Launchywiggin Archive

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1	Need some redpill advice on joining a startup. Submitted this to r/jobs but wanted some "real" advice. It seems like you're smart enough to know what the challenges and difficulties will be as a younger person advancing quickly. The better question is "Am I interested in facing these challenges for a big bump in pay?" If you're full TRP, there's no question you'll be capable of handling these challenges, but do you want to? Personally, I am not a type-A supervisor that you might be. I'm a fantastic employee who's reliable, hardworking, and damn good at my job. I much prefer the security of knowin…	/r/askTRP	29/10/15 09:25 PM
3	Losing my 7-year old daughter - to TRP Great comment. I'd add that aspects of TRP should be encouraged in a daughter as well. Confidence, strength, competency, and the ability to hold frame without getting emotional are all healthy attributes for any person. I disagree with "the silent treatment" suggestions. A strong willed man communicates exactly what her behavior needs to be and enforces it calmly and with love. Let your wife be the nurturer, you be the enforcer.	/r/askTRP	05/01/15 04:21 PM
1	TRP has helped me a lot, but at times it leaves me feeling like utter shit (long read) Yeah, sounds like one-itis. If you're not going to sleep with her (and you need sex), find someone else (or stop needing sex--my preference) I'd also get rid of the idea that there's something in your way of being with this woman if you actually want to. You should be coming from the mindset that you deserve what you want and you'd be offering her something better than she currently has. You're being selfish by holding back. That said--plenty of fish, move on. Enjoy the flirting and frame contro…	/r/askTRP	11/06/14 04:01 AM
2	I'm an unattractive woman. Is there any hope for me? You bet! Now remember that just feeling good about getting good answers WON'T GET YOU RESULTS. The hardest part is to actually take those first steps to reaching your goals, and to NOT be afraid of failure. I have female friends that only want to hear comforting things but are too afraid to lift a finger to actually change their lives (for fear of failure/rejection/whatever). You're going to be dead in less than 80 years. You KNOW what you can do to be living a BETTER, HAPPIER life starting NOW.…	/r/askTRP	09/06/14 02:43 AM
2	I'm an unattractive woman. Is there any hope for me? Yes, there's hope. RP gives off the perception that looks are most important, but the most important characteristics I need in a woman are an interesting personality and a competitive intellect. RP isn't ONE way of having relationships--it's a knife that cuts through the bullshit of social dynamics to get to the real nature of what makes us happy. By taking on more alpha characteristics, we become more confident, powerful, and capable human beings. As other posters have said, looks can ALWAYS be…	/r/askTRP	08/06/14 02:44 PM
2	I impregnated a girl The question is "why shouldn't the father have a say in whether he wants to become a parent or not". Our current culture dictates that this is a decision left purely up to the woman--the man has no choice--if she wants to keep it, he has to pay for it. Why is that more valid than giving the decision equal weight to both parties? You talk about "responsible for the consequences" with an air of total acceptance that having sex means you lose all rights and autonomy, even though neither party had a…	/r/askTRP	15/04/14 12:36 PM
7	I impregnated a girl She was against it in principle but being a sophomore in college it was clearly not ideal timing. Part of the convincing was saying up front "I support whatever decision you make" in lots of different ways to disarm any defense she might have had. After that, I made it plain that personally, I was definitely not ready, talking about money, future job prospects, and how irresponsible I am when taking care of myself "I don't know how I could take care of a child...". Then I turned it on her, sayin…	/r/askTRP	15/04/14 12:26 PM
12	I impregnated a girl Quickly become a master manipulator to convince her not to have the child. I've done this once and it worked. She hated me after, but 2 years later she's happier that she's finished school and found someone else to actually PLAN her motherhood with. You have to convince her not only that YOU are not ready, but that SHE isn't either. If she decides to have it anyway, I feel strongly that THAT'S ON HER and that you should have just as much choice as she has in deciding to become a parent. Being an…	/r/askTRP	15/04/14 05:48 AM
1	Abundance Mentality (Alpha) vs. Scarcity Mentality (Beta) I can agree with what you're saying here, for sure. "Abundance" isn't the best word to use when relating to Buddhism, but I thought it was a salient point that you can have an "abundance mentality" without being a caricature of a Red Piller.	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/14 07:31 PM
3	Abundance Mentality (Alpha) vs. Scarcity Mentality (Beta) While I can see the technicality of your point, I disagree in practice. "Abundance" in this case isn't referring to doing something to excess. Abundance mentality for a Buddhist is about appreciating the nature of impermanence and eliminating craving. "Abundance" is referring to the abundance of life experiences to be had, appreciate, then let go (because there will always be more). The scarcity mentality, on the other hand, is wholly based on fear of loss and change. They would absolutely diffe…	/r/TheRedPill	31/03/14 02:57 AM
19	Abundance Mentality (Alpha) vs. Scarcity Mentality (Beta) A couple of things I'd add: Buddhist monks absolutely have "abundance mentality" without many of the traits you're talking about. Sure, you're putting this in the context of RP and what behaviors we should clue in to, but the abundance mentality can be applied to all aspects of your mental life and is simply healthier than a scarcity mindset, which leaves you grasping for your possessions, experiences, and struggling with your identity. I'm perfectly RP without having "profound ambitions"--I car…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/14 09:24 PM
3	Texting as the first move. Don't be the guy that sweats over texts to make sure they're perfect. Be forward, be funny, be playful. Push/Pull, tease, and keep them short (you're a man whose time is valuable). As usual, it doesn't matter what medium you're communicating through--it matters what you say and how you say it. Texting is one of the worst for communicating what you want, so generally you should keep it short.	/r/askTRP	29/03/14 08:57 AM
