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I’d vote for this actually.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 12:17 AM
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… in an arrange marriage!
/r/MensRights12/08/22 05:42 PM
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Arrange marriage.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 05:42 PM
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Well guys, don’t get into arrange marriage. If your only asset is your wallet and nothing more, you’re asking for trouble!
/r/MensRights12/08/22 05:41 PM
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Has anyone ever thought of … just learning how to drink? Like, you don’t have to get drunk to party.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:27 AM
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Ok my bad here. I didn’t use the concept of hypergamous properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:02 AM
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I’m not following you here. The last sentence is way to long. To many ideas all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:57 AM
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Hypergamous mate selection? Early in life women with autism learn that the sexual interest from the other gender can be a ticket to social acceptance. They play with the only card they’ve got and unfortunately it’s very unhealthy. I so wish I didn’t had to shape the view I have of myself based on how men look at me. This hypergamous is a curse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:50 PM
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And men? Do they love autistic women? I think they love to play with autistic women but often don’t find wife material in them. Being socially awkward hurts, and a lot, no matter the gender. You guy are louder, some time more violent about it according the horror stories we get from the media. The girls hide it, mimics standards better apparently and often… just say single. Until the last 15 years or so, a lot of them weren’t even diagnosed because they are so quiet. So you think neuro typical w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:55 PM
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Ladies, You get rid of the hair: you go unnoticed in the crowd You keep the hair: some people notice, but most of the time with judgment in the eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:25 PM
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Well, I’m canadien so I can’t say for US marriages, but I once read that the top four reasons why couples have fights are sex, cleaning tasks, money and children’s education. So my advice, as a married woman and a mom of 2, is to make sure you’re both on the same page on this four topics BEFORE you get married. Now sex is a thought one to predict since it tends to varies depending of… well just way too many circumstances (new born, stress, health, etc.) but I’d definitely advise to: 1- Find a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:22 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to answer my questions. Really appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:54 PM
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Is it legal? And where can it be found ( I know my question is pretty naïve)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:56 PM
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WoW sound like an almost perfect drug!!! Less feelings, more hornyness stronger orgasm, more muscles. Ok more body hair and cholesterol but this can be managed. Why do guys on steroids experiment drop in their libido though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:53 PM
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5 mg/day !!! So, do tell us a bit more about your experience on working with super horny mega in shape women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:15 AM
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How about not all women on earth are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:42 PM
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It all depends on who’s looking at you. For a woman with no education and who never worked, a man capable of keeping a job whatever the job is, might be seen as the most disciplined and hard working men. And if those quality are the one she finds appealing, then it’s a plus. But if the same girl considers a man with strong opinions, creative mind, is more appealing, the steady job at Walmart might not be a plus. An other girl with a Phd might find really sexy the intellectual guy working on his …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:25 PM
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I’ve been thinking a lot about your question. And I really mean a lot. For the first point : « Is it reasonable for men to live through a sexless marriage? » My answer would be : on a long time period (like 5y or so after all the babies were born) I would say no. But if after 5 years the sex life hasn’t come back, the problem might not be the babies. I think most men who’ve witnessed the process of caring a baby and giving birth will understand that after so much discomfort and pain, a woman jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:57 PM
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It did made me realized that miscarriage happen much more than we think and so does neonatal death. I was once invited to go to a group talk, the Perseids-A pretty accurate name I found- for parents who had lost their babies at the end of the pregnancy or during the first months after. It is still very taboo in our society. The pain I witnessed, I can’t even put words on it. But it also opened my eyes on the social network motherhood develops, or used to develop. Now it’s more parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:06 PM
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I did though about the tummy tuck but the idea of having a huge scar doesn’t seems to be better that loose skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:46 PM
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No. I had 3 miscarriages between the two babies. Went to all the checks and everything was normal. But it was tough on the spirit. It’s funny considering my grandma had 17 babies. The stress and the disappointment after every lost baby made the last experience difficult. I don’t ever want to feel like this again. Plus, husband decided to have a vasectomy. I wasn’t happy with that but it’s his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:44 PM
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I pretty much recovered well as for the muscular part, and I was super careful with my weight so I didn’t put on a lot of weight and the brest feeding was so energy consuming that I did melt quite easily. But I carried my bellies all in the front (even at 8 months, from the back you wouldn’t have guess I was pregnant lol). So the skin never came back as smooth as before. It is true both babies were pretty big. Your babies must have been tiny tiny little cuties 🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:29 PM
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Same age I had my first. Had my second at 31. You still have a perfect belly. I’m jealous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:17 PM
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Eummm ! If your doctor was referring to your babies with this term it’s because they must have had a problem. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neonatology I’m currently studying to work with premature babies and I can assure you the term is not used for healthy newborns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:14 PM
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Lol it’s hard to guess you had babies by looking at your pictures!!! How old were you when you had them? Like 16yo??? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:08 PM
