard or false accusations? Rep destroyed? What are we talking about here, you're just asking a girl out for a drink or her number. She says yes or no thanks and life moves on. But sometimes life doesn't move on. The woman can decide to say the guy was being creepy when he asked her or he made her feel uncomfortable when he asked her, etc. Then the guy will become known as the creep. …
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:32 PM
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Risk humiliation, you risk being pressed charges against you, you risk having your reputation destroyed, many other things can go wrong
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:23 PM
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What if you already know/can accurately predict the answer will be a "no"?
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:17 PM
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No
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:14 PM
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You actually do
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:14 PM
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Not really I been down before and then through observation I’ve realized that that’s my biggest issue working against me So you're also 5'4"? Have you ever realized how much of a turn off a bitter woman is? That’s how men with that outlook come off. I’ve left women I considered beautiful because of that ugly mentality You said "beautiful" women, meaning you already gave her a chance due to her looks. It's the same vice versa, women would never even initially give me a chance because I don't meet…
/r/seduction08/09/23 03:42 AM
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Then you’re fighting an uphill battle not going to sugar coat anything You don't have to "sugar coat" anything, I already the "battle" is lost for me. It was lost the day I was born. However it doesn’t mean that you can’t secure something pretty solid for yourself Lol, define "solid"? Just because the odds are not in your favour doesn’t mean you need to compound how hard it is with a negative outlook That's a massive cope. You're telling me to ignore all of the defects I have and act like they'r…
/r/seduction08/09/23 02:21 AM
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Whose? The parents who decided to procreate and have an ugly child that would be set up to fail in his 20s and 30s dating life?
/r/seduction08/09/23 01:46 AM
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You blaming your genetics is a cop out unless your <5’4 I'm 5'4, so I can definitely blame my genetics
/r/seduction08/09/23 12:32 AM
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If you are unhappy with some stuff The only thing I'm unhappy with is my height and my genetic looks. But I can't go to some doctor and have them rewrite my genetic code to make me good-looking. Don’t look into that mirror too closely, you will not like it. Neither will the mirror since it'll break lmao
/r/seduction07/09/23 09:06 PM
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Wow. Get fucking help. Your self esteem is this terrible you need to resort to this. Resort to what? And what's wrong with admitting that I'm not good looking? Not everyone is going to be good looking, I acknowledge that. Find a therapist or something For what? That's for people that have trauma and some deep issues. I don't have that
/r/seduction07/09/23 09:01 PM
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For many of us is is intellectual and emotional > physical You mean the minority Get off the apps. Go out into the real world. Touch fucking grass. I haven't been on the apps since I have subhuman looks and am a manlet, so women obviously swiped left on me. And what do you mean "the real world"?
/r/seduction07/09/23 08:51 PM
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You never answered the question, why do so many women keep stating physical preferences like 6ft tall? Didn't you say that "mental > physical"? If so, why is there such an importance on looks?
/r/seduction07/09/23 08:48 PM
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Nothing will attract me to you ever. 😂 The whole world doesn't revolve around you, get off your high horse. You know you're full of it because you keep avoiding my question and keep resorting to "m..m..muh personality"
/r/seduction07/09/23 08:45 PM
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Is that your next cop out answer? Emotional > Physical So you're telling me women don't have physical attractiveness preferences? You're telling me all those women that prefer taller men are liars? Wtf are you talking about?
/r/seduction07/09/23 08:42 PM
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Well, it’s not assholes and jerks is it? I said physically attractive, why do you keep bringing up personality traits when I said "physically attractive"? Lol that's women cop out answer always
/r/seduction07/09/23 08:32 PM
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What's attractive to you has a high chance of being physically attractive to most other women
/r/seduction07/09/23 07:09 PM
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Doesn't take away the fact that you'd still friendzone the non attractive manlet just because he's not hot
/r/seduction07/09/23 06:46 PM
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Lmao, right
/r/seduction07/09/23 06:45 PM
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THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR LOOKS. It does You are failing miserably with women BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO BOUNDARIES. So women friendzone you and some use you Do most women friendzone the tall, attractive looking Adonis male? Probably not
/r/seduction07/09/23 04:37 PM
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I promise you that when you improve yourself, your life improves as well, and you become a person that attracts others. Becoming a beautiful garden depends only on you, do what you can with what you have, you are the gardener of your own life. You're still playing along with that massive cope even though that guy stated his 30s were worst than his 20s. What are you going to say next? His 70s are his prime? Lmao
/r/seduction07/09/23 04:36 PM
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once you hit 30 you'll notice a really strong shift in your attractiveness towards women, they'll start to be interested in you by the dozen No it doesn't happen to every guy, that's terribly misleading As for your current situation, here is my advice: Focus on yourself, stop chasing girls, start hitting the gym, read books, find something you are passionate about and persue it with discipline You forgot to mention: Give up on dating completely
/r/seduction07/09/23 04:34 PM
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Don’t blame women for not liking you when you can just work on yourself and improve your chances. I'm not blaming women, I'm just saying I'm undesirable to them. And no, I can't improve my genetic looks.
/r/seduction03/09/23 04:04 AM
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I'm not saying everyone has experienced it, I'm saying it's not true that it only happens for really attractive guys Sure, there's some component of luck to it. But that sort of luck is akin to winning the lottery. and you might get lucky as well I don't think I will
/r/seduction02/09/23 08:22 PM
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The genetic component of hotness is actually your pheromones. They can smell how strong your immune system is and how compatible it is with theirs. If you have good genes in that sense you can be busted and still pull mates Lol that sounds like pseudoscience Hotness is like not just genes, but it’s also: Ambition Coolness Confidence Physical Fitness Masculinity Perhaps to women in their 30s or 40s looking to settle after they've dated around, it's definitely not it for girls my age in their 20s …
/r/seduction02/09/23 03:52 AM
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This isn't true You're telling someone who has always been too unattractive looking for girls that it's not true... it just happens sometimes a girl decides she's into you and if you don't shut it down they basically end up making it very very easy for you And it also just happens that not every has ever experienced this and might never experience (me for example).
/r/seduction02/09/23 03:47 AM
4