1	Saving Virginity for Marriage Remember that women have less of an ability to control their feelings and think rationally. Her feelings tell her that she's crazy about you. Her feelings (and instincts) are to be attracted to a strong, dominant male figure. Her thoughts, though, are trained into her about what your relationship "should be". Her regret is based purely on her religious brainwashing. A healthy-minded girl would have some confidence in expressing her sexuality with you and enjoying herself. Her comment was an atte…	/r/askTRP	27/03/14 12:11 AM
0	Saving Virginity for Marriage Just remember where she's coming from. She has a religion-planted notion that sex has to go along with "true love" "the one" and "forever". These are arbitrary social norms that were useful in a society before birth control (as having pre-marital sex could end in a pregnancy without a father, making it harder to raise the kid). Part of your relationship should be training her out of those fantasy notions of what a relationship "should be" and what role sex plays in it.	/r/askTRP	26/03/14 11:41 PM
2	Women Apologizing? What would a confident alpha do if a woman and an effeminate man made fun of him? What would James Bond do? What would Hugh Hefner do? What would Don Draper do? None of those men need respect from their roommates, but they get it. Part of why they get it is they don't care.	/r/askTRP	26/03/14 12:53 PM
1	Highschool TRP Yeah, man. The whole "should I pay?" mindset is a big fucking lie told by a society who only sees what a man can provide financially. Why shouldn't SHE pay for HIS time? He's the higher value target in this case--he's older, more mature, more intelligent, and (should be) more confident. A person with high social value doesn't wonder whether he "should pay" or not. The only time I pay with a woman is when I would do the same with a male friend. If I have a buddy coming from out of town and I say …	/r/askTRP	26/03/14 11:46 AM
2	Never Put down a girl before Man up, be honest. Tell her you've met someone else and just want to be friends. Or spin that plate and figure out which one you like more. You're in the drivers seat--act like it.	/r/askTRP	26/03/14 02:40 AM
2	Highschool TRP Tell him to get rid of "expectations" and to (seriously) not worry about the outcome of this relationship or this prom. Being "smitten" is working from a scarcity mindset and focusing on "the one". He should just be a fun date and fucking drop the courtship behaviors. Tell him to be someone he'd like to hang out with--when they go to prom, he needs to show the girl a good time without expectations. The end result of this sort of "uninterested in sex", "just having fun" behavior is usually that s…	/r/askTRP	26/03/14 02:28 AM
1	Why isn't the root cause of TRP talked about more often? By "haven't caught up yet", I don't mean to claim that it's something that can or will change. I imagine there is some evolutionary mechanism (or more likely artificial tinkering of genetics) that COULD change our brains to look to move to a different sexual strategy than the one we evolved from. I just wanted to point out that modern society has changed our culture pretty drastically from what we evolved from for HUNDREDS of thousands of years.	/r/askTRP	16/03/14 05:29 PM
4	Why isn't the root cause of TRP talked about more often? I think the root cause is that our culture has drastically changed in the past 50/100/2000 years from how we originally evolved over 2,000,000 years and that our physiology (our brains) haven't caught up yet. For the vast majority of human history, the most successful males were "RP"--alpha, and overwhelmingly in control of their family/tribe. The modern mindset offers greater fairness and equality for all, but at the expense of what worked best for hundreds of thousands of years. I don't necess…	/r/askTRP	14/03/14 03:27 AM
1	Asking a Girl Out Like others have said, you're still worried about consequences. You are being outcome-dependent. Enlightenment comes when you realize you don't care what she says when you ask. Yes? Let the good times roll. No? No worries. You live in a world of abundance and you know there will always be more women. You can always tell when an RP follower talks the talk but then gets butthurt when the girl says no--she's a bitch, she doesn't know what she's missing, she's stupid-- this is something a confident …	/r/askTRP	07/03/14 04:54 PM
1	Girl I'm good friends with wants it.. I'm not keen on fucking friends if you have a good friendship or any respect for her as a person, especially if she wants more than just sex. By all means, if you want it, follow basic escalation (isolate, tease, touch, kiss, fuck). Isolation is easier than you think, just stop worrying about it and DON'T treat it like a date. Just tell her to hang out with you sometime--and work your way to an isolated venue to escalate. I just wouldn't lie to her/lead her on just for the sake of an orgasm. You…	/r/askTRP	19/02/14 10:22 AM
1	How can I NOT act like sociopathic bitch for once? It can absolutely be a detrimental philosophy if you approach it in a dog-eat-dog way. If our only goal is to get the better of our friends and significant others in a "value competition", then we're getting our goals mixed up--we won't be happy in the end. Recognizing that social dynamics are based on value is empowering because it lets us be more genuine and honest in our relationships. Instead of manipulating each other, we start to hold each other accountable for fulfilling whatever roles we…	/r/askTRP	30/01/14 11:00 PM
0	How can I NOT act like sociopathic bitch for once? If you boil it down, every relationship you have (with friends or significant others) is based on ONE thing--Value. We are fickle beings that are always trying to find the best value for our efforts. Ask yourself these questions: "What is this man offering?" "What kind of man will I never want to leave?" and finally "What value am I bringing to this relationship?" If this is the guy you want to keep--it's up to YOU to make yourself valuable and to foster valuable traits in the man you want.	/r/askTRP	30/01/14 05:07 PM
3	How to handle a bitchy game-ruining witch The first questions you should ask yourself in these cases is "What would an alpha do?" "How would an alpha respond?" -- I can't imagine James Bond or Don Draper letting this faze them, right? Hell--I'd play along with her--turn it into something funny. That's what I imagine a confident alpha male would do.	/r/askTRP	19/01/14 08:56 PM