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WoW that’s amazing!!! How many babies do you have? You’re blessed! All my friends who gave birth at home ended up in the hospital because of complications. But why do you call them neonat then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:06 PM
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Oh! Your baby had to be put in neonatal care. Ouff! How is he now? Were you able to pump? Did he or she was able to latch? (And it’s ok if it didn’t work btw, we all try our best) Sex is a good way to deal with stress. Good for you if it helped. I guess the positive aspect for you is that you didn’t get any ripping. A friend of mine had it ripped all the way to the anus. Episiotomies have big impact on the recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:32 PM
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So do women in the time in their life where they’re the most vulnerable. So do new born babies 100% dependent of the good care of their parents. Now you put all these people’s need on a scale according to your values. If your men sex needs are more important then , well fine, have it your way, it’s your life. But judging others for not ranking these needs in the same order is just being narrowed minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:15 AM
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WoW if this is not being brainwashed, I don’t know what it is!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:07 AM
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Tbh, if a man takes his responsibilities and take as much part in feeding and dipper change, he will be just as exhausted than the women and sex will naturally not be is main focus during the first year. Unless the birth when really bad and postpartum happens (and men can have it as well btw), the lack of sleep is really what kills the libido after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:06 AM
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I cannot agree more!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:00 AM
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Dead bedrooms happens for a number of reasons. But if kids were the only one, siblings wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:59 PM
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The first two years are difficult I ‘m not gonna lied. But never wanted sex for the rest of her life? I highly doubt it. I personally found that I needed sex in order to feel link with my partner even after the babies were born. Never after seems like there’s other issues that need to be adresse. Communication is sometimes difficult so seeking the help of a therapist would be my advice. At least, you don’t throw away the relationship and the kids before trying to make things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:55 PM
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I’m sorry what is the purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:47 PM
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I do thanks you for the update in the wording. This just re enforce what I was already thinking: women, just as much as men, wish to be seen, appreciated, desire, loved and are in need of sexual intimacy. Unfortunately, a lots of them are taken out of the equation because they do not fit the « hot and young girl » standards just as much as they’re equivalent in the opposite gender. If everyone would stop focusing on the « chad » and « stacy » type and would broaden their view,stop comparing them…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:14 AM
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Hummmm nop! I still don’t get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:17 AM
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Hahahaha! According to Wikipedia, the term was actually invented by a woman. It was then mainstream by pop media after a series of mass murders committed by males. I shouldn’t be laughing I know. But the irony…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:15 AM
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May I welcome you in advance in the Dead bedroom subreddits, in 10 years, you or your husband will find it really comforting to chat with folks sharing the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:02 AM
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I’m sorry, would you care to explain me one more time why « getting sexual attention from hot « young » women » is so important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:53 PM
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May I ask how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:42 PM
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Hum! So you wouldn’t have sex with any of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:34 PM
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Shoulders are not something I first notice in a men (unless they’re exceptional). It’s the smile and the passion they have for something… anything really as long as they have this sparkle in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:20 PM
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Does the quivalent of incel exist for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:16 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:14 PM
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Wait let me have a look at them one more time…. 6 out of 9 are pretty cute. Now maybe they’re awkward, who knows, I haven’t spoke to any of them, but I don’t find anything wrong with the way they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:03 PM
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I’m happy to read you. I haven’t read all the female comments here so I can’t really say anything about their nature but I do believe some in other posts are terribly insensitive. Reddit is not the word. Assuming women are all the same and that men are all the same is a mistake for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:56 PM
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No! I had sex because I was in the mood, had the opportunity and was curious. I’m sorry but when I was single, my primal instinct was leading. Did not have many partners, it’s true. But I just never one time though of the sisterhood when something was going on with an interesting guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:18 PM
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I’m a woman and in the same situation than you. My husband (for 13 years now) is more of the geek type but we had this crazy chemistry when we met, like I could trust him with my life. I had amazing friends, super in shape, martial arts teacher, like really hot looking guy, and … I just wouldn’t be attracted. They are nice, good looking, well educated, smart but… just not my type. In my 20, I did try and accepted to have sex with one in particular, and … well no, just wasn’t fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:03 PM
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I’m just speech less by your comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:50 PM
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No! Not all women! Just no! For a lot of us, it’s very touching and meaningful.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 09:34 PM
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Because this is ONE woman! Not all women!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 03:16 AM
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So men tend to get older in loneliness? Seems even more dangerous and heart breathing.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:12 AM
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Well I’m a woman and I know! Fighting skills is also one of the reason,I think, men usually overpower most women. We often don’t learn how to physically fight whereas a lot of you guys learn basic fighting skills before adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:25 AM
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I hate that men think they’re expected to do other things than what they are. If you’re not comfortable with a job, don’t do it. We women will love you for being true to yourself... except if you got us pregnant!
