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LTR/MARRIAGELaurelWoods93/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 03:16 PM
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RELATIONSHIPSLaurelWoods93/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 08:21 PM
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That sounds really stressful! girlwithabike sounds like she knows what she's doing! Thanks for the first hand example:)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 06:34 PM
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I loved that quote, and it's true. I'd always thought of myself as aloof and definitely not a clinger. But if I'm constantly questioning him about how his day went(or anything he'd rather not bring up) out of curiosity, I could come off as needy. Great reminder!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 06:31 PM
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Yes and that's something he's told me before. In general, women are better multitaskers and men are better at doing one thing at a time. Both have their benefits and drawbacks. I guess that's the reason I can cry because I heard a sad song and five minutes later I'm laughing and have forgotten all about it. It makes sense that he wants to unwind after getting home and not think about work until he clocks in the next day. He can't move as easily or as quickly as I can.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 06:26 PM
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Your reply really stuck with me and opened my eyes. I've read up on submission/surrendering tips and all of that kind of thing but in practice if can get muddled up. The fact that I was asking about his day wasn't only seen as tiring but that I was trying to fix his problems. Maybe that could be seen as me saying to him that I'm not confident he can lead and deal with his own problems himself. Like he's not competent or something. Thank you for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 06:18 PM
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Very true! I've only started seeing the media spin on how men and women are exactly the same lately. It's ridiculous. You don't realise the effect that idea has on people until you catch yourself projecting onto your husband, lol!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 04:01 PM
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I totally get your point. I was wondering if maybe I was projecting my female thoughts and saying "what would I want him to do for me if I was going through this?" It's hard in today's world to cut through the egalitarian BS that's ingrained in everything. We don't have kids yet, and I still get up early and come home late to work for now. But I have been trying my hardest to keep him comfy. When he gets home is when we chill and decompress. I try not to seem stressed when he's around, because I…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 03:49 PM
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I apologize for the late response. Thank you, we're looking forward to it too:) As I stated before, in our situation, my husband won't mind if I work or not before kids. As long as I keep up on housework etc, he doesn't have a problem if I choose to work part time or not work at all. It's truly up to me in that regard. Yes, I agree, his upbringing influenced his decision in a big way. His mother worked until she had her kids, then stayed home to raise them. And she did a great job too. All are r…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 11:40 PM
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I'm a tradcon woman married to a tradcon man, and while I don't stay home yet, I will in the near future. My husband will soon be the boss of his father's business when he retires, and he will easily make 20 times more than I bring home with my job currently. He came to the decision that I could quit my job when that happens.Because of this, I'll have the option to stay home and prepare for when we have children. I've never been interested in a career, though I've worked a job for the last 8 yea…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:37 AM
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I was raised this way mostly. I would say most southern women (from the U.S) are RP or close to it. I grew up with conservative Christian values and the bible instructs us to live as our husband's helpmeet. To respect him and treat him as the head of our households. So RPW theory didn't come as a shock really to me, it kind of felt right. You don't have to even have a faith as a RPW, but it certainly helps if you ever get sidetracked and need essentially a guidebook for marriage. :)
/r/RedPillWives12/01/18 01:08 AM
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Caroline Ingalls from the Little House books and tv show. (All based on a true story) A gentle and gracious wife/mother. Hardworking, self-sacrificing and devoted to the happiness and care of her family. When I read all that she went through as a pioneers' wife when the West was barely settled, how strong yet feminine she was, I wanted to be like her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 02:39 PM
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Yes, I totally know how crazy we sound! I know when I look good and I know when I look a hot mess . I don't want someone telling me "Don't worry girl, you're gorgeous" when I have lettuce in my teeth, lol! It's a good thing my hubs is honest with my cooking, if he doesn't like something, he knows to tell me exactly what's wrong with it, which I love. It's my obsession to get feedback and make improvements, and you can't do that without honesty
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 04:29 AM