This post isn't for the average looking guy, this kind of attraction only happens to the very good looking men
/r/seduction01/09/23 03:44 PM
1

So just be hot I can't, my genetics prevent that
/r/seduction01/09/23 02:20 PM
10

I wish I was hot, cool and confident
/r/seduction01/09/23 02:11 AM
3

But its not your fault you were that way. Doesn't it upset you that other guys who were luckier got to have the girls? This definitely upsets me Like we can work on ourselves and stuff but these guys got it with way less effort. While others don't "work on themselves" yet get girls effortlessly
/r/seduction01/09/23 02:06 AM
3

That means nature has taken its course to weed me out of the dating pool
/r/seduction01/09/23 02:05 AM
6

It's pretty much over for the average guy then
/r/seduction28/08/23 06:16 PM
1

Yeah that's not it, especially when most are fat
/r/seduction22/08/23 10:16 PM
2

Not always
/r/seduction22/08/23 08:19 PM
1

5 is the median, 6 is slightly above the median
/r/seduction22/08/23 08:06 PM
3

How can I be the one who decides if I don't have any choices at all? Women have choices, I don't have any choices
/r/seduction18/07/23 04:00 PM
7

But women do have power over me, they're the ones that get to decide whether I will date them or not.
/r/seduction17/07/23 08:28 PM
1

Because you sound pathetic Well when it comes to dating, I am pathetic. I've never dated before
/r/seduction09/07/23 04:11 AM
1

Teenagers still shop at malls? I honestly have no idea how to even differentiate anymore, but last time I went (a couple weeks ago to pick out a fragrance and some clothes), there were a lot of girls that seemed around my age and younger and slightly older. Again, I don't know how to differentiate or tell the difference on who's my age, that's one of the reasons I haven't tried.
/r/seduction04/07/23 08:50 PM
1

Unless you're balding or look particularly old. I'm not good at judging myself, I don't know if I look old or not. I have a head full of hair though
/r/seduction04/07/23 07:58 PM
-2

Have you ever considered that the reason you have no luck with women is that your attitude is absolutely fucking bullshit? Why do you say that?
/r/seduction04/07/23 06:34 PM
2

So then it's also a bad place for a 25 year old guy then (me)?
/r/seduction04/07/23 02:52 PM
-22