/r/MensRights19/04/21 10:01 PM
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Nop! Just nop!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:57 PM
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For how long? 6 months a year? Then comes the dead bedroom, and then divorce. With this kind of plan, I suggest you start saving money right from now for your future divorce.
/r/seduction23/03/21 03:55 PM
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You do realize that a relationship starting on the premise “I chose you because you were desperate” might not develop in an healthy, respectful and fulfilling one?
/r/seduction23/03/21 03:45 PM
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Wow! Do you have any other advice on how to ruin your life by waiting for Prince Charming? Maybe asking your dad to find you a good husband?
/r/seduction23/03/21 02:58 PM
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Way to go girl! It’s so cool you when and made the first step. I’m a girl and I’ve been rejected too. Yep it sucks and it’s embarrassing. Buuuut, think about it for a sec. there can be so many reasons for being rejected that actually don’t have anything to do with you, like bad timing, bad mood, the guy just doesn’t think it’s serious because hey, seldom girls do make the move so, he might think that it’s just impossible, he’s not used to it.... Fees years ago, I got interest in the PUA topic, f…
/r/seduction22/03/21 02:41 PM
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Victime if homicide from their spouse?
/r/MensRights18/03/21 11:26 AM
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Well technically, some die from the violence. And during the lockdown, more have. Now I just don’t understand why some folks use stats as a argument to dismiss violence against men within the household. ANY act of violence is wrong. So yes, do speak up, and not only for physical violence but for psychological one as well.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 10:37 AM
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WoW that awful!
/r/MensRights18/03/21 10:27 AM
1

But I haven’t sleep with anyone but my husband, except when he was there with me to enjoy the fun with our friends.
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 03:51 AM
1

May I ask what is cheating for you?
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 02:49 AM
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I failed to understand you argument Santarosa. I’m in mid life crisis because I, according to your values, have cheated on my husband with his permission? Do you mind developing your thoughts in a objective way please.
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 02:36 AM
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Thanks! In crisis, this is such great response.
/r/RedPillWives03/03/21 12:36 AM
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Don’t juge lady. Reality is not always what you see. Be open minded.
/r/RedPillWives03/03/21 12:04 AM
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Cheating would mean He his not aware. But I got his permission.
/r/RedPillWives03/03/21 12:02 AM
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But YOU. How did YOU manage your mid-life crisis. Haven’t you felt wildly inappropriate and felt the urge to lived your wildest dreams while you still can?
/r/RedPillWives02/03/21 11:38 PM
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I’m sorry, maybe I shouldn’t have used the term « horny », it’s a bit to colloquial. He’s not into bedroom intimacy than he was at the beginning of our relationship. Sorry ladies.
/r/RedPillWives02/03/21 11:23 PM
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He’s not as horny as he used to be. I’m 40, he’s 53, overweight. Testosterone is in normal range. I’m 20 lb overweight but have a great body hourglass shape. I have high libido that just doesn’t match his. I’ve always been told I’m pretty. We have two kids. One with particular needs. What other info could be relevant? I’m working with a psychologist to help reconnect and get our intimacy back. If I’m forgetting any crucial info tell me.
/r/RedPillWives02/03/21 11:16 PM
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So could we adresse this question?