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INTP here. I'm a quiet and withdrawn person and absent-mindedness is a big flaw I have. But I've gotten better about self awareness and coming down from the clouds from time to time. I'm also a lover of truth and honesty in all things. So the old 'does this dress make me look fat' shit test isn't in my vocabulary, lol! :D
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 02:39 PM
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I married the man of my dreams last year, but we dated and were engaged for about a year and a half. He was my first in nearly everything, except kissing, lol:D I knew I wanted to wait until I met the right man, and I held off until I met him and until he proposed. It was HARD to wait for that moment, let me tell you! But I knew from my faith and from seeing a few friends around me that I should wait until I knew he was in it for the long haul. That being said, we don't talk about his past sexua…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 12:17 PM
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I love Kristen and Dax, I think they fit together so well.:) I'm a very carefree, happy person with a laid back personality, my husband is type A and definitely the head of the household, lol. We don't fight much because we get on so well, but every so often when we disagree, we usually can talk it out rationally without yelling. I hate yelling and loud households because I grew up in one. If we can't agree to disagree or are grumpy (usually him when he's hungry/tired, lol) there's confrontation…
/r/RedPillWives05/01/18 12:05 AM
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I had no idea. My husband always has a way to completely surprise me on dates. He's a perfect planner and had taken me out to different places as a surprise and always is such a romantic, flowers and candles, the whole nine yards. Lol! I always knew he was the man I was going to marry, I guess I knew after our first date. The first time he made me laugh, that's what did it. Anyway, he'd been trying to arrange a day to go out to our favorite picnic spot, my family's 40 acre farm. We had carved ou…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 08:57 PM
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That's always the best complement! I'm always trying my best to cook suppers and desserts that my husband will love and Lord knows that takes a lot of work for any woman:) Good on you Miss!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 07:39 PM
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I've been finishing up a few hats for Christmas gifts. My husband's is the one I'm most proud of with dark blue and dark grey stripes. My sister and mother will both get slouchy hats, one light pink, and the other is lavender. Both have poofs on top:) I've also taken up my embroidery hoop again and have been working on table napkins, with embroidered feathers in one corner. Teal, grey and yellow on a white backdrop.
/r/RedPillWives14/12/17 03:35 PM
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I loved reading your field report. You are very detailed and it sounds like you're happy with your results, great job!:) I've been reading the Surrendered Wife(without telling my husband of course) and I've got to say, all of Mrs. Doyle's suggestions are genius. I'm married and we celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary last month. We have a traditional relationship and I'm naturally submissive and non-confrontational while he takes the lead. Our relationship is going smoothly and we're both h…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 06:44 PM
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I used to have a similar problem. My husband has a white collar career, he wears very nice button ups and kakhis with a tie every day. He has to look good for his clients and so I separate by color and fabric to do laundry, which is one of my jobs around the house. The thing is, he sometimes gets stains on his shirts/pants and whatnot. I wouldn't notice because I don't study every piece of laundry before I wash clothes. He would pull out laundered clothes and notice one or two shirts with a stai…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 10:18 PM
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It did to me. But only because I was worried about STDs. My husband told me of his n-count only because he didn't want to hide anything from me since he was determined to be my first and only sexual partner. He even went and got tested for me (though I didn't ask or even hint for him to do that) soon after we got serious. I think the old saying is correct, though crude...A good key opens many locks, a bad lock opens with many keys. It's important for men to play the field. To find out what they …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 11:50 AM
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My husband brought home flowers for me the other day. He knows I need a little romantic pick me up some weeks and he either picks them himself or gets them from the store. I swear, he is amazing! It's always the little things he does that mean the most to me:)
/r/RedPillWives30/08/17 09:58 PM
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Thank you! I was raised on my family's farm and we worked, all of us, hard. So you can imagine when I hear some in the RP community talk about wearing dresses ( though I do enjoy wearing them when I can) and never getting dirty.To become a fainting ,fragile, grown up child when it isn't even close to your true nature all in the name of feminimity? This sort of doll like complacency irks me. I mean, of course I'm feminine in most ways, but not because of my husband( though he loves that I am) or …
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 03:00 PM
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This is the best answer I've read in a long time. I agree, sometimes women forget that men are their own person and can't always fill all the emotional gaps women crave. And I loved your analogy. OP, listen up^
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 01:10 PM