Honestly, I was getting my hopes up until I saw your pic in your profile. Now I see how you get girls from all ages interested in you, you're actually attractive and seem pretty tall. That killed my hope 🤣
/r/seduction04/07/23 05:32 AM
-47

I'm not using it as an excuse, I actually am pretty old (25) to be doing that from the look of things. That's something you do when you're younger, at my age many get married and have kids of their own
/r/seduction04/07/23 04:39 AM
-29

I don't literally hang out at the mall looking for random women to cold approach. That is very tennage-esque I just talk to girls while I need to buy clothes at a thrift store or am getting food. Start small talk and continue. This sounds very teenage-esque as well. Makes me feel old too...now that I see it this way...I am old...and I missed out on that phase....and it's too late Cold-approaching should be an addition to your routine/errands. Not a standalone activity unless you are extremely ne…
/r/seduction04/07/23 04:28 AM
57

There was a post the other day saying that malls are terrible and that there's only teenagers there and that you're basically a creep if you try to cold approach there.
/r/seduction04/07/23 04:09 AM
17

I saw that post as well, I saw most people trashing the mall as well and saying to go for night clubs instead. Then there's people trashing night clubs here
/r/seduction04/07/23 04:08 AM
41

Same, we live a different reality
/r/seduction02/07/23 10:47 PM
2

I tried to file the hair transplant, under my ability to attract women as a medical need, but they rejected my request :(. No offense, but that's a laughable reason to mention on your insurance. I would never go that far. Yea, I've seen them charging like $700/visit They charged me about $300 per visit but I could make it $700 or so for 3 visits (once per month). It was honestly pretty effective but it started to drain my wallet, and I also pay for botox every 3 or so months since I have a frown…
/r/seduction15/06/23 04:48 AM
2

Might be able to do it with microneedling I've did microneedling last year for a good 5 months at least. It did significantly reduce the scars but my trashy genetics keep making my acne come back (which I also use skin care products to kill of the active pimples). And micro needling isn't cheap btw
/r/seduction15/06/23 04:11 AM
2

Damn, hair loss sounds brutal. At least according to my immediate family genetics, I won't suffer from that. But I have my own set of defects, I'm short with an acne scars and bad facial harmony.
/r/seduction15/06/23 03:26 AM
4

So you're telling me I don't need plastic surgery nor height surgery?
/r/seduction14/06/23 06:44 PM
5

Nice
/r/seduction14/06/23 05:14 PM
4

Yet, here we are, talking about how it's acceptable that we do it to heterosexual men who only want to be with somebody, like human beings do, and how "maybe one day we'll get medicine that disables core parts of our humanity", like we're fucking sex offenders being castrated so we don't fuck kids. That's not aimed at you, I understand where you're coming from, but Christ on a fucking unicycle, to be in a place where we even have to contemplate that, it's grotesque. That's a alternative I sugges…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 08:48 PM
2

But what about the men who are lonely and who are trying to figure out how to respectfully interact with women, perhaps with a view to becoming friends, or finding a relationship? Unfortunately, those men will die lonely and without experiencing relationships. Unless they want to risk being seen as a criminal now for committing the crime of speaking to a woman. For them, the best chance of success would come from isolation from women. How do you think they're going to feel about women in 10, 20,…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 07:32 PM
5

You'd be surprised. I don't want to be like "hurr hurr, I know more than you" but you cannot claim something like that for certain if you're not a woman yourself Fair enough These women are a lot of times extremists or women in a very distressing personal situation You cannot claim something like that if you're not a man yourself since you aren't the one getting smeared I understand how bad it feels to have your entire gender be generalized like this, but aren't you doing it right now? I'm at th…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 07:26 PM
5

With misogynistic comments I mean things like "nice ass" "great boobs", which is a problem because it is objectifying a woman I understand these things still happen, but they're rare. Maybe they weren't as rare 10-20 years ago, but in today's era where the majority of young guys won't even approach or talk to women, it is rare that these types of comments get thrown around in public. Saying stuff like "Nice dress!" and "You look good today!" are perfectly fine; if a woman has a problem with that…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 06:52 PM
9

If Im understanding correctly, you're confused on the usage of the word misogyny. The word misogyny is used nowadays to describe everything that hurts women, therefore creepy comments might not mean the man in question hates women, rather that he doesn't respect them enough to understand why certain things are harmful to say to them. Sometimes compliments you may think are flattering might be offensive to the other person. It's important to reflect on why some things aren't okay to say and both …
/r/MensRights13/06/23 06:21 PM
2

