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| 1 | How do you guys deal with losing plates?So work has you traveling all week. Can you get out and game while you are traveling and find yourself a plate where work takes you? If so, there’s your solution - you will have fun without her, meet some women, maybe land an ONS or two, and build abundance mentality again. If work travel is such that you can’t get out and game, then view this as an opportunity to dedicate your energy to your career mission and make the most of it. As for this plate, she might be pissed at your lack of availabil… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Found this gem about frame controlYou’re talking about the Stoic approach - focus on your own choices and not on things you don’t control, like what other people think of you; cultivate clear and unbiased thinking; make your reasoned choices, and let the outcome be as it may. As a way of navigating the challenges of day to day life, it is indeed, as you say, unbeatable. I believe (and it would be great if the OP or an Endorsed Contributor would speak to this) that the Frame concept is not intended to be an all-encompassing philo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 05:13 PM |
| 11 | How do you explain the guys with hot GFs who act beta? How are they keeping them?They worked their asses off and invested tons of time and money to meet her needs and answer her wants. They will “keep her” as long as they continue to provide for her needs and wants, however she defines them, until she perceives a better beta is available to her, or she gets busted cheating on him with Chad. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for girls to increase the amount of shit tests they give out when you handle them properly?Close. She has been conditioned through her life experience to expect a certain response when she displays a certain behavior. She is not getting that response from you when she displays that same behavior. Her subconscious brain is trying to reconcile the mismatch between the observed reality of your behavior with what the model tells her it should be. Her subconscious is telling her to increase the frequency and intensity of the response because of a conviction that the model has to be right. … | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal for girls to increase the amount of shit tests they give out when you handle them properly?Look up “extinction burst.” | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Got 2 months of unlimited gym for free, any tips on maximizing it?You are wise to take advantage of the opportunity. At your height and weight, you are on track to die young. Let that sink in a minute and then consider it again: at your height and weight, you are a dead man walking. You might have a heart attack before you turn 40. Forget pussy for a minute and think about self preservation. Two thoughts: There is an old saying: “You can’t out train a bad diet.” Read about nutrition, examine your eating habits, and figure out what you need to change. Long stor… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 01:42 AM |
| 1 | My friends age shaming me.Exactly. Everyone who was ever gonna ghost me has had 20+ years to do it. The marital implosion a couple years ago shook out the last few. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 03:27 AM |
| 59 | My friends age shaming me.I’m 42, separated, have 2 kids, balding. I started lifting over the summer. I’ve lost 40 lbs and I get compliments on my improvement from friends and family almost every day. Nobody - not one person - in my circle has given me any shit about it. You need new friends. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Don't be afraid to be a child again!Fucking brilliant. Thanks for this. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 12:36 PM |
| 4 | How can I learn from someone else?If he’s a natural, he himself might not understand why. It’s possible he’s even oblivious to the fact he’s pulling an above average amount of ass. So I agree you can try to approach him about it. But be prepared to hear “just be yourself” or perhaps “fuck off.” | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like most women are incapable of being loyal?The short one word answer to your question is: hypergamy. Read the side bar. Hypergamy is a major motivator of female mating behaviors. Step back from how the behavior of these women makes you feel. Just consider it as a matter of biological fact. It’s largely unconscious, and it’s just how they are programmed. We men have our own programming. Don’t fight it, just try to understand it and figure out how to live with it. I’m 42, separated, and taking a long ride to divorceville. Let me assure you… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Goal setting / journal appsI use Penzu for journaling. The free app allows one journal. You can give it a unique password and it syncs across platforms, so you can write using both a mobile device and a web-based desktop version. The password protection is nice if others can access your device. You can pay to upgrade so as to allow multiple journals (different journals for different subjects presumably) and access to a wider range of fonts, themes, whatever. For writing shit down quickly on the go, at my laptop when I hav… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Why you must believe AWALTGreat post, and probably the most useful mental framework for dealing with AWALT that I have read here. Thank you for that. I first ran across "The Glass is Already Broken" just recently while reading "The Daily Stoic" (collection of 366 daily meditations on a range of stoic ideas). Another idea I found in that book is the "reverse clause" - the idea that you consider and accept, on a daily basis, the variety of things beyond your control which may happen with adverse consequences for you - lous… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?“Isn’t LTR with kids the endgame?” Oh yeah, it’s the endgame alright. Very much the end. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 01:41 PM |
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