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Not really an "idea" but more of a suggestion I've seen on this page before. That I should have a clique of close female friends to be more feminine. I don't have really any close female friends, other than my sister and female family members (which I have a lot of) I think this is mainly caused by the cancer that is feminism(thank you Milo) I work with a lot of men, but there are plenty of 'affirmative action' female employees in our upstairs departments. Almost all of these women (from what I'…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 12:52 PM
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I've worked with all men for the last 4 years and I've made many many mistakes(especially my first year). I've also had dick bosses and managers who micromanage everything I do. You know what I did to stop them from berating me? I did better, worked harder, owned my mistakes and stopped making excuses. If I make a mistake now, I bring it to my boss, say what I did wrong and most importantly I try to not do it again. You shouldn't have your manager teach you what you did wrong, you knew you screw…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 02:35 PM
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i'm like you with how i'm able to remember the stories he tells me and what his preferences are, lol. I usually go with "Sure, babe", "Thanks for reminding me, sweetie", or "Mm-hmm, I gotchu" when we play around, which is pretty much every day.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 01:59 PM
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I remember a few months ago, trying to load a few bags of mulch into my trunk. Though they weren't too heavy for me, I was having a rough go because they're awkward to hold. A nice man walked up and loaded them up almost immediately without a word and even put my big cart away. I thanked him and smiled and he as well, then he walked away .With the way feminists have belittled men as a group for so long, I can only imagine how much strength it takes to still be civil to women. But it makes me hap…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 07:32 PM
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The way my marriage is now, except I stay home with two future children. Although I would call my marriage perfectly imperfect. We truly try our best for each other every day.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 01:05 PM
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I'm sorry, but you'll just have to get over this. If you want your RP relationship to last, stop trying to fix him. He doesn't need fixing. As someone on this post already mentioned, his standard of cleanliness and yours are different and probably always will be, it isn't his fault YOU like to take two showers a day. You can always wash the bedsheets more often, if it means that much to you. Think about it, he is tired from working all day and is stressed from work and life in general. He comes …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 12:47 PM
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I love this! And very true. He can't navigate this all by himself, and needs me to help by giving my input. And yes, those stories are usually from men with lazy and ungrateful wives. I should write a plan and stick to it, which I can do no problem. Plus I think our home and night life would be a lot less stressful, since I could stay home and take care of our needs there. I actually think we could grow even closer.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 06:06 PM
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I've really kept it to myself, being a private person and not wanting to seem too eager. I've read horror stories of husband's who felt pressured and ended up resenting their wives for allowing them to stay home(I doubt he would if he was the one to make the decision). I guess I'm just scared of telling him and am waiting for the right time and the right way to tell him how much I want this to happen. And I know, men can't read our minds, so I'm not upset or withdrawn from him. You're right, I g…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 05:44 PM
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Thank you, and I think you're right. And the way I see it, I would rather work my heart out at home, instead of at an office. I'd rather follow my husband's lead, and not someone else's husband, if that makes sense. Plus, having a career has never interested me, but it taught me how to handle money on my own (and discipline) and how to get things done. (I think most women should have a job for a little while for this reason) These years should be for preparing for having a family. Getting my sch…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 01:37 PM
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I think it is perfectly fine to be smart/funny, as long as you don't take yourself too seriously. As long as you have humility and a humble nature, you shouldn't come across as stuck up. I would assume that a lot of men desire a smart and funny partner, not one who is childlike and willfully ignorant. My husband and I love to banter back and forth and I knew I wanted to marry him during our first month of dating because he could make me laugh like no other! He loves my wit, but I also know where…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 01:28 PM
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Exactly this. ^ Try to approach conversation more carefully now and have tact. You really don't have to explain yourself to anyone And knowing the horror stories of SIL's and the infighting that goes on, I've seen SO's grow apart during conflicts. Stay the course, continue respecting your man, but I wouldn't bring this up again.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 12:50 PM
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