Like omg, even my mother who is also an active feminist and somewhat responsible for his mindset, now that she sees her own son suffering from it, has changed her tune and is even talking about helping him find a girl, basically arrange something for him, she who actually has gone to feminist marches has now done a 180 Hopefully she feels massive guilt over this, why aren't you throwing this at her face saying she's one of the reasons why you're brother is in this situation?
/r/MensRights11/06/23 12:57 AM
2

Value in the world isn't based on having a girlfriend/wife. And not having one, does not mean you have zero value as a human being It can definitely give you value, because it shows that you're actually desirable as a man. There's a reason why women are attracted to taken men. Nonetheless, instead of giving up, you can work on yourself, learn new skills, get a better job, dress better, lose weight etc... You can't change your physical appearance but you can change everything else. Well technical…
/r/seduction10/06/23 09:30 PM
5

based on what you subjectively think women think about you *objectively It's not subjective And also, what you think women want, which apparently is tall smart men only And good looking men as well, don't forget that part You didn't even mention wealth, social status etc.. You're right, the more boxes a guy checks off, the better. Tall, smart, rich, good looking, etc. If you barely check off any, then it's over
/r/seduction10/06/23 07:50 PM
-4

You don't see it as a bad thing Absolutely not, I'm just recognizing how women feel about me in general. I know that they desire taller, more handsome, smarter men than me, I've already accepted that fact.
/r/seduction10/06/23 06:47 PM
2

You're not taking into account the looks inflation though. So a barely average looking guy can very well be perceived as a gollum to women now
/r/seduction10/06/23 04:39 PM
14

When we care too much about what a woman thinks about us whether it be before approaching or even during conversation , I believe deep down we don’t like ourselves Of course I care about what women think before even getting the idea of approaching. If women think a guy looks ugly which means creepy, then they can accuse the guy of harassment if he dares to approach her. It doesn't have anything to do with the guy hating himself, it's a perfectly acceptable precaution
/r/seduction10/06/23 05:04 AM
33

I personally hate myself and don't see any value in myself in any way unless someone else wants me. Same, except no girl would ever want me so objectively speaking I have no value in myself. It's not something good of course, but at least I recognise it for what it is. This is where we seem to differ, is I do view this as a good thing.
/r/seduction10/06/23 05:02 AM
2

If you come off like you’re only talking to them to fuck them What's an example of coming off like that? You’ve made a lot of excuses so far already. How are precautions excuses?
/r/seduction06/06/23 06:06 PM
1

Anywhere out in public you see an attractive woman lol Not anywhere, remember gyms are off-limits High end grocery stores Target Don't women complain about being hit on at grocery stores and bookstores?
/r/seduction06/06/23 02:14 AM
1

daygame Where are you supposed to daygame?
/r/seduction06/06/23 12:38 AM
0

Bottom line is, you have to put yourself out there Out where?
/r/seduction05/06/23 10:10 PM
1

Social media did
/r/seduction01/06/23 12:46 AM
2

According to that, I'm 70% of the way there, which sounds fake
/r/seduction31/05/23 08:03 PM
18

Not always, just being ugly is enough to make you a creep
/r/seduction31/05/23 05:44 PM
71

You mean ugly people?
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:27 PM
-3

Almost as prevalent as in India in the U.S.
/r/seduction30/05/23 09:22 PM
-5

It kind of is though, women in the U.S. don't want to be approached
/r/seduction30/05/23 09:16 PM
17

The U.S. isn't the same as India btw
/r/seduction30/05/23 09:06 PM
78

I'm a shy guy myself
/r/seduction30/05/23 07:20 PM
27

Excellent work
/r/MensRights30/05/23 01:14 AM
3

Personally, I'm probably going to end up going down the road of surrogacy. I've always been too ugly for girls to want to date me
/r/MensRights26/05/23 05:12 AM
3

Me too, I've never even held hands with another girl and I'm in my mid 20s. At this point it doesn't seem like things are going to change and I'll probably just grow old and die as a virgin.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 05:07 AM
67

This is what happens when boys and men are publicly painted as villains
/r/MensRights26/05/23 05:01 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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