/r/RedPillWives02/03/21 11:02 PM
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Ok.... but ( yea you say it coming) what about the divorced women, the widows, what about if He just doesn’t see you anymore because is got just used to you being around.
/r/RedPillWives02/03/21 10:42 PM
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WoW, talk about generalization!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:07 PM
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Oufff! The Wiki part was interesting but the posts... OMG so boring. It really felt like a remake of high school when girls would just chat about guys and how to get them. Boring, just really boring. I might be ok with the premise that biology drives the dating between men and women, but the women side of the red pill is just not my cup of tea. Edit : the wife redpill on the other hand is exactly what I was looking for. Feels so good to read I ‘m not the only one with this issue. Thanks
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 04:41 AM
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Unless they didn’t feel the need.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 04:05 AM
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I also read the WGTOW was created by a man. Haven verify this info though. But it might also explain the lack of interest.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 03:53 AM
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I think it’s not so much because they’re aren’t WGTOW, they’re just included in the feminist related sub.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 03:27 AM
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As much as I hate to admit it, I came to realize, after reading the 159 comment that, shit, you’re actually right. I am looking for men’s attention. The glaze of men in the subway, the glaze of men at the mall, they have always given me a sense of accomplishment, a feeling of success, a good boost in self esteem. And now that I think of it, it is pretty sad and lame that, without realizing it, I have became so dependent of men attention, of their validation. So why do I seek men attention and de…
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 02:35 AM
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Supreme Court agreed with you! Edit: as well as a good proportion of the public. This case made the news for weeks and a lot of Québécois thought the judgment was quite on spot.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 05:09 PM
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I thought if I hadn’t pointed out right from the beginning, I would have been accused of hiding this important fact.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 03:28 PM
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The question came after.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 02:53 PM
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Oh I read! I’m still here.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 02:49 PM
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Indeed it is. Thanks for the links
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 04:53 AM
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No, I’m not trying to workout why my husband doesn’t love me. We have our problems and we try to fix them the best we can. This hurts. But I was prepared to get punch when I posted here.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 04:16 AM
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I am married. We have 2 kids. We do have our difficulties. And we have our success.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 04:09 AM
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Yes.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 03:58 AM
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Yes. I agree with you As a mom of a daughter and a son, I’d like to pass on good knowledge to both and I can’t be the only one doing so. There has been a lot of changes related to gender roles during the last 30 years or so and the focus as been mainly on women. Unfortunately, we don’t see as much attention given on men side. I find it weird because, like it or not, we’re part of an ecosystem and if changes are being made, it will impact the rest of this ecosystem. I think the best way to make t…
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 12:49 AM
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I’ll make sure to stay in line!
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 12:37 AM
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I guess the moderators of this sub are more open minded. But I had my share of disagreements with some women as well. My interest started many years ago with long discussions with my dad. Then continued with discussions with male colleagues and female friends. I had different points of view and felt intrigued on why so. I had the chance to have very interesting conversations with people with unconventional way of thinking and I truly find it enriching. Helps me grow as a human being. Edit: and i…
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 11:38 PM
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No I was replying to: « The goal of a vagina is to secure some good dick and enough money and protection to raise a child. All women have a vagina. » But shouldn’t have replied. I’ll accept the consequences of replying to it like a big girl.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 11:25 PM
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Yep from Montreal Canada.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 08:38 PM
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Thanks! I don’t know if you posted the link as a sarcastic joke but I did, at some point, had to review my knowledge on penises. And did learned some interesting new things. Always up for educating myself on men related topics. 😉
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 08:30 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 08:19 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:55 PM
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And what is the goal of a penis?
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:46 PM
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Ok
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:42 PM
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Then I guess this pretty much close my post. All men and all women are the same, no matter the culture they grew up in and their life experiences. The biology determines how we thinks and there’s no possibility to change that.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:41 PM
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Ok.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:36 PM
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Yea, there seems to be different understanding of the definition of the MGTOW. I had a hard time to find a one and only one definition.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:35 PM
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I have more than one actually but the one that comes up the more often when I read some of the comments ( and does come up with when reading posts on feminism and other gender based culture) is : Why do you see women as being all the same, acting the same way and thinking the same way? With the WWW now allowing people to express themselves and their differences, the separation or généralisation based on gender doesn’t really work anymore, no ?
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:26 PM
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Because I would like to have the point of view of men who have decided to live their life without being romantically or physically interacting with women.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:13 PM
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